Video summary
The video focuses on empowering new insurance agents to confidently handle objections by introducing a simple three-step framework known as the "Three A's": Agree, Answer, and Ask. The speaker emphasizes that agents must avoid being combative when prospects express disinterest; instead, they should agree with the prospect's feelings to build rapport before addressing their concerns. By acknowledging the objection without necessarily agreeing with every detail, the agent validates the customer's perspective while maintaining a positive tone. This approach is followed by answering the specific concern and immediately finishing with a question that keeps the conversation flowing and places the agent back in control of the interaction.
A significant portion of the training addresses the common objection where a prospect says they need time to think about it, which the speaker identifies as polite code for ending the conversation permanently. Drawing on Brian Tracy's teachings, the presenter warns against allowing prospects to delay decisions, noting that most people who say they will call back never do. To counter this, the video introduces a "no call back policy" close, where the agent firmly but politely states that all necessary information has been provided and the decision must be made today. The speaker offers both a non-aggressive version of this technique, which relies on logic and urgency, and an aggressive version that highlights the moral responsibility of agents to help families secure protection before it is too late, effectively shutting down further delays.
The final segment of the transcript shifts to practical phone etiquette tips designed to maximize call effectiveness and maintain control from the very first second. The speaker advises agents to assume the right person answered the phone rather than verifying identities, as this prevents prospects from lying or hanging up immediately. Additionally, agents are instructed to use only their first name to avoid giving prospects an opportunity to interrupt with company names or other distractions, and to skip generic pleasantries like "How are you?" in favor of asking specific questions that yield actionable answers. Crucially, the video stresses the importance of never pausing during a call, as silence allows prospects to insert objections; instead, agents should continuously finish their statements with questions to ensure they remain the ones driving the dialogue and securing appointments.
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So, I'm going to jump into a couple
things really quick. I got three
different things again from our live
trainings we did. The first thing I want
to talk about really quick is
objections. New insurance agents
struggle with objections,
but you don't have to. So, I'm going to
give you three simple steps really
quick. I call it the three A's.
I love putting everything into easy
steps that anyone can duplicate,
replicate, implement into your business.
These are the three A's to overcome
every objection you ever get. Who's
ready for that?
>> Would that be cool if you actually
walked out of here with specific steps
to overcome objections?
>> Yes, sir.
>> Okay. The first A [snorts] is agree.
You cannot be disagreeable. Most
insurance agents are trained that when
someone says, "I'm not interested." to
say, "Well, what do you mean you're not
interested? You don't have enough
information yet." That's kind of
combative, isn't it? That's kind of
disagreeable. That kind of doesn't work
either. Okay. So, step one, agree. It
doesn't mean you totally
agree 100% with what they're saying, but
it means you understand where they're
coming from and it means you're ready to
get closer to the sale. Am I right?
Who's ready to get closer to the sale?
Okay. So, step one, agree. They say,
"Hey, I'm not interested." Perfect.
Thanks for sharing that. Right. Second,
a answer their objection.
agree,
answer,
and ask. I believe in always finish with
a question that keeps you in what?
Starts with a C?
>> Control, man. Keeps you in control.
Keeps the conversation flowing. Keeps
you in control.
And it has them responding to you. The
psychology of finishing with a question
is powerful because when someone asks
you a question, what do you typically
do?
>> Answer it.
>> You answer it. It's human nature. Am I
right?
So, you're on the phone because this is
all about phone and objections this
morning.
I'm not interested. Absolutely. Thank
you for sharing that. It's my job to
just drop off the information. It's
totally up to you with what you do with
it. So, should I drop this thing off?
What do you think? In the morning or in
the afternoon? Which is better?
Does that help? Who does that help
>> already? Right. We're all about
delivering value and I want to do it
right off the bat on day two. Agree,
answer, and ask.
Someone shout out an objection.
>> Insurance.
>> Already got insurance. Excellent. It's
not my job to come and change
everything. It's just my job to deliver
the important information that you're
wanting. So, I'm going to be there on
Thursday. Is morning or afternoon better
for you? Okay. Who's next?
>> Is this free?
>> Is this free? Thank you so much for
asking that. Great question.
Social Security provides $255 to help
with final expenses. The information's
free. For me to come out, it's free. And
it's my job to get you supporting
information because I'm the local field
underwriter. I'll be there Friday.
Should we hang out in the morning or
afternoon? When should I drop this off?
Who's next?
>> I need to think about it. And you know
what? Let's use this at the end of the
appointment. How about that? Right.
Who's ever gotten I want to think about
it. I want you to call me back. I wasn't
planning on using this one, but this
one's good. You ready? I've got two
variations. I learned this from Brian
Tracy. The art of closing the sale.
About a decade ago, I was listening to
his audio book again, The Art of Closing
the Sell by Brian Tracy. I was listening
to his audio book as a new agent every
single day because I had zero sales
experience. No clue what I was doing. I
was good at being personable, warming
people up. I learned that was important.
But I've got a no call back close that I
learned from him that I use every time
someone wants to think about it. Every
time someone wants me to call him back.
And you can use it too. Eric's used it.
Am I right? That's right.
>> So when someone because in Brian Tracy's
audio book, he says that he would go
around to all these homes as a new
salesperson. And he had all these people
saying, "Ernesto, I want to think about
it, man. I want you to call me back. I'm
not sure. I'm not ready." And before you
knew it, he had like 40, 50 people
thinking about it. He thought that
everybody was going to call him back.
Everybody was going to buy it. He was
going to have all this business. He
wouldn't know what to do with it.
>> Anybody ever felt that way?
It doesn't work that way in case you
were wondering. Okay. He quickly learned
that when he
got I want to think about it 72 times
and that no one called him back that I
want to think about it and I want you to
call me back is polite customer speak
for goodbye forever. We we will never
meet again.
Who feels that way?
>> Then stop listening to it.
I also believe and I'm gonna give you
the actual close in a second. I also
believe
that how you make decisions is how your
prospect will make decisions to you if
you make decisions quickly. If you don't
believe in calling people back, if you
don't believe in thinking about it and
you believe in I'm either doing it or
I'm not and I'm being honest with the
person and I'm talking about it right
now.
I don't think about stuff. If I want a
car, my wife rolled up a she surprised
me with a Jaguar convertible
few months ago, a couple weeks ago,
whatever. And the guy rolls up and I
test drive it. I'm like, "Okay, you guys
want I don't know 36,000. I'll give you
32,000 if you can, you know, get it done
today. He's like, we probably can't do
that. Well, that's fine. I don't need
the car then, right? I make decisions
instantly. There's no reason to waste
people's time. But because I buy that
way, I expect others to buy that way and
they can sense it and they can feel it.
So, if you're someone that deep down
thinks about stuff and wants people to
call you back and you want people to
think about it, right, and you want to
think about it, then that's probably the
main reason you're getting that
objection because I don't get it as much
anymore.
Think about that. It's a hard truth, but
it's true. Okay. So, Brian Tracy, he had
all these people saying, "I want to
think about it." And he finally got fed
up with it.
>> Who's fed up with I want to think about
it. I want you coming back. Dude, I'm
with you.
So he finally said,
>> you ready?
>> Yes.
>> He finally said, this is good now. He
finally said,
this is the no call back close. And I've
got an aggressive version and a
non-aggressive version that a lot of you
have heard before.
He's [snorts] he he he he he simply says
with this no call back close.
I understand that you want to think
about it. Unfortunately, I have a no
call back policy.
You have everything you need to make an
informed decision today. Why don't you
just take it?
He tried that on his first appointment
after getting about 40 people telling
him he was going to think about it. and
they said, "Well,
if I can't think about it, then I guess
I got to do it." So, I'm sitting with a
agent in Nianga, Missouri several years
ago, and we're sitting with Miss Mary
was her name. Really was. And she said,
" $300 a month sale. We're about to
close a $300 a month sale." When I get
in front of big sales, I'm definitely
not letting those go. Most agents re
when someone it's a big sale, most
agents retract because I don't want to
screw this up. This is big. I don't want
to get in the way. I don't want to take
them off. Right? When I get a chance to
close a big sale, I get more aggressive.
I move in harder. I don't retract.
I was with an agent
and this lady, Mary, we were talking
through the options, the benefits, the
options.
This is a big decision. I I I want to
think about it.
And I said exactly what Brian Tracy
said. Absolutely. I totally understand.
Unfortunately, I have a no call back
policy. You have all the information you
need to make an informed decision today.
We get along great. It's saving you
money. It's giving you more coverage and
it's putting some cash back in your
pocket. Obviously, you should do this.
Why don't you go ahead and take it?
And guess what she said? You want to
know? She said, "If
I can't think about it, then I have
guess I have to do it."
And she did.
That's the non-aggressive version.
[applause]
>> Who wants the aggressive version?
>> Are you guys aggressive or not?
I know Ryan in the 10X hat's aggressive.
All right, you ready? Okay.
>> Here's the aggressive version
because at the end of the day, we're
helping people, right? Like I talk about
it all the time and I tell agents, who
helped a prospect more, the person that
sold them 5,000 or the person that sold
them 15,000?
But w to sell with our own wallet.
We want to we think we're helping them
by not proposing something that they
should be doing that they need and their
family needs. When they pass away, which
agent was more helpful to that family?
Now, I'm not saying you oversell them
stuff. I'm not saying you sell people
stuff they can't afford. But I'm saying
you do the right thing
because I believe and I'm so sold on
what we do that we are one of the
biggest helper professions in the world.
As Frank Melli said last year, I truly
truly believe that. So, here's the
aggressive version. You ready?
I want to think about it. All at once,
on the count of three, say, I want to
think about it. One, two, three. I want
to think about it.
I completely understand.
I have a unfortunately I have a personal
no call back policy. And the reason that
is is I've had people tell me they want
to think about it. Six months go by,
they don't actually think about it.
They pass away and guess who their blame
family blames for not helping them do
what they should have done from the very
beginning.
I'm not going to let that happen. We get
along great. You need it. You want it.
You can afford it. Let's see if we can
get you approved. What's your full legal
name?
>> Right. Who's ready for that one?
[applause]
Show of hands. Who's going to try that?
>> You guys are aggressive. I love it. All
right, so there's objections. I got a
couple more minutes and I want to move I
want to move into
a couple of things really quick. I want
to move into some phone tips. Who wants
some phone tips really quick? If you
like that, you'll love this. Two hands.
I love it. She's really ready. Okay,
phone tips.
I got five of them really quick. The
first one,
always assume the right person answered
the phone. We are trained to do this.
Hello, I'm looking for Betty. Hello, is
this Betty? Are you Betty? I'm trying to
reach Betty.
They fill out the information. You know
it's them.
Which is which is better? Hello. I'm
looking for Betty.
>> Hey, Betty.
Have you ever had a telemarketer call
you? We're gonna see who's honest. Have
you ever had a telemarketer call you and
they've said, "Uh, I'm looking for
Cody." No, you have the wrong number.
Show hands. Who's done that? Yeah, me
too. [snorts] Okay, at least we're
honest about it. Okay,
so why do we do the same thing? which
one's more likely to get the proper
response and get lied to less often.
People don't want sales people calling
them. That's normal. It's human nature.
I don't care if they fil information or
not. They're still a lead. But a lot of
leads
don't get sold because agents do not
know how to work them.
I truly believe I can receive any batch
of leads.
I don't care where it's from, who
created it, and I can get a return on
that batch of leads. I'm that confident
in my ability. You need to be that
confident in your ability. So, hello,
Betty. Okay, second tip.
[snorts]
I only use my first name. I don't use
last name. Nobody cares. They're going
to forget. I don't use company name
because when I use company name and I
say, "Well, hey, I'm with, you know, the
8% Dallas agency office." Well, who is
that? I don't. It gives them a chance to
interject. It gives them a chance to
interrupt. It gives them a chance to
take control of the conversation and ask
a question. Is that good?
>> No, it ain't good at all. It's my phone
call. We're in control. We called them.
They didn't call me. So, I don't use it.
Betty, this is Cody. Everybody can do
that, right? Third thing, I don't ask,
"How are you?
We don't even care yet.
Oh, we don't. We really don't. I said
that on a YouTube video one time and and
a dude commented, "I care about
everyone." You've been on the phone with
him like eight seconds max. Right.
[snorts] And I'm doing horrible today.
Why are you calling me?
That doesn't help the start of the call,
does it? I don't ask, "How are you?"
I ask questions I know I'm going to get
the answer to. I ask questions that are
g going to give me the right answer.
Okay?
And that one I don't have control over.
I also don't pause. Here's the number
one
issue that agents struggle with. I'm
going to give you the example of the
wrong call. Not in this room because you
guys are forward thinkers, but if I was
in another conference,
most insurance agents, if I passed out
leads to 10 people, eight or nine would
say this. And after I say it, you're
going to throw up in your mouth. Okay.
Hello. I'm looking for Betty.
Hey Betty, this is Cody Haskins with the
8% insurance office. How are you doing
today?
Yeah, Betty, you you went online and
fill out a form saying you wanted to
quote to buy life insurance
and then we pause.
The pause is the killer of the call
>> because guess what? It is the It is
because guess what happens when you
pause. What happens? Help me out.
>> Lose control. They give you an
objection. They say something they don't
even mean. Dude, I'm not interested.
What they're really said is you have no
game on the phone.
You got to step up your game to get in
front of me. Right?
So why do we pause? It's because we
maybe we don't know any better. Maybe
maybe somebody hasn't showed us. Maybe
somebody hasn't trained us.
Don't pause.
Instead,
I always finish with a question. That's
the fifth tip. I always finish with a
question 100% of the time. Okay, I'll
use Medicare for example. This is Cody.
I also love this phrase. I'm getting
back to you. Sounds better than you did.
This sounds like I'm yelling at
somebody.
I'm getting back to you about your
request for the new Medicare
information. Now, I'm the local field
underwriter.
Should I drop this information off in
the morning or in the afternoon?
Or I'm the local field underwriter. I'll
be out in your area, Nate, on Friday. Is
morning or afternoon better? Who's in
control of the call?
>> Who has a better chance of getting the
response that you should get?
So why don't we do it that way?
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