Video summary
The video introduces a controversial yet effective methodology called Automatic Language Growth (ALG), which posits that one cannot simply study or learn the "language" of women through traditional academic means but must instead acquire it passively. The speaker, identifying as an expert in linguistics and relationships with over sixteen years of experience, argues that formal studying creates a barrier between men and women because it focuses on analyzing what is said rather than understanding how they think. Instead of listening to conversations or reading books, the core philosophy requires allowing information about female behavior and communication patterns to flood into your subconscious without conscious effort or analysis. This approach relies entirely on comprehensible input, where you observe actions and associated words in simple contexts before gradually increasing complexity until you can predict a woman's thoughts and reactions instinctively before she even speaks them.
To achieve this deep level of understanding, the guide suggests dedicating approximately one thousand hours to passive observation without direct interaction or judgment. The speaker humorously notes that while sitting quietly in parks or supermarkets watching women perform daily tasks is an option, it requires significant time commitment; therefore, he offers a service called dreamingwomen.com where users can watch thousands of hours of recorded footage for a monthly fee. During this phase, the goal is not to practice speaking but to absorb the nuances of female communication until they become second nature. Once these one thousand observation hours are complete, an individual will possess an intuitive grasp of how women operate and communicate, effectively outperforming anyone who has tried to learn through courses or by asking questions directly.
The final stage involves transitioning from passive absorption to active engagement using a specialized service called cross talk, which allows users to speak while receiving responses in the acquired "women's language." Although there may be an initial lag where the observer struggles to formulate their own thoughts perfectly, they will instinctively understand every reply given by the woman. By engaging in roughly one hundred hours of this specific type of conversation, a user accelerates past traditional learners and develops a native-like understanding that allows them to think like women rather than just translating between two different mental frameworks. The ultimate conclusion is that acquiring this language enables men to connect directly with a woman's heart and mind on every level, resolving the common complaint that men do not understand what they are saying by fundamentally changing how one processes their thoughts and emotions.
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What's up, grinders? Welcome back to the
channel. It's Evil Deer Hyperpolyglot,
speaker of every language in the ISO 639
standard, here to answer your questions
once again. See, in a recent video, I
got a comment from one of you guys
saying, "Evil Deer Hyperpolyglot,
speaker of every language in ISO
standard 639, I'm a little bit curious.
How can I learn the language of women?"
And my friend, this is where you went
wrong. You do not learn the language of
women. You acquire the language of
women. Now, if you're a little bit
confused about that distinction between
learn and acquire, trust me. I will show
you the difference, and I will help you
walk that path so that you can finally,
fully connect with them on every single
level and understand exactly what they
want. As a speaker of every language in
the ISO 639 standard and a man who has
been with a woman for more than 16
years, I can attest to this methodology.
Now, I'm going to explain this. It's
going to be a little bit technical. You
may need to take notes, and there's
going to be a few acronyms thrown out
here and there, okay? Don't get lost in
it. Understand. In fact, you shouldn't
even really study this. You should just
let this come to you and just fully
flood over you. So, what we're going to
be talking about today is a very
specific methodology, one that is kind
of controversial, not many people have
heard about, but it is the secret to
pretty much everyone's success out
there. It's called ALG, Automatic
Language Growth. The amazing thing about
ALG is it's not specific to just
languages, although the language of
women is a language in its own right, it
can be used for pretty much anything.
But today, boys and girls, well, whoever
you are, you're going to be learning
their language. Even if you are a woman
and you want to acquire women's
language, this can help you, okay? So,
what's so special about this method, and
how can it help you? Well, essentially,
what you're going to do is not study the
conversation, the thinking, the habits
of women. You're not going to listen to
what they say, because by listening to
them, you are essentially studying what
they're saying. No, you're going to
allow everything to do with women to
wash over to you and then to enter your
subconscious and via your subconscious,
you will slowly acquire a complete utter
understanding of them. There will be no
books involved, there will be no study,
there will be nothing that you would
formally think about when you want to
communicate with women. This is going to
be a pure exercise of allowing it to
flood over you. First, you need to be
able to understand them but without
actually studying them. So, how would
you do that? You need to start with the
most basic of concepts. You need to
watch, let's say, some women in action.
Watch what they do and watch the words
that they use. And when I say watch the
words and their actions, I don't mean
take notes and study. I mean really,
100% just concentrate on it, but allow
it to flood over you. Don't think about
it, allow it to flood over you. Now,
you're going to watch them in the most
basic of contexts. Maybe you'll see one
open a fridge and grab something out of
the fridge. And you'll listen to the
words that she says. And those words
will connect with the actions that she's
performing in that moment. And as she
performs these actions and she says
different words, you will realize that
there are certain ways that the woman
communicates about certain things within
her life. This is the most simple of
contexts, but you don't want to stay at
this level forever. What you're going to
do is slowly implement something that's
called comprehensible input. Once you
understand the words that are associated
with the most basic of actions that she
performs, you allow it to grow a little
bit more advanced. You add a little bit
more complexity to the situation.
Eventually, with time, and I mean a lot
of time and we'll get to the time
component in a moment, you will be able
to understand when her words are
completely in reverse to her actions. It
will get to the point where she goes to
open her mouth and you already fully
understand everything that's to come
because you are able to predict without
even thinking about it. Now, how can you
observe enough of this simple woman
interaction that slowly evolves over
time into more complexity? The
traditional path is, if you want to go
out and do this yourself without
spending money, is you could just go to
a park and stare at women for hours on
end, okay? Obviously, don't make it too
obvious or you you know, certain things
might happen, but just sit there and
just watch them quietly from the
shadows.
You will slowly learn. You continue
doing that and then maybe you can go to
a supermarket, you know? Maybe after
some time you could go to some type of
meeting. You could go to the local
sports club, the gym, wherever you want
to go, just sit there quietly watching
them. Not talking, definitely don't
interact. Now, you might think, "But
Evil Deer, how am I to improve my
communication if I'm not interacting?"
Ah, no. You are in the passive phase of
absorbing a complete understanding,
acquiring an understanding of how they
operate. Now, how long will you do this
for you might be thinking? Well, roughly
it depends on the nature of the woman
that you're trying to learn to
communicate with, but we we we
guestimate around 1,000 hours of just
sitting there and observing women. Now,
you might be thinking, "I don't know,
Evil Deer, sitting there in a park just
staring at women for hours on end might
not be the best strategy to learn to
communicate with them." Remember, we're
not here to learn, we're here to
acquire. So, get the learn out of your
head and think acquire. You might also
be thinking, "I don't know where I can
go and sit for 1,000 hours and just
observe." Well, don't worry, at the end
of this video I'll post a link to a
service that I run, it's called
dreamingwomen.com.
Uh there you'll be able to watch
thousands of hours of women just
performing general actions and you'll be
able to obtain an understanding of what
they're doing. Now, once you get to the
1,000 hours, by this point you will
instinctively understand every action
that they perform, complete without
thought, okay? But now comes
communication. Now, you might be
thinking, "Well, I've observed them for
1,000 hours, I should be able to just
walk straight up to them and communicate
fully in a language that they
understand. No, this won't happen, but
do understand that given time, you will
outperform anyone out there, any man or
even another woman who tries to speak
and learn, you know, via traditional
methods, you know, going to courses,
asking women what they think, you know,
that stuff. You will acquire way beyond
them, but there is a little bit of a a
lag here, okay? So, for that point where
you first start speaking, you may be
like a little bit
but the when they reply to you, you
instinctively understand them. And given
enough practice with them, slowly you
will start to improve. Now, you might be
thinking, "Okay, but I don't want to
fumble my way through all these
conversations." Well, that's okay. I
have another service, okay, where you
can speak with women for hours on end in
what we call cross talk. You're going to
speak man speak and they're going to
respond to you in women speak. Now, this
is more comfortable for you as a man,
okay, because you can be more relaxed.
You just think as a man thinks, okay?
And you'll be hearing at least how they
think and how they respond back to you.
Now, you can just do this, you know,
I'm guessing probably 100 hours of this
and by that point you will already
accelerate past anyone else who has at
any point in their life tried to learn
how to communicate with women, okay? And
you will not only accelerate past them,
you will acquire a native-like
understanding of the woman's thinking.
This is next level, okay? You will
think like them. You will understand
them on every single level possible.
Now, you might be thinking, "Well,
that's a Do I really want to go that
far?" Yes, you do because the one thing
women always complain about is that us
men do not understand them. But if you
acquire their language, you'll be able
to speak to directly their heart and
their mind. Now, just remember,
go to the link down the description
below for $12.99
a month, I will teach you how to acquire
the language of women,
dreaminglanguage.com. Remember it. Don't
forget it.