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The rise and eventual fracture of Alex Cooper's *Call Her Daddy* empire began with an unfiltered platform for discussing sex and dating that gained massive traction after being picked up by Barstool Sports, though it was marred by deep-seated tensions over intellectual property ownership between hosts Sophia Franklin and partner Dave Portnoy. Initially created as a roommate project where both women were treated as equal partners earning significant salaries, the dynamic shifted dramatically when earnings grew into millions while Alex and Sophia signed away their rights to Portnoy's company; this led to a bitter conflict where Alex sought a renegotiated contract granting her 75% ownership and sole creative control based on her disproportionate workload in editing and marketing. While Alex argued that accepting an offer from Portnoy alone was financially prudent, she felt betrayed by Sophia for allegedly stalling negotiations or refusing terms that would grant her more power, accusations that ultimately culminated in a public split where Alex launched the show independently to end their friendship and business partnership.
Following Sophia Franklin's departure, Cooper successfully rebranded *Call Her Daddy* by shifting its focus from shock-jock sex talk to authentic discussions on mental health and therapy, highlighted by high-profile guests like Miley Cyrus which allowed her to retain full ownership of the IP before securing a lucrative $60 million deal with Spotify in 2021. She further expanded her media business through the Unwell Network launched alongside husband Matt Kaplan, an initiative designed to develop new podcasts for Gen Z creators and release consumer products such as beverages, yet this growth phase was not without significant challenges including allegations of a toxic work environment stemming from Kaplan's management style and high staff turnover rates that impacted operations.
Despite facing mixed reception to product launches and controversies surrounding past segments where Cooper and Franklin mocked influencer Lauren Burnham-Luendy regarding her unborn children, as well as criticism for announcing her own pregnancy after previously making jokes about other women's babies, the show maintained its status as a top-ranked podcast globally throughout these turbulent times. As she navigated personal life changes including marriage and motherhood while managing criticisms of her past behavior and current business practices, Cooper continued to build a resilient media empire that evolved from an underground sex-positive platform into a mainstream powerhouse focused on wellness and mental health, proving her ability to adapt despite the betrayals and backstabs that defined its early history.
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She is profiting off of women's like
heartaches and failures and you know all
these awful things that happen to women.
She's profiting off of it. That's not
girl power. A young woman sits alone and
she's about to make a decision that will
change everything. On that screen is a
contract across town. her partner, her
co-host, and her roommate, the woman
she'd built a powerful business with,
all from nothing, likely believes
they're still a united friend, still
together and still fighting for the same
dream. But she's very wrong. Alex Cooper
hovers her finger over the trackpad. The
contract on her screen offers her 75%
ownership of the intellectual property
behind Call Her Daddy. What's up,
It's Alex and it's Sophia. Back
at it again for another episode of Call
Her Daddy.
>> If she walks forward alone,
>> what is up Daddy gang? It is your single
father, Alex Cooper.
>> She chooses the brand over the bond.
>> We were having business negotiations.
And during that negotiation,
she decided, you know what? Instead of
trying to figure this out, I'm just
going to try to take this for myself and
run with it. And that's what she did.
And that's what ended up happening. And
with that, the best friend character is
retired.
>> Alex, they're getting pissed.
>> I'm excited about the whole thing, but
I'm I'm terrified at the same time.
>> And in her place, the media executive
takes form. In the digital landscape,
loyalty is a luxury, but control is
everything. And when you have control of
the empire, you have control of the
narrative.
>> And I goting custody of a ton of
children. [music]
I'm just thankful I didn't birth
all of you out of my mother.
>> Would you stab someone in the back to
get ahead to make millions?
Unfortunately, it seems like this is the
way of the world, the way of our
forefathers, and it's the founding story
of Call Her Daddy, one of the top
podcasts on all platforms led by Alex
Cooper. Alex Cooper is one of the most
successful modern women in the media
space, defining podcasts through the
years and having heartto-hearts with
internet and mainstream celebrities
alike.
>> I'm happy to be here. I'm happy you're
here.
>> But it took her a few years and a few
sabotages along the way to get there.
>> Alex Earl, hey girl, you're going to
need to get specific and just say what
you got to say about me. as the IP to
her podcast was under ownership by
another famous and powerful man.
>> Sophia and I were making the company
millions of dollars. We [music] had
signed a three-year contract with Bartol
Sports and they owned our IP.
>> Did Alex Cooper simply do what she
needed to get ahead? Or did she become
the very evil her podcast claimed it was
never going to be?
>> We feel like these things become
gendered. No one's going to give you the
answers, especially as a young woman. No
one wants to give you the answers cuz no
one really wants you to succeed.
>> We all want control over the things we
create. But sometimes control can be an
elucory concept. The closer you get to
obtaining it, the further it slips away.
And the more and more things spiral out
of control. This is the story of Alex
Cooper, a woman who wanted to be as well
regarded as the white fathers before
her, who thrived in business
unapologetically. So, she created a
podcast called Call Her Daddy.
>> Call Her Daddy.
>> Stop being little and just
listen up.
>> Little
>> Little [music] boys. Listen up.
>> Welcome or welcome back to another Cruel
World Happy Mind video. My name is
Madison and this is the story of Call
Her Daddy.
>> The Glock Glock 9000 is every man's
kryptonite.
>> We're not saying cheat, but we are
saying be crazy as because guys
love the crazy. a woman who wanted what
the men around her had always taken for
granted and what she was willing to do
to get it.
>> In the beginning of the inception of
Call Her Daddy, very strategically
marketing wise, I was presenting my
looks and a Valley girl voice and I knew
how to give some amazing tips in the
bedroom. I started to feel a little
drained of like, how many more times can
I [music] sit and talk about just sex?
What parts of yourself would you give up
to become something more than you ever
dreamed possible, something bigger than
yourself? Alex Cooper, who now sits at
the top of her branding and media
empire, knows exactly what you need to
sacrifice in today's digital landscape
to get what you want.
>> I will not be able to make it into work
today. I am unwell.
>> That's all I wrote. That's it.
>> I didn't put a high. I didn't say it was
from Sophia.
>> Call her daddy. Obviously, everybody's
talking about that. The Wii created four
episodes and then Gabe Portoy slid
[music] into my DM.
>> I was like, I know you're lying to me.
If you guys believe, we're going to war.
>> Time magazine called her arguably the
most successful woman [music] in
podcasting. Alex was well on her way to
becoming one of the most recognizable
names in podcasting history. But that's
not what happened. Known for interviews
with some of the biggest [music] stars
of our time, Ed Sharon, welcome to Color
Daddy.
>> It just started to get really bad cuz it
got all about money.
>> I never started this for money.
Someone's going to be the victim and
someone's going to be the villain.
[music] And I was the villain.
But the whole thing broke down.
>> [music]
[music]
>> Every story has a before. Before
hit the fan. Alex Cooper grew up in the
suburbs of Philadelphia. On the surface,
she had a classic American childhood.
Close-knit, stable. When I look back at
my childhood home, I have had so many
memories there. I grew up with my two
siblings there. All the kids would be in
the culde-sac playing capture the flag.
Okay. Alex Cooper that lives in LA right
now. She would be nothing without Philly
Alex Cooper. Her father, Brian,
worked as a TV producer for the
Philadelphia Flyers and her mother,
Lorie, was a psychologist. They had
three kids, a house. What many see on
screen now on the Call Her Daddy
episodes is a confident woman who evokes
feelings of the classic popular girl,
blonde, tan, with a vocal fry, and quips
about sex and confidence and the right
beauty trends for the times, which
always leaves one feeling like they're
out of the times if they're not keeping
up with Alex Cooper.
>> If you're single and you want a rich
dude, find a way to get your ass into
the country clubs. It's literally a
boy's club. There's hot dudes, rich
dudes walking around everywhere.
>> But this was not Alex's experience
growing up. The bullying started young.
Red hair, goofy. At least that's what
the young boys at her school said about
her in very unkind ways. Alex kept the
bullying a secret. Too embarrassed to
tell her family and too ashamed to ask
for help. Luckily, Alex found comfort at
home. The early exposure to emotional
isolation taught her the value of a safe
space. My family was always my safe
space," she said about this time in her
life. Her father, Brian, worked as a TV
producer for the NHL's Philadelphia
Flyers. He had his own set of cameras
that Alex could use to explore film
making. Alex would spend hours in the
basement with friends, creating skits,
and recreating scenes from their
favorite movies. The youngest of three
kids, Alex [music] loved documenting
every aspect of her life. Before turning
10, she was already using a green screen
and teaching herself how to edit videos
in Premiere. Alex would sometimes come
along with her dad to work, sitting
quietly in the back of the control room
with her own headset.
>> I got really lucky with, I guess, with
my parents is that I leaned into both of
the things that they did. I took a piece
from both of them. I loved having
control over the timing and the pacing
of the comedy, she said. Creating these
worlds that I had control over was the
place where I felt 100% myself. She felt
comfort creating and editing her own
little worlds because it made her feel
like she had control. Alex's mother,
Lorie, is a psychologist and is credited
as the one who nurtured Alex's emotional
intelligence with Alex saying about her
childhood, "I had a very liberal and
feminist mother." She said that neither
of her parents were squeamish about
sexuality. with my history of having a
mother that is a psychologist and
growing up in a home where EQ and mental
health was [music] like a non-starter.
It was a prerequisite to be in my
family. It's like you need to work on
yourself. Though Alex was deeply loved
at home with a family who seemed
supportive, she slowly grew to hate
herself as she continued to experience
bullying at school but hid it from her
family. keeping the bullying a secret
out of embarrassment. Alex was feeling
emotionally vulnerable, torn apart, but
was able to find a home on the soccer
field. I had a hard time with like
wanting to make my parents really proud.
I think they saw a lot in me and I was
very like doing a lot of things. I was
really good at soccer. I was like good
at making movies and films and all the
things, but I like really struggled in
school. And so I never wanted to tell my
parents that because I felt like I think
I was like embarrassed. What I do know
is I was like embarrassed to explain to
my parents that I was like getting
bullied at school or having a hard time
cuz when I got home I then was my actual
real self.
>> Her parents supported her talent. Alex
said they recognized, oh my gosh, one of
our kids is an athlete that could get a
full scholarship.
>> You were a D1 soccer player.
>> Yes.
>> Beu.
>> Okay. Gotcha. So you played sports in
Boston. How were your parents as uh
sports parents?
>> Um aggressive. Okay.
>> My parents are very competitive people.
My dad was also a D1 um hockey player.
So like we are everything is just
intense in my family. Like we got to win
and we got to be the best.
>> Alex's family seemed stable from the
outside. Alex described her family as
middle class, but she always had an
awareness of money growing up. That
awareness deepened and her stability
cracked in 2004 when her father lost his
job during the NHL labor lockout.
>> Yeah, my dad worked for the
>> He was a Philadelphia Flyers producer
>> and I so I grew up around these athletes
and that was my dad's job. So, athletics
just in my household was the norm.
>> It was the first time a major North
American professional sports league lost
an entire season to a labor dispute. Of
course, her mother had her therapy
practice that kept them afloat, but
barely. It wasn't enough to sustain a
fivep person household, Alex claimed. By
high school, Alex transformed. She was
no longer the bullied kid with red hair
and was now the soccer star. Alex was
then recruited by several division 1
colleges for soccer and ended up
selecting Boston University who offered
her a full scholarship. Her mother had
grown up in the greater Boston area and
they both liked that the head coach was
a woman. The coach's name was Nancy
Feldman. Soccer was the love of my life
and I give so much credit to my parents.
I traveled all around the world. Um, I
represented the United States in Russia.
We went to Sohi. I had dealt with
male coaches my whole life and a
huge draw was that the coach was a
woman.
>> Oh wow. During Alex's sophomore year,
the coach Nancy Feldman was singling her
out, making inappropriate remarks about
her body, asking invasive questions
about her life, trying to get her alone
after practice, sometimes even touching
her thigh unnecessarily. I experienced
[music]
something extremely painful. I was
determined to make a name for myself on
that field. So when my coach started to
pay extra attention to me, I figured it
was probably because I was playing well.
Cooper says everything changed her
sophomore year. I started to notice her
really starting to fixate on me way more
than any other teammate of mine. It was
all based in
her wanting to know who I was dating,
her
making comments about my body, [music]
and her
always wanting to be alone with me.
Initially, Alex was focused on proving
herself on the team and just assumed
like the extra attention from the coach
was a sign that she was a standout
player, so she brushed it off.
Unfortunately, this is the architecture
of grooming. It starts by building
trust. It isolates slowly. And because
the early behavior seems so minor, so
easy to just explain away, the victim
continues to rationalize. Who would
believe me? What exactly would I even
say? It was a psychotic game of you want
to play? Tell me about your sex life. I
have to drive you to your night class,
get in the car with me. My freshman year
of high school, I was touring colleges.
13 years old. I'm trying to figure out
where I'm going to college. And
>> I will never forget I toured Boston
University and my mom is from Boston.
Boston was it for me because they had a
great film program
>> and the soccer I was very excited about.
>> I would sit as far away from her as
possible. But Alex couldn't leave. She
was on a full scholarship. Her entire
future, her family's investment in her
talent depended on staying on that team.
Yeah, I think that um you know, we
started the game, we came out really
strong, so I just kind of tried to bring
the energy going forward and just try to
get some shots on goal and make some
plays in the box. So, Alex Cooper
hesitated to push back. She was going to
Boston University on a full scholarship
for soccer. She needed to play. If I
didn't follow this woman's rules, I was
gone. Every time I tried to resist her,
she would say, "There could be
consequences."
>> It's very confusing. Yeah,
>> when it slow,
this woman
says, I really genuinely thought that
that was her kind of deeming me like,
I'm going to invest in you. She was just
starting to really fixate on me. And
then sophomore year, everything changed.
The situation heightened at the end of
her junior year when Nancy Feldman
removed Alex's roommate from the team to
further isolate her. Again, this is part
of the stages of grooming. Cooper and
her parents met with Boston University's
athletic director, who they allege
refused to review their evidence, which
is the most wild and disappointing
aspect of this whole situation. That
being said, the athletic director
allowed Alex to quit the soccer team
while keeping her scholarship. This is
full sexual harassment, but [music] if
I'm going to be real with you, they will
drag this on for years. And this will be
your life. Is you're the girl that's
suing the coach. And from freshman year
to this day, [music] I've
chronologically written every single
thing down that my daughter has called
me about and cried about that this woman
has said and done to her. They kind of
just like side eye look at each other.
[music]
and they say, [music]
"What do you want? I want to play my
senior year. I want to finish out what I
worked my entire life for, but I can't
play for this woman." No investigation.
Within 5 minutes, they had entirely
dismissed everything I had been through.
>> And they say, "Well, we are not getting
rid of rid of Nancy Feldman. She is um a
decorated coach here. She had been the
only coach who had come through that
organization at the time for women's
soccer. She had plaques all over the
university. She was celebrated. She was
decorated. You can keep playing or you
don't need to play and you can keep your
scholarship.
>> Oh my god.
>> Alex ultimately graduated from Boston
University in 2017 and earned a degree
from the College of Communication where
she studied film and television. She'd
also learned that institutions protect
themselves and that if you want justice,
you usually have to get it yourself.
[music]
After university, Alex moved to New York
City and worked in the sales department
at Gotham Magazine. She also started
making the nightlife circuit and dating
several athletes, including former Mets
pitcher Noah Synergard. "I was living
this very glamorous lifestyle because he
was rich," she says. "And I was a
nobody." It's time for Noah to get some
much needed RNR. [music] He headed to
MSG to catch the Rangers game with his
bay, Alexandra Cooper, a former Boston
University soccer player. The two
athletes enjoy [music] watching sporting
events together and actually made their
relationship official at a Knicks
[music] game in April when they couldn't
keep their hands off each other.
>> No matter what, there's a big fella.
I mean, come on, you got to keep it
spicy. [music]
Speaking of spicy, you might want to
check out Alexandra's super steamy
Instagram account. [music]
She has some really hot pics and over
80,000 followers. Dating athletes like
Noah Synergard provided a taste of
wealth. When that relationship ended,
she found herself in a familiar
position, rebuilding from nothing with
nothing. Alex went on Facebook to find
roommates and crossed paths with Sophia
Franklin. Welcome to our amazing, humble
abode. Let us do it the proper way.
[music]
>> Welcome to our crib.
>> It's really hot in here. Let's turn on
the air. [groaning]
>> [screaming]
>> Do you hear that hum? A little hard to
hear over the noise, but hopefully we
will have been through. It's the
craziest, most random I take an
Uber pool because I was broke as
and I wanted out of my lease that I was
in. She says, "Oh, I know a girl looking
for a roommate." That girl happened to
be Alex Cooper and we signed a lease
that day. After being let go from Gotham
magazine, Alex signed up for seeing
arrangements, a service that allowed men
to pay her for dates. The goal was, I
never wanted to do anything with these
men. I [music] was just going to get
drinks and dinner and by the end of the
night have enough money for rent, she
said. Alex also always brought a friend
to sit in the back of the bar. We did
crazy fun shizz like that. Though in
retrospect, I want everyone to be
careful. I don't know if you should be
on that site, but the real idea, the one
that would change everything was forming
in her apartment.
>> All I would do is listen to podcasts all
day long. Then we start the podcast with
this company.
>> Um, that was like it was a podcast
network. It was run by just like a bunch
of trust fund kids.
>> Stop. Don't kill the snake. two women
having unfiltered, brutally honest
conversations about sex and dating in
the modern world.
>> We were drinking. We were at this bar
bantering. By the end of the night, we
had like a group of like 20, 30 people
just like watching us talk and like
listening to each other. And she was
like, "Let's start a YouTube."
>> Yeah. The first the way it kind of
started was we went down to South by
Southwest Film Festival and we were with
all these guys and Sophia and I just
started talking like we do on the
podcast like really open and talking
about guys and girls and dating and sex
and um there slowly just all these guys
started to kind of like come around us
and after like 40 minutes no guy touched
their phone and they were all just
listening to us and then afterwards a
couple guys were like do you guys have a
show like uh no like she works a finance
job I work for a magazine and then they
were like you guys need a show I would
watch this every day Before the idea
could become a real show, they needed a
name. We knew we needed a catchy name to
get people's attention. Alex Cooper
said, "I was in our apartment one day
and I threw on a hoodie that has a huge
bold daddy on it. I bought it in college
because I was like, this is hilarious."
She says men in college would say to
her, "Why do you have daddy on your
shirt?" Because I am.
>> The name call her daddy refers to how
they're turning the tables on men and
taking charge. Even though that's still
not what I said though.
>> It's really not at all.
>> We're not turning the tables on men.
We're just saying girls can be daddies,
too. GUYS CAN STAY DADDIES. [laughter]
>> A name that said women could be daddies,
too. A name that said the rules of the
game were about to change. And this was
fitting at the time because this was the
time that dating culture was starting to
really change in a way that was hard to
describe. And it's hard to find
resources that really talk in an honest
way about women who want to have sex and
date. Alex and Sophia were able to fill
that space and be a safe space for
women, which is undoubtedly a positive
aspect of the show and I often think
goes unagnowledged when discussing the
earlier years of Call Her Daddy. All
these people, more women are like, "Oh
my god, thank God these girls are
teaching us and talking about like how
to give a good blowjob." So, making it
more normalized.
>> Alex Cooper claimed she only knew Sophia
Franklin for a few months before asking
her to make the podcast and that often
listeners assumed they were better
friends at the time than they actually
were because really almost right off the
bat their chemistry was effortless.
After only doing four self-produced
episodes, Call Her Daddy was picked up
by Barto Stool Sports. Yeah, Bar Stool
Sports.
>> All right.
>> A company not exactly known at the time
for its feminist ideals.
>> I saw Sizzle reel and I'm like, "Who
made this for you?" She's like, "I did.
I learned how to edit." I'm like, "Done.
Signed up. You're Let's do it."
>> What's up, guys? It's Alex and Sophia
from Call Her Daddy. We are in the bar
stole offices right now. You heard that
right. We are employed, baby.
>> Do you call him daddy? Do I call her
daddy?
>> Call her daddy.
>> It is Call her Her Daddy episode 1. Um,
first of all, I just want to go ahead
and say you probably have no idea who we
are, and that is okay. [laughter] two
women in their 20s talking explicitly
about sex on a platform built by and for
men. Fans immediately loved it and the
daddy gang was born. Flags in college
dorm rooms saying things like degrade me
and sweatshirts and Tinder bios
featuring the hashtag daddy gang.
>> She paid her 70 grand, three-year
contract. She brought her partner crime
Sophia Franklin with her. So, I each got
70 grand in three years [music] and the
thing just it went nuclear in in a
month.
>> You guys have Valentine?
>> No.
>> Oh,
>> oh, we got Let's fly. Let's fly. We have
Valentine's. We're fine.
>> I mean, I have like five.
>> Sophia and I were talking on the our
podcast the other day and we were saying
[music] I don't have a Valentine because
we're keeping too many people as side
hosts and not anointing anyone in Maine.
>> Yes.
>> Call Her Daddy became very quickly a
cultural phenomenon. Sex. X X sex. We
are all having sex. Put it in my butt.
>> The show gave women a language for
navigating a world that had always used
that language against them to almost
treat intimacy like a constant power
struggle.
>> The Glock Glock 9000 is every man's
kryptonite.
>> We're not saying treat, but we are
saying be crazy as someone
emotionally breaks you down when you're
at a vulnerable moment and you build
your armor and intimacy becomes a
neverending power struggle. And that is
kind of a personal issue for many
people. Even if a large population, a
large population of men treat intimacy
like a power struggle doesn't
necessarily mean that women should rise
up and beat men at their own game. An
eye for an eye and the whole world is
blind. That is the main criticism of
Call Her Daddy. Well, actually, there
were also a lot of sexists who just
hated the fact that two young attractive
women had microphones and a podcast and
were sharing their thoughts. But maybe
we can just ignore them in this video. I
mean, to be as real as possible, the way
that the show Call Her Daddy garnered
attention was through its shock value.
If Alex Cooper and Sophia Franklin
discussed gender relations in a very
analytical historical analysis sort of
way, I don't think anyone would have
tuned in to their podcast. The value
came from the shock value of the show
and how they spoke.
>> Cuz when you do doggy, how far into her
does that little pen go with a like
that? Nobody talks about this, but Black
Chyna.
>> Black China.
>> Kim Kardashian. Yep.
>> Sophia and Alex often casually threw
around words like
Even titling episodes like you're just a
hole and welcome to camp. Their
supporters said they're reclaiming those
words, using them as terms of
endearment. But critics saw the language
as reinforcing the same male gays
culture. If the girls want to initiate
something, like you want to hang out
with him on Valentine's Day, but you
don't want to come off like, "Oh my god,
I'm being clingy." Offer him sex.
>> They you. That's all they wanted.
and now they're not calling you. You're
not getting ghosted.
>> In my opinion at least, you can't
reclaim your power using the same
tactics or the same systems that may
have oppressed you in the first place.
Call her Her Daddy episodes like Mil
Hunter pushed this even further,
presenting a guest who openly described
using women.
>> These are good fake tits. Well-made fake
titties.
>> So, do you start feeling them?
>> Of course. Of course. A National
Geographic growth.
>> Like you're checking for you're checking
for breast cancer type of breast
cancer awareness month.
>> While the Call Her Daddy podcast was
undeniably entertaining, the host would
sometimes give questionable dating
advice, like how to cheat on your
partner without them knowing.
>> So, we just gave you all the ways to
catch a cheater or to cheat. At the same
time, Alex and Sophia openly owned their
sexuality and their ability to profit
from the brand they were building. Alex
Cooper spoke about how she loves making
people uncomfortable and that the role
she defines for herself is marketer. I
love to make people uncomfortable,
though she seems to really mean men to
women. She projects the engaging
confidence and perfect eye contact of
the most popular girl at your school.
I'm always down to shake up, she
says. To her point, she greeted the
Boston audience with a litany of her
sexual exploits at BEu. I got my first
STD here. I also know that's kind of my
bread and butter, she adds, saying
everything, no matter the taboo, is part
of her personality, but it's also become
more than that. Every day I wake up and
go to bed, I'm a marketer through and
through. She says that is who I am. She
means not a journalist, not a podcast
host. I'm a marketer. Her most brilliant
product herself. In the beginning of the
inception of Call Her Daddy, very
strategically marketing wise, I was
presenting my looks and a valley girl
voice and I knew how to give some
amazing tips in the bedroom.
[music]
The success of this show is wild to me
because when we first released our first
three episodes with Barcel Sports,
it went number two right underneath Joe
Rogan. Whoa.
That wasn't that wasn't the plan. There
was no plan. I didn't even want to be a
podcaster. Alex Cooper and Sophia
Franklin had become in the public
imagination a kind of entity.
inseparable, unbreakable, best friends,
sisters. Behind the scenes, a time bomb
was ticking.
>> We just recorded an episode. It was a
disaster. We can't get too crazy on
camera, so I would personally be
freaking the out.
>> We can't get too crazy on camera. Okay,
you're the craziest person on camera.
>> Got to go. Thanks for watching this. We
got a chance
me. What started as two roommates
turning their unfiltered conversations
into a hit podcast had within 2 years
turned into a major podcast business.
Unfortunately, as the podcast grew, so
did tensions around money, ownership,
control. The main issue between the
podcasters centering on intellectual
property.
>> Sophia and I were making the company
millions of dollars. [music]
>> To be honest, they were helping pay a
lot of the salaries at Bar School. We
absolutely deserved more money, but
unfortunately, we had signed a
three-year contract with Bartool Sports,
[music] and they owned our IP.
>> Here's what you need to know about the
business arrangement underneath their
friendship. When Alex and Sophia signed
their deal with Bartool Sports, four
episodes into their run, they signed
away the intellectual property rights,
the brand, the name, the concept. Dave
Portoi owned it all.
>> Each got 70 grand. 70 grand a year was
each of their starting salaries. They
got so big so fast that that original
contract got like outdated instantly
almost. And we did pay them a lot more,
but they started looking around. Um, and
it's like anything. It's like, well, if
we're on our own free agents,
>> it was almost like Alex and Sophia were
just employees, even though they were
well-paid ones eventually. Alex
allegedly earned 506,000 in their first
year, and Sophia 461,000.
>> You guys, it's Alex. Welcome to my
apartment. tore. I got this from
Restoration Hardware and it really hurt
my bank account. But they didn't own
what they built. Feeling undervalued
compared to the industry standard, Alex
and Sophia pushed for more in a change
of contract. Confident that their
following gave them leverage. The
renegotiation began with hope. Alex and
Sophia drafted a list of demands. a
million dollars each, a large share of
merchandise revenue, and sole ownership
of the Caller Daddy intellectual
property.
>> And they start looking around being
like, "Wait a minute, we're making 70
grand. Our numbers, we should be making
millions." They're right. They should
have been if they were independent and
they weren't through us. But it's kind
of like the band model, right? The band
label. You signed a thing. Sophia
Franklin's boyfriend, Suitman, was an
executive at HBO. He started shopping,
call her daddy around. But Dave Portoi
didn't budge. He didn't even counter.
The hosts of Call Her Daddy went silent.
No new episodes were posted and the
algorithm started to forget them. With
the negotiations stalled, Suitman, the
name that Sophia's boyfriend was
referred to on Call Her Daddy episodes,
shopped the Call Her Daddy brand to
others in the industry. Dave Portoi made
his move. A new offer was given. a
500,000 base salary each, a bigger merge
cut, and the nuclear option, a pathway
to owning the IP at the end of their
contract. It was by almost any measure
what they originally asked for.
>> We had a very famous meeting on the roof
deck of where I lived. It was Alex and
Sophia and I said, "Listen, we own the
IP." I basically shortened their
contract and agreed, I'll give you guys
the IP. You guys just work one more year
somewhere in there. Should have been two
more. Alex calls 2 days later and she
says, "Listen, I want to take this deal.
Sophia is never going to take this
deal."
>> Then the rooftop meeting comes. Sophia
and I had different opinions on what
this meeting meant. Um, after the fact,
Sophia made it clear that she was more
so going in as just like a courtesy
meeting. I was kind of going in praying
to God that Dave would be in a really
good mood and be like, I actually will
give you the IP. The minute we left that
rooftop meeting is when the issue
started with Sophia and I. According to
Alex and according to Dave Portoi,
Sophia Franklin kept moving the
goalposts. She had a new demand, another
condition, another delay.
>> I started to become this like yesw
woman. We would get on the phone with
our lawyer talking about what Sophia
wanted and then I would be over here
like, um, I'm good with the deal, but
like listen to Sophia. Whatever she's
going to ask for, let's talk about it.
I'm good with the deal. I'm good with
the deal. Our lawyer would be like, so
Sophia, are you good with this point?
And she would bring a list of all the
things she wanted to change. And they'd
be like, Alex, how do you feel? And I
would be like, I'm good with the deal.
I'm good with the deal. I'm good with
the points. I'm good with the points.
>> And all the while the show sat dark.
hemorrhaging the momentum they'd spent
years building. Bar Stool was losing
$100,000 for every episode they failed
to produce. Dave Portoy's offer, which
sat unanswered, drove Alex and Sophia
further apart. Sophia and her boyfriend
thought they could potentially get more,
maybe even from another company which
could host the podcast. Leaving Bartool
also threatened the distribution, the
marketing support, and infrastructure
that had fueled the podcast's rapid
growth. They'd have to start over with a
new production team that might do
everything differently. Even if a better
deal was possible, there was a real
chance the show could collapse or lose
momentum during the transition. The
conflict also created a PR nightmare.
>> Caller Daddy podcast hosts have turned
on each other. Quite dramatic and a lot
of headline news recently, but I do want
to talk about the Caller Daddy
>> We are talking about the drama with Call
Her Daddy.
>> Call Her Daddy. Obviously, everybody's
talking about that. Probably one of the
biggest stories of 2020. That was none.
>> A bar stool representative told Page Six
that in the case of Call Her Daddy, we
took a risk on unproven talent and put
the full resources of bar stool sports
and our milliondoll marketing machine
behind them to make them huge. For a
moment during this dramatic upheaval of
Call Her Daddy, Dave Portoi completely
took over appearing on a special
episode.
>> And Alex didn't want to give over the
name in the beginning and bar stool. We
said, "Well, we're not going to do this
deal if you don't give us ownership of
Caller Daddy because it makes no sense."
But Alex was making more money than
Sophia in the beginning. And to be
honest, I thought rightfully so.
Continue along and a year is up.
Basically, a year they they've done a
year's worth of work. The thing is huge.
And I can tell now that, you know, they
want more money. I don't trust either of
you, but I'm telling you, this deal is
so good. You There's no You can't not
take it. We do millions in merch. It
would be theirs. They'd own the IP.
They'd own the blog. They owe
everything.
>> A lot of this narrative sort of presents
this idea that Alex and Sophia should
just be happy to be paid well when it
might not be the best that they could be
paid. It almost feels like a logical
fallacy of sorts. Just because someone
is being paid well doesn't mean they're
being paid up to the standards within
the industry or to the value that
they're bringing in. Dave Portoi claimed
that Nelson had become a major factor in
the whole dispute. Dave further claimed
Nelson provided the lawyers and was
openly shopping Call Her Daddy to other
companies, acting almost like a manager
for the two women. Dave Portoi also
connected Nelson to a 2019 episode of
HBO's Real Sports, which he described as
a hit piece about bar stool.
>> I was starting to hear whispers and Alex
confirmed it and this is a big part of
the story. Sophia's new boyfriend, which
I guess call her daddy. People call Suit
Peter Nelson. Is that his name? HBO
exec. Probably green lit a hit piece on
me not too long ago.
>> What's fascinating about all of this,
the back and forth dispute is what was
originally a show about two women taking
back their power somehow turned into a
dispute over ownership of their podcast,
allegedly between two men, Nelson and
Portoi. How did things get to this
point? If anything, is this just a
representation of what call her daddy
was? So, with more and more mounting
pressure, both women ended up picking
sides. Sophia chose her boyfriend Peter
Nelson, and Alex ended up siding with
Bartool and David Portoy, and Alex
Cooper took the situation into her own
hands. Alex reached out to Dave and
accepted the offer without Sophia. We
were having business negotiations. One
of us thought one thing, one of us
thought the other. And during that
negotiation,
she decided, you know what? Instead of
trying to figure this out, I'm just
going to try to take this for myself and
run with it. And that's what she did.
And that's what ended up happening. The
calculation was simple. Stay with a
friend or take the 75% ownership and the
IP and ensure her future. She chose the
latter. to Alex. The friendship had
become a manufactured image that was no
longer real. They were work partners
more than friends.
>> We were roommates, best friends, super
super close. Yeah. And then we started
it. Did Dave know that this was going to
happen? Did he think maybe he could get
a better deal through driving the two
women apart? Or is this just a natural
progression in the industry without a
strong relationship and working business
relationship established? Alex's
decision to move forward with the deal
independently might have preserved the
show's momentum, but came at the cost of
her partnership and whatever level of
friendship she had with Sophia. From
Alex's perspective, her decision made
practical sense. She believed accepting
the deal was the safest and smartest
move. Dave Portoi talked about how Peter
Nelson helped Cooper and Franklin secure
an offer from the podcast network.
>> He was the one who brought in all these
lawyers. The lawyer was his friend and
he got a deal with Wry. They were going
to call the podcast the fathers. When
she came back to me, he's like, I can't
get Sophia to do this. I want to do it
myself. We were already giving them 100%
of the IP at the end if they were
together. In her mind, she believes I do
all the editing. I do all the work. I do
most of it. I should be getting 75 no
matter what.
>> After the deal was finalized, Sophia
took to Instagram, alleging that Alex
stabbed her in the back. And it wasn't
the first time she did it. There's been
a lot of crazy being thrown around
and some of it is true, some of it is
false. Alex and I created Call Her Daddy
together.
March of 2018,
we created it. The two of us,
and at that time, we were best friends,
roommates,
arguably like sisters. Daddy gang, you
know, you've been there from the
beginning. Did Bar stool sports help
blow up Caller Daddy? 100%.
>> Sophia explained she was willing to do
the podcast. However, she couldn't do it
under the circumstances that Alex
wanted. She demanded that she controlled
the show. This is where the story gets
extremely up.
I found out that Alex had gone behind my
back and done something.
And I found out it wasn't the first
time.
And that's why we're here.
I trusted Alex. I feel betrayed, but
ultimately she was my best friend and
that doesn't change overnight. And I'm
willing to do call her daddy. I really
am. I just can't do it under the
circumstances that she wants. I can't do
it while she's demanding that she
controls the show. I don't want to be
like her employee. This started a
dispute over who deserved to control
Call her daddy from a production
standpoint.
>> It's putting me in like a an extremely
tough position.
>> Alex Cooper, who remained completely
silent, posted her own video addressing
the situation. The video was crucial for
her image. She couldn't just move on and
make a solo call her daddy video while
leaving Sophia in the dust and never
addressing it. For countless episodes of
the Caller Daddy podcast, Sophia was her
friend and business partner who she
bounced back and forth on each topic
with. Because of this, so many people
believed Alex Cooper had sold out her
friend. Much of the video started out
combating the narrative that Alex and
Sophia were 50/50 partners by explaining
the extra work Alex claimed she was
doing from the start. Alex Cooper said
in the video that during the first year
of their bar stool sports contract, she
got a pay raise. She claimed was for
editing and doing all the social media
and doing all the marketing, but she
chose not to tell Sophia about her raise
because she felt uncomfortable about
doing more work on the podcast. Dave and
Erica called me back in and they gave me
a raise for editing and doing all the
social media and doing all the
marketing.
I chose not to share this raise with
Sophia. Sophia made me feel
uncomfortable
that I did more work. According to
Cooper, the imbalance in their workload
already created tension and she believed
sharing the raise would only make the
situation worse. She explained that she
and Sophia later began negotiating with
Bartool for more money. With outside
help, they put together a term sheet
that included several demands. But all
we knew is we were making significantly
less than industry standard. So Peter
put together um a document for us and he
put together the term sheet that we were
essentially going to renegotiate with
and send to bar stool. So we sent it to
bar stool and in a very roundabout way
Dave Portoy essentially told us to go f
ourselves in every single hole possible.
We were like,
>> Alex Cooper then explained the timeline
of events which led to call her daddy's
breakdown. She said the turning point
came during an infamous 2hour phone call
with Sophia Franklin. By the end of that
conversation, it was obvious that they
were on different pages. Why are you so
willing to abandon the Call Her Daddy
brand to go start something new?
And Sophia said,
"The IP, it is the most important thing,
but it's not as important to me as it is
to you, Alex." Alex ended the video by
saying she'd lost a friend, but was
ready to get the show back on air.
Sophia Franklin later told the Rolling
Stone she had misgivings about working
with Bartool and believed that she and
Alex were on the same team. She was
shocked when the situation turned into
her being at odds with both Alex Cooper
and Bartool. Sophia described the
fallout as scary, telling Rolling Stone
she never knew what Alex Cooper or Dave
Portoy would say about her next. She
said she no longer considers Cooper a
friend, and both women have confirmed
they haven't spoken since Sophia left
Caller Daddy.
>> Do you look at it like you lost a friend
or like you lost a business partner or
both?
>> Um, lost a business partner.
>> Mhm. Again, I don't
think that a real true friend, anything
like that would have ever happened.
>> Sophia also said she felt her side of
the story was misrepresented.
>> What is one thing that you wish people
knew about that situation that they
still don't know?
>> The that you read online or in a
magazine or in an article, it is never
the true story. And it is terrifying to
me to see people out here eat up the
they read on the internet as if it
is the Bible, right?
>> And the Bible isn't real either.
>> Yeah. [laughter] So, mic drop.
>> Later on, Sophia launched her own
podcast. Sophia, in her part, denied
deliberately pushing Sophia out of the
show. Instead, she argued that the
friendship viewers saw was not an
entirely accurate reflection of their
real life friendship [music] and that
their image as best friends was partly
something they created and marketed when
the podcast first began.
>> Any talk with Sophia? [music]
>> I never spoke to her again after that.
Really? Yeah. I don't think she would
ever reach out. I don't know if there's
anything [music] to like say. I think
it's kind of done. Alex Cooper said
audiences became more attached to the
friendships they presented publicly than
to what actually happened between them
behind the scenes.
>> It became really difficult to enjoy the
process. [music]
It was the classic you think you see
something online and people genuinely
believe we were like sisters, but our
relationship was so awful.
>> [music]
[music]
>> With Sophia gone, the press waiting, and
the daddy gang holding its breath, Alex
Cooper sat in front of the microphone
alone.
>> The last time that I was in this
apartment, I was doing a movein vlog,
and now I'm doing a move out
vlog. This is kind of like so
sad. [music]
>> What is up, daddy gang? It is your
single father, Alex Cooper, with call
her daddy.
>> Miley Cyrus appeared on the first solo
episode. A huge change from what Caller
Daddy once embodied. I'm about to freak
the out.
Miley Cy I can't even say it out loud.
Miley Cyrus is coming on Caller Daddy.
I'm sorry. Did you guys hear that? Miley
Cyrus is coming on Call Her Daddy. I I'm
like I don't know what to say.
>> But a statement that Call Her Daddy and
Alex Cooper could survive and thrive all
on its own and without its original
formula.
>> Alex Cooper's first big guest was Miley
Cyrus. And I think that that really
changed the kind of game for her. It
showed people that she can interview
and, you know, hang with the people who
so much of our society looks up to right
now. The show didn't just survive, but
evolved into something its original
audience might not have recognized. Alex
Cooper started talking about therapy on
air. She discussed mental health,
vulnerability, maybe her performance and
her true self beginning to merge on
screen. Let me be the first one openly
to be like, I'm in [music] therapy and
we've all got our so like it's fine to
admit that. And if anything, it's sexier
and it's it's more appealing in my
opinion in dating and life [music] if
you are working on yourself constantly.
The solo rebrand felt like Alex Cooper's
true debut. No longer playing a
character, Alex leaned into
authenticity, shifting the brand from
the shock jock sex talk to a mainstream
media powerhouse, which is quite the
shift and probably not very easy to
accomplish. In the beginning of the
inception of Call Her Daddy, very
strategically marketing wise, I was
presenting my looks and a valley girl
voice. I started to feel a little
drained of like how many more times can
[music] I sit and talk about just sex?
Then as the transition took over and I
was now a solo host therapy, that was
the main relationship I was in in my
life was between me and my therapist.
And so I started to implement like maybe
I didn't have that week and that's okay.
I don't need to talk about sex. Like, I
can talk about what actually happened,
which is therapy.
>> Hosting Call Daddy alone kind of became
the best possible outcome for Alex. It
not only allowed her to benefit
financially, but also gave her the
freedom to reshape the podcast in a
direction that might have been more
authentic to her. Before Sophia
Franklin's departure, Alex Cooper said
she felt like she was just playing a
character. She began asking herself what
she actually wanted the show to become.
Her original call her daddy persona was
built around a kind of woman who
dismissed her emotions. Because of that,
even publicly admitting she was in
therapy felt like a major shift away
from the brand's original image. There's
trust and there's communication with us.
And it's not always perfect by any
means. But there has to be trust. As
long as there is communication, once
that is broken for me, then it's done.
And that's that's a known thing that we
have. So, as long as he knows that and I
know that, like, I feel like we're good.
After Sophia Franklin's departure, call
her daddy transformed.
>> I think this resilience you have clearly
from your parents and like listening to
like culturally there was something
embedded in you. Most annoying celebrity
couple.
>> Okay. Okay. There is a celebrity couple
and their names I don't want to say
their names but Priyanka Chopra and Nick
Jonas. I find both of their faces very
disturbing. I was just like I'm going to
just say it. Stop.
>> Yeah,
>> because
>> they're disgusting.
>> They're disgusting. They're ugly.
Priyanka is a lesbian.
>> Oh, yeah. Priyanka is a lesbian.
>> She's using She's using Nick as a beard.
>> Oh, and Nick Jonas has big nipples.
>> While it kept some of its original
explicit humor, Alex Cooper started to
steer the show towards more personal
conversations. Alex brought in guests
and built each episode around whoever
was sitting across from her at that
time. Being able to do this banked on
the existing relevance of Call Her
Daddy. If Alex started over with a brand
new podcast, she'd likely have a harder
time. But that's not to say she didn't
have a talent of her own. Comparing
Sophia's solo journey to Alex, it's
undeniable Alex had a drive to thrive in
the podcasting space and a natural
talent combined with her pre-existing
knowledge of show business.
>> [snorts]
>> I started to learn that the way things
go in business,
it can go the way you want it to go,
especially if you are the one that is
creating the revenue. It all is very
interconnected. And so I learned very
quickly that I never wanted my agents to
be friends with my lawyers. If anything,
I wanted them to hate each other. And I
didn't want the company that I was
working with to have done deals
hopefully prior with any of the people
that I was working with. And if they had
like it was not a friendship because all
of these people then talk and that's how
people lose all their money
because everyone's working behind your
back.
>> Miley Cyrus appeared on the first
episode giving the podcast a major boost
as Cooper tried to prove she could carry
call her daddy on her own. Who I am.
>> Wait, we love that. And America loved it
when you did it more on like TV.
>> Oh yeah, they loved that. They love
that. how much guilt that I feel like
I've always had about feeling
>> like I know how fortunate I am and I
don't really feel comfortable with that.
>> From there, the interviews varied on
each podcast episode. But just like the
original Caller Daddy, this new version
of Call Her Daddy was instantly a
success, even if it was a little bit
different. This meant that Alex Cooper
all on her own with this newly signed
contract was able to retain ownership of
the Call Her Daddy IP. A man's are a
very like foreign region to women.
>> Some guys don't like it. Some have less
sensitivity and you can tug on them. Put
them all in your mouth.
>> Why did you decide to come back to
social media? Because I knew at that
point there is no turning back. Everyone
knows who I am. I can't work anywhere.
That's why I left the law firm job. It
was very uncomfortable for me to work
there. It's very weird to go into a job
interview thinking, "Oh, I'm just going
to go back to normal life." and having
the interviewer ask you if if you if you
did porn, right?
>> They recognized me and I went to a
couple interviews where some comments
were made and then I finally got a job
at the law firm. I feel uncomfortable
everywhere I go. Like I I can't be sent
into the field. They have to be careful
about who they let in the office because
some subcontractors are creepy. Like I
started to feel like a burden on the
person who was taking a chance on me and
giving me a job. By June 2021, Alex
parted ways with Bar Stool, taking the
Caller Daddy IP with her to Spotify
under a deal valued at more than $60
million.
>> Call Her Daddy.
You tell me where the boundaries are
here, but how big is this show?
>> I would say that it is
um the most listened to female podcast
in the world. It still doesn't really
like register to me. Variety reported
that the three-year contract paid Alex
Cooper roughly $20 million annually.
>> Our Daddy's gone.
>> Oh, Daddy's not with you. I thought
>> No, she got 60 million over 3 years from
Spotify.
>> From its start 3 years ago, the show has
always been about challenging the status
quo and manifesting conversations that
previously only happened behind closed
doors. Alex Cooper said in a statement,
>> "The only reason I'm standing here right
now is literally because of you guys for
supporting Caller Daddy." And I goting
custody of a ton of children.
[music] I'm justing thankful I didn't
birth all of you out of my mothering
vag.
>> The 60 million Spotify deal was
ultimately validation of her ruthless
pivot attracting A-list celebrity guests
like Miley Cyrus, Haley Bieber, Kla
Harris, proving that Caller Daddy could
navigate any room.
>> People went crazy over her three-year
deal with Spotify, which was $60
million. So that was $20 million a year.
And then before that deal closed out,
she was able to secure another
three-year deal, this time with Sirius
XM for $125
million.
>> At the time, Call Her Daddy consistently
ranked in the top 15 podcasts across all
platforms. It was the number five most
listened to podcasts on Spotify in 2020.
Call Her Daddy was also Spotify's second
most popular female created podcast
worldwide. A lot has been written about
the financial um deal you did with
Spotify. A lot of people talk about
that. What what impact did that have, if
any, on your life? There's the $60
million numbers flown around everywhere.
You don't have to confirm or deny, but
um did did that change things in any
material way?
>> It was the craziest
truly the craziest feeling that I've I
still can't really articulate of like I
never started this for money. Spotify
helped the show attract more and more
high-profile celebrity guests.
>> You married one of the most famous
people on the planet, Justin Bieber.
>> He's my best friend, and there's nothing
better than being with the person that
makes you smile the most, makes you
laugh the most. Like, he's just
literally the best human to me. I think
that he's a person who has been through
a lot and shouldn't have gotten gotten
to the other side of a lot of what he's
been through, and he has. and he's
overcome so many different things in his
life for being famous so young.
>> When Alex had guest Demi Lovado, there
was a more serious tone with discussions
around addiction, self-image, and mental
health.
>> So, my biological dad, he was mentally
ill and had a lot of addiction problems.
My mom had an eating disorder. And so
naturally, um, someone that's in their
eating disorder who isn't aware of it,
um, can pass on things to their child.
>> Emma Chamberlain's appearance was
promoted as her first official in-person
sitdown interview.
>> I was always really obsessed with
YouTube because, as I mentioned earlier,
I didn't have cable. I was in such a
shitty spot that I was like, I have
nothing to lose. Like, I'm so depressed.
I'm so unhappy. I like I want to do
something that makes me feel good and
YouTube has always made me feel good.
So, I'm
I'm just gonna pose on there.
>> Chelsea Handler's appearance connected
Alex Cooper to an older generation of
women in comedy and media.
>> I could tell where the pods of whales
were before they could even pop up out
of the water. And my cousin, I was like,
the guy on the boat would say,
"Everybody go to the right." There was
like 150 people on the boat. And he'd be
like, "Okay, there's a pot of whales to
the right." and they take you out of
Sydney Harbor and you go out into these
huge swells and I'd be like there's also
a lot of whales coming up over here. I'm
sorry but the thought of being on a boat
on L I've never done L but like it
sounds horrible. Chelsea, it sounds
like aing nightmare.
>> Alex dove into politics with then Vice
President Kla Harris. I do want to focus
on abortion for a moment because two
years ago, Roie Wade was overturned and
women lost their constitutional right to
an abortion.
>> I thank you for what you've been doing
and at the earliest stage of this and
following the stories.
So, you know, on public policy, I often
tell my team, look, I don't want to hear
about public policy is a fancy kind of
speech or or or paper. Tell me how it'll
affect a real person. So, let's talk
about how it affects a real person. The
majority of women who receive abortion
care are mothers. Every state in the
South
except for Virginia has an abortion ban.
God help her if she has affordable child
care.
God help her if she has paid leave.
And then she's gonna have to
go to the airport,
stand in a TSA line,
sit on a plane next to a perfect
stranger to go to a city where she's
never been
to receive the care she needs. And
that's all if they can even afford the
plane ticket.
>> Exactly.
>> Or the bus ticket.
>> Exactly.
>> These interviews showed how far a caller
daddy evolved overall. you're leaving
maybe college. Did you get the job?
Who's moving? Who's got the boyfriend?
Who's got the thing? And it's there's so
much
clouded competition because you think,
well, oh god, she got married first and
I haven't yet or she had the kid and I
didn't yet.
>> Well, because this is what we're doing
is we're checking boxes, right? And
social media kind of, you know, it
exacerbates that because now you know
what everybody is doing and and
everybody's only posting the good things
that they're doing. The value of
cultivating friendships is important.
[music]
After turning Caller Daddy into one of
the world's biggest podcasts, Alex
Cooper expanded beyond hosting a podcast
when she launched the Unwell Network in
August of 2023. It was created under
trending, the Gen Z focused media
company Alex Cooper founded with her
husband, producer Matt Kaplan, as a sort
of umbrella company. It was designed to
develop podcasts, digital shows, and
creator-led projects aimed at a younger
audience.
>> Matt and I have offices right next to
each other, and we are constantly in
each other's offices or we don't see
each other at all during that day.
>> This means the company would bring in
other creators to start podcast and try
to recreate the call her daddy effect.
>> How does Unwell make money? Like, what
is it is the divide between, you know,
ad sales, brand deals you're doing on
the personal side? I'd love to
understand that a little bit more.
>> Yes. Matt and I were dating and he had a
film and television company and he had
output deals with Netflix and Lionsgate
and he was making film and television.
Great. My dream. I went to school for
film and TV. I was like, I wanted to be
a director one day. So, I was always
fascinated in his side of the business.
And then I had the podcast. As we
continued to date, Matt was looking to
potentially sell his company. Someone
had come to him and been interested in
buying his company. Throughout that
process, he realized that there was such
a turn happening in media where it would
be more advantageous to hold on to it
and to grow it and grow different
verticals because essentially media
companies now are so different than what
they used to be. Um, these conglomerates
that were more traditional media
companies that you had to have a huge
name like a Disney next to you, now you
are able to kind of bootstrap it and do
it yourselves and then you can sell it
for even more. So Matt was like, "Wow."
Like they were talking about, you know,
they want to acquire event um companies
and they want to acquire podcast
companies. And he's like, I'm sitting
there. I'm like, I could just do all
that myself. And then we're looking at
each other. I'm like, we could do all of
that ourselves. Like why aren't we doing
this? The network's first major signings
were two young women who were major Tik
Tok stars. Alex Earl, who became famous
for her get ready with me videos, party
girl lifestyle and an unfiltered
personality, and Meline Argie, best
known for her storytelling style Tik Tok
videos. A majority of where we were
initially making money was on the
podcast side as we signed podcasters. We
make money off of AdSense. Call Her
Daddy is kind of like the mothership
where we have my initial like huge deal
that I get every 3 to four years and
that is mostly on AdSense. Yes, both
women launched podcasts under the
Unwwell network. Alex launched Hot Mess
with Alex Earl, while Meline launched
Pretty Lonesome with Meline Argie. Alex
later added other personalities to the
Unwwell ecosystem, including Harry Jy
and his Boyfriend Material podcast.
>> His love life is talked about all over
the internet. He was on Dancing with the
Stars despite not being able to dance.
He once wrangled a kangaroo with his
bare hands.
>> I did what? has your favorite reality TV
boy reformed. He can make a woman
fall in love at first sight. He is Harry
Jy boyfriend material.
>> The reason that I have been able to do
what I do for so long is because of the
actual like sweat equity that I have
poured [music] into all the IPs that I'm
building and it's because I love it. The
network's biggest initial controversy
came through Alex Cooper's relationship
with Alex Earl. And on the back end of
all of that controversy, even bigger
allegations about Unwell's work
environment started to surface. But
going back in time before this fallout,
Alex Cooper and Alex Earl, who are both
named Alex, first began working together
in August of 2023 when Alex Cooper
announced Alex Earl as one of the first
talents who signed to the Unwalled
Network. The announcement was promoted
through a joint Instagram post
captioned, "Two blondes walk into a
boardroom. The world is not ready."
Variety reported that Earl had signed on
to develop a variety of multiplatform
concepts and projects alongside fellow
creator Maline Argie. The following
month, Earl's podcast officially
premiered under Unwell. But by February
of 2025, rumors of tension between the
two Alex's began to surface. Fans
noticed that Alex Earl skipped the
Unwell Super Bowl party in New Orleans
despite being in town and still part of
the network, it seemed. But later that
month, Unwell had dropped hot mess and
renounced all rights to the podcast so
Earl could pursue other opportunities.
Alex Earl briefly addressed the
speculation in a Tik Tok saying, "I also
have no idea what's going on."
>> And obviously there's been a lot of
chatter online this week um about me and
work and I also have no idea what's
going on. So, in May of 2025, Alex Earl
spoke to the Wall Street Journal
magazine about her departure and
bringing back hot mess, saying that it
was behind the scenes a little bit of a
hot mess. Fast forward to August of
2025, Alex Earl posted a Tik Tok video
saying that her astrology app, her
co-star, is letting her start shiz. I'm
sorry, this just turns into a whole
mess. My co-star told me that I can
start today. It told me to. It said
you could start some So, I mean,
Coaster told me to.
>> The following month, fans believed Alex
Cooper subtly referenced Alex Earl's
August Tik Tok. At the time, Alex Earl
was on Dancing with the Stars and had
just performed a dance to Britney Spears
song, Circus. Alex Cooper's caption
read, "How much time do you have cuz we
could go all night?" and the video was
set to Britney Spears Circus, the same
song that Earl had danced to on Dancing
with the Stars. Eight months later, the
feud reignited when fans noticed Alex
Earl had reposted a Tik Tok video
criticizing Alex Cooper and accusing
Call Her Daddy of profiting from woman's
pain. I would honestly compare Alex
Cooper to an ambulance chaser. [music]
Like, you just had the most horrific
accident of your life. You're, you know,
hanging on by a thread. don't know if
you're gonna make it. And she's the
first one there. She
wants to get the exclusive interview.
She wants to be there when you're
vulnerable and you're broken down. And I
wish that more women,
celebrities, female athletes, reality
stars, mo anyone, anyone who's a woman
on planet Earth, I wish they would stop
making that their first stop. She is
profiting off of women's like heartaches
and failures and you know all these
awful things that happen to women. She's
profiting off of it. That's not girl
power. People immediately noticed this
repost. Alex Cooper responded with her
own Tik Tok tagging Alex Earl and
calling out what she described as
passive aggressive reposts. She
challenged Alex Earl to explain the
issues saying that she had nothing to
hide. The internet exploded.
Alex Earl.
Hey girl.
The passive aggressive repost and the
likes and the commenting on things.
I got to call you out here.
You're going to need to get specific and
just say what you got to say about me.
I'm out. This is over.
Have a good Monday, everyone.
Alex Earl was at Coachella at the time
and later reposted Alex Cooper's video
commenting okay on it and later shared a
Tik Tok of herself reacting to the call
out after Coachella.
Hey guys,
you guys know [clears throat] I don't
usually address this kind of stuff
because
>> is it funny? It feels like a waste of
time and honestly,
>> no,
>> it's embarrassing to participate in this
other people and just say it [music]
yourself. What's the beef?
>> Okay. [laughter]
>> And unsurprisingly, shortly after this
whole feud erupted, Dave Portoi decided
to weigh in again between Alex Cooper
and another woman's beef. As if once
again, a man is needed to explain or
sort out the drama between two women.
Dave talked about the drama sometimes in
some very sunburnt Tik Tok videos.
>> I said in my original Alex Earl versus
Alex Cooper. I thought it it started the
the ruckus started around Carl's Jr.
Super Bowl ad. Um Carl's Jr. actually
commented then deleted. Come on Carl,
the internet is forever being like it
was only ever Alex.
You can't be right 100% of the time.
discussed the feud in an episode of
Chicks in the Office podcast because of
course we need more podcast discourse.
It kind of feels like podcasted. In my
opinion, Dave has no idea what he's
talking about and is just getting
involved for the love of the game. And
Alex Cooper posted this video on TikTok
and she's basically like, "All right,
Alex Earl at Alex, what's going on? Why
don't you tell everyone what's
happening?" Do you know a little bit of
what's happening? So, I've heard her dad
and and this isn't a knock on her dad,
but like looking out for her, is like
acting as kind of her agentish and doing
contracts.
>> Dave Portoy claimed that Briana Chickenf
La Paglia, who works with Bartool on the
podcast Plan Brie, told Dave Portoi that
the drama traced back to brand deals and
taking deals from each other. And Briana
called Alex Cooper a mean girl
>> because everyone goes on Caller Daddy
when something horrible happens to them
and then you take advantage of them and
then just blow it to the moon. And I
know a lot of people that went on Caller
Daddy that don't have positive
experience was with her. On April 15th,
Alex Cooper addressed Briana's claims,
claiming that the only time they had
really interacted with one another was
through the DMs, which was a fairly
positive exchange, and that to Alex
Cooper, Briana was just trying to add on
to a dog pile. Briana responded to all
of this on Tik Tok. She ended by saying
that Alex Cooper's Instagram stories
were mean girl 101. Okay, Alex Cooper
just made a Tik Tok about me saying that
she's not a mean girl because we had
nice DMs back when before I found out
everything about this girl. I was a fan
of Alex Cooper before I knew the wrath
of Alex Cooper and what she does
to people and how she treats people. I
am friends with Alex Earl. Alex Earl
told me everything that transpired
between those two years ago at the Super
Bowl. She told me everything from what
Alex Earl told me. Alex Cooper is a
very, very mean person. In that video
that you made, that was the that was
mean girl 101. That was Mean Girl final
boss video.
>> That being said, Alex Earl herself has
never said what took place between her
and Alex Cooper. So, Briana and Dave
Portoi getting involved in adding in all
this speculation never went anywhere.
There have been other people who have
added to the speculation like the social
media account Beetter who had claimed
that they've spoken to people behind the
scenes who had alleged that a lot of
this fallout had taken place over Alex
Earl's manager, a sort of Kim Kardashian
Kris Jenner situation where Alex Earl's
father manages her as her sort of
datager and was unhappy with the
politics of Alex Cooper.
>> Who is one person you go to for business
advice?
>> Definitely my dad. So my dad is my
manager. I started to enter this world.
Um it was a little overwhelming at first
just balancing work and opportunities.
So it's really cool that we get to have
that different dynamic now with our
relationship. When Alex Cooper started
bringing on Michelle Obama and Kla
Harris, Alex Earl's dad didn't like that
because he's right leaning. This caused
a sort of fallout between political
viewpoints which caused a further rift.
Again, all of this is speculation. as
neither women have come forward and
fully confirmed what the fallout was
about after all the hubbhub. All the
while in the background, Simon and
Schustster announced a memoir. This
memoir was titled Daddy Issues by Sophia
Franklin, due to release November 2026.
I'm freaking the f out. I wrote a book.
I couldn't even [laughter]
I couldn't even land the line. I wrote a
book, but I wrote a mother effing book,
y'all. According to the press release,
the book reveals new details about
Sophia Franklin's time on the original
version of Call Her Daddy, including her
fallout with Alex Cooper and how the end
of their friendship led to her becoming
the villain in the internet's messiest
breakup. My story has been told for me,
and if you asked me to write this book 5
years ago, you would have gotten a
different story. fearful, wounded with
something to prove. Sophia said in the
release,
>> I just kind of shut down and I really
numbed myself when all that was
happening. So, I didn't really feel
those emotions in the moment. And it was
like later on that I started to like
kind of let myself feel. It's been 2
years and I am a firm believer in
therapy. I love it. And now I'm now I'm
good. But it was it was really
tough. I'm an author. I'm an author who
sometimes podcasts. What can I say?
According to Duma, both Alex Earl and
her sister Ashton Earl showed their
support by liking Sophia Franklin's
social media post announcing the memoir.
As Alex Cooper's media empire has
expanded, so have the challenges behind
the scenes. Sometimes a massive growth
of a business is not always a good thing
and can be incredibly challenging to
manage. As their company trending grew,
Alex and Matt hired young staffers drawn
to Alex Cooper's brand. Publicly, Alex
described the workplace as positive and
safe. With a work hard, play hard
culture, but Alex's transition to media
executive brought its own ghosts.
Drained by allegations of a toxic work
environment and high turnover. According
to people familiar with the operations,
Alex's busy schedule would often leave
Matt handling day-to-day management. Yet
again, a man behind the scenes of a
woman-ledd brand. And Matt Kaplan
developed a reputation for yelling at
staff. Crew members threatened to walk
off film sets and live tours if Kaplan
did not keep his distance. But he leads
the company, so the cultures destined to
trickle down. And those issues allegedly
surfaced in March of 2026 during the
production of the Unwell Winter Games,
which was a YouTube series in which
influencers competed in different
events.
>> This is THE UNWELL WINTER GAMES.
[screaming]
>> LET'S GO.
>> Before this series launched, reports
described a ton of logistical problems.
Matt Kaplan reportedly bered the staff
on set and threatened to prevent them
from ever working in Hollywood again if
they messed up, which is like classic
toxic Hollywood person. Ew. This led
crew members to file formal complaints
and inform leadership that they would
quit if Matt's behavior continued.
>> Alex Cooper's husband, Matt Kaplan, has
been accused of frequently yelling at
the staff of the couple's production
company. Sources close to Unwell Network
claimed there's constant conflict
between Kaplan and staff members for a
bombshell Bloomberg report published
Monday. Some of that tension appeared
publicly in Call Her Alex, which was
Alex Cooper's documentary about her
first live tour. In one scene, a
production manager threatens to quit,
which Matt Kaplan blamed on the very
demanding schedule. However, a person
who was close to the conflict claimed
that the issue was less about workload
and more about Matt allegedly yelling
and swearing at the staff.
>> Kaplan's alleged behavior comes after
Cooper said in a Marie Claire interview
in 2025 that her door is always open and
she wishes to harbor a very positive and
safe environment for their young staff
as a CEO.
>> The documentary also showed the company
operating in a very rushed high pressure
environment. you know that work hard,
play hard environment as it tried to
build a live show around Alex's brand.
Several highlevel executives have left
unwell, including the company's head of
brand marketing, head of network, its
second in 3 years, and chief growth
officer. Alex Cooper has said unwell
employees around 100 people, but on
LinkedIn at least 20 have marked
themselves as leaving in 2025 and 2026.
At the same time, Unwell has struggled
to build another breakout hit beyond
Call Her Daddy. Three Sirius XMbacked
original shows launched in 2025 and were
cancelled within a year. Things are not
looking good for Unwell. In 2024, Alex
Cooper launched Unwell Beverage. Come la
la la la la la la la la la la la la la
la la la la la la la la la la la la
launch my first product with me in front
of the most powerful men in the world.
Why? Cuz it's a Wednesday and I
feel like it. I'm launching Unwell
hydration. Carrying it a little bit in
style in my Hermes bag. Maybe you're a
that's always going Pilates.
Unwell hydration. Maybe you're a
that's always hung over. Unwell
hydration. Love you. Can't wait for you
guys to get it. It was launched in late
2024 before arriving in Target. And the
drink was marketed as a functional
hydration beverage flavored electrolyte
drinks with added benefits like B
vitamins, green coffee extract, and more
than 700 mg of electrolytes. Just cra
all of that in there. And since then,
Unwell beverages has expanded to include
Unwell caffeine-free, unwell sticks,
powdered drink packets, and has expanded
beyond hydration, releasing Unwell
protein. But it seems like Unwall Energy
is their most known product. But the
early response to Unwalled Beverages was
far from positive. Many fans seemed
underwhelmed by the launch, especially
after Alex had teased it as a major
secret project, and their reactions to
the taste were very mixed. The other day
I went to Target. I have been dying to
get my hands on these. You can smell it
right when you open it.
This one I would rate a four out of 10.
Yeah, you can smell it immediately.
I don't like that. I don't like that.
But I really do love this one. The taste
test reviews were underwhelmed to say
the least, or unwell, one could say.
>> Proven Jay here, and my wife said it
would be a good idea to review the
Unwell energy drink. It is watermelon
juice,
watermelon flavored. So, I like
watermelon. I like flavored watermelon.
Let's give this a try.
I hope it's good.
>> Oh.
Nope. Zero out of five. Don't buy.
>> I basically bought every single flavor
of Unwell I could find on the shelf. We
have kiwi pineapple.
I'm not going to lie, it's kind of
growing on me. It tastes like someone
took a really delicious beverage,
threw it out to sea, then you while
swimming you stumbled upon it and took a
sip.
It's just not great. I I'll give it a
four.
Smells like nail polish remover.
No. How'd they up cherry lime?
While some took issue with Alex working
with Nestle, a company that has faced a
lot of criticism over its business
practices, something that I really want
to cover on my second channel. More
recently, Alex Cooper said Unwell is
focusing more on acquiring existing
products, putting the company in a
competitive market against larger, more
established players. Call Her Daddy
remains Unwell's biggest program. The
company's ad agency has landed major
clients like Google with Alex saying
that part of the business is close to
matching the podcast revenue. Our first
partner was Google and it's a multi-year
deal which was so incredible for Unwell
to be able to um you know work with a
company of that stature. Unwell hired
new executive leadership like hiring
Joanne Bradford as president. Bradford
who had served as strategic adviser to
Unwell since June of 2025. Ellen
Rockamura who previously worked at the
Ellen DeGeneres show joined as an
executive producer. On May 17th, Alex
revealed that she and her husband Matt
Kaplan are expecting their first child
together.
>> I don't know what it is about pregnancy,
but the way that I crave donuts.
>> But even her personal milestone,
pregnancy with her husband, Matt Kaplan,
was met with the echoes of her past as
old clips of her mocking other mothers
resurfaced. Only 2 weeks prior to Alex's
announcement, influencer Lauren Burnham
Luendy, hope I pronounced that name
right, had gone public with something
she'd been carrying for years, a
reoccurring segment on Caller Daddy in
which they made jokes about Lauren's
baby. 2 weeks later, as more and more
people are finding out about that
controversy, Alex announces her
pregnancy, turning Alex Cooper's
pregnancy into an internet controversy.
Sharing the news on Instagram, Alex
Cooper kept the caption simple, writing,
"Our family," with a photo of her and
Matt in which her baby bump is visible.
[music]
At the time, the piece about Matt
Kaplan's actions within the company had
just released, and there had been a lot
of speculation about Alex and Matt's
relationship alongside Matt contributing
to a toxic work environment. Sources
close to the pair told people that there
was no truth to rumors of marital
tension, but Alex Cooper's pregnancy
announcement was met with a lot of
criticism. On one hand, there were
conservatives like Ben Shapiro who
criticized the pregnancy, writing, "Tell
them marriage is stupid, then get
married and have a baby." In reference
to the early messaging pushed by Caller
Daddy podcast. The thing is, as we've
talked about here, Alex Cooper's outlook
on life has shifted very clearly and
visibly since Sophia's departure from
Caller Daddy and the total rebrand,
which is natural, I'd say. Just as
Alex's podcast changed and evolved, so
did she. And not everyone's path should
end in marriage and pregnancy, the
Spinster life is one I admire greatly.
And it's all to say no one should be
demonized for changing just for the sake
of change itself. On top of that, Alex
has been very open and vocal, especially
about how her feelings towards
motherhood has changed over time. During
an episode with an IIC Carly alum,
Janette McCertie, the two discussed
whether they saw children in their
future. Janette Mccertie said she didn't
want kids at the moment and asked Alex
Cooper the same question. Alex admitted
that in her 20s, she never pictured
herself becoming a mother or getting
married. "Now I got married and I want
kids," Alex joked before explaining that
the shift came after a lot of personal
growth. Um, I don't want kids if that's
what you're asking. Do you want kids?
>> I do. I didn't think I wanted to get
married and I didn't think I wanted to
have kids. Now I got married and I I
want kids.
>> You want kids? Okay.
>> This wasn't the first time that Alex
spoke about starting a family. In a June
2025 episode of Call Her Daddy, Cooper
revealed that she and Matt had decided
to start trying for a baby. All of these
decisions Matt and I went on to make in
lock step together. Marriage, buying a
house, starting a company together, all
of it. We ultimately decided that we
wanted to start trying to get pregnant
last summer.
>> But after getting off birth control for
the first time since Alex was 16, she
began experiencing intense pain and
hormonal changes, which it seems is just
all too common. She paused their plans
and began to question the timing,
especially while balancing her demanding
career. Matt and I have a conversation
and we decide to just put a pause on
getting pregnant because the first
priority was I need to get back to
feeling good and normal. However, on
Alex Cooper's pregnancy announcement,
there were a lot of people commenting
about Lauren Burnham Louis and hopefully
I said that right comments that she had
made two weeks earlier. According to
Lauren, Alex Cooper and Sophia Franklin
had a reoccurring segment on the podcast
in 2019 where they joked about her baby
both before and after she was born.
>> A few years back, Alex Cooper was on
Call Her Daddy podcast and her and her
co-host would they had this regular
segment ongoing and they thought it
would be funny to make fun of our unborn
baby. They took it too far. They made a
regular segment before she was born and
after she was born where they wereizing
our child and talking very
inappropriately and disgustingly about
her. This was ongoing for a very long
time to the point where I wanted to hire
a legal counsel to go after Barcel
Sports for this. Lauren said she had no
issue with Alex and Sophia making fun of
her or her husband, racing driver Ari
Loudike Jr., but felt the pair crossed a
line when the jokes involved their
children.
>> So, they make this Instagram for the
unborn baby. They start making fun of
how they made this Instagram, but then
they start making this lore about the
girl and they're like, Elise is going to
be like on the stripper pole. Lauren
revealed that the situation had upset
her so much that she considered hiring
legal counsel to take action against
Bartol Sports. Lauren said that they
eventually tried to move on after the
segment stopped. Initially, Alex and
Sophia appeared to be mocking Lauren for
creating an Instagram account for her
unborn twins. The audience agreed that
this behavior was downright
exploitative, which of course Lauren
avoids talking about in her own
recounting of this event, but we'll just
move on from that. To Sophia and Alex,
this is exploitative because the baby
could not consent to being turned into
public content. The account treated the
children less like individuals and more
like extensions of their parents'
influencer brand. Lauren added to this
by writing captions from her unborn
twins point of view. While many fellow
Alex and Sophia had a pointing out
Lauren's cringe-worthy content, the
criticism became harder to defend once
Alex and Sophia started framing the
captions as sexual innuendos, which is,
in my opinion, a very disgusting thing
to do. You're claiming that someone is
exploiting their child and then you're
turning around and doing something far
far worse to that woman's child. Why
would you ever do that? Alex and Sophia
shifted into something way more
uncomfortable and far far inappropriate,
interpreting posts about Lauren's unborn
children through a sexual lens. Through
that action alone, it was Alex and
Sophia who were doing the exploiting. At
the time, call her Her Daddy was known
for being provocative and uncensored,
which might be why their comments
slipped through the cracks before Lauren
called attention to them years later.
From the bullied girl in the basement to
the pregnant media mogul, Alex Cooper's
journey illustrates a relentless truth.
To become something more than you ever
dreamed of, you must be willing to
sacrifice parts of yourself and perhaps
a few others along the way. Alex Cooper
is now one of the most powerful women in
digital media. She has a 60 million
podcast deal, a network, a beverage
line, a documentary. She's also building
a family with a baby on the way with
lessons that she's going to pass down
the line. Sophia Franklin has a book
somewhere out there. The original Caller
Daddy episodes still exist. The ones
with both of them laughing, finishing
each other's sentences or sandwiches.
performing a friendship so convincingly
people believed it was real. Maybe it
was. And maybe that's the saddest part.
Thank you for watching if you made it
all the way to the end. Did you watch
the early Call Her Daddy content? If so,
I'd love to know your thoughts on the
evolution of Call Her Daddy. Do you have
a friend who used to watch Call Her
Daddy? Maybe share this video with them
to hear their thoughts. And I hope
you're doing well. I'll see you in the
next video. Stay well till then. Bye.