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[music] in this [singing] moment. Yes. I cannot say what's wrong or right. [music and singing] No, >> it's not hard to fool me. No, [music] >> cuz I'm addicted to [singing] the good life. [music] Lead the [singing] way. I follow. [music] No need [singing] to say I follow. Oh yeah, we got some upset people tonight, boy. I don't know why, man. We going to talk some truth tonight, though. [crying] >> Handcuffs are coming off. What's going on everybody? Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back. Happy Monday, Funday. What a great day to be a CIA man or FBI woman. All right, people. We're going to get straight to it. No chaser. Uh got some announcements to make. One one first and foremost uh we have been doing some really good numbers over here. And that's a tribute to you, the Patreons, you the subscribers, the viewers, the fans. But here's what I need you to do. YouTube has done some updates to their algorithm and their system. And anytime a channel experiences growth like mine, um, the bots kind of go do their thing to make sure the numbers are real. So, do me a favor. If you're not getting the notifications, if you're not getting all the notifications, what you will want to do is you need to unsubscribe and then subscribe and then turn on and then there's a bell, a bell over there. I I got off the phone because I have actually have a YouTube rep that I speak to. The YouTube rep says, "You need to make sure that if you want to get all the broadcast, you learned a lot watching a video channel. Appreciate what you're doing with that." Appreciate it, Alexander. Um, if you want to make sure you're getting all the broadcasts, I mean, all the uh notifications to be in the shows live, you need to have the notifications set to all on my channel. Now, I know there's some people who were like, "Ah, you know, it don't matter whether I involve live or not." Well, that's going to change quite a bit because now YouTube has uh updated to where we can finally see what's going on in the super chat. Uh, shout out to Black Wolf. Shout out to Ike. Shout out to Isaiah Hit Squad in the building. Shout out to Black Wolf again coming through money world. Shout out to W Alfonso trying to be a Henry now. Shout out to Javon. Ready to be told. Ready for the truth to be wielded. Shout out to Nate Taylor. Got your email. Shout out to Alexander Ruff and he comes through with the hundo. When you get a hyundo, you get a bomb. That's what happens. You get a hundo, you get a bomb. We got to get the sound effects and things like that on the same level. Let's go ahead and play the under the current music because tonight we got a serious topic to discuss and I want to make sure that as we get into it that um it gets the the the attention it deserves. One of my most popular videos is one of my most controversial videos. Average men wanting high value men. Do you make what he earns tonight? >> People, uh, let's see how many people have lost their channels this week. Six people have lost their channels this week for take for using my content. I'm not playing with y'all. When I say don't use my content, I mean it. Don't use my my permission. Six channels in two days. Oh, and they were all channels that were monetized. Don't play. Let's see. [music] >> I cannot say what's wrong. [singing] No, it's not [music] hard to fool me. No, cuz I'm addicted to the good life. [singing and music] Yes. Lead the way. [music] I follow. No need [singing] to say no. >> Where we are [music] heading now, baby. I follow [music] through to the edge of [singing] it all. To the edge [singing] of it all. So tell [music] your good night cuz I'll find a better one. [music and singing] Yeah. >> Yeah. Guys, I've had people deciding that they they think they can just come to my platform and copy my content and do what they want to. I got two people in federal court right now. So I'm I'm letting you know folks, I'm not playing with you. I think a lot of folks just think this is a game and they think that these videos are just they want to. When you sign that that uh YouTube form, you got your information out there. I've already I'm not going to say anything. Keep playing. Keep playing if you want to. Now, if you want to use my content, request permission, and if I grant it, you know, cool. If not, I I'll keep taking y'all's money. Anyway, I'mma leave that there. We're the only group of people that feel like that we can just because black people, we have just no chill. It's like, I see it, I'll use it. Nah, you can't have that. >> [music] >> Money world. [music] [music] Money world. >> [music] >> I >> [music and singing] [music] [singing] [music] [singing] [music] >> Money world. Money world. >> [music] >> Money work. [singing and music] [singing] [music] >> [music] [music] [singing] [music] >> Money. [music] Money work. [music] Money work. >> [music] >> The zone [music] money world. [music] Yeah. Yeah. Money [music] world. Money, money, money. [music] Okay. So, what did I get wrong about this topic? >> I'm sorry. I I was trying on um swimsuits and then I saw you were alive because I' had been trying to catch you. So, to be honest, I'm not even sure what the topic is about. >> Oh, you one of them folks. >> [laughter] >> I just recently um discovered you. >> Okay. >> So, I thought it was super interesting what you're doing with the ranking and the rating and all that. Um yeah, I I pretty much know that from watching your other videos, I think I'm probably an what you would say an eternal seven. Probably a six. >> Do you know what the topic is tonight? No, I don't. >> Okay. How old are you? >> 32. >> All right. 32 years old. >> Should I share videos? >> No. What you should do though, sis, is you should know what the topic is before you just call in for the show. >> That's a polite thing to do. >> I agree. But I thought I I went on the live and I saw this woman twerking. So, I thought it was a little bit of different like casual. >> No, ma'am. Ma'am, ma'am, >> just say I didn't give a damn about the topic. I wanted to get what I wanted to get. [gasps] >> It's nothing I don't give. >> Well, yeah, ma'am, because if you saw a woman twerking, all you had to do is look down two inches and see the title on the show. See, I I would prefer you just tell me just say the truth. I really didn't give a damn. I wanted to get what I wanted to get and I didn't want to go on the website to book a consultation. But don't tell me [snorts] you didn't see it and don't know where to look because you're 32. >> I I honestly didn't even think you would let me in the room cuz >> Yeah. >> So you just So again, and the reason I'm doing this, ma'am, is you want something from me, right? >> Possibly. >> Yes, you do want something from me. You've been trying to get into my show to call in to do what? You wanted me to do what? >> I was going to see if you were ranking tonight, but >> Right. So, you want something from me? >> Yes. I would like something from you. >> And you didn't even And is it polite to not even do what I asked? >> No. See, this is what I understand with black women. You treat black men like we're just objects. I'm older than you and I running a show in a business. And you know that. >> You didn't even take the time to read the show. You just clicked in and jumped in and said, "Well, I'mma take a shot and then I'mma just come in and ask him what I want." What if I was talking about something extremely sensitive? Would this be appropriate? >> Yeah, you're right. >> Well, I know I'm I know I'm right. But the thing is, you know that, too. >> Honestly, I was waiting to get in the queue and then go back, but I just wanted to enter the room so that if there was a long line, I could make the queue. That's all. I respect your show and what you're doing. I honestly didn't think I was gonna get through. >> You want a rating because of what? What are you trying to find out? >> Uh if you were ranking tonight. >> Okay. I am. What are you trying to find out? >> Oh, okay. Yeah, that's what I wanted to know. >> You want a ranking to what end though, ma'am? Are you trying to find a husband? >> Yes, sir. >> Okay. Um, so that's the end to which you wanted a ranking. You wanted to know where you rank to see basically what your looks are worth. That's kind of what it is you're asking, right? >> Yes. That's exactly it. >> Did you go to college? >> I didn't finish. No. >> Okay. So, I'm going to say this again. Are you working right now? I mean, pre-COVID. >> Yes, I still work. >> Okay. What I'm saying right now is, ma'am, you wouldn't come into a company meeting cuz you had something on your mind, bust into the meeting, and then just start talking about what you wanted to talk about. I know you know. I know you understand that. And the thing is, if we can't treat each other with a base level of respect, what's the point? That's all I'm trying to get you to understand. And even when you say it, you you still hedge back and act like, "Yeah, it's not that big a deal." And ma'am, it is. And all I said is, if you just be honest and say, "You know what? I just took a shot. I wanted to get in there and see if I get a quick ranking. I didn't really pay attention to the show or the topic of the show. At least that's honest. >> Right. >> 32. How tall are you? >> 5'5. >> And what dress size? >> An eight. >> Hey, what did you weigh at the What was the last time you weighed yourself? >> Couple of days ago. 160. >> Okay. So, what does that make you as far as your weight? >> Overweight. >> Okay. 55 160. Um, do you know what the BMI scale is? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh, BMI scale. Um, have you ever calculated your BMI? >> Yes, I think it's 27. >> Okay. And how much is And how much is it to be obese? >> 30 or 32? >> All right. And you say you're 160. Okay. Okay. So, you're you're you're close to obese. Um, have you any children? >> No. >> Okay. And what would you rank yourself on a scale from 0 to 10? Just your face. You can't use seven. >> Just the face. So, >> uh, I'll just say a six. Okay. Um, what's the longest relationship you've ever had? >> Uh, seven years in my 20s. >> Seven years in your 20s. At what age was it over? >> Around 28. >> 28. So from 21 to 28 you were with somebody. >> Okay. >> Yes. And then from 28 to 30 I was with someone for two years. >> Okay. So obvious question is going to be the guy you were with from 21 to 28. What did he do for a living? >> He uh he was in school for a while and then >> what did he do for a living? Just give me the title ma'am. See this is a simple question. customer service. >> Okay. You didn't want to say that. Why >> Because he had lots of different different jobs. >> Okay. 27 customer service. And do you want to be a do you you want to be a wife? Do you want to have any children? >> Yeah. >> How many? >> Two. two. Do you want to you want to have to work to pay significant bills? >> Yes, I already do. >> Do you want to have to work after you're pregnant to pay significant bills with a husband? >> Yeah, I'm okay with working the same amount that I do now. >> Okay. So, you're okay with h giving birth and then having 12 weeks off and getting right back to the grind. Putting your 12 to put your 12 week old newborn in a daycare and paying a thousand plus dollars a month for a newborn. >> Oh, with family. Yeah, I would have family watch them for her. >> Okay. All right. So, you you're you're all right with working good. Better than that. So, I got to ask you, why didn't you marry a seven-year relationship? Why didn't he Why didn't he ask you to marry you? [snorts] >> Well, >> did he propose to you? >> Did he propose? >> No, I'm going to say no. There was because there was a proposal out of desperation because he didn't want me to leave him. I mean, did he drop to one knee with a ring in public and propose to you? >> No. >> Then that's not a proposal. >> But why didn't he propose to you in in year one? I mean, >> I guess a lot of excuses. >> Okay. But you stayed for seven years. Move on to the next relationship. You went from one and how long were you out of one relationship before you got in the other one? >> Not long. Probably six months. >> Okay. So, you just monkey branched. >> So, you obviously did not heal. I did. >> Yeah. You obviously did not heal or did not process. >> So, and why didn't you get married to the second guy? >> I found out he was cheating. Was this after the second date? >> Then I found out he was cheating. >> Ma'am, you were together two years. Black women tend to act like I'm asking a question. Why didn't you get married? And you found out he was cheating into the second year. There was an entire relationship before that happened. Why didn't y'all get married? >> Oh, within the first year. >> Yes. How long does it take? How long does How long does it take >> from meeting someone to deciding to marry them to get married? How long do you think that takes? >> Well, now I know it doesn't take that long. >> How long do you think that takes or less? >> Well, then I I admit I was >> How long do you think that takes? >> See, I'm asking I'm asking you a question. Direct question. How long do you think that takes? Oh, within the first a year. >> Okay, man. I'm asking you these questions in part because of the way you came onto the show. I'm trying to assess who you are. >> I get that. And you you you seem to be a woman that you one if you were with a guy who did customer service and I don't know what that means. Uh was he younger than you or older than you? >> Older. >> How much older? >> Uh the two years. Not even two years, but a little older. >> But why? So you were just wasting time. Yeah, I was super immature. I was going by looks back then. Not really. >> You mean you were super immature? >> I just accepted excuses. >> Super immature like calling into a show, not caring about the damn topic, just wanting what you want. You >> never said I didn't care about it. No, >> ma'am. You didn't have to say it, but you did not. It's relevant. I never waste my time. So if I'm going to do it, I'm doing for a reason. >> Okay. >> So yes, I can see that you were you raised [clears throat] by your father. >> Uh until he was deported. Yeah. >> What age was that? >> I was 17. Your father's in your house till 17? >> Yes. >> Where's your mother? >> It's like 5 minutes away. >> Oh, Jesus Christ, ma'am. I didn't mean geographically, but anyh who, what do you what do you do for a living? >> I'm a project coordinator. >> And what is your job? What is your job description? So I uh when we have different >> Did that require a college degree to do that? >> No, it didn't. >> How much are you making annually? >> Wow, we're going there. >> Yeah, unless you want to pay for a Here's what you could do. You could easily go book it and pay for it. See? Yes. It all matters if you want my rating because I'm trying to understand who you are, what you bring to the table. >> Okay. I I have seen other shows and >> Well, ma'am, due respect, you've already you already came in this thing backwards. So, I mean, honestly, you don't want to answer because you're not going you're probably not going to like my answer anyway. So, I really could care less how much you make. Obviously, you're not too proud of it. At the end of the day, if you talking about you want to get married, guys are going to want to know what they're getting with you. That's what they really want to know, what they're getting with you. Uh, you rate yourself as a six. That's that's I will give you closer to an average five. And you're overweight. >> Okay. >> So, your relationships, you have not asked for anything. You've you've dealt with, you know, middling guys. So, the expectation all of a sudden getting married. Who wants to marry an immature 32 year old woman? >> I gotcha. >> I see that you also use the fact that I was unprepared against >> No, it's not the fact that you're unprepared. The fact it's not the fact that you're unprepared. It's the fact that >> it's the fact that I have a show. I have an audience and you didn't give a damn about what that was. You just came in here wanting what you wanted and I said that's cool. Just at least say it. You kept trying to make excuses for it like >> Yeah, but I've seen this happen before in your other lives and it wasn't this >> No, this is and see what I'm and I did this to prove a point. See, women like this often blame their inability to progress in life on external situations. When when confronted with the reality of their choices, their decisions, they tend to shut down. then get defensive. You guys have seen it. Go back and play it. I've I've just ask you questions and let the you show up. >> Okay. But I'm also saying [clears throat] hello. >> Hi >> 9008. What's going on 908? >> Hey, I'm Bean. >> You who? >> Bean. >> Van. V E N E. >> V E N E. What do you have for me? >> Um, I'm just wondering what kind of options would be available to me. I'll give you a quick synopsis. Um, I'm 42 years old. Last year I used to weigh 23 pounds. >> None. >> No, I'm not finished. >> None. Yeah, you are. >> Last year. >> Yeah, you are. >> Last year. This year I weighed 165. >> No, ma'am. I said you're finished. You're finished. >> I'm done. >> Yep. >> There's nothing left for me. >> Not realistically. >> Thank you. >> I'm not going to lie to you >> because I'm 42. >> For See, it's the age and the weight. And then if you have any children. >> So my kids are >> Okay, ma'am. I don't need to I Okay, I'm going to be honest. It's the And I don't want to be rude sound like rude, but see when you over 40 and you're obese and you or even if you're coming down, you still can go the other way and then you have children. Okay. The only way that there would ever be any chance for you is if you were gorgeous. And if you were gorgeous, you wouldn't be calling. So, I need the people to understand, I'm not being rude. It's just often times I'll get women who want to call in, they want to tell me their story, and then I know where it's going to end. Ma'am, you kind of knew uh that in order to overcome just your age alone, you're going to have to be very feminine, very submissive, very cooperative. You have to bring a lot to the table. That's before your before your weight and before your children. >> And your children are a messy detail for a man. I I don't mean and you can love your children, but we but people don't look at our kids the same way. >> So that's why when you asked, I'm like Um, and were you married in the past? >> Uh, yeah, for 10 years. >> Why'd you divorce? >> Uh, he wouldn't work. >> What do you mean he wouldn't work? >> He wouldn't work. Um, he had You mean he sat on the he was in the house all day while you were going to work? >> Yeah. >> Okay. And what did he do in the house? clean the house. >> And what else did he do? >> He cooked. >> What else did he do? And when the children were there, what did he do with them? >> He was good with the kids. >> So, in other words, you had you Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. You You called. So, I I'll help. Okay. But you had a husband >> and you were working. >> Yes. >> Okay. Were you in Did you get foreclosed or get evicted? It was very difficult. You >> No, ma'am. Ma'am, ma'am, ma'am. I asked a specific question. Did you get foreclosed or evicted? >> Well, we were lucky. We had >> Did you get foreclosed? See, another problem with black. If you're going to if I'm going to talk to you, ma'am, you're going to answer my questions directly, please. >> Neither. >> Okay. So, you weren't foreclosed or evicted. You just did not have the easiest of times. >> Right. >> Right. But you were married. And how long were you guys married? >> 10. >> 10 years. How long you been divorced? >> Eight. >> Eight. And were you the same? And were you 200 lb in the marriage? >> Were you a big girl in the marriage? >> I don't think so. I think maybe like 10 lbs less. >> 10 lb less? >> I'm smaller now. >> No, no, ma'am. Ma'am, you you're 10 lbs less than what? You were taller or smaller? >> I was a little smaller. >> How tall are you? >> 5'4. >> 5'4. And are you trying to tell me you weren't 200 and something pounds in the marriage? >> That's That's correct. I think I weighed like between the 170s and the 180s. So you were still morbidly obese? >> Yes. >> Okay. So it really does not matter. Don't play semantics. >> And what did you do for what do you do for a living? >> Um I work in education. >> A what? >> I work in education. >> A teacher. >> Something like that. Yes. >> I don't know you, ma'am. I just >> I help support though. I'm I'm I assist them. So, you're clerical. >> Okay, that's fair to call it. >> I don't care. What do you call What is your title, ma'am? >> See, when you ladies call up here, understand, let me explain something. When you ladies call up here and ask me for my advice, >> if you don't want to answer these on on air, you could always go to my website and book your own one-on-one session and pay the fee. But if you're going to be on my show, you have to answer the questions. >> That's only what a polite guest would do. I didn't you I I don't No one knows you. No one can see you. I'm trying to understand what it is to help you the best I can. >> Teacher, so aid. >> You're a teacher's aid, right? So, did you have to go to college to get that? >> Did you need a four-year degree? >> I do have one. >> Did you need a four year? No. Did you need a four? I want you guys to pay attention. I want you to understand how much black women over 30 like to deflect when questions that they don't want to answer. Every time I ask her a direct question that she's not proud of the answer, it's just this neo [ __ ] You have a degree, but it came after. You got a four-year. You didn't need a four-year degree to be a teacher's aid. Granted, so you were a high school grad. Maybe you had an associate. You married a guy at what age? >> God, I was so young. Um, 24, I think. >> 24. And how old was he? >> 28. >> Is he the father of all your children? >> Yes. >> All right. So 24 28 and he was lazy according to you. He would not work but he did take care of the house. So you guys had flipped roles. You had an average job and he was an average housewife >> pretty much >> right. Hold on. Hold on. Hold on. >> But then you but 10 years later 10 years into it you divorced him because he was just it won't work. Uh so you're saying he never worked during the marriage. He didn't collect one paycheck. >> Very little. >> I ask. No. See? No. No. No. See, I know how women play these things. Did he work? >> Did he have a W2? Did he file taxes? >> Did he Did he have a W2? And did he file taxes? >> Yeah. >> All right. He just did not make as much as you made or was not fully employed. I'm not judging it. Just trying to understand it. See, often women like to paint men in a lesser position. But the net net of it, man, hold on. Net net of it is net net of it is you've been divorced for eight years. Has anyone asked you to marry them since then? >> No. >> Right. Have you had a serious relationship since then? Like engagement? >> I don't think so. No. I'm going say no. >> No. No. So you are So are you are you still doing the same job at teachers aid? >> Yes. >> Okay. So the only thing that has changed since you divorced your husband is you've got an older pretty much. >> Where's he at? >> Who? >> Your ex-husband? >> I don't know. >> Really? He's the father of your how many children? One, two, three. >> Two. >> Two. So you don't know where the father of your two children is? >> He's living his life. >> So how old is your oldest? 18, >> right? >> 18. >> So, and he just turned 18. How old is your youngest? >> 15. >> So, and then you've been divorced for eight years. So, 10. >> Yeah. >> 10 and seven. And you don't know where their father is? >> No, I know. He's living his life. You know, we don't really um interact much, >> right? Do kids see their father >> all the time. >> Right. see their father all the time. H So would you say he's a pretty good father? >> I would. I would. >> Okay. So you had a you were married to a man who was a good father who took care of the house, who cooked, clean, and then even post divorce is still actively involved in his children's life. You are an average educated woman doing an average job and you are a and you are twice the weight of the average that a 5 foot4 woman should be. >> I'm 165. I'm not twice the weight. Maybe >> Okay. Okay. You're right. Not now. Not now. Not now. But not now. But dur But before you were two But before you were plus 200 lb. >> That's not true. >> Okay, I can run the tape back. How much did you say you weigh when you first came on? >> I said last year I've been divorced for eight years. So I fluctuate. So that was my biggest point. But >> your biggest point was how much? >> Two or three. >> Okay. >> Split the difference. Ma'am, how about this? Let's not get hung up on the particular pound because I know it makes a difference to you, but it doesn't make a difference of this conversation. I got to ask, >> you're an average sounding woman. >> Why should you have more than what you had? >> Oh wow. I just want to know is there any hope. That's >> No. And I'm going to tell you why there. And what I said was no. And as I started to roll down this line of questioning, what it sounds to me is though you had a man that the reason you divorced him because he was not making a lot of money. But you were never bankrupt. >> Hold on. Hold on. >> But wait, let me >> No. >> Okay. There's a difference between >> No, I need you to >> There's a difference between not making >> He said you were never evicted or foreclosed. You had the husband you had. And honestly, I think anybody with any sense would say you had a better situation when you were married. I don't understand, ma'am. You don't you don't like the fact that he did not work. But did he work before? Was he fully employed? Was he like this go-getter prior to your marriage? >> I don't think so. >> No. No, ma'am. I don't I can't hear I don't think so from a grown 40 plus year old woman. Was he a go-getter prior to you saying I do? >> I see. I don't think we knew each other well enough. >> Oh Jesus Christ. He was 28 years old. You were 24. >> Did he have a job? >> Uh he was in school at that time. He was in college. >> So when you ask do you have a chance? >> This is when somebody starts ask when a man starts asking you about your past. >> How does this sound? That's why I'm calling you. You're the expert. >> Well, well, I'm trying to tell you, but you're rejecting it. A man's going to ask you about your about your dating and marital history >> because you're say you're saying, "I'm a I'm a woman that got married at 24." And the way you're trying to frame this is that he just would not work. And you like you like you mar >> like you married the guy without knowing him. You were together for 10 years. >> That's really what happened. That's what happened. We really >> What happened? You know what happened, ma'am? Well, I'm going to tell you what I think happened. >> It sounds like you're a lot It sounds like you're like a lot of women who call my channel and you got too big for your britches. You thought you should get more. Go back to a video I did. Kevin does a one-on-one with a married woman, 5 foot4, 200 and some odd pounds. Another teacher just like you, talking about how she could level up and leave her husband. >> She was hella average, too. >> See, the problem is, man, you shouldn't have divorced your husband. You'd have been better off still with this man cuz you're both broke. You're both broke. You're both broke. And you're not better off by yourself. If you were, you wouldn't be calling some guy on YouTube. You know, you should have stayed with him, but you divorced him for a reason. It's not like you can say you divorced him and you went on to a hot like like you married a rich man or a man doing something else. You've just been alone. You've gone backwards. And what you said is your children are still seeing their father. >> It's not like he just went away. See, you don't you I think you know cuz I start asking you more questions about him. I think you realize that you might have made an error. Intermission. Let's get this money up. Get these likes up. Look at mommy. Mommy, [music and singing] [music] money. [singing] >> [singing] [music] >> We're about to open the call line. Let's see what we got going on. Oh man, we don't even have the likes up over [music] a thousand. Oh man, we got to get the likes way up. [music] on my way. >> Oh, let me help this chick [music] out. [music] >> Bye. [music] >> [singing] [music] >> moderators. [music] Time out any of these crazy people talking about the best from anything else. None of that time. No time for that. Come on. Again. It's only a problem. It's only a problem if you're outspoken. [music] >> He shouldn't be saying these kind of things. We've got right to reason to be angry >> and and unhappy. >> It ain't our fault. >> Cool. Ain't nobody said it was. >> Nobody going to put up with it [music] though. Especially not me and Hoop had to work to get to the next level. [music] >> [music] >> Luna in divorcing your husband because the open dating market has women have been told that it's so easy and you got out here after being married divorced at 34 years old at 5'4 as a teacher's aid and an overweight woman with two kids and no one has been serious with you. That's the market. >> Have you ever considered reconciling with your husband? >> Hope basically saying there's no hope, right? >> Well, well, no. You've already won though. So, ma'am, no. Ma'am, no. Ma'am, what I need you to understand is this. >> You've already had You already won. You got the husband for you. He just wasn't the one on paper that you want. Why? See, what you didn't say is he was a drug addict and beating your ass and cheating on you. He just wasn't working and earning the kind of money. But you didn't say he was sitting on the couch. He was an active house husband. Why didn't you just go rec reconcile with him and make a life? You already made babies. I mean, it's not like you're a nuclear physicist, ma'am. You're a teacher's aid. But but but honestly listening to you is almost like I could do better. Okay, prove it. >> No, I didn't say that. That's why I'm asking you. Is there any >> Go back to your husband. Help that. Pick up the phone and speak. >> I've been told that. >> Huh? >> I've been told that. I've been told that before. >> Well, guess what? And and guess what? You couldn't afford this session the way you're And I'm And [clears throat] I'm saying that because take the advice from somebody who has no dog in it. You need to go back. >> Okay. >> Or you're 160 lbs right now, right? >> Yes. >> All right. >> Mhm. >> As we age, injuries and things like that happen. Maybe you maybe you stay 160, but I doubt it. The likelihood is we continue to age as we get older. Health issues occur. You know, I don't know if you're on blood pressure medication, if you're pre-diabetic, whatever. I don't know what your physical history is like, but you do not want to age as an overweight woman by herself. This is the time where you need someone around. You have history with this man. Ma'am, I'mma tell you what a lot of women wouldn't tell you. You need to pick that phone up and reconcile with your husband because he does not sound like he's a catch and you don't sound like you're a catch either. But together you guys make sense. Stop looking at the TV. Stop looking at Disney. Stop looking at these Instagram and what's supposed to be. The lady on my channel last night said that she's listened to so many women who left their husbands because they were looking at other people and then judging their husbands. You said your husband cooked, clean, took care of the kids. You said he was a good father and you divorced him. the nerve of you. >> Well, thank you for your perspective. >> No, but I want to hear what you think about it. >> I think there is some there is some truth to to what you're saying. I definitely um I I definitely see it. There's some truth to it. Definitely. >> Well, I got another question. Would he take you back? [clears throat] >> I'm really I I try not to show any, you know, interest. >> I mean, >> ma'am, I just asked you a question. Would he Would he take you? >> I don't think so. I mean, if I maybe >> You don't think so? You don't think so? >> I said maybe. Okay. Maybe. Maybe. >> Okay. So, here's the here's gonna be the hard question. Did you Did you run him down or talk bad about him to other people and or your children? >> I'm sorry. >> Did you talk bad about him? Run him down to people or your kids? >> Uh maybe in the in the beginning of the divorce. >> Right. Right. Right. So basically your ex-husband, what's between you and him is him knowing that he was a good father and took good care of you, the house, and the kids. He didn't earn the way you wanted to. Listen, listen, listen. If you had all the answers, you wouldn't be here. Please, I think you you had a good husband. I you had a good father, a man who cooked, clean, and all that other kind of stuff. He didn't earn the way you wanted him to. And it did not look like what's marketed to us. But these kind of relationships happen everywhere. You divorced him for no other reason other and the reason you gave is cuz he wouldn't work. All right. But then you don't talk about him like you have respect for him. Inevitably, you insulted this man. You you put this out in the world. He heard how you spoke about him between you guys and in public. It got back to him. Your kids have had to hear this stuff. So, he probably has hard feelings towards you. That's the gulf between you. So, even if you decided to say that makes perfect sense, you would have to fix what you broke. And that is where your ego and your pride is keeping you stuck. Got a lot of ego. That's why when you That's why regardless if if I knew why I was right or not, I was right when I said there's no there's no hope for this outside of that ego and pride. Have you ever said, "Hey, man, maybe I was a little too hard. My bad. Even after the divorce, I got to tell you, you still take care of the kids." When I talk about you, he's out living his own life, doing his own thing. You make it just seem like this dude some just just this this this fig in the wind just twirling around and that's not the truth. >> Is it? >> Well, is it? Is it? >> He's a part of the He is an active dad, but I stay out the picture. >> I don't give a damn about He's an active dad. That's all he has to do because you divorced him, >> right? >> You didn't call You didn't say he's an act when I said what is he doing? You didn't say he's an active dad. I had to freaking pull that out of you. What is he doing? What does he work? I don't know. What is he doing? I don't know. He's out there living his own life. See, a woman who you did not give that man any credit. You did not say he's an active father. You've not said one nice thing about this man. This man ain't [ __ ] to you. And ma'am, honestly, he sounds like he's kind of too good for you. Okay. See what I mean? This per this this power couple [ __ ] A man who was Mr. Mom. White folks made a movie about this. But a black man does it, he ain't [ __ ] A black man does it, he ain't about he ain't [ __ ] Okay, I'm serious. And I doubt that you'll ever hear any women tell her, "Yeah, girl, do whatever. Whatever." 22, 24, 28 and ain't had no success and sitting up on this phone like you're a teacher's aid. I need a lot of our women to ask where do where where do you get all this arrogance from? I mean, y'all really think y'all are the [ __ ] when you're average normal. Normal people aren't the [ __ ] But this is what happens when you run around telling everybody you're a queen and you're a queen and you deserve your best life and you deserve whatever. And this is what it reaps. It reaps the woman her age, her weight, going it alone until death. Nope. Y'all don't think about that when y'all out here saying, "Don't hurt no feelings or don't say it that way or don't say it this way." But you're not there when they give her the type one, type two diabetes diagnosis. You're not there when she's on the on the blood pressure medication. You're not there when she can't pay for cuz she's a teacher. That means it's in the probably in the public sector. Excuse me. These people aren't rich. What happens if she and she's a teacher's aid? I mean, you you're having a your career is here. She's one budget cut away. >> Hi, Kevin. >> How are you? >> I'm doing well. >> What do you got for me on the topic? >> [laughter] >> Well, >> well, first off, do you do you have a Hold on. Do you have a child? >> Yes, I do. I have two, actually. >> Have you been married? >> Yes, I have. >> Okay, go ahead. >> So, I got married at 21. Um, got divorced in 2013. So, I've been divorced for seven years, but I've been dating in between um those seven years. Um, I I'm hearing everything you're saying and it's kind of sinking in like, wow, [laughter] where do I fit? >> So, let me So, you got you got married at what age? >> 21. >> You got divorced at what age? >> I was what? 20. It didn't last long. I was what? 28. >> 28. And you've been And you've been dating for >> Actually, not 28. I'm sorry. I got divorced at 25. Okay. Sorry. 25. Correct. >> So married at 21, divorced at 25. You have two children, >> correct? >> Why did you guys divorce? >> Infidelity. Um, he was >> How long How long did you cheat? >> No, not at all. Not at all. Yeah. He had two kids within the marriage, so >> Okay. Well, damn. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. I had to do what I had to do. >> All right. Well, you know, that's I got to say that's grounds. Um but um in the last three years of dating, has anyone taken you seriously enough to actually go buy a ring? >> No. >> Okay. I'm quite sure. >> I've been proposed to prior to wedding to to being married um once >> but >> at 18 but not after the divorce. No. >> Okay. When you say you were proposed to a guy actually produced a ring and dropped to a knee? Yes. Yes. >> So you know what it mean? So So you have real life experience with a man who knows what he wants. >> Yes. >> Do are men approaching you with that kind of energy? >> Um pre uh men from the past that I've dated earlier before I got married. Yes. >> Are they approaching you with the let's hook up energy or let's get married energy? >> Let's get married energy. But I don't feel um we're necessarily compatible. Um I I just feel >> Let me Let me flesh this out. Let me flesh this out. I gotta [laughter] flesh this out. >> Okay. >> You mean men from your past that know you were married and divorced and have children? >> And you telling me is it one man, two men, three men? How many men? >> I wouldn't. It's one [laughter] guy. Okay. One guy. And you know him from what? College, high school? What? I met him at a social event. I was about 17 when I met him. >> So, high school, college years. Okay. >> Correct. >> All right. And are you physically attracted to him? >> No. >> What does he do for a living? >> He is a deputy. >> Okay. Like a law enforcement officer? >> Yes. Law enforcement. Correct. >> And what do you do for a living? >> I am an entrepreneur. I have I own two businesses. >> That don't mean nothing to me. What does that mean? >> No. [laughter] >> You've been entrepreneur selling uh uh hemp and in uh Vital. >> No. [laughter] >> What does that mean? >> I run a talent and performing arts agency and a cleaning service now. >> All right. So, but the question is I mean but All right. But okay. The guy you're not attracted to, but then other guys out on the market. Ma'am, you know what it is. guys are approaching you with the less Netflix and chill, >> but they're not coming at you with the I want to take on your two kids with your ex-husband with two kids out of wedlock, >> right? >> Uh but you say a guy from your past >> Yeah. >> And you don't take him seriously because what is he not making stable money? >> No, it has nothing to do with the money. Um, he's actually uh currently engaged but is not happy. He just did it because he got the woman that he's with pregnant. And I just >> Holy Jesus Christ. What? >> I don't want to entangle I don't want to get into those type of situations. >> Okay. So, let me just say let me just say this way. Just say this way. We attract what we are. Have you had counseling or therapy? >> Yes, I've had counseling and therapy. >> And how and >> after? >> Huh? >> After the divorce, I did. I mean, not for not for the divorce, but just for personal counseling, just for you issues. >> Yes, I have. >> Okay. So, let's get on back to dating because >> you're out dating. Have any men that you've recently met post divorce >> been approaching you with any serious energy? >> Oh man. Um, >> no, >> not really. >> Right. And why do you think that is? I feel that they don't want to take on what I, you know, all that I have. >> You know, >> as you're saying, you know, I just think it's a lot of >> baggage, for a lack of better word. >> So, let's go through the stats. How tall are you? >> I am 5'4. >> Dress size. >> Huh? >> Dress size? >> Dress size? I am a six. >> Okay. Um >> yeah. >> Uh how's your how's your um relationship with your ex-husband? >> There is no relationship. He is non-existent. >> Okay. How is his relationship with his children? >> He doesn't exist in their lives at all. >> Why? >> He chooses not to be involved. He lives like 20 minutes away and that's it. he, you know, chooses not to. >> Okay. I got to dig a little here. >> Yeah. >> Um, those are his biological children. >> Correct. Yes. >> And does he have And after the divorce, were you granted soul custody and he has visitation? >> Correct. >> Is he paying child support? >> No. >> He has two children. Is he with that woman? Yes, he's with the woman he cheated with me on. Yeah. >> Are they married? >> No. >> What? >> He has a child with her. >> What do they have? One child or two children? >> One. >> What do you tell your children about their father? >> Um, I'm pretty positive about them as much as poss. >> Okay. Um well see as someone who's gone through that parental alien something between you okay has what you're saying is he divorced you and then he just washed his hands of his kids. Well, I filed for divorce after the incident. >> Well, you divor but Right. But then where you what you where you're telling the story is you divorced him and he just said, "Forget it. I'm going over here with this other woman, another kid, and I don't want to see you. I don't want to see my kids. I'm just closing door." >> Yes. Believe it or not, yes. Okay. Correct. >> All right. Well, if that's if that's the story, then you're going to need to get your kids some counseling. >> I know. >> Um dating really shouldn't be on your mind right now. Because ma'am, this is a horrendous story. >> Yeah. >> You got a guy from your past who's engaged with somebody else looking to This is just chaos feeding off of chaos and it's al has a root somewhere. Uh the divorce care therapy after divorce is one thing, but you got to understand what's going on with you. And then you have a boy and a girl. What do you have? >> Two boys. >> Oh, Jesus. [laughter] Yeah. That's That's not a That's not a laughing matter, though. >> Yeah. >> They're going I mean, growing up with an absentee father, you may smile and say things, but boy, you can't keep this from them. They know. They know dad's not there. >> Absolutely. >> And uh Yeah. So, that's, you know, in all likelihood, ma'am, what you're looking at is How old is your youngest? >> Seven. >> Well, you got another 11 years. You can get back out there. >> Wow. I mean, that's the re that's the reality because >> yeah, >> your kids are going to be um the the youngest is seven and the oldest is how old? >> 10. >> Yeah, that's a whole headache coming. They need their father. They need a they need a a masculine role model. >> Uh yeah, therapy got to be there, man. That's got to be there. But uh keep me posted. But um I didn't want to hurt anybody's feelings, but high value. Nah, dating really shouldn't be what I would say focused on right now, though. Thank you, though. >> Tia, you need to unmute yourself. How are you? >> Hi. Um, I'm good. Can you hear me? Okay, >> I can. How old are you? Hello. >> 30. >> What you got for me? It's your turn. Go. >> Um, do you >> do you think that um like a woman who's in a dancer and >> Do you have a YouTube channel playing in the background? >> I >> Yeah. Turn that off. >> I don't know. >> Do I think a woman has been a dancer? You mean like a exotic dancer? Yeah. A woman who's been a dancer and has done porn for >> Okay. Okay. Let me Let me hold on. You sound like you have background noise going on somewhere. >> Go ahead. Say something again. >> I'm not sure. >> Go ahead. All right. Go ahead. Do I think a woman has done an exotic dancer and done porn? I mean, are we talking about mainstream porn or we talking about made a sex tape? >> Um, I guess it'd be more like amateur. Okay. Go ahead. >> Kind of stuff. But do you think a woman who has like a past like that has any um value in the marriage market? >> Oh, well, I've seen it. So, it just depends on It depends. It all depends. It all depends. Um, first before anything else, start the same place. Counseling that if that's you, have you gone to see a counselor, therapist? >> No. >> No. Well, then that's where it all starts because most women don't want to have sex on camera for money and then think they're going to go have a normal and healthy functioning life. Now, I've seen this happen, but that's that's the one of the first things because you have to answer that question for somebody. Somebody comes along and says, "Hey, how you doing?" And they ask you about your background. What happens when you have to tell them the truth? >> Um, >> I mean, they seem they seem cool about it at first, but eventually kind of use it against me. >> Well, it depends on who you're dealing with. See, there are porn stars that have married square dudes. It's not as uncommon as most people think. And especially like escorts, high-end escorts, a little birdie toe. Well, I'm not going to tell much about myself, but I just know this happens. But you got to be able to explain it. You got to be able to explain it. You got to be able to explain why you did what you did. How long ago was this? >> Uh, it was my early 20s. >> So, how long ago? >> Almost 10 years ago. >> All right. Uh, is this stuff still in circulation? I I mean I would imagine I I know one of my exes came across it but >> Okay. >> Um how tall are you? >> I'm 5'6. >> Dress size. >> Um I don't know. I think I'm like a three or four. >> How much did you weigh your last weigh in? >> I'm 127. Um, now here's where it has to. Did you do was it just normal? Was it was it just typical porn or was there any like group scenes? Any gang stuff on any that that matters because when you start the more extreme? >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Was it does it guy on girl, girl on girl? >> It was it was just like me and a guy. So, guy on girl. Guy on girl. So, um, was there did you ever do more than one performer in a scene? >> No. >> All right. That's something to work with. Um, if it's been that long, um, you're still going to have to explain it. You're still going to have to explain it. So, what is it that you want out of life, though? Do you want to I mean >> Well, because I I would like to get married, but like I said, I've you know, that's been an issue with my last two relationships where >> Look, I know I I know four women right now. I know four women right now who were former uh porn star, former stars and former escorts who were suburban freaking housewives living just Yes, it happens. But you have to be much more deliberate about it. Um, do you want to be a housewife for what? Do you have any kids? >> No. >> Do you want children? >> Yes. >> Okay. So, um, that's another thing. Um, unless you plan on going to do a deep clean of the web, you're going to have to be able to explain mama's background, which happened. Every woman who's been in the industry of some sort has had this. >> Well, I mean, ask yourself a question. What do you think happens to all these women who've ever had sex on on on recorded sex? Do you think they all just lived the life to where they die, or do they go to live normal suburban lives? I don't know. That's a good question. I've been >> Most of them went on to live normal suburban lives. >> I know a lot about this subject. I'll put it to you that way. I'm not going to how um you Now, here's the thing. You're if you serious, you're not going to chances of meeting a a senator or a congressman. But no, um it's certainly not over it. But you got to be able to explain what it is and you got to have your head on straight. That's more than anything else. Where's your head at? Because if your if your mental state is not right, that's what guys will be more concerned with initially. Uh number one, number two. Um I don't can't even see you. Um do you live in the north, east, south? What what what part of the country are you in? >> I'm in the south. Uh oh. >> Are you in Atlanta? >> Um, close. That's a good guess, but >> All right. Um, >> not in Atlanta. >> Okay. Um, what would you rank yourself on a scale of 1 to 10? Face. We can't use seven. >> Um, you said my face. >> Mhm. >> Um, Count you seven. >> My fave. >> Mhm. >> I don't know. A three. >> That's ugly. [laughter] >> You're unattractive. >> Well, I mean, I don't I haven't been told that I'm unattractive, but I just I don't know. I feel like I could be better. >> Okay. I don't know. Ma'am, you're not on camera and I don't have a picture. If you're a three, you got bigger problems in porn. >> Okay. Well, I guess when you say just face, like I feel like my face is a three and my body is a seven because I'm really like into fitness, if that makes sense. So, >> yeah. Okay. Uh, here's the thing. It could be. I don't know. Only thing I can tell you to do is cam up, send a picture or something. But if that's the case, four f six is cute, five is normal or average and four is below average. Three is unattractive. Two and then one is just like god aful ugly. >> Three at three. Three is three. One, two, three are the areas to where guys won't be seen in public with you. They won't. You can never be a public girlfriend or something like that for a high value guy or I mean I mean unattractive women. I don't know. But I mean get back to where I said it. Number one, you got to clear up what you did. they'll be explain it to somebody and you need and and then more than that they got to know where your head is at because somebody marrying a woman who was an adult film who wants to be a housewife and be a mother that's a red flag to a lot of people. So unless you really clear that up that's going to dog you going to dog you as it should. I mean I think you realize you know that that was probably not the smartest thing to do. Yeah. >> So >> you got So you got to approach it that way. Can't just act like you didn't do it. You got to fix it. Thank you. Yeah, guys. I mean, they're pl I mean, you got to think about the sheer amount of women that go into film. The sheer amount of women that go into film. So, let me go ahead and finish this one out. Hello. >> Hello. >> Hi, Tori. Hi, how are you? >> I'm sorry that you had to see that, but I tried. I tried. Y'all saw that. I tried. So, you put the baby up. What's going on? >> Yes. Um, uh, about the topic, I don't know if I'm an alpha female or not. I am. >> Uh, are are you married? >> No. >> So, you are a baby mama? >> Yes. >> Uh-oh. How old are you? >> 23. I'll be 24. How old is the kid? >> He He'll be one next month. >> A one year old. >> Yeah. >> What in the hell happened? >> I know. I just got out of a fiveyear relationship. And >> why didn't y'all get married though? >> It was him. >> Hold on. Hold on. When you When you tell him, what do you mean him? Why'd you have a baby without getting married? You tell me you're 23 and got a one-year-old. I'm like, >> I know. >> I don't get it. >> I wanted, but I don't know. HE >> OKAY, all seriousness though, you're 23. You're in a fiveyear relationship. You had a What are you looking to do now? Because honestly, sis, it >> that's not very appealing to a lot of men. >> I know. I know. Um, I eventually want to get married, but I don't know. I'm kind of like lost with the whole and then especially because I haven't been dating for five years. So, I'm just trying to figure out like >> why did you guys break up? >> Um, he cheated and so yeah, I just broke up with him. >> Okay. I have to ask. Was it more than once? >> Um, yeah, it was more than once. Okay. >> I was tired of putting up with it. So, I was like, I need to leave. So, maybe you're not >> Oh, no. I get it. But you're not in college, right? >> Right. >> High school education. >> Yes. >> No skills. >> I uh went to cosmetology. >> That's no skills, sweetheart. >> Yeah. No skills. >> What state? >> Texas. Are >> you on any kind of government assistance? >> No. Are you working 40 hours a week? >> Yes. >> In this environment, it is going to be difficult to forge ahead. It's going to be difficult to forge ahead with 23 years old with a baby and cosmetology skills. What's your plan? My plan is I do own my own boutique. Um, so I have a business >> on What do you mean you own your own boutique? >> I sell hair and clothing. >> But you don't have a brick and mortar? >> No. >> So, how do you sell hair and clothing? Online or out of out of a out of a popup shop? >> Online mainly. >> Okay. So, you're flipping hair. money to be made, >> but just but still see you put yourself in a position having a child without the benefit of marriage, >> right? >> And now you're just out here robbing Peter to pay Paul, floating around and and time is being wasted. You're going to need to get some stability somewhere, >> right? >> Where's dad? >> Um, he live on his own now. >> All right. Is the child's is the child's father in his life? >> Yeah, he's actively in his life. >> Girl, if you don't stop calling me, I told your big ass to go on back up to the bay and stay there. You psycho broads. I swear to God. Um, young lady 23, a baby. Don't have another one. >> Oh, I'm not. I'm one and done. Unless it's marriage and you know, >> but you got you need to figure I don't know. I know a lot of women don't like to hear it, >> but >> you chose the man. You chose him to be a father and you got a one-year-old. I gotta be honest, men pray on women like you. >> You I mean, >> what do you mean by pray on me? Like >> I've said it before and I get up. Baby mas are side chicks. Baby mas What does a man see when he sees a young woman with a kid? She's not a virgin. She's actually down for sex. Number one. Number two, she's got a kid. She's got a kid. That means she's got things. So anyway, I can holl at her. We can Netflix and chill. I slide through whatever. We can kick it for a midnight and go about my business. being unmar. This is why I get a lot of heat from women who decide to be baby mamas, especially when they start talking about high value men. Those kind of men, men avoid those kind of women unless you're pretty, beautiful, or gorgeous. What I'm trying to tell you is you you decided to have a child. You can't undo that. If you can't be with the father, what is your plan? And it needs to be a solid plan. Yeah, >> I know. I need to I don't know like what direction to go to because I I >> can't I can't I got other people on the show. I can't this not this show. I'm just telling you that what you don't want to do is one have another child out of wedlock. Number two, you don't want to make you want to stay fit >> and in shape to give yourself the best opportunity. But right now to a lot of guys, you would just look like a bill. >> Wow. >> And this is the bad part. See, we don't talk about having children outside of wedlock like it's a like it's a real problem until it becomes something like this and it becomes unmanageable. Oh, you shouldn't be so hard on the young lady. She made a mistake. That's what a lot of women will say. But but those softening words don't help your situation. You need a plan. You need some sort of skill to be able to provide for you and your child because it sounds like the guy that you pick, is he a provider? >> Um, no. Mhm. >> He paid bills, but he I wouldn't say like I was stay at home mom or nothing like that cuz >> I'm just asking is how old is he? >> 30. >> Why would you get pregnant by a 30-year-old loser? >> I don't know. >> I mean, >> that wasn't my plan. But you're here. >> If you can't depend on him, you chose him. It's not his fault. >> You picked him to have the baby with >> and you were together with him for five years. >> Stick with him. Even >> ma'am, you cho Okay, stick with him. You You stuck with him. It's called It's called Child. I'm just get dead raw with you. You stuck with him. You were 18 when you 18 when you met him and he was 25. >> You got pregnant [clears throat] at 21. Now you're a 23 year old high school graduate flipping hair. Uh if economic downturn happens, state assistance is in your future. You need a man. You need somebody who can help you with the responsibility of this child because it doesn't sound like you have family or anybody else. You picked the cheating loser. That's who you picked. That's who you had a baby for. So when I tell you to go back to him, that should not be more groundbreaking than having a baby for him. >> Work through the cheating issue. I don't know. You need to work on something because the child need the child would be better off mom and dad together. See, we've made it too convenient for black women just to think it's better to be a 23 year old mother struggling. It ain't about you no more. It's about it's about your kid. >> Mhm. >> So, where is the dad at? >> At his place. He's He's in uh the same town and everything, >> right? And how long have you guys broken up? >> It's been about a month. >> Oh, Jesus Christ. Get off my phone. What the [ __ ] are you talking about? Don't you call me back again. You see this [ __ ] You see this [ __ ] [music] You better get over to Dollar General. Go get you some of them dollar balloons and some decorations. Go over to Party City. Get you some more decorations. Rent out the local uh arboritum or somebody's backyard and throw a ghetto backyard wedding ceremony. Get you a dress. Get him some Stacy Adams [laughter] uh looking like Ving Reigns up in Baby Boy. Y'all need to make some barbecue and some chicken wings and have a ghetto ass wedding and carry y'all's ass off into the sunset. Neither one of y'all need to be in the dating pool messing with anybody else. He's cheating. Tell him to use a condom. Don't bring home no babies. I don't like him cheating. Don't go looking. That's real. That's real spit. You cheat. Use a condom. Don't bring home no babies or diseases. And don't let me find out about it. That's what you do. >> This chick is crazy, girl. If you don't go see. Oh, I pissed [screaming] her off. Oh, she mad. Eve, next you. We're not defective people. No, the mix proves that. You've seen it. It prove we are not. We're only done if we choose to be. And it's a choice. Got kick. Want to have one person say, "I didn't know you were that funny." Yeah. I'mma tell you something, guys. If Let me say this. I'll be intelligent guys, serious guys, man. You got to you got to find a way to get some humor. Um, you've seen it more on my channel. Humor has always been my secret weapon. When most people see me, they think I'm stuffy, stuck up, or whatever, whatever. Most people when I crack a joke or say something, they're like, it's like a shadow punch horror. You can He catches him out of nowhere. They're like, whoa, what's that guy with that suit? That was kind of funny. Keep keep them guessing, gentlemen. Keep them guessing. All right. So there you go. We are up out of here. Until the next time. Peace. We are gone. [music] Y'all like the camera angles? Working with the new camera angles. Oh, check it out. Caramel sugar. in this [music and singing] moment. >> Join me on Patreon for videos you will only see there. >> Monday 6:30 Eastern Standard Time. [music] [singing] >> Join me on IG for things you'll only see in the frat room. When they're there, they're there. When they're gone, [music] they're gone. [singing] >> Email your show ideas, things like that, too. info at bykevinuels.com or even better go online and book your one-on-one session. The advice line is on there at bykevin Samuels.com. Pick [music] your session. Pick your time. Check out. Talk to you. >> Keep a business [singing and music] before the moment. to tell you good night [singing] cuz I write a better one. [music] So before the moment [music and singing] >> I don't get >> Hey man, I grew up on Street Fighter 2. What are you talking about? I'm a >> [music] >> big video gamer >> play Yu-Gi-Oh competitively. [music] >> I'm the [ __ ] >> You didn't know [music] where >> you can choose people. You can choose. >> Question is >> what is your choice? Peace [music] in this moment. [music] Yes. I cannot say what's wrong or right. No, [music] >> it's not hard to fool me. >> No, cuz I'm addicted to the [singing] good life. [music] Yeah, lead the way. [singing] I follow. No need to [music] say I follow.