Video summary
The host introduces seven health hacks designed to improve well-being, starting with sleep optimization and dietary changes. The first hack emphasizes that sleep is a master regulator of hormones and brain function, citing research from Appalachian State University showing that morning exercisers spend more time in deep, anabolic sleep stages and experience greater drops in blood pressure due to the deactivation of the sympathetic nervous system. To maximize this benefit, experts recommend getting outside for 20 minutes immediately after waking up to expose oneself to high lux levels (up to 30,000 on sunny days), creating a necessary differential between maximum light exposure and minimum darkness at night. Additionally, implementing a "no tech" period of 90 minutes before bed is crucial, while morning exercise acts as a cortisol reset that helps align the body's natural hormone rhythm, preventing issues like being "tired and wired." The second hack involves adopting a low-carb, high-fat lifestyle similar to keto to reduce insulin resistance and improve metabolic efficiency. By reducing glucose intake below 100 grams per day, individuals can switch their brain to using ketones as an alternative energy source, which reduces the thermic effect of food and lowers overall caloric needs. The third hack suggests resetting one's diet through a program like Whole30, which eliminates problematic foods such as added sugars, alcohol, grains, beans, peas, soy, and most dairy for 30 days to identify triggers. This approach relies on black-and-white rules rather than moderation to help the brain follow habits easily, allowing users to systematically reintroduce foods after the reset period to determine what works best for their specific physiology. Gut health is addressed in the fourth hack by treating the gut as a critical component of the immune system and inflammation control. The transcript explains that when tight junctions between epithelial cells weaken due to toxins like lectins or gluten, "leaky gut" occurs, allowing foreign proteins and bacteria fragments to enter the bloodstream and trigger an autoimmune response known as threat level five. To repair this lining, one must starve bad organisms while feeding good ones with prebiotics and probiotics, often supplemented with butyrate if production is low. The fifth hack focuses on building healthy relationships rather than isolating oneself due to fear of specific foods; loneliness is compared in severity to smoking for health risks, and social connectivity provides essential stress-mediating effects that improve heart rate variability and mental hygiene through oxytocin release. Fasting serves as the sixth hack, offering physical benefits like anti-aging and cell regeneration alongside mental clarity regarding control over one's body. The speaker distinguishes between intermittent fasting, such as an 18-hour window from evening to noon, which is easy for most people once keto-adapted, and extended fasts of 24 to 72 hours that induce autophagy—a process where the body cleans out defective proteins after three days without food. Successful long-term fasting requires being fat-adapted through a whole-food diet first to avoid glycemic roller coasters; during extended fasts, staying hydrated with pink Himalayan sea salt and potassium is vital to manage electrolyte imbalances that mimic hunger pangs. Finally, the seventh hack advocates for meditation practices like Vipassana or guided mindfulness sessions to detach from emotional reactions and reduce inflammation caused by stress. By slowing down before eating and engaging in gratitude exercises, individuals can improve their relationship with food, utilizing techniques such as listening to ambient sounds while meditating even amidst gym noise to cultivate inner peace and balance.
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I started this show because I was
desperate to solve my wife's microbiome
problems. And in so doing, I've been
able to talk to some of the world's top
health experts on a variety of topics.
These people have helped both Lisa and I
change our health for the better. And
now I want to introduce you to some of
their best insights so that 2019 can be
your healthiest year yet. So lean
forward, take some notes, and let these
tips change your life for the better.
Hack one, go to bed.
Sleep.
Okay, I think this is arguably the most
undervalued pillar of health. Okay,
because in 2018, if you're not
prioritizing sleep, you're probably not
getting enough. It's just infinite
distractions, right? We all know that
feeling where we're still sat up late
watching more and more content. And
again, load of great content out there,
but it could be having a consequence.
So I can tell you that the majority of
people who are having sleep problems are
doing something in their everyday
lifestyle that they do not realize is
impacting their ability to sleep at
night.
Okay. So my top two tips would be a no
tech 90. Try and have 90 minutes before
bed with no tech. Right? But the
counterintuitive one is get outside in
the morning.
Right? A lot of people don't realize
that these daily rhythms are set by
light, right? You in order to sleep at
night, okay, you need a differential
between your maximum light exposure and
your minimum light exposure. So a dark
room, right, has something called zero
lux in it. Lux is a unit of light. If
you go outside on a sunny day for about
20 minutes, you get about 30,000 lux.
Brilliant. So that's a really big
differential. If you go outside on a
cloudy day, you're getting about 10,000
15,000 looks, right? If you go into a
brightly lit office, a modern brightly
lit office, you're getting about 500,
maybe 1,000 lux maximum,
right? So, everyone's thinking about
what they do before they go to bed in
the evening.
But a life-changing tip and this has
transformed the lives of so many of my
patients is get outside in the morning
for half an hour. Even that will help
you sleep in the evening. What are
things then that people can do to
actually optimize their sleep?
Yeah, this is what it's really all
about. You know, I I like to start with
the lowhanging fruit first. Um, and
something really really fascinating is
just simply changing or embracing the
time of day that you exercise can
improve your sleep quality. And so
Appalachia State University did a really
cool study and they wanted to see what
time of day exercising at various times
a day, how does it impact your sleep
quality? And so they had the study
participants to exercise exclusively at
7:00 a.m. and another phase exclusively
at 1:00 p.m. in the afternoon, another
phase exclusively at 7:00 p.m. in the
evening. They compiled all the data and
at the end of the study, they found that
morning exercisers spend more time in
the deepest, most anabolic stages of
sleep. So, they're producing more human
growth hormone. They have more efficient
sleep cycles, what we've been talking
about. They also tend to sleep longer
and and this is the one that kind of can
get glanced past. On average, they had
about a 25% greater drop in blood
pressure at night.
So, what's what's up with that? That's
correlated with a deactivation of your
sympathetic fight orflight nervous
system, right? So you're actually able
to shift gears, get to that
parasympathetic rest and digest calming
down by getting some exercise in in the
morning. And so how do we employ this
though? That's the question. Because
some people just like, you know, I can't
exercise in the morning. And there's
also people who exercise in the morning
who might have terrible sleep. And it's
because this is not like the magic
bullet. This is a thing to stack in your
condition. If you're doing this and then
messing up the one I'm going to talk
about next, you're probably not going to
have the best sleep. So, here's how to
employ this. Just five minutes. And I
tested this each morning. I do this five
minutes of exercise. You know, it might
be just jumping on a rebounder, you
know, little mini trampoline for five
minutes. Go for a quick power walk. Uh
do some Tabata, which is just four
minutes and a little mobility work. And
I guess most people don't know what
Tabata is.
High-intensity interval training.
Basically, it's 20 seconds of exercise
followed by 10 seconds of rest repeated
over and over again for four minutes.
And in his clinical studies, this was
found to outperform,
you know, traditional cardio, like the
kind of moderate intensity 45 minutes of
exercise in 4 minutes. Wow.
The change in your cardiovascular
benefits, body composition, and also
change your mitochondria as well. This
is why it works. It does something
called a cortisol reset.
All right? And we talked about cortisol,
but again, it's a good thing if it's in
the right time, in the right amounts.
Clinically, I would call these people
tired and wired that would come in. I'm
looking at the hormone panels and the
cortisol would be really low in the
morning and high at night. Thus, they
have sleep problems. So, you naturally,
if your if your cortisol is on a natural
hormone rhythm, it would be elevated at
its peak in the morning, right around
6:00 a.m. to 8:00 a.m., and then
gradually decline as the day goes on.
Does that have to do with what time you
wake up?
Sort of. I mean the cortisol will kind
of tend to nudge you out of sleep but
also we'll tend to notice that as the
day as it your sleep goes on it becomes
lighter and lighter anyways right this
is when you tend to remember your dreams
like at the at the end of the sleep and
so getting this little boost like
helping your body to propel and get your
cortisol up via exercise helps to reset
that rhythm and get you back on track so
that's why it works. Why is it that you
think sleep is important?
It's so important. I mean there's a
newly discovered system in our brains
called the glimpmphatic system which
when we're sleeping actually swooshes
cerebral spinal fluid all throughout
essentially cleansing it of these
proteins that aggregate over the course
of the day. Um they've shown that on one
night of bad sleep there's an increased
level of amaloid um measurable in in CSF
cerebral spinal fluid. Um, but then
also, you know, I think dietary change
for most people is one of the most
difficult things to do and it's
particularly difficult when we have our
hormones working against us. So, sleep,
I think, is so profoundly important
because it acts like a master regulator
of our hormones. Um it helps to
you know make sure that uh we don't need
to use our willpower very often because
you know willpower is sort of like this
muscle that we need to use in order to
fight off cravings and things like that.
But with good sleep our cravings
diminish. I mean they've shown that even
on one night of poor sleep you consume
an an excess of calories the following
day. Anywhere between 3 and 500
calories. I've actually noticed, it's a
little off topic, but I once, one of the
um major breakups I had in my life, I uh
I noticed that I would feel way more
sensitive to it. Um when I was
underslept, you know, you become less
able to contextualize emotions when when
you're underslept. On just one night of
bad sleep, a metabolically healthy
person will be essentially pre-diabetic
the next day temporarily.
Wow.
Yeah. You become more insulin resistant.
Um, so
yeah, sleep, sleep, I think, is one of
those things that today we romanticize
being busy. Um, but it's sort of like
the one thing that lifts all the boats
in your harbor, you know, and yet we
tend to undervalue it.
Hack two, eat more fat.
So keto is a a low carb, highfat,
moderate protein lifestyle. I kind of
feel like there is not a
one-sizefits-all with diets, but for me,
the thing that I hear over and over is
it's like the thing that really helps
people who feel like they have tried
everything else and nothing else has
worked. Um, but ultimately, I feel like
that's the way that we were really meant
to be eating to begin with. I don't
think that all these processed foods and
all the things that are so high in sugar
was what we were supposed to be eating.
So, now switching to this way of eating,
I feel so much better. Um, I actually
grew up thinking that I had really bad
stomach issues and had to get all kinds
of testing because I was always feeling
sick all the time. And then when I
switched to keto, I was like it was
totally gone. Um, so and then on top of
that, in just one year, I had lost 100
lbs. So it's like obviously the only
thing that I changed with what I was
what I was eating. So to me that was
kind of like all right like this we're
going in the right direction. The first
step would be to just give the brain an
alternative form of energy and reduce
glucose and insulin spikes as much as
possible because that can contribute to
insulin resistance. Cut out sugar as
much as possible or processed
carbohydrates. If they're eating two 300
grams a day, you want to bring that down
to under 100 grams a day of lower
glycemic carbohydrates, essentially
vegetables, and and go from there. But
if you abruptly take out glucose from
the diet of someone who's,
you know, drinking lots of sugary drinks
and things like that, that may initially
cause even a a greater deficit in
cognitive function because your brain is
being fueled off glucose and may take a
while to uh to induce the adaptations
associated with transporting the
ketones, utilizing the ketones, and
switching your brain to an alternative
form of energy. Most people who have
been keto for any length of time will
report back, dude, I first of all, three
meals a day, can't even handle it. It's
like, I I couldn't eat three meals a
day. It's way too much food. Number two,
um I probably get by on 30% fewer
calories now doing all the same
activities than I did before I was keto.
What's that about? And what that it's
about, it's about metabolic efficiency.
It's about um you know less um thermic
effect of food. You know sometimes we we
eat a a large meal more than we should
have and the body raises its temperature
just to kind of burn off some of that
fuel, right? Because it doesn't want
that much fuel at one time. Yes, it
tries to stash the the glucose into the
glycogen reserves in the muscles. If
there's not enough room, goes to the fat
cells. um you know yes there is some uh
uh protein but excess protein goes to
the liver gluconioenesis gets converted
to sugar same same issue with that
so all these all of these um elements of
of efficiency now you don't need as much
protein because you're sparing protein
instead of daminating it and then peeing
it out all the time. Uh you don't need
as much carbohydrate because you've
learned how to make ketones from your
own stored body fuel. those ketones
really reduce the amount of uh glucose
that you need to make or you need to to
take in from the outside. Um you know
there's a a statement that many people
make in the keto world that there is no
requirement in human nutrition for
carbohydrate at all u because the body
can make enough glucose through
gluconneogenesis and then offset the
rest of the requirements with ketones.
Hack three, reset your diet. So, I
describe Whole 30 like pushing the reset
button with your health, your habits,
and your relationship with food. So,
we're not a diet. We're not a quick fix.
We're not a weight loss program. We're
not even prescriptive. The basis of the
Whole 30 is that there are foods that
are in your diet, maybe even the healthy
stuff that could be having a negative
effect on how you look and how you feel
in your quality of life. And the best
way to know how these foods work for you
is to pull them out of your diet for 30
days and then reintroduce them one at a
time very carefully and systematically
like an experiment. So, you know, all
the dietitians say there is no perfect
one-sizefits-all diet, and I agree, but
everybody then says, "Okay, cool. Like,
how do I figure out what works for me?"
Whole 30 is how you figure out what
works for you. You do this 30-day
experiment where you eliminate really
commonly problematic foods, things like
added sugar, alcohol, grains, beans,
peas, soy, and most forms of dairy. You
pull them out, reintroduce them one at a
time after the 30 days is up. And then
you compare your experience, and that's
what lets you figure out how those foods
are working for you.
Okay, that makes sense. So, you've
talked about like making sure that you
prepare and that you're really committed
and don't go into it like half. What
what is the process of making grand
change in your life?
Habit I mean from my perspective at
least in the research I've done habit
research actually shows that black and
white rules are easier for the brain to
follow. The idea of moderation is very
difficult for many of us especially when
you're talking about foods that are
designed to be over consumed like sugar.
It's really hard to moderate the thing
that is constantly making you kind of
crave more. So the rules are very black
and white and there's a lot of practical
advice we give to people going into it.
So, it's, you know, announce your
commitment to someone. I'm doing the
Whole 30 and I'm starting on this date
because that accountability and support
is going to be huge for you seeing the
commitment through. Do some planning and
preparation. So, clean out your pantry.
Even though right now you feel super
jazzed about the program and you're
like, I'm not even going to want the
chocolate. Future you is going to be so
happy that you got rid of it when the
cravings hit. So, you know, do some of
this basic prep, do some meal prep. But
I'm also talking about things like how
to talk to friends and family about your
intentions here. Because you might be
surprised to find that the people who
should be supporting you the most get
really defensive or really critical of
you trying to make these changes. And if
you're not prepared for that, it can
really throw you off your game. And I'm
talking about thinking about potentially
stressful or difficult situations and
creating a plan for how you're going to
handle them. and thinking about what
will I do in the absence of these foods
that I used to use to comfort or reward
or self soothe like what else could I do
and making a list and kind of in the
beginning literally going through your
list of things when you feel like you're
tempted and and don't want to give in to
that craving.
So there's a lot of psychological stuff
that you should do to prepare for
something like this too because it's
it's about food but it's not really
about food. And so my my sort of mental
model for nutrition is everybody is
starting out on one side eating the
standard American diet
abbreviated as SAD, which is an
appropriate abbreviation. [laughter]
And the thing I always tell patients on
day one is like look, the good news is
you can't get any worse than this. The
only thing if you're starting at the
SAD, the only thing you can do to make
it worse is eat more of the SAD,
right?
But it's like the standard American
diet. And I don't believe this was
deliberate, right? I don't think there's
a conspiracy theory here, but just
through a lot of bad luck,
uh, has arrived at the absolute worst
combination of macronutrients you could
possibly imagine. Like, you couldn't
come up with a way to confuse someone's
metabolism than to combine fats and
carbohydrates in the ratios that they
are combined in most of the foods that
we would eat by default if we were left
to our brothers.
So from there I say look there's kind of
two introductory moves which are not
mutually exclusive but you can pick one
or the other. The first is
timerestricted feeding where now you
don't limit what you eat. You just limit
when you eat it. And then the second is
dietary restriction. You don't restrict
when you eat. You don't restrict how
much you eat but you also don't restrict
the times you're feeding but you
restrict certain elements of what you
eat. So for those three years that I was
on a ketogenic diet, which is I mean
probably one of the most demanding
subsets of dietary restriction,
um you know, I'd pulled that lever as
hard as it could be pulled. Then you
move into diets that sort of mimic
fasting. Um which is basically just
another way of saying hypocaloric diets
for transient uh periods of time. And
then ultimately even beyond that is
fasting just you know water only also
for limited periods of time. Nowhere in
there do I include
constant caloric restriction. So you
know reducing by 20 30% your energy
intake indefinitely. I I think the data
are pretty clear that that is not a
winning strategy. There's something
about the cycling into and out of
catabolic versus anabolic state. You're
basically clearing house right? you're
sort of getting the cells that are
themselves defective and hopefully the
ones with the most effective
mitochondria. We'd love to target those
the most for other reasons. Um what you
want to see is the regrowth. You want to
when you refeed, you want to see the
selective repopulation of the better
cells. The most robust experiments done
on this in primates did not really
suggest that as the diet got better, the
benefits of caloric restriction got
better. In other words, the worse the
diet, the better the benefit of caloric
restriction. Which points us to this
idea that dietary restriction should
still always be some component of a
healthy nutrition strategy.
Meaning like if you're eating like
stop eating like stop eating. If you
really really if if you're if you're
committed to never eating anywhere but
McDonald's, caloric restriction will
have a much bigger effect on you
positively
than you know if your baseline intake is
you know the way you would eat for
example.
Hack four, test your gut. And let's
remember something. This is the immune
system.
This what do you mean this?
The gut,
right?
It is the immune system. I mean, we now
know that that uh uh Parkinson's disease
starts in the stomach. We now know that
that uh intraocular pressure uh glaucoma
starts in the stomach. It's an
autoimmune disease. Everybody's got
autoimmune diseases today. We can all
agree that uh inflammation is the root
of all disease today, right? We've been
saying that for what, a decade now?
Well, inflammation
is what the immune system does. That's
how it mounts an attack on something.
That's how if there's a foreign
something in your body, it sends out
macrofagages. It sends out inflammatory
responses to go and and to to destroy
that and kill it. If you work out,
that's your immune system making you
recover. You have inflammation and it
goes and it resolves the inflammation.
That all that's all coming from here.
When when when your gut is bad, your
body is bad and you you are more prone
to developing a widespread group of
diseases.
First number one thing is to make sure
you don't have a toxic microbiome. That
means your microbiome is uh is producing
the healthy stuff that your body needs
not the toxins u that is going into your
body. So just really think of you and
saying is your microbiome healthy is
your microbiome toxic. Right? So that's
first part. The second thing is
can I want to put a fine point on that
because I this is what made me think of
it a second ago. That notion of a
quorum.
Yeah.
So the fact that any one of them is
looking to see if they're the bully if
they get to call the shots. And what
happened with Lisa was bad bacteria
became the lead bacteria and that's that
tipping point.
Yeah. Yeah. So tipping point happens
when your ecosystem goes out of balance.
So it's not the individuals think
they're good or bad. So it's really not
about as much of good bacteria, bad
bacteria. We all have the good and bad.
But what happens is they stay in check,
right? And each other they all keep each
other in check. It is when you start to
eat certain foods and these guys start
to grow and they say aha now we're going
to control everything else right and
that's really when you start to have
trouble. Other thing is when your
epithelial cells the barrier the mucous
lining gets thinner you start to get a
leaky gut and then you have a chronic
inflammation all the time. So the way
you do that is you need to change the
balance of ecosystem of the
microorganism and you need to start
repairing the lining of the gut and you
repair the lining by sometime giving the
right set of supplements and enzymes to
repair the gut lining. At the same time
you start to give the prebiotic to feed
the some of the guys so they can start
to grow and probiotic to add some of the
new stuff right and then you start to
change the diet. So you're starving the
bad guys and you're starting to prop the
good guys, right? You're feeding the
things that need to be fed and you're
adjusting to see not just the organisms,
you're starting to adjust their
functions. So you're starting to see how
much of the butyrate you're producing.
And if you're not producing enough
butrate, which is really good thing,
then you have to take some of the
butrate supplement until we can start to
grow these guys who who have a potential
to promote uh to produce butrate. We
need to cut down all the organisms and
the food that are feeding the guys who
produce these toxin environments. So if
lectins are one of the major ways that
we get leaky gut, then if we get lectins
out of our diet, that's how we plug the
holes. Unfortunately for us, the lining
of the gut is only one cell thick. And
so imagine one cell thickness keeping
everything you eat or everything living
in you like bacteria separated from you.
and they're all held together locked arm
in- arm with tight junctions. So what
Dr. Fisano showed with gluten which is a
lectin is that gluten makes its trouble
by causing leaky gut. So once those
spaces are open, not only do lectins get
through, which are foreign proteins,
they're splinters, but also pieces of
bacteria called or living bacteria also
get through the wall. Now on the other
side of the wall is your border patrol,
your immune system. And 65% of all the
white cells in our body are up against
this wall.
[snorts]
Why are they there? Because that's where
the problem is going to happen if it's
going to happen. So when these foreign
proteins get across the wall, the immune
system basically sounds the alarm,
sounds the air raid sirens, we go to
threat level five, we scramble the
fighter jets, and we actually go to war
status. And as I talk about in the book,
that war status is manifested in
multiple ways. Whether it's brain fog,
whether it's arthritis, whether it's
depression or anxiety, whether it's
coronary artery disease, which is how I
got interested in it in the first place.
And all of these things come right back
to what Hypocrates said 2500 years ago,
that if you want to cure the disease,
head to the gut. Hack five, build
healthy relationships.
I was seeing people come in, they were
so afraid of gluten and they and they
were so afraid of some other foods that
they were withdrawing from social
activities. So, I'm not going to go to
the restaurant with, you know, the girls
on our monthly girls night because there
might be gluten in the sauce and I've
heard that because I have a thyroid
condition, if I have any gluten, that
will upregulate inflammation in my
thyroid gland for for up to six months.
So, I can't have any and if there's any
in the sauce, I don't want to go out to
dinner. And so now they become a bit
recluse and they spend more time on the
internet researching which by the way
time on the internet has is correlated
with the with scores of depression and
anxiety. As as time internet goes up
sense of well-being goes down. So
they're trying to make themselves
healthier
but in doing so they're kind of
sabotaging their lifestyle. It's it's a
good quote. Don't make yourself sick in
attempts to be healthy. Um, but how this
ties into to purpose and meaning is,
you know, part of our part of our
purpose is to have social connectivity.
But one of the things that can make it
more difficult to have the purpose of
social connection or can distract you
from what you're doing with your life is
getting sucked into this black hole of
dietary restrictions that can make your
life much more difficult to live. And uh
just as a final point here, there is
some evidence showing that coming back
to the smoking analogy, another parallel
has been drawn that loneliness is as bad
for your health as smoking. Um so
purpose and connectivity are are very
important and if your diet is
unnecessarily restrictive, it makes all
those components of your of your life
more difficult.
So what I do is called transformational
nutrition and there's three pillars to
that. So transformational nutrition is
the study of human health and wellness
on multiple levels including the
biological, the psychological and the
spiritual areas of life. And when I say
spirituality, I don't mean um religion
[clears throat] even though it could
certainly be religion for youth. But
what I'm talking about is connection.
And there's really three pillars that we
study at the institute. And that is you
know your personal spirituality,
communal spirituality and environmental
spirituality. So personal spirituality
is about you. It's about your connection
to yourself. It's about understanding
who you are, where you came from, the
truth of that, telling your story,
accepting your story, right? Not trying
to change it, not trying to numb out.
But then there is, you know, communal
spirituality and that's our
relationships with others. This is huge.
I always say if you want to understand
or just get a a quick snapshot of
someone's health, ask them about their
relationships.
It's interesting.
It's a direct correlation every single
time. So, how how healthy your
relationships are is how healthy you are
as a person, right? It's all just an
outer reflection of what's going on on
the inside. So, you know, creating
spiritual partnerships with people. Uh
Gary Zukov uh coined the term spiritual
partners and you know he says friends uh
don't want to rock the boat and
spiritual partners turn the boat over to
help you learn how to swim.
Get your relationships right. You could
devote yourself to work where you work
yourself to death, right? But you have
to allocate creative downtime
uh you know with your significant other,
with your family to really get the most
out of life because otherwise it just
goes by in a flash and that creative
downtime uh is probably the most
important thing for your mental health,
mental hygiene, which really uh can I
can look at my sleep and my heart rate
variability and see major changes in
that
and even my glucose levels come down
when I remove myself from stress
environments and get out into nature
things. So, I think that's the most
important thing. It's not being in
ketosis, it's not intermittent fasting,
[laughter] it's not that. So, it's it's
really focusing on relationships and and
giving back.
I think um especially in today's age of
social media and where so much is done
online, we feel more connected than
ever. I'm on three different accounts.
I'm, you know, messaging people I
haven't seen since high school. I
maintain entire relationships, including
with the people I'm closest to, like my,
you know, partner and parents and sister
via text message. I rarely get on the
phone. I'm rarely facetiming unless it's
with my child. I think we feel really
connected, but we're less connected than
ever. There's no proxy for this
in-person social connection, the stress
medi mediating effects, the oxytocin
boosting effects, just how good it feels
to actually connect. And you know, we
learn skills like empathy through this
connection, through mimicry and through
reading body language and facial
expression. And the less we do of that,
I think the more disconnected we feel.
And the more disconnected we feel, the
more likely we are to turn to some of
these other behaviors as a way to like
self soothe or cope or fill a hole. So I
encourage people to connect for a couple
reasons. One, shame and guilt like live
in the dark. Secrets live in the dark.
for me to show up to somebody in my life
and say like, "I'm really in debt. Let
me tell you about what's going on with
my finances." Or, "Gosh, I made a huge
mistake at work." Or whatever it is
we're feeling ashamed about or
uncomfortable about. That's incredibly
powerful for us to move through them. I
think we're denying ourselves the stress
mediating impact of being one-on-one,
especially when we're trying to make
really big changes like changing our
diet, which is hard and emotional and
and really intimidating for a lot of
people. Why wouldn't you want to share
your experience with that with someone
else and ask for their support and allow
them to support you?
Hack six, try fasting.
I read a book by Dr. Jason Fun called
the complete guide to fasting and I
learned about more about the science
behind it, but I think fasting has a
there's a physical component, there's a
mental component, and a spiritual
component, right? Uh physically, we know
that it's great for anti-aging,
longevity, um anti-cancer, um better
digestion, uh cell regeneration in your
body. That's the physical component.
Yeah. Some people do it for weight loss,
which I do not do it for. Uh there's a
mental component, too. Knowing that you
can go a day, two, three, however long
without food and live and actually
thrive. Just realizing that you don't
have to be a slave to food. Um you can
be in control of your body is is um it's
it's amazing for your body and your mind
to realize that you're okay without
food. Like you'll be okay, you know,
you're not going to die. And then a
spiritual component like there's a
reason almost every major religion has
some type of fasting in it. You know in
the Mormon religion uh we grew up
fasting uh one 24 hours uh uh a month
like one day a month you fast for 24
hours and I hated it as a kid. So you
know my perception of what fasting was
was like uh this sucks. But there's a
spiritual component like being able to
be more in tune with your body and
spirit uh without having food to
distract you um is really powerful. And
I feel like it can uh be spiritually
uplifting, you know, whether you're
religious or not, just being more in
tune with your body and and your spirit
as well. Like you you you are a soul. Uh
I do really believe that. Um and I think
fasting is a way to tap into that.
Now, I find that a lot of people don't
really understand what a fast is. Walk
people through the difference between
intermittent fasting and then a full
fasting.
Yeah.
Here's the easiest way to intermittent
fast. It's going to make it so easy for
everybody watching right now. So, you
eat your last meal of the day at 6:00,
right? 6:00 p.m. Wake up the next
morning, eh, I'm not really hungry. You
just skip breakfast. And keep in mind,
that term breakfast literally means
break the fast. Doesn't mean you have to
eat at 8:00 in the morning. It just
means you're breaking the fast. So, why
don't we push that break fast to noon?
So, if you do that, you go from 6:00 the
night before to noon the next day. You
just intermittent fasted for 18 hours
and all you missed was one meal.
[snorts] Are you really going to miss
that one meal? Most people not. Once
you're keto adapted very easily, you
will not. So, so just eat a sensible
meal on on that intermittent fast or a
couple of sensible meals cuz you get
noon and six you can eat. So, you eat
twice that day and then you do it all
over again, 18 hours. M
um and I'm a big fan of mixing it up,
not having the exact same every single
day. I think the body will become used
to an 18-hour fast that would be 6:00 to
noon every single day. So maybe one day
do 6:00 to noon, maybe the next day
don't eat at all and then the day after
that 6:00 to noon. But the extended
fasting, this is where it gets really
interesting. So let's say you've
intermittent fasted. Let's say you're
very keto. Let's say you're ready to
push it to the next level. First day
should be easy. You're used to
intermittent fasting. It's day two where
it starts to get a little bit more
difficult and people go, "Okay, they're
going to like ring their their their
hands and just cuz their body is so used
to eating that at that day is when
everything kind of goes a little
berserko in their body and they they
start people start to freak out. Oh,
this is not working. I need to eat it."
No, no, no. Push through that. So, how
do you push through it? Stay very well
hydrated. So drink, drink, drink and
drink some more salt. Pink Himalayan sea
salt. You can buy big old buckets of it
now at Costco
and I get a pinch of it and I stick it
under the tongue. And when you do that,
you feel like you had a meal. And so
you're telling your body everything's
okay. Usually the withdrawal symptoms
that people have where they think they
need to eat, it's really just
electrolyte imbalance. And so the pink
Himalayan sea salt, some people also do
a little bit of potassium, maybe the
what is it? The no salt that has
potassium. Some people take a magnesium
supplement. So you get all the
electrolytes in there. And you push
through day two, you get to day three
and you start to feel a little better.
Maybe some people are still a little
symptomatic, but get through 3 days and
guess what happens? That a word rears
its ugly head in a good way. And that's
autopagy. [snorts] Because after 3 days
of not eating food, and I mean no food,
you can have water, you can have salt,
but no food. Your body rewards you by
giving you cleaning up, a cleaning up of
all those proteins.
There's always going to be an adaptation
period for anyone who's getting into
fasting. So, expect the first month of
it to be challenging. And then it gets
easier because now you're
psychologically and physiologically more
adapted to doing this to your body. What
I have found is that the more you fast,
the more your heart rate variability
improves and the more actually you
function better under stress. So like
when I was traveling um and I I always
fast when I travel, I have found that I
actually travel with less stress because
I'm fasting rather than fasting is
causing me to be stressed and that comes
from being adapted to it. So things that
can improve your ability to fast more
effectively are getting more fat
adapted. um getting on a whole food
diet, getting like I always tell people
try to do whole 30 for at least a month
before you start doing fasting
regularly. Um just because it gets
people off of refined sugar and flour
like you got to get off of those things
if you want to fast effectively because
if you're eating those things you're on
the glycemic roller coaster and if
you're on that roller coaster you're
going to feel like garbage when you try
to fast. So getting on whole foods is
the first step and then doing things
like 16 and eight fasting and then you
can start challenging your body with
more fasts. So I say try a 24-hour fast.
How often do you guys fast?
Sal's every month. Three for 72 hours.
I do a 48 to 72 hour fast every month.
Yeah.
I noticed a lot of health benefits from
it initially. Anti-inflammatory gut
health.
Um you know, just felt better. But now
the reason why I fast isn't for the
physical health benefits. Now it's the I
don't know what you want to call it,
spiritual effects or whatever. It's the
breaking the chain from food. because I
I started to realize how often I ate
because I was bored or because I was
supposed to eat. Like, oh, it's noon.
I'm supposed to grab some food and I all
of a sudden I had all this time on my
hands and like what do I do now? And
when I'm stressed out, I feel like I
want to grab something to eat, but I'm
supposed to be fasting today. And so, it
really changed my relationship with
food. Now, of course, fasting could also
create a negative association with food.
So, it's not like a a cure all, but for
somebody who came from the side of
fitness where I was force-feeding myself
every two or three hours, which by the
way is a myth that doesn't build more
muscle. Um, fasting was like, I mean, it
was it was a game changer cuz all muscle
didn't fall off my body, you know, I'm
feeling better and then when I refeed, I
actually get stronger and feel better
and I'm assimilating food better. Well,
this is fantastic. So, I do it now more
for those effects than anything else.
Hack seven, meditate often. So, vapasa
is sort of a a meditation technique
that's that's thought to be taught
through the line of the Buddha himself.
And it's a simple style of meditation
that teaches you to be in the present
moment without attachment. So, it's not
there's no mantras involved. There's no
visualization involved. There's no
sending love or gratitude anywhere. It's
simply being in the moment and
recognizing what is and whatever pains
or discomforts or thoughts or feelings
or whatever is coming through to detach
yourself from that. So, it's almost like
removing emotion from the external world
so that you master your inner self and
your inner uh peace and balance. Just
going through that improved my knee pain
in a 10day retreat. So, what is that?
Well, I would argue that there was
emotions that I was holding on to that
manifested in the body and when I was
able to detach from those and let those
go, the pain lets go. there are these
energies I think that we store in our
body. Um, and this practice of apostasa
meditation taught me that that's likely
the case.
So, it's really that you know your state
of mind impacts how you digest things.
It impacts uh you know you can you can
increase your your inflammatory markers
by a thought or by a stress or whatever.
You can change how your c your your
central nervous system uh is reacting.
You can change your hormone levels. You
So, and this is all verified, right? I
don't even this is not even
controversial to say anymore. So, it
only makes sense that if you want to be
able to utilize that your the food that
you're eating, create a good also create
a better relationship with your food. I
mean, if I'm constantly eating in a
stressed state, I am creating a an
association or a connection to that food
that may not may not be serving me. So,
stop, slow down. If you're religious,
pray. If you're not, take a breath, you
know, ask yourself or just become aware
of what you're about to do and what
you're about to eat. And then you'll
notice that your food choices will start
to change and you'll start to feel
better as you're eating. And
I've been trying to get into a
meditation practice but could never make
it stick. It's this four-part meditation
guided and I just do it in my head. I
find the guided aspect of it or having
something to think about helps me stay
in it a little bit longer instead of
just sitting and like thinking about
being zen. In the first part, I think
about people. I think of all the things
I'm grateful for and it just turns into
this rolling list of gratitude. The
second part, you [snorts]
think about lifting someone up. Maybe
I'm lifting them up. Maybe I'm grounding
them. Maybe I'm connecting them to me
through my energy and through my light.
In the third part, you are thinking
about what success looks like for you
today. And that's kind of where I find
my like maxim for the day. um whether
it's to stay connected or stay open or
stay grounded or sometimes these things
float into my head and I have no idea
what they mean but like it just feels
right and in the fourth part you're just
sitting listening to the sounds around
you and I do this meditation in the
middle of my gym when I'm done working
out so there are people with there are
barbells and sleds being dragged and
pull-ups and crossfit classes and two
different music's going on and I'm just
like sitting in the middle of the turf
with my eyes closed like listening to
everything and it's been one of the most
life-changing, gamechanging experiences
to adopt this meditation practice. I'm
not kidding.
All right, there it is. I hope you guys
were really paying attention to
everybody's advice and that you
implement these strategies into your
life immediately. With that, I hope you
guys have a happy and healthy 2019. And
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