Everything Wrong With Society Today! - Weak Men, Woke BS, Corruption & Civil War | Jordan Peterson
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In this intense discussion, Jordan Peterson addresses the crisis of modern masculinity and what he perceives as a cultural movement toward weakness driven by postmodernist and metamarxist ideologies that equate male ambition with toxic power dynamics. He argues that society is actively enticing young men away from healthy aggression and competence through narratives that label masculine virtue as inherently immoral, leading to a pathological form of self-castration among males who feel crushed or marginalized. Peterson contrasts the dangerous allure of figures like Andrew Tate, whom he views as embodying a shallow "psychopathic sex appeal" for those in despair, with healthier models of strength found in individuals like Jocko Willink and David Goggins. He emphasizes that aggression is not merely to be repressed but integrated into one's character through sports or other constructive outlets, allowing men to channel their competitive instincts toward winning while remaining civilized—a concept he illustrates using the metaphor of a "civilized beast" from *A Billion Wicked Thoughts*. The conversation shifts to the broader implications of identity politics and resentment, particularly regarding gender dynamics and social hierarchies. Peterson critiques the tendency for victims or those feeling oppressed by power-mad men to adopt an inverted worldview where they identify with innocence while demonizing all authority figures as predatory parasites. He connects this logic directly to historical atrocities like Auschwitz, warning that identifying oppressors solely based on statistical overrepresentation in positions of authority—such as Jews in certain contexts—is a dangerous oversimplification that ignores competence and biological factors like IQ differences among Ashkenazi populations. Furthermore, he discusses the nature of resentment itself, noting that while everyone has reasons to be bitter due to unfairness or personal failure, succumbing to bitterness is self-punishing and leads one into the role of an adversary rather than a hero, effectively producing hell for oneself and others. Peterson also delves into his recent literary works, *12 Rules for Life* and *Beyond Order*, explaining that these books are designed as coherent instruction manuals derived from clinical psychology and personal suffering to help individuals order their lives amidst chaos. He reflects on the overwhelming support he has received via YouTube videos viewed hundreds of millions of times, acknowledging both the blessing and the danger of such fame; it can seep into one's identity or lead to arrogance if not managed carefully with humility. The dialogue touches upon his collaboration with Victor Swift in "computational epistemology," using large language models to map semantic clouds around concepts like God, revealing how meaning is structured statistically within language rather than being arbitrary. This scientific approach supports his argument against postmodern fragmentation, asserting that truth exists as a concordance between material reality, imagination, semantics, and behavior, all of which are interconnected through non-arbitrary constraints inherent in human communication. Finally, the discussion explores the tension between tradition and transformation using the metaphor of gentrification to illustrate how social institutions evolve naturally over time without malice. Peterson argues that while artists play a crucial role in bringing beauty to neglected areas, their eventual displacement by chain stores is part of an inevitable economic cycle rather than a moral failing on either side's part. He urges listeners to avoid shaking fists at God or society when facing such unpredictable outcomes but instead to recognize the necessity of different personality types—such as open artists versus conscientious conservatives—to fill distinct evolutionary niches within civilization. Ultimately, he calls for a return to responsibility over rights, urging individuals to craft their own identities based on duty and competence rather than relying on categorical entitlements that do not bear relationship to actual outcomes or contribute meaningfully to the collective good.
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Do you think men are being taught to be
weak right now?
Yes, definitely.
What
that it's worse than being taught.
They're being enticed toward that in
every way. Tell me more.
And punished for not doing it. Well,
they're enticed towards it by
well,
well, the insistence, for example, that
there are modes of
less worthy being than the masculine,
let's say, because masculinity itself is
toxic to its core, a manifestation of
patriarchal oppression, that male
ambition is nothing but a manifestation
of the force of tyrannical power, that
not only oppresses the oppressed, but
the world. Jesus, brutal. So, there's
that. So, that's and then any deviation
from any deviation in that direction,
the desire of a 4-year-old boy to play
with guns, for example, well, we have to
rub rub that out. It's like, "Oh, well,
do you?" You're going to rub out your
son's ability to point and shoot, are
you?
That's That's what he'll do his whole
life.
Going to go to war with that in your
feminine virtue. Toxic masculinity. It's
like, "Great, harpy." Warfare. It's
awful. It's awful.
You know, but it's it's part of this
belief and that's derived from this
unholy nexus of agreement between the
postmodernists and the metamarxists,
that the only story is one of power, and
men wield the power, and therefore all
masculine virtue is identical to the
striving for power, and that's immoral
in its essence. It's
basically the most pathological
brandishers of that doctrine presume
that
male virtue is indistinguishable from
malevolence. And so, the best you can
do, if you're a man, is to castrate
yourself and Oh god. Well, what That's
what's happening in the culture.
It's literally happening. It's not even
It's not even symbolic.
That's That's the offering. That's the
ultimate offering to the to the great
mother. That's a great way Freud knew
this, Jung knew this. This is well
mapped out. This is well mapped out in
the psychological and and symbolic
spheres.
You've asked a lot of people I don't
know if you've ever gotten a satisfying
answer. I haven't heard it yet, but what
happens when the left goes too far?
Or where Yeah, where does the left go
too far? Yeah. Yeah, what's the equity?
I I posed that to It was either Bret
Weinstein or his wife Heather Heying.
And cuz I said, "Look, what I see in the
world right now is what it looks like
when women
become pathological. That the things
that are good, nurturing, wanting to
care for people, when that goes too far
and it I devouring mother would be your
phrase, but it's a perfect phrase. Um
Yeah, it really does
of Eve. That's the eternal sin of Eve.
To
to even clasp the serpent to her breast.
My compassion is so overpowering,
there's nothing it can't incorporate.
Even the fruit of the of evil itself.
That's the fall of man.
Yeah, that's being played out like
in spades, rapidly.
Miraculously.
Yeah, it's very very bad, very very
dark.
So, I know that if we don't find a way
to make men I won't even say strong. I
think strong is a part of it, but Invite
them. Invite them to be strong.
Invite them to become what healthy
masculinity looks like.
Now, the question becomes to from where
I'm standing, I will give you image that
I use a lot. I use this in business all
the time.
Uh when things are getting really hard,
I imagine myself in a loincloth, covered
in the blood of my enemies, with a big
[ __ ] sword in my hand.
Yeah. And that imagery helps me stay
focused, be strong, be hard when I need
to be hard. Not that I'm, you know,
imagining killing indiscriminately, but
that I need to be able to step into
aggression, and aggression is the right
word. And when I That's why Andrew Tate
is so so attractive to young men.
Dude, Mhm. so much. He's utterly
fascinating to me. 90% of what he says
scares me to death because it actually
is toxic masculinity, but 10% is so good
that I'm like, you cannot dismiss this
kid.
People are complicated, eh? But the
thing is is that the the more
Okay, so so the perversion of warrior in
some ways is psychopath, and you know
that because you watch like mafia
movies. So we all know this, okay? But
but there's a dreadful attraction in
untrammeled aggression
for men who are so crushed that they're
castrated. That's a good way of thinking
about it. So so the attraction that the
that the
Andrew Tate persona, let's say, has on
those young men, there's actually a lot
of that that's positive. Now, that
doesn't mean that that's the
right target, but
it
There are creative ways of being wrong
that are helpful. Right. Right. Now, I,
you know, you see better examples of
that, precisely that, in people like
Jocko Willink and David Goggins and Joe
Rogan. Like these are tough guys, you
know, but they're not They don't have
the sex appeal, though. That's one thing
I'll give Andrew Tate. Like he
that's partly because they don't want
it. Yeah.
They Yeah, but it isn't that they
couldn't have it. Like, it's that
they've they've decided that
everything in its proper place. Rogan
has a family. You know, that's that's
where he's put it. And And hey, man,
good work good work to him.
You know, and that sex appeal that
Andrew Tate has, that's the sex appeal
of the short-term mater. That's the
psychopathic sex appeal. That's the dark
tetrad sex appeal. It's shallow. It's
shallow, and it will get him in trouble.
I mean, it's already got him in trouble.
Yeah. And so, that's not going to unless
he, you know, wises up.
Precisely that, it'll get him in
trouble. You know, and I'm I'm not
trying to take him apart. I mean, I
think what he did with his
with his capitalization on female
sexuality is absolutely unforgivable.
But
well, I That's enough of that. I mean,
that was That was beyond the pale in my
estimation. There's no There's no excuse
for that whatsoever. Now, you know, if
you're a basement-dwelling incel, the
mere fact that you could imagine ever
doing that, sort of like you imagining
yourself, you know, in a loincloth
covered with blood, the mere idea that a
man, which is what you are, could even
imagine manage doing that, having a
harem, you know, of women who are
offering sexual favors at at your beck
and call. Well, that's a much higher
calling than castrated, over obese,
resentful loser who can't leave the
basement. Right? Cuz that's an even
lower I suppose, you know, when you're
in the lowest rung of hell, the rung
right above looks like heaven.
And And it it's up. It's up.
That aggression, that aggression is
very, very necessary. You know, it's
it's very necessary.
And sports are a great way of of of
putting that in its proper place,
especially team sports. Cuz you you can
take that competitive instinct and
that instinct to win
that instinct to be competent more
deeply and you can you can put it in its
proper place and it is an immense source
of implacability.
immense Now, in a social
something I draw on when I lecture for
example. Like it's a source of energy.
It's just sitting right there.
Interesting. Why is that so effective?
Anger aggression is a a very primordial
instinct. Very and and it it activates
both the positive emotion systems which
are forward moving and the negative
emotion systems that awaken you. It's
high stress. Like there's nothing more
stressful than being angry. It's very
psychophysiologically demanding. It's
very psychophysiologically stressful.
But It's also intoxicating.
an as a
alerting
as a form of alerting arousal in some
ways it's unparalleled. Mhm. And and
it's great to have it at hand. You you
don't want to See, the Freudian model
with regard to aggression was
repression.
Like we have this terrible id that's
trying to make itself clamber upward,
you know, all red in tooth and claw.
There's some truth in that, but
his model of how that was regulated by
socialization
it was insufficient. It's not
repression. It's not inhibition. Now, he
kind of knew that cuz he talked about
sublimation. Piaget Jean Piaget had a
much better model, much more much wiser.
And Piaget observed actual children.
A competitive child who's socialized
integrates the capacity for aggression
into the game and then he becomes the
player every kid wants on his team
because he still wants to win.
So he's he's got that forward driving
intensity and skill, but but he does
that in a manner that brings everyone
along with him. Right? And so then it's
not aggression isn't inhibited, it's
integrated.
And and the more aggression you can
integrate, well, the more compelling you
are, 100%.
Like that's that's the that's what
that's what women are after.
That's because the fundamental I think
the fundamental female hero story is
essentially Beauty and the Beast.
And a woman is after a a civilized
beast. Like literally, that's that all
female pornography has that structure.
Civilized beast. You know, and it can
tilt a little hard in the beast
direction when it gets a little
masochistic and it you know, can turn a
little hard in the in the civilized
direction when it's kind of a
like when it's a romance that tilts more
in the direction of friendship. Woody
Allen would probably be a good example
of that as a character in his own
movies.
But you know, there's a
you can imagine that there's a range in
there where the solution can be offered
in a variety of different forms. Yeah, I
think you were the one that pointed me
to a book that was utterly
transformational, A Billion Wicked
Thoughts.
right. What I find really interesting is
it isn't just a civilized beast, it is a
beast I civilize with my magic hoo-ha,
which is what they say in the book.
But that that I find very interesting
and has somehow become controversial.
That's [ __ ] interesting, man.
Uh tell me more about that. That is
really interesting.
Well, oh, you know, you want a wolf like
that's trying to eat you or do you want
a wolf on your side? Well, that's the
situation women are in.
I mean, you've seen the cartoon
representations do you Tex Avery's
cartoons from the 1940s? I think they
were the 40s with the wolf
who's like completely sexually
what? Obsessed with
His heart's flying out of his eyes and
stuff.
Oh, yes, yes, and and and he's always
after the singer who sings oh wolfy, you
know, it's perfect. It's perfect. Yeah,
women definitely tame men, obviously,
yes, clearly. They probably tamed them
by offering them sex and fruit.
You know, so
Cuz they were not gatherers. Women are
gatherers. They're not hunters. Really
makes me sad that we can't that the uh
public discussion around this people get
so weird about so fast. You actually did
a really amazing interview. I think her
name was Dr. Sarah Hill.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Uh Yeah, Sarah was
good. I found that utterly fascinating
talking about just what men do to get
women's attention, the demands that
women make it Yeah. Literally.
That all the things
Everything and anything is the answer to
that.
100% my success is literally tied to my
desire to impress my now wife, then uh
fiance when I really turned it on and
was like, "Whoa, I've got to become
something."
between male trappings of socioeconomic
success and male reproductive success is
like it's like .7. For women it's
negative. It's zero it's lower than
zero. Like with men don't care at all
about the
Men aren't looking for in women for what
women look for in men. Correct.
So, and not a bit even. Not a bit even.
And and that plays out also in the
structure of female motivation. Mhm. You
know, men are very competitive. They'll
and and in a in a unidimensional in some
ways, one-eyed you might say, right? And
there's an immense symbolic level of web
of associations around that idea, the
one-eyed giant. Well, the penis is a
one-eyed giant, like obviously, right?
And it's it's a seeking
It's a it's it's part of a seeking
system seeking women. And it'll do that
unidimensionally, right? And so and men
are like that. Freud knew this, that men
are like this from the cellular level
up.
And so they'll specialize, they'll
hyper-specialize
obsessively
in a manner women are just not
interested in. They can, but they're not
interested in it. And partly they're not
interested in it because
that isn't what it doesn't attract men
that that capability. I know that the
men I worked with in big law firms for
example, hyper-competitive men.
You know, and they were they are very
concerned about their bonus.
But not because they needed the money.
Said, "Well, the money's just a way of
keeping score." And they all said that.
They all knew that. They laughed about
it. It's like they they wanted a bigger
bonus
than the next guy.
The amount didn't matter. The
comparative amount mattered a lot and it
was it's part of a status ranking.
You know, and and that's everything for
young men. Status ranking. God, yes. I
mean, they'll they'll die for that.
They'll kill for that. Like it's not
like we don't know this.
It's in the criminology literature. This
is crystal clear.
You know, the gang a tremendous amount
of gang violence is
is status competition. Well, even more
than the even the economic element of
that is subordinate to the status
competition.
So,
yeah, that's that's crystal clear.
Crystal clear. So, All right, there's
another idea that I need to put this
post in our counter-enlightenment idea
up against.
Uh what's going on in Hamas, Israel,
that conflict. You've got two religions
supposedly both packaging up a ton of
wisdom, but when they collide, it's ugly
and it won't go away. Is there a danger
in trying to communicate wisdom in a
religious package? Of course, there's
danger in every in everything in every
endeavor. Um
the danger is the confusion of the
religious enterprise with dogmatic
certainty.
Fundamentally, I mean,
the there's no reason to assume at all
that the religious enterprise can't
degenerate into totalitarian psychopathy
for that matter. Does all the time. Not
least because it's in the interest of
the totalitarian psychopath to hijack
the religious enterprise. Now, they do
that all the time.
That's their modus operandi. Again,
that's the same people that Christ is
contending with constantly in the
Gospels. I mean, at multiple levels he
contends with the tyrants themselves
from Rome, but it's not like there's no
tyrants in the Jewish community, and all
of those tyrants use religion to be
tyrannical with. And yet, it's the most
egregious sin, or one of the most
egregious sins. So, the third
commandment, depends on how you count
them, but the third commandment is
generally held to indicate something
like, "Do not use God's name in vain."
And people think that means don't swear,
and it kind of means that in some
trivial way, but mostly what it means is
do not claim divine motivation for
self-serving behavior. And that's what
all the protesters are doing. "We're so
compassionate." In public. It's like,
"No, I don't think so."
I think you're narcissistic psychopaths,
fundamentally. And if you're not, well,
at that moment you're certainly
possessed by that spirit. Look at how
good we are.
That's why Christ says in the Gospels
not to let your left hand know what your
right hand is doing. If you're going to
be good, do it in secret. Why? So you
don't
so you don't fall prey to the temptation
to make your good subordinate to your
pride.
Right? That's what they
bloody Oedipal mothers do all the time.
Look how much I love my son.
Yeah, he doesn't even have a penis
anymore.
We solved that problem for him.
Wow. Yeah, wow. It's so bloody, it's so
brutal, it's so dark. It's It's
virtually unimaginable. It's such a pit.
It's so awful.
And then the mother can parade around
with What What has she got? Her son's
genitals on a stick, so she can parade
down the street. Oh, absolutely. And
show her neighbors,
"Look how compassionate I am. No matter
what he turns into, I still love him."
Brutal.
Would she say that, or would it be
something more along the lines of, "He
is so loving and so compassionate for
having been at my breast that he has
essentially voluntarily discarded these
toxic
That'd be your cover story.
And you know, the other part of that
secret desire is, well, an immense
hatred for men.
Immense. Immense hatred for men.
For for or for what that particular
breed of woman thinks men stand for and
are. So, you know,
Where Where does that come from? If four
Oh, it comes from all sorts of places.
Lots of those Lots of women like that
were terribly damaged by men, by
power-mad men,
you know, who hurt them in all sorts of
terrible ways.
They Lots of these people, you know, you
hear their story and you think, "Well,
it's no wonder you think that way." But
that's that's no that's no excuse,
because many people who are terribly
abused don't grow up to be abusers. They
decide that they're going to take the
opposite route, you know? You can learn
a lot from being abused, and one of the
things you can learn is not to do it.
So, what idea has possessed them
that makes them break bad when that
horrific thing happens to them?
I think you have to read my new book. I
can't I can't I can't simp It's too
complicated to simplify.
See if I can come up with some
reasonable
"I'm virtuous because I was hurt."
That'd be That's part of it, for sure.
Mhm. Yeah. And that's part of the If
you're a victim, you're an infant, and
if you're a infant victim, then you're
moral and to be protected at all cost,
and anything that threatens you as a
predator, and
there's nothing too terrible for a
predator, right, to meet out to a
predator, which is another part of the
underground attraction for that, because
this is the horror show of the
oppressor-oppressed narrative. Once you
identify the oppressed, and you identify
them with innocence, you identify the
oppressor with predation, or even worse,
parasitical predation. It's exactly what
Hitler did to the Jews. 100% predatory
parasite. What do you do with predatory
parasites? You burn them to the ground.
No holds barred. Not No punishment is
too extreme.
And then, well, then you get Auschwitz.
So, brutal. And then you get to have all
the delights of being the Auschwitz
Auschwitz guard.
And then the darkest part of your soul
has the chance to come out and play.
Is that what you think is going on right
now? I was I was taken aback. I did not
see it coming that
there were pro-Palestine marches on
October 8th. So, we Israel's response.
It's algorithmic.
Oppressor-oppressed.
Well, how do you know the oppressors?
They're statistically overrepresented in
positions of authority.
And obviously, by definition, then
they're oppressors. Well, who's most
statistically overrepresented in
positions of authority?
Jews.
That's like the door's open, man.
So, why are they the canary in the coal
mine? Why, in a way that is so bizarre
throughout history
is part of it is the reason I just said.
So, then you might say, "Well, why are
they more likely to be successful?"
Well, they're smarter. That's part of
it. By a lot. You mean at a truly
um
Biological level. That they just as as a
group they have a higher IQ.
Yeah, and they have neurological
problems that go along with that, like
Is that controversial or are people
debating
is.
Do people debate the fact?
Stupid people debate it.
Well, I'm serious. Like the the the the
the IQ literature has something in it to
appall everyone deeply. I I mastered
that literature in like 1993-4
with a student of mine who I still work
with, brilliant student. He got bounced
right out of the whole academic world
because
of the response to his work. Partly.
On IQ? Well, we were were looking at
neuropsychological functions associated
with the prefrontal cortex specifically,
but it devolved into IQ because
everything to do with abstraction
devolves into IQ.
IQ's a brutal literature and so and
Jews, you know, what Ashkenazi Jews
specifically, they have IQ's that are
probably 15 points higher than the
typical
than the typical 15 points. Yeah, so
they're radically over overrepresented.
So, you know, at the middle that doesn't
make that much difference although it
makes some. They're very likely to be at
the top of their class, but if you go
out to like IQ 145 where the serious
action starts, Jews are way
overrepresented. And if you don't like
that theory, well, how about they have a
giant conspiracy to take over the world
as a substitute theory. So, I don't care
which of those theories you like. It's
like you're going to Both of them are
like fire. Both of those theories are
fire.
And so, but you're stuck with one or the
other.
So,
that's life. That's life, you know, and
so what what should happen is that
people should be bloody happy that
there's smart Jews around.
And the Jews should be very careful not
to take their intellectual superiority
as a marker of What would you say?
Excess intrinsic worth? No, I'm not
saying that they are more prone to that
than anyone else, by the way, but it is
a it is a temptation for intelligent
people to identify with their
intelligence and to become prideful.
Right? That's actually how in some ways
how God keeps the eternal scales of
cosmic justice balanced. So, imagine
you're born with an IQ of 145.
Well, then you might think, well, that's
not very fair because what about the
poor guy who's born with an IQ of 85?
And those are very different. They're
very very very very different.
And and you say, well, that's completely
unfair. It's like, fair enough, but the
guy with the IQ of 145 is is prone to
the temptations of the pride of the
intellect. And that is Lucifer, right?
It's like that's the worst temptation.
And so, Lucifer is the spirit of
intellect gone most dreadfully wrong.
And so, sure, you can have an IQ of 145,
but man, you better uh
you better be on your knees in gratitude
that that gift was given to you, and you
better not misuse it because
if that thing takes the upper hand, you
are in the hands of the worst possible
agent of destruction.
And of course, like, well, no, it's the
intellect that goes most dreadfully
wrong. That's not the worst possible
threat. Obviously, that's the worst
possible threat.
And so, you know, it says in the Gospels
that if you've been given a lot, you'll
there'll be a lot demanded of you. And
that goes for intelligent people. They
better develop some humility.
Uh uh uh
a virtue that's sadly lacking at the
moment with our worship of pride, let's
say. Mhm.
Pride and hedonism. Jesus. Brutal. Those
two ideas in particular you think grip
people today?
Power, pride, and hedonism. Yeah, that's
a that's a
Yeah, absolutely. Well, if you make your
sexual identity paramount, it's like
you've identified the I with with the
impulse, essentially, with the whim,
right? Cuz sex is a whim. Like,
obviously.
Now, does it rule? Well, what what is it
that you are if sex rules?
You're the wolf, that's for sure.
That's for sure. And a wolf to yourself,
too.
So, you know, when you see this
ambivalence on the left because on the
one hand, anything goes and all forms of
sexuality are to be like celebrated,
worshipped, essentially, cuz celebration
and worship are the same thing. Yet, sex
is so dangerous,
especially between like members of a
young heterosexual pair, that absolutely
every single bit of it has to be
regulated right to the last word. It's
like, well, you licentiousness breeds
tyranny. That's why the [ __ ] of Babylon
is on the great scarlet beast of the
state at the end of time.
Tell me exactly what that means when you
break it down.
Well, imagine that when masculinity
degenerates, the state pathologizes. The
patriarchy pathologizes. Well, what
happens to females?
They pathologize, too. Well, where do
How do they pathologize? In the
direction of disinhibited sexuality.
So.
35% of internet traffic is pornographic.
Yeah, but that's not driven by women,
that's driven by men.
It's driven by bloody women, too. Woah.
Parading themselves. Absolutely.
It might be Like, there's no shortage of
electronic pimps and desperate
engineers, let's say, but that doesn't
mean the women who engage in that are
innocent by any stretch of the
imagination. They're they're uh
they're doing the same thing with their
sexuality that
that that the that people granted the
talent of intelligence do with their
with their
with their gift. Look at me. It's It's
No.
Wrong.
Those women online displaying
themselves, they're succubae.
They're not human. You're a fool if you
think that's human. You're a fool.
At minimum, it's a machine-human hybrid.
A woman doesn't appear in a million
places at the same time.
Whatever that is, that's not a woman.
Yeah, what do you make of the OnlyFans
dynamic between men and women?
Uh the more I look at this, the more I'm
getting freaked out. There was a a woman
named
looking then. Yeah. Well,
looking at it truly through a research
lens, but
uh Belle Delphine, I believe is her
name. Uh back in 2020, she sold 10
million pounds worth of her bath water.
Oh, that's perfect. The [ __ ] of Babylon
has a cup full of liquid, by the way, in
gold, a gold cup full of liquid that she
offers the world.
Really? Absolutely. Absolutely.
Absolutely. Look at how wonderful this
is. It's actually What does it say in
the Book of Revelations? It's filled
with the filth of her abominations.
God. Perfect.
what is that? It's people wanting to
consume that thing they can't have, that
they have idolized?
Of course. Of course. It's It's It's
people wanting to consume the thing that
is denied
to them because they hid their light
under a bushel.
Because they hid uh they hid who they
could become from themselves and never
pursued it? Sure. And so, they're not
attractive to themselves or anyone else.
Holy [ __ ] Okay, so hold on.
That's for sure. Oh, yes. Brutal.
Brutal. Brutal. Brutal.
women uh ascending to a position of
power with that weird dynamic of
postmodernism.
Uh they've been given a gift of being
able to persuade men through their
beauty to do what they will, to get the
attention that they want. Now, as a
mechanical hybrid, they're able to
appear in tens of thousands, hundreds of
thousands, millions of places.
the chests of men and take their essence
from them.
And then men are hiding their potential
away from themselves, which also
for Yeah, I was going to say.
that then that gives them an excuse for
not doing it. Cuz they think, well, I'm
going to the young guys, let's say, who
decide to be useless, you know, some of
it's genuine response to not being
encouraged and to being punished. Some
of it is, but some of it it's pretty
convenient. It's like
you don't have to put your cross on your
shoulder. Mhm.
No one wants me to do that anyways. It's
like, well, yeah, that that's always
been the case and I mean in some ways,
you know, there's there's new
impediments to
striding forward confidently, but
there's always been impediments.
Yeah, so interesting. So, I uh I train
anybody that will listen
uh that you need to have beliefs in your
life and since facts are overwhelming,
you it's not about recognizing what's
true, it's about recognizing what's
useful, is how I think of it. Uh so, you
have a set of beliefs, you have a set of
values, so you have hierarchy, what
matters to me.
to the right end, that's
Correct. A thousand percent, which is
why I always lead with you have to have
a goal and that goal needs to be
honorable. Yeah. So, you've got beliefs.
so the thing is that's where your god
lies.
The This is where I'm going.
Well, your god lies in the ineffable of
in the ineffable extent of what you
regard as useful. Yes.
that useful tilts in a in a direction.
The sum total of all that would of all
that would be most properly useful. The
essence of that. That's the god. That's
the implicit god. Yeah, I'm realizing I
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is designed to do all the things that
religion does. It's really interesting.
This to me is it's fascinating because
whenever you discover the same thing
from multiple different disciplines, you
can be pretty sure you're converging on
the truth because everybody's just
going, "What actually works?"
Uh but the last thing, the last part of
my cocktail is rules. So, you need rules
in your life. Basically, there need to
be things that you don't do.
Um I'm older
That's good. That's good. That's exactly
right. That's That's where conscience
So, you could imagine the spirit of God
in the Old Testament makes himself
manifest in two forms, calling
and conscience. And conscience is that
what you just described.
It's like the guardrails. It's like
you're going off the path,
you know? So, there's fences and
warnings on the conscience side.
But it's the same thing. And it's the
it's the dynamic between This is This is
what happens in the movie Pinocchio.
So, Pinocchio is called out into the
world. His father is benevolent, a
benevolent creator. that's Geppetto.
He's called out into the world to make
himself manifest, to realize himself, to
become real.
And there's two things that attract him.
He wants to go out and learn and have
his adventure, that's the calling, and
but it that has to be allied with a
conscience. And the reason for that is
the calling alone gets him in trouble.
Like first of all, it it entices him to
be coming a narcissistic, psychopathic,
manipulative actor.
That's when he's on stage.
Right? Then it entices him into lying to
get away with things and to get what he
wants. So, that's another extension of
that manipulation. Then it entices him
to become neurotic enough so that he can
take a permanent holiday.
Then he goes to Pleasure Island where he
can engage in hedonism. That's where the
slavers are.
Right.
And so, he needs That's what That's what
just the calling alone, you know, will
take him places that
are attractive but not appropriate. You
need a conscience along for the ride,
and that's Jiminy Cricket.
Right? And Jiminy Cricket is what bugs
you.
Exactly. Yes. And so, that's one of the
places you can find your destiny is in
what bothers you. There's going to be an
array of things that make themselves
manifest to you as callings of your
conscience. Those are problems. Those
are your problems.
Why is that your problem? It's like,
well, can you stop thinking about it?
Does it bug you all the time? Well, hey,
there you go. That's your destiny.
Right? Where does this all go? You've
got Canada has declined economically.
You guys are now making 60% of what
Americans are making. China
can do worse than that with a little
work.
let's hope not. Uh China is watching
everything everybody does. They're way
beyond 1984.
2024 in the US is uh it's terrifying.
The election, does it actually build up
to civil war? I don't know. Yep, UK.
You've got conflict Russia-Ukraine.
You've got conflict Israel. You've got
the farmers revolt in Europe. Yeah, like
where does this go?
It depends on how many of us shoulder
our crosses and walk uphill.
I I really mean that. Like
we're at that point.
Wake up.
Figure out which side you're on.
If you were a betting man,
what odds do you give um
US Civil War, what odds do you give
World War III?
Well, we
we're already in World War III.
So, I'd give that 100%. How far will it
go? Depends on how stiff-necked we are.
Right? So, the Egyptian tyrant is
visited by
is it 10 plagues?
The last plague is the destruction of
the future itself. That's the death of
the firstborn.
So, you know,
it depends on how hard
we have to be hit before we wake up.
And there's no end to that.
You know, I mean
God destroys the whole world in a flood.
You know, that never happened. It's
like, how about it's happening all the
time?
How about it's happened forever? It's
happening now. It will happen forever.
How high does the water have to rise
till people learn?
And what does it mean to learn? Well,
this is why I'm a psychologist, not a
politician.
Or a theologian, to whatever degree I
lay pretensions to that. Someone
concerned with spiritual matters, let's
say.
Psychological matters.
Redemption is a matter of individual
determination. So, that's why I operate
at the level of the individual.
How far will we have to go? Depends on
how many sins you
decide to continue harboring.
How are you connected? How is that
decision connected to the destiny of the
world?
We all bear the world on our shoulders.
How How can that be true?
Here's one way of thinking about it.
How much better would the people around
you be if you were better?
Some, obviously.
What's the ultimate extent of that?
What if you were everything you could
be?
That's what you're called upon to be.
You're called upon to be everything you
can be. Why? Not least because the
Try getting through the world without
doing it.
Then you'll end up in the position of
Cain.
You didn't offer your best. You'll be
rejected by man, woman, and God, and
yourself. And then what? Then you're
bitter. Then you're fratricidal. Then
you're murderous. Then you're genocidal.
Then the flood comes.
Or you erect the Tower of Babel.
It's always the same.
And now you can see it. Like
it's just right there.
Why? Cuz it's happening so fast.
Reading the book
Beyond Order,
there was
a part in there that struck me as this
is going to be the new battleground that
Jordan is going to be fighting on. Oh,
good.
Do you have a sense of um
what in the book is going to trigger
people?
No.
I mean, I didn't think that the lobster
in the last book was going to be so
pilloried. I mean, I thought it was I
thought it was really cool. It's like oh
my god, serotonin mediates dominance in
lobsters and people. How ancient, how
remarkable.
But
well, that took off in all sorts of
directions, you know, and people made
fun of it. It's like, well, you can make
fun of 350 million years of evolutionary
history if you want.
You can put your social constructionism
up against 350 million years of
evolutionary history. Good luck to you.
I didn't think it was like and you know,
the idea that I was trying to insist
that because lobsters live in
hierarchies that
hierarchies are the source of all moral
value. Like that, you know, that's
I was trying to insist that hierarchies
are are so inevitable that you see
nervous systems adapting to them across
virtually every level of animal.
And why? Well, because some things are
valuable.
And since and within any given domain of
value, some valuable things are more
valuable than other things.
And so you have a hierarchy. There's no
avoiding it. As long as you need
something, as long as there's scarcity,
a hierarchy is inevitable.
Yeah, hi
You know, nobody cares how many big pens
you have.
It's because they're not scarce.
So you can't have status because you
have 200 of them.
But as soon as there's scarcity, there's
a hierarchy.
And there's always scarcity of one form
or another, no matter how rich you get.
You know, if you're if you have 100
million dollars, Picasso paintings are
still scarce.
Yeah, the
the pushback on the the lobster thing
falls into two things for me. One, I
don't understand why people look for a
reason not to listen to somebody, which
to me most of people coming after you
for that one just they didn't want you
to be right or to be heard and so they
went after something that they thought
they could memify and and shut down on.
And then the other one
that. Like I understand that. I It's
obvious why people are looking for a
reason not to listen to someone. It's
like how god damn many people can you
listen to? There's 9 billion of them.
You know, so you have to not listen to
almost everyone and so you'll fall for
any excuse. And sometimes that's not so
good, you know, because you have a bias
that prejudices you against a viewpoint
that you actually need. That's that's a
problem. But the phenomenon itself,
like, you know, you you you mentioned,
sorry to bring this up again, but
because it's germane and and relevant,
someone said something disparaging about
me and they were on your staff. It's
like, well, you have lots of
options for guests. You're looking for
no.
You're always looking for no because you
can only say yes to a very limited
number of things. Mhm.
So,
that's another reason we have to be very
careful about our prejudices because
we need them, you know, to
I don't mean prejudice in the obviously
in the
inappropriate social sense, but Jesus,
we have to shield ourselves from an
excess of information. We're very
limited capacity processors. Mhm. No
question.
I I don't understand though. I don't
understand really
and it's really killing me, I think. I
might might mean that literally.
I don't understand why I'm so
controversial.
I can't figure that out. It's very
distressing to me.
Do you want me to take a stab at it?
Sure. Good metaphor.
All right, so my gut instinct in terms
of why a certain type of person uh
responds negatively to you
is
when you think of a person as a blank
slate and that we all have this
collective responsibility to make sure
that everybody ends up the same, then
you saying some people are better at
something than others already is feels
judgmental. And so
It is. It Oh, yes. It is judgmental. And
but when you have a collectivist view
and you believe that everyone should
have equal outcome, which by the way, I
think everybody, yourself included, like
if only, right? Like that would be
amazing. Like if everybody could live
truly in harmony and that didn't violate
principles of just the human animal,
which is why I always remind people to
remember you're having a biological
experience. But you say things that are
they violate a deeply compassionate
person's desire to take care of
everybody. The sort of no child left
behind type thing. And when you insist
on in your own life, like I'm only going
to say that which is true and I'm
certainly not going to let somebody
force me to say something I don't
believe is true. So, now with that and
by the way, all of that and this is a
key thing I think you have to
understand, you're fighting with a level
of intensity that makes sense when you
realize your obsession with what
happened in the 20th century, the gulag
archipelago, what happened there,
obviously Nazi Germany, Mao's China,
like
the number of people that have been
killed in these essentially social
experiments. So, you have this deep
intense thing trying to get people to
understand, like hierarchies are real,
there's no escaping them, not everybody
is as good as everybody else at
everything and by the way, you have to
shoulder responsibility and
that's where people are like, you just
to them, I cannot and before I say what
they think, I will reiterate, you have
changed my life forever and for the
better. I will forever be grateful to
the things that you continue to put out
into the world and I missed you horribly
as a thought leader during 2020 of all
years to be on a Jordan Peterson diet. I
was not happy about that.
But what they think of is
that you're being mean for the sake of
being mean. That you're not trying to
help them see. You cannot pretend
reality isn't reality. In pretending
that the dragon is not there, the dragon
does not go away. The dragon grows more
powerful, more likely to devour you and
your family. And so I'm saying
smaller.
They don't see that.
And so that's why I'm like when I see
people attack you, I'm like Jesus
Christ, how many times does he have to
say this is about a balance between
order and chaos that you need both of
these things that you have to show the
responsibility because that is what
reality demands. That you're in you're
nested in an evolutionary context. There
are things like hierarchies that will
play out in
in the
the
body
in conception. Exactly. And so you may
not want to feel bad when you walk in
the room and are worse at something than
everybody else, but you're going to. You
may not want to feel bad when you're
rejected, but you're going to. You may
not want to feel bad because you're just
lazing around your house and not doing
anything, but you're going to. And
you have peered into enough of human
nature to recognize, hey, there are just
certain truisms. You've now given us 24
of the I forget how many were originally
in the core article, 49 or whatever. So
42. 42, okay. We've got 24
to the life, the universe and
everything. Right. Is that all, Jordan?
That's Hofstadter's number.
So oh my god, that's perfect, actually.
Uh
it it is
this incredible thing once you break
free from ideology. And that's where
again, this is one of the rules in
Beyond Order,
not to fall prey to ideology. This is
where I thought you were going in the
beginning with identity. I thought you
were going to say
identity has become pathological because
it has become it's been simplified. You
talk about this in Beyond Order. Once
you simplify something, and this is how
an ideologue gets you. They simplify it.
They make it very understandable.
Becomes very clear who's in and who's
out. You can reward and punish based on
that. People are grabbing these
unnegotiated
self-determined
pieces of identity that don't
necessarily bring value to the larger
world, which will create dissonance in
their own life because they've got all
this substructure running telling them
to be that.
value.
You You know what I mean? It's like I'm
not saying they're like your race, I
suppose, is a value,
but it's not a tradable value. And your
gender and your sex, the same thing.
It's like
I guess it's partly cuz there's no
scarcity.
You know? It's like we've got enough
white people. Being white doesn't buy
you anything.
So,
and I I I'm not saying that with any
pleasure.
That's what I think people miss. This is
why I think people come after you.
They don't recognize that you're not
saying it
You're not relishing in this. You want
people to be happy. And I I I I'm always
so confused. Jordan, I don't know why
you remain as vulnerable and open as you
are after the time saying I was like,
"What the fuck?" You sounded so kind,
open, compassionate after what 4 years
of you know, some percentage of the
world relentlessly slandering you. And
obviously you get people that cheer you
on, probably way more people that cheer
you on than don't. But you still remain
vulnerable, which is [ __ ] incredible.
But the fact that they don't recognize
that you're trying to help. Like, I
could get it if they said, "Hey, look, I
disagree with Jordan on this, that, or
the other." But Maybe they do recognize
that. You know, there's a lot of
cynicism about the help, and I I can't
understand why you'd be cynical about
help unless you weren't that help
weren't that pleased about the idea of
help.
You know, like all these deplorables
that I'm helping, these angry young men.
You know, they don't deserve help.
Well, I don't think that.
I don't know anyone that doesn't deserve
help.
You know, that there's this idea in the
New Testament that you should love your
enemies.
It's like
why would you do that? Well,
it'd be better if they weren't
your enemies.
And their unnecessary suffering doesn't
help.
It's not helpful.
It's not like you don't you know, anyone
with any sense, anyone who's human
is liable to take pleasure in vengeance
or even in But, you know, when people go
after the journalists that have gone
after me, I don't take any pleasure in
that.
I don't sit back at my home and rub my
hands and think,
you know,
you got what was coming to you.
I do think sometimes you got what was
coming to you, but I think of that more
like watching someone in the road, you
know, they're in the road and they have
their back turned and a truck runs over
them. It's like, well, you were in the
road and there was a truck.
And
so you got what was coming to you
because you were on the road and there
was a truck, but I don't take any
pleasure in it.
I don't see that it's helpful.
What do you want people to get out of
Beyond Order? It It is extraordinarily
well thought through. It is very well
laid out. Each sentence stacks like a
brick upon the next. I wouldn't advise I
don't know if you feel differently, but
I wouldn't advise people read them out
of order. It's literally this very
careful case being made that taken in
totality is
breathtaking in its advice.
them in either order. I think you can
read them in either order.
I tried Maybe maybe they're better read
in order, but but um
I think that if you read the second one
first, then it would color your vision
of the first one. I mean I mean the
rules. The I think you're right. 12
Rules for Life and Beyond Order it
doesn't matter. They're yin and yang.
mean the rules themselves?
themselves. Just it it stacks so well.
Otherwise it wouldn't be a book, okay? I
mean each The thing about writing a book
is that you're outside of time and space
in relationship with the book because
chapter one comes before chapter 12, but
not when you're writing it. You can go
back and modify chapter one because of
chapter 12. I did try to tie them
together so that they make a book, you
know, and they one builds upon another.
That's like that's the musical element
of it as well. The recurrent themes.
I'm glad you liked it. See, I can't
tell. I can't evaluate it. Um I'm hoping
that it
it's of the same level of quality that
the first book was.
And I'm not making any claims saying
that about the level of quality of the
first book. I'm just That was as good as
I could do. And I wrote the second one
under
unbelievable duress.
Yeah.
And so I can't tell if it's, you know,
whether that was a
curse or well, certainly a curse.
And no doubt about that. I don't know
what how it impacted the book, though.
Mhm. It's hard to say what it would be.
to get out of it? Well,
I'm hoping that they find it useful the
same way they seem to have found the
first one. How to order their lives.
actually hurts me. Actually, both of
them hurt me, I would say.
Because
I'm ashamed, you know, of what's
happened to me.
What do you mean?
And
they're books about life and my life is
I'm very hurt. I'm a very destroyed
person in many ways and so I feel
unworthy.
Unworthy of what?
Tell.
You name it.
I hope people find it useful,
you know.
I hope it alleviates some unnecessary
suffering.
That's the
Sorry. goal. Here's how I read your
books and everything that you've put out
into the world.
The people that should write the
instruction manual are the people that
have struggled and
in your suffering, you have been able to
piece together useful information, which
is the barometer by which I judge a
book's value for sure.
The reason people flock to your
lectures, they buy your book is you have
made in modern times the single most
coherent and useful instruction manual
for life.
Period. So, the I fear that the
brokenness that you feel, the heartache
that you feel translates into something
usable that couldn't be written by
somebody that hadn't gone through what
you've gone through.
Well, I would like to believe that was
true. You know, there's a bit too much
self-justification in it for my taste,
but
I thought the other day I probably do
this too and
I I have to record an announcement for
this book cuz it's coming out on
Tuesday. I thought the best announcement
would be just to thank people for
all of their kind attention.
I'm very fortunate
in that regard.
I get letters from people all the time
that
they they open up their hearts,
you know, it's really something.
But I am somewhat nonplussed, let's say,
for all this
work. I'm pretty broken.
Mhm.
In general or just in this moment?
Don't know.
I think in general.
Man, well, I will say this as somebody
whose life you have touched
and the thing I want you to recognize in
me as I imagine countless other people
want you to recognize in them
more than warm wishes is
I have put to use the things that you're
teaching and they have made my life
better and they have made the lives of
those around me better.
And
man, it is really heartbreaking to see
you um
go through what you're going through now
and I I certainly get it. Um
you know, and I don't know you well
enough to offer you any sort of um
familial
consolation. So, I will just say that
what you do matters probably more than
you think it does, certainly as much as
you think it does.
And I I had never met you through 2020
and I started reaching out to people
that we both know
asking about you because I I believe
that the world needs the insights that
you uniquely have coming from your
background of mythology and
understanding what is
deeply ingrained in the human psyche
from an evolutionarily shaped
perspective.
And that nobody is putting it together
the way that you're putting it together
and the fact that you've been
you know, I mean, hopefully it's it's
small in comparison to the people that
are supporting you, but Jesus, like I
don't I know I would not put up with the
amount of [ __ ] that you've put up with
and the fact that I think that
individual's the only way to approach
any systemic problem. Like you just have
to deal with the individuals and then
from there it will echo out into
society. And so the fact that that's
your approach um
I kept telling people we need Jordan
Peterson right now.
And
I'm so grateful you're back.
And I know this book will be
very successful because it's good.
you liked it. I'm glad you liked it
because like I said, I it's really hard
for me to evaluate it. You know,
sometimes I
Well, I have every possible thought that
you could have about it. You know,
sometimes I read it and I think, "Oh,
that seemed to have turned out pretty
good." And other times I think, "Jesus,
I've said this 50 times already." And
yeah, I'm all over the place. I can't
I think that happens it happens when you
write a book. You get so cuz I you know,
if when you read someone else's book
you can kind of tell if the ideas are
original at least in so far as you're
concerned.
Mhm.
Well, I can't tell because I these are
my ideas. Well, not all of them
obviously, but they're ideas that I'm at
least deeply familiar with. So I can't
tell to what degree it's original.
None of it. And so
I and it's it's also I suppose I'm quite
apprehensive about its release in some
sense because
I've set myself up an
impossible
second act.
You know, because the first book was so
insanely popular. I think it's 6 million
copies now in in all the languages that
it's been published in.
So, um
that's impossible. That never happens,
right? It's It's certainly It's like
winning the lottery. It's probably less
probable than winning the lottery. In
fact, I'm virtually certain that it's
less probable than winning the lottery.
And to to imagine doing that twice is
well, that's just It happens, but it's
highly improbable.
Anyways, it's going to all come and then
you know, I'm in a different space than
I was when I released this first book.
So,
this is compared to all This is going to
be compared to all my electronic
avatars, which are busily working out
there in the world. I think there's more
of me outside of me now than there is
inside of me,
weirdly enough.
That's another phenomenon I can't really
get my hand my my my
mind around.
You know, the power of YouTube. Jesus,
that's quite the technology.
When I put those first videos up, you
know, I was this was bothering me, this
piece of legislation. And for a variety
of reasons, some of which we've
discussed, I talked to my wife and my
son sort of casually. I said, "Well, I'm
going to make these videos, see what
happens." And
it's like
famous last words.
Yes. Yeah, man. Look, it's resonated. It
will continue to resonate. You are You
have an extraordinary ability to
translate what people are feeling into
the actions they need to take to get out
of it.
It is not a mistake that you are a very
practiced clinical psychologist that is
able to scale what you were doing
one-on-one now to the many. It's
extraordinary and I think it's really
had an impact on society. My fantasy
being a clinician.
It was a great job.
You know, I really loved it. There was
nothing better than intense
conversations about how to make things
better when both partners in the
conversation are fully committed to
that.
It's such fun to
produce incremental improvements,
sometimes more than incremental, you
know, collaboratively. There's nothing
better than that. I love doing my
lecture tour because it was that on a
large scale. It was I talked to Dave
Rubin about that this week cuz of course
he was long on the tour.
And it was such it was so
perfect to be talking to people about
making things better and to have
everyone at least in that moment fully
on board with the idea. You couldn't You
couldn't ask for anything better than
that. It was great. And to have the
support I've had from people, it just
stuns me.
You know, I think it's actually
traumatic
to have that much support.
That's interesting. Why traumatic?
It's not easy to know what to do with.
You know, the cheers of a million
people.
It's overwhelming. It's dangerous.
Dangerous because it can
seep into your identity or
is probably not directly relevant, but I
don't know. You know, I've thought a lot
about Hitler.
You know, was it his arrogance or his
humility that led him to be the savior,
so-called, of Germany?
He had millions of people cheering for
him.
How could you not think you were right?
How could you possibly think you weren't
right?
And so there's danger in that.
You know, I don't think I've
I don't think I've unfairly benefited
from it.
I'm not a hedonistic person.
My life style hasn't changed.
Um
but it's still it's it's just difficult
to
See, I also think
These are things I don't know what to
think about, you know, that I'm talking
about.
If you're a movie star,
people
are your fans, you know, for your roles.
But I'm not playing a role.
Or if I am, it's me.
I'm no different on
in this conversation than I am whenever
I'm doing anything.
You know, I think, well, what is it?
Well, I'm talking about all these great
clinical ideas. It's the power of the
ideas. It's the power of the
communications technology brought
together. And that's probably sufficient
explanation.
But it's still strange. And maybe I was
pretty old when this happened to me, and
maybe that's makes it more difficult to
adapt to.
But you know, my videos have been viewed
something like, if you count them all
up approximately
with the ones that people have cut, it's
like 600 million times.
Some insane number.
It's incredible.
It's incredible, man. It speaks to the
impact.
So, not that anybody would have a hard
time finding you, but if people want to
track you and the book and the progress
and you getting more involved now again,
uh where should they do it?
Well, you can go to jordanbpeterson.com,
and everything's laid out there. I have
a list of recommended books.
That's quite fun. There's about 100
books there. If you read all those
books,
well, you'd be educated. Not in
everything, but
you know, you'd have an education.
So, there you go. There's an education
for anyone who wants it. They're 100
great books. That doesn't mean you know
everything about everything or even
something about everything, but
what you do know would be useful and you
would know it.
And lots of people are reading those
books. I can tell because I run it
through Amazon
uh as a
third-party vendor. Mhm. Okay.
So, I get some sense of how many book
affiliate, yeah. Get some sense of how
many books are being published a month
and it or bought a month. It's a lot.
So, that's fun.
Um the exercises that my partners and I
have developed, self-authoring,
and the personality
test, UnderstandMyself, are
are you can find them there. And
self-authoring helps people write out an
identity, past, present, and future. And
that seems to be really useful for
people cuz it's better to have a plan.
You know, what's the idea?
If you don't have your own plan, then
you're the tool of someone else's plan.
So, that's probably not good, especially
if you don't know what their plan is.
You have to explain what's happening now
with LLMs and how they're finding the
patterns in the language cuz that that
really made me look at the digital
corpus in a new way. Absolutely. Well, I
think that we'll be able to use the
large large language models. We're I'm
I've tongue-in-cheek established a new
scientific discipline with a former
student of mine,
uh Victor Swift, who now works with me
and works on large language models,
which we've been playing with a lot,
computational epistemology.
So, he's found a set of 10 words that
functionally replace the notion of God
in the English language corpus.
What are the 10 words?
I don't know all 10 of them to tell you
the truth, but you know, you can
imagine. So, imagine God is the shared
variance of words such as good, true,
beautiful, just, merciful. Interesting.
Right. Right. So, then imagine that God
dies. So, that center word disappears,
but the spirit's embedded in the cloud
of concepts. Well, that the cloud of
concepts around a given concept is the
archetype. The center, sorry, the
central tendency of a cloud of related
concepts is the archetype.
Yeah. But then we can map it.
We can map it now with the large
language models. Yeah, it's stunning.
That's really important for people to
understand that that in cracking
at least mimicking human intelligence in
a way where we can't distinguish the
difference, what you're looking for are
these interconnected patterns. Well,
well, that's exactly That's what the
models do. That's how they're trained,
right? Is that they're trained on
conditional probability essentially
towards a goal. So,
you can tell a word, let's say a
non-word like
"nant", n a n t, nant.
That's a
It's a non-word, but it's not It's less
of a non-word than z x q r.
Well, why? Well, because the statistical
relationship between the letters in the
word "nant" are more akin to English
words than the statistical relationships
letter to letter in the all consonant
other non-consonant all consonant
non-word. Okay. Well, the large language
models map the statistical relationship
not only between letters, but between
words,
adjacent words, but then words two words
away, words three years words away, two
words two two words away from two other
words,
like the whole map essentially. Right.
Right. And so, but they do that
statistically. They do that
mathematically. So, that what really
what that means now is that if these
models are
programmed honestly
trained honestly, a very difficult thing
to manage, then we can use statistics to
evaluate the structure, the implicit
structure of meaning. And that's what
literary critics have been doing
forever. And you know, Harris, when he
argued with me, he said, "Well, you
know, you're just that's just your
interpretation." Which meant of the
biblical text, for example, which turned
him instantly into a postmodernist,
right? There's an infinite number of
interpretations of any text and there's
no canonical order between them. That's
the postmodernist claim, the lack of
meta-narrative, let's say, which means
there's no you you union. It means
there's no comprehensibility. It means
everything fragments ultimately, which
is what they wanted so they could dance
in the ruins and pursue their own
short-term gratification, right? With
power as their as their as their
hypothetical guardian and guide.
Terrible, terrible.
These interpretations aren't arbitrary.
They're not arbitrary. They're coded
into the language. That's what makes the
language comp- Without that coding,
language would not be comprehensible.
Now, with the postmodernists even knew
this to some degree because they knew
Saussure. He was he wasn't a
postmodernist, but he was a precursor.
He knew that the meaning of a word was
coded in its relationship to other
words. Now, it's more complex cuz it's
the same for phrases and sentences and
paragraphs and the entire structure has
that
what would you say? That networked that
networked nature, right? But none of
that's arbitrary.
And and here's why it's not arbitrary.
This is so cool. It's it's not arbitrary
partly because
it has to be comprehensible to you and
to me and to everyone else. So, that's a
terrible constraint, right? It's like it
has to be a game everyone can play. So,
that's a really wicked constraint, one
of those multi-dimensional constraints
we're talking about earlier, but there's
more to it. I had a vision of this this
this week about how this and it's been
developing for years, this idea. So,
imagine there's like a central pillar. I
envisioned it as a pillar of fire with
sort of God at the base of that and then
there are stacked discs of
manifestation, material, imaginational,
no, material, behavioral, imaginational,
semantic.
Right? So, the material world has an
implicit structure that's captured in
imagination.
And so, the world of images is going to
have the same network structure as the
world of words that the LLMs have
modeled. Soon the LLMs will build a
model of the world of images and soon
they'll be able to lay them on top of
one another. And that's what we do
because our semantic
representation system is isomorphic with
the underlying imaginational system and
that's isomorphic with the behavioral
system and that's isomorphic with the
material system. And so, there and then
the concordance between those is the
truth of the claim.
Right? So, if it's true, it's true
semantically, imaginatively,
behaviorally and it's reflective of the
structure of the material world. That's
a tight set of constraints. There's
nothing arbitrary about that. There's no
the meaning is only in the text. That's
the ultimate claim of the disembodied
rational prideful intellect. It's all in
the words. It's like
No.
No, no. Yeah, that that to me is the
punchline about what you're calling the
counter-enlightenment of
all of these patterns are present in the
biblical corpus and that's how you know
That's right. That's right. It's a
reflection. That's exactly right. It's a
It's well,
what the hell else do you think we've
been doing for 4,000 years than trying
to map this? That's what we've been
trying to do with every tool at our
disposal. Now, and you but you pointed
to a further constraint.
The representation has to be made
manifest in a form accessible to
everyone. Mhm. Right. Right. Well, is
that going to be in the form of complex
scientific theories?
No, that's the domain of specialists,
obviously. Obviously, obviously. And
besides that, even that specialized
knowledge, you can't use that to orient
you in the world. There's no reason to
assume that your
you know, typical evolutionary biologist
is any wiser, you know, than your
typical plumber. Mhm. Often far less. At
least a plumber is constrained, you
know.
The world of constraints that a plumber
operates in, that's a pretty
tangible world. You're wrestling with
the essence of material reality. That's
for sure.
who wrestle with pipes. Yes, definitely,
definitely. Well, and plumbers, you
know, I would say
there's it's hard to uh imagine a
profession that has contributed more to
the world than plumbers. Right. So All
right. This this whole idea I find
utterly profound. Um
I worry though we are in a super weird
moment. You are you're a canary in a
coal mine for me in terms of freedom of
speech and the Overton window, what
people are allowed to say. Mhm. Um
the the authoritarian game only works if
there's nobody there to challenge the
ideas. You refuse to go away, but you're
proving hard to kill, but they have
certainly tried. Most people are very
easy to kill in the world of ideas. They
can shut down their career, make it
impossible for them to make money, which
then makes other people just way too
afraid to speak. I get it. You know the
hell that awaits on being silent, but
most people don't. And honestly, the
hell comes so slowly that most people
are like, well, this is just a little
bit of hell by being silent, a little
bit more, a little bit more, a little
bit more.
hell. Yes, exactly. And
hell is deferred hell is eternal hell.
That's not good.
It is and it isn't good.
the hell like now. Yes, but you are
very, very rare. And so, there's two
things I want to see if we can get to
the other side of using what the um
counter-enlightenment is going to teach
us.
Okay, so one, I I spend a lot of my time
absolutely freaked out about the
authoritarianism that I see creeping in.
As somebody who grew up in the '80s,
like this is just whiplash.
in.
Yeah, it it's insanity. Oh, yeah.
And it scares me because there's people
telling me I can't
700 million CCTVs in China.
Jesus, man.
Yeah, they have full gate recognition,
right? They locked down
knives in people's houses. What?
That's really scary. That that freaks me
out the way people are saying.
Yeah.
Right, that's what makes them tyrants,
right? There'll be nothing that you
There'll be no autonomy. That's the Like
zero. Zero autonomy.
Cuz you know, well, and if if you if you
haven't done anything wrong, you'll
you'll have nothing to worry about.
It's like, well, good, great. Find me
someone who hasn't done anything wrong,
who has nothing to worry about.
Yeah, right.
So, how do you I heard at one point you
were spending like $90,000 a month
fighting everything that's coming at
you?
Um that's crazy. So, how do people who
just absolutely cannot do that, how do
they push back?
Substitute ad- substitute adventure for
security.
Okay. Security, it's like
you're going to pursue security, are
you? You How's that going to work?
You're You're going to die.
You're going to encounter malevolence,
like
you can you can defer the the encounter
to some degree, although not very
successfully.
There's no security.
And and then the thing is, that's the
thing that's so interesting to
understand is you don't want security.
You're not an infant.
It's not what you're after. You're
actually after adventure.
So, where do you find your adventure?
Aim up.
Tell the truth.
And
adventure will come your way. And then
that's so much better than security that
there's no looking back.
It's so incredibly exciting. It's It's
uncharted territory. The thing about the
truth is that you don't know what's
going to happen when you utter it. You
have to let go.
You know, so if I could come in here,
you know, calculating what I want from
this interview, figuring out how it's
going to increase my social status or
make me more money and I mean if it does
those things, okay, but that's not the
aim.
The aim is to come in here and
have wrestling match.
And why? Because I have faith in
outcome.
So what's the faith?
The faith is whatever happens to you
when you tell the truth is the best
thing that could happen, no matter how
it looks to you.
That's a statement of faith. Now,
there's an alternative statement which
is, oh no, no, no, I'll say something
and there'll be a consequence and I'll
have faith that that consequence is the
defining
what would you say? Defining feature of
that utterance. I said something, I got
in trouble, therefore I shouldn't have
said it. It's like, well, what if you
get in trouble, but like 3 weeks later
what everything's way better for you?
Christ, like, it's not like there's any
shortage of things like that in life.
That's what work is. Work is I'm going
to do this thing now that's difficult
so that something better will happen in
the future. Well, truth is like truth is
the ultimate investment in that matter.
Definitely, that's why truth is what
stores up treasure in heaven.
That's what that means.
And so So, how can people
how can people learn this? Try telling
the truth.
I mean I wrote a chapter about this in
one of my books that was quite
accessible. It's like, start by not
saying things you know to be a lie.
Just start with that. Play with it. See
what happens.
See what happens. Walk me through the
morning when that person does that. I'll
talk to young men right now.
Uh they say what they think is true.
They get fired from their job. They go
home.
then they probably bit off more than
they could chew, right? The eternal sin
of Adam, to bite off more than he could
chew. It's like you know, if you don't
know what you're doing and you're in a
dangerous place, maybe, you know, start
on your knees,
humbly,
carefully.
You know, don't go out there and
brandish your new truth and make
yourself into an idiot martyr so you can
tell yourself that you're the Messiah,
you know, with one utterance.
That's not wise. You have to be as wise
as serpents, right? That's the idea.
This isn't a game. You have to you have
to do it with your eyes open. You know,
and if you pay attention, you'll see
your opportunity. You'll see you'll see.
It'll make itself
manifest. You'll see where there's a
choice point where you'll be conversing
with someone and you could take the easy
route out that you usually take or you
could dare, right then and there. And
there's an excitement about that. And
then you'll try it, and, you know, the
other person, you know, maybe you're
kind of a cringing milksop sort of
person and and so you're you're being
intimidated by one of your friends who's
actually a bully that you hate, and you
decide at that moment that you're
finally going to say at least a fraction
of what you've been thinking, and, you
know, it takes them aback. And then
actually likes you better and is 10%
less likely to bully you. Now, you might
get punched, too. You know, that's well,
hey.
It's real.
Like it's That's right. This This is
This is real. It's It's It's the
ultimate game. I suppose the ultimate
game is what's real, but
but it's not like there's not
consequences. One of the The other thing
you have to understand, and this is a
good thing for young men to understand,
is
you're going to pay one way or another.
There's no way out of that.
So, choose your method of payment.
That's what you can do. And and weirdly
enough, if you choose the proper
God, if you choose the proper method of
payment,
the price you pay is is one you would
pay happily. That's what That's why See,
Abraham is called upon to sacrifice his
son, for example.
And in the service of God. And he says,
"Yes."
And then he doesn't have to.
And that's right. And it's the same We
know this even in our families. A mother
who will sacrifice her child to the
world, let the child go, foster that
child's independence, offer the child to
be broken by the world, full-heartedly
will get that child back. Right? The
child won't leave. It's It's so
interesting cuz the child leaves, but
not really. Right? Because that's the
child who wants to maintain a
relationship with the mother for the
rest of the child's life.
Who wants that mother as a grandmother
and who wants her around and who will
return as much as is appropriate, but no
more.
And so, everything you give away, you'll
get back if you give it away in the
right spirit. And we know that even on
the reciprocal front, you know,
I I worked with many many professors and
and society scientists, but let's say as
a graduate student, I had a great
graduate advisor, Robert Peel, who's
still alive and who I still work with.
That case in point.
I loved working in Bob's lab partly
because he was insanely generous with
his ideas. He'd just give them away.
Like, there were professors who like
they'd have an idea and they'd shelter
the damn thing. It's like, "This is my
idea and someone's going to steal." It's
like, first of all, probably it's not
your idea. Second of all, it's not that
great anyway, so don't be so concerned.
There's not a lot of people lining up to
steal your ideas. And third, it's not
that easy to steal ideas anyways, so
there's a fair bit of and and lack of
faith in that. But imagine, we could
even imagine psychophysiologically what
happens to you if you give away your
ideas. So let's say, you know, you're
blessed with a creative spirit and and
you're just giving your ideas away like
mad, like you're a tree that's full of
fruit and you're just distributing it.
Well, everybody that you give an idea to
is thrilled about it and they reflect
that in their enthusiasm and that
enthusiasm is rewarding and that reward
creates a dopaminergic kick and that
dopaminergic kick reinforces the
dominance of the creative spirit and so
then you have more ideas. Mhm. Right.
And this is that's a great example of
how
you get back what you give away in
spades. It's by far the best strategy.
That's why Christ says that, you know,
if someone asks you for I don't remember
the this phrase exactly, but you know,
you give the person who asks your coat,
you walk the mile with them, you give
more than you're called upon to give,
even to your enemies. Why?
Because there's no better strategy than
that by any stretch of the imagination.
This is why there's such an emphasis in
the Old Testament on hospitality.
Be welcoming and productive generosity.
Productive generosity. Well, what does
that ensure? It ensures your own
security, weirdly enough.
Because if you give to a thousand people
and then you're in trouble,
you have a thousand people who are ready
to help.
You know, maybe you could give to a
hundred thousand people or a million
people. I mean, how could you possibly
put anything in a more solid bank than
in the goodwill you generated
in the embodied imaginations of other
people.
That's the kingdom. That's the That's
the treasure That's treasures in heaven.
And they are an eternal form of treasure
in some sense, not least because that
reputation can last
in some cases throughout the ages.
And then it's it's part of the
manifestation of that underlying spirit
of creative generosity that gives rise
to the cosmos itself.
Thing I don't want to get lost in all of
that is that that is somebody who has a
hierarchy of values, whether they got it
religiously or they just decided it. But
the hierarchy of values is what I would
tell people to lean on in times of
trouble.
have just decided it. If they decided
it, it's because something moved within
them, right? Cuz we just aren't
self-created. You know, you know what I
mean? I mean, we we have that
self-creative capacity to some degree,
but we're the inheritors of one
tradition or another or mishmash of
traditions or we're socialized
creatures, intensely socialized
creatures. So, there's all sorts of
things that give rise to impulses within
us. And so,
I would say if someone technically
atheistic is generous and productive in
spirit, then they're infused with the
word, regardless of what the semantic
system sitting on top has to say about
it. It's like, I don't believe that.
It's like,
well, it kind of looks like you do. You
know, if we're going to judge the tree
by its fruits. And so, Dawkins, you
know,
Dawkins doesn't know how much of a
Christian he is.
God, I want to see you two down at the
same time. I want to hear him respond to
that statement.
he's a terrifying guy, you know, I I
unfortunately, the few times I have
talked to him, I'm still quite ill and
um you don't want to talk to Richard
Dawkins when you're not at your best.
And so, but I do believe that we are
scheduled to have a public discussion at
some point in the relatively near
future. So,
That would be amazing. Um going back to
young men, there's an idea that you put
out there that I have talked about just
ad nauseam. I'm so grateful to you for
this concept. I hope you're right that
in the Bible, the idea that the meek
shall inherit the earth makes no sense
when you think of meek as weak, but when
you think of meek as somebody who is
a total badass, but they keep their
sword sheathed. Rogan's a good example.
Why? What's meek about Rogan? Well, it's
not that he's weak.
It's that
he every guest he has he he tries to
learn from.
You know, it's it it's a kind of
there isn't anything more compelling and
powerful than a well-armed humility. And
I've seen this in great people. I've met
I have been privileged to meet many
great people. And I've met the shells of
great people, too. But
the great people I've met are they're
striking in their humility.
Striking. It's a core part of their
character.
And they're not
They're wrestling all the time.
When they talk to someone doesn't matter
who it is.
They're
they're there with them communicating.
You know, one of the things we learned
as we moved along on this tour was I
have security people who also help me
with logistics. And uh
We've had to be very careful about who
we gather around us because all the
people
on the tour have to
treat everyone they come into contact
well with well. All everyone, especially
the people who come to my shows, but in
restaurants, in hotels, like I don't
want to leave uh
This is especially true if you're in the
public eye because okay, if if you're
unknown and you offend someone, they'll
forget it. But if you're well-known and
you offend someone, they will never
forget it.
Mhm. It will burn itself into their
imagination and they will tell
absolutely everyone. They're they'll
feel deeply betrayed and and they have
been. So, so we ensure that everyone
around us treats everyone not well in
the manner that keeps reputation intact,
but well,
not so that reputation stays intact, but
because it's the right thing to do. And
that's a form of that meekness, you
know, it's it that's
that's what it's referring to. This is
what I tell people. So, your identity is
going to drive your behaviors.
Ultimately, your behaviors are the only
thing that matters. So, you're going to
begin by telling yourself identity
statements. You're going to say, "I'm
the type of person that." So, for
instance, "I'm the type of person that
gets out of bed in 10 minutes or less."
Now, I started telling myself that even
when it wasn't true because I needed to
start getting out of bed in 10 minutes
or less. Then
an aspiration.
And then I put more. I'm the type of
person Monday through Friday, if I'm
awake, I'm either working or working
out, right? These become my identity. Um
I am a husband first, right? So, even
before being an entrepreneur, I'm a
husband. Like and I repeat these things
over and over and over. Some are
aspirational and become true over time
and some are a recognition of something
that I'm already doing that I want to
reinforce. So, all I'm trying to do is
use basically cognitive dissonance
against people so that they're not
saying something to themselves and other
people cuz I always encourage them to
say it to other people as well. So,
they're not saying something that
they're not actually doing. So, now
you're trapping yourself into getting
out of bed in 10 minutes or less,
working your ass off Monday through
Friday, prioritizing, in my case, my
wife, things like that. But it's all
like this really rudimentary
thing about behaviors. Just say
statements that you're going to adhere
to that make you act in the way that you
should be acting. Well, that's what a
behaviorist does
in as a therapist is that
is to break things down to the level of
implementable behavior. And yeah, you
you group behaviors
like an ethical statement is actually a
grouping of behaviors.
Right? An ethical statement is a
statement about a group of behaviors or
it's empty.
So,
I want to be a conscientious person.
Okay, we have to decompose that into
implementable actions. What you did
there to some degree. I need to get out
of bed at 8:00. I need to get out of bed
at in 10 minutes or less. I need to have
breakfast within the first half an hour
half hour that I've woken up. I need to
be able to cook my breakfast. I need to
be able to go get groceries because
otherwise I won't have any breakfast to
cook.
And so you decompose it yet you it is
decomposed to the level of implementable
behavior and that means bodily. That's
the point where the abstraction meets
the world, right? Through the actions of
the body.
And behaviors concentrate on exactly
that level rather than you know the
psychoanalytic types might be more
inclined to alter global statements.
That would be say part of the self
narrative. Those are abstractions
because they're collections of behaviors
that are that have an abstract
description associated with them.
And yes, part one of the things that you
do do in therapy is you notice where
there's disjunctions between the way
people describe themselves and the way
they act. Of course you do that in
relationships all the time as well. You
say to people, well you said
This is especially true in intimate and
familiar relationships. You said X but
you do Y. It's like there's a there's a
discordance there and that makes you
unpredictable to me.
I don't like that. It's probably not
that good for you either. Many many
arguments are like that.
So getting back to now how people can
leverage this information in a usable
way in their life and I'll put it in the
context of what I see going on in the
cultural war. The thing that drew me in
is I'm not worried about myself. I'm
worried about other people. And my big
thing is so I've worked in the inner
cities a lot and so I've seen people
that have a an identity what I often
refer to as a frame of reference that
leads them so far astray because their
parents will tell them things like
people don't want somebody who looks
like you to be successful. And so they
don't even try to be successful. And so
that belief about who they are and how
the world conceives of them stops them
from doing the behaviors that would lead
them to be successful.
And so when I look at your core concept,
which I love and think is so brilliant,
that we've been talking to kids about
rights and we really should be talking
to them about responsibility and what
you owe the world instead of what the
world owes you. Now, I'll frame it a
little bit different.
to balance those, right? Because I mean,
even technically speaking,
your rights are my responsibilities and
vice versa. And so we can't only have
half the dialogue because
the responsibility makes enables the
rights.
So, you know, it could easily be that we
could be in a situation where we should
be talking more about rights,
but I don't believe that we are in that
situation at the moment.
And I I I mean, I think for me that's
been born out
by the fact that people have been
interested in what I've been saying
because one of the things I've noticed
time and time again is that whenever I
talk about the relationship between
responsibility and meaning,
the crowds that I'm talking to go
silent. Say, look, you need a meaning to
sustain you through the vicissitudes of
life. Okay, well, try to debate that.
It's like, is life painful? Yes. Is it
anxiety-provoking? Yes. Is it uncertain?
Yes.
Is it painful beyond bearing sometimes?
Yes. It's difficult.
Everyone agrees about that. Now, they
might disagree about how difficult, but
that doesn't matter. That the central
point holds. Okay.
What if you think that's all pointless?
Well, that doesn't seem very helpful.
Okay, so you need a sustaining meaning.
Well, where do you find that?
Well,
you generally find it in responsibility
to yourself and to other people.
And people ask themselves those
questions when when I'm talking cuz I
asked them to ask themselves those
questions and
that's the answer. Well, what's
meaningful? Well, I have a meaningful
relationship with my father. I have a
meaningful relationship with my wife.
I have a meaningful relationship with my
pet, you know, because I take care of
that pet.
Um when I commit to something
and make sacrifices,
that sacrifice is something I also talk
about a lot in both of the last two
books.
You know, if something's valuable,
you'll make sacrifices to attain it. And
that that discovery of sacrifice, I
think that's what separates human It's
one of the primary factors separating
human beings from animals.
Because we discovered that we could let
go of something we value in the present
and we would gain something we value
even more in the future. We acted that
out dramatically in all sorts of strange
ways over thousands and thousands of
years before it was formalizable
psychologically, but it's a massive
discovery. I can forego gratification in
a particular way
and benefit in the future. So, I can
share the proceeds of my hunt
and I store up future food in the form
of reputation
and the favors I've owed I'm owed now by
other people.
It's a massive discovery.
So,
No question on that. So, when I start to
put this back in the context of
you know, what's going on today.
So, I I see you in a certain way. I see
you as somebody who um has had a
long-standing desire to help people make
sense of the world and how to move
through it. Uh both as a public
intellectual and as obviously a
psychologist who's working with people.
And so, when I hear you talking about um
whether it's identity, whether it's the
culture war, whether it's, you know, the
balance, the needed balance between
chaos and order, um it's in trying to
get people to understand something so
they can use it in their life and and
move forward. So,
taking that, the
the reason that I think identity becomes
so important for people now is
they the
generations coming up seem to be using
as a part of their identity a desire for
their rights to focus on that, what I'm
owed. Um, and if they were to flip it
over to the responsibilities that they
have, now they're getting into an
identity statement that changes their
behavior set so profoundly that it gives
them the meaning and purpose that you
were talking about earlier.
Am I gluing these pieces together?
you can run yourself. One of the tenets
of cognitive behavioral therapy is
collaborative empiricism.
So, okay. So, so when you have a client
and and you say, "Well,
you know, maybe your mood would be
better if you got up at 8:00 in the
morning regularly instead of 2:00 or
4:00 in the afternoon irregularly."
And then you say, "Well, we don't really
know if that's true. Let's try doing it
getting up at 2:00 regularly for a week
and see what happens. And then maybe
we'll try moving it back an hour week by
week, but you can see how it goes."
Well, so this isn't So, I would say run
the experiment. It's like is your life
better? And you can even look at the way
that you evaluate your past. When you
upheld your responsibilities, did that
improve your quality of life even though
it might have been difficult? And you
know, generally people say yes to that.
We derive a certain amount of
satisfactions from past accomplishments
and generally in proportion to their
difficulty.
And so,
if that's not true,
fair enough. And I mean, there's
variation.
Highly open people tend to take more
delight in extraordinarily creative
ventures and extroverted people in being
with other people. Conscientious people
are more duty focused, but it doesn't
really matter. It's still
it's still responsibility.
So, it's just
I I see that the the So, there's this
this presupposition, let's say, with
this this set of identities that we've
been taught to regard as categorical
that
good should be distributed equally
according to those categories. And that
to me, because those categories aren't
functional, you can't trade on them,
they don't bear any relationship to
outcomes. Now, you say, "Well, no,
that's just evidence of prejudice." It's
like, "Well,
no doubt there's some prejudice."
I mean, no one in their right mind would
would
deny that. But But that's
There's That doesn't mean there's no
competence. The fact that there is some
prejudice doesn't mean there is no
competence. in the hierarchy itself.
Mhm. So, I once got asked, um, uh,
speaking at Google, and, uh, an
African-American gentleman, um, asked,
"Hey Tom, do you think that it's harder
for me to be successful because I'm
black?" And I said, "Almost certainly
true." Like, even just from the
perspective of a school of fish, right?
You
from an evolutionary standpoint, we
group up with people that look like we
look. So, if you're a minority in any
country, then it seems self-evident to
me that it's going to be more difficult.
But my question is, and now what? So,
you've got options. You can
sit in the unfairness of that, and I
don't even think people would argue it.
It is unfair. Or, It's even
counterproductive.
Right, because hypothetically, we want
to exploit all people equally for our
own benefit. You know, to speak very
coldly about it. Obviously, there's more
to it than that.
So, my thing is, um, you talk very
profoundly about resentment in Beyond
Order, and that resonated with me really
well. It's like, look, you're going to
have every reason to be resentful in
your life. There going to be a million
things that come at you, but it doesn't
serve you. Doesn't serve you. It doesn't
serve the community." Like, that is the
fastest way for your I wish I had better
words for this, I'm sure you do, but for
your sort of energy to go dark, for you
to step into the role of the adversary,
which you define very clearly is
essentially the devil.
Uh you liken adversaries to
Mephistopheles, to the Columbine
shooters, and that is
seeing those as archetypal roles. You
can play the hero, you can play the
adversary. If you're going down the path
of bitterness, even if you have every
reason in the world to be bitter, the
thought of where that path leads you
should be so terrifying that you should
U-turn and say, "Even though I have the
right, even though everybody is going to
tell me it makes all the sense in the
world for you to be angry, bitter,
resentful,
it's going to take you somewhere that
will be so self-punishing
that there's just no point in heading in
that direction." Yeah, unless you want
unless you want the desolation and waste
that comes with it.
Yeah, I mean, in that chapter, that's do
not allow yourself to become
arrogant,
deceitful, or resentful. I might have
the order wrong there, but that's the
chapter. Yeah, it opens with a
discussion of why you would get
resentful. It's like, "Well,
culture is arrayed against you, so
you're the target of tyrannical forces
that are beyond your control. They're
arbitrary. They don't work in your
interest, at least not entirely.
And the more eccentric you are, let's
say, the more tyrannical culture will be
to you.
And so, you're stuck with that, and then
nature conspires to destroy you
constantly, and is going to do that with
pain and anxiety and aging.
And then there's the uncontrollability
and darkness of your own psyche.
And everyone faces those. Now, we face
the positive elements of those too, the
beneficent of culture, the beauty of
nature, the glory of the human spirit,
that's there as well.
You have reasons to be deceitful,
resentful, and arrogant,
but
it's not a good game unless you want to
produce hell.
I want to talk about that. So, you were
the one that got me to read The Gulag
Archipelago.
Um you're the one that got me to And And
this has profoundly changed my life for
the better. You got me to distrust
myself, which was such a brilliant move.
So, you said, "Hey, when you think of
Nazi Germany, don't think of yourself as
the one hiding Anne Frank in the attic.
Think of yourself as a Nazi guard,
because odds are that as much as you
want to think of yourself as the one
hiding Anne Frank, the numbers just
don't bear it out." And I thought,
"Whoa, like even if it is just a thought
exercise to recognize my potential for
bringing hell on Earth through silence,
through cowardice, like not necessarily
that I'm rushing out to do it, but that
I am capable of weakness. I am capable
of silence at a critical juncture. I'm
capable of resentment, bitterness.
Um
Well, silence at a critical juncture, I
mean, for sure that. I mean, you you
told the story at the beginning of our
talk, I believe, about Oh, no, you
didn't. You told me this story though
about
um Or maybe you did mention it, about
not having me on your show because
someone called me a misogynist. Well,
that's a good example. It was like And
it was just kind of a throwaway in some
sense. I mean, it's not like I hold it
against you. It's It's obvious why that
would happen.
But that's actually what's terrifying
about it.
These things are easy.
You know, when I I worked very briefly,
visited very briefly, and a small number
of times, a maximum security prison in
Edmonton, Alberta, with a very eccentric
psychologist, and
I met a man there who had shot two
policemen in cold blood, and
um
he who seemed by all appearances, when I
met him, to be an ordinary harmless guy,
you know, um certainly wasn't very
physically prepossessing. And another
one of the criminals that I met
had held down a third a couple of weeks
later and beat his leg to a pulp with a
lead pipe because he was a snitch.
And I imagined doing that.
It was very shocking.
I lay that out in the beginning of Maps
of Meaning because I was having
aggressive impulses at that time, too.
And so I was curious about these
impulses and I imagined doing it. And I
I mean, I actually imagined doing it.
And then I thought, I could do that.
And then I thought,
it's even possible under some conditions
that I might be able to enjoy that.
And that was a terrible still a terrible
shock.
It was a terrible shock then.
It's no wonder people don't do this sort
of thing. I mean, this sort of
imagination. But,
you know, I took the idea that we were
supposed to learn something from the
horrors of the Second World War
seriously. Never forget. Okay? You can't
remember what you don't understand.
So, what are we supposed to remember?
What are we remembering? The fact that
all these people were murdered?
No. We're supposed to remember that that
was a revelation of the genocidal nature
of the human psyche.
That's partly why I'm so
impressed, let's say, with the story of
Cain and Abel, right? I dealt with that
in my biblical lecture series and in my
writings.
You know, the first two human beings,
according to the book upon which our
culture is predicated, for better or
worse, the first two human beings,
brothers, the adversary and the hero,
the the archetypal adversary and the
hero, put right at the beginning of that
amazing book.
It's the beginning of history.
Cain's sacrifices are rejected by God.
Okay, well, how do we understand that?
That's easy once you know the key.
You make sacrifices to make the future
better.
Well, what if that doesn't pay off?
Well, you know, think about that. You
know what that's like.
You endeavor to do something
and it doesn't work.
You're not appreciated for who you are.
You fail.
Maybe you failed despite your best
efforts.
Well, are you rejected by God? Well,
it's as if you're rejected by God.
Does it make you resentful?
Does it make you bitter? Does it make
you want to pull down
the successful?
Does it want to Does it make you want to
pull down the successful out of spite?
Does it make you want to pull down the
successful out of cosmic spite?
The answer to that happens to be yes.
You shake your fist at God.
You say, "I'm going to harm those whom
you blessed."
And no wonder.
It's no wonder.
You know, it's a it's harsh that
the rewards of life are indiscriminately
distributed.
It's hard on everyone.
But it doesn't help doesn't help to
become bitter. And it's not like I don't
understand the temptation.
I mean, I think part of the reason I get
away with being so bloody preachy is
because I'm talking to myself, you know.
It's not like I don't put myself
in the boat of the damned and lost.
Very well said.
dangerous.
Now,
I listened to the whole times And And I
see this in this culture war.
I see this resentment.
It colors the definition of identity.
This attack on meritocracy.
It's an attack on merit
itself.
You know, that says nothing about
whether or not culture is tyrannical.
Yes.
But it's not only tyrannical.
And it's important to get those
distinctions correct.
So, I want to then put a coda on that
because I think you covered it so well
in your book and in the in rule number
one, don't denigrate social institutions
or creative accomplishment. Uh
reading that title, I didn't realize
what you meant until I read the chapter.
And what that is ultimately, and correct
me if I misstate anything, but cultural
institutions are the order. They're the
stability. And the creative
granted. They're these these They're
these identities that are handed to you
ready-made.
And thank God for that. Marriage is one.
It's like, well, you can critique
marriage.
Fine. But
what game are you going to play?
Try coming up with some Try coming up
with one on your own. Maybe you can.
Maybe you're like avant-garde Picasso.
Maybe you are. And maybe you have a
right to to make your own arrangement.
Maybe you have the
psychological fortitude to craft your
own social institution. But I bloody
well wouldn't count on it.
You're lucky
that there's such a thing as a job or
better yet a career. You're lucky that
there's such a thing as friendship, as
marriage.
All of these social institutions.
You know, and and
you
And when you criticize them, Nietzsche
put as one question of conscience in I
think it's in Twilight of the Idols
whether you're a leader or whether
you're running away, you're outside the
pack and moving in a different direction
in either case, you know, are you
a rebel rebel because you can't fit in
or are you a rebel because you could fit
in
but you see a better way. It's like
people in that category are not that
common and the first question of
conscience should be well, which of
those two are you? It's highly probable
that you're the first one and not the
second.
Because that would mean you're being
intensely disciplined
plus creative on that dimension.
Maybe that is you and God then we need
you, you know, like you're the an avatar
of the savior under those circumstances.
And maybe everyone has some of that in
them.
That that's a a big question and I think
it's one of the fundamental questions
that you address which is the almost the
need to have them both.
And so
you give an example in the book in
Beyond Order where you're you said let's
take a city and imagine a really
run-down dangerous crime-ridden area.
The people that find themselves
attracted to that inevitably become the
artists and they move in and they think
hey, with a little bit of effort this
could be kind of cool. And then they
move in, they start to make it cool,
then the first coffee shop pops up and
then the gentrifiers start moving in and
then the chain stores start moving in
and then that place is no longer suited
to the artist and the artist must move.
And I thought oh my god, like in in one
description of a city and this like when
when people listen to you
this is the very thing I want them to
understand which is there is a nature to
things and instead of you know, shaking
your fist at God, you know, why why is
this like this is to recognize how
predictable this [ __ ] is and to find a
meaningful way, right? To find your
meaning, to shoulder your burden, put
your shoulders back, like, you know,
climb your way up the the competence
hierarchy by getting so good that you
can't be ignored.
But, recognizing, "Hey, dear artist,
what a beautiful contribution you make.
It is necessary in a certain place at a
certain time, but that will evolve." And
so, instead of being angry that the
natural course of things is that you've
made something beautiful, which attracts
people, such is the nature of beauty,
recognize that, you know, there's like a
Johnny Appleseed quality to that, and to
relish in that identity of I am the
artist. I make things beautiful. I
attract people to my beauty, you know,
hopefully in some transcendent way. I
mean, you talk in Beyond Order about the
need for beauty in your life and how
Chapter seven, yeah. the very things
that we consider, um,
impossible to put a price tag on, is
always art. And so, there is that thing.
But, like, tying it all together from
identity to meaning and purpose to the
the almost cruel nature of things, that
description arrested me in the book
because I could both feel the joy of the
artist when they discover something and
create something, and also feel their
heartbreak as the place changed so much,
you even say in the book, where they
could no longer afford the rent. And so,
there there is a cruelty to you are the
one that gave birth to this thing and
made it what it is, and then it gets to
the point where you can't afford it, and
you have to move on. And now, to really
tie [ __ ] together and bring it back
around to you getting me to read The
Gulag Archipelago,
you realize even I have the impulse to
be like, "Oh, that's not fair. Like, how
do we make sure that the artist can stay
there?" And you know, they've done so
much to contribute. And then you realize
the hammer is essentially the only way.
And
that's where it all starts to get scary
for me, and where I don't feel like
people are extrapolating and looking
into the future of
uh, don't know if you know Thomas
Sowell, but he has a great quote
which is the last 30 years have been
marked by tape replacing what works with
what sounds good. And to me that feels
like the fundamental flaw of today which
ties into your notion of rights versus
responsibility.
Well, the chapter on artists so artists
are high in trade openness.
And open people
live in
they live farther in chaos. They're good
at pattern recognition. They tend to
have high verbal IQs. The pattern
recognition manifests itself to some
degree in their artistic proclivity
because like visual art is a a
patterning of the world an investigative
patterning of the world. And so they're
the intuitives. They see they see what's
coming. They live on the edge. They live
on the frontier. Well, there are
frontiers everywhere. There's frontiers
in every discipline. There's frontiers
in cities and you talked about that.
It's like this the artist is someone who
can see possibility and so they'll take
a rundown place and beautify it. That's
that's their niche.
And it's it's an evolutionary niche.
Technically speaking, we have five
dimensions of personality. There's
variation in each of those dimensions
because there's a niche for every
every what would you call every place on
the distribution.
And you have to find your place in the
world according to your temperament.
I mean you can change your temperament
to some degree although it's not it's
not it's no simple matter. It's pretty
stable. It's better to find the place
that you belong.
You know, an open people might be very
annoyed that they're not appreciated by
more conservative types, but
the conservative types fill a different
niche.
They're conscientious and dutiful. And
so if something's working, you want
conservatives to run it.
Because they're dutiful and efficient
and orderly.
By the book, patriotic. This works.
Let's uphold it. Let's make it work
efficiently. Let's not change it because
we might break it.
But it needs breaking. Well,
that's the debate. That's the purpose of
free speech. That's
That That's my sense of it. You know,
there there's this balance that has to
be obtained between tradition and
transformation.
We have to have respect for both of
them.
And how do we know when something needs
to be changed?
We don't know.
So, we have to argue about it.
And in order to argue about it
effectively, we have to be able to talk
to each other across
our identity boundaries.
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