Video summary
The video addresses a profound and often avoided question that every Christian must confront: what if our current struggles never improve? The speaker highlights various persistent hardships such as divorce, marital turmoil, chronic health issues like dialysis or unending medication needs, financial debt, loneliness, physical persecution, and the grief of losing loved ones. He challenges believers to honestly ask themselves whether they would continue to follow Christ even if these painful situations remained unresolved indefinitely. Many people suffer unnecessarily because they do not consider this scenario, fearing that their faith is contingent on seeing immediate relief or a change in circumstances. The core argument presented is that trust in God should not be predicated solely on the good things He does for us or the bad things He removes from our lives, but rather on His character regardless of how long we endure difficult times without visible improvement.
To help believers navigate this reality, the speaker draws heavily upon biblical teachings to reframe their perspective on suffering. Citing Romans 8:18 and other passages, he explains that present afflictions are momentary and light compared to the eternal weight of glory awaiting us. He uses analogies such as an athlete training for a championship or students enduring rigorous schooling to illustrate how difficult processes lead to ultimate rewards. The message is clear that our focus should shift from "things which are seen," which are temporary, to "things which are not seen," which are eternal. When the believer's attention remains fixed on heavenly realities rather than earthly problems, the fact that a situation never gets better loses its power to discourage them. Furthermore, Hebrews 12:3 is referenced to encourage looking at Jesus' endurance against sinners as an example so that believers do not grow weary or lose heart in their own struggles.
The video concludes by offering hope through the promise of God's sovereignty and purpose found in Romans 8:28, which states that He causes all things to work together for good for those who love Him. The speaker emphasizes that this "good" is often inclusive not just of the individual suffering but also of others watching; a believer enduring unchanging pain becomes a living example and encouragement to someone else facing similar trials without apparent resolution. By persevering, believers develop endurance which produces spiritual maturity, strength, joy, and hope even when circumstances do not change. Ultimately, the speaker asserts that while earthly situations may never improve in this life, the future destination is far better, promising that those who are approved through such testing will receive the crown of life from the Lord Himself.
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Every Christian, and I do mean every
Christian, needs to answer this
question. The problem is very few
Christians even bother to address or try
to answer this question. Many people are
going to suffer miserably unnecessarily
by not answering this question. [music]
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Here's the question, and I think it's a
central question to our walk. It's
important to our walk. The question is
this. What if it doesn't get better?
Yeah. What if it doesn't get better?
Whatever the it is, and it varies from
person to person. What if it never gets
better? Like what? What do you mean,
Corey? Well, you know, things that are
happening in your life that you are
loathing, that you dread going through,
that you hate, that it is just
problematic. It brings you down. What if
that thing, whatever it is, doesn't get
better? We go through a lot of different
things in life. Divorce, right? Never
gets better. the situation from divorce,
whether it be with you, the spouse, or
the ex- spouse, the the children,
however things works out or shakes out
because of it. What if it doesn't get
better? Marriage. Your marriage is in
turmoil. Your marriage is struggling.
There's never really any agreement
seemingly. What if it never gets better?
What if your children never get better?
And we don't want anything to happen to
our children. What if their health
issues never get better? What if their
emotional or mental issues or their
financial issues or their physical
issues, they never get better? What
would you do? What if you're um someone
passed away? Someone close to you and
you're just in a a funk. It never gets
better. Marriage. Did I say before?
Yeah. Your marriage, it never gets
better. What about being lonely? You you
you never find someone? No. Seriously,
think about it. Ask yourself, what if it
never gets better? What if your health
situation never gets better? Some people
are going to forever be on diialysis or
taking these pills or having these
treatments. As a matter of fact, some
people their health situation is going
to get worse. What if it never gets
better? What if your finances never get
better? You're working extra jobs. You
have an extra gig on the side. Never
gets better. What if you are doomed to
be in debt forever? What if you're going
to face financial hardship for the rest
of your life? What if it never gets
better? What about your physical issues,
physical persecution? someone's after
you. What What if it never gets better?
What if your emotional state never gets
better or that you can think of it never
gets better? What if your marriage never
gets better? Did I say marriage before?
I said it three times because for a lot
of people that's an issue. What if
whatever you going through, it never
gets better? Question. If it never gets
better, will you still follow Christ?
There's a song that you may have heard,
maybe some of you like the song. The
words are, I trust in God. That's how it
starts off. There's a portion of the
song that says, "I sought the Lord and
he heard and he answered. That's why I
trust him. That's why I trust him." But
what if he hears you, but he doesn't
answer you the way you want it to be
answered? Again, remember, it's
important we're following him. And
sometimes he takes us through areas that
we don't want to go. He takes us not on
the scenic route, but kind of the back
end, the business route. He doesn't and
we don't like that. We don't like the
way that you're going or it's not the
preferred route. Would you still follow
him? Is your trust predicated upon what
good God does for you and how much bad
he takes away? Remember, we're told for
all of us, we are going to suffer and
endure persecution. Some more than
others, but all of us at some degree,
either a lot or very, very rarely, maybe
a couple times in our life. Some people
seemingly every day. Paul says this in
Romans 8:18, for I consider that the
sufferings of this present time are not
worthy to be compared with the glory
that is to be revealed to us. Meaning
our focus isn't on these things. It's
almost like the person who is trying out
for a football team or a basketball team
and the rigors they have to go through
just so they can be on the team and
play. Well, you've got to go through
these dog days of summer, the workouts
and things like that to get to where you
want to get to. Just like going to
school, you don't want to go to school
this many years and spend this much time
studying and reading and writing. But
once you get to where this school is
going to take you to the goal, then it
might be rewarding. The same thing with
us as a Christian, our focus in here,
our eyes, our attention, we should look
on the things above instead of the
things below. And what's interesting is
that when we go through, Paul says
something that might be insulting and
might seem laughable, but remember this
is from the Lord. He says, "Therefore,
we do not lose heart, but th but though
our outer man is decaying." If your
outer man is decaying and it doesn't get
better, can you handle that? What if
your outer man doesn't stop decaying?
Now, he says it it will decay. So, what
do you do? He says, "Yet our inner man
is being renewed day by day." And then
he says this in verse 17, for momentary
light affliction is producing our he
calls our affliction light and momentary
producing for us an an eternal weight of
glory far beyond all comparison. And so
he says while we look not at the things
which are seen but at the things which
are not seen for the things which are
seen are temporal but the things which
are not seen are eternal. That has to be
your focus. What if things never get
better? Well, if your focus is on the
things that are eternal, then what's
then what's temporal, though it never
gets better doesn't matter anymore.
Right? Remember this. Also, keep in mind
in Hebrews 12:3, he says, "For consider
him who has endured such hostility by
sinners against himself so that you will
not grow weary and lose heart. Consider
what Christ went through on our behalf.
You have not yet resisted to the point
of shedding blood in your in your
striving against sin." You know why we
can make that claim? because you're
still alive. All that God has done, all
that he's brought you through, all
that's happened to you, all the pain,
all the misery, all the things you don't
like, the things that you want to get
better that haven't gotten better yet,
you're still here. In spite of all of
that, you are still here. Peter says,
"After you have suffered for a little
while, the God of all grace, who called
you to his eternal glory in Christ, will
himself perfect, confirm, strengthen,
and establish you." I don't feel like
it, though. I don't think he is. I think
maybe I'm the one that's going through
and the one that I that he seems to
forgotten about me because what if God
has forgotten about me? That's what it
feels like. That's what it seems like.
It's just me. I see everyone getting
blessed and not me. Well, you know what?
First of all, that's not true. But two,
what if you're right? You're not. But
what if what you're going through you,
it never gets better. It never gets
better, then you die. What if? Would it
be worth it? Would your destination,
your final destination be worth what you
went through? If you were a believer, it
should. And I want to give you something
that that should help you, should that
should encourage you? Cuz we all want to
be a benefit. We all want to be used. We
all want to have a purpose and then
serve that purpose. Let me show you your
purpose. In Romans 8:28, Paul says, "And
we know, we should know, hopefully we
know, unfortunately, Paul, a lot of us
don't know, but we should know what that
God causes." And that is the word that's
used there. And I like the word here
sooner which is the er is the work and
then soon is with. So God works with or
causes
all things. He causes all things. What
is all? Everything. You know all the
things that you wish to get better but
don't get better. you know, the divorce,
the marriage, the children, the death,
um someone's dying, someone sick,
someone at the point of death, our
health issues, being lonely, finances,
physical issues, emotions, whatever.
All those things he works with or causes
those things to work together for the
good of those who love God. That's you.
It works for the good of you. Mary,
John, Ernest, Ernestine, Clarice, Carl,
Clavus, Cletus, Bubba, Joe, Jim, Bob,
all of you. It works for you because you
love him to those who are called
according to his purpose. He's going to
take that and somehow make it work. How?
I don't feel it working for my good.
Well, in two ways. One, as it
strengthens you and you grow. But
consider this.
It works together for the good of those.
Now, this word those is plural. So, it's
going to also be inclusive of not just
you, but also other people. How can that
be? So, when you're struggling and it
doesn't get better in your marriage, and
your children don't get better, and you
never seek to find another um find a
spouse, you always seem lonely. Your
health issues don't get better. Your
finances don't get better. Whatever
whatever is happening physical doesn't
get better.
Whatever addictions or struggles you
have, do you know that someone is
watching? And so God is working with
that all things. He's working with that
not just to benefit you, but for someone
else. What is your purpose? Your purpose
is to smile and be godly, be holy and
even appreciative while you go through
what you go through, knowing that not
only is God watching, but someone else
is watching. And so you are a living
example of how a Christian ought to be
who goes through those things that never
seem to get better because someone else
is going through the same things also
that don't seem to get better. But
because they see how you walk, you know
what you do? You are encouragement to
them so that they can see that they too
can get through it. Though it never gets
better, I'll get closer. though it never
gets better. Uh my walk gets better, my
strength gets better, my hope gets
better, my joy gets better, and soon
enough I will be where I need to be with
God. So no wonder James says, "Count it
all joy. Everything, all that stuff, all
the things that never seem to get
better, count it all joy." When you
encounter ver various trials, all of
these many trials you go through or one
long gigantic harsh trial, count it joy.
Knowing that the testing of your faith
produces endurance, you get stronger.
You get better at it. How long have you
been suffering through what you've been
suffering through? As a matter of fact,
there are sometimes you're going through
it. You forgot you're going through it
because I've gotten used to it. You'll
get used to it because it's no longer
going to be the focus. I can handle
those things because it the things that
I'm handling or I'm going through, it's
not my focus. He says it it produces
endurance. and let endurance
uh your faith produce endurance and let
endurance have its perfect result so
that you may be perfect and complete
lacking nothing. I'm good. I'm good.
Whatever I'm going through, you have the
whole weight of the world on your
shoulders, but I feel good. I don't feel
like it. I feel stronger, as a matter of
fact. And so, look what he says out in
verse 12. Blessed is a man who
perseveres under trial. That's you. For
once he has been approved, he will
receive the crown of life which the Lord
has promised. How many of you ever think
back and think and think about how it
was? Hey, we had you guys had it easier
in your childhood. We have it we had it
much harder and it made me the man, the
woman that I am today. So these things
that you go through builds you up and
when you look back these were the things
that make you better. I hated prison
but what prison did for me I absolutely
love. Would I want to go back to prison
again? Absolutely not. But would I
change or trade what it's done for me?
Absolutely not. Because it's grown me.
And so what God is saying to us in these
scriptures is that it grows you and you
are going to receive after being
approved by going through all of these
things. He says you will receive the
crown of life which the the Lord himself
has promised to those who love him. So
what if it never gets better? Can I tell
you what your response ought to be? What
it must be? Okay, no problem. I got
this, Lord. We got this. No problem. If
it never gets better, doesn't matter.
Better is expected in the future. If it
never gets better, that's fine because
it will fade away. It may never get
better, but I will receive better.
Better how? Better in heaven. Better in
my eternal walk, in my eternal state
with the Lord. Amen. [music]
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