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In this episode of Huberman Lab Essentials, Dr. Anna Lembke explores the fundamental role of dopamine in human behavior and addiction, clarifying that it is a neurotransmitter essential for both reward processing and movement. A key insight presented is that while people often focus on "hits" of pleasure, the brain operates at a constant tonic baseline level; deviations from this baseline dictate our emotional state, where going above baseline feels like pleasure and dropping below results in pain or depression. Dr. Lembke explains that chronic exposure to high-reward substances or behaviors causes the brain to down-regulate its dopamine receptors as a compensatory mechanism, lowering the tonic baseline over time. This process creates an "anhedonic" state characterized by irritability, insomnia, and dysphoria, effectively resetting the individual's happiness threshold so that normal life feels boring in comparison until they engage in high-reward activities again to restore balance. Central to understanding addiction is Dr. Lembke's seesaw analogy of homeostasis, where pleasure and pain are co-located on a single scale that strives for equilibrium. When an individual indulges in pleasurable behaviors like social media scrolling or drug use, the brain tips toward pleasure but immediately begins tilting back with equal force; however, this compensatory mechanism often overshoots into pain to restore balance. If one continues to indulge without waiting for the system to re-equilibrate, the scale becomes permanently tipped toward pain due to severe down-regulation of dopamine transmission. To reset these reward pathways and break addictive patterns, Dr. Lembke recommends a strict 30-day abstinence period from the substance or behavior in question. The first two weeks are typically characterized by significant discomfort as the brain detoxifies, but by week three, mood begins to improve, with most individuals feeling significantly better than their pre-addiction state by month four. The discussion also addresses why relapse often occurs even when life circumstances have improved, challenging the notion that addiction is solely driven by external stressors or a desire for escape. Dr. Lembke notes that triggers can be positive events, such as winning an award or achieving success, which release anticipatory dopamine followed immediately by a deficit state that drives craving and relapse behavior. For some individuals with severe cases of chronic addiction, the brain's homeostatic balance may become so damaged—likened to a broken hinge—that it loses its resilience entirely. In these instances, even after months or years of abstinence, the individual experiences an involuntary reflexive urge to use when not actively focusing on resisting it, similar to scratching an itch in one's sleep without conscious intent. Beyond biological mechanisms, Dr. Lembke emphasizes that recovery involves rebuilding cognitive control through truth-telling and re-engaging prefrontal cortical circuits with limbic reward centers. She argues that lying weakens these connections while honesty strengthens them, helping individuals anticipate future consequences rather than acting on reflexive impulses. The conversation touches upon the controversial use of psychedelics like MDMA or psilocybin for treating addiction; while Dr. Lembke acknowledges their potential utility in highly controlled clinical settings combined with psychotherapy to provide a new perspective on life values, she remains skeptical about them as standalone cures. She warns against self-medicating outside therapeutic contexts and stresses that social media itself functions as an engineered drug designed to hijack dopamine pathways. Ultimately, the goal is to cultivate flexibility within the pleasure-pain balance by intentionally creating barriers between oneself and digital distractions, thereby preserving the ability for sustained thought and genuine connection in real life.
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Welcome to Huberman Lab Essentials,
where we revisit past episodes for the
most potent and actionable science-based
tools for mental health, physical
health, and performance.
And now for my discussion with Dr. Anna
Lembke.
I and many listeners of this podcast are
obsessed with dopamine. What is dopamine
and what are maybe some things about
dopamine that most people don't know and
probably that I don't know either.
So dopamine is a neurotransmitter and
neurotransmitters are those molecules
that bridge the gap between two neurons.
So they essentially allow one neuron,
the pre-synaptic neuron, to communicate
with the post-synaptic neuron. Um
dopamine is intimately uh associated
with the experience of reward, but also
with movement, which I think is really
interesting because movement and reward
are linked, right? If you think about,
you know, um early humans, you had to
move in order to go seek out the water
or the the meat or whatever it was. So
um dopamine is this really um powerful,
important molecule in the brain that
helps us um experience pleasure. It's
not the only neurotransmitter involved
in pleasure, but it's a really, really
important one.
And if if you want to think about
something that most people don't know
about dopamine, which which I think is
really interesting, is that we we are
always releasing dopamine at a kind of
tonic baseline rate. And it's really the
deviation from that baseline, rather
than like hits of dopamine in a vacuum,
that make a difference. So when we
experience pleasure, our dopamine
release goes above baseline and likewise
dopamine can go below that tonic
baseline and then we experience a kind
of pain. Interesting. So is it fair to
say that one's baseline levels of
dopamine, how frequently we are
releasing dopamine in the absence of
some uh I don't know, drug or food or
experience, just sitting, being,
uh is that associated with how happy
somebody is, their kind of baseline of
happiness or level of depression?
There is evidence that shows that people
who are depressed men did have lower
tonic levels of dopamine. So, that's a
really reasonable thought and there's
some evidence to suggest that that may
be true.
The other thing that we know is that if
we um expose ourselves chronically to
substances or behaviors that repeatedly
release large amounts of dopamine in our
brain's reward pathway, that we can
change our tonic baseline and actually
lower it over time as our brain tries to
compensate for all of that dopamine,
which is more really than we were
designed to to experience. Interesting.
And is it would is it um the case that
our baseline levels of dopamine are set
by our genetics, by our heredity?
Well, I think, you know, if you think
about sort of, you know, the early
stages of development in infancy,
certainly that is true. You're kind of
you know, born with probably whatever is
your baseline level, but obviously your
experiences can have a huge impact on
where your
your dopamine level ultimately settles
out. Do you think that's uh set in terms
of um our parents and obviously nature
and nurture interact, but
is that is dopamine at the core of our
temperament? I don't really think we
know the answer to that, but I will say
that people are definitely born with
different temperaments and those
temperaments do affect their ability to
experience joy.
Um and and you know, we've known that
for a long time and we describe that in
many different ways. One of the ways
that we describe that in the modern era
is to use psychiatric nomenclature like
this person has a dysthymic temperament
or you know, this person has chronic
major depressive disorder. Um in terms
of looking specifically at who's
vulnerable to addiction, um that's an
interesting sort of mixed bag because
when you look at uh the research on risk
factors for addictions or what kind of
temperament uh of a person makes them
more vulnerable to addiction, you see um
some interesting findings. First, you
see that people who are more impulsive,
who have a thought to do something and
just do it impulsively,
Mhm. are people who are more vulnerable
to addiction. What we now conceptualize
in our current ecosystem as mental
illness
are actually traits that in another
ecosystem might be very advantageous.
They're just not advantageous right now
because of the world that we live in.
And and I think, you know, impulsivity
is potentially one of those, right?
Because we live in this world that's
such a sensory rich environment, right?
That we're being bombarded with all
these opportunities, these sensory
opportunities, and we have to constantly
check ourselves. And so so so
impulsivity is something that right now
um can be a difficult trait, but isn't
in and of itself a bad thing. In a
previous conversation we had, you said
something that really rung in my mind,
which is that many people who become
addicted to things have this feeling
that normal life isn't interesting
enough. Maybe you could just tell us a
little bit about your experience with
this
association, if it really exists,
between people's sense of the normal see
or maybe even how boring life can be and
their tendency to become addicts of some
sort. I think that life for humans has
always been hard, but I think that now
it's
harder in unprecedented ways. And I
think that the way that life is is
really hard now is that it actually is
really boring. All of our survival needs
are met. We don't even have to leave our
homes to meet every single physical
need. You know, as long as you're of a
certain level of financial well-being
which which which frankly, um you know,
we talk so much about, you know, the the
income gap and certainly there is this
enormous gap between rich and poor, but
that gap is smaller than it's ever been
in like the history of humans. We don't
really have anything that we have to do.
So, we're all forced to make stuff up,
you know, whether it's being a scientist
or being a doctor or being an Olympic
athlete or, you know, climbing Mount
Everest.
And people really vary in their need for
friction. And some people need a lot
more than others. And if they don't have
it, they're really really unhappy. And I
do think that a lot of the people that I
see with addiction and other forms of
mental illness
are people who
need more friction. Like they're unhappy
not necessarily because there's
something wrong with their brain, but
because their brain is not suited to
this world. Let's talk about the
pleasure-pain balance and addiction. And
I've heard you use this uh seesaw or
balance scale um
analogy before. And I think it's a
wonderful one.
Yeah, so to me one of the most
significant findings in neuroscience in
the last 75 years is that pleasure and
pain are co-located, which means the
same parts of the brain that process
pleasure also process pain. And they
work like a balance. So, when we feel
pleasure, our balance tips one way. When
we feel pain, it tips in the opposite
direction.
And one of the overriding rules
governing this balance is that it wants
to stay level. So, it doesn't want to
remain tipped very long to pleasure or
to pain. And with any deviation from
neutrality, the brain will work very
hard to restore a level balance, or what
scientists call homeostasis. And the way
the brain does that is with any stimulus
to one the side, there will be a tip an
equal and opposite amount to the other
side.
It's like they have principle laws of
physics.
Yes, right. Right. So, like I like to
watch YouTube videos. When I watch
YouTube videos of American Idol, you
know, it tips to the side of pleasure.
And then when I stop watching it, um I
have a come down, right? Which is a tip
to the equal and opposite amount um on
the other side. And that's that moment
of wanting to watch one more YouTube
video, right? It's not something that
consciously happens, or that we're aware
of, unless we really begin to pay
attention. And of course, one way to
combat that is to do it more, right? And
more and more and more. So, I think I
think that is really what I want people
to tune into and and get an awareness
around. Because once you tune into it,
you can see it a lot. And if you, you
know, keep the model of the balance in
mind, I think it it gives people
kind of a way to imagine what they're
experiencing on a neurobiological level,
and understand it, and in that
understanding get some mastery over it,
which is really what this is all about.
Because ultimately,
we do need to disengage, right? We can't
live in that space all the time, right?
We have other things we need to do. And
there are also serious consequences that
come with trying to repeat and continue
that experience or that feeling.
Yeah, so if I understand this correctly,
uh when we find something that we enjoy,
that feels pleasurable.
Uh social media, food, sex,
gambling, whatever happens to be.
There's a some dopamine release when we
engage in that behavior.
And then, what you're telling me is that
very quickly,
and beneath my conscious awareness,
there's a tilting back of the scale,
where pleasure is reduced by way of
increasing pain.
And I've heard you say before that
the pain mechanism
has some competitive advantages over the
pleasure mechanism, such that it doesn't
just bring the scale back to level. It
actually brings pain higher than
pleasure.
What happens right after I do something
that is really pleasurable and releases
a lot of dopamine, is again, my brain is
going to immediately compensate by
down-regulating my own dopamine
receptors, my own dopamine transmission,
to compensate for that, okay? And that's
that come down, or the hangover, or that
aftereffect, that moment of wanting to
do it more. Now, if I just wait for that
feeling to pass, then my dopamine will
re-regulate itself, and I'll go back to
whatever my chronic baseline is. But if
I don't wait, and here's really the key,
if I keep indulging again and again and
again, ultimately, I have I have so much
on the pain side, right, that I've
essentially reset my brain to what we
call like an anhedonic, or lacking in
joy, type of state, which is a dopamine
deficit state. So, that's really the the
the way in which pain can become the
main driver, is because I've indulged so
much in these high-reward behaviors or
substances, that my brain has had to
compensate by way down-regulating my own
dopamine, such that even when I'm not
doing that drug, I'm in a dopamine
deficit state, which is akin to a
clinical depression. I have anxiety,
irritability, insomnia, dysphoria, and a
lot of mental preoccupation with using
again or getting the drug. So, in
general, what we want is some kind of
flexibility in that balance and the
ability to re- easily reassert
homeostasis. We don't want to break our
balance, which is possible if we
overindulge for enough period of time
and end up with a balance tipped to the
side of pain, this dopamine deficit
state we've been talking about. We want
to We want a flexible, resilient
balance, right? Which can be sensitive
to things going on in the environment,
which can experience pleasure and
approach, which can experience pain and
recoil, right? This is all adaptive and
healthy and necessary and good. We would
never want a balance that doesn't tilt.
Right. That would be a disaster.
We wouldn't be human. Um and we wouldn't
want that. It'd be really, really
boring. On the other hand, what people
in recovery from addiction talk about
is, to some extent, having to learn to
live with
things being a little boring a lot of
the time, right? So, trying to avoid
some of this intensity and
thrill-seeking and escapism that really
is at the core of addictive tendencies.
So, along those lines, I've heard you
say that in order to reset the dopamine
system,
essentially, in order to break an
addictive pattern,
30 days
of zero interaction with that substance,
that person, etc. Right.
Is that correct? Yeah. And And 30 days
is, in my clinical experience, the
average amount of time it takes for the
brain to reset reward pathways, for
dopamine transmission to regenerate
itself. By depriving ourselves of this
high dopamine, high reward substance or
behavior, we allow our brains to
regenerate its own dopamine, to for the
balance to re-equilibrate, and then
we're in a place where we can sort of
enjoy other things. So, I'd like to um
dissect out that 30 days a little more
finely. So, days 1 through 10, I would
imagine will be very uncomfortable.
Yes. Anxiety, trouble sleeping,
physical agitation into the point where
you know, maybe impulsive, angry. Should
one expect all of that? Should the
Yeah, so what I say to patients, and
it's a really important piece of this
intervention, is that you will feel
worse before you feel better. I'm
For how long? Is it probably the first
question they ask, right?
And I say usually, in my clinical
experience, you'll feel worse for 2
weeks. But if you can make it through
those first 2 weeks, the sun will start
to come out in week 3. And by week 4,
most people are feeling a whole lot
better than they were before they
stopped using their substance. So, it's
a hard thing, like you have to sign up
for it. Then days 21 through 30,
dopamine is starting to be released in
response to the taste of a really good
cup of coffee, for instance.
Whereas before it was only to
insert, you know, addictive behavior.
One thing I've seen over and over again,
sadly, often in the same individuals, is
they get sober
from whatever.
They're doing great.
And then, all of a sudden, you get this
call. So-and-so's
back in jail. So-and-so's wife is going
to leave him because he drank two
bottles of of wine and took a Xanax at
7:00 a.m.
Crashed his truck into a pole. He's got
two beautiful kids. Like, how did this
happen again? To the point where by the
fourth and fifth time, people are just
done. And so, what I'd like to talk
about in this context is what sorts of
things help other people that we know
that are addicted. What really helps?
And are there certain people for whom
it's hopeless? Yeah, so there there are
people who will die of their disease of
addiction. You know, and I think
conceptualizing it as a disease is a
helpful frame. There are other frames
that we could use, but I do think given
the brain physiologic changes that occur
with sustained heavy drug use and what
we know happens to the brain, it it is
it is really reasonable to think of it
as a brain disease. And and for me
the real window of, let's say, being
able to access my compassion around
people who are repeat relapsers even
when their life is so much better when
they're in recovery. Yeah, it's like
it's like a no-brainer, right? Um is is
to conceptualize this balance and the
dopamine deficit state and a balance
tilted to the side of pain.
And to imagine that for some people
after a month or 6 months or maybe even
6 years, their balance is still tipped
to the side of pain. That on some level
that balance has lost its resilience and
its ability to restore homeostasis.
like the hinge on that balance is messed
up.
Imagine that you had an itch somewhere
on your body, okay? I mean, we've all
had that like, you know, whatever the
source. You know, if you really focus,
you could go for a pretty good amount of
time not scratching it. But the moment
you stopped focusing on not scratching
it, you would scratch it. And maybe
you'd do it while you were asleep,
right? That
And that is what happens to people with
severe addiction. That balance is
essentially broken. Homeostasis does not
get restored despite sustained
abstinence. They're living with that
constant specter of that pull. It never
goes away. So, let me say there are lots
of people with addiction for whom that
does go away. And it goes away at 4
weeks for many of them. But in severe
cases, that's always there and it's
lingering. And it's the moment when
they're not focusing on not using. It's
like a reflex. They fall back into it.
It's not purposeful. It's not because
they want to get high. It's not because
they value using drugs more than they do
their family. None of that. It's that
really they they
they cannot not do it when given the
opportunity and that moment when they're
not thinking about it. Does that make
sense?
description, and actually in that
description I can feel a bit of empathy
because the way you describe scratching
an itch in your sleep.
Yeah. You know, I've I've done that with
mosquito bites in the summer. You're
scratching and you're like, "Oh, you
wake up scratching that that that
mosquito bite."
And I also have to admit that
I've experienced not feeling like I want
to pick up my phone because it's so
rewarding, but just finding myself doing
it.
Yes, of course. Yeah.
going to use this thing. I'm not going
to use this thing. And then and then
just finding myself doing it. Like,
"What am I doing here?"
Sort of the how did I get back here
again?
Right.
And I I know enough about brain function
to understand that we have
circuits that generate deliberate
behavior, and we have circuits that
generate reflexive behavior. And one of
the goals of the nervous system is to
make the deliberate stuff reflexive so
you don't have to make the decision
because decision-making is a very costly
thing to do. Decision-making of any
kind.
Exactly. Why is it then that people will
relapse not just after getting fired
from a job or their spouse leaving, but
when things are going really well? Is it
this unconscious mechanism? Cuz I've
seen this before. Is uh they have a
great win. I have a friend who's a
really impressive creative. Um I don't
want to reveal any more than that. But
uh and relapsed upon getting another
really terrific opportunity to create
for the entire world. And I was like,
"How can that happen?" But now I'm
beginning to wonder, was it the dopamine
associated with that win that opened the
spigot on this dopamine system.
Because um it happened in a phase of of
a really great stretch of life. Yeah.
Triggers are things that make us want to
go back to using our drug. And the key
thing about triggers, whatever they are,
is they also release a little bit of
dopamine, right? So, just thinking about
um whatever the trigger is that we
associate with drug use, or just
thinking about drug use, can already
release this anticipatory dopamine, this
little mini spike. But here's the part
that I think is really fascinating. That
mini spike is followed by a mini deficit
state. So, it goes up and then it
doesn't go back down to baseline, it
goes below baseline tonic levels. And
that's craving, right? So, that
anticipation
is immediately followed by
wanting the drug. And it's that dopamine
deficit state that drives the motivation
to go and get the drug. So, many people
talk about dopamine, it's not really
about pleasure, but about wanting and
about motivation. And so, it is that
deficit state that then drives the
locomotion to get it. And earlier, your
description of dopamine being involved
in the desire for more, giving the sense
of reward, but also movement.
Right.
to assume that those things are braided
together in our nervous system for the
specific intention of when you feel
something
good, then you feel the pain, or maybe
you don't notice it, and then the next
thing you know, you're pursuing more of
the thing that And I love the way you
use the word braided together, that's
beautiful. There are people for whom bad
life experiences, loss, you know, in any
form, stress in many different forms,
that's a trigger. But there are
absolutely people for whom
the trigger is things going well. And
the things going well can be like the
reward of the things going well, but
very often what it is is the removal of
the hypervigilant state that's required
to keep their use in check. So, it's
this sense of
I want to celebrate, you know, or I want
to this reward happened. I want to put
more reward on there. And it's really,
really fascinating because when people
come to that realization about
themselves that they're most vulnerable
when things are going well. Um, you
know, that's really a valuable insight
because then they can put some, you
know, things in place or barriers in
place or go to more meetings or whatever
it is that they do, you know, to protect
themselves.
I wanted to just touch on something that
you mentioned which is the shame. Yeah.
I heard you say in an interview with
somebody else recently that
truth-telling and secrets
are sort of at the core of recovery.
And
yeah, tell us more about that.
Yeah, so one of the things that I found
really fascinating about working with
people in recovery was how
telling the truth even about the merest
detail of their lives was central to
their recovery. It's not even just not
lying about using drugs. I have to not
lie about anything. I can't lie about
why I was late to work this morning
which we all do. Oh, I hit traffic. No,
I didn't hit traffic. I wanted to spend
two more minutes reading the paper and
drinking my coffee, right? So, people
with addiction will get into, you know,
the lying habit where they're lying
about random stuff because they're sort
of in the habit of lying.
And how recovery is really about telling
the truth. And there's really
interesting neural science behind it
that suggests that when we tell the
truth, we actually potentially
strengthen our prefrontal cortical
circuits and their connections to our
limbic brain and our reward brain. And
of course, these are the circuits that
get disconnected when we're in our
addiction, right? Our balance in our
reward pathway or limbic brain or
emotion brain is doing one thing and our
cortical circuits are completely
disengaged from that ignoring what's
happening which is easy to do because
it's reflexive. We don't need to think
about that balance for the balance to be
happening.
But we have to re-engage those circuits,
anticipate future consequences, think
through the drink, you know, not just
how am I going to feel now if I use, but
how am I going to feel tomorrow or 6
months from now. And that telling the
truth is in fact a way to do that, to
make these connections stronger in
there. I talk about some studies in my
book that that kind of indirectly show
that. So I find that really fascinating.
Plus
that that just that like being open and
honest with people really does create
very intimate connections. And those
intimate connections create dopamine.
You think people are going to run away
from you if you tell them about all like
your weird neuroses, but really they
don't. What they're like is, "Oh, thank
God. I'm not the only one, right?" I
love that there's neuroscience being
done on truth-telling and the value of
truth-telling. I I think I hope they'll
continue to do more work.
Yeah. Um want to ask you about using
drugs to treat drug addiction.
This is a vast area, right? Different
chemistries for different drugs and
different purposes, but the the
rationale as I understand it is
take people who are in a pattern of
addiction
launch them into a
experience that's also chemical and
extreme, often of the extreme serotonin
and or extreme dopamine type. So MDMA,
ecstasy for instance, tons of serotonin
dumped, tons of dopamine dumped. How
neurotoxic, if neurotoxic, debatable,
etc., etc., not a topic for now.
But a lot.
And then somehow that extreme experience
wrapped inside of a
a supported network in there, whether or
not there's just someone there or
whether or not they're actively working
through something with the patient is
supposed to eject
the person into a life where
drug use isn't
uh as much of interest. This violates
everything that we've talked about in
terms of dopamine biology. It would, if
this arrangement is the way I described
it,
cause more addiction. It's anything but
a dopamine fast, it's a dopamine feast.
Mhm. Mhm.
So, we hear about successful transitions
through this, at least anecdotally, and
may um maybe some clinics say, "What is
going on?
What is going on?" Doesn't make any
sense to me. Yeah. So, I think it's good
that you're skeptical. Um I think we all
should be skeptical. Having said that,
um there are clinical studies showing,
um you know, and these are small studies
and they're short duration, small number
of subjects, but, you know, taking
people, for example, who are addicted to
alcohol and then having them have this,
let's say, psychedelic experience in a
very controlled setting.
Typically, it's a high-dose psilocybin
or or three-dose, as I sought it for the
MAPS study of of MDMA of ecstasy. Those
are sort of the seem to be the kind of
the kind of bread and butter of this
kind of work. Yeah.
But, the thing to really keep in mind is
that this is completely interwoven with
regular psychotherapy and that these are
highly selected individuals.
And clinical trials. We're we're from
the legal clinical trials.
When it works, it's a transformational
experience because
it gives the person another lens through
which to view their life, their lives,
which which I think for some people is
positive and powerful because they can
come back from that and be like, "Oh my
gosh, I care about my family and I don't
I want X Y or Z for them and I realize
that my continuing to drink is not going
to, you know, achieve that." So, it's
it's almost like a spiritual or
values-based.
So, I think it can be very powerful. But
but having said that, I truly am quite
skeptical because,
you know, addiction is a chronic
relapsing and remitting problem. It's
hard for me to imagine that there's
something that works very quickly
short-term that's going to work for a
disease that's really long-lasting.
Yeah, the two addicts I know that that
did MDMA MDMA-assisted psychotherapy as
part as part of this um thing, both got
worse. Yeah. Um but the people I know
who had severe trauma Uh-huh. who did
this who took this approach seem to be
doing better.
Okay. Interesting.
I um I think that the discussion as we
hear it now is just sort of
psychedelics, which is a huge category
of that includes many different drugs
and compounds of different effects. And
we hear about trauma and addiction
lumped together.
Mhm. And I think it's going to be
important for people to know that this
is definitely not a one-size-fits-all
kind of thing. But it sounds like it may
have some utility under certain
conditions. Yeah, I think so. I I think
we I'm I'm trying to be very open-minded
about its potential utility for certain
individuals, but I can tell you in my
clinical work what is very concerning
unintended consequence of this narrative
is I have a lot of people who are
looking for some kind of spiritual
awakening who on their own, not in the
context of any kind of therapeutic
psychological work, you know, microdose
or want to try, you know, psilocybin or
MDMA with a friend or wherever so they
can have this, you know, spiritual
experience so they can figure out their
lives. That that's a disaster and and
almost never works out well. And I can
just tell you that the the downstream
effect for the average person is that
they've misconstrued the data on the use
of psychedelics for mental health
conditions
um to this idea that they're safe or
that anybody can take them in any
circumstance and have this kind of
awakening and and it that that's not
what the data show, right? The data are
these highly controlled settings. There
are a couple other things I just want to
touch on um
but they all relate to social media.
Okay. I have to imagine that we need to
regulate, not necessarily eliminate this
behavior. How addicting is it and
what is healthy social media behavior?
The first
message I would want to get across about
social media is that it really is a drug
and it's engineered to be a drug, which
doesn't mean that we can't use it um but
we need to be very thoughtful about the
way you we we use it. And so that means
with intention and in advance planning
our use, right? And trying to use it in
as a as a as a really awesome tool to
potentially connect with other people
and not to be used by it um or get lost
in it. We do need to figure out, you
know, how to make this this tool
something that's, you know, going to be
good for us and and not ultimately
harmful. As more and more of us are
spending more and more time on social
media, we're divesting our libidness
energies, etc. from real life
interactions. So I think our collective
challenge and it should be our mission
is to make sure that we are preserving
and maintaining offline ways to connect
with each other. So this is the key. You
have to with intention, prior to being
in that situation, think of literal
physical and metacognitive barriers that
you can put between yourself and your
phone or whatever your your drug is to
create these intentional spaces where
you're not constantly interrupting
yourself essentially and distracting
yourself because I really do think we're
losing the ability to have a sustained
thought, right? I mean we we get so far
and then
then you get to that point in the
thought where
it's a little bit hard to know what's
coming next and it's very easy to
check your phone or check your email or
look something up on, you know, the
internet.
And then you never get that opportunity
to finish that thought which is really
the source of creative energy and an
original thought, right? You're not just
reacting to
Right. And something that could
contribute to the world. I know a number
of people are going to have questions
and want to get in contact with you. You
are not on social media. That's correct.
Yes.
And you're true to your you're true to
your ideology. That is that's great.
Thank you so much for sharing this
information and um I know I learned a
ton and I know everyone else is going to
learn a lot more about addiction and the
good side of dopamine. That's right.
Thank you for having me. It's been
really really great to talk with you.