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Does Not Dating A Bisexual Man Mean A Woman Is This??

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Tony Gaskins opens his video by addressing the common misconception that women who refuse to date bisexual men are inherently homophobic, firmly rejecting this notion as absurd and illogical. He argues from a male perspective that there is no such thing as a truly "bisexual" man; rather, any man engaging in sexual acts with other men is gay, regardless of whether he identifies otherwise or claims to be straight-acting. According to Gaskins, the reason some men engage in same-sex behavior while pursuing women is not about genuine bisexuality but stems from societal pressure, religious upbringing, family expectations, and a desire to avoid fully coming out as homosexual. He suggests that these individuals often keep their sexual history secret within their families and friend groups, effectively making their sexuality a hidden trait rather than an open identity. The speaker then shifts his focus to the health risks he believes women face by entering relationships with men who have engaged in anal sex or other same-sex activities before having intercourse with them. He details graphic concerns regarding hygiene, including the transmission of diseases and bodily fluids from one partner to another without proper sterilization between acts. Gaskins expresses deep distrust toward such individuals, characterizing their behavior as unstable, mentally deranged, and indicative of unaddressed trauma or demonic possession rather than normal human sexuality. He compares these men to serial killers like Jeffrey Dahmer and Charles Manson, suggesting that the mindset required to engage in both heterosexual and homosexual acts simultaneously represents a dangerous perversion with no logical health benefits whatsoever. Furthermore, Gaskins criticizes women who condone relationships with bisexual men as naive and foolish, warning them about the potential for emotional manipulation and physical harm from partners who may also sleep with transgender individuals or cross-dressers he refers to as transvestites. He claims that these men often seek the "best of both worlds," engaging in anal sex while maintaining a facade of heterosexuality, which ultimately leaves women vulnerable to infections like UTIs and bacterial vaginosis without any spiritual or emotional reward. While acknowledging that some high-profile athletes are known for such behavior, he urges young women not to be swayed by the lifestyle associated with wealth and fame but instead to exercise common sense and choose partners who have clearly defined sexual orientations. In his conclusion, Gaskins calls on men to "pick a side" and commit fully to either being gay or straight rather than attempting to occupy both worlds, which he views as an abomination that leads to disaster for everyone involved. He shares personal anecdotes about encountering deceptive individuals in his professional life who eventually revealed their true nature after causing significant damage, reinforcing the idea that such behavior is unnatural and spiritually corrupting. Ultimately, he encourages women to seek partners with whom they can build a legacy through reproduction and family building without compromising their safety or sanity, ending with promotional messages for his coaching services while reiterating his stance against what he perceives as debauchery in modern dating culture.
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Hey, hey, Tony Gaskins here. Now, y'all got to forgive me. I actually can't even turn volume up because Let me make sure though you can hear me. Yeah, can't even turn my volume up cuz dropped my phone on my computer. So, that part of the little thing. So, I'm going to have to do me a GoFundMe for a new computer. But, wanted to pop on here cuz I saw this um one of y'all sent this to me on Instagram. And I don't really get to respond to the Instagram DMs cuz it be so many of them. I'd be there all day. But, I do get to see some of them when y'all send me videos. So, appreciate that. But, seeing this It's a podcast out there where they got some young ladies talking. And the young ladies really wanted to argue this point about women being homophobic. Because that the real reason women don't want to date bisexual men is because they're homophobic. And I think that is asinine and absurd. That is the craziest thing I have ever heard. And it's like, no. A person, a man or a woman, doesn't want to date somebody who is bisexual because bisexual means homosexual. It don't mean bisexual. It means that you like your same gender. And if you like your saying, gender, then that's really who you want to be with, and you're with the other gender because of society, and because you don't want to just go all in. But it ain't because you like both. Because you're not going to like both. You're going to love one and hate the other. And you might be tolerating both. But I'm going to tell you like it is right here, from a male perspective. There's no such thing as a bisexual man. You have gay men, and you have straight men, and I want every woman to know that. There is no such thing as a bisexual man. If a man does something with a man, he is gay. And I'm going to tell you the reason why these men don't just go be with a man, is because of the religion they was raised in, the family, the community, the race, the culture, and so the bisexuality really is a secret. They're not publicly bisexual. They might tell you they're bisexual, but their family don't know they're bisexual. Their friends don't know they're bisexual. And if their family and friends know, then their family and friends know that they are gay, and just don't want to go all the way with the title, for whatever reason that may be. But I'm going to tell you like it is right here. A heterosexual man who likes women and wants to be with women doesn't want anything to do with a man sexually. And I'm going to tell you this. Ladies, don't let nobody make you feel like that in this day and age you have to settle for a bisexual man or that you have to condone a bisexual man or that you have to sleep with a bisexual man. That does not make you homophobic because you don't want to sleep with him. What it makes you is wise. It also makes you smart. It also makes you self-respecting and self-loving. Homophobic means that you have a fear of gays. Means that you have a disdain of gays. Homophobic doesn't even apply to bisexuality if you're saying bisexuality is a thing because homophobic means you have a phobia of homosexuals. You can't be homophobic to a bisexual. What it is is you choosing peace. You choosing safety. You You choosing minimal UTIs. You choosing to avoid back terial vaginosis. You choosing to have as least as possible yeast infections. Because I'm going to tell you, if you get with a homosexual man he is pulling that out of a man. Cuz see, this the thing. He has no reason to cover it up. He have no reason to cover it up. And he taking that out of a man. And some of these guys might just be wiping off with a wipe. And then coming home to you and then putting that dookie stick in you. You are now itching. You're burning. You also you got to realize that part of a man I got one of them. I got got both of them. I got in the front, got in the back. They don't go together. They do not go together. I'm telling you that right now. Cuz what's in the front is not supposed to be able to fit in what's in the back. I'm going to tell you that right now. So if what's in the front of a man is going into what's in the back that man going to have some type of lacerations or tears or some. And so guess what? Now this man got his traces of his blood. This man got whatever that is, body matter. Uh I don't know what you call it, like not not just fecal matter but he got body bodily fluids. So if that man has a disease that's transferable your bisexual man is bringing that home to you. And the talk about oh well he said he protects himself. You can't trust nothing that come out the mouth of a man who sleep with men and women. You can't trust him further than you can see him. I'm going to tell you like this. A man who sleep with men and women, I don't put anything past him. He in my mind as a man, just processing that and thinking about that and what that would take for me to do that and to think about the mindset and the heart set of a man to do that, to me that make me think he may be willing to sleep with a dog. He may be willing to sleep with a cat, with a horse, with a donkey, with a cow. Like I would put nothing past a man who would sleep with men and women. I'd rather trust a man who just say he finna deal with men, but a man who want to dib and dab and do both, want to come out of the dookie shoot of a man, then go into the vagina of a woman, he can't be trusted. He cannot be trusted. I'm telling Hide your kids. Hide your husbands. Hide your wives. Hide your dog. Hide your Hide your cats. Hide your snakes. Hide your animals. He cannot be trusted. That man is unstable in all of his ways. He is unstable in all of his ways. I'm not playing with you. That is a mental health disease. That's a mental health disease cuz it makes absolutely no logical sense. It also is not required by the body. It's not required by the brain. It's not for life, it's not required for health, it's not required for energy. Sleeping with a man and women, men and women, you have no health benefits, you have no stress benefits, you have no peace benefits, you have no longevity benefits, you have no emotional benefits, no spiritual benefits. That is demonic possession. It is a perversion. It is unaddressed trauma. Whether that's childhood trauma or adult trauma. That man most likely 99% chance he was touched inappropriately by a man or a woman before the age of understanding. And it completely warped his understanding of sex, of intimacy. And And this is why I tell you it's so dangerous what you listen to out here. These people are so clueless. I I am just I'm just in utter shock at the cluelessness of these people. The podcasters, they do and say anything for clicks. And to y'all young ladies who had this conversation, bring me on there. I'll come on there. Even though it's a wild side, and y'all some wild childs, I'll come on there and give you the game. Answer all your questions, school you, and help you understand that the narrative you pushing is dangerous. I'mma tell you like this right here. I don't see no difference between a serial killer and a bisexual man. It's the same mindset. It's the same mental makeup. I'mma tell you that that right there. I'm telling you. I'm a man. I know. I know how a brain work. I'm telling you how a brain work. And I'm I'm a little thawed off. So, I can't even fathom being with no man and being with no woman. I can't even fathom that and I'm thawed. So, it's like if I see a a man and he tell me he bisexual I'm out of here. I'm out of the rick. I'm out of here so fast. What you think Jeffrey Dahmer was? I know what you looking at the Charles Manson. He probably bisexual. What you think these people is? That what these men and listen, I hate to put it like that. But it's dangerous cuz you also got to understand it's spiritual. Y'all Y'all delving and dabbing and dipping into demonic activity. So, that man will insert himself into another lost, hurting, broken man. And that man may say, "You know what? He fed up. He tired of being used by gay men under the guise of bisexual men who want to tear the lining out of him and then go to back home to his woman. And and he going to end up sleeping with a gay man that is going to come loosen the lug nuts on your car. And your little bisexual man is going to get you killed. I'm guaranteeing you that. I'm guaranteeing you that because it's demonic and he eventually going to sleep with somebody who is so gone and so mentally messed up because of their trauma because of how broken they are. And he and that and that person, male or female, cuz bisexual don't just mean he's sleeping with other men. That bisexual mean he also coming he going out and sleeping with other women, too. But I'm going to tell you what he be doing. I'm going to tell you what he men be doing. They be sleeping with transvestites. So, they be sleeping with men with a anal lane but who dress like women. That what they be doing. Cuz they want in their mind, they want the best of both worlds. So, you still and I'm going to tell you something like this right here. I'm going to tell you something. The bisexual man don't just think the bisexual man just going over there and just putting wood down. No. He getting meeted down. So, with your little bisexual man, cuz you got to understand how disgusting that is to deal with men and women. So, your little bisexual man is swallowing that man semen and coming home and tongue kissing you. And the man he just got done doing that to may have a disease got a disease. He got a disease. He going to end up finding somebody with a full-blown disease and then he coming and putting that in your mouth. That's how disgusting that is. That shouldn't even be a conversation. Y'all need to be I ain't even going to say what need to happen to y'all for even putting a conversation like that into the air to where I got to come out here and be graphic and really paint the full picture of what y'all are talking about. That is foolish. That is the dumbest thing in the world. You might as well go drink strychnine poison. If you want to be with a bisexual man if you willing to be with a bisexual man you might as well go dive in the middle of the ocean with blood paint on you and tie dangling fish from your body and just dive in the middle of the ocean till a shark come eat you. That's what you might as well do. You might as well if you want a bisexual man you might as well go jump off the Golden Gate Bridge. You might as well. Hey, babe. Babe, is that ours? Okay, let me know when ours come. Order some food. Listen to me. That I I Listen. If if I was a woman, I'd tell a woman to drink a dookie milkshake with brussels sprouts and chia seeds before being with a bisexual man. I'm telling you right here. If you want a bi If you're willing to be with a bisexual man, you might as well go to Dubai and get doodooed on for 50,000. You might as well. There's no difference. That's all you're going to be doing with a bisexual man is getting doodooed on for free. You might as well go let a Dubai-an pop a squat. I'll tell you and listen, I'm being graphic because I want to really really paint a picture to any woman who is considering being with a bisexual man. I seen here women in the comments talking about they were with a bisexual man it was the best relationship they ever had. Yeah, cuz you weren't in no relationship. Man didn't like you, didn't care nothing about you, didn't want anything. He didn't want to argue with you. He didn't want to hold you accountable. He didn't want He didn't want to go back and forth with you. He He didn't care about you. You could have slit your throat and he would have had the lining torn out of them right over your dead body from his boot thing, man. That's disgusting. That's disgusting. And I'm tired of it. I'm tired of this nastiness. And then and people are like, "Oh, you conservative. Oh, you old fashioned." No, I got common sense. It ain't about being a Christian. It ain't about being conservative or what y'all call it. I'm not even conservative. You hear that, graphic? I'm talking to you. It like it's about common sense. You got to understand human behavior. You got to understand the human mind. You got to understand where this man's mind is at to want to be with men and women. He gone. He He throwed all the way off. He He throwed far. I'm telling you his mind is in the deepest, darkest crevice of the spiritual realm possible. Like That's That's essentially the Jeffrey Epstein type. Like that's essentially the type that'll be at them parties. And I'mma tell you something. There's no limits with those type of men. They will tear the lining out of your child. Your adolescent child, your your teen child. So I'm So I'm telling you what you getting yourself into. You're not dealing with no normal, sane, healthy human being. You're dealing with somebody who is sick and deranged. Because that makes no sense at all. No logical sense. Because here's the thing about it. There's no need for it. Like if you're chasing an orgasm, you can have that by yourself, you can have with your hand, and you can have that with a woman. So, what do you want to be in the rectum of a man for or want a man in your rectum? You you see what I'm saying? That make no sense whatever. That that is a sickness. That's a sickness. And then if you want to do that, and come back to a woman. No, just stay on that side, playboy. Like don't bring all that back to the woman. Like stay over there. With Bubba John. Stay on over there. Y'all Y'all have a good old time. Stay over there. These women don't need you. And these women don't need And I'm like, what are these women talking about? Like did they meet a bisexual man? I'm like, they sleep with a bisexual man, they getting meat lit put on them. But see, this where I'm going to tell you when these women start to condoning this foolishness. It's bisexual superstars. Like it's bisexual multimillionaires. Like the NBA player, the Dwight Howard. He have five, six baby mamas. But he also is documented as sleeping with men and transvestites. So, when they meet a Dwight Howard, and they can ride in a Rolls-Royce, live in the mansion, get on a private jet, now it's like, ooh, hmm, is that so bad to be with somebody who like men? And then guess what? They also the women are so lost and naive and simple-minded that they telling themselves they would rather their man mess with other men so that they don't have to compete with other women. You're still going to compete with other women because people act like what they identify as. So, your bisexual man is going to be sleeping with transvestites, and them transvestites think they are a woman. And they think they more woman than you. And cuz see, this is what you got to realize. What they thinking, this what the transvestite thinking, now. They got something that your man can insert in. In insert. But they also have something they can insert into your man. You don't have nothing real nothing natural with blood flowing through it that you can insert into your man. So, that's where the transvestite got you beat. Because to the man, this this this homosexual man, he thinking, "Oh, that rear is tighter than your front." So, that's why he going over there. That why That why they be doing it. And so, you got to listen to when these folk be talking. What they telling you? They want them a little entry. And that come from insecurity. It come from pervertness. Nastiness. And then ain't no telling what them folk doing. Cuz I'm telling you like it right here. Just the fact that the man would do that. He over there having golden showers. Like he did it. Uh Girl said what's uh the City Girls? What that hoe that say she like to have a golden shower? Uh which which which being urinated on, being peed on. Oh, you you bisexual man over there getting peed on. He getting peed on. He might be on the Whoa whoa whoa. He might be guarding the pee. Because what's going to be his limit? He over there Man shooting all of them. And then he come back to you. And you like What? If you are a woman and you are willing to be with a bisexual man you need to be in a asylum. You need to be you need to be admitted to the psych ward. You done lost your mind. You have lost your mind. You know how nasty man is? You know all the stuff men do with women? So do you know how nasty a man got to be to want to be with a man, too? That man ain't got no limits. That man got a knife and fork eating that man doo-doo. That man ain't got no limits. That's the most disgusting human being walk around on this earth if he want to dip and dab in both. With no conscious, no care. Mhm, you can't trust him. Listen, I wouldn't be able to leave my kids around him. I wouldn't leave my animals around them. And listen, I'm saying this on the worldwide web cuz I don't care who don't like it. I don't care who don't like it. I don't care who get mad about it. It is debaucherous. It is disgusting. It is demonic. And it is an abomination to God. And we need men to be men. And I'mma tell you like this right here. I respect you more as a man if you just make a choice. Just pick a side. If you want to go to hell in a handbasket, I I respect that more than you trying to drink holy water and go to hell with your holy water. Or bring your hell to heaven. No, pick a side. Which one do you want? Do you want a woman or do you want a man? Be a man and make a decision. And whatever side you pick, be willing to stand on that and stay over there. Whichever side you on, stay on that side. Cuz this stuff is getting sad and debaucherous. Like, I'm looking at them like, is this a conversation? I'm like, oh my goodness. Is this a conversation? >> [sighs] >> I just I I just I just I want to stick my head in a toilet after hearing it. And and drown try to drown myself in a toilet after hearing it. I I'm just like, I'm ready to jump off a bridge. I'm like, what? Like, this is the internet? There's kids on the internet. So now these grown musky women have 13, 14, 15 year old boys, girls saying they will be okay with their man being bisexual. You know you let me tell you what bisexual get you? David. That that R&B singer is D the left the number four VD. David killed that young girl. Why? He bisexual. You know how I know he bisexual? Because I seen a picture of him with a blouse on. Heterosexual man not going to put no blouse on. And this is what I'm trying to tell y'all. These bisexual men are under demonic possession. They got bodies. They got bodies. They put hits on people. They kill people themselves. It's a demonic possession. And the demons See, this is what y'all don't understand about demonic possession. It is real. It is real. I have seen people under demonic possession at getting prayed for in church when I was a child. It is real. Let me tell you something about the demonic possession. It's a spirit. So the spirit inhabits a human. And the spirit is there to steal steal their joy steal their peace steal their happiness, steal their life to kill, to kill them from the inside out, but also to have them kill other people and to destroy, to destroy the host and to have the host destroy or attempt to destroy the lives of everyone they come in contact with. The bisexual man I met working in what I do, I met working. I was in an organization working for the organization as a consultant. They had a bisexual man. I didn't know he was bisexual. The man befriended me. Then the man started making requests of me. He wanted me to do like a little matchmaking and hey, I want I'm ready to meet a wife. And then he wanted me to line for him in the cape and cap for him and I told him I said, "Listen, I don't do that." I'll match make, but you got to really be ready and if I sense or if I see that you're not ready, I'm going to tell my client that you're not ready. So he thought I was playing. So when the man found out that I went back to my client and say, "Hey, saw some stuff on this gentleman that I introduced you to, he's not ready, cut him off, go your separate ways." These women listen to me because they could trust me. They know how beautiful they are, they know how shapely they are and they see that I don't try them. And they've never experienced that with a heterosexual man. So that builds trust and they say, "Okay, I could trust Tony because for one, he's married, he likes women, he's faithful." They don't meet married men who don't get weak and shot their shot. I don't shoot my shot. So, they know I'm all the way 100 with it. So, when I tell them something, they know you better listen or it's going to cost you. And so, they listen. The man started just telling all everybody that he knew that knew me. Everybody. Tony Gaskins said this. Tony Gaskins said that. Tony Gaskins did this. He started doing a smear campaign. He tried to destroy me. He tried to ruin me. I think it was him who got my contract ended with that with that company. And I'm going to tell you something now. I had visions of killing him. Had visions of shooting him in the knees. I went through all of that. I went through all the emotions. But God kept me. He gave me the strength. And but guess what? A year or 2 years later, I found out because it had come out a man who was a transvestite came out and said that he was with that man. And started spreading it out there. And I said, "What?" Cuz I I I didn't really believe like I couldn't like I was thinking maybe something happened as a child. Maybe he did something with a man as a child. But I'm like he not obviously like that cuz he dealing with women and he pursuing women and he always got a woman. I mean he saying he want a wife and all of that. So, I'm just like, "Okay. Well, maybe you know, maybe maybe the guy just ready for a wife or whatever. Come to find out the man bisexual. And and then when I found that out, I said, "Now everything makes sense. It all makes sense." And so some of like, "Tony, I can't believe you ain't spoke on the Davis situation." I done spoke on Davis situation. You just got to search it on my channel. Go type it in D4VD. I done talked about it. That's a bisexual man. That's what you get right there from a bisexual man. It's going to happen eventually. Something crazy going to happen. Something crazy going to happen because that's not a natural position for a man. That's not a natural act for a man. And even if a man want to be with a man, to be greedy enough, lustful enough, selfish enough, entitled enough to want to be with men and women, that's a recipe for disaster. That man is a ticking time bomb. That man is Mhm. This He is a plague. He ought to be avoided like a plague. And a lot of women have a bisexual man and don't know it. And a lot of women are going through interesting things. Now, I only have my sessions available on my mentor.life and it's full price now. I've burnt out on the discount. So, I ain't got no more discount on that. Woo! You want to talk to me one-on-one. And I'll still give you a discount even at my full rate now. But listen, it's a lot of women I get on the phone with and they tell me about their man. Tell me about their situation. When they send me his picture, I could tell right away he bisexual. I just could read people. People "How do you tell me? How do you tell that? How do you tell that?" And then when they go look, they find. They find his searches online. They find videos in his phone, in the hidden folder, in WhatsApp, in the deleted folder. They go find. And it just I I just could tell. So, it is a lot of women who are with bisexual men and don't know it. And let's hope you're not. And it's a good possibility you're not. It's cuz I I don't think it's a whole lot, but I would say at least 30% of women are with a bisexual man. And yeah. But here But here's the thing, too, now. Bisexual could be bicurious. Because And I'm going to tell you why these men is like this. And this why I've never watched porn. I don't watch porn, and I won't watch porn. Because I know it's a rabbit hole. I know that the brain will start to desensitize. And the brain will stop responding. The brain will stop feeling good about certain things, and it'll want more and more and more to increase the stimulation. So, for those of y'all who got a man, and you're kind of wondering, odds are, chances are, if he watch porn, he he either bicurious, actually bisexual, or what I call spiritually gay. Meaning watching men do the act and all of that. Watching transvestites who don't have a gender change. They just dress and act like women, but they still got a whole dang-a-lang. He's most likely that right there. So, I'll be here for you. I analyze them. I give my honest feedback and like I take it with a grain of salt. You know, just pay attention, look, see what you could see. You know, I'll be honest with you. I look at three, four, five different pictures and I just get come in no men. Men no men. Sometimes I see that on a man and I want to be like, "What? I can't believe that." But then we go to talk about it and you know what? Oh my goodness. He be with his homeboy all the time at night after midnight and they always trying to hang out and take trips together and they always together all time a night. And they and they do everything together all the time. And this man is over 35. I said, "Oh." That's all you need to know right there. Cuz a man don't want to be riding on another man's back. It was a week at a ball. I had to call out the brother. Um who said be with your homeboys twice a week. I'm like, "What?" You might as well be gay. You You better get you a woman and get up out of that woman. You be up out of no man no twice a week. Are you crazy? For what? What are we doing? He can't do nothing for me. I'm talking to God and my wife. God, yeah, I have a guys night. I I'll try to have one once a month. Once a week too much. Don't be riding on men. What what what are we doing? We're not going to end up doing nothing but complaining about women. That's it. Well, it's like, "Uh-uh, I talk to my barber when I go get a haircut." And I try to do my men's group once a month. That's all you need. You got to learn how to coexist with a woman cuz that's who you going to reproduce with and build a family with. You ain't got to learn how to get along with no man cuz you can't create legacy and lineage with no man. You need to understand a woman. And that's going to take you 24 hours a day, 7 days a week trying to understand a woman. Why you want to have all these guys nights? Absolutely not. You crazy. But hey, this is Tony Gas. God bless the food and God heal. All important links in the description. Stay tuned. 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