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The podcast opens with a stark warning against buying homes, arguing that America's financial struggles stem from living beyond one's means rather than inflation or economic conditions alone. Hosts Dave Ramsey and Graham Stephan debate whether real estate remains the best investment; while Ramsey acknowledges his own properties have been strong assets historically, he cautions that future appreciation may not match past trajectories of 20-30% growth. He advises against using leverage like the "burrito strategy" or low down payments for primary residences, suggesting instead that investors should pay off their home and use cash to purchase investment properties when possible. Ramsey also strongly discourages investing in condos due to high HOA fees, lack of control over land value, and insurance risks, preferring multifamily units or single-family homes where owners have more autonomy. The conversation shifts to cryptocurrency, with both hosts expressing skepticism toward the culture surrounding Bitcoin despite acknowledging its technological potential. Graham notes that while he isn't a hater, he sees crypto as "Mary Kay for young men" driven by greed and get-rich-quick schemes rather than sound investment principles. He contrasts this with traditional index funds in retirement accounts, which offer diversification without the volatility of single assets like Bitcoin or Dogecoin. The hosts discuss government involvement in crypto, referencing RFK Jr.'s proposal to have the U.S. hold 20% market share and El Salvador's adoption of Bitcoin as a "Hail Mary" after their currency collapsed, though they remain wary of fear-mongering regarding dollar devaluation versus the risks of unregulated digital assets. A significant portion of the discussion addresses government inefficiency and Social Security. Both hosts agree that lifetime politicians contribute to perpetual deficits, citing examples like million-dollar toilets in San Francisco as evidence of wasteful spending. They debate abolishing income taxes entirely or implementing a flat tax system while auditing federal expenditures more rigorously. On Social Security, Ramsey calls it a scam with poor returns compared to personal investing, noting the first recipient received less than her contribution due to initial miscalculations. He suggests forcing individuals into wise investments rather than relying on government-managed funds that offer minimal growth and do not replace full retirement income needs. Finally, the hosts explore strategies for becoming millionaires and overcoming psychological barriers in finance. Ramsey shares his nine-year journey of investing 15% of income, paying off mortgages aggressively, and rolling home equity into new properties to reach a net worth milestone. They emphasize that building skills and earning more money is often more effective than relying solely on market returns or credit card rewards. The episode concludes with non-financial advice: Ramsey urges viewers to replace cynicism with optimism daily by focusing on what they can control, while Graham highlights the importance of rest and presence over constant productivity. Both agree that financial freedom requires discipline but also a mindset shift toward hope rather than fear-based decision-making.
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the reason America's broke is not
because of inflation it's not because of
the economy it's because they're not
living on less than they make a recent
survey by Credit Karma found 40% of
Millennials have spent money they didn't
have and gone into debt to keep up with
their peers YOLO I deserve a sweet treat
life's hard mental health day and they
just go spending like crazy and roughly
one in three doubt they'll be able to
keep up this lifestyle without incurring
debt everyone wants to point at
inflation and the White House and the
economy and all these things that we
don't have full control over what we can
control is how much debt we have what
our income is and what our daily
spending habits are you have to have the
I've had it moment that's what Dave
calls it where you drew a line in the
sand and you said I know my life is
worth more than living in debt for
another 20 years think about what a $5
sacrifice could do for your future look
at that exponentially across all of your
expenses most people are unwilling to
sacrifice for 2 years and yet they're
willing to live in mediocrity for the
next 20
[Music]
George thanks so much for coming on the
iced coffee hour we really appreciate it
it's an honor is this a three repeat
this is are so special that we had to
have you on again because everybody
loved the first two episodes and we're
going to dive even deeper the idea is
we're going to go over some
controversial truths about money okay
and some big money mistakes that people
need to avoid I know a lot about both of
those things and you guys can feel free
to chime in with your own money mistakes
you know let's be vulnerable today
that's the idea we all have different
ideas around money and we're going to
challenge each other and uh try to find
the truth is this like a debate this
could be a debate this might get a
little contentious but it's your show
you got two against one you work out I
feel like it's not a fair fight to begin
with all right well let's have some fun
cool oh also huge thank you to Ramsay
Solutions cof and also for hosting us
we're always happy to host you guys
you've become good friends of ours and
we've always enjoyed making content with
you guys and I hope it helps people
that's the ultimate goal can we help
some become debt free build wealth learn
something they didn't know and avoid a
money trap I feel like a lot of people
look at this as like the most uh uh
unlikely Duo you know for someone who
like is big into credit cards and
keeping 30-year mortgages versus someone
who's very like anti- debt 15-year
mortgages paying it off as soon as
possible yeah we can still be friends
that's what I've learned if you are kind
and respectful and you're not trying to
just like come at me with a knife then
I'm like hey we can talk about it as
into ual friends and then still go hang
out and have a good time that's my goal
is to become a bridge to the finance
community at large cool well let's talk
about it we scoured the internet for a
bunch of different takes on money and we
come up with a list and we'd love to
know your opinion on it good research
how long does it take to do cuz I've
watched a lot of ice coffee hour stuff
this is not an easy job you make it look
easy yeah it depends so if we're
shooting with you I mean we know you
fairly well by now so this wouldn't take
as much time as if we were researching
for someone new like Jordan Peterson
that one I mean I probably spent months
preparing for that how do you even begin
to crack that egg let's start off with
the first one we looked up the
controversial truths about money and
this came up that we thought would be
interesting it says a house may not be
the best investment in the world all the
extra debt creates stress which steals
energy from other areas of life think
carefully before getting a huge mortgage
maybe you could live smaller and still
be happier or rent for longer until your
Investments grow big enough to Prov IDE
Financial Security a house is it the
best investment ever no I don't look at
it as that now I think we do need to
separate a house as an asset versus the
mortgage which is the liability I think
it's important to separate those two
because if you're following the Ramsay
plan the way I teach I'm going to say
well yeah I don't want you to have too
big of a mortgage and hang on to it for
the rest of your life let's get a house
let's make the mortgage reasonable and
let's knock it out when we can and if
you do it that way the house can become
a beautiful asset even an investment I
mean my home home and the homes I've had
have been some of the best investments
as far as Roi you know it's beaten my
41k because of the time I bought the
area I bought all of those pieces and
you know as a guy who's owned a lot of
real estate real estate can be a great
investment when you do it the right way
the issue though that I see is that a
lot of people look at real estate
performance over the last really 20
years but more specifically the last 14
years well since 08 probably right
coming out of that right and they see
how much prices have gone up and I think
a lot of people have this idea in their
mind that house prices are going to
continue going up maybe not at the same
trajectory even if it went up half of
what it did from 20110 through now
they'd be doing quite well I don't know
if houses are going to see the same
appreciation over the next 10 years I
could be totally wrong but it it's hard
for me today to look at a house and
think that that's a good purchase
compared to what it was eight years ago
oh absolutely I think the growth that we
saw you even in the homes that I had uh
not homes plural but the homes that I've
had singular in the times I've had them
you know I'm not going to see that kind
of return in the stock market but like
you said in the future we might see
homes appreciate at 5% instead of 20 or
30% and 5% versus what the market might
do which could be 15 20% on a good year
25% even that's going to beat the real
estate and so I think you should get
into real estate if you love real estate
and you want to purchase an investment
property with cash that's probably the
most controversial take of all then go
for it if you want to try out being a
landlord and you want to make that extra
income from the rent just know that it's
not going to be passive it's going to
take work and you've shared on your
channel some of the nightmarish
experiences that a landlord and a real
estate investor can have yeah so you
think you should only ever buy an
investment property if it is Cash yes
that is that is the wisest way to go
about it um I think people get too
star-eyed when it comes to investment
real estate and they go well I'll just
put 3% down I'll do the bur strategy and
it'll all work out for me and what
happens in a 60-second Tik Tok from some
dude telling you you know some Grand you
know Grant Cardone for example saying
dude just you know if you don't have 30
houses by the time you're 35 you suck if
you don't make half a million dollars
your life is terrible I'm like all right
let's tone it down right that it doesn't
have to be that way and so I believe you
get your primary home paid for now you
have a lot of cash flow on margin
because you hopefully have increased
your income with your career over time
and you steadily save up and pay cash
for investment property when you can
whether that's a fun vacation or an
investment a lot of people would look at
that for paying cash for an investment
property and just think let's just say
it's 400 Grand saving up $400,000 in
cash is going to take a long time and if
you do that in the stock market let's
just say you're throwing in you know a
th000 bucks a month into the stock
market now 20 years have gone by and you
have enough to buy an investment
property if you sell the stocks now
you're left with a tax bill that takes
you back down you have to almost start
over again so you know buying an invest
property with cash would be extremely
difficult at that point it's like unless
you have a huge income it just you
wouldn't feasibly be possible for well
the first one's going to be the hardest
and remember doesn't have to be $400,000
home so your first investment property
you know for you how much was your first
one the first one you ever bought
$559,000 during like the the bottom of
the market yeah that was like 2011 of
foreclosure sure know that house is
probably worth
380 but for example you're not going to
buy the most expensive home for your
first property you know you're you're
going to look for maybe it's a condo
maybe it's a town home it doesn't have
to be an expensive single family home in
the part terrible Investments though
maybe condos are awful I mean very i'
I've I've never seen a good investment
for a condo every deal that I've ever
looked at where where someone has come
to me is like hey what do you think of
this as a deal I'm like what can to rent
for what's the HOA what are the property
taxes what are other units selling for
they're all money losers every single
one is not a lot of Roi for you there's
only so much that you could upgrade in a
condo you can't add score footage you
don't own the land you're at the whims
of the HOA there's so many things that
could go wrong on that uh the other
issue with with a lot of these condos is
that getting Insurance on them depending
on the location some of them just don't
have the proper insurances if something
were to happen like La is a great
example of this a lot of condos there
don't have earthquake insurance you're
who's going to ensure that too much risk
right too much risk and so they just go
without it but imagine you have like 800
Grand suck in a condo without earthquake
insurance something hits damaged what do
you do you're it's on you you're wiped
no that is scary depending on the area
you're in so you're kind of limited I I
personally think I I would never invest
anything that's not either multif family
or a house well a lot of people just
think like what what do you think about
the strategy of I'm going to buy the
duplex and live on the other side love
it have you done it yes what's it like
living with next to your tenant
fantastic do they ever knock on the door
and go hey bro you got a problem no
never no I I had the the nicest people
next to me they were they were sool SC
them really well I'm always curious so I
inherited them so they were already
there and then I moved in so they had
been there for quite some time you w the
jackpot in that regard I love them they
were so nice they were so quiet so
respectful got along yeah and it it was
an elderly mom and her son that were
living there I loved them they were so
nice so it worked out would you do it
Jack absolutely yeah I I mean at this
point I would probably I would probably
not do that since I already live in a
house with a bunch of guys so I just
move them in been there done that so it
works out great for me but I definitely
like a few years back absolutely would
have loved to do that all right yeah
yeah I mean the the thing is you're
always going to introduce risk when you
take on a mortgage and we believe that
more risk less peace less joy and I'm
all about what what are your options and
once you pay off the house I don't want
to pick up another payment I'm going to
save up and buy something reasonable and
so that's my plan if I ever do buy
investment property is to buy something
reasonable in cash which means it's
probably not going to be within a 5 mile
radius of this area CU this is the 11th
wealthiest County in the nation so it
wouldn't be wise for me to just go spend
800 grand for my first investment
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back to the episode you always talk
about mitigating risk but with risk
comes reward so what would you say is
the riskiest thing thing that you would
actually do o well some people look at
the stock market as risk you know you
could lose money A lot of people are
scared to invest because they go I'm not
putting my money in that vending machine
it's going to eat it because I've seen
the stock market go down because I saw
the headline and that to me the stock
market is probably the best riskiest
place to put your money in a sense and
if you do it the right way which is not
investing in single stocks putting your
money in mutual funds and index funds
giant pools of stocks you're going to be
more Diversified and less chance of
getting you know just eaten up on that
ride and so stay the course invest for
the long term I don't invest without a
five plus year Horizon what about
Bitcoin you know my feelings on bitcoin
I wouldn't say they've changed uh I'm
not a Bitcoin hater I personally don't
have any cryptocurrency I'm not mad if
people do I just hope that they're also
investing at least 15% into retirement
accounts into tried and true methods and
then using their fund money to invest in
crypto and if you're going to invest in
crypto Bitcoin is the current leader
winner with the best track record would
you invest 1% of your net worth in
Bitcoin ooh would I I don't know at what
point I would be comfortable doing that
versus just putting it into the market
and even a brokerage account into an
index fund I'm much more comfortable
just throwing money into an index fund
versus well what if that money could 20x
but you could put it in a Bitcoin ETF
what would that ETF do for me versus is
just Bitcoin
solo the ETF would just be easier to buy
and you'd be able to do it from within a
re account yeah it's still like a single
stock in that regard yes if there was a
I'll say this if there was an ETF or
index fund that had a collection of the
best
cryptocurrencies I I would say all right
I'll put some fun money in there that
would be my caveat I have a feeling at
some point that's going to happen well
the whole idea is that it's unregulated
but now as it gets more regulated it
kind of takes the steam out of it in a
sense um now I get there's a finite
amount of Bitcoin and all of that and it
can't be devalued with inflation and
printing money so that part is actually
the most interesting Parts me I talked
to Tom um Tom bill you about this yeah
but really what bothers me is the people
that are into it it's not the actual the
crypto it's aoral you know it's like a
brick you can throw it through a window
you can build a school the people that
are into Bitcoin like once you have
hasht Bitcoin in your X profile I'm like
oh you're not okay like there's mental
health issues like if if I had # mutual
fund
in my Twitter bio you would say like
this guy he needs he needs to see
someone laser beam eyes on Twitter have
you seen that that's also strange to me
and so I I could see you with laser beam
eyes people have probably done it for a
YouTube video like trying to like you
know take me down make me look like
what's that evil Joe Biden dark dark Joe
or whatever so I can see that happening
but it's the people obsessed with it
it's like an MLM that's why I've always
said cryptocurrency is just Mary Kay for
young men cuz the people who are into it
are trying to get other people into it
they're obsessive about it and they make
money when they get you into it think
about that if I want you in on Doge I'm
going to tell everyone hey you got to
get in on Doge man it's a great price
right now it's going to to the Moon Elon
said he's going to go on SNL and then
it's going to crash and so I just don't
like the culture around it versus the
actual technology itself of the
blockchain and all that I do see that
changing for Bitcoin at least I do see
that culture transitioning into
something a little bit more corporate
but like you said it takes a bit of the
steam out of it yeah if it was offered
let's say in our 401k if there was a
Bitcoin mutual fund uh I might just
throw a little bit in there for fun and
go all right above and beyond my 15% I'm
going to throw some into this mutual
fund and see what happens but I just
think there's too much get-rich quick
greed around it and nobody can convince
me otherwise CU why are you investing in
Bitcoin it's not because of the techn no
it's because you're hoping to get a,x
versus a 20% return I see it as
something where people don't want to put
their money in the dollar that they see
that as a global currency or a global
store of value that
everyone attribute some form of wealth
to and so they see that as something
that there a finite amount of it
everyone from around the world sees and
agrees that this holds some level of
value I'm going to put my money in that
sure I saw the RFK thing did you see
this RFK Jr he was at the Bitcoin
conference here in Nashville and he said
he wants the us to have 20% or almost
20% of all market share of Bitcoin and
that the government needs to buy you
know it was I did the math on this it
was like the government would need to
spend like $70 million a day with whose
money taxpayer money the government
doesn't create worked for Al Salvador
though mhm did it yeah how are they
doing really well so they used taxpayer
money to buy Bitcoin y yep and then what
happened it dropped and he bought the
dip he bought yeah he bought the dip so
he timed the market perfectly yeah no
he's just technically he's just dollar
cost averaging okay but he started
buying at 30 wrote it down doubled down
at like 16 18 and rode it all the way
back up their currency though was
completely obliterated so it wasn't like
there was anything to lose it was their
it was their Hail Mary yeah I'm just not
I think there's too much fearmongering
happening with the dollar devaluation
and it's all going to come crashing down
all these countries are going to come
against us and your dollar is going to
be worth nothing I get that inflation is
real but I think there's way too much
fearmonger on the other side saying well
I'm going to have all my money in crypto
which by the way you still have to turn
back into cash to actually use it I mean
it's similar to gold in that regard
where people are going I'm going to buy
up all the gold and then what you're
going to have to go sell it to a pawn
shop for less than you paid for it just
to turn it around well I think
eventually we could get to a point where
for larger purchases you could just
trade Bitcoin like let's say a house you
say hey that house is 10 Bitcoin five
Bitcoin or 5 and a half send me that and
that is payment or a car one Bitcoin so
that day is farther away than the dollar
being demolished that's just how I'm
like all right I'm going to take my bet
the Dollar's fine and I'm going to
invest to beat that inflation rate
that's the key when people just have
their money in a checking account or a
measly savings account making
0.1% yeah that's terrible I wouldn't do
that I'm going to invest in I'm G my
house isn't appreciating my investment
accounts my 401ks Ira a taxable
brokerage all of that will hopefully
appreciate in the long term more than
the dollar is being devalued that's the
only hope we have now speaking of
inflation here's our next controversial
truth about money house prices aren't
what they seem if you remove all the
stimulus in money printing then most
people's homes didn't increase in value
at all what can you explain that to me I
feel like I'm on a spelling beam like
can you use the word in a sentence yes
okay when you look at housing prices
over time when you account for inflation
a lot of homes simp just stay the same
value it's just you're adding inflation
on top of it so if your home goes up in
value let's just say 3% a year if
inflation is 3% a year you're just
keeping par homes aren't really going up
uh when I looked into this it was only
certain major metros and certain
locations that exceeded the value of
inflation over the last 100 years so
what this is saying is that your home
isn't really going up in value what
you're really doing is locking into
something that's keeping Pace with
inflation and that more inflation there
is the more your home goes up in value
so if I buy at 500,000 I sell at a
million well by the time I sell at a
million my buying power is more like
500,000 is that the kind of the idea
here basically from the original time
that you I just go tell that to a a
renter who was wanting to buy a home and
tell them it's it's the same value no it
actually costs $300,000 more than it did
5 years ago so the price is the price
whether or not you want to adjust for
inflation and so I'm still going to put
I don't buy a house as a hedge against
inflation I I want to roof above my head
and I want to cover my biggest fixed
expense so paying off my mortgage
removed my biggest fixed expense which
now I can use to invest or do whatever I
want with and that gives me the most
options and the most piece that's the
way I look at it the answer to financial
problems is to make more money cutting
expenses and being on a never-ending
budget has limited effects and inflation
and layoffs ensure this strategy stops
working at some point there is a point
where you can cut your expens is all you
want but if you make $25,000 a year
you're right you're not going to get
very far financially so you've got to
make more and I believe income is one of
the only things in our control everyone
wants to point at inflation and the
White House and the economy and all
these things that we don't have full
control over what we can control is how
much debt we have what our income is and
what our daily spending habits are and
that's where I think the budget carries
through till the end of my days I'll be
doing a budget because it helps me know
where I'm at financially if I'm on track
to get to where I want to go and part of
that is am I managing my expenses wisely
yes let me cut down my expenses because
I might find an extra thousand or 2,000
in there just by getting wise about that
but I might still need more margin and
that's where making more will only
compound that effect because if I can
save a th000 and make a th000 that's a
$2,000 spread up to what point do you
have control over your
income like what dollar amount I mean I
think in America there's endless
opportunity I mean now the new goal for
every genzer and Alpha is become a
YouTuber and it's not because of just
the spotlight you can make really
amazing money on YouTube you guys are
living proof of that and so I I think
part of it is what are you willing to do
what skill set do you bring to the
marketpl and what kind of
setbacks are going to hold you back from
building that kind of wealth because if
you go get $150,000 degree that has no
Marketplace value you're going to be a
lot more frustrated you're not going to
be making a lot and you're going to have
a lot of debt but if you avoid the debt
start your adult life no debt making a
decent salary and figure out ways to
maybe it's climbing a corporate ladder
for you based on your role or maybe you
want to be an entrepreneur and that's a
lot of people are wanting to go that
route and we know with entrepreneurship
it's difficult but the ceiling is much
higher you know Dave what Dave Ramsey
makes as an entrepreneur and CEO far
without way whatever I could ever make
as an employee of a company and so you
also have to understand the different
levels if you're going to be an employee
unless you're a SE Suite executive it's
going to be hard to make seven figures
but if you're a CEO and you run a
company really well and serve people
well in the marketplace you could make
three five s million a year but what
point do you think someone has control
over their income to say like hey if
you're making 20 you should be able to
make 50 or there's no reason you can't
make 60 or 70 and when you look at the
internet and how much you can get for
free of just skills I do think we're
seeing less demand for you have to have
this college degree yes in most Fields I
would say 90% of the fields out there
they're not saying you have to get a
master's what they're saying is do you
have the soft skills and the hard skills
to do this job and experience which
worries me when kids are getting their
fourth master's degree with no
experience and then wondering why no one
will hire them well they're
overqualified with zero experience why
would I want to hire you you got too
much on the line I'd rather hire the guy
who's hungry with no degree or with a
four-year degree or whatever that I can
grow into the role and so I do think
there's there is a limit depending on
where you are right if you live in the
sticks and you can't find remote work
and there's only a Walmart and a Dollar
General yeah your income is going to be
limited by that but the beautiful thing
is we're in America you can move people
forget that you can move locations you
guys have moved you moved from
California to Vegas right was it
partially for financial reasons oh yeah
so technically you are bringing more
home now than you were in California
even making the same income MH that's a
option people have they don't think
about that when it comes to their income
is you have to think about income taxes
and what does it cost to live here what
does it cost to rent so I think if
you're willing to make the right
sacrifices you're willing to be a
lifelong learner your career potential
your salary potential is exponential to
a degree if you're an employee if you
ever make a million dollars I'm going to
be high-fiving you that's that's
incredible but you also don't need to
make a million to have a great life we
see people who are making 50 60 70 with
a great life I think that's a great take
that's like not talked about enough but
it's also really controversial it could
be why is that if you can't afford to
live in a certain place then you should
probably just move that's like the other
side of the token where like a lot of
people think I need to live in LA I need
to live in like Manhattan because why
not I grew up here I should be able it's
what I know yeah it's it's they they
feel entitled to be able to live in a
specific place but if you can't afford
it then you might just have to move out
of the city and then commute to work you
know ideally not but I think that people
need to be maybe a little bit more okay
being uncomfortable I talked to a guy
yesterday on the Ramsey Show and he
lives in La he's got a partner who's
about to have their kid and their rent
is 3200 bucks they split it so he's
paying 1,600 he wanted to start two
businesses he said the partner screwed
him out of compensation so now he's been
driving for Uber so he financed a Tesla
which has a $700 $700 a month payment
he's paying $800 a month for charging
he's paying 350 bucks a month for
insurance and he has debt in every other
area of his life and I'm going going
dude you need to move you can do Uber in
anony you don't need to be in Los
Angeles to drive for Uber and so I was
trying to just show him that there's
more options out there and that if he
wants to get out of debt yeah paying
this much in rent is part of the problem
and it's a it's there is a solution
there or you go get roommates like youve
got how many roommates four others and
that limits your personal housing
expenses yeah cuz they're all paying
into the pot and so there's nothing
wrong with if you're single have
roommates even Jade warshaw one of the
personalities her and her husband had a
roommate to help them pay off debt they
had an extra room and they said we're
going to rent this out and it's going to
help us pay off debt so you've got to
kind of swallow your pride and go I'm
not entitled to have my own one-bedroom
you know apartment in La just because
I'm a grown adult doesn't work like that
yeah renting out a room I honestly think
is one of the best things that you could
do to make more money I mean when you
think about it even like $800 a month
yeah think of have you thought about
your place people would pay a premium to
live with gr he has thought about this
would feel about it have you talked to
her about the depends on who it is we
have a few friends that we would love
just to you know give them a room oh
gram would love for me to live with him
I've tried I was for a while and then he
started trying to charge me in in not
rent Bitcoin know in in like a in
utilities $300 a month in just Tri INE
that's
it so as soon as you started doing that
I started looking to buy a house because
you know you got to I guess measure
calculated that buying a house was
cheaper than paying $300 a month for
utilities tell me how that makes sense
Jack it it was different math it
absolutely was significantly better off
right now financially because I bought a
house and because I'm renting out the
rooms and I'm living for free and I'm
and that's not even counting uh paying
into my own equity in the mortgage
payment wow so well you know to that end
I think a lot of people that are living
at home are stunting their growth and I
think if you're not charging your kids
something to live there as an adult with
a job you're doing it wrong what I was
telling there needs to be an exit
strategy you have to like want push them
out of there cuz if you let them live
for free why the heck would I want to go
rent for 1,200 bucks exactly so you were
just bringing good parents Cy characters
over too very se he wouldn't let me
bring people over which was another
reason why I wanted I get it's my place
I don't want strangers in and out of my
house I wouldn't complain about it I
think that's that's his decision to be
fair did you
mature uh you know emotionally
physically financially by moving out and
getting your own place was there an
independence gained yeah and I had lived
you know in my own place before like I I
didn't just go straight from my parents
to my pseudo parent over here like I I
had a couple of other you know living
situations somewhere in between yeah
there there's something about having
your own place having to take care of it
having to pay the bills having to be in
all the accounts and manage that that
sort of actually sends you into
adulthood absolutely so I encourage it
now I get people go home they want to
pay off some debt aggressively for a
year while living at home or they had a
life situation happen it's okay but
don't let the the safety net become
hammock which has happened a lot when is
too late to live at home you know as far
as age goes I think once you are in your
mid-20s and still living at home there's
a problem because by your mid 20s you
should have graduated you should even if
you did a second degree another 2-year
program or whatever you should be by 25
or 26 gainfully employed and have some
semblance of what you're doing in that
stage of life even if it's not your
Forever career if you are on salary I
just don't think you should be living at
home with Mom and Dad I get there's rare
situations there's cultural differences
there's ultra high cost of living areas
you live in Silicon Valley but I still
would say your life is going to be
better your quality of life is going to
be better if you move out and get your
own place even if you financially suffer
a little bit what if you have debt
you're 27 you graduated with a master's
you got a
PhD with debt and you could live at home
for three years you're 30 years old but
you could wipe out all the debt I don't
think the stunted growth is worth the
really I think that person at 27 to 30
probably not going to have a girlfriend
probably not going to get married and
that's just anecdotal from what I've
seen on the Ramy show rarely do we see a
guy who's like yeah like I'm I'm engaged
now and I'm it's always a guy who's just
sort of been Baby by the parents and
went hey B you stay as long as you want
and just pay off your debt as as you can
and it slows them down and so even Dave
would say hey get out of the house have
an exit plans for 6 months or a year get
out of the house house pay off debt
aggressively and then pay the rest while
you're still paying rent if it slows
down your debt payoff we're okay with
that because of the benefit you get on
the other side of that Independence and
maturity because Dave says an eagle that
doesn't leave the nest is called a
turkey and that's kind of what we've
seen is a 35-year-old still living at
home and still having the benefit of mom
and dad paying their cell phone bills
and covering insurance and at some point
if you want to grow as an adult you want
to get married you got to be your own
person that's a big jump it's difficult
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now let's get back to the podcast the
trend of Don't Buy $5 coffees is the
exact psychology that keeps Society poor
I think what they're getting at I think
I've heard uh R SI talk about this is
you want to focus on the big wins the
big changes versus the little ankle
biter this $3 thing here and I get what
he's saying you know if you let's say
you're getting a refund of let's call it
for easy math 2400 a year Well if you
change your withholdings you could get
$200 back in your life just by changing
withholdings well that's better than
saving a dollar here or $2 doar here and
so focusing on the big wins selling your
car if you're not underwater and you can
get out of it that's a much bigger win
than cutting out a $3 coffee every now
and then but I do think uh I don't think
the mentality of Don't Buy $5 coffee is
what's keeping people broke I don't see
a correlation there what I do see is the
pendulum swinging to where they say oh
really me not buying Starbucks is going
to allow me to buy a house okay and so
they're very flippant very sarcastic
very cynical about it and the pendulum
swings to where they go YOLO I deserve a
sweet treat life's hard mental health
day and they just go spending like crazy
and so you've got to have a middle
ground where we say I can enjoy life
while living on less that I make and I
can make short-term sacrifices so I can
have long-term wins yeah I think it's
about dialing it in it's like the person
who wants to lose weight but they still
want to eat a dessert and they go in
well oh this this cookie is fine it
doesn't matter I think it does I think
it does matter because that one cookie
is not just a cookie it adds up and it
sets you back in some way yeah so I'm
pretty much deficit yeah like 100
calories isn't going to break the bank
but repeatedly with multiple cookies
you're not going to lose weight and the
same happens financially is yeah it's a
$5 coffee but if you're doing that every
single day well that's a lot of money
that's 150 bucks a month and if you add
that to the other areas you could save
on cutting down your cell phone bill
let's reshop the insurance let's pause
investing let's change our withholdings
let's make a little more money all of
that combined now has a Ser some serious
momentum I did a calculation a while
back where it was like if you if you
started just I think it was like $5 a
day on coffee starting at the age of 18
and a Roth IRA what that would be worth
over 40 years and I think it was like
$1.2 million taxfree of just $5 a day
and that's your coffee yeah and the
coffee is just an example and what
people get stuck on is Graham doesn't
want me to enjoy my life the one thing
keeping me alive and making life
tolerable is this coffee and you're not
saying it's about the coffee you're just
saying think about what a $5 sacrifice
could do for your future and now look at
that exponentially across all of your
expenses across your whole life and then
don't complain that you're broke in
retirement when Graham just showed you
how you could have had a million by
changing one habit that's the
frustrating part is people see it as oh
you want me to suffer and beans and rice
rice and beans for the rest of my life
Dave ain't eaten rice and beans he did
it for a short season so that he could
have a better life on the other side
most people are unwilling to sacrifice
for two years and yet they're willing to
live in mediocrity for the next 20 yeah
that's America what do you think the one
thing people could do today to improve
their finances is oh man what's the one
thing you could do today to improve your
finances pay attention and what that
means is looking at what your actual
income is what your actual expenses now
what you think it is now how much you
think you spend eating out or how much
you think you spend on groceries but
what is it actually and most people
would be shocked if I said Jack how much
you think you're spending eating out you
might
say $450 $450 now let's say Jack
actually tracks how much he spends over
the next month he would be astounded to
find out that he's actually spending
$700 it's probably more like it yeah and
so I think looking in the financial
mirror is the most important thing you
can do and it's why we say do a budget
download every dollar get your income on
there get your expenses on there track
the expenses it doesn't have to take a
long time you can sit it while you're
waiting for your coffee drag your four
transactions for the day up into the
right categories and doing that ahead of
time will help you avoid overspending
because the reason America's broke is
not because of inflation it's not
because of the economy it's because
they're not living on less than they
make that's it it's that simple and if
Congress did this we wouldn't have the
deficit right if we could just live on L
we make we wouldn't have $36 trillion in
did you see that Elon Musk wants to uh
Department of government efficiency Doge
I think he would make it spell do I
would love that that is my number one
thing I'm excited for me too what is
Elon have to do you think elon's going
to get high he critic yeah he has
criticized the national debt for quite
some time and blowed government spending
and he says it's you should have a third
party auditor go through government
spending and get it down because so
wasteful I agree I'm with it I think
that's the one that's a bipartisan
policy that Dave Ramsey and Graham
stefen can agree on yeah I think it's
easy to get the public sold on something
like that but it's very difficult to get
the people that actually make the
decisions for the people which aren't
the people these days honestly it's just
like the bureaucrats I don't think that
they would allow for something like that
to happen and I've mentioned this scam
I've been saying this for a while we
need 10,000 accountants to audit the
government oh instead of auditing the
American people yeah why are we not
there's
easy of like see where actually the
government is spending their money like
they kind of generally tell you where
it's going but we also have no frame of
reference and kind of data showing all
this no like they they do come out with
like reports but it's still pretty IG
ambiguous I love the one there was like
a a million dooll toilet in San
Francisco yeah have you seen this yeah
there's a whole website that goes
through like wasteful government
spending and they'll show like a stupid
little thing and it's like the cost
should have been $50 or like you and
it's a million or this fire hydrant
would cost $5,000 and it's $100,000 for
this thing it's like everything is so
expensive well no one's really paying
attention I mean the government kind of
has a reputation for and so people just
say oh here's how much we're charging
all right here's the blank check just
write an amount and uh it's paid yeah
that's all it is scary yeah I do think I
and I hope whoever is next in office
takes a harder look at that and I I
don't know that we're going to see it
from the Democratic side I don't know
but I also saw an interesting stat that
showed that kamla would put us in a far
less deficit than Trump oh because of
tax cuts because of the tax cuts it was
like a one point something for commo
whereas five point something for Trump
if you know as far as the deficit goes I
think that's only because she wants to
tax so heavily that's really all it is
that that's where it's coming from she
wanted tax including like the wealth tax
like the the uh uned gains and it's
including a 28% capital gains tax rate
which is which is not the end of the
world right but you know when you when
you have one person wanting to cut taxes
and one person wanted to increase them
yeah you know of course that but still
we spent $3 trillion doar more a year
then the United States brings in and
when you look at how much you're
spending on income taxes uh I think
there is a point to be made that we
could abolish the income tax entirely
and just spend less money and audit the
government TA in Tennessee and things
totally fine yeah what is your take on
the unrealized capital gains tax I mean
what I've seen is it's unconstitutional
you can't yes it's a direct tax on
property which is unconstitution all
they say is hey let's let's let's virtue
signal and let's Point our fingers at
these nasty billionaires and we should
tax them they're not paying their fair
share but these are people that are
employing hundreds of thousands of
people across the world yeah and paying
a lot in tax they're paying a lot and
will tell you he pays a whole the
company you know a lot of these are IL
liquid anyway and yeah they will
occasionally sell like Elon Musk has
paid more money in tax and I feel like
he's been more transparent than most
people about it there's just no
competition and no Marketplace when the
government's involved they just make the
decisions agreed and they are not
business people they don't know how to
run a business it's completely different
so I don't know I think I think we
should solve it guys I agree we need
we're the three most unlikely folks to
jump in there and fix this but I think
we could do it I think we need Doge yeah
Department of government I thought you
me Dogecoin I was like I don't know if
that's going to help at this point no
I'm here for it no I I think we need
Elon to go through 100 he also spent 44
billion on Twitter so how come he trust
his financial I I actually don't think
that was okay so In fairness in Fair
well let me say this he did not do that
to get an Roi at a certain point I think
El musk was like it was not a principal
it was of principle and yeah freedom of
speech which he has gone on the record
and said so essentially that was just
like a luxurious purchase for him which
he could probably spare that money which
is the ultimate Flex it is yeah and I
also think that they yes he did overpay
but they have been doing well so it' be
interesting to see it's interesting to
see he cut like most of the staff and
Twitter is still running just fine you
can still TW last I checked I can still
tweet I heard that he's lost about half
of his value from Twitter M so only lost
you know 22 paper um I don't think he's
concerned he's having a good time he's
probably got good write-offs from that I
don't know mhm and he has his own
platform have you guys interviewed him
no we would love to all right Elon I
know you're watching this episode talk
about the national Deb Elon is the
number one dream guest yeah we would
love to just talk about the national
dead that would be the number one thing
all right for an hour just Elon National
dead I can text him right now you know
you know what's interesting is Warren
Buffett said the way we can solve the
national debt I don't know if you guys
saw this clip but it like went viral
recently for some random reason is we
need to end like lifetime politicians
and if we don't get into a budget
surplus by the end of people's terms
then we just swap them out so you cannot
continue to be a congressman or a
congress person if we are at a budget
deficit that's impressive I'm all age
that'll actually light a fire under him
you know rather than just letting him do
just resort to short-term measures to
temporarily boost the budget like let's
say just upping tax one year
yeah or finding shortterm then who's
going to vote them back in if they took
a shortcut that hurt the American people
that's a good point yeah I think we try
it I think term limits are I don't know
why we're still a budget deficit
honestly think that we should do is is
not be in a surplus or a deficit but
purely just let's break even every year
that' be we don't have to make money
that's I mean that's the next step
that's the next step Break Even let's
just spend what we make yeah the idea
government making money and having
profit that's a slim chance In Our
Lifetime right Social Security is also a
big one that is the biggest scam that
one's scary and I how much you pay into
that and then how little we might and
will get funny I saw on Twitter that uh
for for the average person paying into
Social Security if you maxed it out
every single year your benefit by the
time you're like 70 assuming you waight
is like $5,000 a month it was like
$4,800 a month but if you just took that
money yourself and invested that you
would have $30,000 a month if you didn't
pay social security ever in your just
invested that investment yes from the
age of like you know 20 something until
70 $30,000 a month versus the
$4,800 that you get instead from the
government very poor return hor your
money in Social really what you're
paying for is the other people before
you it's a it's a Pon and it was it was
never meant to replace your entire
income it's like 40% and so most people
see is there the average payment uh from
the Social Security right now is 1,700
bucks some people are seeing 900 bucks
and they're wondering like I thought
this was going to float me and we get
calls on the ramsy show this is like not
anecdotal this is real life people are
trying to live off of Social Security
alone and realizing that they're on the
poverty line if that so what's
interesting I did a deep dive into the
Social Security deficit for a video when
it first came
out uh people were supposed to take it
at age
65 the average life expectancy at the
time was 68 people were years people
were only meant to take it on average
for 3 years I would be in favor of
abolishing Social Security but forcing
an investment a wise investment out of
your income to where whether you like it
or not you're going to have some money
in retirement I would love to see that
the funny thing is the irony of Social
Security is the first ever recipient her
name is Ida May fer had contributed
$24.75 into Social Security she ended up
collecting $
wow that was her contribution and the
amount she received her first check was
for $22 and she had contributed 24 wow
so they didn't set it up wisely to begin
with it sounds like no it's about a
thous a th X return for Ida good for her
though she definitely made out well
that's like a lottery she's honestly
probably the number one investor of all
time is the first person to ever Social
Security that's honestly probably true
Graham's jealous of those returns yeah
that's fantastic yeah Social Security is
a scam it is that's all I'm gonna say
okay what would you say is the most
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podcast what would you say is the most
effective way of making $1 million
effective that's an interesting way to
put
it uh I mean depends on your skill set
and and the timeline because if you want
to do it effectively over 30 years it's
going to be a lot less hassle a lot
easier than trying to do it in five
years uh one of my most viral Clips on
social media I was talking to a kid he
called into the Ramsey Show he's 19 he
said Hey how do I turn $100,000 into a
million dollar by the time I'm 26 or 25
I said why why are you trying to make
900 Grand on your money in in five or
six years and she said I I don't know
it's just a question there was no real
theory behind it no real goal behind it
he was just it was out of fear he just I
need money now while I'm young cuz I'm
scared I'm going to end up like my
parents or retire broke or do something
I hate so I think when it comes to that
question you've got to look at your
motive behind it and the urgency behind
it and so for me the way I actually did
it it took 9 years I invested in my
company 401K 15% I was debt free with an
emergency fund beyond that I got a
reasonable house small mortgage paid it
off aggressively that house appreciated
in value rolled that into the next house
kept investing 15% and that's all I've
done and over time the home the home
value that's completely paid for 100%
Equity plus the investment accounts that
equaled a million dollars and that took
N9 years so the most effective way is
investing 15% of your income and getting
a house and paying it off those two
things combined are all you need to have
a net worth of a million dollars now if
you're wanting a cash millionaire
meaning you have a million dollars in
cash well your savings rate is going to
be more important than the return if
you're trying to do it in a short amount
of time
because the chances are the Market's not
going to give you 500% the chances are
you didn't get in Bitcoin 10 years ago
and now it's thousand deed and so I
would say take as much of your income as
you can live on as little as you can and
throw the rest into the market into an
index fund outside of retirement if
that's your goal to have it in the next
five or 10 years because basic math says
you save 100 Grand a year in 10 years
you'll have a million even if you didn't
invest it just in a checking account and
so if I can then invest that money I
might be able to put 500,000 in and it
can grow to a million over a period of
time so the most effective way to me for
the every man is investing into the
market into mutual funds and index funds
that's the better way to do it um with
your own income I don't know of a cooler
way only fans that's one way I I don't
know if you've seen what I got going on
not cut out for it I'm much more cut out
to give Financial advice on YouTube how
about you guys do you have any other
strategies that you're not you're
gatekeeping effective way would be I
mean it's it's I don't want to say
guaranteed but it's a hard thing to fail
when you're just saving up money and
investing it into an index fund so I
would say that's probably the most
effective way although that's not the
way that I would tell my friends the way
I would tell my friends would just be
continue to work on your skill set to
earn more money yeah uh because you know
although yeah sure you can end up making
a million dollars the the former way it
would end up taking a while uh so I
would just say yeah build up your skill
set try to earn a lot of money then
invest the money and hopefully that
grows as well buy assets not liabilities
and then you'll end up being worth a
million bucks yeah personally I think
online sales because it's scalable and
anything with sales you could get good
at it like you don't have to be
naturally great at sales are you saying
like start a a store like a Shopify or
are you saying being a sales job I think
a sales job is really important but if
you if you could merge sales with
something that's online sales and
marketing sales and marketing something
like that so figure out what a product a
lot of people want is and get really
good at selling it yeah yeah no that
that's a great way again that's a skill
set I don't have to go like go sell
something on Amazon and sell a bajillion
of it and make the spread that's not in
my wheelhouse not something I'm even
interested in doing what's interesting
about the question though I love to ask
this this is my new favorite question to
ask anybody who has a financial goal I
say and then what you make a million
dollars and then
what uh is your life magically better do
you retire on a beach what is the
purpose behind this I love asking that
because it gets to the heart of that
person and what they're really after
because I can usually change their
entire goal based on what their motive
is I can usually go oh you just need a
job you don't hate you don't need a
million dollars in six years you just
need to not have a toxic leader and to
do something you're passionate about
that you're good at and have someone
recognize that and make 50 Grand a year
that's a great way to put it so that's I
like that a lot have you guys ever
thought about like you get to a
financial goal and then you're like okay
what's the next thing you know cuz you
guys are very goal oriented people
you've achieved a lot of success in a
short amount of time a lot of people
look up to you have you ever thought
like what is the point of all of this is
it to get to the next million is it so
that I can become a real estate mle is
it so that I can retire at 35 what is
the point do you have you guys set those
goals for yourself I try to think about
it every now and then but I also like
having goals even if it's just for the
sake of checking something off the BX
Bo sometimes I I like that like I'll
even go through and make a list on a
Saturday of things I could do around the
house clean the windows and just did
that you like litter box check that off
how do you how does Graham step and
relax what does that look like being
productive so really that's my way of
you know what I had so much fun the
other day I uh I paint in the closet so
we yeah so we something no one will ever
see in four years
we've not built out our closets so when
you get like a new construction house
they give you the Bas the Builder
special which is just a rod that goes on
the closet that's it that's all we had
for four years is just a rod and I told
Macy after we got married that I'd built
out the closets four years later I kept
my promise we built out the closets but
when they ripped it out they say oh no
we don't we don't touch up that you know
all the the paint and everything that
was just ripped off so I went to Home
Depot and uh I got paint and I color
matched it I got some spackle to like
fill up the holes I spent like three
hours painting the closet and it felt
great I but I loved it I I put on music
and can you tell us what music I think
that's an important part of the story
who Danny Elfman Danny Elfman wow you're
a soundtrack guy yeah love it I love
that about you so that's an interesting
point there's a quote that really stuck
with me that made me question everything
because I I can't help but be productive
and helpful and it's from my friend Ian
Simkins and he said if busyness is your
drug then rest will feel like stress MH
and it I was like oh I'm bad at resting
because it stresses me out to just be
yes and I feel like that's my next life
goal is to figure out how to just be and
now that I have a one-year-old it's
really hard to just be just to be
present and not feel like I need to be
doing something more I need to be more
helpful I need I'm going to check my
phone to just be in the moment is so
difficult for me and I realize it's why
uh I don't enjoy a lot of things anymore
because in the moment of enjoyment I'm
just going I should be doing something
more productive or I'm overthinking the
moment or I'm I'm watching a movie and
I'm wondering how much money did it take
to pull off that scene and what did the
actor I can't just be have you guys
struggled with this or is just me am I
going crazy I used to a lot a lot a lot
and this is this is interesting but I I
had a friend
I still have him he's still my friend
but uh he was so happy and positive and
like optimistic all of the time and I
always like observed this like
subconscious I guess like aura that he
had around him and then finally after
observing this for such a long time I
asked him like hey why are you so like
positive all of the time and uh happy
and outgoing and just like like how do
you do it and it doesn't seem fake like
it seems real and he said well to be
honest like I just read a book that
helped me change my perspective change
my mental framework and he told it to me
and it's called The Power of Now by eart
Toll and I read the book and it helped
me learn how to be present the idea of
the Power of Now is to not focus on the
future or the past but to be able to
live in the present moment because the
past doesn't exist anymore right and the
future doesn't exist yet because you
really don't know what's going to happen
the only thing that truly exists is the
second that we're in right now and this
book kind of like reiterates that and
reinforces that framework which helped
me enjoy the present moment and I guess
not stress myself out so much with
things that don't exist like the past
and the future wow you should hand that
book to our our friend Graham and read
I'll take it next you should read The
Power of Now okay I'm next then it it
just didn't help me he didn't hit very
very very far on the other side but also
I think that realistically Graham
wouldn't take that book as seriously as
I would have liked him to like for me
when when I when he told me about this
book like this is something I had
observed over the course of several
months and I was so interested in that
finally when he gave me the reveal I was
like okay well I better like really
listen to this book and although it was
a little bit Whimsical and woo woo like
every paragraph if I don't if I didn't
understand it I would reread reread R
because I really wanted to try to be
really connected with it part of that I
think is you have to have a pain point
that is painful enough that you're like
all right I want to explore this I want
to overcome this and for Graham that
that paino isn't really there it's not a
problem so same with if you read my book
Breaking Free from broke and you don't
feel like you can do any better
financially you don't feel like you have
any financial problems then you're going
to read the book and go yeah that was
fine good little witty some Financial
advice in there it's cool but if you are
hungry for the material and you're going
I'm tired of living this way I want it
to be simpler I want a more peaceful
path to getting build wealth I don't
want to be a part of the system this
book is going to be like Mana from
heaven and so that's what I think the
difference is when it comes to pain
points it's why people call to the show
and they want to justify their own
decisions and we don't give them the
benefit and so we hang up and go we
didn't help that person cuz they didn't
really want our help they wanted us to
go you're doing great just keep doing
what you're doing do nothing different
but when people are hungry for the
advice and they're really in a point of
pain they are willing to go sell the car
the next day they're willing to make
those sacrifices and I think the that's
true with anything in life that you want
to grow in yeah what do you think the
biggest wealth killers are is one of
your most popular topics oh yes
America's number one wealth killer the
video that we did on that F very first
one was on car loans and it's because of
a trend that I kept seeing as I wrote
the book I was comparing all the debt
levels of a Consumer Debt in America and
we all know we've heard the number what
1.7 trillion in student loans there's a
crisis out there and then I looked up
and I saw that car loans were meeting
student loan debt it was at 1.6 trillion
when I wrote the book and I was
flabbergasted how how did we get here
like how did we go from a car is a
necessity from A to B cars are you know
for a new car back in day it was like 25
Grand was a brand new that was a nice
car and now it's normal for someone to
call into the show and say I bought a
car we have $50,000 loan at 9% interest
on this car and it just blows my mind
and so I think having a car payment
keeping a car payment for your whole
life which is what most people do is the
number one wealth killer because if you
freed up that payment you could invest
that instead you could save it and
upgrade your cars in cash without ever
paying someone interest while fully
owning your car and and so breaking down
the math of that was mindblowing as far
as wealth Killers go the other ones we
can look at you know by the numbers and
go okay student loans are wealth killer
credit cards are now creeping up 1.2
trillion in credit card debt you guys
don't want to talk about that because
you're the responsible ones you don't
have credit card debt but a lot of
people struggling with this type of debt
crazy interest rates the average is now
22% or more on these credit cards and so
the ankle biter ones that are sneakier
are things like the uh B now pay later
programs a lot of the younger
Generations are saying I don't want
credit card debt no thank you but I'll
put all of my my entire cart on a firm
and afterpay and I'll just figure it out
later and what happens is you just kind
of add it to your tab and at the end of
the night you go oh my gosh how I have a
$300 payment to afterpay for all this
crap that I thought I needed and most of
it is just frivolous crap it's clothing
and entertainment and electronics and
stuff we don't need and so those are the
the major wealth Killers I'm seeing with
younger Generations is the buy now pay
later and across the board car loans I
think apply to almost every American
most people don't think they can even
buy a car in cash they think they're
going to die in a paid for used car
that's the truth an interesting thing on
the cars is I feel like cars also just
haven't gotten a whole lot more reliable
or better in the past like 20 years sure
they've gotten safer that's like the
main thing I feel like that's a perk but
I was on r/ buy it for life which is a
great Reddit thread and or uh a
subreddit and I was looking through that
and a lot of the top posts are people
driving like you know Honda Civics from
like the 80s and they're like I bought
40 years ago it has 400,000 miles and it
runs perfectly well it runs perfectly
but I feel like nowadays like even if
you buy like new Toyotas which Toyotas
are like you know pretty reliable if you
don't like maintain them perfectly fine
they end up just having issues I still
think people are choosing unreliable
cars and then complaining about
reliability there's also this fallacy of
the paranoia of well I need to be in a
safe reliable car so therefore it needs
to be a $50,000 new car and I dispel
that myth in the book I talk about how
new cars can be unreliable they can have
issues they can't have recalls the
insurance is more expensive um they have
fa fancier features they have to ensure
and so yeah that's going to come with a
higher price point versus buying
something used you know like we we're
we're all Tesla guys now I bought my
Tesla in 2021 and it was a 20 13 so at
that point it was it already had seen
some things you know it had four owners
it had 160 something thousand miles and
it was a gamble it was a gamble I was
willing to take if this car imploded I
was like all right that hurt but I'll
move on with my life because the price
point was so low it was at you know the
MSRP on that thing was probably what 80
90 grand at the time in 2013 and I
bought it for 20 something Grand so I
was willing to take the risk and it's
panned out I still drive it I'll
probably drive it until it can't run any
longer which I don't know if you guys
have done the research how long can
these electric cars go Tesla's half a
million or more yeah and I'm at 190 so
I'm I'm just barely seeing the life of
this thing other than battery
degradation which it's gone down 20%
over the last 11 years now um I think
it's going to keep riding on into the
sunset so I I think people make excuses
when it comes to the cars they buy and
purchase and you can buy a
$112,000 Honda Accord and it's a great
vehicle that will last you a very long
time maintained well and you don't have
to go finance a $60,000 kellu ride
because of safety features I call BS on
that you're trying to look good you want
a flex you want the fancy smell go get
your car detailed for 200 bucks and
you'll feel like it's a new car now when
it comes to giving advice to people how
do you balance being nice to them or
being maybe a little tough love uh
because you recently collabed with Caleb
and I saw by the way his video the the
driving video incredibly well for you it
it was what the people of the internet
and the algorithm wanted was
Millionaires and cars getting coffee
with Caleb Hammer yeah I I think people
see us as two sides of a coin yeah uh
we're both young nerdy guys with glasses
trying to help people we help them in
very different ways and so um when it
comes to the collab or being nice and
how do I know when it's tough love or
nice I Look to Dave to be a great model
of that cuz Dave is known for tough love
he's going to jail at you get your butt
off the couch and go to work but it's
It's All Out of Love at the end of the
day Dave truly no skin in the game other
that he wants to help you transform
that's his life first is Romans 12:12 be
not conformed to the pattern of this
world but be transformed by the renewing
of your mind so Dave's big on you change
your mind you change some actions you
can change your life that's all he's
trying to do in the call now a single
mom calls in who has you know had the
rug pulled out from under her life
happened he's not going to yell at the
single mom he's going to treat her with
a different level of compassion than an
18-year-old who wants to argue and
complain and whatever about his life so
the way I see it is whatever you called
in for I'm going to be compassionate I'm
going to give you the benefit of the
doubt as soon as you put up more walls
more excuses you're not really wanting
to change you're not really wanting the
advice that's where I begin to lose
patience and I begin to go a little
harder on you if you're not if you're
not getting it we're also up against the
clock we got to remember this is radio
we don't have the benefit of going an
hour and a half with these callers we
have 3 to 5 minutes with a caller that's
not a lot of time to have them unpack
their entire situation and have two
co-hosts rattle off some advice and get
to the next caller so the way I look at
it is I lead with compassion if they're
making excusive they're getting
impatient they're wanting to argue and
debate that's when I go into a little
more tough love and go listen you called
us for advice you called in because you
have a problem you want to solve I gave
you the solution you are not happy with
it and so this happens a lot with
callers lately I feel like they're
calling in justify their decisions they
want to just bounce an idea off of us
they want an easy way out they want a
shortcut and we're unwilling to that's
not how the show works it's always been
you got to sacrifice you got to live on
lesson you make you're not going to pay
off debt by taking out another piece of
debt it doesn't work like that you've
got to get out once and for all so if
you want to change we're here to help
and if you don't I'm going to give you a
tough time what types of people do you
see actually make a change we talked
earlier about the pain Point um and you
have to have the I've had it moment
that's what Dave calls it where you drew
a line in the sand and you said I know
my life is worth more than living in
debt for another 20 years or my husband
and I have been in debt our whole life
and we've never had a great marriage and
part of that is because of money
problems those are the people that have
the the best chance of helping them and
so you can tell in a call even as a
listener you guys could listen to a call
and go oh they're actually going to do
that you can hear the light bulb go off
you can hear the aha moment you can hear
the excitement versus the if we at the
end of a call go how does that hit you
we have we have not done a good job
convincing them and they are not ready
for that life change and that's okay uh
but that that is one of the hardest
parts of the job that's the most
frustrating is you want to help every
single caller that comes in you want to
give them the aha moment where they go
change their life for the better and
take that right Next Step for their
money and I would say 70% of the calls
these days they're not ready for it we
gave them the right advice and maybe we
weren't Winsome enough maybe we weren't
as persuasive maybe Dave could have done
a better job if he was here on the show
but at the end of the day I sleep well
knowing it's the same advice I would
have wanted the same advice I would have
taken and the same stuff I would do what
are your thoughts these days about
renting versus buying if people call in
and ask what's better better I think is
is the fun funny word there is it better
to rent or bu well depends if you're
broke it's better to rent
if you've got money and you're in a good
financial position get off the sidelines
buy a house get your foot in the door
it's a moving goalpost the $400,000
house 5 years from now is likely going
to be more it's going to be 500,000 or
550 and so I want people to buy a house
as soon as they're financially ready and
it's a simple strategy here are you
Consumer Debt free do you have an
emergency fund and do you have some good
reserves to put down on the house if
you're doing it that way and the
mortgage isn't going to be 60% of your
take-home pay like some of these callers
uh have situations then go ahead buy a
house and do it for the right reasons do
it in the right area do your research
work with the real estate Pro and do it
the right way but most people are so
frustrated with pent up rage about
renting that they're just willing to do
anything to get in that house at any
cost and it becomes a burden instead of
a blessing that's what pains me when
people call in they've made that mistake
and how do you think the election
affects most people that call in in
reality this election whoever is
President will have little to no effect
on your personal finances how much you
make how much you take home your
spending habits largely that's still
going to be the same as it was uh we can
argue about well what if they change a
tax law which largely affects the ultra
wealthy um what if it affects other
policy that could trickle down and
affect me at the end of the day when you
look at me shopping at the grocery store
and me paying my bills there's very
little that a singular politician can do
in the White House that could affect it
now state and local politics way more
effect on that uh we have a bill right
now I just saw it in one of my
neighborhood Facebook group and there's
a bill that could increase all of our
property taxes and that is a much
scarier thing than the person in the
White House chiming about some student
loan forgiveness that will never happen
so I don't think the election is going
to affect many people um it'll affect
them emotionally there's other policies
that aren't Financial but when it comes
to personal finance which is the world I
live in it's still going to be the guy
in the mirror with the same income the
same job the same habits the same lack
of budgeting that's what's going to hold
you back not the person in the white
house now what do you think the
government should be responsible for um
upholding reasonable laws that would
that's that's all I expect out of a
government and uh give me my driver's
license in an efficient manner and let
me go about my my day in my way the
problem is I think the government has
now overreached they're trying to cause
people to become dependent on them and
go hey you need you need us so that this
is why we need to be more involved more
regulation and sure I don't want to live
in a chaotic Society I want to live in a
organized society and so it's kind of
like the HOA HOA can be great it can
uphold your property values it avoids
Joe Schmo having an RV and Chaos in his
front yard but it can also mean a lack
of freedom to do what I want to my house
so I think there's a reasonable level of
involvement and I think overall we're
seeing the government want to step in
more and more to solve things in ways
they are not capable of solving and not
good at solving in a way that the
private sector could solve much better
you know that and that's kind of where
Elon comes in and goes guys you got to
think about this differently if you
think of it like a business it should
have been bankrupt 70 times over by now
based on the spending in the revenue so
a lot of it to me seems like bribery
from both sides trying to get votes of
just we'll lower your taxes if you vote
for me oh well if you vote for me we'll
give you a $10,000 home buyer credit or
if you vote for me we'll do this if you
vote for a politician for something
they're going to do for you you've
already lost you've already given up
your agency as a human over to someone
who truly does not care about you that's
the frustrating part for me and so truly
I don't care who wins the election my
life will largely be unchanged uh
wherever I cast my vote and I think I'm
totally okay with that and I Will
Survive regardless of who it is as long
as they don't truly cause World War III
and end the world we will survive and
live to fight another day and so that's
kind of my stance on all of this stuff
is it's fun to talk about policy but
when it comes to a certain politicians
changing your life it's not going to
happen like you have way more ability to
change your life than anyone out there
and you guys know that you're no
politician was the reason you're here
today because you guys hustled your
butts did it for a long period of time
and entertained and served a lot of
people that's it speaking of a lot of
government overreach do you think that
there should be a minimum wage
oh do I think there should be a minimum
wage should the minimum wage be nothing
and just set by the current market rate
whatever someone is willing to accept is
the wage I mean that that is
how I think largely economy's been going
because when you look at the federal
minimum wage you can't live on that
anyways and so in no point in history
was $7 an hour going to give you a
wonderful life and if you look at old
you know you can look at well in the
1940s all you just needed a nickel and
you could buy sure we can look at the
old days but in today's economy no one
is making it off of seven bucks an hour
or even $13 an hour like that's 26 Grand
a year and so I believe that you're much
better off going not what is the minimum
wage I can get on by for the rest of my
life but what are ways I can increase my
skill set and Marketplace value to go
get a $20 an hour job and instead of the
15 what are the changes I need to make
about myself to get me there and so I I
think the argument about minimum wage is
just a it's a losing argument because
who wants to stay there it I I think a
lot of this got brought up recently
because of California's $20 minimum wage
for fast food workers and it was just
isolated originally to certain fast food
chains and from what I've heard is that
it's not just impacting the fast food
work because initially the thought was
that you know it's just there and then
everything else will be you know the
normal minimum wage what I heard from
someone uh was recently impacted by this
who runs a a smallish business is that
all the employees expected a raise and
this is not fast food they all expected
a raise as well because they said why am
I working for $16 an hour when I could
work a fast food job and get 20 yeah uh
and so I'd rather just work the fast
food job and get 20 or you know yeah but
part of it is but but a lot of it too
those fast food workers uh I think are
getting their hours cut because there's
just there's not enough profit there to
be able to support part want to address
is as a business owner what do you think
you got to do to keep running this
business and not go bankrupt you have to
increase your prices if you don't
increase prices and you've increased
your cost of Labor well very quickly
you're going to run out of money and so
that's what people aren't understanding
is that if you increase the minimum wage
what happens is everything gets inflated
cuz every business owner in America
or in that type of world is now going to
have to increase their prices enough to
pay that person that wage which means
everyone else is going to suffer and by
the way the person working the minimum
wage job also has to pay inflated prices
so now it's we're just moving everything
up so now your groceries cost you know
10% more because your wage went up 10%
more yeah and so it's really not doing
as much as people think it is I'd rather
see people go how do I get away from a
$10 an hour job and go make 20 instead
what are the skills needed what are the
jobs out there what are they requiring
how do I develop myself to get there
yeah it was funny we asked Kevin o the
same question we said what should the
minimum wage be and his answer was said
z0 I knew it that is such a Kevin answer
Mr Wonderful whatever someone is willing
to to take that is the that is the price
I mean yeah where does it end if I'm
going to pay a babysitter do they go
well minimum wage is $25 an hour now so
you got to PID 25 bucks an hour to watch
my you know baby sleep through a monitor
so I just don't think it plays out in
reality and it's not because I want
people to stay broke it's because I want
them to want better for themselves now
when it comes to taxes do you think that
there should be a flat tax or abolish
the tax system and do an import tax whoa
I'm not as privy on the import tax how
would that work this is something that
Trump uh proposed oh the tariffs so
other countries send their stuff in here
we tax them wouldn't that just cause the
prices we pay for all of that to get
jacked up they're saying that the money
you save would offset that so if I'm the
other country I'm going to just charge
more for my thing to the US if I know
I'm going to get taxed more that's what
I would then fewer people would be
buying you know products from other
countries I think his idea was just to
get more companies in the US to be
creating those products sure and I'm all
for that but I don't know that the US
can compete at a level to where it's
going to make sense for me to buy a $70
t-shirt because it was made in the US
mhm so unless we can get our
manufacturing to be competitive and to
still keep profits here it's always
going to make more sense to get it
cheaper outside of here so I don't know
if that I don't think that's the
solution I would be for a flat tax
though I think that's a much more fair
system it still causes the wealthier to
pay more because you know 10% of a
million dollars is more than 10% of
$100,000 and I do wonder what that would
do for the economy um and it would avoid
all the back and forth of you're not
paying your if everyone pays 10% we got
we got a quality we did it we did it
what's interesting is that Warren
Buffett recently sold a big chunk of his
stock and a lot of people recently were
speculating does he know something that
the rest of us don't is he timing Market
are we about to see a stock market crash
he came out and clarified which I found
really interesting that the reason he
sold wasn't because he thought that
there was a stock market crash or that
something was looming it was because he
wanted to lock in long-term capital
gains before a potential increase oh how
smart is that and he did this by the way
months before Cala came out with her 28%
Capital this has been looming whole
capital gain stat right warrren Buffett
is so smart I think he's thinking a few
steps ahead of everyone else like Nic
aado might be two steps ahead Warren
Buffett is three steps ahead you got to
respect that Hustle the fact that he's
selling makes me tend to think that he
has an inclination of what's going to
happen which is that long-term capital
gains tax rates are probably going up
and he's getting ahead of it now locking
in you know 20 to 23 point you know 24.3
or whatever it is after the investment
tax yeah well on the on the amount of
money he has like those numbers matter
for the average American selling their
stocks which it doesn't even affect not
a big deal to go from 24 to 28% but when
you're talking about hundreds of
millions of dollars it adds up yeah
realistically I think for most people
it's not going to make a difference but
if you're worth probably more than $10
million you got to start looking at the
tax rates and thinking hey do I want to
lock this in now guaranteed or take a
risk in the future so you got to be
thinking about this gr if you're not
Graham keep scrolling you got to be
thinking about this what are you going
to do sell off some real estate no okay
you're hanging on I I'll I'm going to
hang on until it goes back do does the
election affect you to yeah I would say
it does in what ways taxes I would say
it's probably the biggest one um
if tax rates go up it directly affects
us probably the most we talking income
tax or other Ty ta income taxes okay I
would say that that's it it's not going
to be the end of the world I mean listen
if taxes go from 37 to
39.6 I don't care uh I think that's
probably the most realistic outcome of
anything is probably it's probably that
it's not the end of the world but it is
something an extra 2% of your income
getting taxed that's probably the wor
case realistically uh the capital gains
could be iffy going from 20 to 28% but
it depends also if they cap it like you
know if it's you know incomes over 10
million a year it's it's not going to
make a difference to me but you know it
will to somebody well it's one of the
reasons I'm I'm a big fan of my Roth
retirement accounts is just knowing
ahead of time I paid whatever the tax
rate was today for my income and not
worrying about what my income will be in
the future so if I have a Roth 401k with
2 million bucks that's $2 million of net
money that I get to spend and enjoy
without Uncle Sam getting his grubby
hands on it so that's my mentality
around the Roth and I don't want to
think about well what if you're income's
lower in retirement I'm like what if
it's more what if I'm spending like
crazy because we're having a good time I
don't want to be limited in that regard
the only thing I worry about with those
accounts and it's doubtful that it'll
it'll happen but they could always say
hey we're changing the rules now and now
in and now instead of 59 and a half now
you got to be 65 to take it out or like
little things like this they could
always say
well I don't know how the weasel you
know yeah I I just have a feeling at
some point someone's going to try to
attack these accounts not to say that
they'll be successful at it but there
might be an American by then we'll see
if the world still exists by then you
know that's probably smart I just take
one day at a time that's fair I hope I
get to see my daughter you know grow up
and go to college get married and do all
the things but at this point fingers
crossed out at 25 moving out at probably
earlier than that I moved out at 20 I
moved from Boston to Mobile Alabama
finished school did you guys live at
home for a while Beyond 18 no I moved
out as soon as I went to college which
was 18 years old or so 20 okay how about
you gr were you early 20s okay and I
think it worked out for all of us mhm
since you have a lot of hard takes with
regard to finance of your financial
beliefs which ones do you have the least
amount of conviction on for example for
me the numbers suggest it's better to
pay with a credit card right because you
get the cash back however I also
understand that there's a psychological
advantage to being debt-free and how
that and how that increases the money at
the end of the month so I wouldn't say
uh I have 100% conviction with regard to
you know you should use credit cards but
I would recommend that people leverage
smart debt it'd probably be like a 80%
conviction for friends to use credit
cards I think when it comes to
investing uh we've had you know we
believe to be Diversified across four
different types of mutual funds and
retirement but a lot of people think I'm
anti- index funds I'm a big fan of index
funds and I think in a brokerage account
that's where I would be parking all my
money isn't in these index funds and so
that's one the other one I would say is
the if you called in and said I have a
30-year mortgage it's a very reasonable
amount of my income I'm not going to
yell at you so that's one that as far as
convictions go I don't think the 30-year
mortgage is going to kill you I don't
think that's like a wealth killer in
that regard what it does to you
psychologically is it gives you a longer
time horiz to hang on to the debt which
I think is what actually is hurting
people they say I'll pay it off like a
15 they'll say I'll pay it off early but
the stat show they're not and that
people with 15year mortgages are paying
them off early in the millionaire study
we did over 10,000 of them we found the
average millionaire paid off their home
in 10
years and so that tells me they don't
hang on to their mortgages but as far as
30-year versus 15 we have a pretty
staunch like we're not going to yell at
you the only type of debt we don't yell
at you for is a 15year fixed rate
mortgage where the payment is no more
than a quarter of your take-home pay I
still believe that that's still what
I've done it's what I would do in the
future it's what I recommend to everyone
but if you called in and you already had
a 30-year I think there's worse things
you could do financially as long as you
have a goal to pay that off credit cards
I still I I'm still convicted that they
are the entire industry is scum they are
meant to screw people over and that
99.9% of people don't have the
psychological IC and financial
wherewithal to play the game perfectly
to truly win I still think you're going
to spend more on the card I don't think
the rewards are worth it and I think
people like Graham can gamify it because
they have an astounding income and an
astounding amount of frugality that he
can actually he might be the guy you
think so you think it is possible if
you're Graham if you're not Graham it's
not what about Jack Jack um I think he
has a tendency toward uh hedonism you
know the man likes things and I think
you think so more than Graham I think if
you're comparing the two I think I like
things more than Jack but you're
unwilling to pay for said things like if
it was gifted to you or you can find a
way to get it for free or cheap so I but
I don't think you're the you're not the
target demo you you are the guy who is
truly quote unquote beating the system
but I don't think that's possible for
almost anyone you have to have an
incredibly High income with an
incredible amount of discipline and
frugality to actually make that work
what if you just have the discipline and
frugality you don't have a high income
but you but you are so disciplined down
to the penny could I still have become a
millionaire if I used my credit card and
paid it off perfectly and got some
rewards probably but I think it was
actually beneficial for me to use my own
money and make different decisions
financially I think I spent a lot less
using my own money over the last 10
years than if I had used my credit card
and got two% cash back or got a free
flight because the truth is I would have
chosen a different flight I would have
chosen a different Airline versus trying
to utilize the points to redeem them
like it's Chuck-E-Cheese I just think
you make different decisions and it's
it's not Apples to Apples let's just say
not to beat a dead horse let's just say
that you are debating yourself about
credit cards okay so you're going up
against George camel that's an
unbeatable match right but what would
you say if you're really trying to put
your best argument forward about being
pro credit card if I had to debate
myself George's the cross from me and
I'm the devil's advocate going but
George say I'm George
camel um I would probably say get a
secured credit card to where you cannot
spend more than you actually have and
still stick to your budget and look at
the budget before you make any purchase
ever and then and only then do you use
that card is you know you're still
sticking within your budget and you
can't spend more than you make and have
everything on autopay and even then I
would still find a way to screw that up
and other George would be like see told
you I still think if you put him neck
and neck you put both georgees in a race
to wealth I think debit card George
would win every single
time I think he has a very different
mindset than the other George who is
trying to play a game that was set out
before him you know what I mean like I'm
not you're not running your own race if
you're playing the credit card company
game I don't you can't be focused on two
things at once you can't be focused on
I'm trying to get get out of debt and
build wealth and I'm trying to get my 2%
so I can have a nice thing how much more
do people spend on credit than debit
just overall we've seen a lot of studies
it ranges from 10% more to 100% more
depending on the study you look at and
for every singular person it's going to
differ U greatly depending on their
income their habits where they're
spending are they playing the games of
the cash back the points all of that
I've always been so curious how they
account for some of the variables of the
people who have credit because they need
credit and carry a balance and therefore
they they are more prone to overspending
in general than the person who is
financially responsible using a credit
card I just think in today's world like
30 years ago you could probably get away
with it or 20 years ago I think in
today's world with how aggressive the
marketing is with how dialed in all the
digital marketing is there is no way
that humans can truly counteract
overspending over time that's super
difficult and that's why I love the
debit card I love the budget got
something I want to mention okay who
really smart for credit card companies
the tap to pay tap to pay oh my God
FR you know you know that they just did
so many studies and and realize that
it's less painful just
toep than to stick your card in there
and press buttons and I noticed this the
other day of how easy it was was when
Macy got that drink and I how much was
the drink you don't want to
know was it more than $20 25 a tip
stupid gram
wasid okay so in this is so stupid I
thought it was this going to come up in
marriage counseling I thought it was an
no it's not Macy's fault I thought it
was an open bar and so she's like oh you
know I should get a drink I'm like yeah
you know what okay just get one gets to
the thing and then I look over and I see
the person next to me getting something
similar and they turn that thing around
I was like I thought it was an open bar
and sure enough it comes you know and I
and I pay but just the
little it just in that moment it made me
think that was a lot less painful than
sticking the card in or swiping there's
something about the tapping that is a
lot more comforting to me and I could
see in that instance how tap to pay does
not feel like money it just feels like
and to be fair really have theat too and
I think debit cards there's a similar
psychological ease but the difference is
you know that's your own money when I
spend on a debit card and that bank
transaction immediately comes through to
text I know that just left my bank
account and yeah there we are not $1.2
trillion in debit card debt we're $1.2
trillion in credit card debt and so you
can't compare apples to apples and go
well I spend the same if I would on a
credit card the credit card has this
whole portal to hell that can be
unlocked at any moment so you so should
you choose personally yeah I just think
the credit card companies understood
that inserting a card or swiping people
now associate with charging money and a
tap to pay is new and we don't have that
same connection I think in 20 years from
now people are going to have a
connection with that and then it's going
to turn into like a hand wve like we're
going to all have a little implant in
our in our hand you SE at Whole Foods
they have the Amazon palm reader and
that's how you pay you know what they'll
do got it this is what they're going to
do they have facial recognition like
they do at the airport I'm excited about
this cuz I'm I came up with a new thing
guaranteed they're going to use this
Jack guaranteed what if you have
sunglasses they facial recognition
that's so good now that you're going to
have your face linked with a credit card
and all you have to do is make eye
contact with the camera or something
like that we're just looking grab and go
well you seen those in the airports
where it's just they know they have all
the They Char me once for passports you
just scan your face now it's all there
oh you're going to do that with payments
you're going to be able to link your
payment with your face show your face
well Apple pay's tagline is cashless
made effortless they know that the the
more convenient the less effort we have
to put in the easier it is to spend and
that's that is the argument I mean it's
just a further argument than from cash
and debit to credit card the Amazon uh
grocery store where you just go and you
just pick it and it just debits from
your account you're going to have one
master account everyone in the United
States is going to have it scan with
your face fingerprint it's that easy
yeah and you can't argue that spending
someone else's money and getting to pay
it back later is not easier and more of
a win psychologically than seeing your
own money leave you now whether it's
cash or debit so that's really the at
the end of the day that's the stance on
top of the scum and I break down in the
book I talked to an ex Capital One
manager who said we run 10,000
experiments on consumers a year to get
them to spend more to get them hooked on
our points games and to gamify it all
and that that was enough for me I went
no thank you and for those Reasons I'm
out what's a piece of non-financial
advice if you could bestow this on all
of the viewers right now to improve the
quality of their life what would it be
oh my goodness I would say make it a
habit to put down your cynicism every
day you wake up and that might mean not
looking at the headlines it might mean
doing the hard thing you know is going
to make you feel better what I found as
a recovering cynic a recovering
pessimist is that it was so easy to look
at the world through this filter of man
this world is screwed up and I got to
man they really need to do something
about this instead to lead with a level
of optimism and hope that is not
unhinged but is actually authentic where
it's going I know full well the world is
broken and it's got its problems and I
don't feel good and I got to go to work
but instead to look at everything as an
opportunity what what is the opportunity
here and what is my part to play because
you're right if you try to Take On The
World at once it will crush you like a
bug but if you just go hey what is
what's the kind thing I can do today how
can I get just a little bit better today
at my job how can I be kind to someone
who maybe doesn't even deserve it not
because it's going to do something for
them because of what it's going to do
for me and I found the more I sort of
displaced the poison and toxicity and
the more I replace that with hope and
optimism the better quality of life I
had and that's I actually end the book
with a chapter talking about hope versus
cynicism because I think that's what
personal finance comes down to do you
believe it's possible to go to where you
want to go if you don't why would you do
it if you think you can or you think you
can't you're right Henry Ford said that
and so I think at some point you have to
choose every single day it's not a
button you can I wish I was as
optimistic as Jack he's just an
optimistic guy I don't have I'm like
Graham we're very we're very like
skeptical of everything like and I think
the more I live my life a little more
open a little more kind a little more
optimistic the better my life is so that
would be my non- piece of financial
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