Destiny on Debating Ben Shapiro, Toxic Wokeism and Getting Divorced
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Destiny, a prominent streamer and political commentator known for his rapid-fire debating style, joins *Iced Coffee Hour* to discuss his high-profile debate with Ben Shapiro on Lex Fridman's platform. The conversation originated when Destiny agreed to film a call-out video after being asked by the host of *Jubilee*, which led to an arrangement where Lex would facilitate a full-length debate due to its potential for deeper, uninterrupted dialogue compared to standard podcast formats. While they covered ten topics in two hours ranging from Donald Trump's presidency and red flag laws to school funding and climate change, Destiny noted that the discussion remained somewhat surface-level because it was their first interaction; he expressed a preference for diving deeper into fewer subjects over time as trust is built between debaters with opposing views. A significant portion of the interview focused on political polarization and what Destiny terms "constellations of belief systems," where individuals inherit entire networks of beliefs from their social groups, making it difficult to change one's mind without collapsing the whole structure. This concept was illustrated through discussions about Jeffrey Epstein, where Destiny argued that while the narrative involving a massive child trafficking ring is sensational, there is no evidence supporting claims of blackmail or widespread abuse among powerful figures; he suggested Epstein likely engaged in coercive behavior with adults rather than children and that the idea of him blackmailing global elites is illogical. Similarly, when addressing climate change debates on Lex's show regarding insects like crickets as a protein source versus cattle farming, Destiny highlighted how these topics are often linked to broader conspiracy theories about the World Economic Forum (WEF) and Bill Gates' agenda to control populations through diet changes or debt ("own nothing"). The dialogue also touched upon free speech limits, media responsibility, and the psychology of negativity in journalism. Destiny explained that humans have a genetic predisposition toward fear due to evolutionary survival mechanisms, which explains why negative news consistently outperforms positive stories despite human nature preferring happiness. He criticized modern journalism for failing to issue retractions when false allegations ruin reputations, citing the case of Rex Orange County as an example where irrefutable evidence cleared him but no media outlet corrected their stance. Furthermore, Destiny argued that while conservatives often avoid incremental solutions by demanding radical societal changes—such as enforcing shotgun marriages—to fix problems like school safety or gang violence, liberals tend to focus only on visible symptoms above the waterline rather than addressing underlying structural issues like family dynamics. In a lighter segment of the podcast, Destiny and his host created an interactive tier list ranking various political commentators from S-tier (God Tier) down to F-tier based on accuracy, entertainment value, and alignment with their values. The rankings were heavily influenced by personal relationships and specific grievances; for instance, Lex Fridman received an S-tier rating for fostering meaningful conversations, while XQC was also placed high despite his controversial nature. Conversely, figures like Tucker Carlson, Donald Trump (due to treasonous behavior), Steven Crowder, Russell Brand, and Gavin Newsom were ranked low or in the F/C tiers due to misinformation, bad takes, or personal animosity. Notably, Destiny reserved special praise for Joe Biden's economic achievements despite political disagreements, while expressing strong disdain for Tucker Carlson's interviews with Putin and his perceived betrayal of American interests. The episode concluded with an invitation for viewers to submit their own tier lists on social media, highlighting the ongoing cultural discourse surrounding these public figures.
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anybody that supports Donald Trump I
think is crazy and that's like 85% of
Republicans right now why do you like
Trump over Biden well Trump did way
better with the econ what did Trump do
for the economy uh tax cut they like
Trump because he represents a real anger
that people have and they want to break
and Trump is the guy saying I'll break
it for you is that the best president in
my entire lifetime in the United States
for a lot of people life just works
better on Rails there are people who
it's like if you throw them into the
wind they are lost the Republican party
is on the verge of collapse
Steven Bonnell AKA Destiny thank you so
much for coming on the iced coffee hour
you're one of the biggest streamers
across all platforms you've appeared on
podcasts like pbd podcast you've debated
Alex Jones Ben Shapiro that was a recent
debate that blew up it's like six
million views in a week Jordan Peterson
recently that hasn't came out yet we're
going to talk about this fresh and fit
whatever pod you've debated basically
everybody which I admire a lot some
people call you Ben Shapiro of the left
because you talk very fast and you're
incredibly intelligent and by some
people you mean the title you put on my
YouTube video okay should have called
him the destiny of the did you feel that
was that all right cool well thank you
so much for coming on man really
appreciate it thanks for having me so
the Ben Shapiro debate this is I feel
like what everyone's been talking about
it's highly anticipated we brought it up
to you if you would debate Ben you said
yes that clip went viral we brought it
up to Ben when we had him on if he would
debate you he said yes that clip went
viral how did this all come about uh I'm
kind of friendly friends friendly with
Lex and I think I did a jubilee show and
Jubilee asked me at the end could you
film like a call out to Ben sh and maybe
we could host it Lex saw that and Lex is
like hey do you think I could get this
debate and I love Jubilee but Lex is
like the guy that would let me have a
two to three hour uninterrupted
conversation Jubilee will shoot three
hours of content and they cut it down
only 45 minutes um and I just feel like
Lex's platform would have been really
good for that so I was like well if you
think you can get the debate then go for
it and then Lex did a bunch of work in
the background and he yeah got the
debate was that hard to schedule with
Ben probably but Lex said
facilitated all of it were you nervous
for the debate with Ben uh not
particularly no how did you prepare for
that did you just go in or did they give
you topics to talk about and you could
research them I think it was going to be
a pretty broad conversation so we went
over it must have been like 10 topics in
like two hours and a lot of the Trump
related stuff is more I'm just kind of
like curious because it's such an easy
topic on my end and such an indefensible
topic on their end I'm just more Curious
like how are you going to try to
navigate this particular thing um but
I've been doing a lot of political stuff
for the past like four to six months now
uh ever since I started viance and
stopped talking to Red pillar so um yeah
my brand has been pretty plugged in
politically so felt like pretty okay to
go on it yeah interesting you think that
Trump stuff is indefensible yeah
obviously yeah of course yeah easily huh
I just think that like half of the
nation well not half but a pretty what
is it 40% approval rating for Trump um I
know that the conservative approval
rating is always very very very very
high yeah my general thought is that I
feel like it's somewhat defensible 40%
of the general population is somewhat in
support of something but that's beside
the point we want to know for the Trump
stuff I would just say most people just
don't know the facts of anything that
have happened so when you don't know the
facts you think that like oh yeah well
people are inditing him for no reason
everybody hates him for no reason people
say Ste the election for no reason they
try to say there's an Insurrection for
no reason but when you actually lay out
all the facts then it's like okay o but
if you go up against Ben Shapiro I mean
his whole thing is like facts at least
that's what he claims so don't think
that he would at least have a different
angle Trump trump a lot though took this
is the funny part is that when you go to
the people that know their defenses
start to look in my opinion very wacky
so Ben Shapiro's defense of trump was
that he Graves him on a big curve so he
gives him a lot of bway and that Trump
would try to take over the government as
a dictator which he tried to do but Ben
feels like the guard rails are strong
enough that he won't be able to do it
even if he tries a second time so it's
more of an admission than like most
people will make I find that insane but
yeah do you think Ben was the hardest
debate you've ever had um probably not
but not because he not because it was a
dumb debate or not because he didn't
know anything but just because the we it
was just kind of like surface level on
everything we kind of like hit topics um
and then moved to the next one on kind
of a surface level way so I'm sure if we
had like a two or three hour
conversation on like one or two topics
it would be far more challenging yeah
would you have prefer that to go deeper
on each topic because I noticed it seems
as though some of these topics are only
like 10 15 minutes long they gave you a
few minutes him a few minutes another
few minutes between both of you and then
it was on to the next there was a part
where Ben was like here let me actually
draw this out for you and he looks for
like a pen and a piece of paper to be
able to draw this line curve of job
production between like Joe Biden and
Donald Trump but then Lex was like all
right we got to like take this back
we're getting a little too granular yeah
the um I would definitely prefer that
but it's also like it's like a first
conversation so you have to buy a little
bit of trust with the other person um I
think it was a I think it was a good
conversation for a first conversation
are you going to have another one
hopefully we'll see there's nothing like
planned right now though what's
different when you debate Ben versus
somebody else nothing I try to take a
similar approach to everybody in that
like there's a dynamic approach uh
depending on the person that I'm talking
to how radical or not radical they are
how reasonable or not reasonable they
are how much of a showman they are
versus how much of a sick to the facts
kind of person they are so Ben I'll have
like a unique approach to Ben but it all
stems out from like the same type of
dynamic approach I like to everybody the
one thing that you mentioned in that
debate that I did notice and I noticed a
lot of people doing this is you would
make a point and they would counter that
point by not addressing the point but
saying well we shouldn't focus on this
we should focus on all these other
things how do you navigate something
like that and get someone back to the
point it seems like a lot of times they
they'll avoid the point entirely well
there are two different concepts you're
talking about that sound similar but
they're totally different uh in the in
terms of policy that was the one that I
was focused on with Ben and that I feel
like sometimes conservatives will I I
call it like the conservative marry go
around or anytime you want to address a
thing they want to address another thing
or if you want to make an incremental
change somewhere they'll say we can't do
that incremental change because it
doesn't fix everything so we should only
focus on this and that's very
frustrating to me so for instance you
might say something like red flag laws
for firearms the ability to flag people
and say this guy's probably a danger
maybe we should do something about it
they'll say like oh well that doesn't
fix gang violence so we shouldn't do
this it's like okay or I think the
examples that we were going through in
that conversation were in schools think
air conditioning and food availability
are like two of like the easiest most
datadriven help helpful things to
children in school and that would be a
thing that could help a little bit but
Ben's point which is true is that well
this is going to fix the schools like
well of course not but it helps uh well
we need to fix like families or whatever
right and I feel like anytime you want
focus on like a particular problem or
try to help in a in an incremental way
conservatives will hop back one or two
steps go well it doesn't fix everything
so we need to do this radical Society
changing thing like enforcing shotgun
marriages I think was his okay well this
feels recommending shotgun marriages
recommending but I will say that's
different than in a debate when somebody
won't ever address a point you're
bringing up which I don't think Ben ever
did that I don't think he like avoided
addressing a particular Point what I
thought was really interesting is it
sounded honestly kind of like a therapy
session of like two like like a wife and
a husband that have been together for a
super long time and they're having
struggles in the relationship like you
would say man I just feel like
conservatives always do this they do the
conservative marry go around and they
don't attack the issues where they have
the control and then Ben was like I feel
like liberals always ignore the iceberg
they're just focused on the thing that's
above the water line when there's this
whole massive problem underneath it and
it was really funny just like the the
difference in I don't know yeah the
reality is you have to come at it from
both ends but anytime you talk to
somebody on the left or the right they
only want to address their end and then
vent their frustrations about the other
end which is very frustrating so anytime
you bring somebody a little bit over to
the Middle where it's like yeah uh the
family structure is incredibly important
obviously for a whole bunch of different
predictive things in society but also
there's ingal changes you can make in
schools too we can do both it doesn't
have to be one or the other it can be
both but people get really hung up on
their particular thing who do you think
won the debate um I don't know I mean
like I said I don't think it was like a
huge debate like I think we kind of like
bounced through topics I don't think
that we yeah resolutely concluded on a
particular thing where it's like you're
wrong about schools or you're wrong
about Trump or you're wrong about
whatever it was just kind of our
different perspectives in terms of how
we view those things what do you think
Ben would say do you think he would say
he won um I don't know maybe I'm not
sure I feel like people on the left
would probably just say you won people
on the right would probably say you won
um maybe yeah depends people some people
on the left will say I won because my
points were better on like Trump or
something or they'll say I lost because
I needed to push him way harder on other
things and I'm sure there are people on
the right that say oh Ben crushed him
because he said the things that they
agree with and there might be some
people on the right who's like Ben
didn't do as good because he should have
crushed him on his points or whatever
yeah you posted on Twitter yesterday
that you finally dressed up for a
podcast or interview and it was a photo
of you and Jordan Peterson yeah I want
to know how that conversation went was
it more of a debate or a conversation
that's not released yet because it was
just filmed yesterday I'm assuming this
is probably going to be released before
that maybe we could get some teasers
some teasers uh I didn't expect her to
stand up we got into a physical fight
about 45 minutes in which was crazy um
it's hard to say who won exactly because
no I'm just kidding the um it was
definitely it went from like
conversation to like debate to
conversation to debate to conversation
um I think I was pretty happy with the
LEL of combativeness he seems like
somebody that's able to ratchet it up
and then kind of like bring it back a
little bit and not be completely
unhinged I'll say there was like a 30
minute section on climate change which I
wish I could have been more prepared for
cuz I was not ready for it to be a
debate on climate change he asked me for
an example of like uh like in capitalism
have youever do you know what an
externality is yeah okay so in um when
you're trying to deal with a policy uh
you might do a particular thing or there
be a thing that happens and there's an
external effect that's not accounted for
in your system so like pollution in my
opinion that's like the go-to good
example of an externality right if you
pollute a ton you don't have to pay for
it so that's external to your system and
it's not factored into the cost and as
soon as I brought that up as an example
like oh here's an externality where
government can help sometimes then it
was like okay well the WF and they're
trying to make a seed bugs and Bill
Gates and billionaires and the global
Elite and the UN are all trying to do
this I'm like oh Jesus and then we did
like a 30- minute thing on climate
change so yeah why does he go from
pollution to the world economic forum
and all these other play like what is
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back to the episode why does he go from
pollution to the world economic forum
and all these other play like what is
their involvement in that what is he
saying that they're doing that's
negatively affecting Society I mean I
get the eating bugs thing I've looked
into this it seems very interesting it
seems like crickets are a good source of
protein you could feed a lot of people
you disagree
no I just you're going to get these
people in your comment section now I
feel like it's it's D it's it's not
controversial it's like this seems like
a I don't know about the Crickets can
you elaborate CRI crickets are like the
highest source of protein that you could
get they reproduce what does that have
to do with WF I don't quite know want to
eat bugs yeah I I guess they're they're
like Bill Gates and the WF and this is
like some highlevel I I I don't quite
know is seeming to think that we should
force people to eat bugs because and
that way you'll own nothing and be happy
but it's a way it's a way that you could
feed the planet the amount uh of waste
that me from cows exactly from cows or
raising meat is so absurdly high but you
but you need that for certain vitamins
and proteins and you get the same thing
with crickets for a fraction of the cost
you could grow crickets anywhere they
reproduce very quickly um I guess it's
the idea but we haven't tried this on
large scale yet you know what I mean
like what if we start having these crazy
Cricket colonies and they start gaining
intelligence and then take over the
human we just don't know I don't know I
think if you want to solve a lot of
hunger it's probably crickets it's
probably insects I think people are
going to say like come up with like a
class problem you know what with that
like the people on the bottom are just
like you know Cricket crickets the top
get like look at Lobster though Lobster
used to be like the the Cockroach of the
sea Lobster did not used to be the
culinary luxury that now going to
delicacy they could be we don't know
this but Lobster is now a delicacy and
beforehand it would be like e you eat
lobster that's like for peasants I'm
saying a lot of things have changed
interesting but what but what are your
thoughts on that this is where I'm at
right now for political stuff I think
that um probably it's probably true for
everything actually but you know how you
might have like 10 or 15 different
beliefs you might think a thing about
climate change you might think a thing
about vaccines you might think a thing
about the presidency uh I think people
like to have this idea that they have
rational justifications for all of their
different beliefs but I think what
actually happens is I think there's like
constellations of belief systems and I
think you just inherit these from
whatever social group you're in and when
you go into that social group and you
inherit the constellation of beliefs all
of these beliefs kind of sort of
implicitly rest on every other belief
and it's not really changeable because
if you pull out like one thing it's like
a Jenga Tower it all collapses so when
you talk to somebody Unfortunately today
about a particular subject because of
how homogeneous and how huge these like
political groups have gotten I think you
can make a lot of predictions about
things that they believe about other
things and it all just kind of goes
together so if I ask you for instance
about uh what do you think about Andrew
Tate if you think that in Romania if you
think that the charges are trumped up
and it's not fair what they're doing to
Andrew Tate you probably also believe
that the WF is trying to control your
life you probably also think the UN is
like a corrupt organization you probably
think that we should support Russia over
Ukraine in the war you probably support
of Donald Trump you probably think the
Mna vaccines were rushed and are making
us unhealthy you Pro like there's like
you probably think like trans people are
fake there's like 20 different beliefs
that like everybody inherits just on
their social groups and that's how I
feel about so when climate change comes
up well see this is the ruling Global
Elite billionaire class that's trying to
force us to they'll quote that one
article uh own nothing and be happy R
our society they all want to crickets
yeah CL Schwab oh don't even get me
started right it's always yeah it's
always that type of thing I think yeah
that's really interesting Chris
Williamson brought this up when we
collaborated with him but he said if he
knows about three things about a person
in their ideology and then he can
pinpoint every other ideology he doesn't
really respect them he feels like they
they're looking at at life through an
ideological lens rather than as an
independent thinker which I kind of
agree true how dangerous is it when you
notice yourself slipping into these I
guess ideologies um and how do you
prevent that so I wouldn't say I lose
respect for people I think it depends on
the kind of person you are I think
there's something that's really really
important to keep in mind there's a
couple of important things is one we
live in Worlds where you need some sort
of like ideological congruency with the
people around you or else you can't
survive right so for me and you can
probably find me saying this I'll say
things like similar to what Chris
Williams says like I shouldn't be able
to predict every single belief you have
based on two tweets that's [ __ ]
pathetic okay am my opinion but I'll say
that but then also I'm not surrounded by
a whole bunch of people that are kind of
enforcing that ideological homogeneity
like what if it was the case that I've
got really strong opinions about Israel
Palestine that are probably out of sync
with a lot of younger people today well
if I was going to school and I was 21
would I want to make those opinions
known like what if that means losing
half my friend group and you can't lose
half a friend group you probably lose
your whole friend group cuz now people
make choice on who to hang out out with
and the the decision for an individual
in like a social group that requires
some level of cohesion that's going to
be a really difficult decision to make
so I'm understanding of people that you
know kind of have Biance to their social
groups and need to believe certain
things to maintain membership with those
social groups I'm sympathetic towards it
the less sympathy happens when I'm
talking to like YouTubers or political
figures I don't like partisan people or
people that have a strict adherence to a
particular ideology in the face of all
other things uh and all like data or
evidence so like for instance like I
don't think it's about to support
political figures I think that's fine
but let's say tomorrow the most 100%
rigorous fact-f finded factual
everything about this study it was just
true you knew it was true if you read it
and it says that like socialism is the
best way to organize Society okay
personally I'm a capitalist but if that
stud came out okay well [ __ ] it I guess
I'm a socialist if it really is the best
thing that's fine but if you take
somebody who's really smart in my
opinion Beno is really smart but he's a
conservative pundit there's no way that
he can ever make any concessions towards
that particular thing because his
audience are all conservative he going
to lose his paycheck his money his
business all of his employees
livelihoods will be threatened um yeah
that's yeah so when it comes to people
that are partisan I think that I'm
sympathetic towards individuals but when
it comes to larger figures I'm less
sympathetic because I feel like you guys
are getting paid big bucks to do this
particular stuff you should be a little
bit more Fearless when it comes to
exploring kind of the edges of your
ideology or pushing out other ideologies
and you know that's really interesting
and I also want to be sure that everyone
here knows I I'm not quoting him
directly when he says he loses respect
for people when he can pinpoint all
their beliefs based off of
three you were saying that you don't
think Ben would alter his opinion
because he's motivated by profit to
think a certain way or there's a bit of
audience capture there because he's like
the conservative guy right yeah he is
the conservative guy yes um but even if
facts came out that disproved everything
he was saying they are objective
axiomatic facts he would not change his
opinion I want to know if you think that
means that Ben is a bad faith political
pundit bad faith
is on a spe there's a spectrum of bad
faith I think um I would say that
anybody that is like ideological
partisan has some adherence to that
political ideology and there might be
some level of bad faith um but I mean
it's going to depend on how you Flex it
so for instance I might talk to some
conservatives that they will bury their
head in the sand when it comes to
anything that Donald Trump has done
that's the norm for conservatives Ben
will at least acknowledge it all but
then in my opinion if I would to say he
would be bad faith in any way I would
say that the excuses that he makes for
Trump are way out there that he would
never make for somebody on the left so
if Biden were to say like oh I'm going
to tell you know kamla Harris to change
the election results or I'm going to
call all these states and say hey guys
you need to change your uh Electoral
College votes uh you know I think it
would be over I think Ben would say like
this is obviously one of the most
corrupt things I've ever seen in my
entire life I think he's actually said
that about
like about Hunter Biden you know in
comments relating to Hunter and Joe
Biden and it's like okay well why are
you so quiet on like Kushner you know
Penning $2 billion deals with the Saudis
after his place in government that in an
office that Trump created for him by the
way like Joe um you know Joe Biden son
Hunter about it isn't even involved in
government like I feel like there's a
lot of double standards at play there
and I think it comes down to political
ideology in my opinion but to say that
Ben is bad faith I
mean there's it's all in a spectrum I
would say yeah and what about Jordan
Peterson um I feel like Jordan Peterson
is in the constellation of beliefs and
he's very much up there and out there
that's my feeling yeah but um yeah we we
argued quite a bit I think on vaccines I
think on global warming on yeah it's out
there yeah now why do you think that
each side needs a common enemy you
mentioned that on Chris Williamson that
it helps to unite people to say this
guy's bad and we could all gear up
together and say that person is uh
causing all of our problems I just I
think when you are being attacked by
somebody just brings people together
it's you have a common enemy you all
feel like you've got a common struggle
you've got a common purpose you can
unite against something you have got
something in common to hate uh I don't
know why but for humans that's just a
really unifying thing and what if
there's no one to hate do they find
somebody do they find something to
dislike about a person maybe turn on
each other I'm not sure I think people
do generally need something like Chris
Williams says we keep bringing them up
run away from something as well as
running to something it's like hating a
certain group but also loving another
certain group maybe yeah what is your
favorite debate that you participated in
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let's get back to the episode what is
your favorite debate that you
participated in O my favorite debate
that I participated in
um I really like things where if I do a
lot of research and I acquire a lot of
knowledge it's fun so Ukraine Russia
debates against I think I think probably
the most in-depth one I might have had
was against Nick ventes I think that was
a good debate because I did a lot of
research for that um I did a lot of
research for like Mr vaccines and and
covid stuff so those debates were pretty
fun I've done recently like a lot of
Israel Palestine research um at the end
of the month I pretty sure I'm having a
two on two debate where one of my
opponents is uh Norman finlin for
another Israel palese thing that Lex is
going to set up and I'm looking forward
to that I think doing it with Ben
because I saw Lex's tweet where he like
all the people in Israel all the people
in Palestine I will be doing it with Ben
not Ben Shapiro Ben Morris okay but um
yeah I don't think me and Ben are not
going to be super aligned on on that
in-depth of a conversation about Israel
Palestine I think broadly speaking we're
going to be on the same side if you're
like a pro Palestinian person but I have
very very very harsh criticisms to
Israel they're just not going to come up
unless you're really in the Weeds on
stuff yeah who do you feel like is the
most influential person on the left and
the right oh man I feel like it's so
like bubbled off like it depends on what
part of the internet you're on Like You
could argue that I'm pretty influential
in terms of like political left debating
people but depending on where you go
people have never heard of me or even
like C or anybody so I don't know
broadly speaking who is the most
influential on the left I feel like we
just don't have much really big
alternative media on the left right now
it's really not like on the right you I
would say bencho is probably the largest
and most influential or
Tucker tuer definitely was on Fox News I
feel like he's lost a lot of influence
after I don't know on on Twitter t or on
X now the amount of views he's getting
seems to be substantial we could
argue he's doing pretty good views right
now does he do do you know like what his
last video was yeah look it up they're
usually in the millions oh not usually
they they vary depends heavily I guess
in the left The Young Turks but that's
not even like if you look at their views
I um tuer Carlson one day ago 260 one
day 415 two days 440 so on Foxy's
getting here's a million definitely
popular but I like I would say six
months ago Tucker was the most popular
maybe media person in the world
definitely the most popular most
consumed yeah they had the most live
concurrent viewers on Fox News Fox I
think at five with Tucker yeah I'm
pretty sure he was the most part in the
world so he's still big I'm not saying
he's like nobody now but I'm saying he
had he took a dramatic fall off a cliff
when he got kicked off of fox and you
got to be careful with the Twitter
viewers because I think you realize um
right it's like if you watch a video for
six seconds it and it's not an accurate
way of determining how popular person is
yeah so why don't you feel like the left
has more represent presentation like the
right does um man I don't know the
center left is like just not a fun place
to be nobody really likes you you have
to fight conservatives will hate you
just as much whether you're Center left
or a communist and if you're Center left
everybody online is going to hate you
because the only people online are the
farle and those guys are [ __ ] insane
so why is nobody big on the farle why
don't we have lar are losers they're
crazy and it's a super minority opinion
these guys are the most detached they're
all like millionaire socialist tanky
[ __ ] who like cheer with like Israeli
babies are killed like they're actually
[ __ ] insane they're unhinged so when
where is the majority on the left uh
like in the real world it's probably
like Center left but like those people
aren't online like you don't find like
black people between the ages of like 45
and 65 like aren't on Twitter or like
Center left you know uh like
Cosmopolitan liberals and [ __ ] aren't
really on like Twitter anymore it's like
young white affluent very very farle in
college kids these are the people that
dominate social media I think these days
so what's the difference between that
and people on the far right like why are
those people on the internet I'm trying
to figure out like what the
commonalities the far right far right I
feel like aren't super on the internet
at least now sometimes but why are they
the personalities that Garner so many
views it's different and it's weird but
like I would say I would say that like
for the far left I think this is a very
very very small minority of all
Democrats like less than less than like
3 or 4% if that it's very very very
small minority but on the right I would
argue that like for radical right feel
like really M I think that any anybody
that supports Donald Trump I think is
[ __ ] crazy and that's like 85% of
Republicans right now so they're way
more visible you see a lot more of them
but because a lot of them are literally
ready to follow Trump off a cliff uh
yeah they they just are are louder on
the internet yeah there is no like I
guess I'm complaining about being a
center left Democrat truly being a
center right Republican is probably a
more difficult place to inhabit I would
imagine I would say it's difficult for
us too because we like to really have
equal representation on the podcast and
it's difficult for us to find people on
the left to have on because there aren't
that many and the people that we do ask
it's very difficult to get them to say
yes they've denied us a lot yes and then
some people like we ended up getting
them on but it took months of scheduling
whereas the people on the right they're
kind of like yeah let's do it yeah why
is that do you have any idea I think
right now I think when the left is kind
of more in charge of like overall the
media and they don't feel the pressure
to be platformed because they are
platformed they probably don't want to
jump on to controversial or debate
platforms as much CU there's lose and
their own audiences will attack them
quite a bit for it like oh you're
supporting them why you there they
platform this guy or why are you in this
show you know my from fresh and fit was
just there like these guys are white
nationalists these guys are red pill
blah blah blah so it's it's harder
because people on the left will hardcore
audit you for uh going on places that
they don't approve or talking to people
that they don't like one thing that I've
always found it really hard to Grapple
with is you think that if anybody
supports Donald Trump they're pretty
much insane yeah but that is still a
significantly large population of a
veloped country of the United States
pretty czy so how do you not have this
like shadow of a doubt at least in your
opinion of like okay if so many people
and within this group of people there
are extremely intelligent people they're
very thoughtful people they are very
charitable people they're are very like
open-minded people me some and I'll show
on this podcast we talk to him I don't
believe that there are very there are
very intelligent people that support
Donald Trump but they do it with their
head in the sand or if somebody were to
say something like listen okay yeah
Donald Trump is all these things but
like the tax cuts are good and I like
the economy a little bit cuz he like
tries to deregulate stuff okay fine but
here's the thing South Park did a great
episode where you have like a turd
sandwich and like a piece of diarrhea I
don't know and you have to choose
between the turd sandwich and the
diarrhea if you have Trump and someone
else I'm just I'm just giving an example
here and you don't like as someone else
doesn't that then by default you're
going with Trump does that make yeah but
that's only if you're dumb enough to
think that your choices are two things
that are essentially the same like I
said I understand why some people
support Trump like when I say that
they're crazy I don't necessarily mean
like in a malevolent kind of way or I'm
sorry malicious kind of way usually they
just don't know anything so they like
Trump because he like owns the left like
because anytime because people say this
like oh well the both parties are the
exact same thing like no they're not
like you're rich if you think that
you're you're wealthy and you're stupid
and you're disconnected if you actually
think that both parties stand for the
same thing they clearly don't right
abortion or Supreme Court Justice piics
are a really big example of that or
support for like samesex marriages are a
big example of that the difference in
the types of legislations that both
people have passed is a huge example of
that the different approaches to foreign
policy are a huge example of that like
these the two parties are very very very
different in terms of what they stand
for and represent the only way you can
think they're the same is if you just
don't follow it much or if you're pretty
wealthy and insulated you don't really
care that much you just like whoever's
the funniest on Twitter yeah it it seems
as though a lot of people will look if
it if it comes between Trump and Biden
people that like Biden and like the
policies but worry that his age is
getting in the way and say well between
the two of them I you know I might pick
Trump just because the alternative is
something that I think might be slightly
worse yeah I yeah I just I like I said
find me one of those people and we can
hash it out it's just so not even close
to True okay there's I know there's such
a large contingent of people that feel
they don't know what they're talking
about I just I just can't bring them in
front of me give me 10 of them you could
send people with 10 in the room every
single time I talk to these people it's
always the exact same thing like why do
you like Trump over Biden well Trump did
way better with the econ what did Trump
do for the economy uh tax cuts how did
that help you do you even do your own
taxes you make like $24,000 a year you
save me more money than you you [ __ ]
[ __ ] I actually sa more money on my
tax than you grossed an income because
of your president who's a billionaire
from New York and this is the guy that
represents you like none of it actually
makes sense I'm sorry no I'm just saying
listen when I talk to the people it's
always the same [ __ ] talking points
over and over again they have no [ __ ]
idea about anything they're talking
about they like Trump because he's funny
because he represents a real anger that
people have towards the system and they
want to break [ __ ] and Trump is the guy
saying I'll break it for you and that's
it that's that's the extent of the
support for trump it doesn't go deeper
than that ever there's no policy
analysis ever there's no foreign policy
analys ever there there's no like what
did Trump actually tried to do to get
reelected nobody even knows about like
any of the j6 stuff or the elector
fraudulent scheme or the pressure on the
doj saying he was going to fire one of
them if they didn't write fake letters
to uh State assemblies like nobody knows
any of these things they just like Trump
cuz he's funny and he's but that means
he's playing a better social game so at
what point does that need to be
acknowledged that he is somehow
appealing to people's innate uh feelings
of you know wanting to join him yeah I
mean I well there's two things well one
is it might end him in federal prison so
I mean depending because he maybe play
the game a little bit too much or two um
people need to do a better job on the
left of representing their
and it can't be you know average age 72y
old white guy that goes on TV to talk to
people they have to do a better job
getting I hate to say it like I'm not a
fan of Nome but he does a good job on
the left absolutely holy Jesus I saw him
do a couple like damn yeah he is amazing
now I wouldn't be surprised if he runs
for president and he becomes the
president because he has amazing people
skills incredible debate skills he's
confident he is sharp you know again
it's like I'm not I'm not a fan based on
what I've seen in California but this
guy has something really special that I
think will appeal to those people yeah
and I don't think anybody's gonna make
the mistake again not in in in in the
soon to be future of trying to run a
candidate that's not like people tested
because oh my God I saw this you can
find my stream and I joke I joke when I
said it I didn't have like a strong
opinion at the time but I remember the
very first time I saw dantz walk into
like a store and talk to me I was like
this guy's never going to be president
there's no shot he is so awkward so you
know mumbly with his feet and like any
and he's just this is not it and yeah I
think as time has gone on I think it
hasn't been it and is like a non well
now he suspended his campaign right so I
mean like but how do you see Dan santis
and come to that conclusion but at the
same time you have Joe Biden I feel like
he can't even like walk off a stage
without five handlers helping him it's
not a matter of walk off the stage it's
a matter of like do you have like I
don't know how to explain this like
presidential energy presidential energy
Biden has it he talks he's been a
senator for a long time the way that he
talks and can talk to a crowd and smile
at people and talk to people I don't
know why but like uh desan just has has
this energy of like gu insecurity I
don't know what it is it's just the way
that he carries himself and speaks he
just comes off as like very wimpy kind
of yeah wimp yeah it doesn't really have
to do with how scile or not scile you
are like some people just kind of come
off that way I'm not sure why it's like
a Vibe thing you know yeah I don't know
like in conclusion the way that I see it
is whenever I find myself in some sort
of belief or having a belief system and
then there's this massive opposition I
usually try to eek somewhere closer to
the middle because I know that I'm
probably wearing like an ideological
onesie as well as the other side and
still massive populations on both sides
and both sides have people within that
population that are super intelligent
super deep thinkers etc etc yeah I agree
I think it's always a red flag if you
find yourself standing against a huge
opposition um especially in a developed
Nation like the United States where like
there's you know democratized
information so I mean one of the ways to
test that if you're really scared is
well go and talk to people talk to a lot
of them uh I feel like I can represent
their arguments really well better than
most of them can do it uh if you again
you can find me T of them put me in a
room with them and we'll yeah we'll have
the arguments I've done it over and over
and over again and on the facts it just
yeah fails time and time again do you
recommend people listen to political
commentators that lean right you should
always be receptive to opposing
viewpoints I don't like almost any
alternative media I just I don't know I
think most of is trash but so you
wouldn't recommend it I don't listen to
anybody on the right or left either like
most alternative media is just trash but
you're on the left yeah I'm a special
boy listen to me so you're the you're
the one excep I feel like that's another
example of you being this Fringe
exception where this massive population
of other people on the left and on the
right or even in the center what can I
sayone of I'm a cool guy you know um
here are things that I like about myself
and if other people did them I would say
watch them there might be people able to
do this they might be out there and I'm
just not aware of them okay um one I
don't have a rigid adherence to a
certain political ideology I have my
political ideology which I could be
biased towards sometimes I admit that
I'm not a [ __ ] perfect person but
like there are going to be things that
the Democrats or progressist do that I
think are [ __ ] stupid and I'm going
to side more with I don't even say I'm
siding with Republican buts have strong
inclinations towards this wayway um and
the reason why is because I have a
personal set of beliefs and when a new
situation is presented towards me you're
going to get my take on things when you
turn on my stream and I think everybody
now who's familiar with me knows this if
you're turning on my stream you're
getting what a Steven bonell think about
this particular issue if I turn on say
like Hassan stream I'm getting like w do
progresses or far left people think
about this issue or if I turn on uh you
know like Steven Crowder's YouTube
channel I'm getting what do like these
kind of like right magga people think
about this but it's not really like a
unique consideration of the facts and
then a filtering through their own
personal you know like moral or
philosophical lens and then how do they
think about things at the end of the day
I would say that's evidenced by the fact
that I have like a variety of opinions
that I get in trouble with on the left
and the right um so for instance like I
think that written house is totally in
the right I think that um there's good
criticism of like a lot of the trans
youth stuff um that doesn't mean I'm
fully against it um like I can be yeah
there's a lot of things Israel
palestine's also a little bit kind of oh
true I
massive big di for Zionism okay totally
[ __ ] 100% yeah although I would be
critical of Israel on a lot of things as
well but like yeah definitely come out
sport of that um but then like I fall
very far left on some things um however
I would say it can be deceptive though
when people say they're on the center
because theyve got left and right
beliefs because some people will say
that but in reality when you go to
analyze their beliefs they're actually
just like anti-disestablishment or dis
or or or
establishment so like I would say that
people like um uh Tim p is a friendly
guy but when somebody like that says
like oh I'm you know I'm not on the left
or the right or I'm even like Center
left or I'm more like a Centrist when
you look at their beliefs actually they
are is anything that has to do with the
establishment so anything related to
pharmaceutical companies big business
government they're against all of that
um although in favor of like every other
like whatever stands in opposition to
that um yeah so I I guess like find
people that you feel like have unique or
interesting points of view that don't
always have to be like politically
aligned they don't feel a pressure to be
politically aligned with one thing all
the time I personally maybe it's
unreasonable because I'm a streamer so I
have like a different thing than what I
would expect YouTuber to do but I stream
like all of my research and reading like
you can see what I read you can see what
I'm researching you can see me putting
together my opinions as I'm like I take
notes I publish the notes that I take on
everything and I show you what I'm you
know looking up uh I think that helps
too so you can see how I arrive at my
particular belief which helps um yeah I
don't know it's I understand what you're
saying in terms of like it's hard to
think that you're like anytime you think
you're unique in a certain way
statistics would prove yeah of course
yeah uh that is a good istic what you're
saying like if I was listening to me say
this and I was across table I'd probably
think like okay well you're probably
full of [ __ ] and you just don't realize
it but you think you're unique for this
particular way which I understand um but
yeah I mean I stream all my stuff I've
made it to this point in my career if
you want to test it on anything like I
said I'll argue with anybody on the
facts on the morals and the whatever and
I feel like I can make a good argument
for what I do yeah MH yeah I just I just
don't like it when I have super high
conviction on something that's just
obviously controversial kind of reminds
me of the thing that your mother told
you don't be so openminded your brain
falls out in a sense it's like just
don't allow myself to have super high
conviction on certain things like that
but it could be a double-edged sword uh
one thing I do appreciate is a lot of
people I feel like similar to what you'd
probably argue for Ben Shapiro is now
people have this expectation of he needs
to have this ideology so he's
financially incentivized to have this
ideology um so you know he can interpret
data in like you know what you would
probably claim as an objectively
incorrect way but one thing that you've
done and I think you talked about this
last time we had you on was you have
taken stances you knew would piss off
your audience um just because you found
it right so financially punished for
seeking truth yeah I would say that I
one thing that I wonder because I'm
trying to um when I'm trying to think of
I'm being fair I trying to put myself in
the other person's position um I wonder
if I would feel differently if I had a
company of people that were all relying
on myal opinion so like if Ben Shapiro
really if that study for socialism did
come out Ben's like you know what I am a
socialist now um say that negatively
impacts I don't know how many employees
are the daily wi say like 40 50 60
full-time employees that are negatively
impacted
hundreds for fulltime W2 fulltime employ
yeah so if it was in like the hundreds
of employees maybe would you feel
differently about that but but actually
I don't think I would I think I would
just tell people when I hire you like
this is what you're signing up for good
luck change my opinion moment's notice
like to think that they would still be
able to survive as a profitable company
even if they change their complete
narrative that's what I like to think
yeah that's another thing too is that
like after you I mean when you made so
much money after a point it's like I'm
not like oh God like I'm only going to
make 80,000 this month instead 150,000
like I don't know if I can handle this
hit like I'm like I'm my lifestyle is
the exact same I mean you see the
clothes I wear I drop my $40,000 Focus
RS I've got a nice apartment that I pay
like 5,000 a month for but like other
than that I don't need like a ton of
money for anything so yeah do you think
the American dream is dead no of course
not if you're poor in America today you
have no dependence no disability no
cognitive or physical and you're between
the ages of 20 and 60 is it your fault
if you're poor fault is a really loaded
word like I mean the answer is always
yes to no at the same time like there's
probably steps that you can take to do
better but there's probably reasons why
you've taken the steps that you've had
taken so I mean yeah I don't know that's
a hard I that's such a reductionist like
if you find like a person who's 20 years
old and obese is that their fault I mean
like kind of they're choosing to eat the
food that they eat but like what if this
person was obese at like 8 years old
it's like 1% of people ever make it
that's probably a cognitive disability
at that point or they just had kind of
parents that like set them up for
failure so if it's like morbidly obese
then it could be a physical disability
which we disincluded in this so it's
like no I'm not saying morbidly obes I'm
just saying like obesity I like obesity
as a lens for this because it's very
like that's a very clear like just eat
less and exercise more eat healthier
exercise more those are things that
every single person has theoretically
100% control over but even though we
have control over that
100% clearly it's influenced from our
childhood right like if you take a
behavior and you say like oh every
single person can make a choice on this
every single day it's like okay well
that's one you agree with that right
that every single person can every day
make a choice to eat or exercise right
basically assuming no disabilities right
but if that was really true then you
would expect to see uh smattering it
would basically be random for what
everybody's weight and physical health
would be in terms of um obesity right
but it's not random chances are if your
parents are obese you're probably obese
chances are if you were obese as a child
you're probably obese as an adult
chances are if your parents instilled
these habits you know you probably carry
these habits with you through uh
adolescence into adulthood so a lot of
stuff that's like your fault is kind of
your fault but it's also because of the
way you were raised so it's just good to
have a realistic perspective on there
are certain behaviors that you might
have that came from childhood and is
your it's within your power to change
them but like they came from somewhere
so you have to like work to accept that
and then change it at the same time if
that makes sense it does make sense so
you were saying that there are some
exceptions um once we bar out the
certain things that I had mentioned that
we barred out uh the cognitive and
physical disabilities and no dependence
and stuff like that that there still
will be exceptions um of those
exceptions whose fault do you think it
is then that they're poor instead of
looking at it as as fault you should
just look at as every single person's
100% responsibility for themselves yeah
so regardless of who's at fault it is
your responsibility only your
responsibility to improve yourself as
much as you can now there might have
been things in your childhood that put
you on a bad path that [ __ ] you up and
you know whose fault it is is you know
is debatable or arguable but it's your
responsibility to change it now the only
time I would say that fault is important
in determining how H this is a we we can
go over specific examples we can talk
about this for a long time but sometimes
ascribing blame or fault is important
because if you're really really really
far off the norm sometimes it can be the
problem is you have to be careful it can
either be really owering to to ascribe
fault or blame or it could be really
disempowering to ascribe fault or blame
you just have to go through that process
in a very careful way I don't think you
should be ignorant of fault because I
still think that is important like you
just alluded to like two minutes ago
that you need to see it through a real
transparent lens like you need to be
experiencing reality for what it is but
I don't think that you should put a
bunch of weight in fault I think you
should probably be a A Ware that there
might be some culpability from somebody
somewhere but it is ultimately the
productive thing is whose responsibility
is it it's mine yeah a lot of people
want to figure out the root cause of
something and if in that case of if
they're obese here's why I'm obese
here's what I was taught as a kid and
because of that I am where I am today
and because I understand this I could
better you know fix this going forward
okay only in those circumstances I think
is it good but people have a really hard
time doing that or it feels like it so
here this is what I like to hear if
somebody says this okay let's say
somebody says oh I have XYZ condition
okay therefore I do this thing I think
that's really positive and really good
but often what I'll hear is oh well I do
this thing because I have this condition
um we sound the same but like say
somebody says I have um H [ __ ] OCD sure
we say I'm I'll make some [ __ ] up about
let's say somebody says I have OCD I
can't handle pink things or blue things
okay therefore in my house I've gotten
rid of every pink and blue thing so it
doesn't mess with ever right that's cool
but instead I usually hear the reverse
where somebody will be out and they'll
be going crazy and they'll be hitting
and like oh my God what's going on like
oh well I have OCD that's why I do all
this and I like okay instead of using
like the when they do like this fault
analysis instead of using it as like a
like a diagnosis that they can then try
to fix their life with instead they
learn this thing and now it's like oh
thank God I've got this new crush that I
can just throw out whenever I act
improperly or whenever I like [ __ ] my
life up and I'd rather see people if you
analyze the you understand it use that
understanding to build off of it and
then either remediate it or you know
find a way to avoid whatever triggers
you or find a way to fix or cure
whatever is going on rather than now
that I've identified this oh now I never
have to oh I've got you know XYZ
condition that's why I'm like such a
piece of [ __ ] all the time hahaa and
then like that's it yeah I agree I think
you should frame your belief system in
such a way that makes you better off at
the end of the day and what you're
alluding to right here is better off in
so far as you're using it to explain
something and you're using it in a
productive way to like actually make a
measurable positive impact on your life
such as removing those things from your
house yeah rather than saying that
you're a victim and then just having in
action and continuing to suffer yeah so
what uh What uh advice would you give to
those people who maybe have something
that they feel is holding them back they
could place blame they could place fault
on something how do you overcome that I
mean like H it it's I I think I feel
like I need to talk to the person it
it's just it's so it's so individual um
here's like two different things that I
see okay sometimes there are people that
take no responsibility for themselves
and then they'll identify a thing and
then when they they identify that thing
like oh this is why um I'm such a piece
of [ __ ] this is why I'm so lazy and then
anytime anybody comes and tries to say
like hey like don't you think you should
do this I'm like oh I can't I've got
this thing and it's like okay well
shouldn't you do something about that
like no it's like okay so if if you find
that you use your past as like an excuse
to never do anything um or you you have
some conditioner thing and you're using
it as an excuse to never do anything uh
I mean you're just kind of like a piece
of [ __ ] like that I mean yeah your life
is going to be worse off for it it's not
helping you it's not nobody else is
giving you credit for this like nobody
ever thinks like oh you know there's
this guy and I used to think he was like
a really lazy piece of [ __ ] but then I
found out he had this condition so now I
like totally like nobody thinks that
that's stupid um but on the other end of
it sometimes too you've got people who
are they they try to push forward too
much and they won't actually stop and
think like Hey listen you have a thing
that you really need to address really
need to understand this thing and do
something about this because it's
holding you back and just pretending
that it's not there and pretending it's
not having a negative effect on you is
actually hurting you because you won't
come to terms with it first so yeah
there those are like the opposite on
that spectrum and both people need to
move in totally opposite directions but
also sometimes I think people these two
people will switch themselves a lot too
um which it just that's why I'm saying
like it's very individualized um for a
long time I had uh I think it was like
seven years ago my son got diagnosed
with ADHD and got a medication for it
and everything and my community is
always Meed about me having it and blah
blah blah and I think I was the person
at the one end of the spectrum where
it's like listen Okay my brain works I
can sit and I concentrate blah blah blah
I'm just kind of like a lazy piece of
[ __ ] I can do this okay um and my God it
took me I think it was like four or five
months ago I had a friend who suggested
like hey like I have ader all you should
try some like [ __ ] it for the first time
of my life I was like holy [ __ ] okay
maybe I actually have ADHD I'm going to
go [ __ ] get a prescription and we'll
see blah blah blah and the past four
months of my life have been unbelievably
different my entire earlier light I can
[ __ ] believe it we could go on this
adoral conversation for hours I had the
very similar experience suffered I
figured I had HD my entire life it's
been in my family it was in my family
too yeah because yeah was when my son
guy noed a very high heritability and
then I started looking back like oh man
maybe this why my parents are late to
every [ __ ] thing we ever late to
everything also I remember one very
distinct memory I was taking piano
lessons and my teacher rather than
fixing your notes fixing your posture
fixing fixing all these things to
improve your piano playing he said the
number one lesson in all caps underline
underline underline Focus yeah I just
never my entire life how do you know if
you have ADHD okay so with most mental
illness or most neurodevelopmental
things
uh there's everybody has some degree of
everything uh I don't know if you're
like on the border I don't know what to
tell you or I don't know how to help you
figure it out um obviously you should go
to a professional you can get an
assessment they do a lot of like big
neurocognitive testing if you're looking
to like really know uh or just go to a
psychiatrist or therapist and get like a
a less formal assessment whether do like
a questionnaire uh in my opinion for me
growing up through childhood there were
a lot a very very very obvious example
so like when it came to standardized
testing and stuff like uh I think we did
the itbs was IO Test of Basic Skills um
my scores were always very very very
high like 998th 99th percentile on all
of these tests my ACT scores were very
good I think I got 35 and um my inclass
work my GPA was like 2.7 and that was
like in all AP classes so this was
curved up a lot uh and my GPA was
horrible I could not focus to do
homework to save my [ __ ] life okay I
remember I would get math times I I
would cry because I don't want to sit
and do it not because it was hard it was
the idea of like sitting and doing
anything ever was just [ __ ] agonizing
it was horrible um and there were I was
the only kid in my entire grade whose
parents had to sign my assignment
notebook and the teacher had to sign it
to make sure everybody knew what my
homework was otherwise I just wouldn't
do anything uh I would say that I was
like exceptionally outside of the norm
in a lot of different ways in terms of
uh my ability to focus on things versus
you know what theoretically should have
been like my intellectual capacity to do
things um yeah so medication for that
has just basically made it so that like
oh like um I can actually sit and read
something for 46 hours and not hate my
life to me that just seems like you
weren't challenged in school like if
you're scoring really high but you don't
want to sit there and do the homework to
me that's like you're you just seem
bored I wouldn't think there are other
indicators too like hyperactivity is
another one so for example well with
ADHD it's the like random like twitching
that you always have like if you look at
someone's hands and they're always like
moving their hands or they're bouncing
their knees and stuff like that that's
the hyperactivity people can flate that
with hyperactivity such as somebody who
like runs around everywhere like a like
golden retriever type personality it's
actually all these mini like little
Twitches that people have and order to
like the re the reason why I hesitate on
the hyperactivity thing it it can come
out that way especially with the
twitching and the fidgeting is ADHD at
the end of the day is a disease of focus
and it's how do you direct your
attention um for some people when they
can't direct their attention they become
hyper because they just want to like run
around especially boys like to run
around and do physical things or
whatever but at the end of the day it's
like can you sit and focus on something
that you don't ordinarily have the
ability to because people with ADHD have
a really hard time relating to uh like
reward that's not instantaneous um
because there's actually like parts of
the brain that are neurodevelopmentally
delayed like if you autopsy like an ADHD
person there are certain parts in the
forward part of the brain that are like
it's anywhere from like 10 to 13%
smaller than an ordinary person and what
that means is for uh for a
neurodevelopmentally healthy brain if
you got to read something for four hours
you can sit down and you can do it and
you can read it because you know that
you have to for someone with ADHD it is
like an excruciatingly challenging task
Because unless you're being like
constantly rewarded with some stream of
stuff to sit and actually focus on doing
anything is like impossible that's lack
of dopamine yeah and the the paradoxical
kind of understanding of this or the way
that it's kind of weird is that a lot of
people say [ __ ] I hate these things I
kill people to say [ __ ] like people say
things like oh ADHD is a superpower and
so like [ __ ] not a [ __ ] superpow
that's so stupid but see people look at
people ADHD and they'll talk about
something called like hyperfocus all
hyperfocus is is because ADHD Brands
usually so starved for dopamine if you
find something that rewards you
regularly you will sit there and be
[ __ ] glued to it because now you have
something that's like making you feel
like okay for the first time because
your brain doesn't ordinarily produce
dop at the levels it should that's why a
lot of people ADH will sit and play like
for a long time with my kid or for me I
was like I'm a professional Starcraft 2
player I play starc 2 for 16 hours a day
how the [ __ ] can I have ADHD well it's
because this is like a game and it's
boing me every single 10 seconds I'm
getting like another [ __ ] hit and it
feels good you know so what does adderal
do
exactly um the so what an amphetamine is
supposed to do is there's two ways that
you can basically hit these little
neurons uh neurotransmitters in your
brain um I think one is to prevent
dopamine from coming out and want us to
like push it and vacuum it back in I
think what amphetamines do is they
prevent the re-uptake of dopamine so it
increases the amount of dopamine
availability in your brain um
methylphenidate so that would be like
ryin or con conera Concerta um these
things like prevent the stuff from like
going out they basically work the
problem from two different ends but at
the end of the day the goal is just make
it so you've got higher levels of
dopamine and no epinephrine available in
your brain which like makes you a little
bit calmer a little bit more able to
focus on things that ordinarily you
wouldn't be able to focus on because you
want to go and do something else and
what was that like for you though what
did it feel like like the first time
trying it and then you realize wait a
second maybe I do have ADHD for the well
for I'll be totally honest for the first
three days are just [ __ ] amphetamine
High okay I like amphetamines I think
they're fun I think I've done dexra
amphetamine recreationally on accident
in the past thought it was uh we'll just
sa meth infomine basically um I thought
I was getting MDMA I was in Amsterdam
but um it was a fun time it was really
nice I was just high for like 20 hours I
don't know why and then I've done like
MDM in the past so there's like I think
there's a Euphoria associated with
amphetamine so the first three days I
was trying this Aderall adal XR I was
definitely just high I can definitely
feel how I was like what was the dosage
uh I started well cuz my friend was on
20 milligrams of adal XR which probably
high to start with uh but yeah for the
first three days I was like [ __ ] high
like this is cool but like I know I'm
just High after day 3 and 4 when the
Euphoria were off what I noticed was
that like I could be on my computer and
I could just read stuff and I was like
interested I didn't have to keep
rereading the same [ __ ] sentence over
and over again and I could just sit and
read and absorb the information and
understand and talk about it for hours
and hours hours without having to feel
like I was being like sucked to my other
screen that I had to like have a oh like
so for instance like if you guys are
watching in my stream I'm always like
playing games and stuff I haven't played
a video game I think in like four months
because I just don't have the drive
where it's like I need like something
that's like making me feel good all the
time I can just sit and read and focus
on stuff we just so [ __ ] nice yeah
this is going to you're going to hate
this gr but this is the first time I've
ever said this to you I recognized
recently so I review every podcast
before it goes out we have editors and
then I kind of do the final combover
recently what I've been doing because I
it takes me hours to go through a
two-hour podcast at 2x speed because I
just pause it rewatch do this and that I
just can't focus but if I play a video
game while I'm reviewing it I can get
through it so much faster similar to
exactly what you do when you're
researching doing this super super high
deep research at the same time of
playing a video game for I used to I
used to but now I don't anymore I don't
need to now that I'm like medicated for
the past four months I don't need to
have that video game in the background
yeah so so I I have adoral prescribed
but I take it very sparingly like I have
a sporadic schedule because I I talked
to my psychiatrist and he was like you
know ideally you don't use it every
single day which is always how I was
caught up on it I thought that once
you're prescribed you take it as a every
single day to to supplement you
basically but actually what it is is to
make up like if you get a really bad
night of sleep and the next day you need
to perform some job or something like
that you take it to bring to bring you
back up effec crazy I completely
disagree on every single part of that so
this is something that we should
probably talk about out outside podcast
because I think it's we're getting
pretty nuanced here on ad but this is
something I mean since I was like 19
I've like had it I Quit cold turkey for
three years not taking it at all
realized my life was like way worse when
I wasn't taking it period now I'm kind
of like using it sparingly but that's
another conversation works for you yeah
yeah [ __ ] I wish I remember you had uh
Derek I think on from more play more
days and he was sanctioned I was getting
super [ __ ] triggered but I think just
really hard to tell like who actually
has problems versus who's just like kind
of lazy I think that's the way the way I
look at it is how long have you had this
issue have you had it your whole life no
why does it seem so much more common now
you see this these these things it's
like ADHD is going up through the roof
and it's overprescribed do you think
it's because we're testing for this now
and we could acknowledge what it is or
do you think that people are
misdiagnosed all the time I mean it's
probably um it's probably overprescribed
and underprescribed at the same time I
think it probably just depends on the
person I think it's it's like four or 5%
of people have an adhc diagnosis I
people think today that it's like 50 to
60% it's not that high like people think
it's way higher than it actually is
um but yeah I I don't know I'm
uncomfortable Dr K answered this
question did he yes he said that a lot
of people and the same thing goes for
actually autism these days but a lot of
it is actually just autism by proxy and
the same thing is ADHD by proxy because
if you look at the way that we're
actually spending our time it's just
scrolling on Tik Tok or scrolling on
Instagram reals and stuff like that and
that lowers our uh dopamine I would
fight to the death on this as well
there's absolutely no research that
connects ADHD to environmental factors
like scrolling on screens or anything
like that this is this is what Dr K said
yeah here's the thing anecdotally I
think there's definitely a correlation
between Tik Tok scrolling and attention
space increases people's like standard
for like entertainment value Threshold
at any given moment because they're so
used to super high entertainment value
and then it decreases the like basically
everything else and makes it monotonous
like what would you say to like a
three-year-old kid or like a 2-year-old
who's who's getting used to just like
swiping swiping swiping and just
scrolling it's like have understanding
there's no research that connects any
amount
of but there so many the thing is there
are so many distractions these days and
I think that's what because people
aren't productive because you have
advertisements commercials Instagram all
these there might be those distractions
those but it doesn't change the the
actual composition of your brain by
proxy because people find themselves
unproductive since they're constantly
being distracted by all these different
things sure but although and I the
research on this is scarce cuz I think
it's hard to do this but there's one
study that I was familiar with where if
you give amphetamines to people what
they did was they I think they broke
people into three or four groups um if
you give amphetamines to people who
don't have ADHD and then you ass assign
them work uh people you give
amphetamines to will do more work but
they're not more productive the the
quality of the work actually suffers and
the funny thing between this particular
uh study was it I think it broke into
four groups the people that did the best
when they were given the placebo meaning
um no amphetamines and then you did
their work and then when you gave them
amphetamines they their performance was
degraded they became the worst
performers afterwards even though they
didn't feel that way they actually felt
like they were performing even better um
probably because they were high in
amphetamines and it feels good but when
you track their the quality of the work
could decrease so the idea that like if
you just give amphetamines to everybody
everybody will like become better I
don't think it's actually empirically
tested anywhere as much as it feels very
counterintuitive and I'm not a proponent
of that just to it seems like what you
need to do is take two kids uh two twins
put one of them on Tik Tok and one of
them on a book
and then test attention spans after like
five years and see who
has yeah MH but it it just even for
myself I find myself falling into the
trap at 33 if I scroll Tik Tok or
Instagram reals for too long for too
many days in a row I find myself it's
harder to focus that following week
after like there's a cool down period
where I have yeah I definitely I
understand what you're saying I and I
don't necessarily disagree this is just
I just have to put this out there for my
for my fellow strugglers okay because it
took me until I was 34 years old to
finally get medication do this because I
would fall into the Trap of saying like
I'm probably just lazy I play too many
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the episode I would fall into the Trap
of saying like I'm probably just lazy I
play too many video games I do this and
blah blah blah blah blah blah blah but
one thing that happens growing up and I
don't know if you felt this way is when
you complain about a certain thing
everybody will kind of agree but they
don't actually do that particular thing
it's like a virt signal so I would say
that when I was in high school easily I
think I probably studied for 10 hours
cumulatively through the entire four
years I was in high school that might be
an overshot I could never sit down and
study but when you talk to other kids
like oh like did you study for the test
or blah blah blah people like oh no like
I couldn't blah blah blah when a normal
kid says are like oh no I don't think I
could really study what they mean is
they studied for like an hour Friday two
hour Saturday and like only an hour
Sunday that's what they meant when they
would say that because we would get
tests back and I'd be like oh I got like
a 73 on my Cal [ __ ] paper and the kid
next to me who did didn't study and
couldn't bring himself got like a 94 and
I'm like [ __ ] how'd you do this AG it's
like oh man I think the last thing on
Sunday like it just helped I like what
do you mean the last how many [ __ ]
days you study for this for right so
there are definitely people that are
just lazy or that complain or just want
like a drug to fix things I understand
that but there I think there are a group
of people that have ADHD hopefully who
their your brain is just it's really
really really really really hard to stay
focused on things holy [ __ ] and the
problem is that if we are to believe the
current state of ADHD research and if we
are to believe that the researchers know
what they're talking about if you have
that type of brain you cannot ever ever
ever ever ever self motivate it is
impossible you don't have the
neurochemical composition or the
developmental structures that are grown
enough to do it the only way to do it is
to externalize all of the rewards so
like a counterintuitive example for a
kid that has ADHD you might think that
like okay well I know he's got ADHD I'm
going to be more patient with him so
that he can do you know his work in a
timely manner that's the opposite of
what you're supposed to do you have to
actually ride that kid harder you have
to be like hey do this do this do this
do this cuz when you constantly remind
them that's the only way that they
actually get it done because they can't
internalize they like okay I know this
sucks but like it'll just take 3 hours
and I'll be done with it and that'll be
fine it is impossible for a person with
ADHD at a certain level to be able to do
that ever yeah okay I'm done with my
spill [ __ ] I'm sorry that's great I I
want to keep talking about that we'll
talk more about it afterwards because
this is yeah that'd be a great
conversation I Al last five seconds the
only other reason I bring that last
thing too is because amphetamines are
really really really really really
really really really really awesome mind
drug and that like when you take people
with depression and you give them like
ssris bro that's a whole [ __ ] like
one month period of like titrating up in
Doses and you don't even know it's going
to [ __ ] work and you might want to
[ __ ] kill you some and blah blah blah
whereas if you have ADHD and you get
like an amphetamine you'll know the next
day or three days like if it's good or
bad there's not this ramp up and ramp
down and like oh I just got off my ADHD
B so I'm going to be like for a month
like yeah that's my lash B okay you have
ADH go get tested sorry I'm
done all right real quick yeah Ben she
out just to to so Chris Williamson to
ascribe some definitions what is the
difference between a leftist a liberal
and a progressive a liberal broadly
speaking the worldwide definition of
like liberal is just somebody that
believes in like uh like the Bill of
Rights so you think that you should have
like some freedom of speech freedom of
religion uh private property rights
you're probably a capitalist in the
United States more specifically uh a
liberal as a Democrat but like on the
rest of the world they would say well
conservatives and liberals in the United
States are liberals broadly speaking
because we all believe like in
liberalism um so those are kind of like
the two different definitions of liberal
liberalism though yeah is in top level
they just definition well like when
somebody says liberal they usually just
mean like Democratic capitalist person
broadly speaking like worldwide that's
what a liberal is in the United States
liberal just means
Democrat does that make sense yes and
you said that that means someone who
usually supports like the Bill of Rights
humanarian type yeah broadly speaking
Yeah okay and then making amendments too
though to the to the Constitution I'm
sorry when I say Bill of Rights I just
mean like stuff like in the bill like
you should be able to go to court and
the government shouldn't like infringe
on your property and like should protect
your freedom of speech that's what I
mean like broadly speaking that's like a
liberal so how is that opposed to a
conservative um in the United States
it's not like I said like if you go to
Europe they would say like oh in the US
like conservatives and Democrats are
both liberals they're liberals they
believe like in democracy they believe
in capitalism they're both liberals yeah
and then a leftist is usually in the
United States people say anybody that's
a Democrat is a leftist sometimes but uh
broadly speaking like the world or
sometimes in the US a lepus is a
socialist or a communist somebody that
is not a capitalist and what about a
Progressive Progressive is they can be
uh they can be liberal or they could be
leftist meaning they might be capitalist
or anti- capitalist but a progressive is
somebody that that's usually more social
policy aligned where they feel very very
very strongly about um like anti-racism
uh it might be like trans LGBT stuff um
a lot of stuff relating to like white
supremacy and stuff like that so is that
top left then what do you mean top left
like on a political Compass oh I don't
think about that political Compass but
maybe okay yeah and but if somebody says
they're Progressive they're really
telling you about their social views
generally and then there's going to be a
big overlap between between
progressivism and leftism so a lot of
progressives might also be like anti-
capitalist not necessarily but you could
also have liberals like I would say like
I'm a liberal and I'm pretty Progressive
because I'm a very big supporter of
capitalism and democracy but I also am
like a big supporter in a lot of like
Progressive social ideas so yeah why are
liberal feel more unhappy um I don't
know that's a really hard one you don't
know I don't know how happy are you 1 to
10 I'm super happy I'm like a 9.5 why do
you feel so happy um I don't know my I'm
a that my whole life story is kind of
unique so I don't know how much it
applies to everybody else but I mean I I
get to I just I have a really high
mental Baseline like it's even if I'm
grumpy if I go to sleep if I wake up I'm
usually like pretty even again uh I just
do stuff in my life that I enjoy doing
and as long as I feel like I can
continue to do what I enjoy doing and I
feel like I'm making incremental
improvements on myself I just always
feel like I'm do you do you feel like
happiness might be genetic that you have
a high Baseline maybe your parents had a
high baseline or someone in your family
did and you inherited that because some
people have a very low Baseline I've
noticed yeah it's possible it's probably
it's going to be some combination of
environmental and genetic factors the
environmental factors might be really
early in life like before you're like
six or seven years old but who's to say
yeah have you ever gone through a period
of time in your life where you felt
depressed like depressed in response to
something yeah there have definitely
been like a few days was like oo this
thing sucked a lot but I'm very much
like uh for whatever reason stress is
like very empowering to me so when
stressful things happen I usually feel
like I've got the tools to deal with it
I just want to like keep pushing forward
um the only time I've ever had like
stuff relating to like like mental like
neurological depression or whatever uh
when I was 30 I did a lot of mushrooms
and the for that year I had a lot of
strange mental issues but I think it was
probably like a um probably a
reverberation from that initial mushroom
trip but other than that no what were
some of those issues that you had um for
the first time in my life I had bouts of
anxiety so sitting on couch and for no
reason my heart is just like finging in
my chest I don't know why and I just
feel very anxious um a few days of
Hardcore an honia so like I feel like
nothing can make me happy I don't even
want to get out of bed I don't want to
do anything to make me happy I just feel
kind of like worthless um like really
weird stuff like I say weird but
unfortunately there are people that live
with things like this but yeah I think
it's just because yeah it was you think
because of those what was it mushrooms
yeah I did a really big mushroom trip
and I think I had a response to that
that took me about 12 months to get over
how much did you take on that trip um uh
it was 10.5 G of dried mushrooms it was
a [ __ ] stupid amount 10.5 G what made
you think that was a good idea or did
you not you just wanted to so prior to
um prior to doing mushrooms I did
Edibles up to I think like I think I
could do like a 25 G cookie and for me
is that weed edible weed edible yeah um
I think it's grams not milligrams did
they measure it right do I okay yeah so
reful had a friend who got us mushrooms
and they were all like
bagged in like 3.5 G each so that we
could have our you know our trip and I
remember I was debating between 2 and
3.5 gram cuz he was saying if you do two
you can have like a you'll see like the
walls breathe and it'll be like a kind
of a cool experience but if you do 3.5
you have like a full mushroom trip and
you'll have like the whole the different
phases and blah blah blah and so I want
to do the 3.5 so I took a whole bag and
then I ate it and I was like okay cool
and I just remember feeling after 30
minutes I was like oh my God I know what
going to happen I already know what's
going to happen nothing is going to
[ __ ] happen because all of this is
stupid [ __ ] it's literally [ __ ]
mushrooms and everybody on stream is
going to say like oh it's cuz you didn't
try enough and blah blah blah blah blah
and I remember somebody saying that five
grams was like a heroic dose and I'm
like [ __ ] it I'll just eat two more bags
so I ate seven more grams cuz cuz it's
[ __ ] mushrooms or whatever who cares
and about an hour in remember seeing
like colors on the wall for the first
time on the because I think when you get
high on psychedelics at least for me for
Elan mushrooms you kind of see like
colors like kind of moving in the wall
breathing I'm oh [ __ ] I'm finally like
getting high this's is actually really
cool and then like 10 minutes later it
was like um yeah probably the most
intense extreme experience of my entire
[ __ ] life I think I was like totally
out for like 30 minutes what do you mean
totally out like at like the when I like
I'm in terms of seeing my eyes I'm just
like moving through like basically black
and then fractal colors of like tunnels
of light and [ __ ] and I'm just
completely and totally disconnected uh
the perception that I don't exist
anymore that I don't even know who I am
that the person that used to knew who I
was was somebody that was like distant a
long time ago just like the it was a
whole process of being stuck in other
dimensions for was it scary yeah I I
think there was the guy next to me and
every time I would come out of it be
like don't let me die please don't let
me die I think I'm dying please don't
let me die yeah it was really bad how
long were you high for just six hours I
think mushrooms are pretty reliably like
up and down six hours even you do a lot
how grateful were you when you stopped
being high I it was the best experience
of my life cuz I was I felt like I
survived like the most traumatic thing
ever and I was happy to be alive when I
came back do you ever feel like since
that incident you get little bouts of
feeling like oh my God like like
flashbacks to when you were high cuz I
feel like I hear a lot of people they
say they take acid they take mushrooms
or something like that or big doses
especially and for the next few years
they could go through like just like a
little scare like they they feel exactly
what they felt in that high moment for
just a split second and get really
scared only when I'm getting high on
other stuff so something I realized a
month or two later I tried to do Edibles
again and I was right back in my like
the peak of like my mushroom TR I was
like oh [ __ ] so now if I smoke weed I
have to be like in emotionally a good
place because it's going to be very very
very psychedelic like shifted experience
I'm going to be going to another
dimension every time I smoke weed now
for instance yeah did you learn anything
from this I learned a couple things one
is I gave a lot of credit to kind of
like your cognitive mind to sort through
reality I figur you've got like 10% is
like your mood 90% is like your
cognitive you know human brain thinking
I like have switched that now where I
think like probably 90% is like this
underlying stuff you don't really have
access to and 10% is the stuff you're
thinking about um yeah real I don't like
to be alone I like other people that's
freaky it was very freaky yeah back to
your expertise yeah I want to talk
really quickly about the cultural and
political shift that I feel like is
happening right now okay Joe Rogan Elon
Musk and other people of influence
appear to be moving to the right you see
Elon replying to end wokeness on Twitter
a popular conservative publication Elon
recently collaborated for an hour with
Ben Shapiro more people appear to be
aligning more with conservatives how
many people do you see are moving to the
left these days versus the right I mean
it's more visible in people moving to
the right but then the question is like
how left were these people ever I don't
feel like people are necessarily moving
to the right I feel like we're doing a
rehash of you remember like 10 years ago
when people would be like anti sjw
they're not like really conservative
they just don't like all the crazy sjw
stuff the very hardcore Progressive
stuff yeah well yeah back then we just
called it sjws but yeah now today now
it's like called woke or Progressive and
I feel like you're seeing like a similar
thing like people that are really woke
are like the old sjw sometimes you just
push things too far and people like H I
don't think I feel this and then they
kind of like go in the other direction
but like these people aren't really
conservatives they're not going to stay
there for a long time like Elon Musk is
not like religious he doesn't like Vibe
well with um you know like hardcore
fundamentalist religious people or
Evangelical Christians in the United
States and yeah I don't think it'll last
much but we'll see there was a it was
like a chart or a graph or a spectrum
thing that Elon tweeted where it was
like people on the right people on the
left and then Elon right here so he was
like more so aligned on the left side of
it and then it was like that was back in
the day and then now it showed the left
had just pushed so far left while the
center and right have stayed exactly the
same and now he's like on the right side
of the spectrum even though he still
feels like he's on the left yeah that is
[ __ ] stupid no El is just a [ __ ]
[ __ ] should no it's [ __ ] dumb every
all the political positions have changed
the right has changed dramatically if
you were a bush era conservative the
idea that your political party is now
anti-corporation hates all big business
and is following a New York City
billionaire off the edge of the Earth
who has like had three wives and was
[ __ ] porn stars and paying them off
with campaign P money while cheating on
his wife this is the new you know like
moral leader of your political party who
also makes fun of like war heroes and
and like makes fun of like Pals and [ __ ]
like that's wild that sounds like you're
like saying B basically all
conservatives are saying that Donald
Trump is their moral hero when in
actuality I think that very few people
honestly on the conservative side
believe that I don't believe that I
think it's the biggest COPE in the world
okay but what do you say to the people
that that say I'm really going to vote
for Donald Trump not because I support
him just because I Biden I it's the
exact on the other
side it's always I run into so many
people they'll do this thing where like
yeah I don't really support Biden um and
you know Trump isn't the greenest oh but
I you know I'll vote for Trump I and
then every time you look at social media
it's always like uh Joe Biden sucks his
son's [ __ ] [ __ ] while he's [ __ ]
smoking crack cocaine Donald Trump
[ __ ] own his [ __ ] guy like uh
embarrassing Hunter Biden release sex
tape Donald [ __ ] oh like every dude I
do an hour of this yeah no D it have
every single [ __ ] time I talk to
these people I have never found the
moderate Trump supporter it is always
people that like when I talk to them
they are blue in the face because I know
they just came from throating like an 8
inch like Trump realistic replica dildo
because that's all they proba you
probably never met them because they are
the people that are never going to talk
about it it's the same people I feel
like that are liberals or on the left
that are not super extreme that you feel
like most people are right there I feel
like that same thing exists on the right
where it's just you don't really feel
like like compelled to integrate
yourself into this whole thing because
it's just so toxic and and violent yeah
but the difference is when you look on
the left like if I go to the center left
and I'm like what do you guys think
about like progressives or what do you
guys think about you know like lefties
or tankies or whatever A lot of them
will be like I don't really know but
that shows I can find that sentiment if
I look in Congress there's what like
four maybe progressiv if you talk about
like the Justice stems right if I look
at
Republicans they couldn't have their
they they had no house Maj uh majority
leader for like a month for the first
time in all of us history because
they're playing so many stupid [ __ ]
games in the House of Representatives if
I look at the Republican party you got
the largest conservative figure in all
of media Tucker Carlson going on TV
talking about how cool Trump is and then
the leaked text messages that came out
over the Dominion case we like I hate
this [ __ ] guy like he's destroying
our Network he makes you know America
look [ __ ] horrible I can't wait till
he's gone we don't have to suck off this
dud anymore I'm paraphrasing a bit um
but yeah the it's not the same it's not
the same there people people have gone
too far left like I have friends I don't
know if you guys are like this um
because you seem like you don't have
friends I'm just kidding I have friends
that live like in Seattle and Portland
and they regularly tell me things where
it's like the people here are [ __ ]
cringe I like it's gotten way crazier
than what I'm used to and I know a lot
of friends like that I don't know any
conservative who like yeah like all
these people around me are huge like
Mega like Trump supporters that I'm so
uncomfortable never heard that in my
life now maybe I have a different set of
friends so it's not like that but I
think that you can see in the polling
data you can see in the politicians that
are reported you can see in the general
Bend of both parties on the left Biden
doesn't ever now maybe if you're
conservative you're brain did you think
this but on the left recently Biden is
not trying to cater to woke tards ever
like the biggest time that he tried to
cater them maybe was through the student
loan debt cancellation stuff what about
all of the the invitations to like the
transgender people to the White House
and that one lady who like exposed I
think like some naked part of her B I'm
sorry I I could be getting the gender
wrong here but like that person got
naked at the white house I feel like
that still is kind of pandering towards
that it might like Pander sure okay I'll
qualify maybe they like Pander a bit but
like and the White House video there for
for Christmas that one too I feel like
pandering a little bit more towards yeah
they might Pander but like at the end of
the day if you look at Biden's
legislative agenda if you look at the
lawmakers that are in Congress it
matches the composition of the
democratic party which is largely not
that but if you compare that to the
Republican side the like the Democratic
party right now is in a totally good
spot the Republican party is on the
verge of collapse like we can pretend
that both sides are the same but if
Donald Trump doesn't win this next
election nobody has any [ __ ] idea
what the Republican part is going to
look like because Donald Trump is the
Republican Party he is the center of the
party right now 80 85% of people would
follow him if he would to run third
party the Republican part is lost it's
total Center in terms of leadership the
only person there is Donald Trump and
yeah I I just think to pretend that both
are like yeah you know they both have do
things it's just not at all the same
what do you think about vake ramas Swami
I don't you don't you don't think of him
don't think about this guy he a [ __ ]
loser I don't know what do you mean he
was a good litmus test for oh [ __ ] wait
did you guys like Vic I was about to say
really mean stuff no I mean speak your
mind I I don't have like a hard St on we
had him on the podcast he he was really
kind to us really generous with also um
I like a lot of like his his they could
just be PR moves but he seems very
diplomatic and supportive and
understanding of certain things like
when Trump was restricted from the
ballot he said oh I'm going to do the
exact same it seems like he's doing it
from an ethical standpoint maybe
politically posturing you could make
that argument I don't know if he knows
why Trump is taking off the ballot I
don't think anybody does I want to know
about Jeffrey Epstein what about him
what a disappointment my God you you
have all the answers right to jeffre
here's what happened here's what people
wanted there to be people think that
there are a bunch of politicians
billionaires that are raping kids all
day long and they love that theory it's
just such a fun awesome Theory Hillary
Clinton was involved in it Bill Clinton
was involved in it all the prince andw
all the billionair all okay and then
when a story like this comes out yes you
finally okay Qin on the pizza shop
everything is coming together okay this
is it the child billionaire politician
sex rape ring finally and I think what
probably actually happened was you had a
billionaire guy like Epstein who was a
pervert who paid off a ton of girls not
even the majority of them the a minority
of them were underage to come over give
him massages maybe give his friends
massages and sometimes Jer them off but
the vast majority of it was probably
legal the majority of it probably
weren't minors there were a few that
were I think two confirmed I think only
two um and he just like sometimes he
would like send girls to go and like rub
and tug his [ __ ] friends or whatever
and that's it do you think that any of
it could have been for blackmail no
absolutely not or what I won't say
absolutely not but right now there is
zero evidence whatsoever of that at all
and the idea of doing something like
that for blackmail in US Territory
against some of the most powerful people
in the [ __ ] world that sounds like
the most thing you could ever do why
would you why would you want to I'm
going to Blackmail ex president I'm
going to Black every rich and powerful
person like but I think there's a
narrative that he has videotapes or he
has photos and could say hey if you
don't do this little thing here we got
these photos and we could release the
guy is already a billionaire there's no
evidence of any of this ever being the
case nobody is asserted this or claimed
this it is pure fantastic like
everything like there was just no reason
at all to believe that to be the case
it's a fun story and it's cool and it's
Sensational there's no evidence for any
of
it and if you really think about it it
would be pretty wacky for a guy like oh
I'm going to go and blackmail literally
all of the most powerful people in the
world and see what happens why would you
ever do that that sounds like the
dumbest thing ever no but maybe that's
why he's dead but then why isn't galain
Maxwell dead why wasn't he killed before
he even got taken to prison like there's
like a billion other ways that this
could have played out more reasonably
like that kind of guy wouldn't get
arrested he would get [ __ ] whacked he
would get assassinated there'd be like
who saw Kill
Bill you guys didn't see Kill Bill long
time ago not a big movie guy remember
the Asian girl who killed the one guy in
the bed because and she was long
ago they remember story it is it is bad
listen a lot of hearing this for the
first time okay Epstein probably didn't
do anything that crazy probably paid off
some miners to jerk him off which is bad
and wrong and coercive and gross and
disgusting jity the girls weren't uh
weren't underage I don't think anybody
got like traffic in the sense that they
were like abducted or kidnapped or
forced to stay somewhere where they
didn't want to um I don't think he was
sending children around to all of his
friends so that they could all be in
some pedophile sex ring um I don't think
that there was any like black male crazy
[ __ ] anything like that going on there's
literally no proof or evidence for
almost any of those claims but they're
fun are you concerned at all about
politicians trying to put the political
opposition in jail on both sides I'm on
the Republican side not on the Democrat
side what do you mean when I look at the
history of behavior of Republicans
trying to jail or talk about jailing
political opponents I think it's very
worrisome I would say that so far I
think Democrats have been fairly
responsible when it comes to how they
approach it with some select criticisms
for the way that they conduct themselves
but I think all of the indictments are
100% Fair all of them are public you can
read them some of them he he's dead to
writes on like the mar Lago thing
absolutely dead to writes on that um the
New York thing is like uh kind of I
don't know um the RICO thing in Georgia
and the main jacksmith case for the uh
interaction stuff I think is really
strong it'll be interesting other play
out in court but yeah but you compare
that to like the Jim Jordan like house
impeachment inquiry of Biden because he
because he saw too many Hunter Biden
cockp picks or whatever is like [ __ ]
stupid I think and that's the the
documents you're talking about Mar Lago
is the classified classified information
but didn't Joe Biden have classified
information as well yes and so the
status on that so again this comes down
to a fact of the matter thing that I
think a lot of people just aren't aware
of uh taking classified material out of
a uh they're called Skiffs I'm trying to
remember what it stood for it's like
secured classified information area
designated area or something taking
classified material is not a crime you
might get fired for it taking class
material is not a crime the crime if you
actually read the criminal statute
um under the US code and you can see
them mon all the Trump indictments the
crime is if you knowingly take something
or if you keep something that you know
you're not supposed to happen in
unsecured area that's the crime so for
what Joe Biden did and I think Pence did
this as well was either I think it was
their lawyers discovered like oh here's
a document that might be classified
because a lot of it is retroactively
classified it's not classified the time
you take it and then if you communicate
with either Nara or the FBI or the doj
you're like hey we've got a classified
material here do you want to come and
take this or whatever and they do that
you're you're fine that's totally
happened to a ton of people it happens
every time presidents leave office
sometimes they take a bunch of stuff
some stuff gets retroactively classified
Nar will come and they'll take the stuff
that's all fine Donald Trump had the
ability to do that Nara reached out to
him in um March 2021 I think um and then
it wasn't until a year later that the
FBI finally came knocking on the door
because he wasn't cooperating he wasn't
turning any of it back in and when you
read all the leak stuff he knew that he
had stuff that he wasn't supposed to
have he was intentionally trying to move
the boxes around and hide it and he was
telling his employee that na guy or na
na I think he was telling him to lie to
his legal counil about where stuff was
and what was where and to move it around
to hide it from them so Donald Trump was
knowingly he was satisfying the men's
Rea aspect of that criminal statute to
be committing the crime of having uh
classified material and retaining it
against what was the material what was
in it um National Defense Secrets is
part of it so for some stuff it related
to um if you if you actually read the
indictment for the maral case they list
but it's all in like vague terms so
it'll be like a document might be the
weapons capability of an ally when it
comes to this type of attack um the
defensive capability of an enemy in this
region like those are what they're all
marked as it won't tell you specifically
what it is but and why would he keep
that good question why would he I don't
know he showed off some of it there were
at least two instances that they are
asserted in the indictments where he's
just showing off like I think one is
Iranian attack plans where he's talking
to a um reporter and he's like look uh
Millie he tried to say that wanted to do
this but look at what he did he's the
one that made this plan and he was
showing it to a reporter so that's one
instance of it and there was another one
talking about plans or something to
another person yeah those are crimes the
obstruction element is also a crime um
yeah retention will for retention of
National Defense Secrets is a crime even
if the materials de um even if it was
like Declassified um the and then the
obstruction of justice charges are
crimes as well um falsification of
federal documents was one of the
indictments uh conspiracy for
obstruction was another charge yeah yeah
at any point do you think it's in the
people's best interest to limit Free
Speech yeah of course and where do you
draw that line uh I don't know it's a
hard one to draw but like obviously
there's tons of limits that we all agree
I can't make plans with you for instance
to go and kill somebody right and then
go buy something to do it right that's
conspiracy to commit murder conspiracies
to commit crimes are arguably it's just
a speech element and then one step taken
towards the crime that's not illegal um
the obvious like shouting fire in a
movie theater is illegal um you know
leaking uh classified information can be
a crime like yeah I mean there's a lot
of free speech things that are crimes um
yeah I don't know it super depends um
there's the brandenberg the Ohio
standard for inciting a riot like you've
got to know you got to have the
intention of been setting a right and
know that your words will cause a right
or whatever there's got to be like
imminent lawful or lawlessness that
you're encouraging people to do Etc um
yeah I don't know that's very broad it
depends on you need a specific example
of you how would you limit where to
platform somebody or where they fall on
that that you even want to give them a
platform to talk prob platform anybody I
think I think well if it's popular
enough I I think you should always be
talking about it right if there's like a
guy who thinks he's got like a rock
solid argument for why we should
sacrifice children to the Sun God and
he's got like
0.001% popularity I probably wouldn't
platform this guy but for Donald Trump
or all of the stuff relating to
conservatives there these are all very
very very popular beliefs there's a
large segment of the United States
population that believes in these things
so the idea that you wouldn't platform
that when you know 30 40% of Americans
believe it is insane to me I agree I'm
not a huge fan of the word platforming
or platform which I feel like it's kind
of exploded in usage in the past couple
of years how could you have this person
on your just platforming these ideas and
stuff like that which I think it's just
like I think that that thought if you're
thinking that that's like pled your I
think the argument is that you're giving
you're exposing this person to a wide
range of people who may never have seen
this person and because we're the ones
to introduce that person to a new
audience they might take on those
beliefs but how do you know you're right
and they're wrong if they have support
from like you know a non well to the
person who disagrees everything that
person says is bad right but I'm saying
to that's having that thought if you
recognize that thought then you should
probably look inwards and question that
thought yeah I think it's also a matter
of like how equipped is that person to
deal with it versus you like if I like
if I like if I was the world's most
intelligent flat earther I could
probably beat you guys on a debate about
flat earth right like I would say the
same I don't think I would win a debate
against the world's best flight I don't
know the world best probably not yeah
and that's probably true of almost every
conspiracy I think I know a lot about
like Russia Ukraine Israel Palestine
vaccines but the like the top experts on
any of these things could probably say
almost anything to me and I don't know
if I could counter it so if I have very
strong moral beliefs about how I think
we should feel about say like vaccines
I'm not going to bring on like the
world's best antier because I'm probably
going to get crushed in that argument
unless I do a lot of very particular
research for this particular debate so I
wouldn't want to like give this guy
access to my whole audience where I
can't counter a single thing he says so
I think that's fair sometimes I think
it's just the way you say it and with
the confidence if you say something with
like 100%
conviction I almost can't disagree with
it because I could just say well my
experience is different but if you
believe that to be true you know sure go
for it but I don't agree and just leave
it at that but I think a lot of people
want that and if you say it in a very
fluent way people say fluency is a proxy
for accuracy which I kind of agree with
interesting it depends on what you mean
by fluency but I yeah I probably agree
with you like if you're able to just
kind of like go and just maintain a
good way you talk do you think
journalism is failing America um a
little bit but I also think America's
failing journalism
I think that they're very reciprocal
like they feed back into each other and
the type of Journalism we have today is
very much a response to the type of
things that Americans want to see and I
think we all kind of have to do a little
bit better on moving towards a more
responsible future so who's it up to
first um I would argue the journalists
it's up to the so we should set higher
standards for journalists well when you
say we should set higher standards for
journalists that makes s like the people
need to move first because we're setting
the standards right you're right right
so you'd say it's the government needs
to set higher standards for journalists
um no journalists need to set higher
standards for journalists I think but
why would they do that when they're
financially incentivized otherwise I
know it's a hard one right so how do you
but why would the people do it when the
people like watching people screaming at
each other being the most problem that
is the problem so they feedback into
that's what I mean when I say feedback
into each other because that Financial
incentive is the feedback mechanism and
then for consumers it's the consumption
uh lever that's their feedback mechanism
so they're going to watch the things
that are entertaining the most and
journalists are going to produce the
things that entertain them the most and
then you're stuck in this horrible world
that's the tough part it's like you
don't want to restrict them but you do
want to somehow incentivize them to
angle a little bit more towards truth
rather than it's human nature though
that's why the news is so negative all
the time is is that's what that's what
keeps people watching and we've even
realized it on my main channel of just
like negative titles get twice to three
times the viewership than a positive
title
consistently and it's one of those
things where like do you want to make a
positive title that a third of the
people watch or you make the same video
the same message with a negative
headline people watch it and take away
the message we were even talking about
this earlier with um a podcast title do
we say the five things you could do to
get rich or the five things you could do
not to be poor the poor title like this
it's the same video but the negative
connotation does better and so from a
journalistic point of view it's like the
negative is going to get more attention
people are more likely to click it
there's no reason for them to change
that yeah I don't know it's a tough one
I wonder sometimes yeah I don't know I
this idea just popped in my head so I
might completely two days from now I
think it's the dumbest thing in the
world but I wonder if people are drawn
to the negative stuff because their
actual real life is actually pretty
decent even though people don't realize
it so you're like drawn to the negative
speak stands out more like do I want to
turn on the TV and watch like some happy
normal ordinary story if like my life is
like kind of boring or whatever do I
want to see like some exceptionally
crazy [ __ ] because I'm thinking like if
you take people in like really
exceptionally [ __ ] circumstances like
would they be listening to negative
stuff all the time think they would
because I feel like when I think of the
people that have the most engagement
with politics in a negative way where
it's really driving them crazy I'm
usually thinking of like like middle
class kids who are like their life is
fine I'm like why the [ __ ] if this stuff
makes you so miserable why are you
fighting about this all the time there
was something I saw of like the fear of
loss versus the pursuit of gain and
someone fears losing
$1 way more than they would pursue
getting
$2 ratios are like yeah the ratios are
so skewed towards like I'd rather not
risk this little bit than have all of
this upside yeah and my understanding is
that all of that was really designed to
Keep Us Alive like we have to be on edge
because what if a lion comes out and
like kills you or you do that one thing
like it's more worth it to try to stay
alive than it is to try to you know we
had a psychiatrist on the podcast who
also did Crisis negotiation and he said
the reason why we're so fearful of
negative things happening is because
it's been coded into our genetics into
our DNA whereas back in the day like
Graham said if you weren't fully
perceptive of all the negative things
like eating a certain bad fruit or like
going into a certain bad part of the
Jungle where a lion could attack you
like that was the end of it that was the
end of your entire family tree end of
spreading your your genetics end of your
entire life end of everything um and
we're so used to that that like kind of
scared mentality the scarcity that it's
just kind of like stayed with us even
though we don't really have any of those
like super violent threats it's still
way more important when you're walking
through a dark alleyway these days to
think somebody's going to come and get
you um rather than to just be completely
oblivious of negative things that could
happen because that's the end of
everything very little margin of error
when it comes to your safety
one thing that I absolutely despise
about journalism is they can make
certain claims about people and then
these claims these alleged claims they
turn out to be false and then they don't
make content that would say oh sorry
guys I made this like Claim about this
person it kind of ruined their their
life but it turns out it's not false and
I'm sorry I'll do better in the future
that just never happens for example this
is a personal example but it it happened
to my favorite artist in the entire
world his name is Rex County so he had a
bunch of Articles made about him doing
alleged sexual assault um and then I was
in all of his like fan groups and
everything and everyone was saying I
will never forgive him even if he ends
up being not guilty because this is just
such a disgusting thing right so he is
incurring actual Financial damage uh
reputation damage measurable damages to
his life because of all these articles
that came out turns out CCTV footage
came out proved him innocent like actual
irrefutable evidence all the charges got
dropped and nobody made any content
whatsoever saying that he was innocent
and now I still feel to this day when I
meet people and they ask me about my
music taste and I say oh I love Rex rch
County they always say oh yeah but what
do you think about that thing it's like
they all know about the alleged
infraction but nobody knows about when
he was actually absolved from it yeah
that's definitely a problem even if
feble did publish retractions the
retractions always get way less coverage
than the original claims there was
something that I saw on uh Twitter
and it was this huge followup of this I
think she was like a congresswoman or
something that said she was sexually
assaulted in like the train station and
she pointed to the guy and they caught
the guy uh and all these headlines went
out about him I was trying to just find
his name and then they pulled up the
CCTV uh CCTV footage afterwards and the
guy just was on his phone accidentally
kind of bumped into her like this and
kept walking mhm and that was it and
then no one really reported on it but
they later found out how ridiculous this
was and then they posted it calling out
this Congress maybe she wasn't a and she
probably didn't suffer that much how
much this guy but this guy I believe
like lost his job he was targeted people
like were sending him death threats they
were trying to track him dead same thing
happened to KY rhouse Kyle writtenhouse
had several death threats and like you
said assuming your take on Kyle
writtenhouse case is correct and he was
doing completely fine thing not in the
wrong in any capacity but he suffered
horribly because of this thing and
hardly any media well at least on the
left more so on the the right does it um
covers it yeah I mean that's bad of
course I agree um a lot of the coverage
of those stories are really bad the one
of the most [ __ ] ones that I thought
was funny was the um bird watcher the
Central Park I think it was in Central
Park the bird watcher guy who ran into
the woman with the dog and she called
911 on him oh [ __ ] never mind wait a
second I remember this yeah it it was
big that guy has a TV show now I think
on like the Discovery Channel his whole
life got made for that and that woman's
life got destroyed but basically
I think there's a recording of um I
don't want to get the quoting on this
wrong especially we're talking about
misreporting but there's there's like a
video of him on his cell phone and she's
saying something like uh like hi 911
like there's a guy here uh there's a
black man here and he's threatening me
and something like that I don't remember
if she says something like uh like oh
like you're a black guy like the cops
are going to get you I don't know if it
was something specifically like that or
if it was just her saying like there's a
black man here and he's like oh you're
being racist and blah blah blah and he
published that video uh online and her
life was dist destroyed and obviously
said he was a hero who endured this
horrible Karen white woman in the park
blah blah blah but when you go back and
you look at the actual Facebook post
that that the black guy had made on his
Facebook now I'm not trying to say that
the woman was necessarily in the right
for calling the cops but on the guy's
own Facebook he said that he had brought
doggy treats because this woman was
bringing her dog to the park and he
thought that the dog needed to be on a
leash or something and he brought doggy
treats and he was going to try to lure
the dog away from her so that he could
like take the dog or something and in
that light I'm like okay well I kind of
understand if he's threatening to do
this because then he also threaten like
I'm going to get your dog and blah blah
blah that she would call now because
she's worried or whatever it it paints
that story in a way different light but
um yeah there's a lot of random stories
where you get like half the I mean you
brought up C
Rittenhouse all of Kyle Rittenhouse
happened because of the riots that
happened in Kenosha which was in
response to like that 14-second Twitter
video clip of Jacob Blake do you
remember that black guy goes into a car
with a cop behind him and he shoots him
the back like seven times and it looks
horrible and but the entirety of that
was two or three cops were wrestling
with this guy to try to not get him to
go in the car that had like the two
children of a woman that this guy had
previously sexually assaulted uh and the
cops were trying to get him to not drive
off with the kids in the car so when the
full story came out in my opinion the
police offic were completely exonerated
maybe you they should have tried harder
to take him down before him getting in
the car whatever but initially it looked
like just some black dude trying to get
in a car where the cops were bowling him
and they shot him in the back for like
seven times for no reason right did
anything happen to the police officers
um I don't remember what follow for them
was but I know the kosha wres were in
response to that video the Jacob Lake
video the problem with stuff like this
is that you're financially incentivized
to trigger negative emotions in people
about us a given enemy yeah you know
what I mean like it just lines your
pockets more the worse you make them
seem cops immigrants black people
conservatives liberals yeah for me I
don't like the fact that they could make
all these alleged claims but almost
State them as though they're a fact yep
like there are some of these things
where I read them it's like you know
this person took this person into the
thing beat them and did this and this
and this and and then at the end is like
allegedly according to the complaint or
whatever it might be and it just it
makes it sound like oh they're stating
this is a fact and this is true I feel
like for media they're generally will
they'll always say allegedly if that if
that's the case but for no comment you
know for Twitter and stuff it'll be I
like can always tell people like if you
see a 12C video you should always be
wondering why it's a 12C video we all
have cell phones we've got CCTV footage
like if you're seeing 12 seconds of
video footage it's because somebody very
specifically wants you to see only 12
seconds of video footage that should say
something to you you know we had a
conversation with David pacau he was the
guy from wargs if you've ever seen that
movie and uh there was a major media
publication I think it was the New York
Times that made this massive article on
him saying that he was delivering
improper ammo to the Afghans sourcing it
through the US Military and then all
these secondary Publications Source or
they cite the original publication in
the New York Times basically as fact so
as it goes down the line people just
start citing other things and citing
other things and then it just eventually
comes fact yeah that happens yeah I
notice sometimes when I try to track
down like an original sarc clamp or
something I'm clicking and clicking and
clicking and what was like 15 different
sources is actually only one and then
when you go to that one and you try to
figure out where they got it from you're
like hm yeah that happens I got a
question about Tucker Carlson yeah he
was recently spotted in Russia people
are speculating he's going to be
interviewing or having a conversation
with Vladimir Putin what do you think
about that do you think more journalists
should strive to have those hard
conversations with people that are kind
of Warlords I think journalist should
have hard conversations that's not what
tuger Carlson is going to do he's going
to go do the constellation thing Putin
is awesome because he's standing up to
the US that's weak and they're losers
but Putin is based and strong uh and
they believe like in Christian values
and the family and they don't believe
like in weird TR gay [ __ ] and he's like
you know doing what he needs to do to be
a man and traditional and America is
like weak and feminine and it's just
like that East vers West culture War
stupid [ __ ] that's exactly what that
whole inter I just spoiled the whole
whole interview for your entire audience
so make sure you put a poer spoiler on
this section cuz that's the entirety of
that interview is going to be like that
I love the conviction that you have with
that and we'll be able to directly like
actually it's that's exactly be it would
be hard to go to Russia and criticize
Putin Tuesday I mean Ian how far could
you take it to begin with right there's
probably going to be like armed guards
just outside of the whatever building
they're in or room yeah but I probably
just wouldn't do it then if I have to
either choose to be like a mouthpiece of
some guy or not talk to that guy I
probably just wouldn't talk to him then
I think depends on what Tucker's
incentives are if his incentive is I
want to make money and I want to expand
my reach because a lot of people are
going to watch this I'm just going to do
it and say whatever I need to say sure
that's probably what he's yeah we'll try
to do yeah I am having a really hard
time understanding the left perspective
as far as the border to be honest um
obviously for everyone to get up to
speed on the news Texas started putting
up walls the federal government was
trying to take them down Civil War was
trending in the United States on Twitter
because people think that it's like
actually the first time since a state is
disobeying direct orders from the
federal government for what like 50 60
years or something like that it have
been a very long time since something
like that had occurred um the Supreme
Court ruled Texas can't install razor
wire and barriers to mitigate legal
immigration
um what are your thoughts on the
governor Greg Abbott um saying that they
have a right to defend themselves the
federal government should not be
involved in this what do you think about
the federal government removing the wire
um this is just a legal argument uh and
it's not going to be satisfying for a
lot of people but the federal government
has exclusive jurisdiction on matters
relating to immigration states have no
jurisdiction whatsoever uh if the
federal government in their enforcement
of Border policy is doing something and
Texas wants to do something with them
they can do that in coordination with
each other with the federal government's
consent taxes cannot defy the federal
government on immigration law so if
they're putting up razor wire fence that
ice or whoever DH I don't know who um is
it Ice immigration in Customs
Enforcement are they the ones that are
out the Border I feel like it's a
different agency Customs and Border
enforcement CBE maybe I no [ __ ] I don't
remember I think it's it might just be I
I don't think it's is there's a there's
another name for the agency but um yeah
if they're down there and they're saying
hey stop putting up this razor wire it's
[ __ ] with our job you know and then
Texas continues to put it up for
purposes of regulating immigration Texas
doesn't have the authority to do that as
a state just full stop they don't okay
so barring what the current rules are
saying what do you think should happen
here if you're going to make the biggest
possible benef benefit for Americans uh
and do you think that that should be the
main thing in the purview of Ian I mean
the federal government should have
exclusive rights to do immigration
that's just that's the only way the
country works that nothing else makes
sense there um so I mean that should be
the case in terms of like how to
actually deal with the Border um it's
always hard to tell like if things are
bad or not because everybody has like an
incentive in blowing up other stuff uh
like every year you know conservatives
say there's a new Refugee Asylum seeking
crisis on the border and usually is like
over hype
but this one seems to be different well
because Abbott is like making it his
like job to now defy the federal
government in terms he wants to enforce
border policy um I I think something
definitely needs to be done obviously
there are issues relating to the border
and people like coming into this country
illegally I think Biden is trying to
pass legislation to get something done
but Republicans are also blocking it I
think Biden was asking for more power
when people were saying that Biden
already has the authority to solve the
problem I think it was power I think he
was asking for money I think they just
need money our border system is like
really backed up like I don't think we
have enough money for agents think
enough money for to do the court stuff
like it's just it's he needs more money
for it and that legislation is being
held up in Congress right now um what we
really need unfortunately is like
comprehensive immigration reform we need
to figure out we need to redo how we let
people into this country and there's
just not the political will on either
side for it yet so is this not something
that's concerning to you at all there
are parts of this that are concerning
the main part is the that a State
Governor would defy the federal
government and then get support from
like 25 other Governors to do that
that's very scary but but this isn't
high up on your list of priorities as
far as like what's happening right now
policy Wise It's actually it would be
one of the highest things I just don't
talk about because the difference
between the state and federal government
yeah because it well it makes me sound
unhinged but yeah assuming all the facts
and I haven't done like the super deep
dive into this like but if the facts are
as I think they are or have they been
have they've been like presented or
whatever I think Abby should be arrested
and thrown into federal prison because
he's literally like rebellious there are
again this would be the same thing as if
California were to say like oh well
we've actually decided today that we're
going to let anybody from me that wants
to fly into this state we're going to
let them fly and stay here even if
they're legal immigrants they just get
out at the airport and they can go and
live in this in this state if they want
to which would be insane you can't do
that do you have confidence that if the
uh the plan that Biden has proposed
would be approved that it would
actually drastically improve the Border
enforcement in the situation I think
improve it would it drastically improve
it uh I don't know Biden's enforcement
right now is I think a little bit better
than Trump by the Numbers uh people
don't like to hear he that but the
reality is one Trump's final year in
office was very easy because of Co there
weren't very many people coming through
and because Trump could use I think was
title 42 um he could declare a national
health emergency and do hardcore border
enforcement which Biden couldn't do
anymore he tried to and the Supreme
Court said you can't use this title
anymore to do this because there's no
more Co Health Emergency um but I think
the KO Institute did a big analysis on
the number of people that were coming in
as a percentage of like border crossings
and etc etc and it showed that Biden was
doing percentagewise a bit better
there's just a whole bunch more people
trying to come right now especially once
Co is over
so I think that like more money would
help but again we need like
comprehensive like immigration overhaul
and I don't know when the [ __ ] that's
overcoming yeah so my understanding of
the situation let me just State this
right here I get most of my information
from Twitter on the left and on the
right just to be clear um but it seems
as though the the remain in Mexico was
just it obviously went away with title
42 and then people are coming they're
saying that I feel threatened by my
current government you get led into the
United States with a certain court order
that you have to peer by so and so date
say three or so months in the future and
then people just come into the United
States drop their passports drop
everything drop all documentation and
then pray that some policy is going to
be passed for them all to be granted
granted amnesty yeah I've read that I
don't know by the numbers like how much
it's actually happening I have done it
that might if that is happening in a
huge amount that would be a bad thing
but I don't know if that's happening
more than it ever has been in the past
if there's any reason to believe that
it's happening more than it ever has
been in the past I think that the number
so I I've seen a lot of data on this at
least but it could be skewed data but it
does appear that the number is like
10,000 illegal immigrants coming per day
from the southern border that are going
into the United States and the thing
that's concerning for a lot of people is
if you added up all the numbers I think
it was since the beginning of Biden's
presidency the do uh the known number is
6 million and then you have all of the
unknown Goda alwayss which are the
people that just get through the Border
without actually being you know on a
camera or anything and six million
people I think I saw some number where
it's a greater population than like some
some crazy amount of the actual
population of certain States like I I
the overall amount ofal immigrants that
I'm familiar with they're supposed to be
like 12 to 15 million and the numbers of
people I hear people saying is that like
the illegal immigrant population has
like almost doubled in the past like
three or four years I don't know if I
believe that but um I haven't done like
the really deep dive on the immigration
border stuff I was going to but I'm I'm
still doing like foreign policy so I
haven't dug into this as much right now
yeah I was really interesting that you
didn't really talk about that with Ben
Shapiro I really thought that that was
going to be brought up because I think
for the conservatives right now that's
the biggest concern honestly and you see
other people like Bill Maher you know
especially when you have these people
these like four illegal immigrants in
New York that beat up all these police
officers and that was caught on video
people are now saying okay these guys
got let off scott like without bail that
makes absolutely no sense and then
certain things are getting approved for
I think it was like I don't know the
exact amount but it was in the millions
tens of millions maybe over 100 million
um for visas with $1,000 credits to be
dispersed to a bunch of different
illegal aliens and then a lot of people
are saying okay well it appears as
though they're taking care of these
immigrants more so than they're taking
care of the citizens I normally and
again I can't speak to those things I
haven't looked into that but normally
when you look into these things they
never are as they're reported like I
figured so yeah but if it is I would
have to then it would be concerning yeah
it would be but it almost never is when
a when a story seems like too
Sensational to be true when you actually
look into the details it's usually not
but I haven't looked into those so I
can't speak to them we'll do our best to
fact check what I just said but it would
be interesting and I would like to see
your take on that okay can we talk about
business and finance sure so we talked
about this last time you came on the
podcast and this was actually
interestingly enough some of the
favorite section of the entire podcast
because I feel like it's very rare that
you talk about this aside from like
policy and stuff like that um I want to
know how your Revenue has changed since
you last came on this podcast and if the
sources of revenue have changed like
where you're getting it from well all
YouTube is a big one I like a contract
now with kick for streaming which is
also a big one so the contract you're
still not able to disclose that contract
probably not probably not and then
YouTube I've noticed that like your
YouTube channel seems to be like
exploding yeah currently do you have any
idea why that may be happening cuz I'm
awesome um I try to go on a variety of
platforms I'm usually pretty
entertaining on a variety of like
different areas so I can like plug in
with a lot of different audiences and
then I think my political point of view
is a little bit refreshing because I can
give you a unique take on things from my
perspective and it's not just here's
what all the progressives thinks or
here's what all the like the centrists
think or here's what all the
conservatives think um yeah what about
the pay difference between kick and
YouTube um well I mean the kick thing is
because I have like a unique contract
with them as an individual uh YouTube
AdSense it's just so good yeah yeah I
don't know who really competes with that
right now so what percentages would you
say are coming from these sources um
well kick now is probably more it's
probably more than YouTube for sure wow
than YouTube Revenue in totality yeah is
that revenue or profit because I know
that you have the clips Channel where
you pay the editor 50% which a lot of
people in the comments thought that we
were saying that that was not a good
thing that you're paying like your Clips
Channel cuz we were surprised because
how much can you say uh your Clips
Channel editors was making well I
negotiated them down now to 43% so 43
down from 50 so what's that look like
Revenue wise a lot what do you mean a
lot I think last time you said it was
like 50k a month um it's probably a
little bit higher than that now yeah
around that yeah that's that's and
that's your main channel is that your
Clips Channel no no these are for all
three of my channels so you'd say now
that kick is actually a more significant
portion of your Revenue than than
YouTube yeah and how are you spending
this money uh goes right into my
investment account and what do you
invest in
I'll either I'll buy meme stuff on
stream because I'm like I have oh [ __ ]
sorry I have strong feelings about this
particular thing for some stupid reason
it usually works out really well oh
really um yeah like I bought God I wish
I could remember it I think it was like
a year and a half ago I bought a whole
bunch of meta because uh oh good I was
like it dropped like what like 20% or
something it D it had a huge drop and I
was like did it really did I really feel
like it lost that much and I'm like n i
met people are overreacting so i' always
be like dumb that's the logic are you
still holding on to no I dump before the
20% gain um but um it was it was a Hu I
like my investment massively be the S so
I was happy with that um how much did
you throw into meta I don't it was like
three or 400,000 I don't remember but um
three you put in three cuz I well
because I'll deposit a bunch of stuff
from my checking account to my like uh
investment account and I'll just like
buy a meme stock and then after a year
I'll be like oh cool I beat the market
and then I'll sell it and then I'll put
it into like a S&P 500 like Vu like V
what if you don't beat the market what
if it underperforms do you still sell it
or do you just keep it until I'm going
to be h I'm like five for five on
my no way yeah well but it's all
gambling at the end of the day but five
for five well depends when you started
like over the last and half everything
is B yeah well I talk about on stream
because it's funny because I'll talk
because usually because when I bought
meta it continued to tank for a while
cuz I I want to say I bought it like one
like 60 I think it might have dipped
below 100 it did dip below 100 and and
everybody in my community is like making
fun like no guys we're going to hold
tight okay where are my bag holders at
we're here and then yeah with by the
time I still like a year and some change
later man I don't remember it I don't it
was significantly beating the S 500 so I
felt good on that I did down before the
20% big increase like yesterday but yeah
so what's the next stock you're buying I
just buy just tot sh me [ __ ] you should
never I didn't think Facebook meta was I
bought like 100k I think in um in that
anheiser bush [ __ ] cuz so many conser
like I'm going to dump this stock that'
be the S500 barely but it did I just
have so I have like the screenshot of
that I just want to post to like [ __ ]
with conservatives but so you were
telling us earlier you didn't like a lot
of Financial YouTubers you felt the
advice that they give is bad it's always
just like some meme generic sh like
invest in real estate or something
[ __ ] random and I'm like well what
does this even mean I don't know or like
crypto or so what would you like to see
more of more of number one is college go
to [ __ ] school it is incredibly
important if I could give one piece of
advice myself growing up it would be to
study more God damn yes ABS you're not
being I'm not joking I can't tell it is
like the easiest path towards like
securing a job and get moving your way
towards a career making a big invest put
it at the studies man what studies ZR
more businesses yeah are are hiring
people without a bachelor's degree it
was something zip recruiter now it was
like 50% of businesses didn't no longer
require a bachelor's degree for what
jobs for their jobs on zip recruiter
which ones nobody's getting an
engineering job without a degree nobody
that's stem sure so I would agree with
you I think I'm sorry if you want to be
like the manager at your local franchise
Wendy's you probably don't need a stem
degree okay but what all the like the
Arts degrees what about them I I feel
like there's plenty of coding a lot of
tech jobs no longer require the
bachelor's degree if you're proficient
in what you know here's the here's the
here I'm so sorry to hurt your feelings
if you're listening to me if you're if
you want to get into software
development and you don't know if you
should go to college or not you
absolutely should go to college the
people that get those jobs that didn't
need to go to college are people that
are already working and stuff they're
like highly driven they do like all of
their own research they work on programs
and they work on projects and when they
go they you know they might price a
little bit for the tech interview but
they like they pass the interviews
they've got like work they can point to
and they they're proficient if you're
just some guy who's like 18 you're like
well I heard that I don't need to go to
college and then you like do python for
four years and you make like one stupid
program and you're like oh I want to
interview like you're not getting hired
from anywhere you're not getting a job
okay well I think that's a whole
different argument I think we'd probably
be in agreement because we yeah you and
I would Advocate if you're in stem you
should go to college just generally
speaking broad Strokes here you should
go to college if you want to study stem
same thing goes for things like coding
although I'd probably recomend a coding
boot camp because it's a lot expensive
and specialized rather than taking all
these undergrad random units like I had
to take history of jazz that gets me
nowhere and cost me a you out as a human
being and if it's cost a bunch of money
it's because you're going to some stupid
[ __ ] private school you should just
be doing either Community College for
two years or state school if you're not
making money you're studying something
you're going to be eventually doing
you're rounding yourself as a human
being how is it a waste time more about
the history of could be rounding
yourself out in the in the I player in
college single thing jazz is America's
most important contribution to the enti
world of mus and you don't from that
class is Duke Ellington that's it don't
even I can't even name a song from him
that's okay at least you time I spent
sitting in that classroom and how much
money probably went in even though it
was Community College could have been an
actual University and it would you're
doing right now because you're a
well-rounded thanks to Jazz I out of
college it was the opportunity should
have it's the opportunity cost of
wasting four years in a school just to
go through the motions just to prove
that because I just feel like you're
being told what to do and you're not
thinking for yourself welcome to every
job in the world being told what to do
and not think it for yourself how many
jobs they give you the creativity you're
not going to be in a Facebook playroom
where they give you like Legos you're
like let's see what projects you guys
come up with today like but look at both
of us both of us are in a very creative
field we're we the 1% of the 1centers
though not everybody you can't do that
the reality most people can't I feel
like people can I agree with you I think
I think to to accept the fact that like
everyone could do this job would be kind
of L it's a difference like anyone could
do this job but not everybody everybody
I believe someone really wants to do
something within within reason most
people can accomplish you haven't met a
lot of NCAA athletes who really think
that if they try hard they can go to the
NBA or the NFL but that was my exception
you know obviously like I can't play in
the NBA maybe but I just think when
people go to college and they start
studying things that like Communications
and they just like ah well I just wanted
to go to this college didn't know what I
wanted to do and I know I could get in
with Communications that's not going to
take them anywhere in life and they're
probably going to have $100,000 worth of
student loan debt first of all if you
have a $100,000 student loan debt you
are exceptional indebted okay what is
the average student loan debt is it like
30 grand yeah okay so already [ __ ] up
number one number two I agree with you
going to school and being aimless is is
dumb and you shouldn't do that but
better to be aimless in four years and
have gotten a degree than to be aimless
from 18 to 22 and then what get a normal
job knock somebody up and then just be
[ __ ] for the rest of your life you're
never going back to school you going to
do that's what you're saying is the only
alternative and that's not what we would
advocate for wait what would you
advocate for if you're not going to
college yeah figure out what you're
actually interested in then actually go
pursue that okay that's 1% of people
you're telling me the the the problem is
people draw from different groups make
these arguments the person that goes to
school and is like I don't know I want
major I didn't take one that person okay
don't go to college it's not out of
college and they're like I'm going to
take a one-year coding boot camp I'm
going to be totally [ __ ] driven I'm
gonna study every [ __ ] day on I'm
going remember that person who's capable
of doing that would probably just go to
college is because every the the NPC
Bots they think that college is the next
route okay they think that college is
the next route because that's what
they've been learning and impressed upon
since they were growing
Al natural route being just go straight
to college and people just like I'm
going to do it don't know what I'm going
to study don't know do but I'm go
College you don't know what to do to get
work experience in any experence the
culture I'm saying the culture needs to
change any experience
you retail experience an apprentice for
who's going to take an apprentice high
school for a good job anybody you could
you could who no no one is no they're
not you're
going if you're going to college you
need someone to support you right and
let you or you have to get work
experience to pay for the college so in
a lot of those cases you could say I'm
going to intern for this person I'm
going to be this person's assistant I
want to try this career I could go to
this trade school I could get my real
estate license there's so many licenses
that you could just get real estate is
for people that fail law school and
trades are for people that couldn't make
it to College why would you why would
you the trades the trades are fantastic
no they are't they suck why why do you
trade suck because they're worse than
college degrees by definition they pay
less they hurt your body more the hours
suck they it's more demanding work it's
less creatively like free like what do
mean I've heard a lot of Trades pay very
well you heard lies from people here's
what happens why are they lying because
they're [ __ ] and because they feel
strongly about the profession here's
what happens some asso will come on it's
like yeah I'm a plumber and I make 250k
a year that person is not a plumber that
person is a small business owner that
employs plumbers it is never the C yeah
you're looking at up right now the
trades do not average on median Med
median annual wage this is 2021 also so
it's a little bit uh wind turbine
service technicians 56,000 sure that's
an ultra specific part of like a trade I
doubt that you like tile and stone
Setters $ 47,800 the the ultra
specialized trade things that you're
talking about are not going to be trade
jobs that you get going into the trades
and working for two years these are no
that person that's probably doing that
probably started doing other types of
trade work but you got to build up to
that for 10 or 20 years career floor
layers you could say the same thing
about doctor yeah but
having but generally having to do that
work it starts off with less pay your
pay Horizon like college you're not
earning anything for four years so by
the time you want to graduate college
now you could be a specialist and when
you're pulling something back on a
slingshot it's not getting any close to
your target the whole point about
college is you're doing an investment in
yourself you take on some early debt to
increase your lifetime earnings
potential and if you look at the median
wages of almost any college degree over
a lifetime of earnings it's like a
million dollar difference between
couldn't that be because they're the
type to go to college to begin with that
they would have done well regardless
that they had they had the ability to
sit there Focus get a job done do a task
yeah I don't want to be a mean person
but for a lot of people life just works
better on Rails there are a lot of
people where I think it's the exact
opposite where if you take a person and
I know people like this where they it
sounds so mean because like we we have
like the dream job of like oh you're
Your Own Boss you blah blah blah blah
blah which is cool and it's fun I like
that you two you must like that if you
do this as a job but there are people
who it's like if you throw them into
wind they are lost they're not going to
like [ __ ] self-direct and figure out
what they need to do for work or to grow
the but if you put them like in a
certain environment where you're like
here's your job to your task they I the
problem is that the type of person to
watch this podcast is not the type of
person who wants to be on Rails just the
fact that they're listening to a
financial based podcast makes them the
exception that's what I like to think
and to see I super disagree and I would
I would fight you to the death on this
because people will say things like like
that's more delusional than that every
single person that thinks they have ADHD
has ADHD take like I think that a lot of
people like the idea of like Financial
Independence and being their own boss
and blah blah blah but the at the end of
the day that's stressful stuff like not
knowing where your next paycheck is
coming from having to chase down your
own leads having to create your own
opportunities not having a guy to just
tell you what to do that's an incredibly
high level of stress some people I think
the exception like less than 5% are
super built for that you I'm you guys
probably are I know that I am I'm
because you guys do podcast and
everything you must be I would imagine
um but for a lot of people that's
incredibly stressful right but that's
for being Your Own Boss like we were
talking about just certain trades and
other jobs that didn't necessarily
require college any path that's not
going to a traditional four-year College
yeah I would say if you know what you
want to do for a career you snipe it and
maybe the snipe you know you got to go
through college which I think is totally
fine but if you're going into college
and you just have no idea you're going
to be taking all of these undergrads and
you're just going to be past killing
time essentially I understand and that
could be the case but that person that
might go to college and have no idea if
they just spent four years doing nothing
except for working and had no idea that
person is in a much higher likelihood of
destroying their life than the person
that goes to college for years I know
but the thing is that the culture says
the only normal route that people should
go on is straight to college but maybe
if we shifted the culture a little bit
more to like hey there are other
alternative options where you don't have
to take on so much debt and spend so
much time going through the system then
I think that it would actually make
sense I think if there were other
stronger Alternatives I would agree but
right now like that path towards going
to college getting your degree I feel
like it's getting less and less
prestigious like the college degree is
no longer this barrier anymore it seems
like it's become so common that it's
lost its meaning you know it also is
common is geds but we wouldn't tell
people to drop out of middle school I
mean yeah college degrees are common and
they're ubiquitous but I mean that's
because the level of Education needed
the American workers more productive
today than they have been at any point
in history right like the level of
Education everything you need for a
society today to participate in the
economy is getting higher and higher and
higher and higher so of course degrees
are becoming more and more and more than
Norm I just I agree that there are paths
that you can take that don't involve
college that will set you up for success
in life but I don't see any like regular
General things that I would just push a
bunch of people off to like think it's
up to the individual at that point that
doesn't mean anything everything in life
is up to the individual but the reality
is we can look at data we can look at
numbers and we can see like on average
like you know how do you perform if you
go to this area in life how do you
perform if you go to this area how you
know if you get a high school degree
you're probably going to be [ __ ] if
you go to the trades you do better than
high school if you do a four-year degree
in college especially in stem you're
probably going to be doing the best but
if you're outside of stem and being a
lawyer and stuff like that I just know
that like so many people in my own
personal life because I'm kind of at
that age now 25 where a lot of my
friends family Etc have just gotten out
of college recently and they're kind of
just like okay well what do I do if they
don't have a stem degree well then they
probably have Rich families [ __ ] them
let them study what they want have fun
if you want to go and be an English
major or a history major or an art major
I mean if you have passion for that then
do that if you go to school and you're
like I'm going to be a history major and
then you come like God I can't find a
job that pays me 85k 95k a year you're
probably [ __ ] [ __ ] passions a lot
of them are just like they're 18 I'm
going to go to college kind of bum
around for four years figure out what I
want to do by the end of it I might know
what I want to do what would they have
done in the interim like what would they
have done outside of college you think
they would have magically stumbled into
their passion okay I I think they'd
understand more if they go into the real
world and get actual experience but like
what experience like we talk like when
you guys talk about experience I feel
like you guys ever read The Odyssey or
um or The Iliad it sounds like you're
talking about like these heroic Journeys
where it's like get your backpack on and
go and travel through all of Europe and
work a collection of odd jobs and all
these different places and like at the
end of all of this magical excitement
and Adventure you'll discover who you
are the reality is at 18 if you don't go
to college what that usually means is
it's time to go find a [ __ ] job and
start working for the rest of my life
cuz what other experience try [ __ ]
jobs in different careers and say you
know what maybe say career what are the
careers I'm thinking like you work at
McDonald's and then you go and you work
at [ __ ] Walmart and you what are the
career jobs you're getting 181 19 with
no experience I like to think that you
could be anyone's assistant what does
that mean let's just say you want to be
an artist you could find an artist in
your area and say hey I I just want to
work with you see what you do I'll do
anything for you I talk a lot about
doing this this is what's worked really
well for me and if you're going to be in
college chances are you're going to
spend your time in a classroom or spend
your time actually doing something so if
you spend your time working with someone
or in an industry that you want to be in
you could determine pretty quickly if
you like it or not I think that would
work if you're a really hot girl and
you're trying to inter with guys because
they'll hire you or have you be their
assistant because they want to [ __ ] you
but other than that realistically I'm
just trying to think like I think
passion and enthusiasm are something I'm
sorry but it work for me I don't want to
sound like disrespectful towards younger
people but like passion is a dime of
dozen I don't give a [ __ ] about passion
and I don't think anybody that works
well gives a [ __ ] about passion what you
care about is what have you done so show
me a portfolio are you reliable and on
time can you return an email in 24 hours
are you like actually a reliable person
that could show up the way that you need
to be and then like yeah what what can
you do for me I don't think a random
18-year-old showing up at the doorstep
of like a 30-year-old musician like I
really want to help an intern or
whatever unless this guy got like
anything in his past like maybe you jack
didn't have anything in his past Jack
just cold emailed me I like hey I want
to come work several times over the
course of several months so I was very
persistent constantly showing up at the
top of the Inbox and then finally I like
six months of emails what was your why
did you hire Jack well he didn't hire me
per se he just said hey I have all this
like extra work and I just want to
offload it and I said give me anything
let me provide value and I just inserted
myself kind of in the business and that
was that what was your how did you email
them what were you offering how did I
email him I offered him literally
anything I was like I mean I think I
mentioned in the email like yo if if you
want me to walk ramsy which is his cat
or pick up Ramsey's poop I will do it
just tell me one thing I live an hour
away I could drive to you do whatever
you want whenever you want it and I'll
just provide value and then finally he
got back to me and he wasn't the only T
person that I hit like I hit three
creators in total and I sent each of
them several emails what another Creator
got back to me so what do you and why
did you say yes uh a lot of that was his
persistence I saw six months of email
and he was at the top of the inbox at a
time where I was really trying to
offload this work and I was offering
people in my office at the time will you
help me with this work I'll pay you 20
bucks an hour no one did it for like two
months and it was building up I saw
Jack's email I was like I'll do anything
I thought you know what let's put this
to the test will he actually do it you
want to do these Facebook emails let me
know Jack was like yes I'll do it he
finished it overnight and then after
that I saw his work ethic how quick he
was he was very responsive and I said
you know what
I'll take you to to dinner let's talk
about it and I really appreciate your
help and then from there I gave him all
these other tasks I was like okay you
know what you did well in this I have
this other thing do you want to go
through my emails and just pick people
who you think would be good on my second
Channel yes absolutely I'll do it okay
here's what I'm looking for just let me
know I understand once you got initially
in yeah I don't know I have hundreds of
people that email me for stuff like that
I would never just take a random person
like I would need to see like what you
shooting up a little bit too high up the
ladder In fairness at this point like I
think if if you're gonna try to find a
mentor relationship I think you need to
go like a few steps ahead of you rather
than just shooting for the St I had at
the time like 500,000 subscribers which
was big but small enough where I was
still doing everything 100% myself so
every email was like me reading it
personally but that's also how it got
like everywhere every business I've ever
gone into or every bit of work I've done
has been just purely
asking the same thing a mentor menty
relationship I reached out to H3 H3 he
had millions of subscribers at the time
and he' get back to me because his inbox
was probably flooded with I'm sure it's
possible to do this I just don't think
it'll be the norm like how many people
emailed you asking to help you said he
was at the top of your inbox so there
are a ton of other people asking to help
probably but so he was one of how many
funny I get some of those Instagram ones
where it's like day one of asking Graham
for blank day two they'll give up on
like day 10 but but you think if they
went to day 100 you'd be like I am going
to hire you no not hire but someone's
like day one until Graham calls my cell
phone or like I I'm not talking about
hiring somebody based on 100 DMS but I'm
talking about a lowlevel lift till
Graham comments on my YouTube videos
since Graham calls me like a minor lift
thing and they'll give up after like a
week week and a half like when I started
working as a real estate agent I would
go to open houses every single Sunday
for months just to talk to other agents
and it took months someone offered me
was like hey you know what you want to
come work under me go for it okay
neither of you have children right no if
you did have kids that were like 15 16
years old and they were thinking like I
think I might want to go to college you
would say at 18 actually I think what
you should do is you just start emailing
a bunch of people to see if you can work
on no I would say what do you want to do
what do you want to do with what is a
college degree going to give you that
you can't go and do right now what what
is the barrier that a college degree is
going to help you overcome and if they
say well I want to be a lawyer and to do
that I need to pass the elet and to do
that I need to absolutely you want to be
a doctor I need the college degree but
if they said you know what I don't
really know um then college is just
pushing off that decision of am I going
to do lat yeah the other thing if they
came to me and say hey you know what I
want to go to college because it looks
like a lot of fun and I want to go
because I want to be around a whole
bunch of people my age and we're in the
same then at least I understand why but
if it's I don't know what I want to do
and I feel like this you know everyone
else is going so I should go I would
really say like why do you want to do
this is it just be everyone else you're
conformed they weren't sure they're like
I don't know what I want to do yet
hopefully I I figur out my first two
years or whatever you would say don't do
that you should I would I would see if
there's an alternative
I would say if you don't know what you
want to do what do you I feel like as a
parent you would know by age 16 17 where
their passions are are they really good
at something do they hate math do they
love science if they if they love
science is there a field in there that
they want to go into does that require a
degree I'd really try to narrow it down
for the person the idea I think is being
intentional about your decisions rather
than just kind of following the norm and
thinking that that's going to be the
solution to your problems rather than
like actually so I don't disagree with
that ever intentionality is always good
and I think if you're intentional there
might be some paths that aren't college
that are better than just wasting time
in college I don't disagree with that I
just don't like the idea that it feels
like when we talk about not going to
college we're talking about a whole
group of people that are kind of like
lost in college and then we say well if
you just don't go to college and do
something else you'd be so much more
successful that's probably not going to
be the case and I think I think if
you're kind of not sure what to do after
high school this is what I would say for
the group of people that aren't sure
what to do after high school they're
probably better served going to college
even if it takes them 5 years to get
their degree than to just start working
right out of high school because the the
the fear or the possibility of getting
stuck in the rat race when you're 18 or
19 and then never being able to revisit
any other opportunity I just think is
too scary in my opinion but because life
can set in like really quick to where
now you're one year out of high school
you might have a relationship you might
have kind of like a job and it kind of
pays so now you're cut off from like a
lot of financial aid you're already out
of high school for a year maybe two now
you're 20 do you really want to go
[ __ ] study again and do homework and
blah blah blah and now you're you're 25
and maybe you've got a kid and it's like
you're not going to Apprentice you're
not going to do internships you're 25
you're working maybe you're like the
manager at some you know Supermarket or
some [ __ ] and now you're just that's
kind of the rest of your life there is
no like go back like when you're 18
you've got this really unique
opportunity where it's the only time in
your life where you still get to
exclusively study exclusively invest in
yourself not have to worry about like
working a job taking care of a family
any [ __ ] and if you want to not do
the college thing that's fine but I
think you have to have a really like a
damn good idea of what you want do as an
alternative it's better to wander
aimlessly in college than it is to
wander aimlessly outside of college and
then to never ever ever have an
opportunity for that's my take I don't
know if I necessarily agree with that I
think if you're one of the 82% of
students pulled up the statistic that
goes to to college and doesn't study
stem you should really consider what job
you're trying to get with whatever
degree you're pursuing and I think maybe
if we remove the stigma uh the taboo
idea of not going to college straight
after high school and pursuing some
alternative career and maybe like like
you know maybe provided more information
and and routes that you can and paths
that you can take in your life I think
it would be a lot more
productive yeah speaking of working uh
what are your thoughts on the fire
movement uh what is that Financial
Independence retirement early grinding
away in your 20s early 30s saving
religiously to be able to retire by 35
if you enjoy it go for it I guess some
guy said something to me I thought was
really [ __ ] stupid and I had no
counter to it and it was really
interesting is I don't I was talking to
some other it must have been a streamer
YouTuber guy or something and I think we
were both like in our late 20s and I
save a lot of my money just not even
because I'm a good sa I just don't spend
much because I don't need much um and
this guy blew through his money like
crazy and I just remember asking I was
like are you not worried that like once
this whole streaming [ __ ] ends or
whatever that when you're like 40 or 50
you're going to be like completely
bankrupt and the guy was like uh I
probably will be I'm probably going to
run out of money yeah probably like a
decade or two or whatever or earlier and
I'm like okay is that not like worrisome
to and he's like well why the [ __ ] would
I want to have fun in my 40s and 50s
when I could have fun right now in my
20s and I wanted to say like what a
stupid thing to say and I actually had
no response to that whatsoever so I
don't know I think there's like good
arguments on both sides if you want to
do that grind away and you know the fire
stuff and be financially independent
retired by 3540 that's cool but I mean
your 20s and your 30s and hopefully your
40s like these are unique fun cool times
in your life and if you grind all of
that away like working like crazy I
don't know is it really worth it I'm not
sure I think it' be up to an individual
to decide that yeah what do you guys
fall on that my experience has been it's
it's been 100% worth it like for me my
20s from 18 to what cuz he finds
enjoyment and purpose in work yeah cuz
I'm doing fire I can retire right now
but I'm not I'm not like a I'm grinding
away in my life I love my job every
[ __ ] day I love my but if I was like
trying to go for a partner at a law firm
or if I was like doing you know Hospital
related stuff or if I was like just
grinding hard small business like
working every single part every single
day and I really hated my life but I got
to make it to 35 or 40 to retire I think
that's fundamentally different I don't
know I just feel like there's nothing in
my 20s that I couldn't do in my 30s here
are the things that would scare me is it
one is health related stuff could crop
up still a minority but like in your 30s
you're more likely to run into some
stupid like chronic pain or some like
chronic condition or whatever that
starts to inhibit your ability to have
fun a little bit that would be scary
minority people not a big deal but the
second thing I think would be your in
congruency with other people in life and
I think that would [ __ ] you up the most
be my guess so for instance if you're in
your 20s and everybody else in their 20s
and you're all kind of like having fun
and goofing off and being a little
irresponsible you all get to do that
together and then when you get to your
30s you're all kind of like getting more
mature and then you get to do that
together I think it would be kind of
weird if you're like 33 I'm 33 $2 and5
million okay in my investment account I
feel really good in life I think I want
to like slow down and chill right now
and then I look at my friends and
they're like well we just had our second
kids we just got another Mortgage in the
house life is really stressful right now
we had all of our fun 10 years ago it's
time to grow the [ __ ] up okay Graham
we're busy we're trying to live life now
and you're like okay well I want to have
fun now I wonder yeah how do you would
you ever worry about that or how want to
be the 130y old in
AIA yeah all the college kids yeah then
you go to the college parties then you
go okay yeah I I agree 100% with you I
think like I always question why am I
working so hard at least on the things I
don't enjoy I'm very much the same as
like both of you where there's a large
portion of my work where I absolutely
love it there's a very small portion of
my work where I'm like okay I really
like it stresses me out it's like the
8020 thing um and I question myself why
am I working so hard for this to make
money what do I want the money for to be
able to live a life that I could
currently probably be living like
playing pickle ball a couple nights a
week like hanging out with my friends
playing poker and stuff like that that's
the type of stuff I enjoy and I don't
want to sacrifice that now because I'm
just working so hard to be able to
eventually do that down the line yeah I
find that you find people who you're in
the same spot in life with though like
you mentioned that uh you know people
are settling down having kids not being
in the same spot but from my experience
and this could just be through YouTube
that it's less about a person's age and
more about like what they're doing with
their time right now so I gravitate
towards the people that are in the same
place as me in life regardless of if
they're 22 or they're 62 yeah and I mean
you can do that if you don't mind that
but for more conventional work I don't
know how people would feel because I
agree like the average age of the person
that was like coming through my stream
and [ __ ] is like [ __ ] like 24 or
something these people are all chill how
old are you guys
33 33 335 oh yeah you're a kid okay I
can barely even send a look at you okay
Jesus um but yeah no like everybody's
like super young so it's
um I don't know like if you were in
conventional work grinding away like
that if you could very easily be like 33
35 have a lot of money and then go and
find a bunch of like 20 to 25 year olds
who are kind of like ready to like chill
and you know hang out and have fun I
think it would be kind of off yeah yeah
I found a lot of older people who are in
The Chill mode like and older people I
mean in like their 40s but uh it seems
as though no matter where you are in
life you could find other people who
have the same interests and are in the
same spot as you that you could relate
to sure here's like another question I
would have two two other things um one
relates to like dieting okay so I think
that when it comes to like putting
together a good diet if you're like if
that's something you're trying to do I
think rather than having like the pain
horrible Agony diet for a few months or
like a diet we have to have cheat days
like find ways to make a healthy diet
that's like fun um but healthy like
that's easily doable right get rid of
like super processed foods like the
ultra high carb [ __ ] um the super sugar
like just like really dumb [ __ ] like
that um and and you can generally put
together a diet that is like it's fun
but like it it's healthy and you have
like all of your needs kind of met I
feel like the fire stuff is similar like
is it not possible to work and spend in
a way that's like responsible in terms
of your finances but is like you're
still working hard but you can also like
have fun wouldn't that be like a better
way to go through life rather than to
frontload all of your stuff and then
hope to reap the rewards but then you
make a balance between do I save 50% do
I save 30% 20% 15 if I if I say 15% I
have to work an extra 20 years that you
just find a trade sure because my second
question would be for you um for you two
especially you do you think you'll ever
do you think you would ever actually
retire early maybe you think so I do
okay yeah but like the Pod I keep going
back to this the podcast is something
for me I could do for a very long time
the main Channel probably give that up
at some point okay uh travel I would
love to do I'd probably I like tinkering
on things are like collecting things are
like Hobbies I think you really enjoy
the podcast right now and if the podcast
were to die out and you decided to quit
your main Channel eventually you'd get
this urge again like I think most people
do where you're just like okay I want to
start working on something and that's
just it you just currently only have the
podcast right and back in the day you
probably thought I could do this main
Channel thing for a really long time no
I knew I knew immediately immediately
that you'd have to stop oh yeah oh yeah
that that's why I was so careful about
saving it all because I just thought
this is not going to last forever
because I've been watching YouTube since
like 2009 and I see the lifespan of
creators like YouTube has been my TV
since then and I see okay creators got
big the last maybe two three years I was
going to say yeah three five years is
like your upper limit for the average
exactly so and then I saw some creators
are having more longevity so I thought
immediately going into it best case 5 to
seven years and that's like if
everything goes right five to seven
years what about real estate agenting
did you feel like you could do that
forever um I didn't want to so but I
loved it I loved doing it but I didn't I
hated having to for not like I hated
needing a sale to happen so I hated the
going into it being like if this deal
doesn't close it's going to ruin my day
and like you know I'm not going to be
able to save it I hated doing that so
every deal I closed it was like okay I'm
going to pretend like this is the last
money I'm ever going to make and how
could I make this last for as long as
possible and that was my reason for
saving that makes sense I think I I
agree with you you guys just draw the
line differently on the spectrum of okay
how much you supposed to work how much
you supposed to save and play and have
fun like the the type of people that I
feel would be driven to do that fire
stuff I feel like are the type of people
that wouldn't be happy to be like ah 35
I'm done with everything time to chill
but I could be wrong like if people
always be driven to do I go on the
financial independent subreddits all the
time and it does seem like it's split
evenly in the middle there's some people
who have these hobbies and they quit
their job and they retire to something
and there's other people who have just
always been working and then they quit
because they can and then they're
aimless and depressed and they have no
idea what they're doing and they're sad
and they just go back to work I I really
it seems like a 5050 split depending on
the type of person is there anything
else that Financial YouTubers are
talking about that you don't like um I
feel like the basics should always be
stressed so your IRA contribution should
probably be maxed out if you're trying
to save uh 401K matches absolutely are
what you're going for um and then uh if
you're trying to figure out like
whenever people are trying to figure out
like living expenses people focus on
income I think sometimes more than
outflow like making a budget is probably
one of the most important things you can
ever do when you're trying to control
for financial anything if you don't know
where your money is going um and then
otherwise just like boring so it seems
like we're on the same because that's
exactly what I talk about so it seems
like when we're talking about like
Financial people you're more so
referencing the hustle culture the
hustle culture crypto all that [ __ ]
[ __ ] those are those are two entirely
different segments of like Finance
YouTube yeah gotcha like the Gary ve
sort of you know work work work okay um
I wanted to ask you this if you think
there should be because we're talking
about spending money Progressive
penalties in terms of yeah I love so
this this came up when I saw in another
country someone got it yeah was it the
$80,000 speeding ticket think yeah it
was either Norway or Finland I think I
think it was Norway yeah how much money
did they have it was based on an income
of like $10 million a year like 20
million a year yeah [ __ ] them and so but
but apparently it was only going like 8
miles an hour over the limit or
something like that but that was the 80
grand so I heard you talking about
before if someone goes and gets a
speeding ticket here in the United
States 500 bucks for someone who's
working minimum wage that'll screw them
up for like maybe half a year and their
insurance rates will go up it could be a
devastating thing for someone with money
the $500 speeding ticket is just you're
going to basically rip it up give it to
a a lawyer I haven't got a speed in a
long time are they 500 on average now uh
I got one recently how fast are you
going I was going allegedly
allegedly allegedly they said I was
going I was in a 65 going faster than 60
no no gosh no no no it was not no
allegedly 100 no no it wasn't that much
over the limit allegedly it was a 65 it
was take going to 79 didn't he it was it
was something stupid it was something
stupid but anyway what state am I right
are we in we're not in California we're
in Nevada $500 damn no it wasn't 500
that that one was like 370 bucks oh okay
but then you also have to think of you
know if if you opt for traffic school
then that's another 80 bucks on top of
that all these little things that add up
you know could it could be close to $500
okay so you like Progressive penalties
yeah I did too I've never heard about
that until when we were going over our
questions before you came over and I
think that's actually it makes a lot of
sense I think it's weird that you can
pay to like not have [ __ ] bother you it
seems kind of strange like criminal
stuff yeah I feel like for for the legal
system honestly people that use the
legal system as a weapon against other
people especially if you're like
punching downwards I feel like you
should suffer in the same way that other
people are suffering well the legal
system is highly flawed because if if
you're somebody with money you could
basically write out any lawsuit and you
could allege anything you want to and
the other person has to pay to fight it
I mean kind of I mean there's vexa
litigation if you've got a good law team
you can get stuff like you can do
motions for summary judgment and say
that this is a [ __ ] court case there
are some protections against that how
much is it going to cost to get to that
point 20 grand 15 grand depending on the
case that's a heavy retainer for
depending on the type of case but I mean
like hopefully five grand or less but I
mean I agree that like yeah the legal
system can be weighted in favor of like
more wealthy people for sure absolutely
that's undeniable yeah yeah it's just
not as hopeless as people make it out to
be but yeah I think it's kind of weird
that criminal stuff especially can be
reliant on your financial means in terms
of your engagement with the system and
How likely you are to come out good on
the other end that's not cool it's
really about hiring I guess the best
lawyer that you can yeah who just argues
better than the other lawyer we had a
divorce lawyer on who was talking about
how he wins cases against other
inexperienced lawyers just because he's
so much better and the people that could
afford to hire him know that he has a
higher success rate because of that mhm
you're going through a divorce right now
I'm done with my divorce you're done
with a divorce right now I I heard
divorces could take a very long time no
contest divorce like two weeks really
you just sign the papers and send them
to a judge and they look at it and they
give you a judgment you're done yeah and
you had a prenup
no a short marriage it was like less
than five years so so what does that
mean if it's a short marriage versus a
long marriage uh longer marriage there's
going to be a stronger case to be made
for alimony um but it also depends on if
the earning potentials of your partner
was hurt so if they stopped working or
if you've got children or shared assets
or anything like that yeah you were in
an open marriage which means each
partner can sleep with other people and
have these like kind of micro
relationships with other people a lot of
people were speculating that it would
eventually fail what is your response to
those people that say what did you think
was going to happen I mean most
relationships fail I had four monogamous
ones before this open one and they all
failed that is true most Rel I guess the
difference was that you weren't married
to those married my high school
girlfriend yeah okay it was yeah got
me so I mean most relationships fa the
next Rel I mean I can make a prediction
the next relationship will definitely be
an open relationship because it's
probably the only sty I would do and
that one will probably fail as well I
just statistically speaking like it will
probably happen were there but were
there signs that it was going in this
direction um ahead of time yeah for sure
but there were just things had to learn
about myself then I yeah what you have
to learn about yourself um I think
because of the way that I grew up I'm
very much a uh like I have to do
everything and I'm like very very very
independent and I always thought that
was a really good character trait and I
think it is for like business stuff but
I think for relationships I think it's
really bad because you tend to take um
uh rather than ever assigning any
responsibility or blame to my partner I
would just assume that I need to figure
out everything for myself and then I'm
also like very not reliant on my partner
for anything which I I also thought was
like a benefit but it's not it just
makes the other person feel like
unwanted or unneeded go into that a
little bit more because I'm I don't want
to say I'm similar but I'm very much the
same way where if something happens I
deep down I Look to myself and I'm like
how could I have handled that because
because you can't dictate what another
person's going to respond with or do and
I I look at that like how could I
improve myself where did I go wrong yeah
and I like to think of myself as like
very independent and I don't want to
like throw too much on my partner so I
think the issue here is um every single
piece of advice I'm about to give uh a
lot of the people that say this are
actually the most energy vampiric
subhuman piece of [ __ ] bucks in the
world so it's hard um it's like that
whenever you see somebody tweet like oh
like everybody around me always needs so
much and I wish somebody would just like
take care of me for once 99% of the time
that's an energy [ __ ] vampire okay
who actually is the most like energy
consuming sucking person that doesn't
help anybody else out except for when I
can benefit them blah blah blah blah so
takech me I say with a grain of salt
maybe I am that person um basically uh I
would get into conflict where it felt
like my partner was able to justify
every bad action that did on my prior
bad actions and I had done bad things
like I'm not perfect I do [ __ ] up I make
mistakes um but every time they made a
mistake it was because of mistakes that
I'd made and in my mind I'm like okay
well [ __ ] like well what can I do to
change this in the future like can I do
this or can I change this or can I do
that and every time there was a fault
that was my fault like I like it's my
fault and I'll do what I can for it um
and then I'll see what behaviors I can
change but I never could like tell my
partner like hey can you not do this or
can you make this change or can you stop
this Behavior because then it was like
the end of the world so but that was I
set that Dynamic up because I'd gone
through the whole relationship never
being able to like make any asks for
anything in terms of behavior from the
other person and it kind of yeah not was
not good I think yeah got it so in a new
relationship you're going to be more
outspoken yeah I just have a hard time
asking for things from people I kind of
just like Meme and joke even
professionally sometimes I've gotten
better at it recently the past like two
years especially but I'll kind of like
if somebody's making me uncomfortable I
usually just like meme or joke it off or
it's whatever until they reach a
Breaking Point and then I cut them out
of my life completely and for a people
that's really confusing because they're
like okay well hold on how did I just
get cut out completely I didn't know I
was even bothering you and it's like
well and then I'll say something well
come on you should have known this is
obvious but then when I think about it
it's actually not obvious because I
laugh and meme everything off so it's
like people don't actually know did this
come out of the blue for you um no I
don't think so no no no is there
anything you would have done differently
leading up to the situation that
happened um like getting divorced no I'm
talking about maybe you you could have
done something prior to then that maybe
would have had a different outcome or
you could have saved something I think
my general behavior in the relationship
of not like putting like very um not
being able to make asks for things or
accepting or tolerating certain types of
behavior um that I were are probably not
okay I guess so like having like there I
need somebody that shares my values in
terms of what's important and what's not
important in a relationship I guess yeah
and if somebody doesn't share those same
values so for instance like trashing
your partner to another person to
another friend that's something that I
traditionally would never do that and I
need somebody that like is aligned on
that if I let somebody else do that and
I'm like well they view things
differently than I do whatever that's
probably not a good thing I think yeah
okay you seem to be very matter of fact
about it how did it affect you
personally or emotionally going through
S something like this was it really
challenging because it it's kind of
weird hearing you talk about it in such
a I would say nonchalant way yeah my
emotional Baseline is just really really
really high so as long as I'm not like
my life isn't [ __ ] if I go to sleep I
wake up I'm usually a little bit better
you know every day and I just kind of
yeah keep going I got do you ever wish
you had more emotional variants
M I don't think so maybe I'm not sure
I've talked to a few people Dr k a
couple other people about that I don't
know sometimes I wonder if I miss some
things in life because my emotional
variance maybe isn't that high but I
don't think so I think I'm doing fine
because being super sad MH can be a
really pleasant experience oddly enough
because you can find the Beauty and the
sadness maybe I mean it's all part of
the experience [ __ ] that no I don't you
don't think so at all [ __ ] that no it
doesn't sound like fun to me interesting
um like watching a sad movie yeah that's
definitely I would say that's kind of
like a proxy for what I'm saying okay
then I do Sadness by proxy then okay
interesting well I I respect the the
emotional Baseline do you think that
most people have more control over their
emotions than what they think probably
not most people probably have less
control over their emotions than they
think that's Pro that's true for me I
think there are times where I'll just be
a [ __ ] dick and I'm just being just
not a not a fun person to be and then
I'll like eat a meal and after I eat I'm
like oh [ __ ] I think I was hungry for
like the past 6 hours cuz I feel so much
better now I'll go back to my chat and
unban like six people that I banned I
was just like in a [ __ ] whatever mood
so yeah I I think that most people's
moods or Vibes are impacting their
emotional state more than they realize
sometimes the chemical reactions going
on in their whatever's happening there
that's really interesting I I'm more of
a proponent of like I think people can
force feeling whatever way nearly at
every given situation obviously there
are certain um random statistical
anomaly like bad stuff will happen and
you'll feel sad but I think for the most
part like if you feel yourself being
very impatient with something you just
have to like have an instant of
gratitude and you can force yourself
feeling more positive about it I don't
100% disagree I would qualify it a
little bit like you can have like
feelings and then responses to those
feelings and if you enact like certain
behaviors or if you try to have like
certain thoughts and response to
feelings you can slowly change the
feelings I think like that yeah there's
like a feedback loop there that if
anytime you feel this way about a
particular person or thing you just
think like okay maybe this isn't the
best way I need to do this a little bit
differently if you do that that process
I think over time can change your
thoughts yeah was there any Financial
impact of having a divorce um
no just good I just have to worry about
myself now I would say interesting so it
wasn't like expensive you didn't have to
pay out anything I think I paid like
$2,000 for attorney and all the filing
fees or whatever yeah that's really
fascinating was it no contest divorce I
mean it's super cheap yeah you hear a
lot of people say oh you're going to
lose half yeah most people are [ __ ]
[ __ ] why would you should never lose
losing half implies a whole bunch of
first of all only 10% of marriages the
end of them even involve alimony um
division of assets is probably a good
thing you should be dividing assets you
probably should be losing because you're
losing half your partnership that you
used to acquire those assets right if
you're a man and you work and the only
reason you were able to afford that
house because a wife stayed home and
took care of kids then yeah of course
she should be entitled to something like
she sacrificed her entire career and
enabled you and empowered you to go and
work that job I mean I think you should
yeah do you regret having a relationship
so public no everything in my life is
public and would you get married again
um I don't know I'm not like a big
marriage guy we got married because she
needed the green card to live in the US
because I don't want to have a
longdistance relationship that sucks so
yeah but I'm not like a huge marriage
dude and hopefully I don't have any more
European Brides so you know and you
think the next relationships that you
get into will be open almost for sure
yeah almost for sure yeah I still can't
help believe what I mentioned the first
time you came on the show which was I
feel like the standards for levels of
Attraction and love and intimacy are
just lower for the people that have open
relationships because I can't imagine
myself I haven't been this way my entire
life I don't plan on being this way for
the rest of my life where you know I
find somebody and I'm happy to share
this person with a bunch of other people
like I feel like I just kind of want
them for myself and I want them to want
me for thems okay what do you think
about this sound super boring I don't
even think about like want this person
to want me for themselves it's like not
like when I'm with somebody I'm never
thinking like intimately like God I'm so
happy that she just wants me and not
anybody else she not like a thing that's
every in my head the reason you're not
even feeling that in the first place
it's like these deep emotional feelings
about somebody else that's what I'm
saying there's like a deeper level of
intimacy or connection what does that
have to do with whether or not they're
with somebody else when they're not with
you I think what Jack's trying to say is
if you had like maybe a deeper
connection or I'm saying like I think
that the connections are slightly more
shallow in open relationships because of
what is okay for for to happen in a
relationship okay I mean I could just
say I think the connections in
monogamous relationships are way more
shallow because if that person is with
anybody else all of a sudden everything
you feel about that person is like now
held at
risk I don't think necessarily shallow
or less shallow think just different
people different approaches to
relationships I guess I don't know do
you love your child less if you have a
second one I don't think that that's
necessarily the same thing I didn't say
it's the same thing I'm just saying that
like when when I when I'm with somebody
if I really love somebody there's a lot
of things that I'm thinking about for
why I love this person it might be the
way that we spend time together uh it
might be some level of like physical
attraction it might be some level of
like sexual and romantic chemistry it
might be like their sense of humor their
ambition it might be like personality
traits it might be Hobbies or things we
do together but it's never my life is it
like I'm so happy that they're not going
to be with somebody else when we stop
hanging out that's just not like a thing
that I think about much H and if it and
if we were just together and we weren't
hanging with anyone else I don't know
why that would makeing me like them
anymore or I would care anymore about
that right I I would say it's mo more so
like the sacrifice that each person
makes to the other person why would I
want them to sacrifice that because I
think it's a part of the of the
relationship I that sounds horrible why
would I like what if I what have I found
out that my partner every morning for 30
minutes like stuck like needles into
their nipples and like every day like
God I'm so happy you did that sacrifice
like why would I want them to sacrifice
I don't know what I don't think
sacrifice is good in and up I think it's
the idea of putting someone else else
above yourself so I think in most
relationships will say you'll both make
sacrifices to be in that relationship
and if you give a little you take a
little it shows that you value the other
person yeah but the goal should always
be to minimize the sacrifice I don't
want my partner sacrificing more than
they need to right like if I'm sick I'd
want them to take care of me but I don't
want them to like clean up like all my
[ __ ] around my apartment because I'm a
child and I can't do anything for me
right like whatever sacrifice we're
making should be in service to something
that we feel is important if you think
monogamy is important or sexual
exclusivity is important then the
sacrifice is yeah I think good or
respectable but if you don't care about
that then why I don't know I wouldn't
like sacrifice isn't good just because
it's sacrifice right like I could go
right now into traffic and sacrifice
myself and die and you'd be like what
the [ __ ] did you it's like shouldn't you
be grateful i s for your podcast I
sacrifice myself for the podcast it's
like you didn't actually help with
anything you didn't do anything yeah
okay I suppose for me I just think like
if I'm in a relationship with someone I
want them constantly choosing me over
anybody else so technically that would
be an open marriage but they're just not
executing on the openness of the
marriage you know I think any
relationship is technically open because
you could just go and leave if you
really wanted to but then you end the
relation everything as an open Rel but
then you end the but at the sacrifice of
ending the relationship sure I think I
think there's some level of people
wanting to feel like they're the number
one choice in every regard for their
partner they might want to have that
feeling so the exclusivity is really
important because it reinforces that
yeah where do you think morals come from
probably the same thing as the political
beliefs we inherit them from our social
groups basically the social groups mhm
so if you're born into a Christian
Islamic uh you know American family like
your morals are going to suspiciously
resemble basically all the people around
you probably because that's what you got
them from yeah so when did you start
adopting your current philosophical and
moral beliefs was that influenced by
your environment um probably so I grew
up like very Catholic went to a Catholic
school until I graduated high school um
around 1516 I started to kind of like
pivot towards atheism and when I became
atheist I started to read a lot of or I
read two books by Ein Rand and I noticed
afterwards that I was like full on like
this is the smartest person ever I'm
like a card carrying objectivist like
this is the best thing ever I love this
so much and then I realized after like
six months I was like okay well hold on
I just ditched my religion and then I
read one author and the first author
that I read I happen to agree with every
single thing they said and I want to
follow her to the ends of the Earth I'm
probably just a stupid kid I'm probably
just like believing whatever the [ __ ]
stuff I read so I need to like take a
step back I need to not let other people
like influence me so much I need to
figure out like on a fundamental core
level like what's important to me and
then once I'm kind of like IR out these
fundamental core beliefs then I can from
there start to like extrapolate these
into the political world around me
basically yeah or the social world
around me I guess yeah so I try to be
relatively independent but I mean
invariably I'm going to be influenced by
Whatever video games I'm playing movies
or anime or TV shows I'm watching or the
people around me the country in and
everything as well right like there's no
way that it's just by chance I happen to
be like an institutionally support
uh Social Democrat who believes in
liberalism and free market capitalism
and also a you know a person that lives
in the United States of America so I
mean we spent the last three months
carefully crafting this this right here
is a tier list of political commentators
and we want you to fill it out okay TI
list how like who gives the most
insightful political commentary who's
the funniest who's the most Rec overall
your thoughts about this person okay
yeah so it could be accuracy comedy
everything good faith bad faith Etc oh
yeah do you want to pull that closer you
could just pull the computer closer yeah
that's
fine Alex
Jones We've Got deplorable behavior for
Sandy Hook uh factually inaccurate all
over the place um you know allaround
horrible contributor to misinformation
also pretty [ __ ] funny pretty memi I
would say he's like a uh a to S tier in
terms of Comedy uh he gave us the Kanye
West interviews with that black Hood and
the um neton Yahoo stupid thing so all
in all I'll put him in a seat here I'll
balance him out there okay was a big
judgment against him for that Sandy Hook
stuff
so um is that Anna casparian yes um
fiery political personality uh on The
Young Turks though a little bit far left
for me um tries to do her best I give
her props for that I'll stick her up
here on the B tier
yeah AOC Progressive way to the left of
me don't appreciate that but she's grown
a lot as a uh uh lawmaker it's a
congress person she's working better in
office tries to reach out to young
people I can appreciate that except for
the podcast but well you know one day
please come on our show how many Subs
did you have when you tried then many
times we we're still how many
subscribers did you have when you tried
last uh 100,000 yeah something like that
do you now 950,000 get to a million and
then maybe she'll think okay okay yeah I
I think everyone subscribe please if you
want podcast subscribe thank you for
telling them to subscribe Des Andrew
Yang too um you should be able to get
Yang on now we Tred to really damn uh
Ben Shapiro you know largest
right-leaning I think probably one of
the most popular right leaning people in
the United States right now if not the
most M um unless Tucker is still beating
up with older people um you know but
again massive political disagreements he
tries to be fact based but these are my
political enemies can I really put a
political enemy higher than a c tier I'm
not sure you could if I think I think
you could if you if you highly respect
them no don't put that on me don't put
that but you put him on the same tier as
Alex Jones do you really feel that way
well think about it okay Ben Shapiro is
more factual than Alex Jones which he
got downrated heavily for but Alex Jones
is a lot more entertaining than Ben
Shapiro and Ben Shapiro doesn't really
have like that hilarious entertainment
Factor right like Alex Jones does number
one chart rap song okay well if it was
Ben and Tom McDonald you know what his
uh review of the Barbie movie was
fantastic was it yeah I might have
watched that I don't remember okay we
don't need to influence him no that's
fair Bernie Sanders you know Progressive
he tried his best he got young people
energized a little bit but his whole
campaign fell apart and he didn't really
do a good job at picking people that
weren't extreme radicals and You' got
crazies like Briana Joy gray and
everybody after I'm gonna put him on the
seat tier but he tried is that the best
president in my entire lifetime in the
United States my God inflation reduction
act the chips Act act the heroes act
bipartisan infrastructure legislation uh
pulled us out of Afghanistan thank God
got us out of the uh Saudi anti- Yemen
Coalition uh managed to uh reduce our
troop commitments in places like Syria
and uh Iraq uh is responsibly handling
Ukraine oh my God just how what's not to
like about this guy but he's getting a
little scile I'll put him on the S tier
okay wow love this guy great president
uh you know what Jen similar to Alex
Jones I like him a lot uh cuz he you
know I might put him down here cuz Alex
is a bit funnier but he's also he's on
my political side a little bit more and
he comes on my show so he gets big
points for that so I'll put him right
here for the C here Chris is a really
good guy I think he's pretty um
entertaining uh I think I agree with
most of the stuff he says I don't think
I've ever heard him disagree I don't
think we've had disagreements before but
also I don't know where he stands
politically oh thank you um I'll I'll
put him here on the a tier he seems like
a I've I don't think I've ever heard
anything bad about him or seen anything
anything bad about him ever no yeah not
that I'm aware of actually is kind of
suspicious
what we have a good yeah good yeah it's
my hair blurry um Steven Crowder uh F
tier uh constantly doesn't talk to me uh
is mean to his wife on video camera uh
tried to blow up the daily wire failed
miserably uh on that stupid contract
[ __ ] um what go I'm just I'm just doing
this so we have a better face cam
superimpose the face okay fine whatever
yeah [ __ ] Steven Crowder far right dumb
everything he does um who's this guy I
can't see who's that Jack Don Lemon oh
CNN um I don't have strong feelings but
he CNN I'll put him on the C tier [ __ ]
it Elon
Musk it's just all of his political
takes are horrible uh he did get me
unbanned no not personally but I was
unbanned from Twitter so so he gets
bumped with the deer for that why were
you banned on
Twitter it's it depends on which account
you're talking about I don't no um let's
just let's just try to get this a little
bit so your face okay fine um who's this
guy Gavin Nome oh Jesus why are these
pictures so
small we had we had to make it small to
have it all fit uh I just watched gam do
a couple debates and speeches you know
we agree I think on some things I don't
know much about the substance of his
beliefs I do know that I lived in
California and there were a lot of
homeless people and a lot of taxes and I
think those two things should never go
together so um but he was really good on
camera I'll stick him here on the B tier
okay
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um who is that who is
that oh that's Hassan perer oh Hassan
[ __ ] uh supports terrorists uh
champagne socialist uh just bad
political takes on everything can't read
more than a Twitter thread I mean
what do I what is to like if I can make
a lower tier I would Jesse Lee Peterson
uh he's funny but also perpetually
sounds like a stroke victim and has some
crazy beliefs I'll put him down here
with Elon on the D tier these guys would
be good friends in real life I'm
sure uh is that Joe Rogan yes um big
perve of misinformation but at least he
brings a lot of people together to talk
uh and he's reasonably entertaining oh
I'll stick him on the C tier I guess is
he really going on the same tier as Don
Lemon uh H we'll bump we'll bump Don
up uh you know what John Oliver I think
he's still the left of me but I don't
really hear him [ __ ] up ever I think
last week tonight it's generally a
pretty good show I don't think I've ever
heard them listen I watched their Israel
Palestine stuff and I thought it was
actually like pretty good which says a
lot in this environment so you know I'll
put him on the a tier yeah appreciate
him Jordan Peterson you know he talked
to me so he get big points for that but
um man he I just feel like he's off the
deep end right now with the all the
crazy stuff you believe so I'm going to
put him on the CER as well KLA Harris I
don't know what she does she's the vice
president I feel like I've never hear
anything from her ever she's visit
visited the Border once cool isn't she
that's her Department of the vice
president is to visit the Border over
and over again I think it was some other
title that she had I don't know I saw on
some stupid Twitter thread Charlie Kirk
is an idiot uh and a loser uh and
believes horrible things politically so
he can go down there
um who is that Lex Lex Lex Lex hello uh
sets up amazing conversations uh has
helped me talk to people that I had
never thought I'd be able to talk to
before like Ben Shapiro and then
hopefully other people at the end of
this month uh you know tries to bring
people together uh is a little bit you
know too nice to everybody sometimes but
yeah I'm he's up here he's my S here
he's fighting for a buddy of the year
right now in my stream okay so good job
is that
vosch oh
uh yeah Jesus Christ man daily wire
talent that is not uh benjiro is in a
pretty rough State I would say uh and
here's another one of them
yep uh yikes nulls right yeah
just it's just like whatever you can say
to like bash people on the left that's
like what these two do all the time and
I'm pretty sure these guys have both
collectively spent like more of their
career talking about how much they hate
trans people than literally every other
subject combined which is just really
wacky to me is that Fuentes mhm okay
well I will I'm going to bump Fuentes up
to a d tier um I do like that um FES
followed the exact career destructive
Arc that I said he would go on where he
threw away the entirety of what he was
building so that he could go hang out
with uh Kanye West for a little bit and
then ruin the entire rest of his
political future and that was just very
[ __ ] funny to me and I like the fact
that I got to sit back and laugh and
enjoy all of that and it makes me funny
when I see him and his griper fans beg
me to go on and talk to him over and
over again because they know the only
shred of relevancy they will ever have
for the remainder of their political
existence if I give them any so I'll
give them a d tier for making me feel
good about myself David
Pacman one of the few people on the left
that I feel like isn't completely and
totally partisan brain rot to one side
uh we disagree on some things but I
think he tries pretty hard and he puts
out a lot of content he does a good job
I'll put him up here a
tier um Patrick B
David well I want to go on their show so
I'll put him up on the C tier for
now um these guys have a lot of crazy
people on I feel like they are very
bought into the anti-establishment
conspiracy crazy stuff uh and I feel
like I hear that a lot but um we'll
stick him there for now who's this guy
RFK oh
god um just crazy wacky conspiracy guy
almost no redeeming qualities whatsoever
and every time I listen to him talk I
want to clear my throat like 20 times um
it's crazy oh God Russell BR yeah uh
Jesus yeah my God like take like Joe
Rogan and just make him worse in every
single way and that's Russell brand
basically um less funny less just just
everything less intelligent less and he
has a British accent to just like Jesus
how many more ways can you go wrong is
this Trudeau mhm um man Canadians hate
this guy and I don't like Canadians so
he gets a bump for that in my book um I
I'll stick him on
the C tier B tier he can't go next PVD
I'll put him up on the B tier because
we're like you know we're both L leaning
and you know he's a young guy he beat
Trump at the handshake game so he gets
points for that
um yeah he he'll make be tier for
me uh Donald Trump uh normally I'd give
him normally I would give him an F tier
because we disagree on almost every
single thing um that could possibly be
disagreed upon but D tier because he
helps my career a lot because it's fun
talking about making money off him but F
tier because he's a treasonous [ __ ]
piece of [ __ ] and I hope he rods forever
in prison uh Tucker Carlson I hope he RS
right alongside Trum uh treeson his
people that bet betray this country and
give Aid and comfort to enemies of the
United States like what Tucker is doing
right now is he interviews Putin and
goes on the biggest easiest softball
suckoff interview his entire [ __ ]
life I know that's coming out [ __ ] this
guy um and he lied to the American
people knowingly he said he was lying he
doesn't like Sydney pal he thought all
of his theories were [ __ ] insane and
he's literally texting talking about how
he hates that she won't actually verify
anything they're saying but still
supported all of it on Fox News um [ __ ]
him um vosch here uh where's Assan at
f f okay well Vos gets one tier above
Hanan because he's a little bit smarter
than Hassan um but that actually that
means he should know better and he shits
on me and he says so many incorrect
things actually you know what he's an
fer F tier for lazy he doesn't hustle
enough his channel should be bigger but
it's not because he's lazy and he's
complacent and he's making his million
so he doesn't care [ __ ] that guy VC I
don't think he offered anything of value
he was just like a little uh basically a
darker version of trump uh who was like
less successful and less in every single
conceivable way [ __ ] thec and
xqc uh god tier political commentator uh
obviously a frequent call into the
destiny stream believes in all the best
things antagonizes the [ __ ] out of
people that I don't like like H son so
you know he makes the S here as
well you didn't put anyone in The
Amazing tier amazing no that guy's
crazy he's actually crazy now looking at
this yeah do you still agree that all of
those like you can see you know Steven
Crowder's on the same level as TR Kirk
as M Walsh as RFK as Russell Brand As
Trump as Tucker Carlson as v v vou that
all seems
accurate when when you're now able to
compare each person to the people
they're beside well you're also I'm half
meming on some of this but um yeah I
mean like a lot of these guys are
purveyors of huge like swalls of
misinformation I really don't like that
it's one of the things that drives me
the craziest um and then the obsession
over Weir like culture wars issues I
also think is like cringe bro I was so
bored of talking about trans [ __ ] for
like all of 2023 it was so [ __ ]
boring my God kill
me and I feel like nulles and um Walsh
especially were like obsessed with that
for a long time
yeah all right cool that was really fun
to watch thank you thank you Destiny for
coming on the show appr is there
anything else you want to mention
um no I don't think so thanks for having
me it's been fun to chat thank you we're
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destiny we really appreciate it thank
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