Desperate Lovers on The Rise!

Hey, hey, Tony Gaskins here popping in. Now, not sure how long I have on this here, but wanted to touch on this topic because I saw, you know, one of y'all asked me where it it was a few of y'all asked me to speak on a situation. I believe it was a person, if I'm not mistaken, the name is Miracle Watts, but I could be saying the name wrong. And then I saw where somebody posted that she responded seemingly and the response they posted look like where maybe she said, and this could be all fake, but she said something like marriage means till death do you part or something like that, like the vows are forever type of thing. And not sure if that was accurate or not, but just want to use that as an example in general because, you know, that's on the back of a lot of women having come out publicly and saying that every man cheats and that they are okay with their man cheating as long as he cheats respectfully. And it's been a lot of women who are conventionally beautiful women saying that they're okay with their man cheating. And then I saw some post which I I feel like it has to be satire, but if it is satire, the women deserve an Oscar because they they look very convincing in the video. But I've been seeing women sitting sitting in the front seat of their car and they're doing videos that and they're saying on the video, "Listen, B, you gonna have to shout that mfing man. You gonna have to share that man. I don't care that he got a wife. I don't care that he got kids. He both our man. You gonna have to shout that man." And I'm like, "Wow." Like, like, is this just like a audio thing they trying to get to go viral? Is this real? But it looked real but it seemed fake because I'm like it can't be real now. Like she can't be saying that. But I do know that it is a real a very real thing. I've worked with a lot of women who are the other woman. They they are with a man and the man has a girlfriend, fiance or a wife and a lot of the women I I I always tell a woman if you are the other woman you are living like dumpster juice like that that juice that be at the bottom that that that liquid that be at the bottom of your trash can outside. That's how you have reduced yourself to dumpster juice. But ironically, a lot of the women who are the other woman, they are normal women. I I I struggle to say respectable women because a respectable woman would never be the other woman. But I don't want to disrespect them or say like they the scum of the earth. They probably need to be in the the purpose art seminar on November 28th in Tampa, Florida where you could sign up on tonygassacademy.com that you see at the bottom right there identifying your purpose. But it's a like a lot of the women they look regular, talk regular, sound regular, act regular. like they not on like they don't seem like special needs or or mentally ill or anything like that and they've come to terms with being the other woman. And then some women glamorize being the other woman saying like that they have their own space. They don't have to be up under nobody. They get the best of the man. He bring the good deed. He bring the good attitude. He bring money, presence, security, whatever it is. And like they just get to have like the fantasy. They get to have the romance. They get to have and I think in that space those women appreciate the sex a lot better. It never gets boring and because it's always that element of you doing what you should not be doing. So you rushing, you, you know, having fun with it, you doing the forbidden. It's like you biting off that forbidden fruit every time that y'all sleeping together. And I think that's part of the rush, part of the thrill. And then being a secret. Misery loves company. And I think a lot of women and men who are the other woman or the other man, they are living in a miserable existence because they don't have their own person who loves them fully and wholly and completely. So they're like, "Hey, if I don't have my own person, neither does she or he." And and I think that especially like my wife has had, you know, she she kind of like a tomboy, so she didn't had guy friends. And when I found out about it, I told her like, "Hey, I don't I'm not cool with that cuz I don't trust men like that." To me, a man got to be gay for him to genuinely be your friend and want to talk to you every day. So, because we going to go through things in our relationship, you're going to be mad with me. I might hurt your feelings or whatever. And if you have a male friend, he waiting in the wings. And I, me personally, I don't have female friends. So, I don't have a woman that is outside of my wife that I talk to and I confide in and that I call a friend. There's not a single woman in my life that I call a friend. And that's just because I don't want to blur the lines. I don't want none of that because if I work with a woman, she's a client. And every single woman that I talk to, I call her a client. Whether she paying me or not, I call her a client. And I do that intentionally. And I told my wife, I said, "Listen, I'm not with the male friend thing." And I let her know. And I think deep down she knew it. And so she knew cuz she wasn't like flaunting it or nothing. Cuz I think deep down she knew how I am. And she knew like, you know, sometime these male friends might get out of position. So, I shut that down and I let her know if I ever find out about a male friend again that I didn't know about, I'm divorcing you. I don't care if we've been married 30, 40 years. If it is a secret or if it's something I ain't know or if it's something you ain't feel comfortable telling me about, that mean it was supposed to be happening. And so, we had to nip that in the bud. And same thing with me. I had quote unquote female friend that I was talking to, confiding in, talking about my girlfriend, which is became my wife. And then in the early talking about my wife and she saw some of the messages, I'm like, "Oh, all right. Okay, that's what it is." So guess what? I had to cut them off. And then that became a thing. And so a lot of time people want to be the other person because they get to say, imagine if a man shooting a breeze and chopping it up and talking with my wife all day every day. He going to be like, "Oh, he ain't got what he think he got. Oh, I probably could slide in there. I probably could I probably could hit her if I want to. Oh, I probably could have I want." And he'll start to go there in his head. Now, yeah, he'll lose his life, but it's like he may be willing to take that risk. And so, the same thing with a woman. And and to be honest with you, for men, men are the other man to prove to themselves that their God, Kevin Samuels, was right. That's why men are the other man. To prove to themselves that women are trash. No woman can be trusted. No how no matter how good she appears, no matter how good girl act she have, all women are low down scum skezy. And that's what the men want to prove to themselves. Women want to be the other woman to out of jealousy of that woman to say you ain't going to have no whole man and me not have no whole man because if you got a whole man that means you're a better woman than me. That means if you got a whole man that mean you could get something that I can't get. That mean you do something that I don't do. that mean you look better than me or you, you know, sex better than me or you do this or that better than me. And so I think a lot of women want to be that other woman just to have that ace in the hole, laughing at that other woman, saying, "Aha, you on Facebook bragging about your relationship, bragging about your man, but he over here hitting this. Ha, you ain't got what you think you got. And a lot of women love to be the other woman to the man with a woman that she wishes she could be. So, it's a lot of w men and women who are little ugly. And what I mean by a little ugly, ugly spirit may feel ugly in the face and then they get to be the other person to somebody who is with somebody that they think is more fly, better looking, smarter, more successful, whatever it may be. And so in essence, it's almost like they orura farming off of that other person of their same gender. Like the woman is jealous of that other woman and so she say, "Well, I'mma sleep with her man just so I got what she got. So she don't have more than me. So she not better than me." She getting beat on. She get yelled at. She get cussed at. He come over here and he perfect. He happy golucky. And so that be the thing. And then the same with the guys. And the and the sad part now you remember the lady had the you're my little secret. That's how we should keep it. Never let and then that was one of the songs. It could have been a lot of them out there, but I' i've noticed I've heard a lot of songs from men talking about You remember the one song Boy Number [singing] Two? number two. I can't remember if it was pretty Ricky and he said don't fuss, don't fight. And that right there anger me like boyfriend number two f to have your brains splattered on this concrete. Why you trying to be boyfriend number two, negro? You better go find girlfriend number one, and stop trying to tiptoe around here, you little punk. That right there infuriate me. Because see, as a man is different for men. That's why you see the other woman more than you see the other man. Cuz for men, we know a man will kill you. So if you sleeping with another man, woman, although it's the woman that's sleeping with you or dealing with you in a romantic way or flirtatious way or friends with benefit way, although it's the woman dealing with you, you still are crossing the line and you crossing a you crossing the boundaries. ies because you stepping on another man domain. You in another man territory. And that right there cuz see we we as men we we taught to forgive the women and the children. Like the woman, you can't just put it all on her because she could be a battered woman. She could be broken. She could be hurting. Like typically when a woman cheats, the relationship is dead or she's being abused. Like I do this every day. I I deal with this every day. Rarely does a woman cheat just to cheat. Rarely. And that's just that's just the God heavens truth. So, anytime I done found something on a woman that I'm with, I had done cheated on her multiple times or I was treating her like bubble gum on the bottom of my shoe. I've never found nothing on a woman when I was doing what I'm supposed to be doing. So, I own that as a man and men know that. So as a man, you never supposed to mess with another man woman because you know how we are as men. You know we get complacent in a relationship. You know we might mistreat our woman. You know we we have mental health issues and stress that we don't know how to express or explain and we may take that out on our woman. So then as a man, you know that this woman going to have seasons that she going through things at the hands of her man. And so if you go in there, you got to realize he love her and he mistreating her. He don't love you as a man. So how dirty you think he'll do you? He going to cut your thing off. He get a hold of you. He slitting your throat. He putting a AK-47 to to the side of your head. And I'm one of them men that'll do you like that. And I'm a nice guy. So imagine a man who ain't no nice guy. You see what I'm saying? So men should never play that game. But I'mma tell you one thing too now. I'mma tell you one thing too now. Y'all hos want to keep being the other woman. The wages of sin is death. It's some women who will get with it. It's some women who You're going to have a long night, sister. When she And see, the thing about it is, everybody be like, "Oh, talk to your man. That's him doing that. Oh, talk to your woman. That's them doing." No, it's you, too. It's you, too. If you the other woman, if you the other man, you just as guilty cuz you disrespecting too. So this what you got to realize. Yes, the person is disrespecting their partner, but that person loves their partner. You know they in a relationship and you allowing yourself to be the other man or woman and that person don't love you. they spouse or they boyfriend or girlfriend do not love you, do not care for you. So guess what? If you are willing to be the other man or the other woman, you deserve to have your brain splattered on the asphalt. And the Bible say that it don't say it in that words, but it say like it talk about a man's wrath. Like if a man like nobody could stop a man who coming after you because you done mess with his woman in so many words. And that's one thing about it. So that's what so that's what the thing is. You got to have the decency and the class. You got to have the decency and the class and the respect. You got to have all that together. My wife just text me. Oh my goodness. I'm just going to hit all these letters. Oh my goodness. Our 12 year old play soccer. It cost $3500 for the season. Got to pay another $1,500 for team fees probably. [sighs] And she just told me we got five trips to Miami and one to Jacksonville. Both of those is four hours away from us in different directions. and Arizona where I just got back from. And so, yeah, that is something. That is something. now. And I'm and I'm going to be popping in and out different cities, Lord willing, doing the purpose arc summits. So, y'all stay tuned. Stay locked in on the videos. That's how you going to find out about them. And and it it'll be small trainings, but I'm going to be training, helping people cuz see with purpose, it ain't it ain't for everybody. So, but y'all stay tuned. So even if it's me and five people, me and 10 people, I'm fine with that because I know the impact I've been able to have as one person on the world. So it's not about reaching the masses, it's about reaching the intentional. So y'all stay tuned on that. But that's what I'm trying to tell you. And and so what's what's the what this my through line here? What is a person who is the other man or the other woman or willing to be with somebody and say they can cheat? What is that a person? What What type of person is that? That's a purpose. That's a person who don't know their purpose. That's why I'm adding the purpose arc to go to Amazon, type it in, and get the book. And you going to hear me promoting that every video. You going to get sick and tired of it till you till you tap into your purpose. Till you discover your purpose and you start to walk in it. You it might not be fulltime, might be part-time, might be quarter time, whatever it is. And so that's what you got to realize and you got to be able to look and see and understand that if you are the other man or the other woman, you don't have no purpose. You don't have purpose yet. So, you need to be at in Tampa, Florida, November 28th. You don't have integrity. And that's unfortunate. And I'm going to tell you like this right here. If you're somebody and you're okay with your person cheating on you, you're okay with your person being besties with somebody who is attracted to the same sex and the same sex. So, like for example, if you're okay with your woman having a gay female best friend or if you're okay with your man having a gay male best friend, you don't love yourself. Or you're okay with them having a friend of the opposite sex that's like a real friend. And when I say friend now, and I mean other opposite sex that's heterosexual, you playing you playing cuz see, I'm going to tell you something. Some people love each other but can't be together. So when what you run the risk of when you allow your partner to have a best friend of the opposite sex, you're running the risk of them having a a pact that they'll never tell. That they will go to their grave and you they will never admit to you that they've kissed, that they've had sex, that they've dated and they've just now just relegated themselves to just friends. But they have a lot of love for each other. So I'm Listen, I'm not get I'm not telling you this from the same position that you are in. And I know people get offended by my confidence, but don't let my confidence offend your insecurity. And that's my quote that Deion Sanders made famous. But let me help you understand something. We're not the same. So unless you have coached individuals on love and relationships from the age of 16 years old to the age of 75 on six different continents, we're not the same. Our data is not the same. Our experiences is not the same. Our wisdom, knowledge, and understanding is not the same. And I'm telling you that I know for a fact if your person has friends of the opposite sex who are heterosexual. I'm not talking about colleagues. I'm not talking about people they work with. I'm not talking about people they say merry Christmas, happy Easter, happy birthday. I'm talking about a friend. A friend is a confidant. You playing with fire. A friend is who you tell your hopes, your fears, and your dreams. If you if your spouse or partner has a friend of the opposite sex, you are playing with fire. You are playing with fire. And it is just a matter of time before they leave you for that friend or they in an emotional or sexual relationship with that friend. And that friend will take up place will take up space. That friend will take up space. And yes, you have some friends who play a great role and and and you have situations where it's completely 10,000% platonic, but you'll never really know because of how the brain works. Like you could talk to somebody and your brain have a dream of you having sex with them and you had no control over that. And call it whatever kind of spirit or whatever you want to call it. It just happens. That's how the brain work. And so your partner could be dreaming about their friend because they had an hourong conversation about hopes, dreams, and fears. And that you run the risk. And the thing about it is you don't need no friend of the opposite sex when you in a relationship. Your person you with need to be your friend. Your sister, your brother, your your friends are the same gender. Your mama, your daddy, God, Jesus, who stick closer than a brother is who need to be your friend. The Holy Bible. You don't need no friend of the opposite set when you in a relationship. And I'm going to tell you something, too. I'm I'mma help you understand something, too, cuz a lot of y'all making this mistake. A lot of y'all have a gay best friend, a friend of the opposite sex. A lot of women have a friend of the opposite sex who is a man, but he gay. And they think that because he gay, it's okay for him to be their friend. That's not true. Because what you have to understand is homosexuality is a spirit. So that's a certain spirit that you have advising you. That's a certain spirit that you have around you, that you have around your kids, that you have around your man. Just because your gay best friend told you he don't sleep with everything do not mean he not trying to x-ray vision your man's booty hole. So when you go to talking to this gay best friend and you talking to him about your sex life with your man, he getting off on that. And what you think is innocent when he cuz he framed the question the right way of I don't mean to be personal nothing like that but like how big is it like that that really matters and I'm not asking that cuz I want to know anything but I'm just if you want me to help you learn how you got to please him you know I do have one of those so I'm just asking like how big is it and so now you thinking oh well he just trying to help me learn how to better do this and how to better do that. And then when he ask you, well, does he does he enjoy like butt play or anything like that? Cuz like maybe, you know, and I could give you a couple tips on that. And so now, and I know these the conversation that some of these women be having with these gay men. They uh listen, I'm tell right here. I'm just like right here. And you call it what you want to call it, say what you want to say. My wife would never ever ever have no gay male best friend ever because I'm not f to run that risk. I am not f to run the risk. Like listen, I ain't got nothing against you. God love you. You love you. Go to your pride parade. Do whatever you want to do. But I'm not f to run the risk of you think about my behind. I'm also not f to run the risk of that Adam Sandler movie or what whoever it was who pretended to be gay so he can see JLo naked. I'm not f to run that risk cuz your brains will be splattered if I find out you not really in the man. But my wife in there changing in front of you down to Aritzia in the try on room cuz you supposed to be gay. No. No. There's a lot of men that's supposed to be gay that still sleep with women cuz a release is a release. So y'all got to understand that for those of y'all men who you your your your woman got a gay best friend. You don't know if he cracking her every now and then. You don't know if he rubbing that bite when she crying cuz you done cheated on her. You done hurt her feelings. You don't know. You don't know if he if he really is by and he like men and women. He not going to tell cuz then he a threat. So that's why I don't even play with it. And to God be the glory, my wife ain't never brought that issue to me. Like she ain't never had no uh male friend who is gay. Like and my wife honestly, she feel more masculine than feminine in the sense of like she loves sports on a level like no human I've ever met. So men when they was around my wife, they felt like she was they homeboy. And that's honestly how about how I married her because she was just so chill and so easy to be around. And I remember talking to a few of her guy friends and just kind of like letting them know like, "Bro, you know you will lose your life." And I just want to be clear on that. Oh man. Man, did you ever read our messages, man? Like that your mom like that your like we don't do NOTHING BUT TALK SPORTS. LIKE THAT'S ALL WE TALK ABOUT IS SPORT. Like Yeah. Uhhuh. But yeah, whatever. We ain't doing that. We ain't doing that. Somebody gonna die. And so listen, it just I'm telling you, it's safer to keep all that stuff out your relationship. It just you just you playing with fire. It's safer to just keep out because you never know when somebody going to lose their mind. When somebody going to lose their mind and look like my son Tayden have to play from August 15th to May 15th. So his season f to be four nine months out of the 12. So nine months May, June, July. No, 10 months. So he about to have June and July off like the school year. So y'all about this here conference, this uh the purpose summit probably gonna end up for corporate professionals who planning their who planning their situation planning their exit. And cuz y'all, we we probably gonna have to do this on like a Thursday or a Friday. Probably a Thursday cuz Friday sometime have to travel to the game. So, hey, we y'all we we probably going to be So, this this this really going to be upper echelon. And this for people with PTO, vacation days, and really in that seasonal planning cuz man, cuz one thing about it, this a high level for my son. So, and and I'mma explain this to y'all because I know some of y'all might be like, "Oh, Tony, he just 12 and it's just soccer and you could miss a game." Wow. Poke County pastor accused of having sex with teen boy dope smoking pedophile and he 42 years old in Winter Haven. So I probably know him. I'm sure to find out who he is. >> This is the preacher. >> Let me see if I know him. I don't know his name. >> Y'all, this this is >> that's my county. >> That's my county. That's uh >> Oak County and that's Greater Jud >> saying that this pastor had >> Oh my goodness. >> Oh my goodness. He's charged with computer related charges. He's charged with possession of marijuana. >> Had the bill blight, man. >> He apopile preacher right before you. >> Well, that great judge. He said this a dope smoking preacher right here before you. says the man and see this this the type of man that y'all be the other woman for and don't even don't even realize what you're doing. don't even realize what you're doing cuz see this it says the man have HIV went online found a 14 year old girl and brought the girl to his house multiple times and slept with her unprotected with HIV and he 42 year old a 42 year old pastor y'all see why I'm about to go so hard in the paint because this is the Christians right here this is I got I got to combat that because every single person that's on the fence, every person that's an atheist, every person that's another religion, they going to look at this and see, see that, I told you that Christianity with faith. Look at that. Look at that pastor sleeping with 14y old Annie got HIV. See that? That's why I don't go to church. See that? That's why I don't like that Christianity. See there? And so that's why I got to go so hard. That's why I got to stamp my belief system and stand on it because of this right here. Because of fools like this right here. And I'mma tell you me personally, I'm I'm I'm different in the sense of if I was the president, even though we had to go through that in slavery, I'm bringing it back. We hanging you. We hanging you. And we ain't and and but before we hang, we gonna stand you up on something. We're gonna have that thing around your neck and we finn to hit you with stones and everything. Like you do stupid stuff like that right there. Give a child HIV or expose a child to HIV. Just even if it was adult, oh, we f to stone your fur. We we we we knocking all that skin off of your fur, boy. Then we kicking that ch from up under you. See, I I don't play by that. That's why I try to help I try to help y'all understand like people get upset with me and they be like Tony man why you so hard on these guys and why you said that to why you said that to such and such and why you said that about such and such cuz I believe in integrity like my my faults and my flaws and stuff like that will be against the government like it'll be I'm not going to do a human being wrong Like my faults and my flaws will be the government saying, "Hey, you need you you ain't register your company on time. Hey, you need to kick us a little more little more cash." Like, it'll be against a system. It'll be against a bank. Hey, that credit card late. Hey, you let that credit card charge off. All right, y'all. Write it off. Claim it as a loss and go about your business. Leave me alone now. But against a human being, like a person individually, don't play by that. So like these guys that's out here and they got a mic in their face and they're using their position and their influence to sleep with the women in the crowd. Like think about me going out here on the road and me teaching the purpose art. Think about the amount of vulnerable women that may be out there searching for their purpose and they in my seminar they boohoo crying. They they thinking about all of their past, everything they've suffered, everything they've been through. They thinking about all of that. They going through all of that. They thinking about all of that. And then I take and shoot my shot, start having long, deep conversations, talking every day, and doing all of this. and the next thing hanging out with her, spending time with her and then the next thing you know sleeping with her when she came to me hurting, lost, broken, vulnerable. And that's what the young lady accused the guy age metaphor of on the tonight's conversation. accuse him of sleeping with the women who come to the events. And I don't know if that's true or not, but I know God is doing it. Same thing with Lataria. Before he got married, he kept saying he's a fornicator. Well, who you sleeping with? The women that follow you. Same thing with Anthony O'Neal. Said he's a fornicator. Well, who you sleeping with? The women that follow you. Then y'all said I think y'all said the rapper, the conscious rapper who stay in some controversy calling people out D1 said he struggles with um what is it say he struggle with fornication. Um, y'all brought that to my attention. I didn't hear him say that, but I had interviewed D1. I know D1. He came to my seminar when I did a seminar in New Orleans 10 years ago. You know, he came to my seminar and, you know, sat in there with a notebook and, you know, I helped raise these guys. Same thing with Anthony O'Neal. He had been trying to work with me for years. And I get very upset about that when men take advantage. So the sin that I did and the stuff that I was doing was before I stepped into my purpose. It was before like God didn't elevate me until I got my mind right. So I got married in ' 07, but my mind still wasn't right. Them first couple years I'm still trying to get my mind right. 2010, I turned over a new leaf. And ironically, that's the year that God really started to elevate me when he knew he could trust me. And it's not that I wasn't tempted and tested and had close calls, but the Lord gave me the strength to be able to wiggle my way out of it, navigate through it, and stay on the right path. And so that's why I'm so that's why like that's why I'm so y'all forgive me reading this at the same time. you know, adamant about what I teach and what I speak on, what I'm talking about, because I don't had to go through them steps. And that's how I was able to create the purpose arc. And when you read the book and you see the arc that I show you that you go through into walking in your purpose and you sit and you study every step of that arc, then you see and I I need to uh take it. And this the demon right here. This this this this is a devil. This brother got a good message. Christian brother think he might be a pastor. And Instagram done stopped his likes on 66,600. So it show the 666 and it's like now y'all know y'all and and YouTube does that same thing. They always stop you on that triple six. And I think that whoever coded it did that intentionally and it's demonic. But the Lord going to get the last laugh. The Lord going to get the last laugh. The Lord going to get the say this hilarious. But hey y'all, God bless you. Keep your head up. I need to order my wife a new aura ring. They came out with a thinner one. And so I need to order that for her because I know she's not going to spend that on herself. So I need to order that. But God bless you. Keep your head up. Keep going. Make sure if you can make it November 28th. You got some time unless we sell out first cuz it's only 50 seats. So, you got a little bit of time unless we sell out first to get your ticket. Drive on down or drive on up Tampa, Florida. You want to be there. The purpose arc seminar November 28th. We I'm going to be there setting up by 8:00 a.m. and we'll get started 10:10 a.m. Registration 9:00 a.m. We'll have lunch and we'll have dinner will be more so light bites cuz we'll be wrapping up and you could go, you know, to the restaurant and eat. We may all go to the restaurant if it's room for us or something like that. I I doubt it's room, you know, unless it's like, you know, five 10 of us, but if it's more than that, we'll have to figure it out. But get down there, get in the room, bring your business card if you got one. Even if it just got your social media handles on there if you ain't started a business yet. Network, be able to meet some folks. You going to hear me talk about it every day until it's sold out. And if it's meant to sell out and we going to be in there and we going to the next level. Also, intentional singles, men and women. We're getting close to getting in the Apple App Store. Um, we still, although we love the web app, we just realized that the the the App Store, they telling us that we no longer considered spam and that we could resubmit. So, we going to see if that's meant to be, if that's God will. And y'all, this this a matchmaking app, so you got to answer the questions intentionally and honestly because it'll match you based on that. Don't get on there and expect a match in a week, in a day, overnight. Like the whole the year is only $99. I want you to get on there if you really intentional and you want to meet somebody, then give it the full year. Meaning, if you meet somebody, of course, a month, three months in, all right, you could delete the app. But I mean, sign up for the year versus the weekly because it's it's c it'll save you $400 if you just sign up for the year. Or you can just stay on the free version if you don't need the pro u attributes of the app. But very intentional. We still building it daybyday. So tell all the good single men in your family, get on there. The destinyapp.com. Get on there. Also, my sessions are closed right now. I'm working with the people who already have a session. Some sessions I may end up refunding just because of my head space and just what how focused I am and what I'm working on. I have VIP clients and I have some clients that that bought, you know, VIP sessions that I'm working with and I'm going to honor that because of the commitment that they made. and but ask Tony G.com it's trained by my books and courses and things like that, my YouTube videos. So, it's essentially my wisdom. It's it's what I teach, but and it's way cheaper than coaching and you can ask it as many questions as you want to ask it, you know, for dirt cheap. I think they got a $5 pack and then $20 a month. And ask Tony G.com. askony g.com and one of my clients built it. It's what his company does. He's Caucasian gentleman. He has a black wife. Um so that was cool. You know, seeing the, you know, the living example of like women say, "Hey, you got to look outside your race sometimes. Sometimes if it ain't working for you, you got to be open to other things." And so that sister did that. And and so I got to meet them and and that's what his company does. And so they built that for me and you know got us a little business deal blessing them. And so make sure you get on there asking G.com. Also if you are a therapist, life coach, consultant, you have clients that you talk to and you take notes. My other company coachfile.app. C O A C H file F I L E.app a P coachfile.app. So if you need a system, a site where you can manage your clients or what have you, then hop on there, you know, hop on there, utilize that. And so you got the destinyapp.com, you got askonyg.com, and you got coachfile.app. And then you also have the purpose arc, the book. Read the book. It's on Amazon. Also the live event, November 28th. Wish I could have did something sooner, but give us a little time. And then I'm trying to map out, you know, some certain little dates and stuff like that. So, if that one sell out, then I may add one in December, like the week before Christmas or whatever for the grown folks who don't have children and don't have to buy a lot of gifts or what have you, and just you you want to treat yourself for Christmas. You want to step into your purpose for Christmas and roll into the new year purpose minded. We may do that or we'll do something in January, top of January somewhere. Could be Atlanta, could be Dallas. So, stay tuned. God bless you. Keep your head up. Keep going. And we'll talk soon.