Deep Dive Into Design: How Might We (Re)Design Spaces for Belonging?
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The video explores the critical question of how to redesign spaces to foster a genuine sense of belonging, featuring insights from four panelists who blend art, education, technology, and social practice. Christine Wong opens the discussion by framing belonging as a bridge across languages, cultures, and neighborhoods, utilizing community building and storytelling to create what she calls "relational containers." She illustrates this through her project in San Francisco's Chinatown and Mission District, where immigrant women collaborated on trilingual workshops to design banners for the Chinese New Year parade. This initiative not only celebrated their resilience but also physically connected two distinct communities that rarely interacted, transforming a traditionally monocultural event into a demonstration of cross-cultural solidarity during a time of rising xenophobia.
Brooke Tolsowsky expands the conversation by examining belonging within K-12 education and her own art practice, emphasizing that good teachers act as designers who constantly refine their classrooms to meet student needs. She argues that strong relationships between adults, students, and families are essential for creating safe environments where young people can trust others and reach their potential. Brooke also delves into the historical weight of the word "belonging," noting its colonial roots in ownership and exclusion, and contrasts this with an ecological perspective where humans belong to the land rather than owning it. Through her community garden projects and collaborations with local biologists, she demonstrates how engaging with nature and storytelling can help redefine belonging as a dynamic connection rather than a static state of possession.
David J. Heim approaches the topic from the intersection of technology and social movements, focusing on why existing spaces often fail to support belonging despite available wisdom. He defines relationships as processes where people change one another deeply, describing "relational containers" as unpredictable environments that resist factory-like efficiency in favor of organic growth. Drawing inspiration from ecology, he highlights concepts like edge zones—areas where diverse systems meet—and evolutionary rates found in complex ecosystems such as coral reefs or rainforests. David suggests that designing for belonging requires embracing uncertainty, utilizing cycles of abundance and rest, honoring lineage and ancestral practices, and creating "after spaces" where deep connections can form naturally after structured events conclude.
Susie Wise concludes the panel by challenging the notion that belonging can be directly designed, arguing instead that we must design for it to emerge through collective action. She introduces a framework of nine specific moments, such as inviting, participating, and dissenting, which help identify where belonging arises or fails to appear. The group discusses shifting from transactional systems, where inputs guarantee predictable outputs, to relational ones that embrace the unknown and prioritize human connection over deliverables. They agree that moving beyond static inclusion requires active verbs like building, tending, and contributing, as well as a willingness to slow down, listen to feedback, and redesign processes to be more human-centered. Ultimately, the panelists converge on the idea that fostering belonging is an ongoing, vulnerable practice of creating conditions where people feel seen, heard, and empowered to contribute to something larger than themselves.
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thank you once all again for joining us
and let's dive into our introductory
round table with our special guests so
um today we are going to start with um a
short presentation from Christine Wong
yep uh Christine Wong yep sh is a visual
artist and social practitioner
specializing in hyperlocal participatory
research projects which gather and
amplify Grassroots perspectives on
belonging resilience and mental
wellbeing So Christine I'm going to pin
you now and you are welcome to go ahead
and get us
started all
right I hope everybody can see my screen
um thanks to everyone for um being here
on this very uh windy and rainy
atmospheric River night and um uh yeah
thank you for your attention I know in
my bio there's a bunch of different
jargon words um but I I'm going to share
some images I hope will give you a sense
of what I do uh although first I have to
do some more words and my first three
slides so to answer the question how can
we redesign spaces for belonging I want
to talk about a specific project so one
way we could redesign spaces for
belonging is to build Bridges across
languages cultures and neighborhoods
through ART and social practice projects
which utilize Community Building
storytelling art making and language
Justice social practice is a little bit
of a jargony term but if I were going to
use some of the language out of David
J's amazing book relationality I would
say that I make um relational
containers um so I want to frame a
little bit about bridging through the
work of the othering and belonging
Institute or Obi at UC Berkeley um so
what do we mean by bridging and Obi
describes it as uh invol in two or more
groups coming together across
acknowledged lines of difference in a
way that both affirms their distinct
identities and creates a new more
expansive
identity and why do we want to bridge
it's because it's one of the major ways
of promoting belonging according to um
John a Powell the director of Obi so I
thought I would root Us in place places
which are not too far from The Mechanics
Institute
um Chinatown and the Mission District in
San
Francisco so Chinatown is a space that
belonging for many Chinese speaking
immigrants due to the access that it
affords to language culture services and
a shrinking but protected amount of
affordable
housing and the Mission district is a
similar space of belonging for many
Spanish-speaking immigrants um for the
same
reasons so I created a project called
KOMO morando arba or young M which is a
trilingual project in which I brought
together a cohort of 16 workingclass
immigrant women who have limited access
to the Arts and limited English
proficiency and I brought them together
for a paid opportunity with child care
and transportation
support about half of the women are
Chinese from Chinatown and immigrated
within the past 5 years and the other
half are Spanish speakers from the
Mission
District in the project we held six
trilingual language Justice informed
workshops involving Community Building
positive psychology and cross-cultural
Bridging the first three workshops were
in Chinatown where designers shared
their immigration stories and learned
about research on resilience and
principles of visual design
and I worked with them to design banners
to represent their power and
resilience and we held the last three
workshops in the Mission District which
is only 2 and a half miles from
Chinatown but our workshops were the
first time that some of the Latina women
visited Chinatown and vice versa of the
Chinese women visiting the Mission
District so in the last two workshops at
the Mission District the designers
Learned Hand Hands-On fabrication skills
to create their banners and
textiles which we then marched in the
2023 Chinese New Year
parade accompanied by their friends and
family and a Mari
band our contingent was the first
contemporary art project in the Chinese
New York parade which is the largest of
its kind outside of China and it
actually dates back to the
1850s and I just like to think about how
the Chinese New Year parade itself is an
event where a lot of people whether
they're Chinese or not whether they're
locals or visitors they feel welcome to
celebrate Chinese culture which is kind
of special here and especially in an era
of resurgence
xenophobia so I'm grateful to the parade
organizers for allowing us to kind of
broaden this is traditionally
monocultural event with a demonstration
of crosscultural solidarity
um if you want to learn more there's a
lot more on my website and uh the
women's stories um their rationals for
creating the designs are pretty powerful
so you can find that at the
website um there so I'll stop there
thank
you and thank you so much for Shar that
presentation Christine um we will now
move into um Brook's presentation Brooke
you want to go ahead
yes thank you so much let me
share that was amazing Christine thank
you so much I'm a huge fan of
Christine's work so I'm so happy to be
here with all of you I'm Brook to lowski
um as well as with these other panelists
whose work I deeply admire and have
learned so much from I straddle both
education and the art World which are
really quite distinct so I'm going to
first talk about my experience within um
k 12 public schools and then discuss how
I'm investigating belonging within my
art practice briefly um first off I love
teachers and good teachers are really
impressive designers they engage the
design thinking cycle more than anyone I
know reflecting on how a lesson went and
then redesigning for the next day often
engaging hundreds of kids like they get
real-time feedback on a rapid prototype
and then they do it
again let me go to the next slide here
um
I've been in hundreds of Public School
classrooms as a longtime teaching artist
and a classroom teacher and then later
as a teacher coach and a founder and
leader in agency by Design Oakland there
in the Bay Area um which was part of a
research project which this book um
really Dives dives into seeking to
integrate maker centered learning into
teachers practices a good teacher is
skilled at turning the classroom into
what David calls and which Christine
mentioned it's relational container so
this is incredible important strong
relationships between adults and the
students and the students families in
the classroom are really this critical
melal linkage that allows you to meet
the students needs and in a school with
weak relationships where students don't
feel a sense of belonging or even worse
where oppressive harm is consistent and
goes unrepaired students are less likely
to learn um and if you're more
interested in learning about some of the
brain research which confirms this I
recommend this book um in order to build
new dendrites and Connections in the
brain students need to feel safe and
they need to be able to trust others and
that's why belonging is so critical to
our classrooms and why we need it so
that young people can reach their
potential all the tools in Susie's book
um designed for belonging are applicable
to the classroom as well as to teacher
professional development or any learning
environment and in addition to these to
the next slide um the core belonging
tool that I've been committed to in my
educational career has been art and
making Hands-On learning project based
learning where students are given an
opportunity to make sense of the content
to express their own voice to
collectively participate in meaning
making um one of the reasons Christine's
artwork is so powerful is because it's
participatory and it disrupts the often
one directional experience that we have
in Galleries and museums the method
itself cultivates belonging and that's
more of what we need in the classroom
so then switching hats um moving over to
my art practice since moving from
Oakland to I now live in Central
Connecticut which I moved uh and I did
during the pandemic I've gone back to
school to get my MFA which I'm finishing
up now and my current practice examines
historical and ecological relationships
to land so belonging has inevitably
become a core thread in my work and Rel
with others are very present I
collaborate with Botanical ink I've made
from my community die Garden I print
with materials I've collected from the
sites I'm
investigating and I invite others other
people and methodologies into my
research with me I am curious about the
word belonging um we can develop a
feeling of being connected to one
another but belonging is also a noun for
possession it communicates ownership
this phone belongs to me or I belong to
the co-op or these are my belongings
these statements draw a line a boundary
and historically when we look at land
deeds and wills in colonial America in
the 17th and 18th century the word
belonging is used to describe these
objects of ownership including human
beings therefore embedded in the word
belonging there is also othering
colonialism slavery capitalism and on
these are human Design Systems that have
cut us off from one another and from the
land but as ramed wall kimmerer says I I
got her new book today the service Berry
it came in the mail highly recommends
all of her books she says the land knows
you even when you're lost and so I know
that the Earth which we are the
belongings of and not vice versa plays
for me a critical role in this
conversation my most recent social
practice I'm very much urgent artist
just getting my feet wet in all of this
regard um graduating with my MFA but
over the course of months I've
collaborated um with the public and
collaborators together in my community
garden plot and discuss belonging from
multiple perspectives so for example
working with the institute for American
Indian studies talking about um
storytelling and land acknowledgements
or ecological belonging of plant species
with a local biologist and then most
recently through a public performance
with a wooden picket fence with which is
a symbol and a tool of land top
possession here in Colonial New England
which is where I'm based so I've tried
to cultivate discussion and push the
possibility space around um workers and
belonging thank you so
much what a beautiful presentation
Brooke thank you for that and now we
will um transition into um David J and
David would you like to share um your
answer to the question how might we
redesign spaces for
belonging yes thank you so much um David
J Heim pronouns I apologize do not have
beautiful visuals for you um I come to
unfortunately not not as an artist and
designer I come from sort of the
intersection of technology and social
movements um my background is uh
building spaces for people like me who
identify as as sexual online um though
now I organize Tech workers inside of
social media companies and um I
I uh and I also as part of a through
parent family do a lot of work around
inviting people into communities of care
which are a way of thinking about
belonging that resonates deeply with me
um most of my work uh deals not with how
he design basis for belonging but why we
fail to so often fail to Resource and
fund the spaces that already exist um
what I believe is we don't lack the
wisdom about how to do this we lack the
appreciation and the resourcing that's
needed um and so a lot of my work is
trying to do that but I want to share uh
some of my the journey I've been on to
understand for myself what what
belonging is what these the um phrase
that the two pre previous ENT used
relational containers what those are and
how we can build them um and so a big
part of my journey has been wanting to
understand what a relationship is um if
I want to be able to build relationship
in my life if I want to be able to
help people know like oh if you're
putting money towards building
relationship you want to know that it's
happening you want you want to be able
to to validate success it's helpful to
be able to um point to have a clear
sense of what a definition of what a
relationship is and this is a gap if you
look at um Wikipedia the word
relationship is a dis intermediation
page um and so a definition that I
really like is that a relationship
exists when we change one another and
the more deeply and powerfully we change
one another the more powerful that
relationship sh is this is uh inspired
by Octavia Butler and Parable to so
which is behind me here and so a
relational container therefore is this
place where we engage in the really
vulnerable work of learning to change
one another experimenting with different
ways of changing and being changed to
find something that brings resilience
and transformation to our life and uh a
key part of relational containers is
they do not work like factories a
factory the more successful it is the
more predictable it becomes so when we
build a relational container if we
succeed at um creating relationship the
more successful we are the less
predictable the outcome is the more
successful we are at creating conditions
for a great conversation the less we
know where the conversation's going to
go and that is a is an unavoidable part
of building relationship which I think
in some ways messes with the way we used
to thinking about design and also very
much messes with the way that we used to
think about
funding that unpredict that intrinsic
beautiful
unpredictability uh and so when I think
about designing for belonging I think
about um I I seek inspiration from um to
Echo what you were saying Brooke from a
few places but I want to start by
talking about the more than human world
not just because I found that to be such
a vital part of my own relational
practice if I want to connect with
people being in nature is a incredible
way to do that if I want to connect with
myself learning wisdom from nature is an
incredible way to do that and
one part of that for me has been looking
at the natural world and the Really
incredible ways that relationships make
it up and the ways that it creates
relationship and one concept that has
proven really powerful to me um comes
from ecology and it's this idea of
evolutionary rate and ecologists started
looking out at the world and they
realized that some ecosystems seem to be
better at generating new and interesting
stuff better at generating new
relationships than others if you compare
a coral leef to the open ocean you
compare a set of tide pools to a flat
Beach you compare um the uh Edge zone
between the wood grassland and the
forest to either the grassland or the
forest you're going to get more di
biodiversity you're going to get more
biod mass you're going to get what's
called a higher evolutionary rate new
and interesting things are happening
more and so one uh was I was looking at
these um and and in the sort of
researching the Dynamics of relational
systems some of the work that I do um
there are a uh there's a deep parallel
between the process of evolution how we
learn to change one another and and and
how we learn to change one another how
we learn to be in relationship so uh
three quick sources of inspiration I'll
take in designing for belonging and
these Echo Susie I think your book
beautifully um the first is fractal
geometry High evolutionary rate often
has a lot of tiny niches
where things can kind of like do their
own thing and then pop out and interact
with one another like a coral veave like
the rainforest
canopy um like a tight pool the other is
Edge zones places that sit between two
places two diverse places where those
places come and interact tend have a
high higher revolutionary rate than
places that are
homogeneous um and the last is Cycles
places where there is a cyclical process
so if you think about sort of bamboo
that um seeds only every few years
there's a process of a lot of abundance
followed by like a lot of activity
followed by rest that is coordinated
across the ecosystem that tends to lead
to relationship and I see this in many
communities um um uh Faith communities
where they'll have major holidays and
they'll have minor holidays and they'll
have weekly services that kind of a
pattern is often indicative of a a
predictor of high evolutionary rate and
I believe a predictor of a strong
relational container um and uh I um
there's also a few tools I take from my
movement history the power of onboarding
and personal story if there's a space
where people know how to reveal like
there's a story that they tell about
themselves that they can uniquely tell
in that community and when they join the
community they're taught to tell that
unique story that is a powerful way to
drive connection um after spaces if um
often the magic happens after an event
ends when there's a snack table when
there's drinks when there's a dance
floor so creating those after spaces and
really looking to them to be the places
where deep connections happen as opposed
to sort of the places that we structure
um is a powerful U thing and then the
the last thing I want to speak to very
very deeply because it's been so
critical in my work is the power of
lineage um I think a lot about my
grandma I think about the trans Elders
that taught me as a young queer activist
um and how when we design for
relationship uh the things that we
invent the things we come up with are
often not the most powerful tools the
most powerful tools are the things that
are being tested and refined for decades
the things that our elders including our
more than human Elders give us and so
when I think about how to design for
relationship I often think about um what
are lineages what are practices that
have worked for decades or centuries
trees that I can draw from that my
ancestors have given me how do I use
those as my Foundation rather than
wanting to invent from scratch so I I'll
leave things there thank you so much for
sharing all those beautiful schemas that
arise from your practice David we're
going to now move into Susie's
presentation Susie you want to get us
started thank you so much um I'm really
happy to be here and I'm just loving
hearing all of this too I kind of don't
want to add mine to it but I will um
just uh because I also do like kind of
multiplicities and the the plur verse so
here is um just a few slides to share
about my
practice um of Designing for
belonging um and I one of the things to
say about this is that um I often really
like to start by asking the question
can you design for belonging and I
answer yes and no you can't design
belonging we all experiened that however
we're going to experience it in whatever
context we are in what we can do is
design for belonging to emerge and um I
really think of this as the work of
collective action um and wanted to call
out also um I'm just loving being with
the artist the artist um that worked on
my book whose name is Rose jaffy and
she's a mural artist and if you got the
book there are these fold outs of the
host Heroes and of the moments of
belonging and the tools of belonging um
that are that are these beautiful
foldouts um partially because she's a
mural artist it really worked the
framework that I work with is around
feeling seeing and shaping
belonging and so here's the first of a a
piece second I guess from um from Rose
um really important to notice when and
where and how do you feel belonging as
an individual and then also to inquire
of others across difference across all
different kinds of identities when and
where does belonging emerge and what
does it feel like really investigating
that as part of it sometimes when we
start to think of it what we actually
come up with are times when we didn't
feel like we belonged and uh this is a
photograph of me uh at a time when I
felt like I didn't belong which was my
mother's um second wedding and as I
started doing this work I was mining my
own stories of times of belonging and
not and I think that's really can be
really fruitful to both mine your own
stories and be in conversation with
others about when and where belonging is
emerging for them once we know some of
that then we can start to name some
particular moments that matter um and in
the book I name these these nine moments
the invitation entering participating
code switching contributing flowing
dissenting repairing and the exiting um
and these are not the only moments that
matter for belonging but there are some
that particularly do um and I also am
often inviting people to think about
when they dig into when and where they
feel belonging to name it as a kind of
moment um because that design thrives in
specific so really naming something can
be
helpful and then once we understand a
particular moment that we want to work
on that we want to reimagine that we
think might be a site where new
experiences could emerge um then some of
my work is about inviting people
to uh expand what we think we can design
certainly in kind of work culture the
answer is often you know an email or
meeting um but remembering that space
and role and ritual events um groupings
Communications these are all things that
we can actually design and redesign to
bring about more belonging and part of
my work from a design perspective is to
invite us to really take a prototyping
mindset so trying things out and seeing
did more people have a stronger sense of
belonging or did they not when I crafted
a new event for instance um so that
that's the work for me is building tools
around feeling belonging so that we can
see it and then do the work of design to
shape it I'll stop
there thank you so much for sharing that
presentation Susie um it is almost 6:30
um and so I'm going to try my best to
start to integrate
um some of the existing questions in our
um text box into the questions that I
have prepared and so um let's talk about
the Dynamics of belonging and othering
and let me make sure that um everyone is
pinned um for this part of our round
table there we go okay all right so um
you know belonging and othering often
exists in ttention um how does your work
engage with this Dynamic and how do you
use design as a tool to actively shift
the balance towards belonging as an
ongoing process and I want to integrate
that with Rob's question which is um for
any of the panelists often design is a
political issue right what approach do
you use or recommend for reaching people
who tend to have a knee-jerk negative
reaction sensitivity on design for
example they might feel overwhelmed by
the material or put off by the
subliminal suggestion of Art in design
and um he also adds I hope that that
makes sense so we we'll start with Susie
on those sort of two integrated
questions okay I I'll give it a try um
I'm going to share again just one image
um of a tool that I really like to use
this is a an emotional Journey map um
and it's a very simple tool that's used
a lot in um design participatory design
co-design um processes to to have
conversations with folks and really then
to very simply like identify when and
where is a place of belonging and when
is it feeling like not belonging which
might not be as Extreme as explicit
othering but is is the kind of the
inverse there and so I think that um
using these very kind of basic tools to
have very human
conversations is a way to embrace the
tensions of belonging and othering and
also to your question um I think is a
way to kind of demystify design um that
what we are actually trying to do when
we're doing design is to come up with
ways to be better together um so that
that's that's kind of my take I i' would
love to hear what others are thinking
about um can I jump in I have um
something I wanted to share um this is
basically a um kind of like set of
community Norms that I share when I lead
workshops so um it's just guiding
principles that are based on a growth
mindset which are is a body of research
developed by Carol D which I think many
educators are very familiar with and
it's just
encouraging um a spirit of
experimentation and trying and
discouraging all the things that I think
you would find in like a regular art
school or design school critique setting
judgment comparison uh criticism and
perfectionism so I think uh just setting
the tone there where it's um a dialogue
and an experiment um is a great place to
start I will say um just as far as like
how does your work engage the dynamic of
belonging and othering is that an
important part of what I do as a social
practitioner is design the overall
project and for an artist I can say oh
I'm going to use this media and work on
this scale and use these images those
are the ingredients that I have to play
with in my
toolbox as a social practitioner who I'm
engaging on what terms what's being
exchanged is it Mutual is it extractive
those are the things in my toolbox that
I get to play with um so working with
low-income women women who are um uh
specifically women women who are
immigrants or newcomers maybe they're
undocumented and if they have Ling
limited English proficiency those are
very intentional choices and I do want
to just address there was a question
about whether um uh language Justice
it's kind of touches on the idea of
language Justice versus language access
so for a long time I was just interested
in language access I was the primary
caregiver for my mom who was elderly and
spoke um other languages not English
Chinese and then she also learned some
Spanish when she migrated through the
Dominican Republic she learned some
Vietnamese when she was living in
Vietnam and was a survivor of the
Vietnam War um but uh you know she
worked really hard all her life raising
me and uh supporting her husband and
studying English but not to the extent
where she could help apply to college or
um express to her doctor exactly what's
hurting and where um so yeah I think it
is important to have resources to
support people if they choose to uh
study English but I also think it's
important to meet people where they're
at which I think is an important design
principle and I think it touches upon
the idea of humility that um Susie has
written about um intellectual and
cultural humility and I think
um there's something there about
language Justice in um not assuming that
English is the thing that other people
have to come to because uh when I get in
front of a workshop situation and I
practice my terrible Spanish it's a
humbling experience for me and I think
that allows people to also take risks
and try in their art and design
process it seems like we are ready to
move on to our next question for our
round table so we're going to move into
the topic of um belonging as a verb so
if we understand belonging as a verb an
action rather than a state how does this
perspective influence the way you
approach relationships spaces or
communities in your creative practice
and I'm going to start with David on
this
question um I uh I think about
belonging as the as a verb as about this
really I think to me sacred work of
creating places for relationship so a a
thing that we have um as humans I think
a powerful unique ability to do is to
look out into the world see the
relationships that don't exist but are
possible and then create the
environments where those relationships
happen whether that is a dinner party
with our friends a um convers uh a
conversation
um where we create the space for a
conflict to play out in a healthy way um
and so when I think about the belonging
is a verb it is this um way of looking
out into the world seeing what
relationships are possible seeing that
person who's just walked into a new
community who needs to be personally
seen and welcomed and kind of
recognizing that and recogniz that
there's an opportunity to show up to
that person and knowing both in our
minds and our bodies how
we show up to that person um that that
way of sort of seeing and moving in the
relational world so that we can invite
more and more integrated relationship
into being I think that to me is the is
the work of belonging the work of uh
what I what I sometimes think of as
relational practice um and uh and and I
think it it shows up in the the ways
that we design but it also shows up
really deeply in just the way that ways
that we are present with those around
us I think that um compliments
beautifully with um a private question
that Tess offered which is um actually
Kelly offered which is what does
belonging look like can we identify it
for others or do people need to tell us
when they feel it does anybody want to
maybe um jump in and add any notes in
addition to what David has said
I I can jump in a little bit um to say
that I I do think that belonging is
importantly you know self-identified
that people identify belonging in lots
of different ways um that can have
Community layers also um but I I do
think it's it's very difficult to
prescribe belonging um and it's and
remembering too that we know that it is
such a fundamental
uh need that humans have um and part of
the kind of the verb piece for me is
most of those moments of belonging that
I like to call out are verbs to and that
comes from
conversations that I had in multiple
contexts with folks describing those
times when they felt belonging um and it
emerges that it is it was a time when
they felt like they were contributing to
something for instance
a and that identifying that those kind
of other verbs that are part of
belonging becomes really interesting
because then you can all you can you can
notice that that helps belonging and you
can design then oh if that's going to be
helpful what are all the different ways
and and to this question about schools
and school closures like when you're
designing a new context for people to
join in what are the mechanisms where
you're going to let people contribute
and that can be very simple things of
telling a story or bringing a photograph
or contributing to a mural right but the
small acts of contribution are can be
very agentic in terms of building
belonging I wanted to step in just very
quickly on this question of how we know
as someone who does a lot of work around
relational measurement and impact
assessment um which uh is that when when
we change one another when we're in
relationship yes we need to ask people
but to your point there are certain
behaviors that emerge when relationship
happens and when I'm looking for
evidence of relationship I look for
connection care creativity and
generative conflict so do people who
connect through the community spend time
together of their own
accord do they support one another in
ways that they're not asked to do they
create things together that are
Innovative and reflection of the
community's values and finally when they
engage in Conflict do they engage in
conflict in ways that are generative
that result in the community feeling
more aligned with its values and
trusting one another those are all I
think to me powerful indicators that
belonging is happening um that can
complement asking people directly about
it thank you so much for sharing that um
that that kind of perfectly sacret us to
our next part of our Round Table uh the
theme will be um designing for
connection I want to first read a
question actually from Eileen marinin um
she says um a big divisive issue in
Oakland is the closure and merging of
schools people oppose it because they
lose their neighborhood school and their
children are sent farther away for their
education has any of you thought about
worked on issues like these and how they
can be addressed to help the children
and parents adjust to and thrive in
their new environment and you know
Brooke is a lifelong learner and teacher
and that kind of complements the the
question in your experience what does it
take to design spaces or systems that
move Beyond static inclusion and into
fostering active relational belonging
Brooke do you want to take us away sure
thank you moo I think a lot of people
have mentioned verbs and certainly um I
definitely want to emphasize that this
idea of you know active belonging takes
actions right like building planting
tending drawing doing and as sort of a
curricular specialist That's what I'm
always looking for how how are the
Learners um being asked to create or
produce something and making sense of
the content with their hands and their
hearts um and their heads and Susie you
know mentioned this I haven't worked on
any of the school closures um but
certainly thinking about how can people
contribute how can people participate in
the creation of of a new space and all
of those different levers of design um
are important definitely within both um
youth learning environments and adult
learning environments a really strong
contributing factor to people seeming
like they have a sense of belonging is
asking them for their feedback and then
using that feedback to iterate on your
design and makes a better product and
people feel like you're and they know
that you're listening to them and you
care about what their needs are so
definitely you know as these new schools
are coming into Focus do students and
parents have a voice and are they able
to contribute to the design of these new
systems is really key and critical and
that takes a lot of groundwork and a lot
of um listening and um sometimes the
resources haven't put forth for that to
happen Christine I'm going to ask you
the same question um in your experience
how does what does it take to design
spaces or systems that move Beyond
static inclusion and into fostering an
act um active relational
belonging oh that's such a great
question I I think it that process of I
think creating setting the norms and
then putting the Norms into practice is
a a really important thing and in my
work I really seek out um key
Partnerships where the organization that
I partner with uh really understands
that relationships are at the center of
what I want to do so a lot of the art
world is object centered and I'm really
trying to make my work human centered
and a lot of funding agencies are
deliverable centered and I work really
hard to find Partners who understand
that if there's a relationship at stake
that requires us to like pull the brakes
a little bit or to Pivot that we can uh
push back on those kind of pressures of
productivity or or deliverables and and
make this space to take the time take as
much time as it needs um because it's
like the process is more important to me
than the
product and Susie you wrote in our chat
box the move from transactional to
relational is critical can you um speak
a little bit more to what that comment
means sure uh from I'm I'm always trying
to think about um you know if belonging
is our goal what are some of the from
toos um and so just echoing what
Christine was saying there about the
importance well and everyone in
different ways um of the relational
that's critical to belonging um and and
so many of our sister systems are set up
to be
transactional um and our ability to kind
of hold on to that notion of they don't
necessarily have to be that
transactional they could be more
relational um and remembering kind of
from the design lens that everything has
that has been redesigned has that has
been designed can in fact be redesigned
so if we hold that principle of how
could we make this meeting this party
this school redesign process more
relational that can help us do work that
then actually turns out to be in fact
more
relational I'll just Echo that and the
subtitle of my book is about the move
from the transactional to the relational
the transformational and um I I see that
differences in some ways being caught up
in predictability like if it's
transactional I'm putting something in
because I know exactly what I'm going to
get out and I want to set up control in
place I want to be able to understand
exactly what's going to happen if I'm
being relational then I embrace not
knowing what's going to happen um I
embrace maybe a set of values I maybe
Embrace a process that I trust um but I
want to be changed the process so that I
don't know where I'm going to be at the
end and I think that ability to release
the need to know the outcome to release
control to trust in the people I'm in
community with is so critical and so
needed and something that so many of our
institutions just have forgotten how to
do though I think for much of human
history many of our institutions did
know how to do
that um we are at 6:45 and so I do have
to do my closing but thank you so much
for our incredible panelists David Jay
Brook tox slowski Susie wise and
Christine W yep for their profound
insights and Reflections today your
practice in continued inquiry reminds us
that the design is not about seeking
definitive answers but also about asking
these living questions that call us to
reiterate adapt and transform alongside
our everchanging world um your work
inspires us to reimagine belonging in
ways that are both personal and
Collective and before we transition into
our optional informal discussion I would
like to remind everyone that our next
Deep dive into design Discussion Group
will take place on January 29th
2025 um we'll explore the central
question how might we create a more just
and Equitable future the introductory
Round Table will feature three
incredible thought leaders we will have
um aaya Miriam Davis who was the author
of Kindred creation we will have um
quinlin messenger who is the founder of
just design and Leslie an noell who is
the author of design social change and
you can register for this exciting
Gathering starting now we'd love to see
you there and the um link is in the chat
box there and finally as we close I do
invite everyone to turn on your cameras
if you feel comfortable and wave a
goodbye to our amazing panelists let's
send them off with all our gratitude and
love for the Inspire for the inspiration
that they have shared with us today and
thank you once again for being a part of
this wonderful conversation