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The video centers on an analysis of Dejon Love's physical appearance and the psychological impact it has had on his life, framing his criminal behavior as a direct result of severe societal rejection due to his unique features. The speaker meticulously examines a photograph of Dejon, pointing out specific traits such as a disproportionately large head relative to his body, protruding ears, small eyes, and a prominent forehead that resembles a "Jack and the Beanstalk" structure. The narrator argues that these distinctive characteristics caused Dejon to be bullied throughout his childhood, preventing him from playing sports or fitting in with peers, which fostered deep-seated insecurity and a desire for attention. Consequently, Dejon turned to scams and manipulation as a way to feel significant, believing that women would only look at him if he could offer them financial security rather than genuine connection. A key argument presented is the concept of "looks compatibility," suggesting that individuals with unique or non-standard physical features often face harsher judgment from their own race because those communities are familiar with standard feature sets and thus perceive deviations as negative. However, the speaker posits that these same unique traits can be highly attractive to people outside their own demographic who lack a reference database for such features. The transcript highlights Dejon's relationship with a white woman as an example of this dynamic; she found him appealing despite his unconventional look because it was different from what she was accustomed to seeing in her own community. The narrator suggests that wealthy individuals often marry partners with unique features, not out of malice, but because their wealth allows them to overlook societal biases and appreciate the "above average" or distinct qualities that others might reject, effectively treating the partner like a prize. The conclusion of the video offers a mix of harsh realism and empathetic advice, urging viewers to understand how their appearance influences how they are treated by society without equating uniqueness with ugliness. The speaker acknowledges that while Dejon's path led to crime and victimization, he could have easily become something positive, such as a charismatic car salesman at a luxury dealership, if given the chance to leverage his height and unique charisma in a legitimate profession. Ultimately, the message is one of accountability mixed with compassion: individuals must learn to read social dynamics and understand that their treatment by others is often a reflection of societal programming rather than their inherent worth. The speaker encourages men to embrace their purpose, seek positive environments, and recognize that while some may become empaths due to past mistreatment, others unfortunately become narcissists, but there is always potential for redemption and a new mindset once the cycle of insecurity is broken.
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Ladies and gentlemen, we still on the Dejon Love case and reason being is because that's very real and relevant right now, but also because there's a lot of Dejon loves that's walking around and it just just like with anything, not everything is going to make national news. We already know that. And you got to realize for one, you need to get Destiny in the Apple App Store because Dejon Love was on Bumble. See what I tried to tell you? He ain't on Destiny. So, you need to get Destiny in the App Store. D A T E S T I N Y. And so, you can stop being I N D E P N D E N T. You know what I mean? So, get Destiny because he was on Bumble. It's a few women that came out and he was on Bumble. So, think about that. Think about that and go hop on on there. Now, I'mma pull up his head shot because I noticed in the head shot. Let me see here. See if we can find And I want you to and we're going to do a little bit of do a little bit of I'm going just see if I could download the picture. Save the image. Dejan love. See if this will let me bring up a file. image file. They add it. Let's see. Oh, you know what? Wrong kind of wrong kind of wrong file. I'll give him one second. So, they released this head shot and let me see. convert image to a JPEG. All righty, there we go. We got us a JPEG. All righty. So now this right here is what caused this here fiasco. Y'all forgiving this what caused the fiasco right here. So, if you notice, if you notice the headbutt ability right there, you can't see my cursor, but you'll notice the headbutt ability on them. And look, look at these here ears. I'm going just pull up the thing on here. Let me get on this here. And just look at this here. Now see the head butt ability right there and this hair that's why he his chin hair like that so he mixed with something cuz this ain't just 100% African because this sometimes here and yeah yeah you got some Africans in certain places that they have like that but a lot of times it's a a mix in Could be some little Asia, a little Europe in there. Now you got, you know, sometimes Ethiopians or Aritria, different places like that, but it's still a different type of genetic mix in there to where still could all be African, but ain't no telling. And so you can imagine this head on a 12year-old boy cuz a lot of times your head stay the same size. You can imagine this right here. This head. And then look at these ears. This now y'all see why this man became a terror on y'all. This why he did y'all like that. And now it make a lot more sense that why he just was running off the prices of everything because the amount of insecurity. This man was never even looked at by women his whole life. He never was looked at. Y'all ain't even see him. Y'all Y'all ain't even look nowhere near at him. You ain't look at nothing about him. And so, and then you see how he got a little bit of y'all forgive me. They got advertisement popping up. little raggedish uh raggedish site. And so trying to see if I could zoom in. F4 head is like, "Boy, we don't need no zoom." Now you trying to zoom. You can't see this thing. And see how he got a little fold over on his eyes. Then see how you know his eyes is is very small for the for the size of his head. His eyes is very small. So that's going to induce more insecurity. And I'm not saying anything is wrong with any of this y'all. I'm just describing it. So if this is your twin, I'm not picking at you. I'm just describing it from a male perspective about a man. So if you look just like this, I'm not picking on you. So please understand that your mama love you. God love you. I love you. We brothers and sisters in Christ. And then then so his mustache at one point on one of the video looked glued on and he had it really long to where it was like hanging off almost like the kind that they twist at the end. And then he have this right here which we now see is not glued on but it almost look glued on. And so now that headband makes sense. I would have to I have the team headband on all the time as well cuz when you have and and the hairline the hairline want to be about right here with with this size forehead. The hairline wants to be about right here. And it and this look like a little scar. It look like he had butted something before. And then So, you see what I mean? This is why, and this is what I've been trying to tell y'all all along. This what I've been telling y'all all along is this. That's what I've been telling you. That's what I've been telling you. These men. Now, now, who do this look like? Y'all don't even know the show. Who do this look like? a worser version of the boy from the podcast Fresh and Fit where they have the boy that's this color and then they have a darkkinned boy. He look like the the lighter skinned one and you hear how he be talking on that show. Ain't I don't know where it's at. I don't know if they got demonetized or whatever. Ain't heard it seen in a long time. I don't know if they broke up or what, but he used to be talking so reckless and he looked like this. That's why they talk like that. That's what I try to tell you. You are going to hate women when you look like this. When you have that head butt ability and they c well I'm call it a five head. This right here will be a six or a seven head because he also had that he's 6'5. So this so this head is larger than what the picture is giving. This head is extremely large cuz he's 6'5. So that's practically Jack and the bean stalk head. So it also is filled with a brain and now it makes sense how he could lie so good so fast. I seen somebody say that man was in flow state with the lies. I've never seen anything like that. And y'all and I know y'all tired of hearing about it. You don't want to hear about it. But I am just perplexed because I'm I'm I'm a talker. You hear I be talking and I can't do what he did. My goodness. It it is just utterly amazing just the amount of lies that the man would tell and just how swift he was with it. And I'm going tell you the man is not done. You do not do this at 35 years old and be done. And what is this recetivism rate? 85%. He's coming out and he is coming up with another scam because look, everybody don't know him. Everybody don't know him. So, he's going to find a way to find a sector of women who have no clue what he look like. And I'm going to tell you what he going to do. He going to get a Bob Marley hairstyle when he come out and he going to grow the beard all the way out. He basically going to be in a disguise. He gonna be looking for me too. He gonna be hot with me, boy. He's sitting in there holding cell watching this video now. Dejan Hush, be quiet. Stay out the comments. And so this right here, look, there's a lady. I just watched it. And so at first I was looking and I'm like, h, that's interesting. I put it in my story. I put it in my story. Let me find it. Let's see what thing it is. Fox 12, Oregon. So, it's a lady that is on here and and I'm going to tell you now, they are actually they're actually looks compatible. Anderson real estate developer during the firsterson >> I need someone who has been around money who understands that, you know, these things aren't luxuries to me. This is just my normal life. Within 5 minutes, I decided I wasn't going to see him again. >> Love was arrested by the >> So that's actually his looks compatibility. is actually his little compatibility and not saying anything wrong with her or anything like Yeah, Y'all forgive my wife car in the shop. So they write me. So that's the thing is my son Fire. He that lady is his looks compatibility. So he knew who would possibly give him a little bit of play. And she say after 5 minutes she knew she was done talking to him. And and I'm going be honest with you. This is the thing and this why I try to tell y'all like so do y'all So when a black man cuz he's a man of color. When a black man looks like this, you're more fiercely judged by people who look like you. So people who are black, they know and are familiar with black people features. So they're going to judge you a little harsher. They're going to judge you a little harsher because it's like, "Oh, look at them ears. Oh, look at that forehead. Oh, look at her little soft hair. Oh, look at look at the little little eyes." Like, you just getting judged harsher because they looking at black people all the time. But when you go to another race, they don't know all of the features. They don't know. And there's a lot of white men that have ears just like this. And a nose just like that. Not lips like that. Not white men, but And that's how the white women want their lips to look right there. How his look. So they probably love his lips cuz they like, "Oh, that's how I'm trying to get my lips to look." Cuz that's what they be going to do down there. Spending $700,000 to get the lips like that. I don't know why. Don't understand it. will never. But that's what they be doing. And tight forehead full of Botox. His his forehead ain't got no botox in it, but look like a Botox forehead. So they recognize and understand that as well. And so his looks compatibility really is like he would be a king to a one of the, you know, 450B trailer park white women who drive the 10year-old caravan. And it be like little crumbs and stuff in there. Dirt be all in there. She might have three, four kids. Like she pop pee now. She get food now. She get welfare. She know how to flip the system now. She got EBT. She got TBE. She got she she eating crowd le Uncle John sausage corn on the cob. for some reason she could give a negro 1,200 done a month easy. She know how to touch money and she keep her black man. Ironically, her kids might be all white. She might have a one or two mixed ones, but if she don't, she ready for a mixed one. And those women treat men like this right here like a king. He knew that he had to put that headband on. He had to get the jury and the cause. But this brother going through a lot. This brother going through a lot. I'm starting to more I'm studying the case. I'm starting to feel bad for him. This this brother going through a lot. I'm trying to tell you. And so that's one of those things. Yeah, I'll forgive him. And so one of those things y'all forgive him. Click that button. Give me one second here. Got to take this house call. Sorry about that there. And so that's what I want you to start doing. And this what I try to tell y'all. This what I try to tell y'all that you got to realize is it's a situation where you got to be able not only when you reading yourself. is a part of it when you're reading yourself but also when you are reading other people. So there are the narratives and the things that's pushed by society. And when those things are pushed by society, you got to realize that it's a situation of that's what people are programmed by. People see that over and over and over again and they think, "Okay, this is normal." So whenever people come to me for coaching and they send me a picture of themselves and I read them and I tell them, "This is what your picture says to me about you." And they be like, "Yep, exactly. Wow. How can you tell all that about me by a picture?" and they'll send me a picture of their boyfriend or husband or girlfriend and I read it and I tell them like he's like this, he like this, he like this, he like this. Like, wow, you describe him to a tea. The reason how I'm able to do that is because I study how the world treats you based on how you look. So, you're going to be a minister to society when you look how he look. It's not it's not to say that the man is ugly. It's just that he have so we think about movies, we think about representations. And y'all forgive me now. When somebody is a criminal or somebody is a fraud or somebody is whatever. So people got mad at me for describing the brother G. Craig Lewis and they took offense cuz I said he looked like a Down Syndrome mutant Ninja T uh mutant Ninja Turtle, but it was like I was using Down Syndrome, not in a derogatory way. I was just literally saying like missing a chromosome mutant Ninja Turtle. I wasn't trying to be funny or be rude or nothing like that. I was just saying he look like mutant Ninja Turtle missing a chromosome. But the thing about it is, I'm not going to mince my words when I'm talking about somebody who is up preaching and practically raping women and like getting women pregnant and marrying them off and making them have I'm not going to mince my words and try to be politically correct when I'm talking about somebody who living a fraud lifestyle. So, same thing like with this brother here. I ain't gonna try to beat around the bush and not make my comparisons when he's a criminal and he was trying to groom a 17y old. So y'all have to get out your feelings on that part now. But when you look at him and you think about all the movies you done watch, what do we look like? Idris Ela or one of them things off Men in Black. Boom. You like, man, he look like a human version of that alien off men and black. So now if that's how you look and you walking around, people looking at you strange. People treating you wrong. This boy used to get bullied growing up. That's why he never played sports. That's why he never played football because it was like it's a different type of dude that was playing football. And so that's one of those things to where you got to be able to look at somebody and you just and this what and this how you're going to read them and this is how a lot of times people going to treat you. Now, some people will surprise you and they will be an exception to the rule. And when I grew up, I had a real big head to where it didn't bother me though. For some reason, it didn't bother because nobody picked on my head except for my cousin. Had one cousin and he was like, "Cub, boy, you look down, you going to fall over. Cuz you can't look down on the hill, boy. You going to fall over and roll down the hill." Hey, cuz you don't have dreams, boy. You have movies. And we'll be walking down the hallway at school and I Hey, C. I look over there. He'll duck. He'll duck real quick. Dang, C, you got to turn a you got to put a turn signal on before you turn that thing. And I remember I was seven years old went to play football and and what you got to realize I'm hard on myself too. A lot of people be thinking I'm mean and rude. No, I'm just real. I just explain I just express stuff the way it's expressed. I I went into the facility to play football at 7 years old. We in a little box building, little little building about the size of the room I'm in. And they had helmets lined up around the whole room. They had me try on every large helmet they had. Now, one arm fit because I had a hook head, what they call a watermelon head or a football head. And so like, "Hey, Arnold." And so they I had that hook. So when that helmet hooked that hook, the helmet couldn't come all the way down. The face mask couldn't come all the way down. So the face mask stopped right here. Y'all notice when he put that helmet on, his face mask was right here, too, cuz that forehead. That's why you couldn't play no football cuz that forehead and that cone it don't let that helmet cuz your chin too long, your head too high, that football helmet don't fit. So they came to my mom, they came to my daddy and was like, "Well, sir, we're going to have to special order your son a helmet from Texas. We live in Florida. We're gonna have to special order a helmet from Texas because that's the other football state and that's where the helmets are made. And we have to get a ex exceptionally large helmet to fit his head. And I was out there look like a astronaut. You know that thing the astronaut have on? I was out there like a astronaut. All head built like a lollipop. But I very fast ran a bunch of touchdowns and then I had colored eyes which nobody else had colored eyes. in our area. So it made me look different. So it was like, "Oh, that's unique about you." So we'll take it easy on their head. So I didn't get picked on a bullet. But then I also my daddy his all his family live there. And my cousin used to pick on me. He'll fight anybody but me. Anybody want to fight me, he step up. I'm 5'10, he 5'7 as adult. So back then he still was shorter than me. Anybody wanted to fight me, he said, "You want to fight my cous, you have to fight me first." So I So I never took it personal when he would clown me cuz I knew it was all love. And I like I tell my sons too, when somebody picking on you in your face, that mean cuz you got notches to be knocked down. They feel like you got notches to be knocked down. When some when it's somebody who know you and like you for real. If it's a hater or a bully, that's different. So y'all could imagine what this man went through and everybody who went to elementary with him, middle school with him, this is y'all fault. This man is out here scamming because of y'all. That's all it is. Y'all got to forgive me because my son text and I need to be attentive cuz my wife at practice I think so she can't text so I need to text. Y'all forgive me. And so this one of the things and and this another thing too is like when you get out here and you want to scam people and steal people money and lie, you can't be sensitive. You going to have to get talked about. You going to have to be an example cuz this this the only way this this the only way you get a whooping. You you grown. So it's like this part of your whooping to get you whooped into shape to get you out here. Do the right thing when you get back out here. But I want y'all to really understand this and study this and just be able to see like, okay, so if you see somebody like a famous actor or artist or something that the world is promoting, that might be an above average look. So you're not basing them based on that above average look. You basing them on the standard look, the the the average look. And then wherever a person is in comparison to that average look that's how you judge looks compatibility. So if somebody is above average then you know the world has ate out of their hand and catered to them. If somebody is average you know they've had a normal existence except for a few here and there. Some people treated them below average because they were above average and some people treated them above average because they were below average. And then if somebody is below average and so this this what I mean by below average is this what I mean. So this is a So if you look at my forehead and you you see my forehead and you see the size of it and then you look at his forehead, see how it protrudes out. So if my forehead is average, now this wrinkle in my forehead ain't average. And that's how I used to walk around like this all the time when I had acne in middle school. But if my forehead average and it's no real protrusion and then he have a protruding forehead, then his forehead going to be considered above average. I mean below average. So here's the thing. Somebody with his forehead may treat me with my forehead above average cuz they like, "Dang, man. Wish I had your forehead." But then somebody with a above average forehead who is smaller than mine. It's all tight. It's no wrinkle. They might treat my forehead like it's below average. Like hey boy, you got that big old boy. You got a creek running through the middle of your forehead. Boy, everything all right. Quiet on the creek ain't you? And so you're going to have when you average, you're going to have experiences, a few experiences where you get treated above or below based on who you dealing with, who you dating or who you around or who you talking to. Then if you are below average, everybody is dumping on you. Everybody looking down on you, everybody mistreating you, everybody. So you got to think about it. below average forehead, below average eye socket, below average ears. Then being a brown person, which is a black person, we also are treated like secondass citizens already off rip. So now we treated below average just for being of color. So now you got four things right there. Then he's tall and he is skinny. He's skinny as an adult. So imagine how skinny he looked when he had that growth spurt as a kid. So now he got five things as a kid. No tattoos to help you look tough, to help you look famous, to help you look rich. So you tall, you stick skinny, huge head comparison to your body, ears are protruding. You really being mistreated and it's not your fault. And it breaks my heart for him now. I can't feel all I can't feel like super bad for him, but I feel bad for him. And and I feel bad for the victim, too. A lot of people think we don't feel bad for the victim. I feel bad for the victim cuz they was lost, naive, desperate. They were going through stuff. Feel bad for everybody involved. Feel bad. But so this what I try to say when you look at somebody history and their biography, that's when it help you understand the makeup of who they are. So when we see this whole face put together, this is the person in Spider-Man and Batman and Superman, this the face that they recruit to be a villain and they'll put some big old covers on them ears and they'll put a big old shiny strong rocket shooting helmet on their head and then the beard and the lips and the nose will be what's look regular. And so that's out the mask and that's where you get your aura from right there. Nose and your lips and your beard. But then they'll they'll give you some armor for them ears and that forehead and you out there just just shooting all kind of rockets at people. You you want to blow up the world because you've been getting th in the head your whole life. You've been th like this. The kind of ear right there when we used to play thumps. We used to play thunks. You used to take that finger and you used to pull that finger and pull that finger way behind that thumb knuckle. You get behind that thumb knuckle and you get right up on that ear and you trying to take skin off that ear. You do you know how what that man is went through? That man ills went that's why he talking y'all ear off because of what his ears went through. So you have to realize, so that's how I read people. When I see people, I look at them. I look at the media and what they promote, what they put out there, and I ask myself, is this is this person below average, average, or above average? That tells me how they were treated. They were treated either below average, average, or above average. That tells me how their personality and their attitude was shaped. Now, I'm going tell you something now. Sometimes people who are treated below average become the best people in the world because they've been stepped on. They've been ostepped over. They've been overlooked. They've been mistreated. So, they actually become empaths. A lot of those people become the best coaches, the best speakers, the best counselors, best therapists, best pastors, best whatever because they can feel everybody's pain because they've been mistreated their whole life. And it's two ends of the spectrum. So, some become empaths and then some become narcissists. What y'all favorite word? and they become a nightmare. They become a menace to society and they are out for blood. Like they they Now, what I like about this guy is that he wasn't killing people and eating their heart. He could have easily been doing that with the way he had to eat women wide open. He could have easily been doing it. He wasn't cutting off limbs. He wasn't putting nobody in no freezer. He wasn't to from what we've heard, he wasn't beating on women. He wasn't taking it from him. Like, so I like that about him because he could have been a lot worse. And I'm just glad that for him, he just felt broke and insignificant and he felt like women were the quickest, safest come up. I'm glad he found out it crime doesn't pay and it doesn't work. I'm glad he found that out. and that he going to be able to come home and have a new attitude, have a new mindset. He definitely need a new mindset and he going to be able to listen to new information and just get new information and then see a new vision for his life and really get to the place to where okay, I got to be a better man. I got to be a real man. I have got to do better because you got to think about it being 6'5 this man could have been a car salesman. I actually went up the Mercedes Ben dealership and we had a car I had a car show like 68. That man could have sold a me. Can you imagine this? This man talk gang selling you a car boy. You buying everything, bro. When he get out they need to hire him at the Lamborghini dealership. Let him sell to these rich men. that's coming down there to get a Lamborghini. Lamb sold lamb uh import exotic car dealership need to get him a job and let him have one of the cars to drive and just make him sign a contract that he ain't going to be scamming no women while he driving the car and that he not going to be shooting videos while he driving, sending women a bunch of bunch of videos. But let him sell them cars. That man will sell the mess out of car being 6'5 talk gang like that. Let him wear a hat at to the job and have his tattoos out, have his polo and let them tell the unsuspecting people who never heard of his story that he's a former NFL player. He basically is a former NFL player. We'll go with it to get off the lambs. We will go with it. Go ahead, Dejon. Let him change his name to something else. and let the man sell. So ladies, which one of y'all, how many of y'all think that he is extremely handsome? Because if you think he's extremely handsome, that means this your looks compatibility. But I'm going tell y'all, I'm descriptive and I'm describing him, not to pick on him, not to beat up on him. So I ain't asking y'all to beat up on the man or to pick on the man or nothing like that in the comments. I'm just saying to just describing to you the looks compatibility. Now, so listen, when you have very unique features, understand unique does not mean ugly. They both start with a U, but they different words. When you have very unique features, understand that what you got to realize is understand that y'all. I were up past midnight on Tik Tok live. I fell asleep while I'm talking. Told y'all too old for that Tik Tok. And I was about to say something about unique feature and fell asleep. Oh, oh, I got it. I remember. When you have unique features, you have to remember that your race is always going to judge you far more harsh because they have the database of all of the features of y'all's race. So that's why you see a lot of people who look unique date outside of their race because the other race doesn't have the familiarity and the references of all of the features. So, for example, if a white woman have a a nose that's like this here, if she go to the white man, he might be like, "Wow, okay. Nose is a little larger than I'm used to." But then if she goes to a blight man, he might be like, "This interesting." Got to know. It's like it's it's almost like we have wide nose, they have long nose. So it just instead of her nose going this way, her nose go this way. Okay. And he just looking at like, oh yeah, that's going to hinder us on our tongue kissing. But other than that, and they going to realize, oh, that's why they turn the head to the side. And she could go or she might go to a Indian man or to a Hispanic man and they appreciate that. No. She go the white man, he judging her. He trying to throw hints like, "Have you ever considered a nose job?" Not saying anything, but I know some women don't like having their dad's nose. And I just wondering like if you ever thought about a nose job. I love your nose now. It's just like that's cute. Little button nose, but I'm just curious. And the white man gonna go there and like, "Oh my god." And so that's why you got to realize that's why a lot of time when you see interracial couples when they're rich they have an above average look or whatever it may be. When they're middle lower middle class or lower class or sometimes even middle class you will notice something unique about them. The guy, the black guy may look very studious, socially antisocial, socially awkward. The white woman may have a different forehead or she may have a really like rotoned thick booty. And white guys do not like that for the most part. Like you'll notice a feature that you're like, "Oh, that's different." And that's unique cuz ain't nothing wrong with the man ears. It's just it's a unique set of ears with the way he wears haircut. Maybe if he had a little thing or whatever then it'll be a little different. And so that's what you got to realize and understand y'all is going to be you got to learn how to read people. got to learn how to be able to see and just be able to tell like, okay, where is this person on the look scale in the looks compatibility and understand that and we all hide and and whatn not, you know, if I if I go on out here and just start wearing a receding or thinning hairline, gonna give me a whole different look, you know, gonna give me a different look. and or if I went ball and walk around with a ball head, that's a different look. Don't necessarily mean it'll look bad. It just will be different. It'll be unique. So now it's like some people absolutely hate bald head. Some people love bald head. So some people going to treat you below average, some people going to treat you average, some people going to treat you above average. And so those experiences shape us. It shapes us. I had a It was a girl who looked like Serena Williams I grew up with. And ironically, her name was Rocky. And she was built just like Serena Williams is now. She was built like that as a middle schooler. And every year in middle school, sixth, seventh, and eighth grade, she used to come up to me every year, first day of school, Tony, are you gonna be my boyfriend this year? She was just assertive like that. And I'd be like, yeah, all right. but she was bigger than me, so I couldn't be her boyfriend. I just was not comfortable with a woman who had more thighs and booty and muscle, arm muscle than me. I just had I hadn't developed yet. As I got older, I was really attracted to her, you know, and I'm like, man, boy, got that body. that whole brick house, you know, and but as a as a young man, I just really But here's what it was. She was dark skinned and and we had this idiot that got blocked the other day talking about Tanya, you talking about darkkinned women have a tough time in society. You're part of the problem pushing that narrative. I'm not pushing the narrative. I didn't create the narrative. When I don't acknowledge that, dark-kinned women get mad at me for trying to make like their life is peaches and cream and light-kinned women got it worse. Everybody knows that the darker you are in our world, the worse you're treated. That's not rocket science. I didn't create that. And so, and that's part of your insecurity that's even hurting your feelings when I'm speaking the truth. when I'm acknowledging your existence and what you've gone through and showing empathy for it that I'm even acknowledging it and you're getting mad about me speaking the truth about the existence when everybody knows that and then at the same time you'll have white women I mean light-skinned women say they had it hard because they were called light bright and they was picked on for no reason and all the darker girls wanted to fight them because they accused them of trying to take their man, trying to take their boyfriend, and they didn't even know the girl boyfriend, but just cuz she was light-skinned, everybody thought that she thought she was all that. So, now they want to ram her head into the to the lockers. So, everybody have their own stories of pain. And so, here it was. She was a darker skinned woman and as kids that colorism impacts you in another way and I was a a little lighter than her and then so I was a little lighter than her and then being at by this time maybe one of two black boys with uh with colored eyes. She saw that as attractive. She saw that as this is the opposite of me. his his complexion, his look is the opposite of me. And a lot of times we like the opposite. Opposites attract. A lot of time we like the opposite because we don't love ourselves and we don't like how we look. So somebody who look like me, the opposite may be a white woman or a Hispanic woman. And so they'll go and get a white woman because they're like, "That's the opposite of me." And they might not. And then a light-skinned man, if you notice, a lot of time light-skinned men want darker skinned women because that's the opposite of him. And then brownkinn or darkkinned men may want a light-skinned or Hispanic or white woman. So that's these are the things that you have to acknowledge. It doesn't mean that you condoning it. It doesn't mean that you promoting it. It doesn't mean that you agree with it. It just means that you are reading reality. You're reading the room and you see how people move on average. There's always exceptions to the rule. And somebody always got their panties or they boxes in a or draws in a wad and be like, "Oh, well my I have a friend who is dark skinned and they love dark skinned people and I have someone who's light-kinned and they love light-kinned people." It's like, okay, congratulations. Here goes a cookie. Like, it happens. Nobody said it did it. We talking about the majority. And so when you look around and you and you look at as you look at a 100 couples, if they black, they a lot of times are not going to be the same exact complexion. White people don't have complexions, so they just all white. But when you look at black people, we have we run the gambit of all the colors. So was it Noah kids or somebody kids like Ham, Jeff, and Shim. And they were saying like those three names, one of them meant red, one meant black, one meant whatever. I don't know if it was them or Mach and Abednego them, but so it's one of those things. One of those things. So, you got to realize this and pay attention to this and understand that this stuff is real. This stuff is real. It ain't going nowhere. You got to learn how to read little compatibility. And and I'm going tell you, you decide who you're compatible with. Don't I can't decide who you compatible with. You got to make that assessment. Sometimes people come to me and be like, Tony, I want to know, you know, who's my look's compatibility. And it's like, listen, I'mma tell you from my perspective, from my studies, from my experience, and if I tell you it's the boy who played Biggest Smalls, and then now you now you want to swing on me because you thought you was a little compatible with Idra Ela or Michael Eely, and now you like, oh, what? Biggest small. Why is that? So, what are you saying about me? And I'm like, I'm not saying anything. I'm just saying that he would be very attracted to you and he would treat you like a prize. Don't mean you on the same look scale as him. Don't mean y'all both the same number on the scale. It's just a man a lot of time dates or marries two notches up. If a man a six, he could get a eight cuz we provide. If he a could get a 10. If he a four, he could get a six. So a lot of times women get offended because who they are ideally looks compatible with is a couple notches below them on the look scale and they want somebody that's at their level or higher but that's not how it works because men are the providers. So your money buys you a little better looking of a woman. So, if you notice, you see the 5'6 white guy with the very hard pot belly and the really big ears and really interesting forehead and head, but then he got this bombshell of a wife, but he's a multi-millionaire. The same thing when you look at these pro aletes. Some of them look like they just got dropped off of the Santa Ana slave ship and they woman look like they've been bathing in juices and berries for 6 months and then oils and merkas and frents the other six months. And it's like, okay, how do this go together? We got co such and such. Uh what's her name? Nefertiti. And the women don't that the the Nefertiti looking woman don't ever go for that that man, the big John Henry working on the railroad track man. But let him get to the NFL. Oh, she right up on them. And it's like now why you want a man look like that in high school? Because he was it he was there definitely there. You ain't want but now he's a multi-millionaire. All of a sudden he your money man. And it's like but so that's what you got to realize. It's caveats and nuances. It's caveats and nuances. You got to realize that. But hey, got the coach, y'all. God bless you. Keep your head up. Hey, you seeking purpose, get out your feelings. Get in the purpose pusher group now. Get on out your feelings. God bless you. Keep your head up. We'll talk soon. Link in the description. Oh, Destiny is in the app store. Get on Destiny. You got a iPhone? Get on D. Especially to every single man. Y'all tell every single man you know with a iPhone, get on Destiny. God bless you. We'll talk soon.