Video summary
In this episode of Ice Coffee Hour, host Graham Stephan interviews Tiffany Ma, a Los Angeles-based YouTube influencer who recently moved to California after supporting her friend Kevin Stamps' gubernatorial campaign in Venice Beach. The conversation centers on Tiffany's financial transparency and the viral success of her "how much I spend" videos, which prompted Graham to create reaction content that significantly outperformed her original uploads. Tiffany reveals she currently spends approximately $60,000 per month as a homeowner, though this figure fluctuates due to irregular sponsorship payments from brands like Carrot Credit and Oxygen Bank, some of which have delayed payouts by up to five months. She candidly discusses the challenges of managing finances without an agent in her early career, admitting she once used a fake manager named "Lisa Bates" to negotiate higher rates before eventually securing representation with WME. Tiffany shares deeply personal details about her background, explaining that while many perceive her life as privileged due to her current success and home ownership, she grew up in poverty behind a trailer park in Sacramento's Broderick neighborhood and later lived near the infamous Cecil Hotel in downtown LA during college. Her journey began at age 16 with makeup tutorials on YouTube, leading her to quit a $60,000 accounting job offer from an internship after graduating high school without a diploma due to failing one Spanish class. Despite deferring that lucrative corporate offer for two years to pursue content creation full-time, she eventually grew her subscriber base and income significantly, though the transition involved moving into a loft in Skid Row with roommates to save money while building her channel. The discussion also covers Tiffany's investment strategy and future goals, including plans to purchase a vacation rental property in Colorado for Airbnb purposes rather than buying immediately due to market conditions there. She holds approximately $180,000 in stocks via Robinhood, Public, and Webull, with positions in companies like Tesla, Shopify, Disney, and Dogecoin, though she admits to losing money on cash reserves while waiting for real estate opportunities. Tiffany expresses a desire to transition from content creation to becoming an angel investor and starting her own business, citing the saturation of startup pitches as a deterrent but maintaining interest in backing creators through platforms like Carrot Credit. Finally, they touch upon social dynamics within their respective communities, with Tiffany recounting her experience serving as Vice President of Finance for Kappa Delta sorority at UCLA, where she enforced strict financial accountability by sending non-paying members to collections agencies despite the emotional difficulty involved. She contrasts this with her own childhood experiences and current lifestyle, noting that while some peers had wealthy backgrounds or allowances in the thousands, she prides herself on being good with money since fourth grade when she made a pact never to ask for funds again. The episode concludes with promotional segments for sponsors like Morning Brew and Public.com, highlighting Tiffany's continued engagement with her audience through vlogs, merchandise collaborations, and financial advice while maintaining a grounded perspective on wealth accumulation versus spending.
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Welcome back to the 55th ever episode of
the Ice Coffee Hour. My name is Tiffany
Ma, and so far we've made it $67,800
on this episode. On this podcast. Oh,
wow. She put a spin on it. I hope it
happens one day. That would be amazing
if you could make $67,000
for an episode. That was so much
pressure. I'm not going to lie.
Really?
Yes.
You did great. That was I will say
that's probably the best one we've had
so far.
Don't don't hype me up like that.
No, I'm serious. It was great.
No. Jack rarely says that, by the way.
Yeah. Oh, thank you.
Thank job. Well, thank you so much for
coming on the podcast, coming all the
way from Los Angeles.
Yes, it was a 5-hour drive. Really? Wow.
Did you Did you do that this morning? I
did do it this morning. Oh, we did that,
too. That Yeah. Actually, wait a second.
No, yeah, we were an hour ahead of you.
So, we went to Los Angeles briefly
yesterday, just to support Meet Kevin.
He's running for governor of California.
You got to vote for Meet Kevin. Vote for
Meet Kevin. But, he was holding a rally
in Venice Beach, and last minute we
decided it would be a really good idea
to go down and surprise him.
That's That's good friends right there.
I also can't believe he's running for
governor.
Yeah. And he's serious about it, too.
People were were actually messaging me
on Instagram and saying, "I didn't know
he's serious. I thought it was like a
publicity thing. I thought he was doing
it for clicks." Like, no, he's he's
actually serious. He's really doing it.
He's running.
Do you know who the other candidates are
other than Caitlyn Jenner? Uh Gavin
Newsom. Oh, that makes a lot of sense.
Do we say his name here? Do we say his
name?
think he says his name. Okay. Yeah. We
can bleep out the name, as well.
Yeah. Kevin calls him Gruesome Newsom.
Why is that?
He's not a He's not a Oh, he's not a
fan. It makes sense.
He's his opponent. That makes a lot of
sense.
So, we should probably give you a little
bit of an introduction before we
proceed. Graham, you like saying the
story.
Yes. Okay. So, Tiffany Ma, you are Yeah.
So, you are a YouTube
influencer. Yes.
YouTubers.
And uh you posted a video a long time
ago. Maybe like What was it? 2 years
ago?
Probably. How you bought a $1.3 million
house at 25 years old.
Yes. And in that video
I reacted to it.
Mhm. And I forget at the very end I I
said you clickbaited us because you
never told us the details of like how
expensive the house was. Yes.
So you gave basically your entire story
of how you got started, how you made
money from YouTube, you saved it up, you
bought this house in Los Angeles. And it
looked like a really nice house, by the
Thank you.
So I reacted to it and I'm like, "You
didn't give us all the details." Then
you made a video of What was it? How you
spend Was it how you spend your money?
Um it's how much I spend in a week, I
believe. Yes. How much you spend in a
week. I reacted to that because in that
video you went down your houses your
house expenses.
Mhm. And both of those videos, by the
way, did extremely well on our channel.
Yeah. They really did.
all one. mine. I was like, "Graham is
making more money
off of me than I am." Which is so
embarrassing embarrassing for me. It's
not It's really good for you guys.
So this this also happened with I felt
so bad for Shelby Church. She would put
like days of work into these videos that
I would just knock out in like 30
minutes. And the video that I would
react to in 30 minutes would like triple
the views of of Shelby's original video
and make like double the amount.
Don't hate the player, hate the game.
Yeah.
I mean, mad respect for you for figuring
out that reaction videos do so well.
So So we realized like, "Wait a second.
We're on to something" cuz two videos in
a row from your channel did really well.
So we're like, "How else could we
extract value from this channel?" And we
What did we do?
You What was the next one? You posted
another video.
It was how much I spend in a month.
As a homeowner. Yes.
Right?
Yes. Yeah. So then
a third one.
Yes. So yeah, we're not going to stop at
two.
No. Going to go three for three.
How much I spend in a month.
And that video exceeded our expectations
very well.
well. And then you realize this, you're
like, you know what? I'm going to make a
response video to Graham. Mhm. So then
you respond to me, and then I'm like,
now it's started. Because now that you
responded to me, I got to respond back
to you.
I was jealous you're making so much
money off me that I was like, I need to
make money off of Graham somehow.
Smart. It's smart. And by the way, all
of these conversations were happening
through YouTube. We had reached out like
briefly maybe a year ago saying like,
oh, you know, we should all just grab
dinner at some point. Uh but everything
else be beyond that was like through
YouTube. So I would hear your response,
record myself responding to you, post it
on YouTube, then you would respond back.
Yes. We did this like five times, and it
was very successful for our channel. So
now, this is the first time we've met in
person. That's amazing. So hi. Hey. So
thank you so much. So yes, the story
doesn't end there. Oh, let's continue
the
You forced You didn't force me. You You
really tried to get me to make a video
that I was really uncomfortable making.
Wow.
But I did it cuz you said that I should
do it, and I said if I got 5,000 likes,
I would make it, which was
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Yeah, that's right.
$40,000 a month. I feel like that's on
the low end.
60. Oh, it was 60?
I thought it was 40. No, that was Kelly
Stamps.
Kelly was 40. Gosh, I'm
confusing everybody. $60,000 a month.
But I feel like that would be on the low
end.
Um It It's got to be.
Some You know what it is? It's my
sponsorships really fluctuate, which is
the number one thing I hate about what I
do, which is why I would love if the
majority of my income actually came from
AdSense because it's very, very steady.
No, my uh some days I have really,
really good months.
Some days I
don't get paid for 4 months later. So,
um Is it the same for you because I know
you do sponsorships as well, but do you
get paid 3 months later?
Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, so there there was one
that I'm never going to work with again.
We'll bleep it out, Alex.
to now. Yeah. It has been terrible. I
will never do them again. They're a
fantastic product, but just bleep out
They're a fantastic product. I actually
really like them, but as far as having
them as a sponsor, we'll never do it
again. How long do they take? Uh like 4
or 5 months.
It was terrible. It was terrible.
Wait, that's bad for you guys? That's
bad.
That That was bad.
five months?
Yeah. Who's your agent? Who's your
agent?
Um so I was with WME, but I'm no longer
with them and I just have a manager now.
You should I feel like it's not the
brand's fault. It's the It's the agent's
fault if it's taking forever. Um so the
story I'm going to say is actually
before I had an agent or a manager and I
used to have a fake manager.
I would send an I was smart but dumb in
some some ways. I would pretend I would
have a manager so that I could actually
ask for more money. So my girl's name
was Lisa Bates.
Um I'd be like I'd get the incoming
email and I'd be like, "Yeah, let me
send it to my manager." My manager's
name was Lisa Bates. I'm not going to
lie, trying to make her sound as
Caucasian as possible.
Um and she would be the one dealing my
deals. But
Wait, so you were catfishing? So you're
pretending to be the manager?
with massive brands catfishing. Like I'm
talking about 200 500 companies
catfishing them and then I finally got a
manager. But
done Lisa Gates or like Lisa Bezos.
Schwartz or something like that, you
know. I mean I I honestly I look back
Goldstein, Lisa Musk.
Lisa I think
you can't mess with Lisa Musk.
What was that movie with Christian Bale
where his last name was Bates?
American Psycho.
There you go. I think I just watched it
and I was like, "Lisa Bates is in it in
it."
Um but we'll bleep this out. Um
you know,
Yeah.
didn't pay me for a year and a half and
then they paid me
It was a $10,000 brand deal. This was
before I had a manager. So 10,000 to me
was so much.
Um they only ended up paying me seven.
Why?
and a half later.
Why?
I don't know. I even emailed them being,
"This is $3,000 short." They never
responded. Wow.
How do you land those like mainstream
media like brand deals? Um you know what
it is? I think it's because
we're different types of influencers. I
definitely am more of a lifestyle
influencer, so I work with 17 magazine,
Vogue, um
Target, these massive
actual five Fortune 500 companies.
Um and I think it's just the type of
content that I produce. So, if you see
my Instagram, I I think my photos are
cute and good. And I'm also very
relatable because at the time I was in
college and
um
I don't know, that's a really good
question. I think I think of that I
think of that every single day. I'm I
can't believe Target wants to work with
me, especially since I cuss now. Mhm. I
find it very surprising. Let's let's go
all the way back. How did you get
started doing all of this? Uh it's
It's a crazy story. So,
I was 16 when I started. Um I watched a
lot of makeup videos on YouTube and I
was like, I think I can do makeup as
well.
I could not. Terrible makeup artist. I'm
not even a makeup artist. Terrible
makeup
applier in general. Um and then I
graduated
high school, went to UCLA. I was
consistently making videos maybe once
every other month.
Um
my senior year of high school college,
sorry.
I got a full-time offer for $60,000
doing
I was business economics. I'm so sorry,
I'm all over the place right now.
There's so much to this story.
Um so, my junior year between senior
year, I had a summer internship for one
of a pretty big um accounting firm. Um
they gave me a full-time offer with
$60,000.
Um and then that February, right before
I was graduating,
uh both my grandparents passed away. And
I had a midlife crisis. So, uh
I remember crying.
I actually called Tammy, who's sitting
over there. I was like, "Tammy, I don't
want to do this job. I think I want to
make YouTube videos full-time." But, the
problem is I I made $11,000 or 13,000
dollars the year before. That's not bad.
Like that's pretty good.
That's true, but going from 60,000
dollars in a cushy career-driven job
where there's a corporate ladder that I
can climb versus
11,000 dollars. I was like
Yeah.
I don't know if I'm throwing away a
career just for YouTube. But
85% pay cut. Oh, that's Yeah, that's
good math.
Imagine that check. 85% less. Hmm.
You wouldn't be able to eat all the fast
food he's eating, right?
That's That's a reference. Don't even
Well, thank God that uh
a year later I was making six figures.
So it ended up being pretty good.
you went from 11,000 to 100,000 dollars
in 1 year on YouTube? How? Um I grew so
fast. I think I graduated with maybe
100,000 subscribers and then it grew to
about six to 700 So how much were you
making with 100,000?
11,000 dollars.
Wow.
Wait, so so when you quit your job, what
was that like by the way, quitting? Um I
emailed the guy and I was like, is there
any way I can defer my offer cuz I
actually technically didn't start till
October of 2015 after I graduated. So we
were able to defer it to October 2016
cuz they absolutely loved me. I'm a
biggest kiss-ass. I I love talking to
older people. I'm just
I genuinely just like love to get to
know people. So like all the partners
loved me and they were okay with me
deferring.
And you just decided I'm going to dive
headfirst into YouTube. Yes.
So you never rejected the offer though.
You just deferred it.
I just No, I I accepted, which is the
biggest no-no you can do at UCLA. They
tell you all the time that if you ever
get a job offer, never accept it unless
you Mhm. Like don't accept it. Yeah. Um
because it takes the job away from
someone else.
Right. So
definitely a mark on my transcript
there. But um
I uh they actually emailed me in July
2016 asking if I was coming back and I
said no.
Wow. Yeah.
So, they're probably very unhappy with
me. How often were you posting? Like
what was your What was your financial
situation like at that time? Like how
were you able to support yourself and
save and make YouTube videos? Like what
was your financial situation like at
that time? Like how were you able to
support yourself and save and make
YouTube college, um so actually I
convinced Tammy to move into with me in
a loft in downtown LA in Skid Row right
behind Cecil Hotel. Wow.
Yeah. That by the way, I think I watched
What was that? It was on Netflix about
the Cecil. Yes. It was a I highly
recommend anyone that wants to watch
this thing. It's a nail-biter. And I
lived right there. Wow.
Yeah, that was my view was the Cecil
Hotel. For those that don't know, the
Cecil Hotel is located in this area of a
lot of like
transient sort of people who come in and
out a lot and there are a lot of people
who go missing from this hotel just
because of the area it's located in and
the whole story was about was about a
tourist who stayed at the hotel
and then you see this footage of her
kind of going kind of nuts. Oh, is that
the one of her like in the elevator?
and out of the elevator. No, it was the
water tank. Where is she? Yeah, she was
in the water tank. They find her in the
water tank and they try to discover what
happened to her and they try to trace
back like where did things go wrong.
Really, I don't want to give it away
crazy. but watch it.
There's a Netflix documentary on it? Is
there a solution or do they just leave
it at like it as a ambiguous ending? I
It's like a 99% confirmed solution but
like there's maybe that 1% chance where
like that's not what happened.
Yeah, I've seen like top 10 scariest
real life horror stories like YouTube
videos on
videos on YouTube and then that's always
like It was freaky like watching her in
and out of the thing.
Yeah, freaky. She was like looking out
of the elevator, too.
Trying to hide from someone. And then
they they found like some like foot. So
there there may have been like someone
else there. It's watch it. It's a good
It's definitely a good series.
Have you been to the Cecil Hotel?
Um I have not, but I walked by it all
the time since I lived right there. But
that's not even the scariest place I've
ever lived at, surprisingly. I actually
um
I've actually never told anyone this,
and I don't know why I'm telling you.
I'm getting vulnerable. We're getting
very We're getting deep. We're getting
to know each other. Shout out to the
Clips channel. So you know what,
Tiffany? We actually just made a Clips
channel for this podcast.
Nice. Wow, that's amazing.
Isn't that awesome?
That's perfect.
Yeah. It's linked down below. Welcome
back from the sponsor.
Uh welcome back from the sponsor. That's
right. Um so the scariest place I've
actually lived at is when I grew up. Um
I grew up in the ghetto.
So I I I think a lot of my fans or
followers think I've had a cushy life. I
didn't. Um I grew up behind a trailer
park growing up until I was about 8
years old.
was this?
Um so this is Sacramento, um and it's in
a neighborhood called Broderick, which
is actually one of the worst
um neighborhoods in Sacramento. So
yeah, so I've I've seen some things
growing up as a kid.
What made that part so dangerous?
Or scary.
There's gangs in that area for sure.
Yeah, and then there were deaths and
drugs in the trailer park right behind
us. So I mean
I grew up in Section 8 housing. So I
don't know if you're familiar. Yeah, so
um I mean my family was on food stamps.
Uh
I was living with my grandma with my
sisters at the time. So I didn't even
live with my parents, which is very very
common if you're Asian. Like in the
Asian culture, a lot of your
grandparents will raise their kids or
your grandparent will raise you. Why is
that? Because I've seen from from my
Asian friends is they're all in one
household. So it's like a
multi-generational household where like
the grandparents will live with the
parents who live with the kids. But is
it Why Why do the the grandparents raise
the children?
Um well, my mom was an entrepreneur My
entire family is are pretty much
entrepreneurs and thank god that my
uh my parents and my family got us out
of that situation.
But um they actually moved to New York.
They only took me weirdly.
Um and my all two other sisters were
still in Sacramento and they went to
school out there. Um
and then my parents got divorced when I
was
four or five. And then I uh got sent
back to Sacramento to live with my
sisters. Um and I think it's a I don't
know why. I think it's very odd. I would
I could never give up my kid and make my
mom watch them.
But you know, I think it's a different
culture thing and it's a Sure. Um yeah,
I I I can't explain why. Okay. Yeah. How
do you think that that childhood
experience has affected you today?
Um Any thoughts on maybe like money or
relationships or something like that?
You You know what? I see I think I'm
good with my money until Graham Stephan
makes videos about me and I'm like
You are good with your money. You You're
good with your money but I make
everybody look bad with their money
though.
Yes, you make me look so bad. You could
be like
a financial minimalist and I'd be like
wait a second, you spent 15 cents more
than you needed to.
Yeah. See I Yeah, I definitely think I'm
pretty good with my money.
Um
I made a pact with myself when I was in
fourth grade to never ask my parents for
money ever again. So I have not asked my
parents, my grandparents, anyone for
money since I was eight.
in fourth grade though? Um you know what
it is? I hate to call out my other
sister. My other sister
I hope you're not watching this, Tree.
Um so my other sister is a She would
always ask my parents for things and she
knew that we didn't grow up with a lot
of money. So I could just see the stress
on my mom's face and I'm definitely very
empathetic and I definitely grew up a
lot as a kid. I think I grew up really
fast as a child in the situation that we
were in.
Um, there's a lot more trauma with that
as well, but
I just saw how much my parents struggled
that I didn't want to be a burden on
them. So, not to say that they never
gave me money. If they gave me money, I
would never deny it. It was just that I
would never ask for more on top of it.
So, like
if I wanted to go to on a field trip
that was $25, I made sure that was my
own $25 that they had given me prior. It
wasn't like, "I need $25 for a field
trip." It was like Oh, like thank you
for
and budget and
Yeah. Yeah. Um, so I've kind of been
like that my entire life. Hm. But you
make me look terrible.
Oh, jeez. All right.
you out, Graham. I don't feel like
Graham's just addressing the holy making
all these videos getting more views and
just like relentlessly
It's amazing.
Don't feel bad. I'm not trying to make
you feel bad. I'm so sorry. That's not
my So, so Skid Row. So, let's get back
to Skid So, you're living you're living
uh around Skid Row.
Uh, at what point do you do you leave
that area? Move somewhere else?
Uh, my only lived there for a year
because I was making six figures and I
was like, "I can't live in Skid Row."
Although, I will say I was never scared
to live there. Like, to be quite honest,
I never locked my doors. Like, we had it
unlocked all the time.
Um
but
my sister moved out. She moved back to
Sacramento, and I moved to South Park,
which is kind of a more bougier area of
downtown LA, and I had a really nice um
one-bedroom apartment for about
I think it was about 2,000 sq ft for
I think it was 3,400. That was
definitely a splurge for me at the time.
Um, I lived in Lemoore Park for about a
year after that, and then I moved to my
spot now. Do you know where my spot is?
Yeah, it looked like uh West Adams or
something,
Yes.
Like around that cuz I used to be Yeah,
so I lived uh in West Adams. So well?
And I've seen all of the houses around
the area. Oh.
But I But I looked around all of those
areas. I've seen everything cuz I was
obsessed with just trying to find good
deals in that location. And I was
actually I was in escrow briefly. And I
listed the house for like 1.5. And I got
an escrow 1.550. And it just had so many
issues. And the seller was like giving
me shady information. Like stuff that
that if you were a seller, you would
have known about these things. But But
like I I can't say that the seller was
like lying about it. But you should know
if the house is on a septic tank or not,
right?
Mhm.
It's on a septic tank?
Yes. So So there was a guest house that
was built on the property that the
seller said it connects to the sewer
line.
So I said, "Okay, Pearl, I'm going to
get my inspection done." Turned out
there was no sewer line to the guest
house. The guest house was on a septic
tank. But that whole area wouldn't
permit for a septic tank. So the septic
tank was put there illegally. The guest
house they had no record of any permits
ever being pulled for the entire guest
house. And they quoted the square
footage that included the garage. I'm
like, "We don't include garage in the
square footage. A lot of the house is
not on public record. They had no They
had no record of of this stuff."
A lot of the renovations were done
without permits.
And it was like
so much like so much of this like just
wrong with this property. I asked for a
huge repair like a hundred thousand
dollars
uh basically a credit back for all of
these issues. And they told me no. So I
backed out. Now the final joke was on
them because they ended up They Then
Then the illness hit. Yeah. They took
the house off the market. I was like,
"Huh, look at that." Took it off the
market. Well, guess what? They put it
back on the market and they sold it for
like 1.8. during during the illness.
got it for 1.8.
Yeah, I wouldn't I would not have paid
that. It was Listen, it was a gorgeous
house. Like visually, when you walked
in,
to me it was a 10 out of 10. Graham is
trying to find the photos of this old
house.
I um was going to actually buy a house
with my ex-boyfriend.
Didn't work out. Um Why would you buy a
house with a with a boyfriend?
Um you know what? It was just like the
next step. It was like Wouldn't the next
step be getting married? You would think
so in my head, but in my head I I really
wanted a house.
I really wanted a house. I was at the
point where I was sitting on too much
money and it made me really
uncomfortable and I was like, I need to
put this money somewhere. And
I didn't know how to have that
conversation with my boyfriend where I
wanted it by myself. So
it wasn't forced, but it was like I'm
trying to be nice and pretend that this
is going to work out forever type
situation. But he's amazing. I wish him
nothing but the best, but um
we were in El Cerrito, we found a
beautiful house.
And
we put an offer. We were in We were in
We were in escrow for about almost 2
months because they could not get it I
forgot what the license is called. An
occupancy license?
Occupancy permit? Oh, yeah. Occupancy
Certificate of occupancy. You can call
it, yeah.
They couldn't get that. And I remember
um
so while we were signing escrow, I saw
this guy's name who was the seller, and
I look up I looked up his name, and he
used to work for the LA City Council. I
don't even know if I should be saying
this story.
And I found I find out there's a lawsuit
against him because he tried to He was
he partook in illegal activities while
he was sitting on the council.
So
either way, um it turns out that once we
were going to get the house, the
neighbor was planning on su us suing us
for a land easement because
the walls our walls were on their land.
Um so
they told us this 2 days before we were
closing on the house. Like 2 days before
we were putting money in the house. My
ex-boyfriend and I were literally
sitting at Wells Fargo. The line was
taking so long that we were like, "Okay,
we're just going to actually send over
our payment tomorrow." It wasn't our It
was like the rest of our down payment,
like the other 17% of it.
Um and
literally we uh
the next morning we finally out we find
out that
the neighbors were going to sue us once
we got the house.
in disguise.
Yes. And then we broke up a month later.
So it was just like Why'd you guys What
what happened? What was Now now I'm I'm
just curious what caused the breakup.
bad happened. It was um the
breaking escrow I don't know if that's
the right term.
Yeah. Made me real It was a wake-up call
for me that, you know, like things
weren't weren't happening the way I
wanted them to and I was just kind of
going with the flow when I shouldn't
have been.
Yeah. That's a blessing in disguise.
100%. But yeah, I'm I'm with Dave Ramsey
in this. You never buy a property unless
you're married with with somebody else.
I would never do that with like a like a
girlfriend.
by yourself, I'm guessing. Okay.
Yeah. Amazing.
Yeah. Until you're married, you don't
you don't buy a property with somebody
else.
Well, in Colorado you I don't know if
you saw that I was in Colorado in
February for a whole month.
Uh
When we were doing the back and forth, I
was in Colorado. We were out there to
find a house with my boyfriend.
Boyfriend?
Another a different boyfriend.
You're trying to find a house with a
boyfriend again?
I've never I mean, hm yeah. Would you I
I say I'd say he's the one for me. Like
He's the one.
feelings I have towards
How long you guys been dating?
We've been dating for 3 years now.
Yeah. And then
would you want to get married or is that
something it's it's more of just like a
like a partnership?
Um would we want to get married?
I guess, yeah. Yeah, I mean we've talked
about getting married for sure. Um but
for like next steps, we both wanted to
have a house in Colorado for our future
kids. So, I thought it was just good
timing, but it turned out it was
terrible timing. The market in Denver,
Colorado is so hot.
Right.
Right. I don't know. I'm I'm maybe old
school. I think maybe marriage and then
and then you buy a house together.
So, what about kids? Like you'd want to
have like
I'd want to get married first before
having kids.
Do you guys live together? Yeah, you do.
live together, yeah. But I was to say
like if I was to get have a kid right
now, I wouldn't
think anything of it.
Yeah.
Yeah. I'd be like, okay, like
our plans are changing a little bit, but
that's fine with me. I love the idea of
getting married, but I don't need a ring
on my finger at the same time. Although,
Matthew, if you're watching this, I'd
still love a ring. I don't know which
camera to look at. I'm looking at all of
them. That one That one's on you. You
got to propose, man. Yeah. Yeah, if you
do it, make sure to do it on the Stest
Family vlog.
Yeah, so we can monetize it.
Yeah,
on the Stest Family Instagram. Yes, yes,
please. So, here you are today, $60,000
a month.
Where are you investing it right now?
Where is it going?
Oh, man. Um I'm not going to lie, I'm
sitting on a majority of it in cash and
just losing money on it.
What?
I don't know what to do with my money. I
That's why I wanted to buy a a second
home in Colorado. Well, tech stocks uh
just dipped and so did cryptocurrency.
Yes. You can buy Dogecoin at like under
30 right now.
Yeah, I think it's like 27. Yeah.
Yeah.
So, why why do you want to buy the
property in Colorado? What would that do
for your money? Would you rent it out?
um so,
I want I mean, you've lived in LA. All
the uh schools in LA suck
unless you live
in Culver City or any of the other areas
that are really hard to purchase in.
So, I
want kids in the future, not anytime
soon.
And I just wanted a good school system,
which is in Denver, Colorado. My
boyfriend right now used to live in
Colorado, so he absolutely loves it, and
I've fallen in love with it because it's
definitely a very outdoorsy space. We
can go snowboarding. I snowboard.
So,
I mean, I just was like, if I have
you know, half in the bank right now, um
I should put it somewhere that will make
me more money. So, we're hoping to
actually purchase a vacation rental. So,
it'll be like an Airbnb, but also our
second home at the same like a vacation
spot for us.
Got it.
I would diversify because you have your
house in Los Angeles.
Yes. I think putting more money in real
estate in in another location
would be a little bit too concentrated
on real estate. Really?
Yeah, I'd do more stocks. Yeah. How much
money do you have invested in stocks
right now? Um
I think about 180.
1 Yeah.
Yeah, I would get that up. Yeah.
Especially let's say if you have 500,000
in Well, luckily we're doing a video
where you get to spend $10,000 of mine.
Mhm.
Wait, what?
it. Explain this to Wait, that's the
video concept?
Yeah. Wait, just spend it or invest it?
Spend it. Spend it on myself. You're
kidding. Yeah, no, you're
I'm giving him $10,000.
on myself.
You're kidding.
100%. Are you serious? She's giving you
10 grand?
a follower.
because she's cuz she said like I never
spend money on myself, so I have one day
to spend $10,000 on myself.
Are you kidding me?
No.
No. It's a video idea.
Oh my gosh. I feel terrible.
Why? Because we're we made all of those
videos like my beef with Tiffany, and
then she comes here, and she brings toys
for your pets, and she's giving you
$10,000 and appearing on a pod- podcast?
Geez. Oh my gosh. You're too You're too
kind to me.
monetization loop.
Oh my god.
That will be on my channel. Make sure to
watch it.
Yeah, go to Tiffany's channel. It's
linked down below and you can see that
video of Graham spending money.
I'm really excited for this.
Me, too. Are you guys going to get in
the car and go shopping and stuff?
Yeah, we're going to go to Gucci.
Yes. You're kidding. Uh Hermes, Louis
Vuitton. You're joking. I don't think we
can afford anything at Hermes but
they're like 10,000. Is that expensive?
Hermes? Yeah.
Yeah. We got to deck you out with like
an Hermes belt or something.
Yeah. No. Absolutely not.
H right there.
Yeah. Hermes is one of these spots where
everything just 10x the price of
everything.
I thought Louis Vuitton was the most
expensive. No, no, no.
Hermes is one of these things where
where you have you have clothing from
Hermes that you know is from them
because it's so like out there and
vibrant, but they also have stuff that
you would have no idea like that shirt
could be like Hermes. You'd have no
idea, but it would be like $900.
But you would have no idea cuz there's
no logo, there's no nothing on it. Do
you know what a Birkin bag is?
Uh that I don't know what it is, but I
remember
that one guy Alex.
Alex Pardo. Yeah, he like buys them, but
I don't know what they look like or what
the logo is or Oh, it's just like
it's a bag that's actually an asset cuz
it just appreciates in value over time.
It's like a purse. Yes. Yeah, yeah,
yeah.
Okay. Yeah, yeah.
That's They're made by Hermes, yeah. Oh,
it's Oh, I didn't know that.
Jeez. Yeah. They're nuts. If you want to
spend $25,000 on a bag that Oh, by the
way, I've heard stories that you can't
even go in. They're like They're like
the high-end Rolexes. You can't go in
and be like, "I want a Rolex Daytona."
They'll laugh at you. They'll laugh.
You can't go in and be like, "I want to
buy a Birkin bag." Unless you're like a
really good customer of theirs and
they're reserved.
do they say at the door? You like try to
walk in and they say
have any available. You have to start by
buying their scarves. They don't even
let you buy their normal bags cuz they
have more than just Birkin bags, but you
slowly have to just build What do you
have? Do you have any From Hermes, I
See, I'm so good with my money. I don't
have anything. How much does your outfit
cost?
Oh man, vintage $20.
Um
If we're not counting my rings, like
$50, $60. That's pretty good. What about
the rings? Cuz I see one Cartier, I
think it looks like
and one Tiffany's and um
And how much I'm not going to lie.
How much are the nails? I did my nails
myself. I'm actually really good at my
nails. I'm really good at my nails.
I'm really
love that. Yeah, yeah, Macy would go
nuts over this.
I
thought that was like $100. Yeah, that
looks incredible, actually.
Fun fact, I used to want to be a hand
model when I was a kid cuz Yes, but no,
my nails are done at myself. No one's
interested, but I'm showing Jackie and
her mom my nails.
Is that Are those nails real? Yeah, 100%
my nails. No. Yeah.
Oh, no, they're not.
They're not. So, those So, they're
they're not like extensions? No, there's
no way those are Those are not your
actual nails.
I'll bet you $100. Those are your actual
nails.
show you a
um a video of my nails before.
That's healthy.
Wait, so you don't have any sort of like
extension on that?
No.
I have very healthy nails. Yes, my nails
Hold on. Is it
You can see underneath.
What? Oh my god, it is. Wait, there's
nothing. There's nothing cuz you could
see the like
see the growth. I actually only started
coming to terms with the fact that I
used to be really poor
maybe 8 months ago.
Like when I went to UCLA
all of my friends parent I was the only
person I knew
that didn't have divorced parents.
Hm. Or That did have
That did have divorced parents, you're
right.
Um and
Not to call out my little. I have a
little I don't know if you're familiar
with like sorority life or fraternity
life. Kind of. I hear like a
bro and a big sister and a big bro and a
That's the person like the year above or
below you.
Yeah, they're kind of your mentor or
your best friend depending on your
relationship. So, mine is definitely I'm
more of her mentor, but her her dad's
very very successful.
Um like
COO of like a Fortune 500 company
successful. And she would tell me her
monthly allowance and I'd be like How
much was it? I don't know if I should
say.
we we No one's going to know who this
is.
I'm just afraid if she watches it.
But you but but you never said her name.
That's that's very true. Yeah.
I mean, she's in my videos. They'll
probably know. But she gets Let's Let's
say it's like in the thousands.
What but thousands could be like there's
a difference between 2,000 and 6,000. Um
I would say like like low thousands.
Like a couple thousand 3,000. That's
still So, 100 bucks a day. Crazy. That's
$1,000 a month
I'm in a sorority. Yeah.
So, I'm in a sorority where everyone's
You're still in a sorority?
Well, I'm an alumni now. Oh.
So, I guess you never leave a sorority.
Yeah. Although, I wanted to leave my
senior year because I just thought it
was stupid. Uh fun fact, um I was
treasurer of my sorority and we had
monthly dues and I wouldn't make myself
pay.
You wouldn't make yourself pay?
They know cuz no one would know. Um so,
there's there's fees. So, it was $145 a
month to be in my sorority and there's
like a little fees like a late fee if
you didn't show up to a meeting on time.
There's Have you
ever talked to someone that was in a
sorority? Mhm. There's really stupid
fees. Um if you missed dinner
they would charge you $15 for What about
the leader of the sorority? The
president? Yeah, what if She would still
have to pay if she didn't I mean, she'd
always be at the meeting cuz she's the
president. I was VP of finance.
So, um I was in charge of I I put girls
through collection. I would
Like a like actual collection?
for sorority.
That wouldn't show up on a credit
report, would it?
Oh, it did. You're kidding me. If they
didn't pay their dues. I'm not going
Alex is laughing over there. Alex is
cracking up. How do you file that with
all with all three credit bureaus? So,
they got um
they got three notices and I I had to
file it. And it wasn't
So, you'd lower the girls credit but
there's no way because let's say you get
a parking ticket. That doesn't show up
on a collections. If you just never pay
it, it grows to some exorbitant amount.
That wouldn't show up on a collection.
It's just you wouldn't be able to
register your vehicle after a year.
There's no way it would show that would
show up on a credit report cuz otherwise
what would happen is like if I want to
screw you, Jack, I'd go and file with
the collection agencies, get that on the
report, you would dispute it, I'd be
like, "Oh, I don't have it." and then it
gets removed, but that puts you through
a whole bunch of stuff. Otherwise,
everybody would just be like, "You know
what? I'm going to screw you, Jack."
think you understand that sororities are
companies. We have like 50,000 members.
We have a headquarters.
I mean, we were
our income in my sorority was probably
three to four hundred thousand dollars
just for my house. Who collects? Where's
Let's say there's a profit. Who gets the
profit? Well, it's a non-profit. Yeah,
but but okay, if there's money left paid
out to the to the presidents and CEOs
CEOs. If there's money left over,
money left over, we actually had quite a
bit of A lot of the sororities and
fraternities were broke on uh UCLA's
campus. We actually had money and we
wouldn't spend our money and it would
make me really upset because I'm like,
"I'm putting in these dues, but I'm not
getting the reward." So, we would spend
this money on not parties, but like
get-togethers.
Kickbacks?
Like Adrian?
No.
Um we would renovate the house. Uh we
had a beautiful home in Holmby Park in
Holmby Hills in UCLA. So,
beautiful home. But, no, I would
legitimately send these girls to
collections.
Um and I would send their paperwork,
their social security, everything to the
headquarters of Kappa Delta, which was
the company or sorority I was in, and
then they would do that. But, I would
give them a 3-months notice. So, 1
month, 60 days, 90 days. And I hate I
absolutely hated it to the point where I
would literally be like, "I just need
you guys to have a meeting with me so we
can talk it out." And I will literally
take everything out. But, they would
refuse to have meetings with me.
It just seems like you're getting like
indentured servitude, and then like
you're also paying into it, and then it
I don't know. But, at the same time they
agreed to like when you sign up for a
sorority, you're given the fees and
everything. You're paying them, and
you're working for them.
Oh, me as a VP of finance? Yes, I guess.
Was I getting paid anything? No, which
was why I wouldn't make myself pay for
stupid fees like missing a party. Mhm.
Or um I'd pay the monthly dues. It was
more like
the minor fees.
that were like $15. I would I wouldn't
even tell my friends that I wouldn't
charge them for it. Like, I just
wouldn't charge people for it sometimes.
I'm going to get in so much trouble, but
it's great. This is 7 years ago, it's
fine. Mhm.
But, going back to it, yeah, so a lot of
my sorority friends were very well off,
and I was so embarrassed that I would
never tell them that I I didn't have
money. I mean, I was always good with my
money, so I always had money in a sense,
but I didn't have their type of money.
Mhm.
Now, it's weird. Now, I feel like it's
almost a badge of honor not to come from
money.
I agree. Now, it's like, "Oh, yeah, no,
start started from the bottom, now we're
here." True. You know?
I think it's Drake that made us feel
this way.
Yeah. Mhm. I think so. But, I don't
childhood like? Um it it definitely
wasn't I mean, it wasn't like the The up
in a trailer park or anything but
yeah.
Oh, yeah, my childhood bad was worse
than that. But, it does seem like
sometimes there is that like, "Oh, well,
I had it worse."
Yeah. But, uh no, I I It wasn't It
wasn't like It wasn't terrible. Uh it's
just both my parents were paycheck to
paycheck. So, it was just uh There there
There were few months where things were
like just like really tight or I
remember like my my mom would not have
money for the rent some months and would
have to like, you know, pay over time,
just stuff like that. But, uh really
supportive parents. That's amazing.
Yeah. Is that what made you who you are
today because they were living paycheck
to paycheck?
know. That was That was certainly some
of it, but I don't know. I've always
just been fascinated by money for some
reason. Cuz I remember even as a kid
when like before I understood the
concepts of like uh like not having
enough, um
I was just I would like collect coins
and stuff like that. Like I found that
really interesting. It was my grandpa
who told me like there was this 1909-S
VDB penny that was worth like $2,000.
Geez. And when I was a kid, I'd look at
all the pennies to see if like I could
find the 1909-S VDB penny.
I've never found one. Like you It's rare
to find It's almost impossible to find
one in circulation, but I was still I I
enjoyed that.
Um and just like collecting things. Um I
collected Tamagotchis. Do you remember
those things? Those things are awesome.
would always die.
And uh and when I was This would This
would have been like first grade, I
think. So, this is like 1996.
So, yeah, I would have been like 6 years
old. I loved Tamagotchis and I I I'd
collect them. And like for birthdays or
Christmases or like I would go see my
grandparents, we'd go to Toys "R" Us,
I'd buy a Tamagotchi, and I'd just
collect them. So, I I I had a
fascination always for like money and
collecting things.
What was the weirdest thing you
collected? Um
I guess ever- everyone collected Pokémon
cards, so that's like that's not weird.
Tamagotchis are probably like the
weirdest
thing. Uh Oh, for a while
I collected fossils. I was obsessed as a
kid with fossils.
That's cool.
Yeah.
I don't have any of them anymore, but
like like the stuff where like you get
like a little circle with like a leaf
print in it and like that was old. I
still love those things. Um
collected fish and coral. That's not
like that weird. I mean you're still
collecting fish and coral.
Right, for the aquarium. Nothing weird.
Oh,
uh I collected toenails.
I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.
Look at my face right now. I was like I
don't know if I can do it. I actually
thought you were dead serious because
when we were clearing out your place
Yeah. over on West Adams
Yeah.
My dad was sweeping the ground so we
could sweep up all the trash and there
was a collection of I want to say about
200 toenails. No.
I swear.
mine. That would have been the tenant's.
Alex, look at Alex.
He saw it. I can't see Alex.
were so many toenails on the There were
so many. Like and and they were like
or just underneath the
cups and stuff like on the ground so I
was wondering if you had a cup like on
the not on the chimney but like right on
that fireplace that got knocked over and
spilled all your collection of toenails.
I swear and we filmed it too. But it was
too gross to put in the vlog. It was too
gross.
know if you're joking or not so you you
have to like you have to swear on both
of your parents that you're telling the
truth.
I swear on both my parents I'm telling
the truth.
I swear on both my parents I am telling
the truth. Put Put Put your hand to your
heart and swear on both your parents.
on both my parents that I am telling the
truth. Alex saw it. There was literally
a collection of like it was like a
bundle of toenails.
Okay, now I'm going to swear. It's not
mine. That must have been the tenants.
What do your parents think of all your
success and your grand and what what
What did your grandparents think of the
whole YouTube journey and Um my
I feel like both my parents and my
grandparents didn't find out about my
YouTube journey until I was pretty
successful. So then they were just very
proud of me. But I will say I had a
typical upbringing where um my family
wanted me to be a doctor or a lawyer. So
I actually went that route. UCLA I was
pre-med and then realized I hated all my
science classes. So then I went business
economics instead. But um yeah, I came
home from school like doing extra
homework on top of my homework growing
up. Like think of tiger mom.
But
Tiger mom?
know what tiger Oh, you've never heard
of the term tiger mom?
No.
Imagine helicopter mom. Oh, yeah, sure.
For Asians. And instead of being super
controlling it's controlling about your
school work and
your grades.
Mhm. Um like I got in trouble if I got a
B. Type parents.
Wow.
I got praised if I got a C.
Are you serious?
If I got a C, my grades were so bad that
if I didn't fail
it was a good thing.
Are you kidding Yeah. There were it was
throughout middle school
I
I almost failed so many classes. They
were like cuz we get the report cards
it was usually like F F D F F.
How could you do that?
got A's in music and English. That's
amazing.
And then everything else was like D's
and F's.
And so I would get it to the bare
minimum by the end of the year.
And of like a D or like a C minus at the
end of the year. And your parents
wouldn't care would they care? Uh they
would care but were never like
you're grounded. Or any I've never
gotten grounded.
I got in big trouble if I got bad
grades. Big trouble. So I had to get
good grades. Yeah. You know, I just was
so checked out. I hated it. I couldn't
stand
understand how you could make that
decision though being 13 years old or
whatever.
the point. Didn't did not get the point.
But
I feel like you don't need to get the
point at 12 or 13. Like you kind of just
go with the flow. That's just a normal
13-year-old mentality.
didn't like it. 12, 13. So, yeah, so 12.
Sixth grade. Sixth grade. Sixth grade
was 12. Yeah, so I would have just
gotten into the whole like aquarium
thing and I was spending all my time
online. And I just thought like that's I
think back then briefly I wanted to be a
marine biologist. I was like I don't
need any of this.
My sister wanted to be a marine
biologist.
Yeah.
So, I wanted to do that. But yeah, I was
just getting into the whole like reef
aquarium thing and I'd spend all my time
online. I'd I'd finish school, go online
on reefcentral.com just chatting with
people about aquariums. So, you weren't
bad at school, you just didn't care
enough.
Hated it. Yeah. I just I hated homework.
Didn't see the point. But I went to a
really weird elementary school. It was
called SMASH in Santa Monica and it was
this it was stand for Santa Monica
Alternative Schoolhouse. Oh.
And we didn't have grades for it and I
went there until fifth grade. We had no
grades and we had really no like formal
education. Our classes were straight up
like let's sit in a circle and talk
about how we feel today. And just like
let's talk about like, you know,
That sounds like the anti-gram. What?
To sit in a circle and talk about how
you feel. You got all that out as a kid.
Yeah, but you know what? But we didn't
we didn't have homework. We didn't have
grades.
And I don't know what we learned. We we
it was more of like a social school
where they just
talked about like what what are you
interested in? Oh, we could talk about
that in the circle. We'd have the
talking stick. We sit in a circle like
you know, we'd have a talking stick and
like now you share something about
yourself and then the kid next to you
goes and I prefer that. So, to go from
that to a place where it's like crap, we
have like an assignment. I have to sit
at a desk. Oh, that was the other thing.
At at SMASH, we never had desks. It was
a big table and you could sit wherever
you wanted.
I liked that.
So, was that transition from SMASH to
normal schooling? Is that why you did so
terrible?
It probably. I just hated it. But I
liked Smash. I liked the aspect of just
They're not going to get You turn in a
work and as long as you like applied
yourself,
you're fine. Do you know how the kids
that went to Smash turned out relative
to those
Almost everyone turned out
not not successful, but everyone is
doing some really unique stuff.
Yeah.
Um I would say
I'd say most of them turned out really
well. And did they struggle once they
assimilated with normal school as well?
Uh Some of them really transitioned well
and some of them didn't.
Mhm. Um but yeah, no, we knew some
really smart kids um from Smash and I'm
going to like Harvard and Yale and like
Ivy League schools and other people just
pursued their own thing.
Wow. But yeah, I I attribute that to um
kind of just thinking outside the box.
So that's what I like. I don't know if
this is a rumor, but did you once say
you dropped out of high school and then
finish your GED or am I imagining this?
Uh technically
I guess it doesn't matter now.
Technically, I never graduated from high
school. So I never did a GED. Oh, wow.
But technically, I failed I think it was
I failed a It was a Spanish class.
And in order to get
in order to get my diploma, I needed to
have finished that class and I was like
one credit short.
And I just didn't see the point of
taking that class over over summer. So
when we did the graduation, they handed
me a blank piece of paper. But they
still let you walk? Yeah.
Let me walk, but they did not give me a
diploma. So
I get technically I don't have a high
school diploma.
Technically, but like I I I did
everything. It just minus the one
Spanish class that I just was like I
didn't want to take it.
Wait, when you walked physically on the
through your graduation, they didn't
hand you anything? No, they handed me a
piece of paper. Like everyone got a
diploma, but mine was not a diploma. It
was a piece of paper.
Dude, I I didn't get a diploma either. I
got a piece of paper as well.
a piece of paper as well. I didn't get
an actual diploma. piece of paper?
I mean, I got my diploma like
afterwards, but it on the actual stage
it wasn't a real diploma. It was just a
piece of paper. Oh, as far as I'm aware,
everyone got a diploma.
Everyone did. I was late on fees. I had
to So, I had like after they did all
that, I was like in my cap and gown, I
had to walk down to the bookstore and
pay fees. And then they're like, "Okay,
here's your diploma." You know what? Not
everyone needs school. I I graduated
6 years ago. I still don't have my UCLA
diploma. It's a $40,000 piece of paper
that I What am I going to do with it?
It'd be cool to put up on the wall.
No. Like That's an expensive piece of
paper. That's true. Yeah.
I'd rather have $40,000 on the wall.
Mhm. Yeah. Imagine, right? Like a little
montage or mirage.
Exactly. Yeah. Where do you see your
career going? Do you see yourself making
YouTube videos forever?
Uh I don't know. I I I'm not sure. Part
of me feels like I mean,
at least for the next few years, yes.
But I like I admire the career of like
Dave Ramsey. Look up to him a lot. Um
Judge Judy. Love Judge Judy. Dr. Phil.
Joe Rogan. I I love them.
And so, like if if I were to have the
perfect career, it would be like Judge
Judy. I think just having like a
30-year-long, 40-year-long career,
highly respected, no controversies.
Everyone loves Judge Judy. I I want to
be like her. You know that show's fake,
right? What? Judge Judy? Yeah. No, it's
not. What what's fake about it? Those
are actors. No. Yes. No way. No. There's
no way.
I don't want to burst your bubble.
There's no way this is fake.
It's fake. No, it's not. I don't believe
it. I don't believe it's fake. You're
telling me like Santa Claus isn't real?
I don't believe
I don't I really I don't believe it. I'm
going to look
I don't think so. My understanding with
Judge Judy is that the settlements um
they're real cases, the settlements are
paid for. So, like when somebody owes
like $1,300
because they appeared. Because they
appeared, those those things are paid. I
would believe that she's a real judge.
Yeah, she's definitely a real judge.
that uh the situations were real.
I would think that for a like a
courtroom setting, you can't do that and
for like a TV series. And so, it's like
these aren't maybe
real legal cases, but they're real
situations that Judge Judy is is doing.
Like mediation or something?
Right. She could technically be like a
mediator.
It's arbitrator, I think. Yeah, here we
go to the next level. So, this Morris
Law Center says, "The cases shown are
real cases with participants being
persuaded to give up their lawsuit in a
real in a real court of law. The
courtroom audience members, however, are
reported to be all paid actors." Judge
Judy was once a real judge, but now is
arbitrator, a very high-paid arbitrator.
Okay. So, it's basically arbitration.
Um
and the courtroom audience members are
actors, but the situations are real
and the cases uh are not legal lawsuits,
but they are
That's interesting. real situations. So,
I'm glad I didn't burst your bubble. So,
it's still how you think of it.
Yes, correct. Okay, cool.
Uh just like by the way, Jerry Springer,
apparently uh there are reported cases
of people pretending on Jerry Springer.
Right, but apparently, my understanding
is they do their due diligence and they
get real people on, but they pay all of
their expenses. So, people are are like
incentivized to go on there and play it
up for the camera, but they are real
people. Do you plan on making YouTube
videos forever?
Um
It's a good question.
Um
I'd love to,
but not just for the money.
How do I explain this?
I would love to keep making videos for
the memories more like when I have like
my kid or I'm getting married just so
that I can look back on these videos in
the future. I definitely want to do more
vlog type style videos than anything
else.
But my real main
goal in life is to actually start my own
business and to become an angel
investor. And I just don't know how to
break into becoming an investor in other
companies just yet.
Oh gosh, it's a it's a
crap show. Cuz you're in you're in a
couple of correct? Are you allowed to
say which ones?
of them, five of them.
Um
Yotta Bank was the first one. Mhm. Um I
like to say a few of them. Oxygen Bank
was another one.
Uh Juice was another one that was with
Mr. Beast's company. Okay.
Oh gosh, there's there's two other ones.
Um anyway.
Uh there's there's two other ones.
At first I was like, "Wow, this is so
cool. You could go and it'd be an angel
investor." And then you begin to realize
that
there's so many of them out there and
they'll pitch you every day. Like once
you invest in one of them they're like,
"Ah it's like it's like a shark smelling
blood."
Mhm. And now it's like every day, "Hey,
we got this company. We got this
company. We got this thing. We got this
thing." And it's And And the more I'm
realizing like it's a lot of
out there. And everyone wants you to
invest because then they could say
"Graham Stephan invested in this." And
this is a big wake-up call because I I
invested in one
and immediately after investing in this
one, they used my name as like, "Oh,
Graham Stephan is an investor in this."
Uh
And so And so now I'm like now I'm like
really careful knowing that if I invest
in something, they're going to use my
name to get more investment just because
I I put some money in it. So, I don't
know.
I I think if you really like the
company, sure, but they just they just
want your money at this point and the
valuations sometimes make no sense.
There was There was one
It was like a stock thing and they
wanted like a hundred I think it was
like a hundred million dollar valuation
for something that was I think they had
like a few a few a few
30 40 50,000 members on it, but like
they weren't but they wanted a hundred
million dollars for it and people were
buying it up.
So, is it something that you think would
be lucrative for you?
Carrot. That was one of the company the
Carrot credit card.
That was one of them. That Yeah. That's
working out for you or not working out?
No, no, that was just a one one of the
other companies that I invested in.
Yeah.
Yeah. Carrot is one of these things
where I like I'm skeptical on their
ability to make money long-term,
but
to provide value. But they're providing
so much value and I like Eric. Eric is
the creator and I'm like I'm investing
in Eric cuz I really believe in him, but
I just think for for Eric is giving too
much value. So, that's that's my only
thing is that
Carrot is is giving so much to the
creators who get the credit card. If you
want the credit card, I'll give I could
get you the credit card.
I'm not going to lie, I don't know what
Carrot is.
You don't have your wallet on you,
right? No, it's just right up there. I
can grab it.
Alex, do you have your credit card with
you? Oh, and you can personalize it?
Yes, you could personalize it and I
don't know if I I can't promise this is
going to happen, but Eric so far has
like personally delivered these credit
cards. Like he shows up and like here's
the credit card. I'm like, Eric, you
didn't have to do this because he just
likes meeting everybody.
So,
That's beautiful.
So, yeah, so I will if you want that
credit card, I would get you the credit
card. It's worth it. Okay.
Okay, so anyways, that that's the
company that I have
benefits of Carrot? Let's Yeah, so they
three percent on three categories that
you pick. And I got five percent. I've
only received three. Okay, well, I don't
know. But yeah, it is it is advertised
to
to pick the categories.
Yeah, so I picked camera equipment,
electronics, and auto, which would be
gas, oil change,
Yeah. I think mine is like five percent
cash back. I think mine's five percent
cash back dining,
four percent cash back electronics,
three percent cash back.
I forget what I picked up.
So, I will definitely be getting Carrot.
Yeah. Yeah, it's very good. That is
crazy.
Yeah. And then they had special cuz
here's the thing, right? I took
advantage of this. They had these deals
where it's like one day only five
percent off everything. And they told me
this like 48 hours in advance at the end
of the year.
Mhm. So, I maxed out the card. There was
like I think they I I think they gave me
a $75,000 limit. I spent $75,000 in one
day to get the five percent back. You
know you can just put more money into
your card. What do you mean? Like
So,
I only have one credit card. I needed to
get another one. But my limit is
$12,000. And if I know I'm going to
spend more than that, I'll just prepay.
So, that it's like negative 3,000.
this this is different. This you link to
your bank account and every single like
on a set day, it'll pull the money
automatically from your account. So, you
can't just choose to pay early? No. And
and plus that wouldn't that wouldn't
uh the
post on the same day.
So, even even if I were to max it out
75K and then pay it off 75K and then max
it out again, I don't think all of that
would happen in the same day. But I
prepaid like property taxes on there. I
bought the refrigerator that day. I
bought the piano that day. Everything
that I was planning to buy, I purchased
that day. I expect once I get the
Carrot, you need to tell me 48 hours in
advance when it's five percent off.
you know.
They'll send you a
didn't just tell you, they told
everyone.
Yeah. 40 hours in advance.
Yeah. Yeah, it was like a Black Friday
deal. It was like, "Hey, for this Black
Friday everything you purchase is going
to be 5% off."
So, I was like, "All right, you sure?
All right, well
I mean, because like paying for your
property taxes is a 3% charge for credit
cards.
No, it's uh it was like 1% something.
Then, oh my god.
It Yeah, it it would it made sense for
me to charge on the card to make money
back. That's what I said. And I'm like,
but you know what? Maybe it's only
temporary. Maybe they're not going to do
it anymore.
Well, after seeing what you did, they're
probably not doing it anymore.
beta tester. I need to talk to you about
all of my finance questions, I feel
like.
Ask. Yeah.
Yeah. Well, um next question, I guess,
would be uh how much more money should I
put in the stocks?
Cuz right now it's scary. I know what
I'm You know what it is? I have diamond
hands, but too well, I don't know how to
sell stocks. Do you need to sell them?
need to sell ever. But didn't you just
sell Doge? We don't talk about that. It
was it was too great of an opportunity.
It would have got cut in half.
I've been telling Jack to put it in. It
would have got cut in half if I didn't
sell.
I mean, I have Doge and I was looking at
it when it was at 70 cents and I was
like, "It's not going to go to a dollar,
but I don't know how to sell it right
now." You don't know how to sell? It's
the same thing as buy. Just like the
other crypto.
I said. I have diamond hands, but with
bad companies. I'll stick with bad
companies because I'm at that point I'm
like, "Well,
I just don't want to So, where are you
invested now at your 180?
Do you want to know? Yeah, I do. Let me
see. Is it all in Robinhood?
It is uh
it is all in Robinhood. Can you screen
record? I can't screen record. Oh my
god, I cannot believe I'm showing you
guys this. I have a new phone. So, step
one, get it off Robinhood. Uh I
disagree.
You use Robinhood. I like it. I like
Robinhood. I downloaded Public and
Webull both because of you. You're not
even on Webull anymore. Yeah, I am. But
you just don't talk about it anymore.
Public I I
may have invested in Public.
Uh Yeah. Another one. Okay, that makes
sense.
Um I like Public.
Uh Public has the advantage of not
routing your order flow.
So, with which Robinhood does. So, when
the whole fallout happened with with
GameStop, Public was very vocal that
they don't do that. They don't route
your order flow. They don't sell your
data to hedge funds and
let's check this out. I like I like
WeBull though. WeBull, in my opinion,
has one of the best, most sophisticated
interfaces out there for for serious
traders. Public is better, in my
opinion, for a long-term investment that
you're going to Buy once and hold for a
long time. I'm going to make Let's see.
a really bad, um,
like connection. I would say Robinhood
is like Apple, where the interface is so
simple.
Mhm. WeBull's is so difficult to learn.
Yeah, WeBull you have to you have to
learn how to do that. Yeah.
All right, so Tesla.
Let's see. So, you bought
average cost Wow, congratulations.
Average cost of Tesla, $195. Yes, I
bought it
Okay. Don't sell that.
Is there any reason why you have like
the little icon next to the stock as the
price of the share rather than total
return?
I just like knowing what the price is.
Mhm.
Um Shopify, great buy Shopify.
Great buy. Great buy at Apple.
Fiverr, let's see what you bought Fiverr
at. Fantastic.
Uh, Beyond, this is the only one I think
Beyond, I'm
Yeah, okay. So, so you're Beyond Meat is
the only one where I would be
I mean
If you sold it, I wouldn't be upset over
that cuz it's just I felt it was a
little hypie.
Uh, Ulta Beauty, never heard of this.
Ulta?
Um, one of the biggest like makeup
department stores. Okay.
Overstock. Great.
You did well. Zoom, let's see what what
did you buy Zoom at? 306. All right,
well, I I keep Zoom. Spotify.
207.
Disney, fantastic. I don't even need to
need to look at that.
Wow, you bought Virgin. $20. Okay,
Virgin is like eh. Where are you getting
all of your stock advice from?
Um
nowhere. You're just doing this on your
own? Yeah, see I just look into
companies that I would naturally use
myself, so then I purchase their stocks.
You did well.
There's nothing in here that's
Oh, scroll down. Just scroll. It's Some
of them are pretty bad.
Delta. Um Aurora Cannabis. So bad.
Lemonade. You bought Lemonade.
Yeah, that's a hypey one.
Lemonade, I think would recover.
have Lemonade insurance, so that's why I
bought it. Snap has done really well.
Average cost is 23.
Um PayPal.
I like it so far.
Ooh, McDonald's. A lot of these are the
free stocks that I got, so if you see
like a bunch of random stocks at the
very end, it's just
I don't see anything in here.
Gap. I don't see anything in here that's
like, "Oh, wow, I can't believe you have
that." Yeah, I don't see anything in
here that's bad.
I like it, actually.
I would I would say you did really well
on this.
My only advice would be to just start
buying index funds.
look like real quick?
my crypto? Yeah.
Oh, wow, you have a lot. I You know
what? I bought every single one that was
available on Robinhood because I was
like, "Mhm, might as well."
Just might as well.
Nice. 6 cent average cost on Dogecoin.
Wow.
And you had
How much Dogecoin do you have? 20
30,000.
Ethereum. So, should I sell my Doge?
At this point, I would At this point, I
would just hold it. Just hold it?
Yeah.
How much are you spending or saving
every year on your taxes by living here?
Probably 4 to 500,000 dollars. Just to
live here. See, that that's why like
everything here is, in my opinion, free.
Even the car. That would have been 30
something thousand dollars of sales tax
to pay for the car That's a small Tesla.
Nothing.
No sales tax here.
There's no sales tax here?
used private car a party car purchases,
no sales tax.
What?
got to be private party and used. If you
buy this from a dealership, they're
going to they're going to charge you
like seven something percent. Private
party, nothing. Hmm, that's interesting.
That's crazy. Yeah.
Do you have a really good accountant?
Uh she's good, but I think my taxes now
have gotten to a point where this year
I'm probably going to need like a like a
A team.
know. A team, probably.
Yeah, it's just now things are getting
so nuanced that um she's been really
good up until this point where I feel
like Did she up? No, it's just
I I think I need
of money you could be leaving on the
table Yeah, I think I need something a
little bit more sophisticated at this
point. Okay.
It's just everything is so nuanced that
that even for me, I'm trying to research
stuff like this that I have no idea what
I'm doing now. Now it's now it's it's in
a league that I'm just
I don't know how to navigate it. I can't
believe you're saving or
saving five hundred thousand dollars.
Right, that's what I'm saying, but for
you, too, you would be saving
uh 60? Probably, yeah.
60 thousand dollars. Maybe even we'll
call it 50. We'll call it 50. 50
thousand dollars that you could save.
And
real estate is half the price,
twice the size, everything.
this house cost yet? Yes. Uh one I paid
1440. What? Yeah, and then I put a
hundred and fifteen thousand in the
backyard with the pool. So I'm in at
1560.
1
Uh and it's worth right now about 1750.
That's crazy. That's impressive. Right,
but this in Los Angeles would be like
three. Mhm. Yeah. And it's in a gated
community, which is nuts. It was a
really nice gate.
Yeah. Yeah. I wasn't expecting that.
No, and what's crazy, too, is that it's
it We're in an HOA, obviously,
Mhm. but we're in an HOA within another
HOA. So So, this area is an HOA like in
itself. And then this community is
another HOA. How much is your HOA a
month?
Uh this one is 220, the other one is
110,
I think. So, I think the total is like
330 a month. Wow.
Yeah. So, with that said, you guys,
thank you so much for watching. I really
appreciate it. Thank you so much for
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