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Community Mindfulness: Be Kind

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Bu hafta sunulan topluluk farkındalığı pratiği, katılımcıların sandalyede, koltukta veya yere yatmış olmalarına bakılmaksızın bedenlerinin oturduğu yerden ayak uçlarına kadar yerleşik ve topraklanmış bir hisle başlamaktadır. Bu fiziksel istikrarın yanı sıra, omurgadan başın tepesine doğru yükselen ve çevreye açılan hafiflik ve genişlik hissi de aynı anda deneyimlenerek zihnin hem yerçekimine bağlı kalması hem de ruhsal açıdan özgürleşmesi sağlanır. Bu iki temel duygu—yerleşiklik ve açıklık—içinde tutularak nefes akışı farkına varılır; derin bir içe nefes alma, tepedeki kısa bir duraksama, dışa nefes verme ve alttaki diğer bir duraksama ile oluşan dört aşamalı döngüye odaklanarak zihin tamamen şu anki anda sabitlenir. Pratik boyunca çevredeki sesler, düşünceler veya vücutta hissedilen gerilimler ortadan kalkması beklenmez; bunun yerine bu unsurlar farkındalığın dış kenarına itilir ve dikkat sadece nefese verilir. Bu bilinçli seçim, zihnin sürekli düşünme döngüsünden veya çevrenin gürültüsünden uzaklaşmak için bir kontrol mekanizması değil, niyetli bir odaklanma çabasıdır. Böylece dikkat lazer ışını gibi nefese yoğunlaştırıldığında, yüzten omuzlara, kalp merkezinden uyluklara ve bacaklardan ayaklara kadar yayılan fiziksel gerilimlerin serbest kalmasına izin verilir. Bu süreç, sinir sisteminin gevşemesini sağlayarak kaslar, kemikler ve bağların rahatlamasına olanak tanır ve böylece kendine karşı şefkatli bir yaklaşım geliştirilir. Bu nefes pratiği aracılığıyla kazanılan istikrar hissi ve nefesle gelen genişlik duygusu, bireylerin birbirlerine ve kendilerine karşı daha nazik olabilecekleri bir alan yaratmasına olanak tanır. Tüm önemli olaylar şu an farkındalığın hemen dışında gerçekleşmeye devam ederken, nefesin yavaşlaması ve buna odaklanma sayesinde bedende huzur ve rahatlık hissi oluşur; bu durum bazen mümkün olmayabilir ancak pratik başarısız sayılmaz, sadece nefese geri dönerek bu farkındalık alanına yeniden yerleşmek yeterlidir. Tüm varlıkların bu şu anki bilinçli nefes alma kapasitesine sahip olduğu gerçeği, bizi birbirimizle bağlayan bir köprü oluşturur ve bu derin huzur içindeyken dünyada nasıl hareket edileceğine dair en yüksek bilgelik doğar.
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So, thanks for joining us for community mindfulness this week. And we'll start out our uh short practice about 15 minutes or so with uh awareness of the posture and a feeling of being settled in your seat. You may be on a chair or a sofa or may even be lying down. Some people like to practice mindfulness lying down or leaning back up against a sofa. So there's a sense of being settled in some part of your body um through the seat and down through the legs and the feet to the floor. And that's a a groundedness, a steadiness sort of feeling. And then there's also a sense of liftedness through the spine up through the crown of the head and into the air above us and around us. And that's an openness, a lightness, a spaciousness kind of feeling. And we can hold both of those. The fact that we feel grounded and seated and also open and spacious. And holding those two qualities, we begin to be aware of the breath. A deep inhale and exhale. And as soon as you become aware of the breath, maybe it starts to just slow down just a little bit. And you may be aware that at the top of the breath, there's a little pause before you cascade down into the exhale. And at the bottom of the exhale, there's a little pause before you start climbing up the inhale again. So there are actually four demarcations to the breath. The inhale, pause at the top, the exhale, and the pause at the bottom. And paying attention to this detail gives you a pause overall. So nothing else that's happening around you is the center of your attention right now. It's just the inhale, the pause at the top, exhale, the pause at the bottom. And it doesn't mean that everything that's happening around us goes away or ceases in any way. It's all still there. But we're just paying attention to the breath. Just like I often say that a lot of thinking thinking thinking doesn't have to go away but we just choose what to put our attention to. We can set aside uh thinking thinking thinking or we can set aside what's happening around us and choose to focus on one particular thing. And right now it's the breath. Inhale. Pause. Exhale. And the pause. And if you do go into noticing everything that's happening around you, maybe sounds of traffic or sounds of your household or sounds of thoughts in your mind or feelings in the body, that's okay. We don't need to make those go away. Just like everything around us keeps happening while we practice mindfulness. But we just allow ourselves to focus on the breath and set aside all the other happenings. Not time trying to control or make anything go away. Just bringing the laser beam of our awareness to the breath. And you may find that as you're aware of the breath, there starts to be a little relaxation in the body. Tension may release from the face and the shoulders, the heart center, the hips. down the legs to the feet and out the arms to the hands. This is a way that we can be kind, be nice to ourselves is to give ourselves these moments of concentration or actually putting forth an effort to focus on something specific. But that effort allows the nervous system to relax, which allows the physical body, the muscles and the bones and the ligaments and even the nerve sheets relax in the body. And the more we are kind to ourselves in this way, giving ourselves both the spaciousness that we felt in our spine, the spaciousness, openness of the breath. Especially as you inhale, pause the top big opening and then a sense of groundedness or stability at the bottom of the breath. says quietness. So as we practice this kind of pause in our thinking thinking thinking or in our paying attention to everything that's happening around us, we develop the skill to come into a place where we're more apt to be nice, be kind. We have a sense of stability which we all need. We have a sense of openness and possibility which we all need and we have the breath. So just being with those qualities allows us to come into a space where it's easier to be nice. Everything that's so important important important is h it's right at the outside edge of awareness right now. And there's sort of a calm relaxation in the body, a gentle rhythm to the breath, and possibly if it's available to you, a slowing down of the thinking, thinking, thinking, or at least it's at the outside edge of awareness. It can be bubbling beneath the surface. Maybe it's really loud today and that's okay. You can still gently return to the breath. It's from this space of awareness and presentness that our highest wisdom arises and how to act in the world and with people and with ourselves. So if it's available to you, just enjoy this space where the breath, the focus on the breath allows everything that's happening around us to be set to the outside edge of awareness doesn't go away. Still there, but it's just not what we're focusing on. And there's a sense that slowing down of the breath and the focus on the breath relaxes the nervous system and allows a feeling of comfort and relaxation in the body. And that may not be available to you tonight. And that's fine. All you need do is return to the breath and be held within the awareness of the breath. Knowing that this space, this place of awareness of present moment and breathing is available to all beings. Will this capacity somehow connect us all one to another? Inhale, pause at the top. Exhale, pause at the bottom. And in doing this focus on the breath, you're actually also practicing here in because any thought that comes into your mind, you're obviously going to hear it and just set it aside. I'm practicing all the awareness. any physical sensation that happens, just let it be and set it aside. Anything you hear, household, traffic, wind in the trees, allow it to be and let it go to the outside edge of awareness. Very good. Just a few more full breaths that we pay attention to. And then I'll count backward from five. When I get to one, we can open our eyes and finish the practice. Five. Four. Three. Two and one.