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The video explores the concept of bulking, defining it as eating in a calorie surplus to build muscle, balance hormones, boost metabolism, or prepare for future fat loss, a practice that has gained popularity among women who previously feared gaining weight. The speakers emphasize that fear often leads to under-eating, which can be identified by several key indicators such as unintended weight loss during a supposed surplus, a lack of consistent strength gains, persistent hunger, low energy levels, poor sleep quality, and decreased libido. A successful bulk should focus on whole, natural foods rather than processed items and must provide enough energy to maximize benefits, whereas resisting normal hunger signals often leads to cravings and unhealthy food choices that undermine the process.
Beyond nutrition, the discussion touches upon broader themes of corporate reputation management and societal narratives, noting that top companies must actively shape public perception through their own media channels rather than relying on others. The speakers cite historical examples like the suppression of hemp to protect paper mills and modern instances such as Elon Musk's acquisition of X to illustrate how controlling information flow is an old but effective strategy. This conversation extends to biological factors influencing human behavior, including subliminal messaging in media, pheromones affecting attraction, and dating trends, while also addressing family dynamics where studies suggesting childless couples are happier are countered by the argument that children significantly increase the meaning of life, even if they reduce daily hedonistic pleasure.
The segment concludes with practical fitness advice from listener questions, recommending split-stance exercises like Bulgarian split squats and lunges for building leg strength without a squat rack, and explaining that post-workout tightness is often due to central nervous system adaptation rather than muscle shortening, which can be managed through varied movements and mobility work. The hosts also distinguish between structured workout programs, which are essential for specific goals like fat loss or strength gains, and unstructured play-based workouts suitable for general health, noting that experienced individuals can sometimes rely on their knowledge to adjust intensity based on recovery status. Finally, the video reflects on the hypothetical careers of the hosts if their fitness podcast had never occurred, suggesting paths ranging from personal training and sales to ministry leadership, before promoting an upcoming episode focused on using protein effectively for fat loss and muscle building, a topic the hosts admit they only fully mastered after nearly a decade in their careers.
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bulking, reverse dieting, eating in a
calorie surplus. You're trying it, but
is it working? Here are the signs that
what you're doing isn't working. If this
is happening, let's fix it. Let's go.
>> You get fat.
>> Wait, it's a visible sign.
>> Slow down. Let's back up. Let's back up
for a second.
>> You're doing it wrong, guy. Pay
attention to that.
>> You're doing it wrong, guys.
>> So, let's back up for a second. So, uh,
so let's explain what bulking is. And
it's also being referred to as reverse
dieting. Same thing, right? You're it's
the attempt to eat in a calorie surplus
or eat more than your body's burning
with the goal being building muscle,
uh maybe balancing hormones, boosting
metabolic rate, maybe setting yourself
up for a fat loss phase in the future.
But the idea is ultimately, regardless
of what the goal is, it could be hormone
balancing, could be better health, could
be better sleep, whatever. uh we're
trying to build muscle and we're doing
so with good strength training
programming and we're eating in a
calorie surplus. Now bulking used to be
something that only like hardcore
bodybuilders or dudes like me when I was
a kid that just wanted to gain weight
cuz I was skinny. We're the only ones
that ever tried bulking. Nobody else
>> Yeah.
>> The word bulk is a turnoff to most
people. In fact, that's why we say
reverse dieting often times because it's
such a turnoff. But the idea and the
understanding and what it does for the
body now has become so popular that
you're seeing more and more people uh
understand the benefit and attempt to
move in this direction. And in my career
uh for all the time I've been in the
fitness industry, which is well over 20
years, I've seen more women now go on a
bulk than ever before. That was almost
never the case uh in the past. So uh but
um um and a lot of it has to do with
fear or just not the right uh
information around it.
>> Yeah. Do you think that there is a
tendency um between the sexes?
>> Yeah. Yeah, definitely. Uh I think uh
and to be more specific, the dude uh who
feels really skinny um has a tendency to
overdo it for sure. Mhm.
>> Um the everybody else uh tends to
underdo. In fact, one of the clear signs
that your bulk isn't where it could be
uh or your reverse diet, you know, if we
want to call it that, isn't where it
could be, is you've lost weight.
>> Mhm.
>> If you're losing weight on the scale and
you're in a bulk, you're not eating
nearly enough. Now, here's the this is
where it gets interesting. Some people
would welcome that, right? they're going
to go on a bulk because they need to
speed up their metabolism. Let's say
they want to build some muscle. They see
the weight go down, which sometimes
happens when you start to bump your
calories a little bit. Um, and you're
working out a little harder as a result.
And then people are like, "This is
awesome. This is exactly uh where I want
to be cuz I was going to do a cut anyway
afterwards." But I'm here to tell you,
you are not reaping the benefits, the
maximum benefits of eating in a surplus
if you're losing weight. If you're
losing weight, you're not eating enough.
the weight shouldn't change on the scale
at all in in many cases should go up a
little bit if you're trying to burn body
fat.
>> We we just had a live caller who uh did
go up actually in 90 days and still
could have gone up more.
>> What was the sign?
>> Right. He was hungry.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> He was hungry and he looked leaner and
so this was this was a caller who was
coming from a place of being, you know,
on the leaner, skinnier side who needs
to needs to put weight on.
>> He was undereating and kind of
overtraining.
>> Yes. and we adapt we changed his his
programming. We uh increased calories
and checked back in with him 90 days
later. And 90 days later um he got he
gained six pounds on the scale. So based
off of that you go like oh he did
phenomenal on the bulk and he did he did
a really good job. I mean to to the the
his intentions were were right and he
did well but he could have done even
better.
>> Yes. uh had he had he ate even more
which I think that's even difficult for
people is they go like oh if so to your
point uh if you gain no weight or you
lost weight you definitely
>> definitely
>> didn't go the right way uh even
sometimes when you gain a little bit you
could have got seen a lot better results
and I see that sometimes sometimes
people that I I would put on a bulk see
minimal gain on the scale and feel like
oh this didn't work and a lot of times
it's because they were so fearful of
eating more calories and and or what
they might see is like they didn't see a
lot of strength gains and it's cuz they
weren't fueling the workouts. So that so
these so even though you you obviously
losing weight in a bulk is a definite
red flag that you failed
>> but sometimes even uh maintaining or a
small gain is and you could have done a
lot more.
>> Yeah. I think and the reason why this is
so important to speak to is that so in
the past bulking was always about
gaining weight. It always was about
gaining weight. Nobody went on a bulk in
the past with the intention of their
weight staying the same. That just
didn't It doesn't make sense. It didn't
make sense.
>> Well, back then, do you feel like there
was there was this mentality like get
big or die? Like it was like a a mass uh
focus like because you had kind of in in
pop culture there was a lot more like
big pronounced like bodybuilder type
people like I I feel like that that
sentiment sort of like uh went away for
a while.
>> Yes. But I think more than what you're
saying, Justin, I think it's that more
women are bulking than ever before.
>> Yeah. That shifted
>> that shifted it and women are afraid
more than men uh not saying that there
aren't men who are afraid of this, but
more than men of gaining any weight on
the scale. So in the past when you went
bulk, it was to gain weight. Now the
idea was to gain muscle. So nobody
wanted a bulk to gain like just a bunch
of body fat unless you had a medical
condition or very special situations. In
some cases, that's what you need to do.
But for the most part, we wanted a bulk
or everybody wanted a bulk to gain
weight. What happened was we saw the
other benefits of a bulk, which were
faster metabolic rate, setting you up
for a more effective cut later, right?
Because you have a faster metabolic
rate. Now I can cut later with higher
calories because my metabolic rate is
higher. Better hormone balance. You take
somebody, you take a man or woman who
chronically undereats and overtrains and
you feed them more and fix their
programming, their hormones balanced.
Suddenly they feel amazing. Their libido
goes up. So all those other effects are
now what people are chasing
>> and but they're also saying I don't want
any weight to go up on the scale. And so
this is actually a problem because part
of the reason why all those things
improve is because you're gaining weight
on the scale. Mostly lean body mass and
maybe yes some body fat. But that's why
in those cases you notice all those
improvements is because you needed the
extra energy. So if you're losing weight
on you go on a bulk you go down 2 lbs.
>> Yeah. Not enough. Yeah,
>> you're not eating enough. You're failing
on the bulk.
>> Yeah, I I really feel like this there
hasn't been that big of a shift in my
opinion on the male side. This has been
way more uh unique or different for the
on the female side. Yep.
>> I mean, just 25 years ago, uh coked out
skinny was the look.
>> Yeah.
>> And so it was eat as little as possible,
burn as much as you can at all cost. You
didn't want any muscle. you that that
wasn't even desirable at that point.
Then we talked recently on a podcast
about the GI Jane and Terminator, you
know, Sarah Connor movement where like,
okay, I could I like a little bit of
shoulders and arms. And so there's a
little bit of acceptance there of, okay,
I could I'm down with some muscle, but
then still fear around eating enough
calories to probably build for most
people. Then we've gone on to like
CrossFit looking girls and okay, I want
and and JLo and ass. It's like, okay,
now I want a big ass. Now I'm okay with
even more.
>> I want shape, sculpt.
>> Yeah, I want more shape and sculpt and
even more muscle. And so it's now we're
getting a little more comfort like and
and what the the narrative has been well
because you pull up GI Jane and look at
her like that you don't have to get a
real aggressive bulk to get to her
point. But if you definitely want shape
like a CrossFit or you want ass like
JLo, you're gonna have to Yeah. You're
gonna have to eat more and bulk and and
so I feel like that like okay, if you
want that look, you got to build you if
you want shape and curve like that,
you've definitely got to eat a lot more
calories to get there in order to build
enough muscle to put on that much shape
and curve. And so we've just watched
this, you know, transition over the last
two decades from absolute skinny skinny
and that's what everyone was desiring to
this really more def, you know, muscular
look.
>> And it's a good transition, but you're
still there. Like I'll I want the shape.
I don't want to but I don't want the
weight to go up on the scale, which uh
is a mistake because it will go up if
you gain
>> uh muscle. That's what ends up
happening. Uh the other one which you
kind of talked about earlier Adam is if
you're by the way if you're doing a good
bulk. In other words, you're doing the
right kind of bulk. You're still eating
whole natural food. So you're not eating
garbage. That's a mistake that people
made in the past. Like when I was
younger,
>> it was gain weight at any costor driven.
>> It didn't matter what you ate. Just eat
everything. Um if you stick to whole
natural foods, uh your bulk's going to
be clean. And if you're on a bulk and
you're eating whole natural foods and
you're hungry and you're not eating when
you're hungry, you're failing. Yeah.
>> You shouldn't feel hungry on a bulk. You
should feel hungry in a cut. Like that's
normal. You're in a calorie deficit.
There's going to be some hunger.
>> But if you're finding yourself at 7:00
at night and you're in quote unquote a
bulk, you're like, "Man, I'm I'm hungry
again. Like, what should I do now? I'm
not going to eat. I'm afraid of what?
Gaining body fat." No, no, no. Your
body's telling you, "Feed me. Go get
that whole natural food meal. Don't go
eat garbage and eat it and eat it. You
shouldn't feel hungry uh on a bulk. You
should feel satisfied.
>> By the way, let me tell you what happens
sometimes to that person is they feel
that way night one and they they resist
because of fear of putting any bad
weight on
>> and they again man hungry again resist
and then third night I can't do and then
they then they eat something that's not
ideal and they go off
>> and they go off the rails and then they
put some body fat on
>> and they're like I knew it.
>> Exactly. Yeah.
>> Whereas if you would have just stuck to
the plan of eat when you're hungry, just
make whole foods, make the meal protein
and and that both those nights in a row
ate that and been satisfied totally, you
would have built muscle. But what
happens sometimes is we play this they
play this we or any client in this
situation a lot of times will play this
psychological game of like I already ate
my four meals for the day. I don't I
can't eat anymore. Yet they just had a
great training session. They've had a
week in a row of consistently and their
body is wanting to build and it's
telling them that it needs to be fed and
they're afraid to do it and so they
resist they resist that feeling and then
that feeling then turns into cravings
and then that cravings makes it even
more difficult and they finally go like
I've been so good for the last 2 weeks
I'm going to eat this and they go all
out.
>> Yeah. Cuz if you eat garbage food,
heavily processed food or fast food or
whatever, um you'll eat way more than
your body needs in terms of calories.
Those foods are engineered to make you
overeat. So, it it's one thing to reach
for, you know, my bowl of ground beef
and rice, uh, and or versus hit reaching
for pizza. You know, if I have that
pizza, yeah, I'll satisfy the hunger,
but I've eaten, you know, a good 500
more calories than I would have and
probably not even hit my protein targets
as a result.
>> That's right.
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Back to the show. Your strength's not
going up. Like if you are if you're in a
bulk and your strength isn't going up,
uh it's either I'm not eating enough,
I'm not eating enough protein, or my
programming is wrong. It's one of those
three things or all of the above. You
should 100% get stronger in a bulk. In
fact, this is what I pay attention to
the most with my clients. When my
clients are reverse diet or going on a
bulk, what I'm looking at most closely
is strength. Most closely. Why? Because
it's so objective. It's nothing
subjective about it. You either lift
more or you don't. So, it's very clear.
And I know this. I know if strength
continues to go up consistently, muscle
follows. I know this every single time.
So someone who's attending a bulk that
falls in this category, two things that
I see the most common uh uh programming
is inappropriate. Um so either they're
the they they're on on the wrong
program, been doing the same thing for
too long, inappropriate amount of
balance of of intensity and and volume
and all the things and so they need a
better program. Or two, uh they don't
eat enough protein, but they're eating a
bunch of other calories. So like or
both. Right. Yeah. Right. So, it's like
a lot of times it's that, right? So,
that's what I mean is like someone who
feels very confident. I'm in a bulk, but
I'm not seeing the results. My strength
isn't going up. It's normally those two
things. One of those two or both those
things that you're programming isn't
appropriate or good for you. And two,
uh, and or two, you're you're eating
extra calories but not hitting your
protein.
>> And by the way, I I often times often
times I've heard this. I'll talk to
somebody like this who's afraid of
gaining the wrong weight, but we're
convincing them to go on a bulk or
reverse diet. And I'll ask them, "Are
you stronger?" And the answer they'll
give me is like, "Yeah, yeah, I think
so." Okay, you're not stronger. That's
that's you thinking you're a little
stronger uh or hoping that you're a
little stronger because you're either
afraid of adding uh more calories or
usually that's what it is. You'll know
you're stronger because it's it's
pronounced and it's clear. You're you've
added 10 pounds to your lift or 15
pounds to your lift or you're doing five
more reps. It's not a I think I'm a
little stronger. Uh, your bulk should
clearly produce some strength gains.
Clearly. Otherwise, it's a big red flag.
>> Here's another one. Your energy isn't
any better. So, here's this is the one
of the characteristics of eating in a
proper calorie surplus with proper
strength training or workout programming
is you feel better. You've got more
energy to work with. You feel better. A
cut, by the way, a cut. Now in some
cases a cut starts initially makes
someone feel better especially if they
reduce inflammation or most importantly
change the kinds of foods that they eat.
>> Yeah.
>> But all things being equal whole food
based diet both ends going on a cut
versus going to surplus. The cut can
often times cause a little bit of a dip
in energy or athletic performance. In
fact that's expected. Why? I'm eating
less energy than I'm burning.
>> Yeah.
>> So that's just like anything I have less
energy
>> isn't there. Yeah. when you're in a
proper bulk or reverse diet, uh you
should have more energy, you should feel
better. In fact, this is almost this is
pretty much always the case when it's
done properly is people come back and
say, "I just feel a lot better."
>> Is so you think it's mainly the the
types of foods that they're choosing
within this bulk that would kind of, you
know, determine that energy and also
like inflammation and things like
digestion or not enough.
>> Yeah. All things Yeah. All things being
equal, uh, like still good whole
foodbased diet, high protein, more
calories or surplus, you'll have more
energy. Obviously, there's more energy
that's available. You know, it's
interesting when you look at the on
studies uh on individuals when they take
people and they cut their calories.
>> So, they've done these really cool
studies where they'll put trackers on
people that will um track their
movement. Okay? So, it just tracks their
daily movement. Then, they'll cut their
calories or bump their calories.
Whenever you cut someone's calories,
like clockwork, their daily activity
drops. Even though they're not aware of
it, oftentimes people ask them, "Are you
moving less?" Like, "No, I'm not moving
less
consciously."
>> They pick up on it less. They're
standing less, they're walking less,
they're they're moving their hands less.
This is how your body, you know, conver
conserves energy.
>> When your calories go up, you tend to
move more and have more energy. So, you
should feel more energy on a good bulk.
>> There's a there's a compounding effect
there, too. I've noticed this with my
own behaviors like uh calories go up, uh
energy goes up, uh strength and
consistency in the gym goes up, also
daily activity all goes up. Like it's
like and the reverse is true. And to
your point, if you were to ask me, and
now I know because I've tracked so
diligently for so long and so obviously
I'd have the right answer, but if I
didn't have all that data and you asked
me, I would think on the days that I'm
really sedentary that it's really not
that big of a difference than on on the
other days because it feels the same. I
feel just as tired from work. I feel
like I accomplished the same amount. But
it's like it's wild how much of that
subconsciously when you are fueling the
body properly, you're training properly,
how much you're just your neat goes up.
Totally.
>> Your neat goes up uh organically and yet
subconsciously it feels the same.
>> Yeah. Because you're you're counting
structured movement and exercise. You're
not counting the like, you know, I'm
sitting in my chair swinging side to
side or standing up more and stuff like
that, which all like I said, it's very
well documented. They track this. your
body will modify that movement uh and
you won't even be aware of it unless
it's extreme.
>> It's it's to me it's we've talked about
it on the podcast many times. I've I've
shared my own uh journey of like, you
know, I've connected it to like I'm a
better husband and and father when I'm
training and eating well, and that's
part of what keeps me motivated.
>> Yeah. Why don't you talk about what it's
like being a husband or a father uh
pre-contest?
>> Yeah. You know, diet, this is a
well-known fact.
>> No, you're 100% right. Nobody wants to
be around because I have friends that
are bodybuilders and their wives know,
all right, we're going to pre-contest.
So and so is going to be a jerk
>> and we just got to deal with it.
>> Low calorie, you're low energy. You
don't want to do stuff like that. And
the opposite is true when you're fueled
properly and you're and you're working
out and then in a bulk like that. It
feels amazing. And I don't you like you
I just get up and do more stuff. I see
the kitchen's dirty. I just get up and I
clean like that versus put me in a
calorie deficit and and or missing
workouts and it's like yeah I don't have
I just don't want to do it there. You're
not going to and it's taken years of
really peering into that to connect
those dots and go like oh wow there's a
significant difference.
>> Remember in the extreme case Adam when
you were doing the experiment with the
GLP where you were just eating very
little just to like let's this let's see
what people experienced. I remember you
telling me the thing you noticed the
most
>> was the low energy. Yeah. You were like,
I I have to decide to either clean the
house or work out. Can't do both.
>> Yeah. Oh, yeah. No, it was it was an
either or for sure because I knew I
didn't I didn't want to do either. But I
knew I got to do one of them.
>> Yeah. I was like, I can't I can't fail
on the workout thing and fail as a
husband. I was like, I got to I got to
give I got to choose. Yeah. I wasn't
doing both, though. There was no way. I
just I just didn't have it in me to do
both. And I I battled that daily. Daily
felt that. Now, you're highlighting an
extreme example of that. But I mean, I
think that I think that is happening to
us on a smaller scale that you just
don't realize it. And that's why cuz
it's not as extreme. So it's not as
obvious to people, but that's happening.
>> It's well it's so well documented that
people will often argue that the
metabolism boost that comes from a
reverse diet is more to do with this
this kind of activity outside of
exercise. Now, that's not doesn't cover
it all, but it is so well documented
that it does happen. No, I don't. I
That's one of the thing that are the
arguments I've always made in defense of
>> when people try and argue that like one
pound of muscle doesn't burn that many
more calories. It's okay, fair enough.
like if you cut out the tissue and you
measure it in the lab and and it doesn't
tell a full story. And you're right, uh
it it doesn't account for um a guy with
five more pounds of muscle, what it what
he has to do inside the gym to have
built that muscle, keep that muscle, and
the energy and the food he has to fuel
in order to do all that that gives him
more energy that then so there is this
massive compounding effect
>> that happens subconsciously that all
plays in the factor. At the end of the
day, when we're training clients, it
doesn't matter how we got I don't care
how I got her metabolism to 800 more
calories a day,
>> but we do it all the time.
>> That happens.
>> Exactly. Like predictable.
>> I don't care to fight over the science
of exactly the mechanism at which got
there. I just know the facts of I've
done hundreds of people.
>> I've seen that happen to. And at the end
of the day, if it works for them and
they now have attached and created those
behavior for the rest of their life,
it's it's working.
>> That's right. And lastly, your sleep
isn't better. So, one of the
characteristics of being in a deficit is
you don't have good sleep or your sleep
doesn't feel restful. So, anybody who's
been in a deficit for a long period of
time knows what this is like. It's
either I can't get enough sleep or man,
I'm going to bed and I got this kind of
restless feeling.
>> Uh, being in a surplus, having that much
energy improves sleep across the board.
Of course, again, this is in the context
of a healthy bulk, whole natural foods,
appropriate training, but if you're
going in a bulk and your sleep isn't
better or or or worse, it's worse, um
then that's kind of a red flag that
you're not doing it uh in the right way.
So,
>> you know, you you didn't list this on
here, but I think it deserves an
honorable mention that I've connected
the dots to. I've heard from clients a
lot of times. Um impact on libido. I
I've seen a lot of clients who Yes. when
they
>> and it goes down in the cut,
>> right? when when they when they are
eating when I put them on a bulk, it's
one of the things I constantly would
hear feedback of like
>> within a week.
>> Yeah, I know.
>> Libido and and a lot of times when you
have been underfed for such a long
period of time, libido is one of the
things that is crash even for people who
thought they had an okay libido, right?
They'll be like, "Oh, I'm no, I'm fine."
>> Yeah. And then they go on a bulk.
>> Yeah. And then they go on a bulk and
they're like, "Wow, you know, and again,
there's probably a compounding effect
there. They're bulking. They're building
more
>> muscle. Extra calories.
That's it. Perfect,
>> dude. Totally. All right. Uh, yo, I was
going to I got to bring this up again.
So, recently I talked about how uh how
old machines because I'm going to a gym
right now that has both new and old
machines because the gym's been there
for a long time and everything's kept up
really well. So, I I like older
machines, like machines from like the
'9s, early 2000s. Uh, none are from the
80s, although I'd love to find those,
but they made them different back in the
day. I talked about this uh on a
previous episode where old machines were
really designed for bodybuilders and
athletes. New machines are designed to
have a small footprint, be easy to use
>> and safety and the average person. So, a
lot of things are different between the
old machines and the new machines. The
old machines were more hardcore than the
new machines. And there's one other and
I talked about some of the differences,
but there's one big I just picked on
picked this up today. I went and I
haven't done a leg extension in a long
time. Okay? I rarely ever do leg
extensions when I work out my legs. I
prefer doing other exercises, but
anytime I do do a leg extension at a
gym, I could do the whole stack. The
stack is never heavy. I'll do 25 reps
with the whole stack. No problem.
>> Heavy.
>> The old ones are, bro. The stacks on old
machines were made for bodybuilders.
>> Just the levers are
>> I automatically went whole stack. And I
was like, "Oh boy, that's way too
heavy." And I'm like, "Oh, yeah. I
remember like
>> old machines were for strong dudes."
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
>> So you you whole stacking
>> the starting point is already kind of
heavy. Yeah.
just
>> I'll typically use the whole stack on
new machines in any exercise.
>> So funny you said I I trained in the gym
yesterday and I used a machine. I used a
dip machine and I was doing stacked the
whole thing. I'm just like silly.
>> Bro, use a dip machine from 97. Bro,
you're going to go halfway down the
stack if you're lucky.
>> Like belts on them and stuff.
>> It's got a whole new
chair.
>> Yeah,
>> I was cracking up.
>> Radiator belt holding it together. Yeah,
I I literally I literally just took the
pen and I went all the way to the bottom
just out of habit and I'm like pick
myself up the chair. Oh no, dude.
>> What is going on? Anyway, I got to tell
you guys about my uncle who um he got
back to me. So we Yeah, I told you guys
last weekend we did tomatoes. So my
whole family came together and my uncle
comes up and he doesn't work out or
anything. Uh but I guess I'm on his
algorithm. So he comes up to me and he
goes, "Hey," he goes, "One of the
products you talk about, I've been using
for a while. I've been putting in my
coffee. I'm like, "In your coffee?" I'm
like, "Paleo Valley protein?" He's like,
"Yeah, I love it." I'm like, "How do you
feel?" He's like, "Man, I feel great. I
have more energy." He's like, "I gained
a couple pounds, though." I'm like,
"What do you mean you gained a couple
pounds?" So, we started talking more and
found turned down my aunt's been making
him eat sweets. So, I'm like, I don't
think that's what's happening, dude. I
don't think you're under calorie of
protein. But, he loves it. He loves how
he feels. He loves adding it to his
coffee. Normally, he would just have
coffee and now he's having, you know,
the Paleo Valley protein in there. and
he likes the way it tastes.
>> Doug and I just had uh our final
walkthrough on one of the properties and
uh the the agent that was doing the
walkthrough with us uh you know
afterwards she was so she was curious
about what we did
>> and so she went and must have researched
us and then after that like the
algorithm has been falling now it's all
over her. Yeah. Yeah. So she she the
last time we this last time when we
walked through she's like so tell me
about this this Paleo Valley bone broth
because my I can't I'm lactose
intolerant.
>> Yeah. like, "Oh man." I was like, "Boy,
that algorithm is pretty good." The fact
that she didn't know who we were.
>> She went and Googled us within and then
within within like a day was asking Doug
and I about Paleo Valley. And I was
like, "Oh my god." I'm like, "That's uh
that's a pretty good advertising there
>> by far." And this is what my uncle told
me cuz again, he doesn't work out. He
doesn't care. And he's like, "I was
afraid to buy it cuz I hate protein
powders." He's like, "They always taste
gross." He goes, "This one is so good."
As I told you, bro.
>> It's the best.
>> That's what I was telling her. I'm like
I think it's for especially for somebody
who is lactose and you can't have you
know dairy can't have whey
>> cuz whey weight typically is one of the
best tasting proteins on Yeah. that you
could taste.
>> Um but a lot of people it they're
they're intolerant to it or it bothers
them a little bit right and so the bone
broth is just so good and I love that I
can do
>> it's easy to digest.
>> I love that I can go high. Yo, I can do
70 grams of protein
>> to be able to like I can't even with I I
can have whey again, I've talked about
this before where I can I can do whey
proteins. I just have to have moderate
amount. Yeah,
>> once a day is enough for me. And I
definitely can't do like a double up
shake. Like if I had like 60 to 80 grams
of whey in one sitting, like that'll
mess me up.
>> But I can do 60 to 80 g of the bone
broth and it digests so easily water.
>> Yes, I know. Yeah. So that's a huge win.
Uh, did you guys uh have you guys seen
the new dating app? It's real, by the
way, that's kind of going around.
>> The new one?
>> Yeah, Doug, look up
>> how do they change it?
>> Look up the dating app. So, this is
interesting, dude. And I almost could
have predicted this. So, it's called
Doug, look this up. It's unjected. So, u
N J E C T E D.
>> Unjected.
>> Un.
>> So, instead of rejected, you're
unjected.
>> Nope.
>> It is for people. people
people
>> people who want to date people who were
never vaccinated with the COVID vaccine.
>> It's literally a dating website for
people who never got the COVID vaccine.
>> I mean, I feel like this is kind of a
way of being like the non-political way
of saying the political thing. I feel
like I feel like that's what that is.
Not not necessarily this, but like um so
way back when like I was telling you
guys like one of my my sister-in-law was
looking at
>> you know getting a donor uh you know and
so like one of the parameters I'm like
did you find out like you know the
history like how much detail do they
give you and it's like I did I don't
think they were revealing or not but
then they start revealing if they had
the the vaccine or not.
>> Yes. I I'm so
>> I heard this not confirmed but I heard
that that uh donors
>> like sperm donors that are unvaccinated
they'll charge more or more demand for
>> Yes, that's what I heard.
>> Yeah. Is are are uh sperm donors who did
not get the COVID vaccine in higher
demand? Let's look that up.
>> But it's crazy that they have a side
>> unvaccinated.
I mean, don't you feel like that's like
a like like a subtle way of being like
>> Well, there's a lot of like there's a
lot of conjecture and conspiracy theory
stuff out there. Some is it true? Not I
don't know. We won't get into that. But
um but people want it. They want they
want to date people without it.
>> Whoever like threw that my way on my
story isn't going to like this.
>> Oh, you had somebody you had somebody
>> Yeah. They're like challenging me on our
our COVID science and it was just like
>> Yeah. Oh, the stuff that you listed.
>> Yeah.
>> Everything you listed was a fact.
>> Well, yeah. No, I I listed that as a
response.
>> Yeah. a response because it was like I I
think they they had a hard time because
we mention a lot of studies all the time
and you know back a lot of what we say
with science and they're you know
obviously just looking at one specific
study that was like
>> you know making it look like the you
know the vaccines like had a pretty high
effectiveness which is like oh that's
interesting because like I've seen a lot
of conflicting studies that
>> oh there's people that still believe
that.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh that's funny.
>> Oh yeah
>> that's hilarious. You know, I still do
you guys get like I CVS sends me the get
your COVID 19. Are they sending that?
>> Yeah, like a robot one or that. I'm so
petty. I like I send a message back.
Laugh out loud.
>> No, you don't. To the robot.
>> Like, I'm really going to go get that.
Come on, bro. Are you serious? There's
people that really believe that it had
that much of an impact. Wow. That's
interesting.
>> Yeah. Yeah, it is interesting. And it,
you know, it just goes to show too like
how segmented we are and like how much
No, no, no, no. What it goes to show,
which is such a perfect transition for
this cuz I wanted to bring it up
anyways, is what Chris Nibi just talked
about and it's like
>> how well media paints a narrative and
how well and today how crazy it is where
>> Yeah.
>> holds all the power.
>> What I what I love about this episode,
Chris did such a good job on this
episode. It's one of my favorite
episodes he's ever done.
>> Higher standard is
>> Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, Chris, our good
friend, we've been on the show before,
Chris Negi. uh higher standard podcast
and what I love that he set the table
before he went just telling hit like
history like this has been happening for
200 years.
>> Yeah. So just a little context. So
historically speaking so if you live in
a first of all this is important in all
societies but it's especially important
and valuable in a free society where
people make choices. So, if you live in
a society like you do, if you're
listening to this podcast, you probably
live in one of those societies where you
can choose for the most part what you
can buy, what you don't want to buy,
where you want to live, um who you can
vote for. When you have that kind of
choice, uh the the who controls the
narrative, which is done largely through
media, has a lot of power, right?
Because you can sway people in different
directions. And this is not new. We've
known this for forever. We've done this
for a long time but like the look at the
first newspapers and who bought those
and on those and why and when uh when it
was TV how TV became influenced radio
became influenced um you know
>> magazines
>> magazines now it's like social media
>> so whoever controls the nar it's very
valuable
>> for either companies the platform
dictates
>> politicians or anything is who can
control the narrative tends to control
uh the situation and so and by the way
the reason why this came up and you know
our one of our friends is involved in
this and I so I respect the guy I think
you know he does a good job but it was
really interesting to me when I saw um
our friends podcasts be the highest
selling podcast of all time so this was
the
>> TBPN I think that's what it's called
TBPN podcast so this was a
>> they called it like sports center for
Silicon Valley so it was a podcast uh
and they kind of treated it like sports
center where they're reporting on what's
going on talking about Silicon Valley it
is this super new podcast that got
bought recently for
>> hundreds of millions.
>> Yeah. So some so
>> just under uh Joe Rogan.
>> Yeah. Like around $200 million. Now the
reason why this was interesting was
because uh Joe Rogan gets 10 million
views or listens.
>> He gets a million an episode.
>> They got they like very little
>> very little in comparison. They weren't
producing. There was nothing that
justified the selling of their podcast
for nearly that much except for and this
is what we speculated on. I think this
is what's happened that AI companies in
particular first off they have really
low approval ratings. So AI is like it's
this emerging technology
tons of potential money in it. Everybody
knows this. Like this is why so many
trillions of dollars getting dumped into
it. But AI uh
>> there's been some backlash though. Like
>> public perception around it is like
iffy. Yeah. And you know if public
perception public perception goes the
wrong way, it'll get regulated into into
smitherines.
>> Have you seen all those commencement
speeches that are flying around? Yeah.
And then mention it and everybody's just
>> That's why this has become so important.
>> So owning the narrative is very
important for an AI company. Okay. And
who bought their podcast?
>> 80enters all this stuff. And and who
bought their podcast for $200 million,
right? It was uh Anthropic.
>> Yeah.
>> Was it Anthropic?
>> What? Sam Alman.
>> Yeah, I think that's the one, right?
>> Anthropic. Yes.
>> Uh and it and then they bought it and
they canceled their app. So whatever
money they were making, they stopped. No
advertising.
>> Yeah.
>> How can a podcast who first off wasn't
earning nowhere near what would be worth
uh $200 million in purchase. And how
could they sell for that much? And then
on top of why would a company buy that
and cancel advertising anyway? So it
makes no money. It's because they want
to control the narrative. and they need
uh a propaganda arm or an arm of of
media. And there really wasn't a good
popular one in Silicon Valley. And you
got these guys on there. One of them we
know well. He does a good job.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh good-looking kids, smart, sharp,
>> smart as a whip.
>> It's like, hey, let's buy this and let's
use this to to to to control the
narrative. That's And by the way, that's
what I speculate when I saw that. I'm
like, oh god, I know what happened.
>> Well, and what have I been saying about
the whole AI movement right now, too?
that so much of it is propped up and so
they they need to keep all the money
flowing there. And you ask why why?
Well, of course, there there's uh all
these companies that want to IPO where
they make big money, but even if they
don't IPO, you and this was like
>> this is huge for me to kind of see
behind the curtain in the last like 5
years being a part of um a lot of people
that are VCs and do seed rounds and
funding and have close friends, people
that are on Forbes magazine, stuff like
that that I got to talk to and and talk
business intimately on how all this I
was so unfamiliar here 10 years ago on
how all this worked. And when I saw it,
I remember sharing with you guys, and I
don't know how much of that I I've
shared publicly on uh on here, but I
know we've talked about it that I was
like so blown away by the the hustle.
>> Yeah. The VC. Uh
>> yeah. just that like so when when
something when something especially like
this like AI when billions of dollars
are flowing in a direction of a movement
and they're they're popping up all over
the place you don't even care if that
company ever makes it to IPO so long as
you can keep it growing and and and
raising money y
>> every six months to a year you know seed
rounds and then series A and then you
Keep going. Keep going. What these what
these founders can do
>> is every round that comes around, you
go, "Oh, we're rate. We hey, we grew
this much over the last year, even
though we spent this much to grow that
much. So, we're still negative, but
we're growing.
>> We need another $10 million. Cool." So,
you get $10 million. And he goes like
this. I'll take 1 million for myself and
we'll pump 9 million back into it to
make it to the next. And to be clear,
many of the biggest companies in the
world that we know about did that for a
long time before they became extremely
like Amazon wasn't profitable for like
10 years.
>> Tesla like so it's the game and what
they're doing is they're betting.
>> Well, yeah. So you you you just you just
named uh two outliers.
>> That's right. Some of the winners, but
how many hundreds of losers or
thousands?
>> Huge percentage
>> don't ever even come close to that and
making that way. Meanwhile, they're
still making a ton of money. And so,
it's like a good old boy club where it's
like, "Hey, let's all agree. Just keep
pushing this narrative this direction.
We all eat
>> because if if we keep and this this, by
the way, this is this is good news and
bad news. This is scare stuff, too.
That's why that was my point. Like when
you bring, oh my god, all like it's
keeping it top of news." Yeah.
>> So, whether whether it's there's
fear-mongering happening on what AI is
going to kill all of us or it's going to
be doing our dishes in the next month,
it doesn't matter. for so long as it's
top of the news and everyone's talking
about it and it's going to re it's like
it's.com all over again.
>> Well, and here and here's the big thing.
So, for a long time, tech has uh enjoyed
the advantage of having good public
perception. For a while, up until
relatively recently, relatively
recently, there's been criticism.
There's been cynicism around tech.
>> You saw it affected the elections.
>> Yeah. Like, like when the iPhone first
came out, like it was everybody was
like, "Let's go. This is awesome.
Apple's the best company in the world.
Amazon's amazing.
>> Now people are more cynical and
skeptical. Um, public policy is starting
to move in that direction. Social media
is starting to get regulated.
Tech moguls are getting criticized.
They're looked at as bad guys in some
cases.
>> Facebook,
>> they were heroes before, you know, Steve
Jobs was the guy like every they were
all heroes because it was new. So what
my point with that is today more than
ever and definitely in the next five or
10 years
>> they are going to need to control the
narrative.
>> They are investing heavily in
controlling no no different than
politicians. No different than
politicians have throughout the past. So
you're going to see more of that kind of
stuff cuz your options are this. You're
anthropic. You got two options. You're
looking at public perception. You're one
of the top companies like guys we got to
change everybody's opinion on us and
what we do. either a we build a nar a
machine, we build our own show that
pumps out good information about us and
makes us look good. Good luck with that.
It's one thing to build an incredible AI
company. It's a completely different
thing to build a media company. Or you
look at one and you go, they're
promising. Let's give them some money
and they'll do what we say anyway and
let's rock and roll. Which, by the way,
if you're if you're listening to this
and this conversation at all interests
you, the breakdown that Chris does on
the the timeline,
>> such a good episode
>> and uh in the links to everything to
back up all the stuff that he's talking
about and the connections to everything.
It's fascinating. Such a good episode.
>> And by the way, if anybody is like
questioning this, like does anybody
question that Elon Musk buying X, which
was Twitter at the time, didn't
influence the last election?
>> Yeah, of course it did.
>> Yeah,
>> it totally did. He's just they're
playing the game that's been played.
>> I didn't realize the part. Did you hear
when Chris talked about uh the uh when
Elon and Biden both texts the same day
and and Biden's text?
>> He was like 29 million and then he was
like 9 million.
>> So that was like the that's what set off
the buying of uh Twitter or or
>> Oh, his tweet you mean?
>> Yeah, his tweet that went out. So he
>> Biden's tweet crushed
>> crushed and his was suppressed and he
went in and like fired fired a bunch of
people that was responsible for that.
changed the algorithm or anything like
that and flipped it like completely.
Uh-huh.
>> So I mean just
>> do you know you know that one of the
reasons why uh this is connected one of
the reasons why cannabis went through
this whole period of prohibition was
because uh who was it? Was it William
Hurst who owned the paper mills
>> and hemp was starting to compete and
because William Hurst owned the
newspapers,
>> he started printing a bunch of uh
articles going talking about how
dangerous cannabis was. And the goal was
to get rid of
>> the goal was to get rid of competition
paper
>> because because
hemp was so much or so so much cheaper
and inexpensive to produce
>> and more durable. It's like it's such a
missed opportunity. It's such a great
material. And I the point of all this
were bleaching everything.
>> That's the part that I think Chris does
a really good job of this is like he he
talks about what's going on with TBBN
and and that the narrative and the
purchase of all that, but he sets the
table of like like this is not new
strategy.
>> No, this has been
>> And nor am I like and and he's like nor
am I hating. It's just like it's I mean
if you're them,
>> it's an old game, dude.
>> Yeah. But it's like but it's like people
needs people need to know. You know what
I'm saying? you just need to know like
what's what what your but all back to my
point of going on this tangent with you
is just I just feel like that's what's
so much of the the the narrative
whatever you're and boy it's today it's
crazy once you like something and you
watch something and the algorithm
figures out what you like or the
information that you that
>> you just hover over something
>> oh it just it just get ready cuz the
next six months everything will just
confirm your
>> I've had people I've had friends of mine
I've had friends of mine that I'll meet
like friends at church for example who
don't know the show they don't know
Mindpump they don't know who I am we
meet we start talking the next day they
go listen I didn't look you up or
anything but now you're showing up on my
algorithm I'm like is your phone
listening
>> is it listening
>> I'm sure it is the thing they and uh I
forget what it was but they they had
shown um you know through drive-ins that
predictably you know they already knew
your order I I don't know if it was
McDonald's or one of these franchises
was using this technology before it was
legal you know then they had stop
because it was like an invasion of
privacy. But they were like tracking
license plates and like you know so
they've been doing these things like
that that's the first roll out is like
you know you're testing it and you're
getting the beta testing and
>> you guys have seen it with your
navigation haven't you?
>> Oh where it's like
>> it predicts where I'm going all the
time. It's rarely wrong.
>> I know.
>> It's I mean it's wrong sometimes. I'm
like dude this like is it could be like
literally it's
>> Are you going to buy a burrito right
now? It's a random day in the week and
I'm I'm heading somewhere and it's like
it populates, you know, it suggests
where I'm going and I'm like, how does
it know I'm going? But it's it's it's
been tracking
>> the habit. We're Yeah, our patterns are
predictable.
>> Do you you guys know that back in the
day, I don't know when it was, and maybe
you can confirm this, Doug, but uh they
experimented movies experimented or they
tested subliminal messaging and they had
to make it illegal.
>> Uhhuh.
>> Where they flash a picture Yeah.
>> But that you don't necessarily perceive.
that movie uh Thank You for Smoking
talked about that. Show showed that
highlighted that where they flash a
cigarette smoke and and he had to you
had to freeze it to see it. But if you
didn't see it,
>> look at this. In 1957, market researcher
James Vickery claimed he flashed drink
Coca-Cola and eat popcorn during movie
boosting concession sales. Oh, wow.
Well, okay. So, it says,
>> I mean, subliminal messaging. There's
>> You know what movie does this by the
way? There's a movie that does this that
you can actually you can actually find
the frames. Fight Club. Flight Club does
certain flashes.
>> Yeah, thank you for Smoking does it too.
They did they did they did it in there.
They did like little like cigarettes
>> burn mark. Yeah. And then it like
>> Yeah, they did they did stuff like that.
I mean they do this with um grocery
stores with music and and and stores.
>> Yeah. There's certain music played to
keep you shopping, you know,
>> certain temperatures, you know, like
coffee shops you keep, you know, buying
dude. We were talking about uh um dating
dating app earlier and uh do you guys
know what's a trend right now on social
media with uh the younger generation?
>> What?
>> Pheromone maxing.
>> Pherom look up pheromone maxing.
>> Pheromone maxing.
>> You know what this you know what they're
doing?
>> What do they do?
>> Dudes are not showering.
>> What?
>> So when they go on a date that their
pherommones are maxed out and that'll
maybe get the
>> they just smell like trash. a viral
online dating trend where men
intentionally skip showering, ditch
deodorant, and wear unclo un unwashed
clothes before dates.
>> Weird.
>> Does that work?
>> So, okay. So, here's the funny thing
about this cuz someone's listening.
They're like, "That's gross."
>> This is Here's what's weird.
>> I mean, there's some
>> a woman who's ovulating versus a woman
who isn't ovulating. Same woman,
>> she will perceive uh if a man wore a
shirt or not as attractive or not. So if
she's ovulating and a man wore a shirt,
she'll smell it. Oh, this smells really
good. So this might only work if she's
ovulating, bro. But if she's not, you're
not going to get
>> So you think Okay, cuz they're they're
also like trying to capture this with um
like cologne and there's like one that's
like it's always trying to market I I
think like my son and it's like, you
know, it has pherommones in it and it's
like, you know, the only one that has it
and it's like super expensive and you
know, so that way too. Yeah. like women
will will you know pick up on that like
subliminally. So, isn't there isn't
there science of support that we like
that we we pair and match with with the
appropriate like pherommones for us? In
other words, like so one of the things
unless your hormones are all
>> I remember like connecting this a long
time ago through dating is like there's
I I would date a girl and um one girl
could be that let's say one girlfriend
uh could be all sweaty, not shower, come
to the gym and I like the way she smelt.
Another girl that I dated, I would
notice I was repulsed by that smell. So
both sweaty, not showered. So that but
one of them that smell I'm attracted to
and I
>> pick up on something different%
where another one I would date and they
would have a a smell and it would be
offputting.
>> You know what's you know what's crazy
about that? Uh I tell my wife she
doesn't believe me but this I tell her
this all the time her her she I don't
necessarily smell anything but I love to
smell her.
>> And she'll and she'll be like oh my god
I didn't shower. And I'll be like,
>> "Yeah, see, don't you don't you think
that we have
>> Don't you think that there's certain
>> There's got to be."
>> So to me, that makes sense.
>> Which, by the way, when women are on
birth control versus not completely
changes how they like
>> Now, the funny thing about this that I
think is is talk about a quick way to
like know you're not matched up is like,
>> "Oh, yeah. Yeah, you're
>> the right person probably is like, oh,
they they smell either they it's either
neutral to them or they smell good."
>> You need to think about that, dude. You
don't like someone's smells. It ain't
happening. You know what I'm saying? I'm
not I'm not going to be with someone
that I don't like their smell, bro.
>> Well, they're they're bad. I mean, I
don't know. There's a there's a there's
a
>> Oh, God. Just
I didn't hear what he said.
>> I heard what he said to you.
Disgusting.
>> Did you, you know, speaking of dating
and relationships and stuff? I shared
with you that Arthur Brooks post.
>> Oh, yeah. Happiness. That's old data.
So, I'll read I'll read his post because
>> it's it's really good. It's good. I have
thoughts around.
>> It's good. And the reason why but I
brought this up a long time ago because
there was this
>> you have and I I wanted to revisit it
because I wanted to share.
>> No, there were these studies that would
come out actually article and the title
of the articles would say because of
studies they'd say uh PE parent couples
without kids are happier and they'd
quote the study and I hate stuff like
this because it's not telling the full
picture. So here's what his post says
and because he knows the actual data. So
it says couples without children enjoy
their lives more than parents do but
they suffer a hidden cost. When
researchers compare parents with
otherwise similar couples, the childless
report more day-to-day enjoyment, more
sleep, more restaurants, more finished
sentences. So, are the couples deciding
against children reading the data
correctly? Well, they are reading only
one line of it. Happiness has three
macronutrients: enjoyment, satisfaction,
and meaning, and they're all fed
differently. Children are a trade
between macronutrients. They draw down
enjoyment, sometimes for a decade at a
stretch, and they deposit meaning. So
when researchers ask people to rate
their daily activities, caring for
children lands near the bottom for
momentto moment happiness been near the
top for meaning and nothing splits the
two so hard. And then he talks about his
own experience uh with his own kids. So,
I wanted you to bring it up because
there's something that I've always tried
to figure out about my own personal
journey with this because I I' I've fell
in the category of somebody who would be
like uh thought about not having kids
for the longest time. And and one of the
cases that I make for is man, especially
Katrina and I did it for a long time
without Max, right? We had a really
really good life. Yeah. Like we had a
lot of fun, a lot of you know, a lot of
basketball games, a lot of concerts, a
lot of fun travel, a lot of lot of cool
stuff and and really really enjoyed each
other. And so there was this possibility
like I could see not having kids
>> yet. I also say, you know, seven years
later, Katrina and I have done more of
all of that.
>> And so I've always been like, what?
That's kind of weird cuz that's that's
the opposite of the the the narrative
around that.
>> And and so another reason why I don't
like those studies that show that
because it doesn't tease out um what I
have and cuz when I compare it to my
like two best friends cuz I don't think
they would say that. They would
definitely say the children gave
meaning, but they would say, "Man, when
we were single, we definitely had more
of those."
>> Well, there was a period of time when
you didn't, right? When Max was really
little, you know, it was a couple years,
right? Or a year where you're not going
all over the place.
>> When he he was 3 months old, we were
already up at our Tahoe house. We were
flying with him by the time before he
was 6 months old.
>> We were
>> Well, that's not the that's not the
typical,
>> right? So, that's so this is this is me.
So why why I'm saying why that story
doesn't tell everything because here's
here's and and the reason why what I've
unpacked for myself is how valuable
family has been for for for us and and
what I have found is because we have
family so willing to help and support
which I think is so valuable. I think
Katrina and I have been even more
intentful to do those things because
it's like we uh uh we we got Friday
mom's my my mother-in-law's got our son
so we're we're we got this we're going
to go do and then we got this and we're
and so we plan even more not to mention
we do a lot with Max and so then on top
of that I find that we go out of our way
to do even more because we get that one
night or two nights off a week and then
we So it's like I think that there's
more to that. It's like, yeah, if you
tease out uh somebody who is uh married
and has a kid and also isolated from
family and of course they're going to
see a dramatic difference in that.
>> Yeah. When you look at
>> there's other there's other my point is
that there's other factors that play
into.
>> Of course, when you're looking at
studies, you're looking at the general.
Yes. And so there's always outliers, but
generally speaking, I think it's uh
reasonable to expect that you're not
going to have as much personal enjoyment
in freedom when you have kids,
especially multiple kids, especially for
the first 5 years uh that they're
around. I think that's a very reasonable
thing to expect. That's also what the
data supports. But I think what more
important about this data is my own
personal enjoyment. If I just do that
all the time and that's the most
important thing to me, you know what
that turns into? a hedonistic hell,
>> a treadmill of hedenism. And all of us
know some people like this, right?
They're in their kind of late 40s.
They've lived this life. It's all about
them. They still don't have any kids.
And they're now at the point where
they're like, "This is like this is worn
out." Like, "This is worn out. Uh I'm
either on some kind of anti-depressant
or I'm not happy or what's going on."
And sometimes it takes that long for
people to figure that out because if you
look at all the data, again, we're
speaking generally because some people
are way more miserable with kids for
whatever reason, but generally speaking,
uh when you inter when you do this these
studies, people are generally better off
having kids than they weren't. Yes, you
are trading personal freedom and
enjoyment for meaning 100%. Yeah, I
think I think it's a good I think it's a
good way to frame it that you should go
into expecting that, but I also don't
think that's I don't think you have to
either.
>> I I think that if you if you go into
that situation and you're intentful
about it and you you make that like,
hey, this is what you know,
mother-in-law or auntie or uncle, if you
have that, right? I so I definitely
think if you don't have that you should
prepare that you're not going to go as
many concerts. You're not going to go as
many of these things, right, as you did
before cuz you don't have
>> you're just going to grow in in
incredible other ways than expected.
>> Exactly. So you're going to get you're
going to get the meaning part. You're
going to get heavily on the meaning
part. But I I do believe that there is I
mean I know that I was an exceptional
role and I know that I was the person
who probably was afraid of having kids
because of of fear
>> of giving so much of that up like that
was going to happen. And the opposite
was true for me and I did not see that
coming. And so it it changed.
>> It's so funny. I have a buddy who's uh
now how old is he? Mid-4s and he's lived
that life. So, work, made money, did
whatever he wanted, dated girls, never
settling down type of deal. Now he's in
his mid-40s, and now we're having
conversations.
And he's like, "Yeah, dude. I'm I'm kind
of lonely. Like, I think I'm like ready
to settle down. I think I'm like ready
to do this." And uh and I'm like, "What
is that going to be? How's that going to
feel for you? Because you've lived this
other way for so long. Are you willing
to like trade this freedom and whatever
to be with somebody who and now you're
also 45 so
>> not only that s
>> and like you're decent looking and you
make good money but you are you going to
find you your age group or below in an
appropriate age range you're probably
going to find someone with kids
>> who's divorced
>> not only that so we we're having this
funny that we went this direction in
this conversation because Katrina and I
were having this discussion last night
I've got three people in my life that
fit this category.
>> Yeah.
>> And one of the other things that becomes
also extremely challenging is that
you're in your late 40s or 50s and
you've you've established these patterns
of how you live your life. And when
you've lived it for that long, a certain
way for and I'm I'm not going to sell
out one of the people that I was having
this conversation, one of my friends. I
was talking to about this. This is this
is one of my female friends.
>> And uh she's like, I am she really wants
a partner. She wants all these things
and she's expressing that
>> and I'm like, you got to you can't keep
doing the same thing you've been doing
for the last 30 years. You and and well,
I joined a gym and I'm doing this. I'm
like, yeah, but the time you go, you're
not going to meet anybody going that
time. Yeah, but that's what work that's
the problem. Everything you do is like
this is what works for me and this is my
schedule and this is when I do this and
this is when I do that and you have this
routine that you won't break out of yet
you want something different. So, it's
like you got to break out of that same
friend circle, meet new people, you got
to stop the like, this is the time I
always do this and the time I always do
that because you've already met all
those people. Like, you got to shake all
that up. And boy, that's hard to do for
somebody who's been doing that.
>> We've also just And we've also just, and
this is, we talked about this earlier,
controlling the narrative. And the
narrative for a long time has been the
most valuable thing is personal freedom,
personal enjoyment, uh is hedonistic
pleasure. And we've been hammered this
into us for so long. People believe
this, but the data is showing we've been
wrong. It's been wrong, everybody. In
fact, in fact, you know, you know, when
birth control, because birth control
plays a role in all of this that we're
talking about when birth control was
first brought to market, do you know how
it was advertised?
>> It was advertised for married couples to
help them stay married longer because
now they have an option to control, you
know, whether or not they have children.
Because back then they were like, "Oo,
it's a stress. you have a kid, you can't
afford it. That causes a lot of strain,
but now you have a way to control your
fertility. Then, of course, it turned
into, hey, now you can control your
fertility and you can sleep, you can
have sex with other people without the
risk. And you know what? That's better
because now you can see if you're
compatible. And this was kind of the
narrative. You know what happened since
since that became mainstream? Divorce
rates went from 8% to 50%.
>> Childless house households went through
the roof. And people are less happy. Men
are less happy. You know who's
especially less happy? Women are way
less happy. In fact, they call this a
par they uh this is like a paradox. Why
are they so much less happy than they
were when they had, you know, perceived
less freedoms. And it's because we've
sold this idea so long that the most
important thing in your life is having a
lot of stuff, having all this personal
freedom and having all this this
personal enjoyment and pleasure. That's
just not the way it works. The data
doesn't support it. We can see it. And
you know what? marriage and kids. Is it
hard? Do you do you have a lot of
responsibility? Do you give up personal
freedom? Do you give up personal
enjoyment? You do, but what you get in
return
>> is well worth it.
>> Purpose and meaning. Cuz that the other
two aren't the formula for purpose and
meaning. So that's exactly why.
>> No, totally. Anyway, you were talking
about working out earlier and I was
excited. I don't know if you saw this,
Adam, cuz I thought of you.
>> What?
>> Vori now has pickle ball paddles.
>> Yes, I did.
>> I already put a call in. Did you really?
>> Yes. I'm trying to get some paddles,
>> dude. How first off. So So Vor smart for
>> I mean last time Doug brought up when he
went river rafting they had the rash
guard stuff for the whatever for them. I
just they're on top.
>> They had snowboard last winter. I saw
when they all snowboard they're like man
they're expanding into all all different
areas.
>> What are these real quick? What are
these sweats called again? We have the
same ones.
>> Seaside.
>> They're the best.
>> Oh the seaside.
>> Best best best sweats I've ever had in
my life.
>> I wear those pretty much every night.
>> Comfortable, warm chill. They last
forever.
>> Oh, look. There's the paddles right
there.
>> Yeah. Vori does a good job. Look at
that, dude.
>> It's so good, dude.
>> Is Is so paddle uh excuse me, pickle
ball has literally exploded.
>> Yes.
>> In popularity. Is it one of the fastest
growing sports right now?
>> I do believe so. I I think it is. I
imagine so.
>> I actually looked that up. I'm curious.
It's got to be.
>> Yeah.
>> I I never heard of it.
>> Did you guys Did you guys see the uh the
uh the pickle ball movie? Dink. Dink.
>> Yeah. Did you watch it or did you see
that?
>> I just watched the trailer. I didn't
watch it.
>> I mean, it's not I'm not promoting it.
Fastest growing sport in the United
States.
>> Yep. Y
>> the fastest growing sport.
>> So the whole I told you
>> what's the rate of growth, Doug? I'm
interested to see
>> over the last 5 years.
>> US has more than 24 million players.
>> Cool.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh let's see. I'll find
>> Yeah. Yeah. Just put in pickle ball rate
of growth over the last 5 years popular
to jump on that. So smart.
>> They're very, you know, Vori is it's so
crazy. I know we How long have we been
with them?
>> 10 years.
>> Has it been 10 years
>> almost? They went from being this kind
of unknown like cool company to like
dominating. Yeah. Like crushing
all now. It's it's it's got to a place
where when I see someone in athleisure
wear it's it's almost always
>> I always see Vor both women and men. It
used to be just men I would see that but
now it's women and men I see it's like
they definitely it'd be interesting to
see how much of the market share they
have now taken you know because Lulu
dominates. Look at the growth of pickle
ball the last 5 years. 479%.
>> What?
>> It went from 4 million players to 24
million players.
>> Well, didn't you hear? Was it Gary Vee
who bought a team?
>> Should we buy pickle ball courts right
now,
>> bro? He bought like a team. No, it's a
it's a would be a brilliant investment.
You know how hard you know how hard it
is to get on a pickle ball court right
now?
>> We should buy some land, put pickle ball
courts on there, let people rent it, and
then sell it before the the crate cuz
the craze will go down. It'll crush and
it'll go down.
>> It'll drop at some point. It has
longevity. I don't know about that. and
it's been around forever. So, it's not
like it's a new thing suddenly.
>> I think because it's multigenerational,
you know, this fight's going to stick.
>> Multiple factors and I will I would bet
against you that it's going to go away.
Will it uh slow down 100%. It can't grow
at that rate forever. But here's the
thing.
>> You've talked about this all the time.
Uh we don't we don't meet up
>> socialize. And the barrier to entry for
pickle ball
>> is low is low. You can be 70 and go play
and you could be super athletic and go
play and it's competitive at all levels.
>> I like tennis or ra running groups.
>> So I mean listen I I would bank on this
ain't going away for quite some time
now. I can't predict 20 years from now
what we're doing or what that but it's
going to be hot for a while and I don't
I don't think we're going to see a
>> Are you trying to talk us into maps
pickle ball? Well, I mean, I like your I
I like your idea of some land, like an
acre, and throw on some pickle ball.
>> I bet it will crush right now.
>> It would absolutely work.
>> And then you'd sell it after it grows,
just sell it real quick, and then
somebody else will buy it for a profit.
Start promoting Jasmitt.
>> I'm not a I'm not a guest at all.
>> Jasmine.
>> Yeah. I told the guys I got for one of
the Christmases, I got like the boys
this like game. It's like a popup
square. So, it's a square that has like,
you know,
>> Oh, I saw that.
>> Yeah. And so you have paddles, but it's
like basically bad mitten, but you have
to hit it through this little square.
Jazz mitten.
>> Oh, I love that. I'm telling you. Oh,
that's it.
>> Yeah. Kids would love that.
>> Yeah, exactly. Like that. That would be
like the next follow up to
>> When I was a kid, bad mitten was popular
for kid for for families.
>> Yeah. Bad mitten never really took off
like But that was always another easy
one.
>> So weird. I totally forgot this. My
family used to get together and play
badminton.
>> Mhm.
>> What were a group of Sicilians doing
playing?
>> Because it's like it's more of a
European thing, I think. So, you
remember uh uh Karan,
>> you had to say that it's
>> right there.
>> That's what it's called, you guys.
>> My my uh our trainer uh Karan who comes
in here was like a bad mini champion.
He's like like world ranked way. Yes.
Yes.
>> Was he a pro? I mean, tournaments.
>> He was like a champion. Yeah. Yeah. No,
he's like really
>> Yeah. Which is why like he's he you he
would he would surprise you. He's pretty
athletic. Like he like he's been on my
softball team. We play basketball. Like
>> he's athletic. Like he can just pick a
sport up and play it. And I I remember
always being like, "Hey, dude." Like I
would have never guessed you. And then
that he he I found out years later after
being friends and knowing him, he's
like, "Oh yeah, I was a bad man
champion."
>> You know what sport?
>> I beat him in ping pong, though. Kron.
>> You know what sport fascinates me? I've
never seen it live. I've only seen it on
videos. I don't know what it's called,
but they have this big hook thing on
their arm and they whip a ball.
>> Oh yeah.
>> And it goes high.
>> Highlight.
>> It goes The ball goes so fast. Brazilian
a Brazilian sport. Yeah. And it goes
like 120 mph. Scoops.
>> Yes, dude. It looks crazy. Whip it.
>> Yeah. And they throw the ball super
fast. It's uh
>> That is a crazy sport.
>> It looks Yeah, there it is right there.
>> I don't know if it's hurling or there
there's a sport, too. Scotland that just
it's so brutal.
>> What do you do?
>> Well, you you can throw it really fast
and like it it's dangerous. People like
lose teeth all the time. Oh, yeah.
>> Oh, that.
>> Yeah. It's pretty fun to watch it.
>> Smash hockey. Listen, there is no sport.
>> It's way more brutal.
>> There is no sport that's crazier or more
brutal uh than uh kalo stoico in Italy.
>> Oh, is that the one where they fight
each other?
>> It's it's an ancient sport. They've been
playing for hundreds of years.
>> They fight playing. It's like football
where you fight too. Is that
>> gang fighting? But then they add cio
and then separate words. They beat the
[ __ ] out of each other.
>> No, dude. It's literally It's an ancient
sport.
>> Yeah. Yeah. We
>> you have to be from the town.
>> That's right.
>> To play for the team and it's four major
cities in Italy. I can't
>> I would love to go to one of those and
watch.
>> And literally you get a ball. The goal
is to get one ball into the other goal.
And is it like is it a once a year thing
that happens or is it it's not
happening?
>> No, it's a once a year thing.
>> Yeah. I was say it's like a big it's
like a traditional thing that they
>> and you can do whatever you want to stop
the guy.
>> I'm sure has one that's competitive to
this.
>> Oh, well Russia's got great. But this
has got pedigree. This sport has been
around for I think years. It's like a
town pride thing is really what it is,
right? That's like where where the
history
>> Watch, let me see how old this is.
Watch. You're going to trip out over how
old uh this was. Like kings and queens
were were competing with each other with
their teams. Let's see. Ancient roots.
Uh the Roman army. Well, keep going.
1400s, young Florentines revived this
game and evolved into the sport for
wealthy aristocrats, noblemen, and even
future popes. What?
>> Whoa, dude. Or or that one Mayan sport
where if you're the winner you die.
>> Yeah. You sacrifice.
>> What? When you win like your prizes, you
die.
>> Yeah.
>> It's great.
>> Yeah. It's a game I would suck at on
purpose.
>> Everybody sucks. Both sides suck.
Nobody's glorying.
>> This game's going on forever.
>> Pocket talk.
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>> Our first question is from Kathy
Steinhill. What is the best way to
improve leg strength when you do not
have a squat rack?
>> You know, split stance exercises are
right up there.
>> Would be for sure.
>> If you look at the biomechanics of a
split stance movement like a lunge or a
Bulgarian, the front leg is squatting.
>> It's a onelegged squat. It's a onelegged
squat.
>> It's there. That's by the way some
people athletic coaches I should say
some athletic coaches argue
>> yeah Mike Bole
>> that split stance movements are better
>> than it's a solid argument.
>> I agree for athletics I I think I can
see that
>> you can actually really load it too.
It's not like something that's
impossible to do like it's just it
requires a lot of skill and like you
have to like master you know the balance
of it but you can really like increase
strength with that movement. Yeah, the
ch the challenge. So, the thing with a
squat is because you start to get really
strong and and you're able to load it
very heavily, a squat rack starts to
become necessary. Yeah. So, it's like,
okay, I can't pick this weight up off
the ground and put it on my back. But
split stance exercises give you a lot
more room cuz you're not going to use as
much weight, but the the intensity and
the tension is up there.
>> Still there.
>> I mean, that being said, uh some
Bulgarian split squats with some wrist
wraps could take you a long ways.
>> Very far.
>> A long ways.
>> Very far. Like I mean you could
literally if I have wrist wraps Oh yeah.
>> I can hold on to 120s 150s and eat. I
mean that's a 300 lb single. Yeah. I
can't I couldn't do that. But that's my
point. My point is heav rack it too.
>> Well that would be I could front rack
that much weight but I could I could
wrist wrap that kind of weight. You know
what I'm saying?
>> The other one is front racking 150
dumbbells dog.
>> I'm more impressed with the rack than
the squat.
>> The uh the other one is like uh heavy
step-ups are also really good. I know
there's a balance component, so it's not
going to be as much of a strength
builder, but it is phenomenal.
>> So, you could load, you know, grab a
couple heavy dumbbells and um and do a
very heavy step up onto a bench or a
step. So, there's a lot of great
exercise you could do and you're really
not missing out on a ton because you
don't have a squat rack.
>> Next question is from Make Wellness,
Elizabeth TWWP. Before I started
lifting, I was rather flexible. Now, I
seem to be tied all over, which is a bit
frustrating. Am I not stretching enough
or is this a normal part of the process?
>> Cut out that last part, huh?
>> They also added Adam Cowboy. Why? Why do
they say that? Why?
>> It's cuz it's football season. Yeah.
Yeah. Football.
>> Yeah. Football season starts this week.
Okay.
>> So, here's the deal. Um, when you're
building strength with certain
exercises, let's say I only do five
exercises and I get really strong at
them. Here's what happens.
>> I get really strong in those movements.
my body starts to recognize a
discrepancy between the strength I have
for that movement and the strength I
have outside of that movement. And so
what it starts to do is it starts to
tighten you up so that you move less
outside of where you have that strength.
So you start to feel tighter. Now the
remedy to this with strength training is
to do lots of different movements to
move in all different planes and use a
full range of motion. In which case you
won't feel tighter. You'll have more
stability. But let's say you only do
squats, deadlifts, bench press, overhead
press, rows, which are great muscle
builders, but that's all you ever do.
Yeah. You're going to feel tight going
laterally. You're going to feel tight
moving outside. You're going to feel
tight rotating because your body is just
really strong in this one uh particular
way.
>> Yeah. And it's beneficial, too, for
producing more force. So, it's like, you
know, you don't want to be all flexible
uh you know, trying to approach these
like heavy lifts. So, you know, it's
it's really it's about yeah, like
managing that uh based upon like range
of motion and then getting more familiar
with it.
>> Do you think this can be sometimes too
uh people that are overreaching in their
training too? A lot
>> that can cause tightness.
>> Yeah, cuz sometimes sometimes uh I this
can be me and this is always like my
sign that like I'm I'm overreaching.
It's like I'm I'm pushing so hard the
intensity in my training that I'm like
constantly feeling sore and tight
>> uh versus the appropriate amount of
intensity. I normally feel really good.
I normally leave the workout feeling
really good. I feel like I lifted the
day before, but I don't feel restricted
and ah every time I move like oh wow
really sore there. Like that's all signs
of overreaching for me.
>> Um so possibly pure that. Now if you're
following like a map 15 protocol and not
training to failure, you're that's
probably not your situation. But
sometimes that could be the possibility.
>> Yeah. There's also this like you know
your what determines your tightness.
It's not the muscle, it's the central
nervous system that controls
>> the muscle. And so if your central
nervous system is uh maintaining a
certain amount of let's say tightness
with a small muscle, when that muscle's
larger, it can feel tighter because
you're working with a larger muscle with
the same kind of central nervous system
signal. So, it's important when you
build muscle and strength to train in a
well-rounded way because it's not
without its own uh risks. Like move in
different planes of motion, move with
the full range of motion, involve uh
mobility and static stretching. And
what'll find what you'll find is this
isn't going to be a problem. Uh there's
bodybuilders, there have been pro
bodybuilders who've maintained uh good
balance in their flexibility. Like Flex
Wheeler would do the splits on stage,
you know, Tom Plattz was famous for his
flexibility. And that's because they
kept it up while they did their strength
training. And both of them were very
>> maintain it. Yeah. While you're building
strength.
>> That's right.
>> Next question is from Sepier 2524.
>> How do you feel about not following a
specific program, but rather letting
your body kind of guide you on what to
do in the gym? I find I'm more
consistent and enjoy the workout mo much
more when it's not a structured
checklist. I focus on getting strong at
compound lifts and I track and
progressively overload. I just have a
hard time staying on a program. Winging
it makes my workout feel more like play.
Hence the consistency.
>> I love this
so long as you're not also going but I
wish I could see this and I'm not seeing
the change I want. Like so that the
follow-up statement to this is what
matters to me because this is actually
the place I want all my clients to get.
This is where I I operate from this
place. I don't go into a workout with
structure because but I also am not
trying to make crazy change right now. I
don't I'm not like I'm not going
>> No specific goal.
>> Yeah. I don't have like a specific goal
that I'm trying to achieve. So I'm
enjoying my workouts. I do them for the
sake of it makes me a better father. It
makes me a better husband. It makes me
feel strong. I have good energy. I sleep
better. I move more throughout my day.
Those are the desired outcomes. And
treating my workouts like play will do
that. But if I'm like, I'm trying to
lose 3% body fat or I'm trying to get my
my squat up to this, I'm programming
because then it makes it that makes it a
different
>> for this person. I'd say you're fine
because they're saying it keeps me
consistent. I'm having fun. Consistency
trumps so long as the crazy the workout
isn't horrible
>> kind of trumps everything. Uh but here's
the deal. Like the PE there are people
who can wing it and also have excellent
workouts, but these are people who know
how to work out. They've been doing it
for a long time.
>> They have the experience. They have lots
of experience. Like Adam goes into a gym
winging it, but he's also got, you know,
30 years of experience training his
body, training other people.
>> You know, somebody who's been working
out consistently for 6 months suddenly
says they want to wing it. I'm going to
say no.
>> That's you have nowhere there's there's
you have no base to wing it from.
>> No. So long as be able to structure it
appropriately.
>> I guess so long as you're happy where
your results are, though.
>> Yeah.
>> Right. I mean, cuz I I've even
>> You know what happens when people no
experience wing it? They either hurt
themselves, overdo it, or
>> they usually do the same thing to me
>> or the same thing over and over again.
>> Right. Right. Which again, my point, if
you're happy where you're at and you're
not trying to make make change, but
>> if you're happy where you're at, clap
your hand. My bad.
>> If if you're not trying to make change,
you're happy where This is like how I I
would tell people that we're doing
things like Orange Theory.
>> Yeah. Like, hey, if you love coming
here, the community is fun, you enjoy
the workout, and you're consistent, and
you're not trying to make change,
>> keep doing your Orange Theory,
>> keep doing your fun workouts. It's I'm
I'm a [ __ ] But if you come to me and
you go, Adam, I can't get this last, you
know, 5 lbs of body fat off or I man,
I'm not getting any stronger or
>> I can't build my butt.
>> I can't build Yeah. If you have goals
that you're trying to do and you're
winging the programming, well, I mean,
there you go. There's your problem. And
let me add to that, Adam. I've had this
happen, too, where someone's like, "Ah,
I don't like structured workouts. I have
so much more fun doing my thing, but I
have these goals that I, you know, want
to focus on." And I'll say, "Okay, well,
give this a shot. Uh, follow the
structured program." You know, you know
what ends up happening most of the time?
They come back and say, they say, "You
know what? I like it better."
>> Because they like the results. They
result. Yes. I mean, you're Exactly.
That's my point is that if if you
there's there's you you want more from
your workout, uh following a structured
program is going to give you more. But
if you don't care, like I know I know
I'm sacrificing up a more aesthetic
version of me or a stronger version. I
don't give a [ __ ] I don't care right
now. I'm not trying to do that. I'm just
I'm trying to do the things I said I'm
trying to do. And going with like
winging it also to your point with 30
years experience, I can go like this is
probably best for my body. may also be
the complexity like or it's that they're
having to draft it up themselves versus
like a lot of times it's alleviating to
have this all just like oh here and it's
it's it's you know simple enough to
where I can just go do this because it's
right here I just look at it I do it now
I'm taking my mind out of the equation
um so there there's that part of it too
which I like it's just like oh well you
know and two why we reduce it down like
a 15-minute protocol that's like the
ultimate because it's like two
exercises, you know, and it's so
freeing.
>> You're right. Do you Justin, do you work
out this way? Do you kind of go in and
you kind of have a rough idea?
>> I have like Yeah. four or five compound
lifts that I typically, if I'm not doing
the 15 protocol, like if I do like a
three-day schedule, that's usually what
I do.
>> Same here. I don't follow a program, but
I have a general idea of where I'm going
to what I'm going to do and then based
on how I feel. But again, this is I've
been doing this for a while,
>> but it changes as I'm there.
>> Yeah. know this completely like I right
now I'm all how how I feel like right I
know over the week I got to make sure I
hit every body part once or twice it's
I'm more of a 15 protocol so the two
exercises are typically comp compound
lifts yesterday was uh front squats and
dips
>> so those are my those are my two
movements the way I decided it uh I had
leg stuff to do I hadn't front squatted
in a long time right I've been doing a
lot of back squatting so I'm like time
to switch it up and do front squats. So,
I did front squats, hadn't done dips, uh
chose the machine. If I had the the belt
and the weight, I would have done
weighted body weight discs, but I didn't
have the belt and weight. So, I did
heavy on the on the machines. Um and
then I walked for 20 minutes. That was
my that was my workout. And that's how I
decid uh today. My legs are really sore.
Uh so, if I go in, I probably won't do
anything for it. If I do, I'll do
something very light, maybe hamstring
focused. I'll do some like leg curl
stuff just to touch them or something
like that. Um, and the last time I did
any uh upper body stuff, I did chest and
shoulders.
>> So, maybe a back exercise.
>> So, probably some back some back a
pull-up or something will happen like
that's and so I'll literally go off of
how I feel and what I've done and that's
kind of how what winging it looks like
>> for me. But you're to your point,
there's 30 years of experience of
knowing how my body feels.
>> What are the best bang for your buck
exercises? What have I been doing
consistently? So all that is, even
though I'm saying I'm winging it to just
to nail home your point, I also know
what the hell I'm doing.
>> I'm pulling from something.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Next question is from Burke himself.
What would each of the four of you be
doing if Mind Pump never happened?
>> So we have to we should guess for each
other.
>> And if we do that, are we being funny or
are we being serious?
>> I don't know cuz I think I think
sometimes it's both funny and serious,
you at the same time. So
>> yeah.
>> Uh
>> I feel like Justin would be a football
coach.
>> Yeah. Oh,
>> isn't that but like isn't that like a
can you just see him being
>> he would either a continue down the path
of of being a personal trainer and just
becoming more exclusive with clients and
stuff like that cuz at one point he was
training some pretty uh important people
in the area because he's excellent
coach. But I could totally see him do
some kind of coaching
not far off. I could see Yeah. I I
actually really enjoy I just it's such a
full-time commit like I think that was
the biggest reserve for me. Yeah. It was
just like what am I doing? I don't have
time, you know, like to to give and like
you really it's a year round commit like
it's not just like the season. So yeah.
>> Yeah. You were also doing it while
you're running this business though. I
mean so it's like if that if you didn't
have this
>> if I didn't have this at all. Yeah.
>> Maybe you would enjoy you'd enjoy the
commitment.
>> Sure. That's that's not a bad call.
>> What about Doug? What do you think Doug
would would would would be? I think
you'd be in Arizona cuz your daughter's
there. So you probably would have
followed her out there.
>> I think he would lead Iowa Hoska trips.
Yeah, I'm big into that.
>> Does he seem like he'd be a good Sedona
Iaska like uh
>> wearing a feather necklace?
>> Yeah, dude. Giving up guides. You know
what I'm saying?
>> I could see him either teaching language
or uh or something involved cooking. I
could see you doing either one of those
things.
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, the cooking thing is a good guess
>> cuz I know he did insurance. He did uh
life insurance which paid the bills. But
I don't feel like are you you're not
passion about sales are you?
>> Not sales. No, I'm not. I'm very
interested in marketing though.
>> So before mind pump,
>> you know, that was the thing that I
presented to Sal is like, let's market
maps anabolic. Let's create something
and market it.
>> And so I was very fascinated with
marketing and how you could sell things
online. So if it wasn't S, it would be
somebody else.
>> Yeah. Yeah, that's true. You were really
into that for sure. That's definitely
true. I don't know about you, Adam. Adam
must say exotic car sales.
>> That's a really good guess actually.
>> That's a really good guess. You can see
that
>> because I have always I've always said
that if like everything fell out uh I
would do something in sales. Obviously
selling things that are that you like
>> like inherent. So
>> Yeah. Cuz you need a big rip otherwise.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Exactly. So yeah, exotic
exotic cars, yachts, mansions. I would
fall be a yacht salesman.
>> Yeah, totally. For sure. Or or private
jets. I would totally be into one of
those. I could totally get down like
that's hilarious.
>> Yeah. So, I mean, I would love that. I
would love
>> How do you get leads to sell a private
jet?
>> You don't. That's referral.
Yeah. A matter of fact, I heard I heard
someone say something one time I that
thought was really interesting that So,
you've never seen uh a Rolls-Royce
commercial or a Bugatti commercial, but
you know where they where what you don't
see is that if you go to like a private
jet event or like that where they're the
Bugatti will be there.
>> Oh, cuz you know that the buyers for
private jet.
>> That's right.
>> Well, that makes sense,
>> right? And that's reason why the rest of
us have never seen anything. So we're
like, how does Rolls-Royce get these
customer how do they get these
customers? They don't even waste their
time with us. You know what I'm saying?
They're at those and that's that's their
customer base right there. And so yeah.
No, I would be super in that's a that's
a pretty good guess right there, Doug. I
think I could see myself.
>> You feel like S might be like a Baptist
preacher.
>> That's a good guess.
>> I don't know.
>> I know. I know. I'm just throwing it out
there. Either that or he start his own
religion. No,
>> no, I'm not start.
>> Oh, dude.
>> Oh, no. You get charismatic. You got
100% that is what you would do right
now.
>> If you were not in mind pump right now,
you would be
>> I'd be serving somehow.
>> You would be a pastor ministry.
>> I would not be I don't think I would.
>> I don't think
>> you had have to scratch that edge.
>> Don't you have to go to school for that?
>> No, you don't. No, you don't. Yeah, you
do.
>> No, you do not.
>> You have to be to start your own church.
I guess you don't. But I would not do
that. I would I would I would go all of
them. I know. Interesting. What do you
mean? You don't have to do that for
anything for any church.
>> Divinity school.
>> Then we'll hire you.
>> Yes.
>> I've asked.
>> Yep.
>> Not because I'm trying to be. I'm
curious.
>> I'm curious. I'm like, what does it say?
>> Oh, so I mean
>> I mean either that or like
>> that's not like a law. That might be a
standard that a certain church might
have. So maybe the church you asked has
that standard, but there is plenty of
churches that would hire you to be
especially with your background.
>> Oh gosh. especially with how charismatic
and and and and good of a speaker and
how you how you have a photographic
memory you could read some I mean you
would be great at it
>> so I totally think that I would have
five years ago if you asked me this
question I would
>> five years ago that would have not been
the answer
>> I think I would have liked to have been
a teacher professor yeah I like that uh
but I mean it's hard to say without
fitness what I would do because I love
it so much I love every aspect of it
working with people I love the science
behind it I love how it helps
So to think like what I would do outside
of fitness is really really difficult. I
mean this
>> I don't think I don't think it's
difficult. I think what we all hit on
things that
outside of here
>> Doug you probably still loves reading
books around marketing and researching
the latest trends on that. You love the
conversations you have with Eli and them
on that that side. Justin's definitely
on his side doing coaching stuff. I'm
obviously researching exotic car markets
and stuff like that. you I would argue
you're probably reading, watching or
consuming biblical content more than you
are fitness content.
>> Oh, for sure.
>> So, I mean, I think it all aligns pretty
well. Probably what
>> I got to say though, the fitness stuff,
it translates so well. Do you guys know
that?
>> Oh, it's such a parallel.
>> It's so wild. Uh, how it
>> Do you remember how Do you remember?
>> Yes, I remember.
>> Okay. Feel like I you I should get my
flowers sometimes.
>> I gave you flowers all the time. when he
when you say when he say I used to tell
you I was like bro wait until you start
to dive in the word and you start going
just be like everything you start
connecting all these crazy yeah it's all
in there it's crazy coconut you know
it's so funny when I said that forever
and I've said it to you many times and
then I do post the the other day I do
the the guys give me by the way you guys
when we do Instagram content it's like
we're we don't that's not us coming up
our team it's like read this do this
we're that right so they they're they
give me like uh you know five or six
books that They pick randomly out of the
books that I've read and they're like,
"Hey, I want you to rate these."
>> Oh, cool.
>> Yeah. And then like in the comments is
like, you know, where's the Bible? You
know, so it's like, well, I didn't get
the Bible.
>> That's number one.
>> Yeah, I know. I go, first of all, it's
like, yeah, great. Definitely. You know,
that's a study because it was like it
was the pass
>> uh read or study. Oh,
>> you know, and so I did that for like
these like I don't know, five books that
I've read or that I didn't pick that
they just randomly give me. And then
people were like, "What about this? What
about that?" I'm like, "Well,
>> you think I just run around flashing
everybody?" Oh my god. Hey, that did so
good. And it did so good. We had a ton
of We actually had a ton.
>> That's one of my favorite ones so far.
>> We had a ton of t-shirt. First off,
>> you know what's so good about that was I
had no idea what that was. That's my f
So my favorite part about the business
today, okay, is that
>> we divide Danny that our our media team
like I said does all the stuff. None of
us have any know what's going on. And
we're all I don't see Justin doing his
work. You I don't see you and vice
versa. So when I see it on Instagram,
when I see it's first time and obviously
when I see stuff that's when I see S
break down the science and something
like it's like okay I've heard that a
million times but yeah but when I see
something that I haven't seen like
Justin running around in a robe looking
like he's naked I'm like what am I
watching and I'm like what I have no
idea what's coming
oh that was
>> people don't know he was doing it to
everybody he's got clothes on underneath
but when he did it to Doug he surprised
them
>> so that was a real reaction
>> that Yeah, it was I was I'm still
scarred.
>> I shout out to our media team. Uh they
do such a good job. I'm so proud of them
and that that it makes it fun for me.
>> You like got injured a little bit. We
won't talk about that.
>> What?
>> That was one of my favorite ads.
>> Fell into the closet.
>> That was one of my favorite ads I've
ever I've ever seen.
>> It's hard to fake fault, dude. You know,
like I'm glad other people are
realizing.
>> They did a good job. Everybody did good.
>> All right. I know you like that episode.
If you did, check this one out. One of
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true. If you're not eating a high
protein diet, you're not going to burn
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smartest ways to use protein for fat
burn and to build muscle. You got to
watch this. I wish I understood this
earlier in my career. I think it was
probably
almost 10 years in when I started to
just focus on this with clients.
>> I knew it was important, but I don't
know how important.
>> Yeah. I also did I knew what was
important and but I also