Build a Deep Relationship With Your Spirit Guides | Trust & Connection (Ep 6)

Welcome to the next section. Uh, and we're looking at building your relationships with your guides. We've spoke a lot about how we connect with them, understanding them, how we're going to work together. But ultimately, the key thing and the reason why I've left it right at the end for me is how do you build that relationship with your guide? We use the word guide because that is uh a guide as as the word that's always been used the vericular if you like um within spirit to the spiritual circles to talk about you know guides. Let's drop the word guide at this point and let's call them friends, spiritual friends. These people are there. They've been chosen for you. They there to work with you, there to help you along the intricacies and and the way in which you work with spirit on a regular basis. They are your spiritual friends. And as such, you need to build that relationship is one word. A more intimate and authentic relationship is key for me. Okay? It's a friendship. It's a relationship that is a friendship. There's lots of ships in there. All right. Okay. But it is important. And when you start to work with your guide uh and get to know them more and more and more, spend some time with them. Okay? Spend time with them in meditation and get to know them. They are real people. They've walked the earth plain. Okay? They have been here. They understand and they've chosen being chosen for you and by you to help you along your pathway because they specialize in certain aspects of your journey and they're there as specialists to ensure that you're going along the right pathway enabling you to deliver your mandate that be you chose before you come here. Okay, that's a bit deep. That's probably another course in itself. But you have to build a relationship and importantly a friendship. Let me give you an example. My um Indian guy called Ronny Rotag and I'll flip an image up onto the screen so you can see him. We did we developed our relationship and friendship over many many years. And that goes back to me saying well who are you? Where have you come from? Why have you chosen me? And that then comes out in all of the things that we talk about. So he actually took me to his reservation. He told me where he was from. He actually when I came back from Arthur Finley um which is a a spiritual college here, probably the leading world spiritual college. Um I came back and I sat with him and I said, "Come on, let's get to know you more." And he we actually I actually had the conversation with him and I was on Google and he and he showed me the picture. He said, "This is me." And when I clicked on it, I knew his name was Rotag. I knew he was an Otto Ottoan Indian. Um, and when I clicked on it, it it was it was it came up. His name was Roag and it was Otto. So, he actually chose the picture to tell me this is him. And then when I clicked on it, his name and where he was from was all there. So, we started to build out that relationship. And, you know, I've known I've been with him now for third 40 years. Long time. Um, really long time. And, um, we've got to know each other. Do I need to know more about him? Yeah. Could I spend more time with him? Yeah. Do the physical life get in the way? Yeah. But fundamentally, um, we're building a relationship because I trust him. I trust him implicitly. I know for a fact he is always there for me. He I will always ask his advice. I will always, you know, do these bits and pieces and that he will always be there for me. Okay? And that's important because I want to build that level of trust, that level of, you know, as I say, you know, I trust him implicitly. I would trust him with my life. Um, because I know he's got me. He's He's there for me. He's always been there for me in the good times and the bad times. He make lets me make my own decisions. He allows me to do my own things. He'll always be there to guide me. He will never tell me what to do. He will always guide me what to do. Hence the name guides. I want to call him a friend. And uh Ronnie is a very good friend. He's been one of my longest ever friends. Understanding that relationship and building that with one of my guides. Now we have lots of guides. And you will understand that you can't have, you know, such an in-depth relationship, I suppose, with lots of guides because you just can't do it. You couldn't do it on the earth plane. You couldn't have a an in-depth relationship with 50 people. It just it's difficult. So, you know, Ronnie has been the one that's always been with me from from the start to to, you know, to where we are today. So, he's the one that I've built out the most um the big the best relationship, the biggest relationship. And that relationship continues to grow day by day because I talk to him, I meditate, I work with him, I ask him questions, you know, and and that's where we are. And it is about understanding that and building that relationship out. Um, as I said, these are not mythical things. These are real real people who have been here, who walked the path, who understand, you know, where we are in terms of our spiritual development and and how we're going to go and succeed. Um, and that takes time, but building that relationship, get to know him when or her or wherever it is. When you find out you start to feel your guide, as we said before, keep doing the meditation, keep bringing them close, ask them to come closer. Then when you get that, start to have those conversations. Talk about you know, so what are you, you know, where have you been? What are you doing? How are you here? Why me? Why you, you know, where do you live? Where did you come from? What's your family? Do you have any D? Yeah. Keep building that relationship, that friendship. Get to know them intimately and and build out that relationship. This isn't a fetcher and carrier for you, a spiritual, you know, a spiritual dog's body. This is this is somebody who's going to build as a friend, you know, and that's important. I'm lucky. I'm very lucky to have be able to call Ronnie in my friend and I'm glad that he's here now. Um it is amazing and and that's that's so important and it's about that you know I'm not I'm not here to downcry what anybody else does in terms of mediumship courses or teachings whatever you should know me by now if you've this is your first course then go and buy my other courses of course um but if you've bought my other courses and you know me you know me I speak the I speak the truth as I see it as I get channeled. I feel and see and hear and and touch spirit. These are real these are real energies. These are real people. These are there to fundamentally help you along your pathway to be able to deliver what you have come here to do. What is your purpose? And they allow you to have that level of clarity, that understanding that, you know, as I said, they're not a spiritual dog's body. They're part of you. They're part of your team. They're part of that friendship. Learn to work with them. Learn to develop that relationship, that friendship. And be as inquisitive and need to understand them as much as they need to understand you. That's important. Build out that relationship and don't just see them as, you know, somebody is going to unlock your spiritual door or read the mediumship door. They're more than that. you know, they're friends, they're people, they're they're real characters and and they will play, you know, a fundamental part in your life, and that's key. So, enjoy it, develop it, learn it, be with it, and and just create that special friendship. I hope um I hope you understand what I'm saying in this part of the course. And and be sincere, be loving, be everything you can be, and just work with spirit. Don't put yourself under pressure. Don't put yourself under too much expectation. Sit and be with spirit. Let that develop. Feel the subtle energies. Feel your guides come close. All of those things are truly truly amazing. Enjoy them. Be with them. Love them. Use them to develop yourself and to help others. Serve spirit. help yourself and heal others. I hope you you get something out of that lesson. Um, we got one more to go which is the roundup. Uh, as I said at the end of all these things, if you got any questions, email me, Julian lightenharmony.co.uk. julianlightenharmony.co.uk. Thank you again for for listening and uh and we'll see you soon. Thank you.