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Become the Person You Want to Be

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The video explores the transformative power of defining a specific, inspirational quest that compels you to take actions different from your current habits. Drawing on concepts discussed by Jordan Peterson, specifically the idea of "future authoring," the speaker advocates for creating a highly detailed vision of your ideal future self. This exercise involves visualizing concrete aspects of that life, such as the clothes you wear, the city and house you inhabit, the nature of your relationships, and the rhythm of your daily routine. The goal is to make this future state so vivid and granular that you can almost see, smell, and feel it within your own body, ensuring that the vision feels authentic and personally owned rather than abstract or imposed. A central argument presented is the distinction between simple goals and a compelling vision of a future state. While setting specific targets, like squatting a certain weight, offers a momentary sense of satisfaction upon achievement, these isolated goals often fail to sustain long-term motivation once the task is completed. In contrast, constructing a richly detailed vision board or mental image serves as a continuous source of inspiration that drives productive action. This approach prevents individuals from disconnecting from their deeper purpose during mundane tasks; instead of merely reacting to immediate obligations like an 8:00 AM meeting or a 3:00 PM workout, one remains connected to the overarching "why" of their quest, maintaining enthusiasm and direction throughout the daily grind. To bridge the gap between this future vision and present reality, the speaker suggests imagining how your ideal future self would act in the current moment. By asking yourself how that person would handle a specific situation right now, you create an immediate sense of urgency and accountability. This technique transforms abstract, seemingly unattainable dreams into actionable steps taken today. For instance, if your future self is someone who enjoys eating brisket completely, you might find yourself motivated to finish the entire slice immediately rather than leaving food on the plate. This shift in perspective turns discipline into a natural consequence of embodying the character you are striving to become, ensuring that every small action aligns with the person you want to be. Ultimately, the process of future authoring leads to a profound sense of peace and the ability to look back on one's life with pride. By journaling about these detailed scenarios, individuals can hold themselves accountable more effectively, turning vague aspirations into a structured path forward. The video concludes that when you clearly define who you want to become, your daily actions naturally align with that identity, creating a feedback loop where present behavior reinforces the future vision. This method ensures that life is not just a series of random events but a coherent journey toward a specific, realized destiny, making the pursuit of personal growth both meaningful and achievable.
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Think about a quest that right now is inspirational. It is something that will force you to do things that you were not doing now or doing things differently. And you will have to take many actions to accomplish. >> Jordan Peterson has talked about this. I mean, it's always a risk when you throw somebody out there who's kind of uh polarizing, but he has a program called future authoring, which you know, say what you will about him as a person. The exercise I found personally to be very useful. Write out in as much detail as you can a future version of yourself, a future life that you want. What does it look like? What clothes are you wearing? What city are you living in? What house are you living in? What is your What are your relationships look like? What is your >> your day look like? >> What does your day look like? How does your body feel? You know, to make it concrete to this, but get it as granular as possible to the point where you can actually like see it, smell it, you can feel it in your body, and >> And it's yours. Yeah. >> To me, that that, you know, rather than coming up like this is to me that's the difference between goals, which sometimes if you say like, "Let's go create a quest." It's like, "Well, I want to go squat 500 lbs." That's kind of a goal, right? That's like a thing you can aim at, and when you hit and you check off the list, I don't know. Every time I've done that and it's sort of ends up I like the brief moment of satisfaction, and there's certainly some of those that I'm glad I did. I'm I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with that, but this, you know, vision, future state vision, you know, or vision board, maybe that's a better one. I should have gone with vision board for all the woo-woo folks out there, cuz that's not as, you know, polarizing as JP. But the it's the same idea. Like creating this a detailed enough future state version of your life that it inspires the more important part, which is well, maybe not more important, but the more productive part, which is the action. >> Mhm. Mhm. That's fun to think about. And it's I find myself right now imagining not exactly like ways that I might look or things that I might have in a future state. But, it's like that sense of peace and that ability to look back and be proud. And to have a day that feels a certain way. >> Mhm. >> Which is kind of interesting to to you know, journal about what that might be. >> Mhm. Makes it easier to hold yourself accountable. >> Mhm. >> On the on the day. Like, I think sometimes when you're in the grind and you're just waking up and you're it feels like you're doing that boring stuff we were talking about. >> Mhm. >> I think sometimes you can kind of disconnect from the why because the why becomes I have a meeting at 8:00 or I have to work out at 3:00. >> Mhm. >> Instead of waking up fired up because you're on your quest. >> Right. You were You think about, well, I just imagined that this person in a year. How would this person act right now in the moment? And you're like, well, I better act like that. >> Creates a sense of urgency now >> Mhm. >> instead of it being this abstract future thing that's seems unattainable. It's the Yeah, I better eat this slice of brisket right now if I want to eat the whole thing. >> That's how a person who eats 15 lbs of brisket acts. >> I better start squeezing the juices directly into my mouth. >> [laughter] >> Got to act with a sense of urgency.