Asking a stranger to be my new husband at a Festival | BraveMaker Film Festival Day 2 of 5 2026
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The video follows filmmaker and actor Belhika as she navigates Day Two of the Brave Maker Film Festival, focusing on the unique opportunity to network with like-minded creatives from across the country. Belhika explains that for her, attending such events is about stepping into a room full of people with shared interests to potentially make new friends and collaborators. A central theme of her vlog is the practical advice she offers to aspiring actors and filmmakers: networking is essential because talent alone is not enough; one must also build relationships to get hired. She demonstrates this by approaching strangers at the film mixer, asking if they fit the description for a specific character in her short film, *Gilmore*, and immediately casting someone who matches her needs after reviewing their reel.
Throughout the day, Belhika engages with various filmmakers, discussing the realities of independent production versus working on major studio sets. She highlights the importance of understanding "set politics," noting that while independent creators often feel they are the boss, hired professionals in television and large productions must navigate complex hierarchies where time is money and collaboration is key. The conversations cover a wide range of topics, from transforming former schools into movie sets in the Bay Area to the mental health challenges faced by high-performing creatives. Several panelists emphasize that while pushing limits is necessary for growth, it must be done healthily, warning against isolation or substance abuse as signs that one should pause and invest in their well-being rather than just their next project.
The festival also serves as a platform for showcasing diverse stories and honoring significant figures in the industry. Belhika interviews creators about their projects, which range from a noir comedy set in a fireworks store to documentaries about disability advocacy and films exploring mental health issues like epilepsy. The event culminates in an opening night gala at the Fox Theater, where honorees are celebrated for their contributions to cinema. A particularly moving moment occurs when Annette King discusses her film *Magical Bridge*, which aims to destigmatize epilepsy by showing that the struggles of people with seizures often stem from societal exclusion rather than the condition itself. The video concludes with Belhika reflecting on the positive energy and supportive community found at the festival, encouraging viewers to put themselves out there to create meaningful art while remembering to care for their own humanity.
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I looked across the room and I found my
new husband.
>> Do you fit the description of who I'm
looking for as my husband,
>> but I've been married for years and
that's because I wrote a film based on
my relationship with my husband and now
I need to find an on camera husband and
today I am at day two of five of the
Brave Maker Film Festival. My name is
Belhika and I am an actor and filmmaker
in the Bay and beyond. I want to bring
you along, especially if you are an
actor, so you can really see what it's
like to network at events like this
because for me, networking is like if
you ask me, do you want to go into a
room full of people with similar
interests as you and maybe make new
friends? So, watch the entire vlog so
you get to know filmmakers from Redwood
City, Sacramento, LA, Atlanta, New York,
and so many other places. And who knows,
maybe you'll run into them at an event
or on set and you'll have this video as
a conversation starter like, "Hey,
didn't you go to the Bravemaker Film
Festival? I saw you in this video."
>> I just got to the film mixer and I'm
going to get some coffee and some
breakfast. The almost daily 9:00 a.m.
film mixers at the festival are a great
place to meet people because Tony
encourages people to meet one-on-one,
but we also get a chance to share about
ourselves or our projects to the whole
room.
I need to go ask him if he's local
because if he's local, I need to see his
real. And if his real is good, I'm going
to cast him. Yeah. Oh my god. I hope
he's an actor because he fits the
description of this character perfectly.
>> Hi, I'm Bena. Okay, you fit the
description of who I'm looking for as my
husband. So, I would love to see your
real. I'm shooting a short film, ultra
low budget. Oh my god, you guys. Oh my
god. I might have just met the actor
that I'm going to cast as my husband in
my short film called Gilmore. I haven't
told you this. I am currently casting
four different characters in my short
film. So, I am like keeping an eye out
this weekend for that. So, I'm looking
for mostly like Mexican people. They're
going to be portraying my family and my
family is Mexican. So, I want everybody
to reflect my story. I'm so excited that
I might have just I asked him if he
could send me his real and then I'm
going to share the script with him to
make sure it's something that he wants
to do. I arrived a little late to the
sound bath and I don't want to
interrupt. So I'll wait then if it
already started.
>> This is Billy. So we met on set for
Blocking a feature film last fall and I
had so much fun and your energy is
infectious. I think you're super sweet
and so hardworking and you're like
you're like this on set.
>> Also do a lot of location stuff. So
we're doing a lot of location
>> like scouting or
>> No, actually we're doing a lot with um
Oakland Hills campus and turning that
that former girls Catholic school into a
movie set here in the Bay Area. It's got
all condensed locations
>> so that then you can rent it out or
>> unrestricted permits, 24-hour security,
and you got like bolabs, churches,
basketball courts, you got hospital
wings, it's all here in the Bay Area and
views every day, and it's just it's all
right there.
>> Well, if you guys need an amazing
production designer, he's really great
and he's available in the Bay Area or
plus you can travel if you got a lot of
money.
>> I'll travel. Um, but thank you so much,
Billy. I'm excited to be able to meet
you.
>> Yeah. Thank you for anybody who listened
and let's make some magic here. We're
doing it in the Bay Area. We're being
brave and uh we're going for our dreams.
So,
>> here at Brave Maker year 8,
>> welcome once again to the Brave Maker
Film Festival. Leticia Williams is an
EMDR trained trauma therapist
specializing in trauma recovery,
workplace wellness, generational trauma,
and the unique mental challenges
experienced by high performing
professionals, creatives, and
filmmakers. Director, occupational
therapist, certified life coach, and
creator of the Becoming You Method.
Following profound personal breakdown
that became a life-changing
breakthrough, Retika dedicated her
career to helping others reconnect with
their purpose, resilience, and
authenticelves. Our next panelist is a
Marine combat veteran, a firefighter, a
recording artist, a filmmaker, and a
passionate advocate for veterans and
first responders.
>> It is hard because there's a lot of
praise and reward that comes with
looking like you have given up
everything in order to produce something
wonderful, right? But you have to know
the edges of your limits. And I use the
word healthy and unhealthy because good
or bad does not really describe should I
be doing it, shouldn't I be doing it,
this is bad. But we I like to help folks
think of like what's the healthiest for
me at this time. And there's a
difference between um like, you know, I
want to test something out. I I do want
to push my limits. If you have the
capacity, right? If you are not taking
great care of yourself, if you're
isolating, if you're using substances
more than normal, if you are um not
sleeping, and if you have negative
internal self-t talk, those may be signs
that it's not a good idea to push those
limits. If you are curious of like, oh,
I want to try this new project. there's
a role I haven't done before or there's
a challenging producer that I know will,
you know, be great for my resume and I
have the capacity to
expand my skill set, then it might be a
good go, but you have to create those
terms.
>> Thank you, Brad Film Festival, for
creating spaces where honest
conversations like this can happen. If
there's one thing I hope you leave from
today, it is this. You are far more
valuable than your next audition or your
next film or your next funding round or
your next screen play. You are perfect
just the way you are. You are enough
because you matter. Please keep making
meaningful and beautiful art, but don't
forget to invest in the artist creating
it. And and finally, if you are
struggling, reach out. Call or text 988,
text CNQR to 741741, the crisis text
line. Don't keep silent. Talk to people
who love you and tell you the truth.
>> For the audience members who don't know
your story, let's just start with it. I
highly recommend you go watch the
trailer for Kevin's latest doc called
Deathbridge about the almost centurylong
fight to get nuts on the Golden Gate
Bridge.
Now, a small break to chat with
filmmakers before hearing from Christine
Swanson, who's a TV director, among so
many other artistic things. the 2026
Vanguard honore. So I'm saying let's get
to nowhere. Let's get to nowhere. Have a
seat.
>> I've worked on a lot of sets like most
of them mine, a lot of them, you know,
networks, studios,
um where I'm I'm a hired gun. The thing
that nobody told me they had to learn
the hard way was really set politics. We
don't really learn that as independent
filmmakers because we're like, "Oh, it's
my movie. I'm the boss." Right? When
you're hired to be on a set, you're a
hired gun. You're a work for hire. So,
you're not always the boss. In fact, on
TV shows, the showrunner is the boss,
>> right?
>> And I often say like if a director
passed out
>> on a TV show, they would drag your body
to the side, [laughter]
the AD and a DP will step over it and
keep moving cuz time is money. So that's
how invaluable you are um on like a
television production because uh TV is a
writer's medium, film making is a
director's medium, theater is an actor
medium. You have to know what you are.
Now people will say, "Well, writers
write theater." Yeah, but when that
actor's on the stage, they're going to
do whatever they want. [laughter]
>> No matter what the writer's saying in
the back, like no. So just to know where
you are so you can figure out what tools
am I going to employ.
>> So if you are new to a film festival
experience we are showing films and then
we are talking with the creators and the
makers. So we'll watch these films all
in a row and then we will invite them to
come probably be a little more casual
because there'll probably be a lot of
us. Uh we'll sit here on the edge of the
stage and just chat. Let's get ready and
go to the red carpet event at the Fox
Theater for the opening night premiere.
We are inside of the Fox Theater uh like
entry area and the red carpet starting.
People are lining up. We have Getty
Images here and a more red carpet over
here. But I'm being assigned to go over
here because there's just a lot of media
this year and they want to like separate
people cuz it's kind of crowded. Okay, I
think what I'm gonna do is I'm just
gonna start grabbing Hi. I'm just gonna
start grabbing people from the line so
we can get started.
>> Hi, this is Tayhon Davis
>> and this is Art Spell and we're both
representing a movie called Mr.
Advocate. I'm one of the actors who
plays a parent in the feature films.
>> I was one of the actors. I also gapped
the film.
>> Oh wow. You were an actor and a gaffer.
>> Yes.
>> I know Arch because we took an acting
class together last year. We were in a
film together here. These are another
two guys from the bay that you can hire
for your films. I got to watch your film
earlier today.
>> Oh, thank you. I was a the writer and
co-director of Clean Slate. I also
edited the film as well. My name is
Damian Orpiston and my film is called
Snug.
>> And what is Snug, like a bug on a rug,
about? [laughter]
>> Snug is about a anxious little guy named
Snail who has trouble sleeping. So, he
travels through the image of a Polaroid
picture to uh get comfort from the image
of his partner.
>> It's about a little boy who's 8 years
old named Michelle and his best friend
Henry who's a snail.
And they have an adventure together and
they they're in Paris.
And so there's a mainly English, little
bit of French, and they have an
adventure that they didn't plan on. How
did you guys find each other as like
collaborators?
>> I met Gabrielle at an acting class.
Actually,
>> that's what I always tell actors. I tell
them take as many different kinds of
acting classes as possible because
you're going to learn what you like,
what you don't like, and you're also
going to find a lot of friends.
>> Hi.
>> I have two films, Honey Bunny and
Kryptonite. It's a love story with a lot
of different things going on about a um
African-American singer and a deaf uh
Caucasian man who are in love. And then
we also have Honey Bunny which is a
documentary. It's the relationship we
all wish we had and
>> like with a loved one or
>> it's it's it's a documentary and it's uh
16 years and they have to both have Down
syndrome but I tell you it's family. The
two films that are out we made through
the disability film challenge uh which
is an amazing um uh the Easter Seal
disability film challenge uh created by
Nick Dicki. So it's really it's really
and that's when I got into the producing
and now we're working on several other
projects were exciting. My film this
year is Lur Saturday morning and it's
about a woman who murders her husband
and then goes looking for her former
therapist.
>> Paper is about um two sisters. One is a
strange um she's in to a promiscuous
work. So a young in promiscuous work
like she's a worker, you know, hotel
stuff. a lady of the night.
>> Yeah, lady of the night. And her younger
sister tracks her down and finds her
just to try to reconnect. So, she
actually books uh as one of her clients
so she can have it. It's for an hour and
that's why
>> paid for. It's like, hey, it's paid for.
So, we're going to have the talk. You're
going to reconnect. I feel like I don't
think we've met.
>> I'm
with a B.
>> B L G I C Ahika. Um, I'm an actor and a
content creator and I have a YouTube
channel where I talk all about acting,
take them on set with me, take them to
film festivals with me and it's because
I want to encourage them to go to film
festivals.
>> Yeah, 100%.
>> You're an actor. Yes.
>> So, what are you doing at the fest this
year?
>> So, I'm so honored to be here at the
Brave Maker Film Festival. First, I want
to say Tony is amazing.
>> Yes.
>> Um, I'm here with I think three
different projects. The first one is a
feature film called Party USA. The
second feature is called Mismatched,
which is a comedy. A third is called
Just a Bagel, which is going to premiere
at the Shorts program. And then I don't
know if I can talk about this. I think
there's a secret screening tonight.
>> Oh, yes.
>> And I'm also in that film.
>> I get that, too.
>> You Oh.
>> Um, if you
>> Wait, so Coaster Coaster is Oh my god.
>> I know. So, so big up. Thank you, Brave
Maker. This is amazing. Everyone's been
great. Positive energy.
>> Thank you so much.
>> Thank you, guys. Hey, Brave Maker.
Gabriel here and I I don't even know if
we met but we were on set together um
for a perfect Perfectly Normal Workplace
which is going to be screening uh this
weekend. Do you do anything else in film
making other than DP?
>> Yes, I'm a sound I'm a location sound
mixer. I've been doing film for almost
18 years. I'm originally from Colombia.
I had a nice career as a location sound
guy in Colombia for 15 years and I moved
here to United States three years ago
and like life be surprising me doing
camera lighting so many different
things.
>> Are you in the Bay Area?
>> Yes, I'm in Santa Cruz, California.
>> Santa Cruz. It's beautiful over there.
>> It's a beautiful over there. So exciting
working with so many people. This is a
great film festival. It's a great
opportunity to make contacts to do
networking because this is what it's
about. like you you can be very
talented. You can have all the skills,
you can have all the equipment, but if
you have the networking, you're not
going to do films.
>> Yeah. And it's so much more fun. Bye.
And it's so much more fun to make films
with people that you like. And this is
where you can meet them first to see if
you like their personality.
>> Totally. It's about energy.
>> And Gabriel Gabriel, I like your
personality.
>> Oh, thank you so much.
>> I am Solena Fas
>> and I'm Boyd Morrison
>> and we are representing the
Chronicles.
>> And is there any actor here that's in
your film?
>> There's an amazing actor named
Rodriguez. Oh my god, it's all of us
here.
>> I'm John Preston and I was here to speak
for the mental health.
>> I was there. It was so inspirational and
like tactical things that we can use.
>> Yeah.
>> I loved it.
>> Yeah. I mean, the whole crew was
amazing, weren't they? They were
unbelievable.
>> Yes. The film itself is called Carry the
Weight. For many years, I've been an
advocate for veteran first responder
suicide. I'm personally a combat
veteran. So, it's me ultimately taking
that journey to a physical place to show
the world what it looks like to lose
someone to suicide. And I put a pack on
my back. Uh I walked the state of
California and then 3 years later, we
walked from South Carolina to Ohio. I I
think that the medicine that it'll
create from what we've done is it's
going to be special.
>> Yeah. story of a relationship between a
philosophy professor and her teaching
assistant. And this is against the
backdrop of me too and tight tightening
title n rules at universities where any
kind of imbalance of power as you would
have for her is trying to resist this
attraction because she believes in the
rules and it's unethical.
>> Yeah.
>> So it's kind of the struggle between
heart and mind.
BTS.
>> Oh, yes.
>> Okay.
>> I love a supported friend. Thank you,
Phillip.
>> It's about a young woman who's trying to
cover her shift at a party store and she
snaps and makes a deadly mistake and
everything spirals out of control into
red, white, and blue collared chaos.
>> So, hence the outfit,
>> hence the outfit, you know, hence the
jacket, you know.
>> And what genre is your film?
>> It's a noir comedy is the way I would
phrase it. It's a noir comedy. It's uh
it's has drama, some f some tragedy, but
it's kind of influenced by dark comedies
and noir. Kind of think of uh if the
Cohen brothers made clerks, but set it
in a fireworks store in the south.
>> What are all of the things that you like
to do in film making?
>> Love editing. I love writing. I love
directing. Uh I I love organizing all
the things of production like working
out the schedule, trying to getting like
building the team out, you know, like
like the casting process is so much fun.
It's just hiring the right people to
play the parts, you know?
>> And then on set, it's so freaking fun,
right? After you see everybody come
together.
>> Well, look, that's the beauty of it.
It's like, as a director on set, all you
It's You're the You're just the vibe
setter, right?
>> Yes. Exactly. What do you do to set the
vibe?
>> I just, you know, somebody comes up to
me and says, "The world's about to blow
up, Jared. How do we fix it?" And I'm
like, "It's fine. We'll figure it out.
We'll get the, you know, they're going
to get uh this out and we'll figure it
out. We're It's going to be okay.
>> It's We're making a movie. Nobody's
going to die. It's not rocket science.
>> Dang. I think I'm going to have to
travel to Atlanta. I want to be on your
side. It sounds [laughter] like a good
time.
>> I think it is. I think it is. I try to
keep it all fun and you know cuz
otherwise what are we doing? You know,
it's
>> exactly.
>> Nobody's really making that much money
on uh small microbudget features or
shorts or anything. So,
>> we're losing money.
>> You're losing money. So, there's no
excuse to like not make it a fun and
enjoyable experience for everybody. I
animate, direct, edit. I can do sound
design, sound recording. Um, and I want
to get into cinematography. I'm really
good at storyboarding. So,
>> okay. Do you exclusively act?
>> I'm an actor mainly, but u right now I'm
working on a project with other people
that I met in the same class, the acting
class. So, that's going to be a vertical
project that we're working on. So, or a
little bit of like producing and
directing and and editing, like we're
doing a little bit of everything. So
yeah, anything collaborative I I love.
>> I'd done everything on my own uh to
start.
>> Wow.
>> I had seen a lot of the listings uh for,
you know, leads and projects and it was
always the same descriptions and none of
those descriptions matched me. So I kind
of took it upon myself to say like, "All
right, well, if you have the limited uh
vision uh and you can't see me as a
lead, I'm going to show you
>> can do."
>> Yeah. Yeah, my start was a lot of
creating my own content and creating my
own um short film, you know, setting up
a tripod and just doing the scenes.
Exactly.
>> Like this.
>> Yeah. Tripod, audio, find the light. And
uh you have yourself a you have yourself
a a scene.
>> Yeah.
>> And what was your role in this film?
>> Um I wrote it, I produced it, I directed
in it, I edited it, but I had a DP who
doubled as a gaffer. My wife and my mom
brought food. So I labeled him as a
crafty. So I was like, we got we got a
full crew. And then my PA also held the
boom mic.
>> I feel like this is such a great place
to meet multi- highenance, you know.
Well, it was so nice to meet you. I hope
we can chat more at parties, events
>> for sure. Yeah, we might collab on
something and then we could be crew for
each other.
>> I would love to. What are you from the
Bay? Like
>> Sacramento.
>> Perfect.
>> I just come to connect with people. I
mean, it's just really nice to like have
a thing you're proud of and then show it
and see what people think. I mean, it's
very simple, but
>> it's quiet.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> I love seeing the people who are behind
the film that you might never assume
they look the way they do. And it's just
an opportunity to kind of get a better
picture of what the creative process is
like.
>> And I went to about 35. So I
>> Okay, you are a wealth of knowledge
then. Sedona International Film
Festival. I've also been to Newport
Beach five times. They're lovely. Um, a
little more glitzy, you know, big
parties,
>> big budget,
>> big budget, big parties. Everybody gets
all dressed up. I premiered at the Santa
Barbara International Film Festival, and
there's nothing but good things to say
about that. It's also much glitzier than
most festivals, but also there are
smaller ones like Bufort. Buford Uh,
South Carolina. Oh,
>> it's a lovely smaller festival, but
really, really good for filmmakers, for
networking. Palm Springs Shortfest I've
been in. And of course, that's that's a
big deal. Again, along the smaller ones,
Breen Ridge, Colorado, Sax Town,
>> Sacramento, excellent. LA International
Children's Film Festival, San Francisco,
>> the San Francisco one. Yeah,
>> the San Francisco Children's. No, it's
Bash or
>> Yes, I have heard of it.
>> Also, there was one in Valo that we went
to. It It was very good. Um the woman
who organizes it, um she holds it in a
like a landmark building and it was
really good. I'm heading into the
theater and if you happen to be watching
this and you weren't in the line to be
interviewed by me, I'm so sorry. Um I
had to come into the theater. The line
was just too long and I just need to
come in. But look it, we're in the Fox
Theater. I didn't know you could see the
audience from back here.
>> So, we are all waiting cuz I am going to
go on stage actually and say something.
You open your program, you will see our
honores this year. Our brave maker
journalistic impact honor Philip Andre
Bautello Brave Makers luminary actor
honore. You will see there [applause] in
four different films at Brave Maker Film
Festival this year. Priscilla Lamb, our
director of community engagement, is
presenting their honors. Christine
Swanson. She's our Vanguard honore this
[applause] year. Squint, are you here?
Christopher, photographer, documentary
filmmaker, and this year, Brave Makers
culture.
She is the Brave Maker 2026 legend
honore and it's Miss Loretta Divine. the
clock for her career retrospective and I
put together a 7minute clip of your work
and turn those phones off and enjoy
magic magical bridge kind of time.
[applause]
>> So happy to be here. My name is Annette
King. I'm the producer and director of
magical bridge kind by design and so
happy to be here with our team spicer
films team and uh our creative producer
and some of the folks in the film. We
tend to focus on stories that are about
people bringing maybe changing their
pain to their purpose and solving
problems not just for themselves but for
their broader community. and you are the
just emblematic of that and we're just
so honored to be able to tell that
>> I never wanted to make a movie about
epilepsy. That was not on my list. My
film prior to the Under the Light Short
was a Bernie Sanders action and thriller
where I played Bernie Sanders and that's
it didn't show that [laughter]
but that's where my head was at and I
loved that. I loved keeping that part of
my life very separate. One in 10 people
have a seizure at some point.
>> And yet the only the point of reference
that we have for people who have
epilepsy is what we see in hospital
shows and in horror movies. And I really
I believe that that's the only reason
that there isn't a stig there's a stigma
to epilepsy. And in getting to know my
community,
not straight white guys, but but people
living with epilepsy, I came to realize
that most of their problems, for for
most of them, not all of them, but for
most of them, most of their problems
had nothing to do with seizures. It had
to do with living in a world that was
entirely unwilling to include them.
I've already been at this film festival
for 12 hours today and now it's [music]
time for the opening night gala at
Konasuk and Timber and Salt. There was
some music [music] at Konasukat and
Timber and Salt was packed probably
because that's where the alcoholic
beverages are at. But I am going to
leave this mingling fun party to go see
the secret screening because I'm in it.
So many people I know are in it and it
is at 9:45 back at the Fox Theater.
Every single question is optional.
There's a five. There's a 10.
>> That's it for day two. But there are
five days total and I am attending every
single day of this festival and giving
you a vlog for each day. I [music] hope
that you get a glimpse of what going to
the Bravemaker Film Festival is like or
going to film festival in general
because I [music] think you can have
such an amazing experience if you really
put yourself out There.