An Unfiltered Conversation With Charlie Kirk | Fake News, Corruption, & Greed
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In this high-energy conversation, Charlie Kirk reflects on his journey from an 18-year-old attendee of the 2012 Republican National Convention to founding Turning Point USA (TPUSA). He recounts approaching billionaire Bill Foster Freeze in a stairwell with no money or connections but possessing immense passion and determination. This encounter resulted in a $10,000 seed donation that launched TPUSA, teaching Kirk about risk management; he argues that while humans are genetically wired to fear uncertainty for survival, modern entrepreneurs must overcome this instinct because the actual material risks of asking for funding or speaking up are often minimal compared to the comfort zone one leaves behind. He emphasizes that his organization has grown from barely making payroll in its first six years into a massive entity with over $130 million in annual revenue and 1,200 employees, driven by relentless hustle rather than easy success. Kirk critiques the modern college system for failing to cultivate character or wisdom, which he defines as understanding unchanging truths like human nature and morality, unlike mere factual knowledge. He advocates for Hillsdale College's model of developing soul and character over career preparation, warning that many institutions prioritize skills that AI might replace while neglecting ethical foundations. His campus debating strategy involves physically putting down his microphone to let opponents speak uninterrupted, aiming not just to win rhetorical battles but to defend minority ideas against a dominant worldview on campuses. He notes the unfairness of facing seasoned debaters who have spent thousands of hours refining their arguments compared to freshmen, yet he maintains that learning and listening are crucial parts of the process, even when dealing with hostile or repetitive questions about specific topics like Israel. The discussion shifts heavily toward wealth creation, financial literacy, and political corruption in Washington. Kirk asserts that poverty is the human norm while wealth requires solving problems for others through markets, private property, and rule of law. He criticizes politicians who lack personal investments as being out of touch with how wealth is generated, though he supports stricter regulations on insider trading by Congress members. On Bitcoin, he endorses a strategic national reserve to help manage the U.S. debt, citing Michael Saylor's mass adoption theory where scarcity drives value upward over time. He also touches on his personal finances, noting that while TPUSA has significant revenue, his salary is modest and much of it is donated back to the organization, viewing financial success as a tool for impact rather than an end in itself. Finally, Kirk offers extensive advice on dating, marriage, and masculinity, arguing strongly against modern egalitarian trends like splitting bills or women paying first dates. He believes men should be primary providers who lead financially to free their partners from economic pressure, framing this not as sexism but as a traditional role that fosters gratitude and family stability. His premarital counseling checklist includes deep questions about household culture (open vs. closed), in-law relationships, children's upbringing, vices like alcohol or marijuana use, and sexual boundaries. He concludes with rapid-fire opinions on current events, stating apathy is more dangerous than ignorance, open borders are a worst-case policy idea, and censorship is far more destructive to society than chaos, ultimately expressing his desire to be remembered for his faith and courage.
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Pressure is a beautiful thing. You want
to have a debate, but you actually don't
debate. Shut up or shut up, Charlie K.
It is easy to interrupt and to scold and
to insult. You know what's hard? I have
to go to a college campus and defend
ideas that are in the minority of a lot
of these kids worldview. I mean, I don't
like any elite. One of the things that
I've been confused about is why
financial literacy is never taught in
schools. If you want to like have people
remain super poor and dependent on the
government, don't teach them financial
literacy. It's it's inexcusable.
Why do you think conservatives generally
stay silent on wealth inequality? So the
question shouldn't be like how many rich
people are. The question is how easy is
it to move up the socioeconomic ladder?
That's the more important metric and
that's actually becoming harder. So
that's a really important conversation.
Here's the key. Poverty is human norm.
Wealth is the exception. How do you get
wealthy is the most important economic
issue in front of us. If you want like
the secret to get rich there, it's
actually like not super hard.
Charlie Kirk, thank you so much for
coming on the Ice Coffee Hour. Thank you
guys. I'm I'm a big fan. I've seen a lot
of your clips and so it's great to be
sitting down. That means a lot. In 2012,
when you were just 18 years old at the
Republican National Convention, you
approached billionaire Foster Freeze.
Yes, I did. And you asked him to help
you out with your idea, Turning Point
USA. What was the conclusion of that
conversation and what did that teach you
about life and risk? Wow, it's a great
question. Um, so I was just recently
graduated from high school. Um, I wanted
to go to West Point before that. Didn't
get in. Uh, and it ended up being one of
the greatest things that never happened
to me. And so I went to the Republican
National Convention. I studied like all
the major donors. I had to kind of like
sneak my way into the RNC grounds, if
you will. And I at the fourth day, I was
so demoralized. I was like, "Oh, this is
not working. saying, "I have this idea
for Turning Point USA," which basically
the idea was to try to win over young
people around conservative ideas. And I
was in a stairwell, literally a
stairwell, and so and then I saw Foster
Freeze doing like a podcast interview
with this major cowboy hat on and I gave
him the stairwell pitch. You know,
people talk about the elevator pitch. I
gave him a stairwell pitch and he told a
couple jokes. He was the sweetest, most
godly, incredible person ever. He was
actually took me seriously cuz here I
was 18 years old, no money, no
connections, no idea what I was doing.
and no reason that he should be
listening to me. And this guy, for the
people that know, Foster Freeze started
from nothing in uh rural I think it was
like Rice Lake, Wisconsin, became like
the top mutual fund manager for like 30
years. The Brandine Fund out of
Delaware, like legendary stuff, right?
So, he's someone that gets pitched all
the time. His life is to listen to
pitches. 10 times a day, top companies
would come in and try to pitch Foster
Freeze. Can you have your couple billion
dollars assets under management to buy
Coca-Cola or to buy United Airlines?
constantly getting pitches. So, here I
am pitching a guy, a legend, about, you
know, this organization that I wanted to
start, Turning Point USA, and he took me
so seriously. Um, and he wrote me a
$10,000 check. And that was like the
seed funding. Uh, it wasn't shares. It
wasn't like equity. It was just a
donation cuz we were 501c3. And it might
as well have been $100 million, right?
It finally was enough for me to be able
to start a website, to have gas in the
car, and then Yeah. And then from there
the the journey just started and he
became a bigger and bigger donor. What
do you think he saw in you? Well, he
probably saw someone that was passionate
enough and crazy enough and honestly he
probably saw someone that was really
like naive to a great extent that I
still wanted to get into this like
broken political space, but I didn't
know any better. Um, and in Foster's own
words, he said he saw someone with focus
and determination and a Midwestern work
ethic. So, he was from Wisconsin. and I
was from Northern Illinois. So, we kind
of had that in common. And look, I live
in Arizona now and I love Arizona, but I
have like a huge Midwestern bias. I
think Midwestern work ethic is like the
best on the planet. And nothing against
other people in the country, but there
is something very special about u how
we're raised in the Midwest and kind of
that idea that we're going to outwork
everybody. And that's always been who I
am. I'm going to do more events and more
speaking and more podcasting, more radio
interviews, and more donor meetings. And
that's kind of been the ethos. So, yeah,
I mean, I don't want to put words in his
mouth. He passed away unfortunately a
couple years ago. Um, and so but no, he
was a great friend. And you asked the
question, what did it teach me about
risk? Is is that right? Risk in life.
Yeah. Well, I honestly I had nothing to
really risk because I had nothing to
lose. And so that's like Well, that's I
mean that's a nerve-wracking thing. A
lot of people are presented with
opportunities to talk with someone, get
their foot in the door for some
opportunity. So what are you losing
though? Like your own like getting over
the embarrassment of rejection. I know.
But like it's not losing anything,
right? I mean that's in life if you
think about it like okay if you're
actually if you're second mortgaging
your house like some entrepreneurs are I
don't have like one of those stories
right I'm sure you guys talked to some
of these people I was on the second
mortgage my house and I couldn't feed my
kids that's actually not my story that
is something to lose this is like the
only thing you have to lose is your own
sense of comfort that's kind of weird
when you think about it right oh I'm not
going to ask that girl out why because
I'm comfortable in my own corner comfort
will not bring you success actually it
won't bring you excellence like only in
that place of uncomfort and discomfort
do you actually get to the next level
you know this so why do so many people
believe the exact opposite of that that
they feel like that's a big risk for
them to go and do that like why don't
more people think like you cuz I agree
with you I think first of all like I
mean it is risk in the sense that we as
human beings do desire comfort and we
want to kind of be in a place where we
can have certainty above uncertainty and
going and asking a question or go going
and asking a top billionaire for money
you have the probability failure and we
are very failureverse as a species and
honestly we should be like you think
about 5,000 years ago you have you know
two kids and you're living in like
Mesopotamia
and you're like well I hope there's food
over that hill and if you're wrong your
whole family could die so like that's
embedded into our our species right God
designed us in a way where there was not
a lot of food all the all the place so
now you kind of extrapolate that kind of
genetic wiring where we used to be in in
the wilderness to foster freeze and you
think you're like wow foster tells me no
my whole life's going to actually no
you're going to be fine like you could
go and still eat food and you're not
going to die and so I think we have to
overcome our genetic hardwiring
where so many people think that it's
like a life ordeath situation I can't
ask this girl out I can't go ask for a
raise I can't go to my boss I can't
assert myself and you have to overcome
that because it's actually not that much
risk now what is risk is like if there's
a material material or a reputational
thing you're putting on the line. Like
for example, if like you're working for
a company and they're like, you know,
you're not allowed to express your
conservative views and you're like all
of a sudden wearing a MAGA hat, that's a
risk. Like I totally get that. But if
you're 18 years old and you have no
money, no connections, no idea what
you're doing, I had nothing to lose. And
that's actually one of my main arguments
for like why we have so few
entrepreneurs nowadays or we have less
and less entrepreneurial rate
entrepreneurship rates are going down is
we're sending all these kids to college
and they're telling you to be
riskaverse. Like the whole incentive
structure in college is to not pursue
big broad ideas is actually to stay
rather cloistered in place. Speaking of
that, that's where I first uh found your
content was you on the college campuses
debating. When did that start? And what
was the most surprising aspect of that?
Yeah. So I've been doing that for 13
years. I haven't been doing that on
camera for 13 years. And so look, the
Lord has been so amazing to to us and
has blessed us in amazing ways. And so I
never would have imagined like honestly
ever since like I met Foster Freeze that
we'd be somewhat of kind of like a
household name. I don't want to
overextend it, but I mean it there's
some serious verality and some real
punch behind what we're doing. So I
started doing that without even filming
it. And so like that's what people are
like you have and that was before like
mass social media 13 years ago. It was
still there. Honestly, I should have
filmed it. It would have went like the
trajectory probably would have been even
faster 2012, right? Yes. I mean like
that was like raw internet and like it
would have been really interesting. But
that's how you know I actually believe
this stuff is I used to go to bait kids
when there was no incentive structure
for verality. I just did it cuz I loved
it and I love the battle of ideas and I
did it to try to start like a turning
point group on campus. And so I've been
doing it for 13 years. We started
filming it around 2017. We started
perfecting the model really around 2021.
And then 2023 is when all of a sudden it
kind of became a somewhat of a cultural
phenomenon. And then of course the last
year seems like I can't get out of
people's algorithm. So you mentioned
that you like the battle of ideas. But
one thing that I tend to notice is that
whoever has stronger rhetoric,
persuasion skills, you know, quick on
their feet, quick on their toes, that's
going to be the person to win the
argument, the debate. Do you feel like
these debates have turned into a battle
of ideas or just who has stronger
rhetoric? That's a good point. I
actually have to think I I think about
that a lot. So I try to do a couple
things and I I fail. But if you notice,
I've in the viral videos, I try to put
my microphone down literally physically
on the table when the person is asking
their question because I want to try to
give them uninterrupted time to be able
to make their argument. Number two,
there is an advantage that the person
coming up to the mic has that they're
allowed to ask any topic and I don't
know what that topic is going to be and
they could prepare profusely on it. But
you're right, of course it's advantage
to the guy that does it for a living,
right? But understand like I have to go
to a college campus and defend ideas
that are in the minority of a lot of
these kids worldview. I have to go to a
college campus and argue against
abortion. Most kids are not against
abortion, right? Have you have you ever
had your mind changed from one of these
college camp? Oh yeah. I mean so mine
changed as in over a period of time
probably. Yes. I would say that I
definitely have grown respect
for like the thoughtfulness of a lot of
international students when it has come
to the Russian Ukraine war like
definitely like I'm very against US
involvement but like talking to and
they're they're all public you can watch
them like very thoughtful German
students and like very thoughtful
students from Eastern Europe like for
them it's a very existential crisis
what's happening and so like to hear
that was something that was very let's
just say different than what you would
hear just on like the usual American
political landscape. But yeah, look, I'd
say over I would say that I learn a lot
too and that's what's important. I do a
100 hours of this a semester. 100 hours
in addition to two hours of podcasting
radio, right? 250 speeches a year. I got
to raise $130 million a year and I got a
thousand employees. I got a lot going
on, right? I still do 100 hours of
content a year. So 200 hours of campus
content. And I'm not just like I I try
and I fail. Everyone would fail at this,
but I try not to just be ready to say
what I want to say next. I try to really
learn and listen and then I try to
listen back to the footage. And so this
is one of the reasons why it's a little
bit unfair when I go to these campuses
because I've been doing it for literally
a thousand hours and these kids are like
a college, you know, freshman. So I try
to have at least somewhat of a teacher
role to them and try to be a little bit
softer. Unless if they're coming after
me and they're like insulting me and you
you've seen it, right? Like they're just
being like totally like blitz creek.
It's nice because I feel like you do
tend to do that where they might have a
hard time articulating a certain
philosophical argument, but then you
take it for that strongest, you know,
derivative or representation of that
strongest phil
And like it's like the ninth time
they're asking me about Israel and I
love Israel, but I'm tired of answering
questions on Israel. Okay. Like I love
it. It's fine. Like it's just but this
is not the debate Charlie Kirk on Israel
hour. And I'm like can we ask can we
have another topic here? And I might get
a little bit miffed. Who wouldn't,
right? I mean that's just human. But I
will say like I try to meet you at the
frequency you're at. So if they're
coming after me and they're like
insulting my appearance or whatever,
like I'm gonna I'm not gonna let myself
get run over. But if a liberal student
comes and they're like, "Hey, I really
seek to understand this or help me know
or I I try to I try not to like pummel
them, if that makes sense, because I at
least I think that's effective." Right
now, if they come with like a uniquely
grotesque idea, then I'm going to try to
expose it to the audience and to the,
you know, online community. But, um,
yeah. No, look, I learn a lot and it try
and I hope the audience does too. I mean
the physical crowds are now 3 4 th 4,000
people almost every time we do this. Now
in those cases when have you found that
college is really worth it for someone?
Yeah, it's a great question. So I'm a
big proponent of Hillsdale College. So
Hillsdale I think is America's greatest
college because it's what college should
be. Uh which is it's the development of
the soul and character. So character is
one of the most important things that
you can invest in when you're 18, 19,
20, 20 years old. And I guarantee you if
you go to most colleges, they're about
preparing you for your career, but
they're not about preparing your
character. And character is really,
really important, right? Character
literally comes from the Greek word
tattoo or to etch into you. Character
will define every decision, right? From
what you eat to what you drink, how you
communicate to people to the decisions
you make. Way more important than
whether you have a skill. Having a skill
is important. I'm not diminishing that.
But wouldn't I mean, if you guys are
building a business, wouldn't you rather
have people of high character, high
skill? Of course, you want people of
high character. Skills can come.
Character is the hard thing. And so, I
think that we as the college world has
done a really bad job of developing
character. They don't even prioritize
it. instead. Why why do you think it's
failed so many people? Well, that's
those are two separate questions. So,
why do they not teach character? Well,
first of all, they they don't think
that's their reason for existing. Most
of them, it depends. Like the super
leftwing colleges, which is most of
them, they're all like, "We're here to
create global citizens for an
everchanging world, like some sort of
pabum, or they're like, "We want to have
you very specific, you know, skill, like
we want you to be able to like turn a
widget, which by the way, if AI replaces
that job, what do you have?" That's a
cool thing about developing character.
Like if AI replaces jobs, you still have
the most important of all things, which
is you know the difference between good
and evil, right and wrong, beauty and
ugly, right? You know the difference
between the the most the high things and
the low things. Like that's what we
should strive for in higher education.
That's why I think Hillsdale does a
great job. But yeah, most I mean if you
want to become a doctor or lawyer, of
course you have to go to college, right?
But you still have to go through this
ridiculous environment of left-wing
social indoctrination. But I I will say
though that the and I I've debated all
around the world though I debated at
Cambridge and Oxford all across the
country. The other problem is that
they're not in the pursuit of wisdom.
And this is one of the more important
things like if you ask a regular college
kid what is the difference between
knowledge and wisdom. They like they'll
just trip over themselves. And it's not
a semantic thing but semantic means
meaning. But it's not a semantic thing.
It's actually important. Knowledge is
just facts. Like okay I know the capital
of you know California, Sacramento,
whatever. Wisdom is the knowledge of
things that never change. It's the
understanding of things that never
change. It's like what is human nature?
What does it mean to be a good person?
What is beauty? What is goodness? What
is the best way of living? What is a
society in its fullest form? Is it good
to have children? Wisdom is is
understanding that is even playing with
the idea like is there a god? Like who
are we? How did we get here? I think
that's what college should be all about
is the cultivation of wisdom. As a
Christian, we believe wisdom starts with
the fear of the Lord. But yeah, I mean I
don't mean to talk uninterrupted for 10
minutes straight, but yeah. Um, I I
think that college has has completely
derailed its purpose. In terms of
college as an application for the
average person, uh, I think it's really
interesting. Ben Shapiro claims to be
wealthy in America, you need to do three
things. Graduate high school, get a
full-time job, and get married before
you have children. All Yeah, that and
he's right. And that's the Brookings
Institution. He's right on all three.
And do you think he's missing anything?
First of all, I like Ben a lot. We
disagree on some big things, but Ben's
great, and he's been a good friend for a
while. Um,
yeah. Yeah, I would say like become a
person of high character. Again, I'm
going to kind of go back to a main
thing. Do you think that that is
essential to be wealthy in America?
That's a good question. I don't think
being wealthy is that important. Like,
do you want to be wealthy of the soul or
just have like a bunch of money? Like,
well, that's that would be a different
question, but I I I guess like the
question is fine. Do you want to be
rich? I can tell you how to get rich.
Like, that's actually not that hard. I
mean, you have to get rich like work
relentlessly and solve a problem for
people and like dedicate your entire
life to it and like become an insane
person. Basically, do you think it's
possible to still do all of those things
though and then not become rich? Of
course. But like if you if your whole
reason for living is to become rich, you
will become rich. Most people that think
like most people I meet that want to be
rich, they actually don't want to be
rich. They want to have the lifestyle of
being rich. They don't actually want to
be rich. They're like, you have to
sacrifice everything to want to become
actually rich unless you're born into
it. Like no nights, few weekends. I
traveled 3,000 days over a decade. I'm a
million mileer American, Delta, United.
I'm in all 50 states multiple times.
Like it's thankless, gritty work. Like
Shapiro hosted two radio shows plus like
Breitbart.com and Truth Revol. Like not
easy. So if you actually want to be
rich, then there is a path for you. You
have to like sacrifice in like
immensely. I don't drink alcohol. Like
Tucker Carlson doesn't drink alcohol.
Donald Trump doesn't drink alcohol. That
doesn't mean that like you can't be rich
if you don't drink alcohol, but you must
sacrifice stuff. Now it might be that
you create a good widget or like you
might a good social media app or you
might get good venture funding but even
those guys will tell you you have to
fail a lot, you have to sacrifice a lot,
you have to be really gritty. I I just
challenge the premise of like what is
the most important like I think if
getting material wealth is the most
important thing. I think there actually
is a playbook for that absent of like
committing crimes like being a really
crappy person being sociopathic. It
depends also what you define as rich.
Like there is a way forward for if it's
your number one reason for living to,
you know, earn $500,000 a year. Like
that's very conceivable in America. But
if you're like, hey, actually most
important thing is to have kids, which I
think actually think having children is
more important than having material
success and I have both and I can tell
you kids are way better than having
money. Like honestly, not being poor is
awesome. That's like the best thing I
could tell you. like being super rich
and I'm not super rich but I'm I would
consider to be successful under you know
American terms is great but up to a
place it's kind of like you know you're
you're blessed you're wealthy it's fine
not being poor is the true blessing not
worrying about like medical bills or
being in debt is like really bad but
yeah it depends on what you want if you
want to be rich like actually like have
your bank account big then America of
course you can do that how much of
people being poor is their fault versus
just the circumstances of their life.
It's both. It dep It's very case
dependent. Um, a lot of it is agency. I
put So, we as conservatives tend to
blame free will, agency, and the person
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silent on wealth inequality? Well, I
don't know if we're silent on it. I
mean, I think that we're finally
starting to talk about it. I'd say that
we would say that just don't throw rocks
at the top of the building, fix the
elevator. So, the question shouldn't be
like how many rich people are. The
question is how easy is it to move up
the socioeconomic ladder? That's the
more important metric and that's
actually becoming harder. So that's a
really important conversation. But I
could probably agree with a liberal that
it's not good to have like an entrenched
permanent oligarchy that's running the
country and that people have to go into
debt and go into credit to pay for their
groceries. Like I actually don't want to
live in that country. So I can agree
that we should talk about it more. Um
but is there anything like inherently
wrong with a billionaire? No. Like most
billionaires actually have solved big
problems for us. Like, you know, people
love hating on Elon Musk. I like Elon a
lot. He was He's become a friend. Um, I
know there's been like a lot of social
media talk about it, but I refuse to say
anything negative about Elon. Like,
okay, you tell me the next time you're
able to launch a rocket and land it.
Like, actually, that's pretty cool.
Like, okay, you're able to revolutionize
the electric car industry. Like, you
deserve a lot of money if you do that.
One of the things that I've been
confused about is why financial literacy
is never taught in schools. Like, you
think that this would be something
taught throughout middle school, high
school, college. Why is that? I mean, if
you want like an actual conspiracy
theory, that's the best evidence of a
conspiracy. If you want to like have
people remain super poor and dependent
on the government, don't teach them
financial literacy. It's like it's
inexcusable. And who do you think is in
charge of that? No, I'm not I'm not like
I'm just saying like I don't know who's
like the designer of that conspiracy,
but the incentives are aligned. I'm
saying like if you want a generation to
like have to go to the payday lending
people and if you want to have them like
filling out credit cards at 25%
interest, don't teach financial
literacy. I don't know who. I mean, it's
convenient. I'm a big school choice
advocate. I think that we need school
choice. I think the public sector
teacher unions and the public sector
cartel have done a huge damage to this
country, but yeah, I mean, look, there's
how many young kids right now that are
17 can tell you the difference between
credit and debit? They can't. So, one of
the things I like about Trump's upcoming
big beautiful bill is that every new
baby board in America will get a $1,000
loan from the federal government in I
don't know if you guys know about this,
but in a investment account that they
can't touch their 18 invested in the Dow
Jones Industrial Average that they'll be
able to monitor throughout the 18 years.
It be it can be grown by
philanthropists, family members,
grandparents. So, they'll be actually be
able to see their wealth increase.
They're stakeholders. So if we have two
kids, if we have another kid, that kid
will immediately have a investment
account that's only a one-way dropbox.
You can't access this money until you're
18. So it actually creates ownership
units for the next generation. I think
it's a phenomenal. I wish they did that
with social security. Oh, of course they
should. We were told it was a lock box
and it wasn't. Of course. But no, I mean
looks there's so then if you want like
the secret to get rich there, it's
actually like not super hard. It's like
live below your means, save your money,
invest in good companies, and then find
good ideas and read a lot. Like read a
lot. If you just read a lot and you like
all of a sudden you'll see trends and
you'll be well informed. Again, I don't
want to make it seem like it's super
easy, but it's it depends what you
define by rich. But I will say one final
thing. People are so bad with money.
Like again, if you if your top priority
is getting drunk, okay, then go do that.
Like I know a lot of people they're
like, "I want to be rich. I spent $700
going out this weekend." Like, "Oh, yes,
you don't want to be rich, okay? You
want to feel good and you want to have a
bunch of, you know, toxins go through
your liver, but you actually don't want
to live a life of happiness and
contentment. And if you want to if you
I'm not a moralist, if you want to
drink, go ahead. It's a free society. Go
do that. But then don't all of a sudden
complain to me that you're not
materially wealthy." It just seems like
it's such low lift to to make a huge
change in terms of wealth inequality if
there was just one course taught in high
school about financial literacy. And so
like let's just say hypothetically I'm
just a casual viewer of I mean I've been
watching you for a very long time and
I'm I'm how difficult would it be for
you to just you know reach out to Trump
or reach out to someone and be like what
do we got to do to put some incentives
into the school system to teach
financial you know what it might hurt a
lot of businesses if people were smart
with their money. Oh it would totally
the credit card companies would freak
out. They would freak out. Could you
imagine like Visa and Mastercard
people are asking questions about 25%
interest? I mean so how difficult would
that be? Is there just way too much
interest at play? No, no, no. It would
just be difficult. It's very hard for
the federal government to control
curriculum but to apply incentives.
Yeah, the states should do it. Like
there have been some ideas to do this. I
know that there's big companies that
have tried to do this because they're
like, "Oh yeah, we're giving money
towards financial literacy. I'm sorry.
Like it's not working. Whatever you guys
are doing is not working. Okay? Whatever
program you think that's going on
financial literacy, you guys are all a
failure. You should all be shut down
because it's just not working. Because I
I deal with the next generation. They
know kaput about financial literacy.
Like very little to nothing. And this is
one of the things that I just want to
caution everybody about, which is like
I'm very very pro crypto, but I know a
lot of people that have lost money on
crypto. I'm sure you guys I'm very very
pro crypto. I think there's a huge
opportunity. I think it's incredible
technology more than anything else. that
like the best way to build wealth is
over long periods of time saving money
and doing boring stuff. It's not get
rich quick. It's not big meme coins,
right? It's not big spikes. It's just
going to work, saving money, and living
below your means. I know that's not the
sexy answer everyone wants, but that's
what Warren Buffett did. Warren
Buffett's one of the world's wealthiest
men. He started with like very little
money 70 years ago. And the eighth
wonder of the world, you know what the
eighth wonder of the world is? Compound
interest. Compound interest. And no one
wants to hear that, right? They want to
hear about like what's the next Nvidia.
Okay. I I don't know. But I can tell you
that in 40 years, if you put a hundred
bucks a week into a moderately managed,
you know, wealth account, you're going
to be great. 100 bucks a week, man. I
can't afford that. Okay. Well, let's
talk about how much money do you make?
Oh, I make $91,000. You can afford 100
bucks a week. Stop getting your
Frappuccino. Stop going out to drink
with your friends. Right. I've been
saying this. You sound exactly like I
don't I mean the reason why we're called
the iced coffee hour is because he had a
joke on his channel called the 20 cent
iced coffee and you could save $3 a day
which is3 $100 a month. And if you just
invest that into Yeah. A Roth IRA, you
know, assuming 10% interest, you have
some inflation, but when you're, you
know, 60 or whatever, you'll be a
millionaire. And that all came from a
guy who was spending $500 a month at
Starbucks. No, I'm probably that guy.
You're that guy? Well, now I am. But
like No, I know. It's terrible. It's
It's not good. But you have amazing
coffee makers upstairs. Aren't they
incredible? Yeah, I know. Um I also
drink a lot of tea and Starbucks like so
when you travel a lot, the one thing
about Starbucks is consistency, right?
So it's just like I don't know what mom
and pop, you know, place there is in
Laram, Wyoming. I don't coin flip if
it's good or not. Exactly. So the only
the only argument for like mass
proliferation of Starbucks when you
travel is You do the rewards though,
right? Yeah. Mikey does. It's funny. I I
actually have coffee socks on, believe
it or not. Good for Well, I like coffee
is really good. I'm very pro coffee. So,
I think coffee gets a bad rap. It's very
very good for you, actually. Let's talk
about the average American. Do you think
it's possible to build wealth when
you're making $40,000 a year? That's a
great question, boy. Um, first of all,
if you're earning $40,000 a year, you're
in a tough spot. And I don't envy that.
And you might be there because your own
choices. You're an agency. That's really
That's a really hard question. Depends
where you live, depends your age, and
also depends on your circumstances. And
so if you have kids and $40,000 a year,
it's very hard to build wealth. And
that's a real problem that we have to
tackle. But if you're 18 years old
earning $40,000 a year and you're you
have four roommates, yeah, you can build
wealth for sure, actually. Like if you
have four roommates and you're living in
downtown Phoenix and your rent's a,000
bucks a month because you're splitting
it four ways, you absolutely can build
wealth. I mean, so it's a very case
dependent answer, but if you have
$40,000 a year with two kids, I don't
know how you'd support two kids or
4,000. You have to go to government
assistance, right? Um, which by the way,
we as conservatives, we bash government
assistants a lot. So, I'm a huge Oregon
Ducks fan. Like massive Oregon Ducks
fan. My dad went to University of
Oregon, my uncle did, my aunt did. Like
I I know every player. So Dan Lanning,
the coach of I don't know if you care
about college football or not, but the
coach of or University of Oregon, like
there was a moment in his life where he
was like a what they call like an not an
assistant coach. What do they say? Like
you're kind of like a coach's assistant
basically. He was on food stamps as a
coach. He's like and it was like I was I
was ashamed by it. I felt guilty. But
he's like, "We needed it." And now he's
earning like 11 million bucks a year
being the University of Oregon football
coach. And so I think that's like a
great case case story of like, okay, we
want this to be a safety net, not a
hammock. And like here's a guy who
really needed it. He had two kids. And
so I if you're earning 40,000 bucks a
year, um, you know, that's a tough
that's a tough spot. So I always think
about this study, this data where the US
military during World War II and Vietnam
War conducted aptitude and psychological
evaluations showing that 10 to 20% of
new recruits were only ever positively
counterproductive in any sort of work.
And then this is also backed by
corporate research as well showing that
10 to 20% of individuals will only ever
be toxic and contribute to less
efficiency in the work environment than
them just being gone in the first place.
As someone that runs a massive company,
how do you find these people and then
seed them out? It's a great question.
Um, they kind of reveal themselves. So,
it's a really it's a really important
question. So, we have highly intensive
events, the best in the movement. I
would say they are they are objectively
the biggest 15,000 people 20,000 people.
Last year we hosted uh the Bobby Kennedy
Donald Trump event where Bobby Kennedy
endorsed Donald Trump. We hosted
President Trump six times. Last year we
had our student action summit, our young
women's leadership summit, Amfest, tons
of campus stuff. So pressure is a
beautiful thing. Pressure will reveal
those 20% very quickly. They cannot hide
in high pressure situations. What do you
look for specifically? You're like,
complaining, asymmetrical behavior,
suppressive personality, uh, anti
antisocial personality behavior for
sure, gossiping, leaking, being late,
trying to divide, um, things of that
nature, disobeying orders, cutting
corners. When do you know how to cut and
maybe give them a chance of maybe they
just had a bad day, they didn't sleep,
um, so if there's a pattern, for sure. I
mean, it it goes to like levels of
defiance, right? if somebody is directly
defying orders or if somebody has a
really bad attitude. And again, events
are a great way to flush this out. I
always say when I have our all staff
meeting, I said, "Some of you guys are
going to move up in the company in the
next 4 days and some of you guys might
not be here in 4 days." And like there's
a lot of silence in the room, but you
know, when you have 700 people in a
room, it's just the odds, right? And so,
you know, we have very strict policies
at Turning Point USA of certain things
that we expect and certain things that
drive success. And it's a great way to
kind of see what people are made of.
Now, when you say disobeying orders, how
can you tell if they're truly just being
defiant for the sake of being defiant or
if they're an entrepreneur at heart and
doing what they feel is the best move
for the company even though it's not
popular. So, let me give you an example.
If there is a if there is a rule which
is like uh during these three days, you
are not to drink alcohol because you
have to be on call and that we're
hosting high schoolers. Totally
appropriate. And we find out that you're
at a bar drinking alcohol. That's that's
disobedience, right? Defiance. Um
whereas if they're trying to find a more
creative solution, yeah, I mean, I'll be
honest, like we kind of run our stuff
like the military in the sense like the
four days, we appreciate your
creativity. We want you to kind of
within bounds, but for example, if I'm
hosting President Trump and I need like
back bike racks up and all of a sudden,
you know, you show up with cones, like I
didn't need your creativity there, okay?
I needed you to follow the orders, okay?
Right? Like so or if you know if I'm
hosting the biggest speakers in the
movement and I need an intro video done
and all of a sudden I see Dolly Parton
like no no no I I need I need an intro
video. I don't need Jolene. Okay. So
like I appreciate the creativity but um
you got to be creative within you know
by the way we also have there's there's
there's times to be maximally creative
right but understand our events what our
events team is the greatest in the in
the country in the movement. They
deserve so much credit. You guys should
come by the way. You'll love it. It's
it's unbelievable. It's lifechanging.
And just from the audio visual to the
music to the attendees to the experience
to the exhibitors to the sponsors, it's
unbel What we put on is second to none.
It's just one of the many things we do.
And like there's a long leadup, but it's
like it's literally a military
operation. It's a 24-hour operation,
right? From the security to the
students. We have 5,000 students that we
have to look after, right? High school
kids from AC come across the country.
So, yeah. I will say I'm extremely
impressed. I mean, we've filmed with a
lot of different businesses,
corporations, etc. I mean, you do run a
tight ship. We do run a tight ship. That
is a good way to put it. But for those
people that aren't able to be a deck
hand of a tight ship, those people that
10 to 20% of people that will only ever
be positively counterproductive, what do
we do with them as a society or you
can't just let them job hop for their
entire life, right? If they're like if
they're never going to make it out of
poverty, poverty is just not good for
anybody. Some of them end up in prison.
I mean, that's an honest answer.
Unfortunately, I mean, there there is a
um antisocial component to going to
prison. I I don't know the answer to
that, honestly. Some of them end up
getting married and they don't reenter
the workforce. So, that's an answer.
But, um, look, this is not a this is not
a problem unique to America. It seems as
if it's built into the species, right?
Mhm. I I don't know. Now, you've started
making quite a lot of money going from
the beginning to where you are now. How
very blessed. How have you handled your
own personal finances?
um very carefully. I mean I I'm a big
investor. Uh I have a great team that
does it. So I mean for just to be clear,
I didn't I didn't take a salary from
turning point you say the first 5 years.
So and I I didn't want it. I mean all
the money went back into the company.
And so I my test of a founder is always
like what do you pay yourself the first
couple years? And unless you have kids
at home or else you have like a family
to support like you know a mom that's
sick, you should not be taking money out
of the company. like it all should be
going back in because I mean it's just
it's so precious at that point in that
period of time. And so I I would say
that probably over 75 75 80% of all the
money I make is invested. What do you
invest in? I mean it's very diversified
from private equity, which is great. So
once you're able to make enough money,
you're able to kind of get access to
private equity deals, which is great.
I'm super boring with some stuff, too.
I'm just like, "Hey, you know, buy this
mutual fund, buy, you know, buy the Dow,
buy this index, and just kind of put it
aside." Um, I I went all in and bought
the dip during the the tariff stuff and
CO. Fantastic. During CO, I bought
triple leverage, triple Q. No, you did.
Yeah. What do you mean? Of course you
did. I mean, like, what are you doing?
You should become a financial adviser,
man. You got to start having fun. Okay.
Why was that so obvious to you to go
triple leverage? It was the easiest bet
I've ever made in my life. Why? You're
in a bet against America.
By the way, I think the argument was
that it could get a lot worse and we
know that there's going to be$2 trillion
dollars printed into first and I was
against that. But I mean, my whole
premise at the time was this is so
self-inflicted. We decided to shut down
the country. A meteor didn't strike.
It's not an alien invasion. We could
reverse this immediately. And so I said,
and by the way, I'm investing for the
next 30 years. You're trying to tell me
the Dow's going to remain about 17,000
points for the next 30 years. So
basically, I was like, I'm buying triple
Q, triple lever. I mean it was like kind
of ballsy when you think about it back.
I guess what you don't know is that how
far can it go before businesses start
flat out to be clear I did I started I
started to buy when I started to see a
little bit of signs of hope right like I
tried to see the bottom and if I
remember correctly it went down to like
17 18,000 like um and then yeah just
kind of plowed a bunch of money into it.
By the way I was like fine. I wasn't
even married at the time. I had no kids.
Do you manage your own money or do you
have No, I I I I have a great guy that
does, but I I call a lot of shots. Like
I'll I will I make macro decisions, not
micro decisions. That's the way I say.
I'm not a good micro investor. Buy this
company, buy that company. The only
thing I'll say is like when Elon's
company went on Tesla, I want to buy
Tesla just as kind of a symbolic
philosophical thing because I thought he
was being treated so terribly. But like
macro stuff I'll get involved in. So,
for example, if there's like, hey, I
want to invest in, you know, more
artificial intelligence or, you know, I
think that, you know, oil is
undervalued, you know, we'll have a
conversation. The guy that does it is a
guy named Doug Degroot. He's phenomenal.
Um, and so he's just a great family
office, really sweet guy. And what about
Bitcoin? Oh, yeah. No, so I don't buy
individual Bitcoin, but I I like I bit
I'm an investor in a thing called
anagram, uh, which is the, uh,
fundamental technology below crypto. So,
it's kind of like buying the plumbing of
the crypto industry, if you will. And
so, like Salana and all these companies,
anytime they wanted an ICO, you have to
basically have the fundamental
technology beneath it. I don't even
understand it that well, other than um
you're kind of buying a philosophy, if
you will. And then, look, I'm in a very
unique, blessed place where there is a
lot of deal flow that comes my way where
a lot of people want to, you know, have
me invest in stuff and I say no more
than I say yes. Um, and then I'll do a
little bit of real estate here or there,
but no, I mean, look, in terms of rental
properties or what? No. Um, like
flipping homes and stuff like that. Um,
do you have like guys that you work
partner with to flip homes or Yeah, I
mean I do. I have a couple guys and
they've actually been very successful.
Um, did a couple in Chicago, trying to
do a couple here in Arizona. Where do
you have the time for that? Look, I mean
that's the thing is like it seems to
like it just takes away from everything.
It does. But like I it's I mean if you
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and I still get 9 to 10 hours of sleep
at night amazingly. So yeah, I mean we
were talking with your team and they
were saying you work crazy hours and I
was like why does he work so hard? And
their answer was he's just extremely
mission focused. Yes. Correct. I'm very
driven. Yeah. Does it does it exhaust
you ever to the point of regretting it?
Oh, no. No. I mean, so I I'm writing I'm
actually finishing a book. So I actually
don't week I work one week day out of
the week. So that's I take a Sabbath
every Saturday. Turn my phone off. No
work, just kids, just family. It's an
amazing blessing. So I every Saturday
totally off. It's amazing how much work
you can get done in six days though. And
so I wake up early, you know, I wake up
around 600 6:30. Um, you know, again, I
usually feel really good in the morning.
Um, I don't have any hangover or any of
that stuff, right? And I just get
straight to work and I do my show from
9:00 to 11:00 local time in Arizona. Uh,
once I'm done, um, I try to just kind
of, you know, uh, just eat a little bit,
maybe take a 10 minute, 15 minute nap,
maybe. Um, I try not to do more than
that. It's amazing like the power of
like a 12 to 15 minute nap. and then
I'll just work all day and then I'll try
to train a little bit, go for a walk.
Uh, but again, I'm in a very blessed
position where things really come to me
where I used to have to go to things.
Have you always been this way? Like
you've had laser laser sharp focus. You
you've never felt like you dealt with
poor motivation? No. You've always just
been that way. You don't do anything to
try to cultivate this motivation and
laser focus. No, I that's a really good
question. Um, no. I've always been very
driven. like very very dri um so that's
a really interesting point I thought
when I first started this everyone
wanted to be equally success like
everyone had equal drive so I thought
that was like an equal equally
distributed ingredient amongst the
population and that was that was my nay
I didn't realize that like motivation
and like drive and grit and hustle was
actually like an exceptional quality and
so then quickly I realized like whoa I'm
just going to outwork everybody like I'm
not the most charismatic person. You
know, I can speak. I got a good thing
going, but I'm not the most. I'm not the
smartest person. I go to Harvard Law,
right? Um, I don't have the highest IQ,
but I I can compete with the best of
them. But I am going to outwork you.
Like, I'll put in more hours. I'll read
more books. I'll listen to more
podcasts. Like, I will do more meetings.
I'll travel to more cities. Like, that I
can do. Have you done an IQ test? I did
when I was young. Yeah. And what did it
come back at? It was It was well above
average. Um, I don't want to misspeak on
the spec on the but I think it was like
I don't want I don't I don't want to say
a number because it's gonna get cut up
and all that, but it was 300. No, that
wasn't that high. No, it wasn't that
high. No, but it it was it was not like
quite ment. But it was high. Like I mean
I have a good memory, but like I'm not
like I'm not like an international chess
champion, right? I'm not like a perfect
SAT guy. I had good ACT scores, right?
We took the ACT where I was from, you
know, 31 32 was respectable. Wasn't like
a 36, but so I'm not dumb. I mean that's
not but I I I'm I'm a unique combination
now that I'm I can see it which is you
know I'm like a heat-seeking missile
towards what I want to achieve and that
and that alone can be an incredible
differentiator in this space. So what
are some of the sacrifices or
compromises that you make because of
that heat-seeking missile nature that
people may not recognize? My life's
configured now in a way where the
biggest sacrifice I have to make is not
being home with my kids. And that like
that's that sucks. I don't have to do
that as much. I get to say no to a lot
of stuff. And by the way, thank you guys
for coming to Phoenix. It's one of the
main reasons why this was like Thank you
for doing this. Absolutely. By the way,
I'm going to do this more with more
shows. I'm like, you want to interview
me? Come to Phoenix. Yeah. Because my
kids are my most important thing in my
world. My wife, my kids, my relationship
with God. Top three things, right? God,
wife, kids in that order. And so that's
a sacrifice that I just am not willing
to make. So, I'm just saying no to a lot
more stuff. And so, but in the early
days, it's so interesting like people
think like, oh, you know, you had a
bunch of donors that wanted to give you
money. Like, yeah, that's that's not the
story actually. Um, the story was I was
going to find a lot of donors and tried
to had to scrap and hustle and get like
elementary funding because we could
barely make payroll for the first five
to six years, right? We could barely pay
the bills. This building that we're
sitting in right now was not even open
till our sixth year. Okay? We barely had
an office the first couple of years. And
so, yeah, I mean, like, you want to be
successful? You think it's easy? Okay,
I'll show you my flight logs. 200 redeye
flights. You want to go do that? 200
redeye flights where you have to go sit
and perform and give a speech and be on
and go all day and be interesting. 1,200
cable news interviews. Fox News at 3:00
in the morning. Fox News at 3:30 in the
morning. get up, get on a flight,
conference calls, remember the donor's
name, write a thank you note, show up,
report for the donor. They have
questions, they're critical, they're
skeptical. Like, fine, okay, it sounds
easy, right? And I'm not here to like
brag on it, but like there's a lot you
have to sacrifice for all this. And it's
really easy to look at Turning Point USA
cuz people think they can like recreate
it. Like, oh yeah, I can recreate. It's
fine. I mean, look, it's the Lord's
blessing and providence of all this, but
like I'm telling you, man, like there's
a hustle behind the scenes. And not just
me, it's our team, too. our team works
their tail off cuz now what's so cool is
like my like maniacally driven purpose
is now shedding off on people and like
not everyone can sustain it. They're
like this is too much for me. I'm I'm
going to go work for an insurance
company. I'm like that's fine. Like cuz
the pace here is first class. That's why
we get more done. That's why we have
more chapters. We have more donors.
That's why our budget is bigger. It's
because we're just going to keep on
growing. We're going to keep on
expanding. Um because we do not settle
for med we do not settle for mediocrity
here. Excellence is the only thing that
will settle. What do you do now to save
as much time as possible? So, I'm a huge
scheduler, big time, and and so I
schedule out days in advance. Um, and
so, and I will block out like this is
when I'm going to have conference call
time. This is when I'm going to have
this is when I'm going to train. This is
where I'm going to eat lunch. Like I I
go down to like the 15 interval,
15-inute interval. Um, and you know,
this is the time that I'm going to go
try and, you know, go see this friend.
This is the time where I'm going to go
just turn my phone off and go for a
walk. So I'm very very precise with
time. And then the biggest hack and you
guys know this nothing new. It's called
layering. You know this. So anything
you're doing try to fit two or three
things on top of it. So if I'm traveling
to go speak, listen to an audio book,
right? I mean obviously. So then all of
a sudden I'm getting two things done at
once. If I'm if I'm training or working
out, okay, I'm also going to be trying
to listen to a podcast that I need in
preparation. I take all my calls on the
treadmill. 100%. It's amazing, right? Or
like so I I try to, you know, do a I'm a
big walker. I think there's a couple
health hacks out here that are right in
front of us that nobody ever wants to
talk about, right? I'm a huge big I'm a
huge believer in sleep. Like massive
believer. I think it's totally
undervalued. I'm a major believer in
walking. I think we don't talk about
walking enough. Just walking. Not
running, not deadlifting, not cold
plunging, just walking. Okay. I'm a big
believer in fasting. I think fasting is
like untapped power. And then I just
think like not eating terribly is, you
know, not those four things, you're
actually going to be pretty relatively
healthy. Yeah. We used to come up with
our best ideas taking walks. Oh, walking
is a one two mile walk. There are
studies I think that show if you have
forward movement like if you're walking
your brain actually functions at a
higher capacity than if you're sitting
sedentary. My best ideas are when I'm
walking. My best ideas are when I'm
moving. And I go for walks with my kids.
So that's another layering, right? So I
mean you want to talk about like a
triple layering. When my my daughter was
six months old, she can't yet
communicate, but she'd want to go for a
walk and she'd fall asleep. So, I'd
listen to a podcast while getting a
walk, while spending time with my kid.
Like, that's that's the trifecta, right?
Um, and so I'm really I'm really big on
that. And and so, as far as time, you
just also have to be able to say no.
There's so much wasted time. And look,
I'm also in a very blessed position. I'm
incredibly blessed. Most people don't
have this, but a lot of entrepreneurs
do. I don't have to sit around at a desk
and do just like wait for stuff to come
to me. I constantly can set the terms of
my own schedule. Now, it comes at great
cost and great consequence, right?
Because with, you know, great freedom
comes phenomenal responsibility and
enormous responsibility in terms of your
own material success. Where is the money
coming from in terms of like
percentages? Because I know you have
like a store, you have a for-profit
merchandise company, you have your
nonprofit, you have, you know, your
YouTube channel, all of these things.
Where where is the money coming from?
very small percentage is my salary at
Turning Point USA. So Turning Point USA
is 120 Turnpoint USA turning point
Action$120 $130 million budget. My
salary there is about $300,000 a year
and I donate $350,000 back to Turning
Point USA. So it's basically a wash,
right? So it literally is a wash. And
you might say, "Well, why do you donate
it back?" Well, my wife and I, we're,
you know, we try to be charitable. We
try to give 10% of our income a year.
What better place than to give it back
to Turning Point USA, right? Why even
take a salary? Honestly, there's that's
a really good question. Number one, um
it's very important from just an IRS
standpoint. If the CEO is unpaid, it
just kind of looks very weird on the
form, but also I do believe in like
different buckets for different things.
I still think I should earn a salary for
my work here and then if I want to give
it back, then so be it. It's a
psychological thing more than anything
else. Like it comes in and then if I
want to give it back, I can give it
back. I know that might sound like
strange to people, but I get it. I'm
thinking just wasted payroll tax. No,
it's fine. It's true. I mean, all the
FICA tax money going out the window,
right? It's better to go back into the
company than not. No, the the revenue
streams uh is the show. The show is a
for-profit entity. Charlie Kirk show
podcast. As of the recording right now,
we're either number two or number three
in all of Apple News. Incredibly
blessed. Uh we stream on Rumble every
day, on X every day. We're on 250 radio
stations. um on over 400 affiliates. Um
we are on Real America's voice every
single day which is a great uh fast
channel which is also on Pluto and Roku.
It easily estimates two to three million
people a day tune into some part of the
Charlie Kirk show. We cut it up. We
socialize it. Uh and then of course we
have a beast of a YouTube channel. Uh we
do very very well on TikTok. Um and so
you kind of compile that all together.
And then of course I do speaking. I try
to write a book a year. uh which you
know I'm able to make personal money on.
Has life gotten a lot better since
becoming wealthy? Yes. I mean look the
my life has gotten a lot better since I
got married and I had kids. I will tell
you the best thing about being wealthy
is not being poor and not having to
worry about money. Like just like not
get to a place where you don't have to
worry about money. It's funny when you
get to a place where you have like
billions of dollars, you're actually
worrying about money all the time cuz
you have like lawsuits and it's like
your identity. It's I'm not joking. like
they it's kind of like a weird like
horseshoe which is like you have no
money, you worry about money all the
time and you have a ton of money, you
worry about money all the time. It's
best to be like somewhere in the middle
where you have like a lot of cash flow.
The best thing is this. I have purpose
in what I'm doing and the money is a
nice reward. Like it's not money is not
the number one driver for me. It's not
like I mean that like I have the skill
set where if I quit all of this right
now, I could probably go start a company
right now and after 10 years I could
probably sell it for like a couple
hundred million bucks. That's not I mean
that's not like an crazy thing for me to
say. The fact that we've started Turning
Point USA in action. We have $130
million years in revenue, right? I have
the Charlie Kirk show. If it was all
about getting rich, I could go start
some app and probably go be successful.
What makes me so happy is I get to
impact people's lives. I get to speak
truth. I have purpose. I get to help
save the civilization. And then I also
get to make some money while doing it.
And and that quite honestly is the most
enormous blessing. I have the greatest
job in the world. I'm the happiest
person in the world. I mean that. Now,
in terms of disclosures like this and
being so open about your your finances,
AOC recently disclosed that she has no
individual stock holdings. Tim Waltz
famously said he doesn't have any
investments. Do you think this is just
financial irresponsibility or do you
think it's a good thing that they don't
have a financial interest in maybe some
of the measures that they're putting
forward? So, I mean, I'll talk about the
Tim Wilson AOC thing. I don't know
enough about it. She's young and but
like Tim Wallace, it's very interesting.
It's like so on one hand you're like wow
he can't be bought. The other hand is
like wow you're like really bad with
money like like you're kind of old and
like you don't have any stocks. Well he
has a pension. Okay fine. But I mean
like okay I get it that he was a
football coach or whatever but I mean is
that a good example? I guess I mean I
just kind of the idea which is you're of
that age you haven't played into
compound interest. you haven't like
really tried to I mean by the way you
could have you could have blinded trusts
and you know different ways of building
wealth. I don't think you should go as
far as Nancy Pelosi and basically like
trade stocks after committee hearings. I
think that's probably a little
ambitious, right? But I actually prefer
my politicians to be successful. I know
that's a weird statement, but people
that own nothing like own nothing. It
might be like really appealing on the
surface, but then I wonder, do they know
how wealth is created? Indicative of
something deeper that could be I think
so. Again, I there's plenty of good
Republicans, I'm sure, that own nothing
and they run for office and that's
great, but generally I do want someone
that knows the here's the key. Poverty
is human norm. Go to any country around
the world, most people are in poverty.
Wealth is the exception. How do you get
wealthy is the most important like
economic issue in front of us. It's
actually a really hard issue to solve.
We know how to solve it. Markets is how
you get wealthy. That's it. Okay.
Private property, trade, rule of law,
can't steal people's stuff. We're going
to enforce those laws. It works. Decent,
virtuous society. Okay. So, we know how
to go po be poor. Not hard. I actually
want people in office that know how to
create wealth. I think that's a really
important question. And then the
opposite of that though with you know
tickers like Nc that track the trade you
should totally follow Nancy Pelosy's
trade that is grotesque. That's a
totally different thing. So how do we
crack down on that and to what degree we
should make it illegal? Josh Holly's act
is is very good. I think it's called the
stock act or something. See here's what
I think. I made this in a video years
ago when the whole Nancy Pelosi tracker
came up. I thought it would be a great
idea for just anyone in Congress to
signal their trades publicly in real
time 24 hours before they plan to make
them and that's it. And they could trade
whatever they want to. But they just
have to signal 24 hours in advance.
That's it. I have no issue with that. I
think it's great. I would go a step
further. I don't think any member of
Congress should be trading stock period
whatsoever. Individual stocks, but they
could buy ETFs. They should be sure. I
think it Yes. Fine. I think it should be
complete moratorium on individual
stocks. I I I they they know way they
know way more than they're telling you.
I think that would be impossible to
enforce because they would claim that
well I don't trade. I have a financial
adviser who's trading on my behalf in an
irrevocable trust that I don't own and
they just happen to buy all these
defense stocks before you know Iran
started bombing is
not that was coincidence. I bought all
the pharmaceutical stocks before co
Right. Exactly. I don't know the
enforcement. I just I spent a lot of
time in DC. It's a disgusting city. It's
repulsive. There's a lot more
information that these people know than
they're ever letting on and they're
getting wealthier while most Americans
don't have access to information. I
think your idea is great. The the kind
of public, you know, beacon, if you
will. We have insider trading laws for a
reason. And what these congressmen do is
like the definition of insider trades,
but the penalty is so small. Like if
they if they don't report their trades,
they have 30 days to report them. And if
they don't do that, the fee, I think, is
either 200 bucks or it's $1,000. Like,
it's it's nothing. It's it's a it's
pennies basically. It it needs to be
severe criminal penalties in my opinion.
I I'm very populist on this question
because look, most people in this
audience, they would love to know what's
going on in a skiff. They would which is
a secure compartmentalized information
facility where there's no phones.
There's a bunch of generals giving you
classified information about, I don't
know, a new Wuhan leak or a new war. or
they would love to know whether or not
an electric vehicle mandate is going to
be attached to the reconciliation bill
or not and then they're able to make
trades on that information. So, I don't
know. I'm very populist on this thing. I
think we should just put an end to all
of it. What do you think about things
like Trump's memecoin? Do you think
something like that was an overall smart
or not? Very smart. I don't know. I know
Eric really well. He's the one that's
pushing it. I mean, look, I I know the
Trump family, so I'm not going to speak
against them. They're all friends of
mine. I don't know enough about it. I
get a lot of questions about it on
college campuses. I know people that
have made money on it. Like I don't
know. Like I'll say this when it comes
to like crypto in general. I'm very
supportive of it. I know it's largely
like a Trump family endeavor.
Technically he did promote it before he
became president. I know a lot of people
kind of rolled their eyes at it. Here's
my statement and people can laugh at it.
He got shot so he's allowed to launch a
memecoin.
That's my That's my statement. So
anybody who gets shot No, I'm half it's
it's it's it's sarcasm. Look, I'm not
going to I'm not going to get into the
details of defining it. That's a
question for Eric or Don. What are your
thoughts on Bitcoin? I'm a big fan of
Bitcoin. Should the US do a Bitcoin
reserve? Absolutely. Yes. Yes. The the
United States should should have a
strategic Bitcoin reserve. And who
should pay for the Bitcoin reserve?
That's a good question. Um hope some of
the tariff money could potentially do
that. The reason why I think we should
have a strategic Bitcoin reserve. I know
you guys had Michael Sailor on your show
and I I think he's on to something.
There is something called like the mass
adoption theory which is over a period
of time like the English language US
dollar things just catch on and they're
just kind of valitional and there's no
stopping it. I think Bitcoin is that.
You got to watch out though. Quantum
computing could potentially crack
cryptography. But if they do that then
they're also cracking bank accounts
right and stock trading. Yeah. So quant
quantum is the only asterct on all this.
But I think Sailor's on to something
very profound, which is that because
Bitcoin is a scarce, legitimately scarce
resource that it's probably going to go
nowhere but up. So Sailor makes a very
provocative argument that Bitcoin could
go up 10x over the next 10 years or
something like that, which therefore if
we start a Bitcoin strategic reserve, it
could like pay for the national debt and
like basically
cover our losses on the deficit. But I
think that we should I think the United
States government should be invested in
crypto without a doubt. I tend to agree
with Michael Sailor that it's more
likely to go to a million than zero.
Yes, I think that's right. And by by the
way, so you have a problem of the
world's richest people. They don't know
where to put their money. So there's
only so many pen houses in London and
Paris that they could buy. There's only
so many ranches in Wyoming that they
could buy. And so they we have this
problem. So you create all this money,
the money goes upwards to wealth
inequality point to your earlier point.
The question is then, well, what do rich
people do with money? There's only so
many equities they can buy. There's only
so many shares in Nvidia and Apple and
Microsoft they could justify well money
needs to find a home and it's found a
home in Bitcoin and so once it has mass
adoption and the literally the
wealthiest families on the planet are
starting to park serious monies in
Bitcoin and because it's scarce it's
easy to transfer and it's just a winner
sometimes there's a mass adoption and it
just rises to the surface and I think I
think Bitcoin is that speaking of the
national debt at what point do you think
it's going to become a major problem I
think it already is I think it already
is. Do you see any solvable way that we
could address this? Cuz it seems as
though if Trump's big, beautiful bill
passes, it's just going to get two
trillion higher. Yeah. So that's over 10
years. So I do find issue with some of
those estimates. I don't want to get too
deep into that. That's kind of a wonky.
We'll lose the audience on CBO
estimates, um, Congressional Budget
Office estimates, right? I think we need
to cut a lot more spending. I wish more
Republicans wanted to agree. I know
Donald Trump agrees. He's just very
frustrated with some of the Republicans
on Capitol Hill that don't want to cut
it. So, here's the worst thing we could
do, though. The worst thing we could do
out of all this the options is not grow.
So, the worst of all the options is not
grow. So, when you have a big debt,
that's bad. Not growing with a big debt
is catastrophic. Growing with a big debt
is somewhat manageable.
Growing with cutting your debt is
awesome. That that would be the best
possible scenario. So the calculus is
okay, we have a big debt. Let's at least
try to have the debt outpace two things.
The rate of the increase of the debt to
GDP ratio and the rate of inflation. If
GDP can grow faster than inflation and
grow faster than the rate of the the
debt to GDP ratio, then we're in a
manageable place. So that's what the
premise of a lot of these tax cuts of
the bill is, right? No tax on tips, no
tax on overtime, right? the
depreciation, the extension of the Trump
tax cuts, all of which I support because
you need a progrowth agenda because when
you're a deter nation and you have no
growth, then you're going to be in a
really bad spot. What happened to Doge?
It just seemed like I think it's done. I
think but first of all, I think Elon did
a lot of good work. I really did. First
of all, I think Elon's greatest
contribution was a philosophical one. I
think Elon made us all realize how much
waste there is and how much we really
need to kind of get into the details of
how much the government is inefficient
from a technological standpoint, from a
efficiency standpoint. So, I don't think
it's over by any means. I think Doge is
a cultural mindset that is going to be
in hopefully around the Republican party
for years to come. It just seemed like
Congress didn't really have that big of
an incentive to do anything about it.
What was most surprising, Elon said that
he just wanted people to code and write
in a description of where the money went
because right now you could basically
just leave it blank, send money, and not
write what the purpose of the money is
for. And he just said just put something
in there. And he said he was up against
just a wall that they didn't even
mandate that. It's a very complicated.
So yeah, that that's right. And so there
is just common sense to just type type
what it's for. There is so much waste in
the federal government and my hope is
that we can start to rein it in in the
next, you know, couple of months and
couple of years. It's a beast though,
guys. I mean, this is a it is a wild
monster that is hard to re in. And I
know that sounds like cope and an
excuse, but you have an entrenched
permanent bureaucracy of millions of
people. And then you have judges that
are preventing literally the Trump
administration from doing some of this
stuff. You have federal judges that are
coming in and preventing, you know,
President Donald Trump from being like,
"Nope, I want to lay off these workers.
Nope, I want to cut this aid. Nope, I
want to cut this, which of course is
unconstitutional. So yes, I mean like it
would be nice. Here is the goal. The
goal would be we need to blockchain the
entire federal government. Put the
entire federal government on blockchain.
Then number two, every dime of federal
spending online in real time. We should
know what everybody is spending in real
time. No different than a transparent
federal database. Could that be a
national security risk in any way? There
are certain things you could blackbox
for sure, but like I think that people
deserve to know on a day-by-day,
month-by-month basis. Like what is the
Department of Interior spending? Like
are they going what is the Department of
the Veterans Affairs spending money on?
We should know. Like are they buying $50
hammers? Like are they buying $200
bandages? Like is I think we It's our
money. We This is the whole problem I
have with this whole thing. This is our
money. It is you watching money. We are
the ones that earn the money. It is not
the government's money. They We are the
sovereign. We create the government. We
earn the money and then the government
extracts from us with our consent.
Right? Because we vote, we have
elections, whatever. So, we have a right
to know where that money goes. It
doesn't magically become the
government's money. I guess part of the
the problem is that there's no penalty
for overspending. It's like a credit
card. The limit just keeps getting
higher and higher and higher. So, why is
that? No, it's it's actually even worse
than that. There's there's an incentive
to keep spending more. In fact, the
incentive in Washington DC is that you
have one wing that wants to spend money
on more war, which is the Republican
party wararmongering caucus, which I'm
at war with. And then you have a whole
another thing, which is the welfare
caucus. So you have the warfare welfare
caucuses. So the warfare guys want to go
invade the world. The welfare caucus
wants to go put the entire world on
welfare. What can they both agree on?
We'll authorize your warfare if you
authorize our war welfare. We all spend
more money and we get our pet projects
done. And then we're going to go invade
the world. And they're like, "Oh." So
the war the welfare people say, "Don't
invade the world, but if you invade the
world, can we invite the world?" So they
say, "It's okay if you go invade the
country, but then we can have a couple
million more people into the country."
And then the warfare people are like,
"Ah, we don't like that. We'll do that
for the welfare people, but then we got
to put them on welfare. And literally,
this is the uni party bipartisan
agreement last 30 years. Every major
public policy budgetary debate comes
down to an agreement between the warfare
and the welfare wing of the two parties.
No, there's no there's no way to
first of all, I would not no I I that's
Yes, that's very The way you described
it, I agree with you completely, but
that the reason I say no no is that I am
not a cynic. I'm like a super optimist.
I've never been more optimistic on the
country. Let me tell you why. I saw
insane dumerism like a year ago. They're
never going to let Trump win. They're
going to try to take him out. And like I
saw doomerism die. And so I think what
Trump's one of his greatest
contributions is he's really pushed the
art of the possible. Like actually no,
you can do dramatic things. You can
change stuff. But yes, to your answer,
it's going to be very big. It it is
climbing a major mountain. Massive. Do
you worry about the US dollar? Of
course. Absolutely. And what do you
think is the most likely outcome?
Because I I would like to think
positively, but at the same time, I
think realistically, it's just going to
be one of my friends and heroes, Tony
Robbins, would say, I don't tell you to
go to your garden and say there's no
weeds, there's no weeds, there's no
weeds. I tell you to spot the weeds and
pull them out. So, I'm not like
delusional. I'm an optimist. I try to
find the best case story of how things
can be told, then have us have human
agency and action to actually do it. So
with the US dollar, look, the US dollar
as the world reserve currency has gone
down dramatically in the last 20 years.
President Donald Trump is focused on
breaking up bricks. So bricks is Brazil,
Russia, India, China, and South Africa.
South Africa is the DEI pick. Why South
Africa is considered to be some sort of
world that's a that's a joke for the
record. Some sort of like world currency
power. It's like a freaking joke. Okay.
All right. India. Easy to peel away. We
already have great relations India. JD
Vance did a state visit to India that
was very not very reported. Donald
Trump, by the way, he stopped the
IndiaPakistan war. He deserves huge
credit for that. That thing was like
simmering up and was going to be
incredible and big. And so then Brazil,
Brazil's a disaster. Lula is a complete
Marxist and communist. Bolsinaro should
still be prime minister. So then you
have Russia and China. That's a So
Brazil, Russia, China. The best case
telling is we can end this Russian
Ukrainian war and hopefully try to
create a little bit of separation and
daylight between the ever growing
marriage of Russia and China which is
bad for America. It's bad for the West.
It's bad for the world. And so we should
want the US dollar to remain the world
reserves currency status. It is
imperative. Our I think reckless
involvement in the United States with
the Russian Ukrainian war has only led
to ddollarization. We took Russia out of
the swift banking system. Basically, we
took their dollars out of their bank
accounts. We confiscated their dollars.
What does that do to every other nation
that uses dollars as the world world
reserve currency status? We're no longer
a safe haven. We never should have done
that, guys. Regardless of how bad Putin
is for invading Ukraine and all that
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three issues that if they could be
immediately addressed and fixed, we
would be leagues leagues better off? I'm
going to give you uh probably some
unexpected answers. I have some answers
here. Let's see if you can answer what I
have here. Okay. Okay. So the question
is cataclysmic actual like like what you
would say are the biggest issues facing
America right now and if you could
provide three answers. Yeah. So uh
number one is the fertility crisis. Oh
interesting. Yeah. We're having less
children than ever before. We're mating
less. It's a major problem. We're we're
on the verge of a population collapse.
It's a huge issue. No one wants to talk
about it. Everyone's like, "Oh, I'm
single with and 32 without kids." Like
no, you have a moral obligation to get
married and have kids actually. And if
you don't, that's fine. If you don't
want to, you have to make the case that
what you're doing is more important. And
there is a case for that. Like if you're
a Catholic father, like a priest, I'm
not Catholic. Okay, you're actually
helping society. You're doing something.
But I I come from a worldview that you
have a moral obligation to help society
and to help people through something
that you do. It's not just all about
yourself and pursuing your own
self-interest. I the death the death of
modernity. I think part of it is getting
married and having children. I'm a very
traditionalist in that way. So that's
number one. Um other cataclysmic things.
Um, we are incredibly sick in this
country. And this is why I love Bobby
Kennedy. Like, I'm a huge Bobby Kennedy
fan. We're a fat country. We're a sick
country. We're an obese country. We're a
depressed country. We're a poisoned
country. We are not physically fit to
fight a war, let alone be able to stand
up and even go for a walk for two two
miles.
We are a fat country and it's a major
problem. And so I actually think that
physiology is directly related with how
you act and how you feel. I got that
again from Tony Robbins. Um and so if
all of a sudden you're kind of this like
oate obese sad country, of course you're
going to kind of just fall apart and
you're going to collapse. The last one
is the most provocative of the three. Uh
is that we have a major issue of this
country that we become a nation of
foreigners and we're we're strangers in
our own country. Um, we have not
assimilated the third world well into
our country. We have 20 million illegals
that I believe invaded the country under
Joe Biden. Um, and so you kind of I I
could go to 456 if you want me to, but
we're we are increasingly not a nation
or a country. We look more like a colony
where no one talks to their neighbor and
we have to lock our doors at night.
We're like a high our cities are all
super high crime. So people say,
"Charlie, what does success look like?"
I get asked all the time. Very easy. I
want fertility rates to go up. I want
church attendance to go up. I want
people to be less fat. And I want to be
able to not have to lock my doors at
night. I want to be able to talk to my
neighbors and really have a connective
bond with them. My final one, I want to
feel safe that my daughter can walk the
streets of LA unaccompanied at night.
That's it. Can you walk LA at night? She
can walk Tokyo at night. Why can't you
walk New York at night or LA or San
Francisco or Denver? We are a failed
country. What did Newsome say to that? I
loved your debate with him. Thank you.
Yeah, it was something. Why did he agree
to do that? It's It seems so like weird.
It was maximally entertaining. Yeah. Uh
it did very very well. It got millions
and millions of views. And so I don't
really know what his incentive was to be
honest. I think he wants to be president
obviously, but he just So to the left he
looked weak and to the right he looked
fraudulent. And so who did he win over
exactly? Cuz the right's not going to
believe him. We I can't stand him for
obvious reasons. And to the left,
they're like, "Look at this weak guy
who's trying to find common ground with,
you know, Charlie Kirk, who they think
I'm terrible." So, but to his credit, I
mean, there were no gotchas. But, I
mean, look, I I'll kind of go back to
the point I say like, it's a failure of
governance if you cannot walk your
greatest cities at night. That's my
politics. I know that sounds like I
don't care if it's Republican or
Democrat. I want to be able to walk
America's greatest cities at night. The
five greatest cities in America are New
York, Chicago, San Francisco, LA, and
what's you maybe Miami. Okay, it's fine.
Whatever. Um, and people in Dallas are
going to like email us. Sorry, Dallas is
not one of America's Dallas is fine, but
it's not one of America's greatest
cities, right? Um, and no, Seattle's
not. But Seattle used to be one of
America's like most interesting cities,
but you should be able to walk your
major cities at night. This is insane.
You go to Soul, South Korea. Amazing.
You can eat off the streets. You go to
Tokyo. Go to Singapore. This is a
choice. We are deciding to have our
cities dangerous and we shouldn't put up
with it. I think it's really just being
tough on crime and people know they
could get away with it and they know
we're choosing to be soft on crime
though. We're choosing that it's a
choice. Yeah. What was the biggest
takeaway from Newsome? His backpedaling
on the transports issue was fascinating
to me. I did not expect that where all
of a sudden he kind of agreed with me
and then you know went super viral where
he was saying that of course it's deeply
unfair for men to compete in female
sports. Like what kind of insane stuff
is this? Right. Yeah. I think I would
say that was probably one of the biggest
takeaways. Yeah. Have you kept in touch
with him since then? I've texted him a
couple times. Does he get back to you?
He does. Yeah. Uh my biggest text with
him was being like, "Hey, you said that
it was no big, you know, you were is
unfair for trans athletes to win state
championships. Why are you not doing
anything about it?" Because a man just
won the girls championship in the state
of California. So, you were still poking
the bear. Poking the bear. But I was
just calling him out. And by the way, I
wasn't even publicizing it. Now it's I'm
finally having to publicize it. I was
like, "Why are you not doing like And by
the way, during this whole Trump Newsome
feud, I've just, you know, I was like,
"Fine. And this is the guy's a total
he's a catastrophic fail. Does he ever
reach out to you for help? No. And I
wouldn't I would I wouldn't give him
help. You wouldn't? No. Why? He's a
Democrat. But what if he wanted your
insights in terms of policy and you
could somehow eek him a little policy?
Yes. No. No. For sure. Yes. That's
right. If he's asking like how to better
govern and help people without a doubt,
yes. If he's asking me like how to get
political power, I will not help. What's
your advice to him in terms of turning
around the state of California? He would
argue the state's doing fantastic.
They're doing great revenue. Great. We
left California in 2020. Unfortunately,
the issues just got so bad with homeless
crime. The taxes were out of this world.
They just raised the sales tax in the
city of Santa Monica. Which is a tax on
guys like you. It's really It was really
bad. It got to a point where Vegas was
so welcoming. I I made a video
announcing that I was moving to Las
Vegas and someone from like the business
administration within the city of Vegas
found my email and sent me like, "Hey,
we're really happy to have you. if
there's anything we could do. Like they
were happy to get the business. We love
it there. So since Gavin Newsome has
like no core beliefs, he's just like a
slippery
politician that wants to be in power.
He's literally somebody that could pass
a lie detector test easily. Like he this
guy has no guiding principles at all.
Just leave the Democrat party. That's my
advice to him. If you really want to
like be an elected office that bad, just
leave the Democrat party and just go run
as like a moderate Republican and just
have some sort of like conversion story
like, "Oh yeah, I'm some sort of
progressive." Like you just want
political power. You you you have no
guiding beliefs at all whatsoever.
You'll say whatever it takes whenever
you want. You're captured by your left
flank. But he won't do that. But and
finally, like I don't know. I mean, I
would say that more practically.
Don't be afraid, Gavin, to like go lock
up a bunch of criminals and make your
state better. I just The whole premise
of California is so sad. Every time I
love California, I love California.
Every time I land in California, I say
the same thing to my team. It is a shame
that they messed up heaven on earth. It
is without the most It's the most
beautiful place in the world, right? I
mean, Orange County, can you think of a
better microclimate than that? The the
the the mornings are just like gifts
from God. You do have pockets. Orange
County has gotten gorgeous. It's it's
like Santa Barbara, too. You have
certain cities 61 degrees in the
morning. It's just like you just can
like anything is possible. This kind of
got this miss. But I think they're
sending all the the people to LA. It
seems like LA is kind of like the
stomping grounds for a lot of the issues
and then other cities are actually
getting better. Yeah, I hope so. I think
Orange County has some real um some
bright spots, but generally look, LA is
the beast of California, right? And LA
is just a dump. It is just disgusting.
And it's too bad I say that never used
to be that way. LA used to be a really
interesting city 30 to 40 years ago.
Yes, it had crime, but a better example
of a city that has fallen apart is the
city that he was the mayor of, San
Francisco. When I was a kid, I could
walk the streets of San Francisco. It
was gorgeous. It was fun. It was unique.
It was interesting. It was artistic. was
boundary pushing, but it was safe. You
would, again, Gavin Newsome, if you're
listening to this, would you let your
son walk the streets of San Francisco
unaccompanied at 1:00 a.m.? No, you
wouldn't. Of course not. You're a
failure. If you if your own kids can't
walk your city at night, then what have
you done? I don't want to hear about
like how you oversaw gay weddings or
whatever stupid thing that you're
talking about. Or, oh yeah, we're taking
you to Wreckit Revenues. Sorry, your son
can't walk the streets of the city that
you were in charge of. You're a
disgrace. Like don't don't lecture me
about like how you're some sort of
progressive beacon. How much of that do
you think is Gavin Newsome's fault
versus other people's fault? He was the
mayor of the city. I put a lot of fault
on mayors. I think mayors have a lot of
power and I know this because of New
York. Look at Bloomberg and Giuliani and
how well they did in New York versus
Delasio. New York crime went up. It got
dirtier. Homelessness went up. Like
mayors are actually some of the most
powerful people in the country that we
don't spend enough time or attention on.
The police are responsive to the mayor.
The building codes responsible to the
mayor. The homeless like mayors are very
very powerful. So he was mayor of San
Francisco. Then he ran for lieutenant
governor and then he ran for governor.
And he was mayor of San Francisco like
during the collapse of San Francisco
while it started to go down when all
this progressive woke stuff started to
pop up. Now you get a lot of people just
on the street and you have a good pulse
of what's really going on with younger
people. What's something that you've
noticed that mainstream media either
gets wrong or it's just out of touch on?
I would say that something that
mainstream media really misses
with young men especially is they desire
to be more religious than I think they
give them credit for. There is a return
to religion. You're seeing a little bit
of these news reports, but there is
definitely a curiosity for God and for
going back to the church in a very
serious and significant way. What's
causing that? Well, modernity is a
failure. I mean, modernity has given us
a lot of great stuff, right? I mean,
praise God that we have modern medicine
and surgery and that we have
antibiotics. Like, these are all amazing
things, right? No one debates that. But
modernity has like the core of modernity
is what you are in charge of your own
life and you could do whatever you want
to do and you're the center of the
universe. Sounds good. leads to highest
depression ever, highest rates, highest
anxiety, and hopelessness. In Victor
Frankle's amazing book, Man's Search for
Meaning, he said that outside of food
and water, the greatest need for man is
meaning. And so, we see modernity
constantly changing around us at all
times. Things are changing. People are
changing their genders. There's constant
change. And I think young people want to
go to a church environment that isn't
changing. They want to go to a place
that is stable, that is consistent, that
is beautiful, that is ancient, that is
everlasting, and that is eternal. What
would you say is the biggest non-issue
that people make out to be a massive
issue? You already spoke about the issue
that that you think is extremely
important that people don't really talk
about, which is the birth rates. What
about the I mean, by the way, the birth
rate's so big. I mean, the fact that no
one wants to talk about it, it's just
not really discussed. Yeah. So, okay,
great. So I would say this is not it's
not a surprise what I would say racism.
It's like the most ridiculous. I mean we
are the least racist country ever to
exist in the history of the world. I
don't like racist. You don't like
racist. I don't like running into them.
I have no tolerance for it. I would put
it as like issue number 22,800 on a
issues of like what's pressing facing
America. How about the fact that our
public schools can't educate our kids
and we can't find a single kid that can
read at grade level in Maryland or
Chicago? probably a bigger deal than
racism. How about the fact that in this
country that we have an average family
cannot afford to go buy groceries in
major cities. They have to go into debt.
Like these are much major problems.
Young people can't buy homes. Like the
dollar is being deteriorated. We have
110,000 drug overdoses every year.
That's a much bigger problem than
racism. Like woo. And like we have like
entire social and cultural institutions
that are trying to propagandize us that
racism is like the biggest problem. I'm
sorry it's not. In fact, I would argue
that not only is it not a problem, it's
a massive psychological operation
against us to not actually talk about
the major economic and cultural and
political forces that should be
addressed in this country. And what do
you think makes someone conservative or
liberal in the first place? Do you think
it's nature or nurture? It's both
obviously. Again, I actually the older I
get, I do give a little bit more I give
a little bit more weight to community
than I did probably 10 years ago, just
because I see how much my daughter and
my son absorb around me and my my wife.
So, I get kind of how you're a product
of your environment, but it's not you're
not solely a product of your
environment. You're not. You have
agency. You have decision. You have free
will. You could break break free of your
environment. You're not only your
environment. That's very important.
You're not only your upbringing. So,
concern, it's just a worldview
difference. So left-wingers
generally
look at things through a prism of what
they look at a prism of oppressor
oppressed. Whereas we look at prisms of
things versus just and unjust, right and
wrong, um and good and evil and moral
and immoral. where they look at things
as more as like who's in power and who
is not in power, which group wants
sympathy, deserves sympathy, and what
other group deserves sympathy. But look,
we know that people that tend to be
liberal tend to have temperament that is
far more on kind of the o openness and
acceptance of, you know, how people are
and how they act. We're conservatives,
we tend to be much more order and
discipline and um let's just say um
structure driven. A great example of
this is crime. So we as conservatives
see someone that commits a crime and we
don't think they're necessarily a
product of their environment. We say you
shouldn't have committed that crime.
You're being an idiot. You're going to
jail. Whereas liberals like well we must
have sympathy for them because the
schools are broken and of course there
is some truth to that. You still decided
to commit the crime. It's an insult to
every other person that's not committing
a crime that comes out of that
environment to act as if that that
person should be given an exception. As
someone who works very closely with
young voters, do you think that we
should change the rights for who can
vote? Should we increase the age? Should
we apply a civics test to it? I mean,
probably not. I'll say this, like we won
the youth vote this last cycle, and it's
funny like we in certain states, not
across the country. And it's just an
amazing thing that you can actually win
the youth vote and you could do it with
mass verality and mass popularity and
reaching out in ways that people would
never have imagined. And so, no, I
probably wouldn't put money any more
restrictions on it. You mentioned
earlier in this podcast that one of the
biggest sacrifices that you have to make
is running this massive business at the
same time as trying to be the leader in
a family. Yes. I'm curious. What do you
think is the biggest issue with modern
dating? As a single guy, I would love
some advice. You know, Graham, he got
married a year or so ago.
Congratulations. So, he's looking to
start a family. Have as many kids as you
can afford. Have two have have more than
you can afford. That's what I should
say. I'll stick with What is What is
wrong with modern dating? Yeah. The
biggest problem with modern dating is
very interesting. We had a women's
summit. The young ladies all raised
their hands. They're like, "How many of
you are unhappy with the dating pool?"
Every woman raises their hand. I'm like,
funny, all the young men I talked to
unhappy with you, too. So, who's wrong?
Those seem like kind of select groups of
people, though, you know, like if you're
asking women that are attending a
woman's summit, they might be in a very
specific situation. Yeah. I mean, like I
would say generally I hear more
complaints about the dating pool than,
you know, like, wow, there's so many
options. Maybe you're right. I don't
know. Maybe. I think it's a it's more of
an options issue is that you could go
online and just if you if if you don't
like someone instead of working through
it, it's just you you go back and you
start swiping again. So there's so let
me what's the problem with women and
then I'll go to the problem with men.
The problem with women is that many of
them a have unrealistic expectations of
the man that they want. A lot of them
and I deal with this all the time. I
want a guy that's earning a million
dollars a year and he's 6'4 and I want
him to have a, you know, a perfect jaw
and I'm like, "Yeah, that's never going
to happen." How about, by the way,
nowhere on your list is like, "I want
someone who will be a good father or
someone with good character." So, that's
like really disgusting actually that you
just want someone that's like super rich
and looks good. Like, why don't you want
someone that's going to be loyal to you,
not cheat on you? Like, oh yeah, I want
that too. Oh, okay. Got it. So basically
you want like Ken Barbie doll and then
you'll have like all the good virtues.
Notice they don't they don't lead with
the virtue and a lot of things lead to
that. But number two is women need to be
very clear that we need to tell women
more clearly that if you do not have
children before the age of 30, there's
only a 50% chance that you will have
children. That's a fact. It's a fact.
You can fact check me on that. Yeah.
Isn't that though that women are
becoming very intentional about whether
or not they want to have kids and just
it's it's more socially acceptable. We
should say miserable because of it
though. I mean it's not just mind you go
fact check me put the numbers up. The
most depressed people in America are
women without children. They're the most
likely to be on anti-depressants.
They're the most likely to be anxious.
Again people that experience severe
depression are people people that say
they are very unhappy are people young
single women in their early 30s without
children. Who are the happiest women in
America? married women with children. I
think there's a and by the way, of
course they have the agency to do that.
I'm not trying to like make a law like
you must get married and have kids, but
I think that we've gone wrong here that
women should prioritize family and
children way above career, that they
should try to find their husband before
they're 25, that they should try to get
married way younger. This problem, but
then that also goes back to just
finances of you can't quite have a
husband going out making a salary to
have a stay at home. I completely agree
with that. That's the best argument.
It's not a winner argument, but it's the
best argument because at some point you
go to like subsaharan Africa, they have
like eight kids and they live in like a
dirt hut. You can figure it out. Having
children, I believe, is a blessing of
the Lord. It's the most amazing thing.
We should try, you should try to have as
many children as you can. Much more
important than traveling to Thailand or
having a big apartment or a bunch of
cats. Okay? Having children are a gift
from the Lord. So, but as far as like
the dating pool problem, so young
ladies, they need to be very clear about
what they're expecting in a man and date
with the intent to marry and not just
date to, you know, have a good time. And
quite honestly, both need to do this,
but young women need to do a much better
job of saving themselves for marriage.
They need to be they they need to
prioritize purity again. Young men need
to, too. But if young women do it, then
young men will. So, if that's what the
women need to do in order to make
themselves worthy of dating, what do you
think is the main thing men need to do
to make themselves worthy? The most
attractive quality in a young man that
young women can't ever articulate is
self-control. So, how does this look in
application? A woman needs to be able to
know that you can control your impulses
when things get really crazy. They can't
articulate it, but that's what they
want. So, for example, they want to be
able when you go on a date, can you
control your mouth? Can you control your
tongue? Can you control your eye? Are
you going to cheat on her? Are you going
to have a wandering eye? Are you going
to get drunk every night? Are you going
to kind of go into like a drug, you
know, abyss? Women can't always put that
into words. But that differentiates a
boy from a man. A boy is someone that
has no self control. I would argue it's
confidence and ambition. And if you have
those qualities, I think everything else
falls into place because you have to
have self-control if you're going to be
ambitious. Sure. To have a north star. I
totally agree. Confidence is true. Look,
again, it's just if you look at it
though, you can be very confident,
ambitious, but you could also then cheat
on your wife like 10 years later, right?
So, you have to be able to control your
flesh. We have we as men have very
different problems than women, right?
Different temptations. As men, we have
problems controlling our flesh. That's
why adultery is literally in the ten
commandments. You had to command an
entire people not to cheat on their
wives. It was easy. God would not have
to command us not to do it. And so when
women are when men are dating, if you
want to make yourself more attractive to
a woman, first of all, like demonstrate
self-control. And also, women want to be
able they want to be taken care of. I
know this is like super provocative, but
like deep down, they want a man to be
able to provide for them financially.
Should a man pay on the first date?
100%. Like what kind of a whoo beta male
is splitting the check? But like, who
are you? Do you agree with me with
Listen, with Macy, I paid for the check
on the first. Yeah, on the first It's
like I'm just sorry. It's so I would go
debt and like pay like scrub dishes
before a woman paid for it wasn't Yeah.
Let's see. Let's see. What is this? So,
didn't you go on a date like years ago,
like a decade ago, with this woman whose
mom gave you $20 to take her to the
movie theater? Yes. Yeah. I made money
on that date, actually. Oh, so there's a
good financial Explain how you made
money on a date. That sounds different,
though. That's not what we're talking
about, though. Yeah. Yeah. Her mom gave
her And by the way, this was in high
school. Okay. So, this is this is that's
not what we're talking about here. We're
talking about like 24 years old, like
serious dating, right? I split the check
quite a lot. So, I I'm sorry. I I don't
mean to offend you. You guys are great.
I That's incomprehensible to me. I think
that's to me. I thought it was a great
financial decision. I'm just saying.
Okay. So, from your prism, I totally get
that. And like you have really good
financial discipline. I'm sorry. Like I
I I would be so humiliated if I I mean I
find that to be like the greatest beta
male like humiliation to save money to
no to like the idea that a woman that
you're trying to court now if it's like
a friend as a first date you don't even
know if she quality does not matter. I'm
sorry. I see. By the way that money you
save is not worth the honor that you
compromise. It is such a big deal. It's
a it's a massive deal. I'm not trying to
get into I don't know. But here's the
thing. No, in in fairness for your point
with Macy, I paid for the whole first
date. Why did you do that one though? I
think I was at that point I was at a
level where like that felt like the
right choice to make. But throughout my
early 20s, was it because you felt more
serious with her or I was also in a
point where I was ready to be able to
like financially? Yes, legit. I get
that. Early 20s like saving five bucks
here and there. I would do it. I would.
So you're you're manic with saving
money. Oh yeah, we have Blake on my team
is like you. I Yeah. No, he he goes and
he'll eat uh like the the the snacks for
lunch to save money here at funny. I
brought food from home. No, no, that's
by the way. And coffee from home.
Frugality is a virtue. I But so we we as
Christians believe that there is an
order of virtues and above frugality is
honor. And so we as men must lead. We
must provide. Under no circumstance ever
should a man ever let a woman pay for a
date or you should ever no circumstance
even on the third, fourth, fifth. What
if it's just not for anything? Okay.
Well, let me period. Well, let me Okay,
so what world are we living in? Well,
hold on a second. I agree with you. If
I'm dating a girl, I would pay for
everything. Everything? Yeah.
Everything. However, I could see for
other people that might be in a
different financial position. You know,
you pay for 10 dates and then she's
like, "You know what? I want to treat
you." Well, that's that's totally
different. No, no, what we're the what
we're talking about is like, oh, we're
going to alternate. Like, well, let's
serious and she wants to take you out to
something for a nice dinner. And you
might, by the way, if you have the
intent to marry, you're already like
kind of blending finances. Like, I get
that psychologically, but like if you're
like, oh, we'll take turns like, oh, we,
you know, you pay this time, I pay this
time. What's your advice to a girl who's
who the guy she's currently seeing, he
says that, oh, do not marry that man.
But here's the thing. I feel like they
should always break it off. Offer crazy.
But they should offer. They should pull
out the credit card. The woman, of
course not. Just just to offer. No, it's
a it's a nice gesture. No. By the way,
no. No. This is this is this is
feminism. Feminism is that you have to
be this like self-independent. This is
not a nice gesture. It's you trying to
be like egalitarian. No. You as woman
should want to be provided for. In fact,
you should have an expectation that you
as a woman are so important and so
critical and so necessary and beautiful
that it shouldn't even be a question
that if you're in a date now, if it's a
business lunch or like friend-zone
stuff, 50/50. We're not talking about
that, right? Like it's all of a sudden
you're like, "Hey, I want to buy
insurance or like you know, you're going
to, you know, I want to go do business."
It's totally different. I still think
the man should pay, but that's that. But
see, to me, when I was dating, it would
be a huge turnoff if the check comes and
she just looks at it and then looks at
me and looks at the check. I totally
disagree. I at least I at least want to
see like I'm reaching for something and
I'm like, I want I want a woman that
wants to be led by a man. I don't want a
woman that's all of a sudden going to be
competing financially in a marriage. I
don't want a woman that's going to be
like, oh, you know, questioning
financial decisions or a woman that's
going to be like all of a sudden Jeff.
No, the man is the leader of the
household. The man is the leader of all
the financial decisions. The man is the
is the primary should be the primary
provider. Again, there's exception to
this. That's, "Oh, Charlie, you're so
sexist. Sorry. It worked for 2,000 years
for 5,000 years and it should work
again." And by the way, what we're doing
right now is not working. Let me just
repeat again. This is not working. And
I'm not trying to like bash you. Like,
this is fun. It's in really good. I love
the banter. No, it's great. But like
this idea if if a woman on a date were
to pull out a credit card to go pay for
something like I would be I would be
like, "Oh, so you're like one of those
boss babes." No, that's that's not what
that's saying. That is No, that is
completely catastrophic. I I think No, I
think if if if I'm on a date and she
reaches for it, like I just think, oh,
that's really nice. You're trying to be
kind here. You're trying to alleviate
what you perceive to be a financial
burden on me and generous
interpretation. And so so but obviously
something to the table women are not
bringing money to the table that they're
bringing something else. It's a nice
gesture. I I agree with Graham. I think
it's a nice gesture. However, I agree
with you. I think the guy should pay. I
I think I think the woman going into
that should have an expectation that the
man takes care of. But should should she
be grateful if the guy takes 100%. Oh,
okay. Cuz it should be immense
gratitude. No, no, no. The woman should
be You know what she should say? She's
like, "Thank you so much for doing that
and not having to put this unnecessary
pressure on me because you have just
you've just freed me. That's what women
want, by the way. Freed me to run for
like like what number two. Do you know
how many women are secretly miserable
that they have to be as financially
successful as men? A lot. Like a lot. It
drives them insane. Deep down. A lot of
women want to be mothers. They want to
be wives. I I tend to agree with that.
Yeah. Not every woman, by the way. If
you want to if you But if you want to go
be a boss, babe, go do that. Like it's a
free society. There's a lot of great
people that do that. But generally, we
have overcorrected. Okay? We have a lot
of women that deep down want to go be
moms and they would love to have their
man come in and just grab the check, be
like, "No, I got it." And by the way,
you know what they see of that as a
signal? It's going to be okay. When the
bullets start firing and there's chaos
and things start falling apart, this man
is going to protect the family. Boom.
Throw it on the table. Wallet on the No,
even better than paying 26% interest on
that. It's got to be even more alpha.
You go to the You go to the waiter
before the meal and you just give them
the credit card. It's not even a
conversation. It's paid for. It's done.
Like you don't even allow it to be a
thing that is introduced there. I would
agree with that. I I actually I agree
with that. Alpha is like you go straight
up where you are like smooth move and
the the girl is so stunned and she'll be
like, "Oh, don't we have to be like,
"No, I got it. It's done." Boom. Are you
kid? From a woman's perspective, they'll
be like, "That's the most attractive
thing ever." I would love to hear some
women's perspective in the comments. I
think they're going to be agreeing with
you for the most part. By the way, if
they if they disagree, it's fine, but
like you'll end up with, by the way,
some women want to marry weak men
because they are the boss. What other
tips do you have like that? Like that
was a good suggestion. Oh, I have a lot
of tips. Um, so for marriage or for
dating, I have both. Let's start with
dating and then move our way to
marriage. So, in dating, look, I I don't
I do not think you should have sex
before marriage. I know I know that's a
provocative take. I think sex is holy. I
don't And by the way, it's not just a
religious take. I actually think that if
you introduce sex into dating, then all
of a sudden there's kind of like a
dilution of what exactly will be the
ultimate physical crescendo of marriage.
You can actually make a rational,
reasonable, non-religious argument for
that. Anyway, that's like a whole other
topic that we could discuss another
time, but I will defend that. I actually
think bring back purity, bring back
saving yourself for marriage. Okay. But
other top other things is this. You
should go on a road trip with the person
you're dating. It's very important. So,
you should find uncomfortable, high
pressure travel situations. That's not
just like flying first class to Aruba.
And you should try to be in places of
discomfort intentionally with who you
are dating. And you'll find out a lot
with that person. Number three, this is
going to sound incredibly sexist. I
don't care. If it is a woman that you
want to get married to and she says that
she wants to be a traditional wife, see
if she's actually up to it. Have say,
"Okay, uh, treat me. But cook me a meal.
I'm not kidding. No, I think that's No,
no, no. Honestly, like she says she
wants to be a traditional wife. Like,
and by the way, be like, "Does she enjoy
it?" This is important though. Like, and
then ask her. No, I'm not even just, "Is
she a good cook?" Be like, "Did you
enjoy doing that?" Like, "Was" and she
like, "Oh, I loved it. I loved getting
the ingredients. I loved looking at the
cookbook. I love the recipe. I love
thinking about you when I was cooking
the food." You're like, "Okay, this is
going to be awesome." Right? Or
otherwise, she's like, "It was a
disaster. Was this like, okay, well then
we might have a little bit, you know?"
And by the way, I'm not saying that
every wife has to cook every meal for
her husband, but honestly, a lot of
women out there want to do that. A lot
of women want to provide for their man
in that way. They want to run the house.
They want to shepherd the kids. Um,
going into marriage though, um, I'm a
big believer in premarital counseling. I
think that there are several questions
that are not answered when most people
go into marriage that should be
answered. And I might freak you out with
this cuz I don't know if you No, we we
did this. I looked at every divorce
statistic and we did everything we could
to lessen the chances of a divorce. So,
yeah, money is number one, right? Who's
going to handle the finances? Here's one
that you might not have done that you
should do while you're still in the
honeymoon phase. Um, are you going to
have an open or closed house? I don't
even know what that means. See, it's
big. So, were you raised in a house
where a lot of friends came over all the
time, or were you raised in a house
where almost no friends came over? A
normal amount. It wasn't yet, you know,
open or closed. It was, you know, maybe
like once a week we'd have like a
something like that. Do you know what
what kind of house your wife was raised
in? Probably about the same. Okay. It's
an important question cuz I was raised
in a very closed house, right? I know
people that are raised in open houses
and it's destroyed their marriages. You
know the type where they're always
having people over. Yeah, that was my
family. Yeah. Okay. So, you get that.
Yeah. Imagine if you were to marry a
closed house person and all of a sudden
you were like, "Hey, we're going to
constantly have a stream of people and
you don't talk about that before
marriage." All of a sudden you're like,
it's total chaos for a closed house
person because they're raised in a place
where not evenings are very quiet. Make
sure, this is another important um make
sure that you get along with each other,
that you really like each other, not
just love each other, that you like
spending time with that person. One of
my favorite words in the English
language is like. It's very unique. Only
the English language actually has that.
Do you like spending time or do you just
love that person? That's because liking
is like, hey, do you can you talk to
that person seven hours uninterrupted on
a park bench if you needed to or is it
just kind of like an annoyance and is it
just purely physical? Um, other
questions and other pieces of advice I
think are really important. In-laws
matter. They really do. Uh, I'm not they
shouldn't always necessarily be deal
breakers, but boy, you should know the
in-laws because you know your wife will
take the form of the mother more times
than not. So, you should at least get
along with your in-law. Kind of know the
in-law. Children, how many children?
When are you going to have children? Is
it a priority? Will it be early? Will it
be late? Religious questions. Are we
going to raise them religiously? Are we
going to raise them secular? Other
questions that I think are really
important that actually don't always get
flushed out. How many vacations are we
going to take? What type of vacations?
Are we an RV family? Are we a go to a
private, you know, island family? Are we
a are we going to splurge on one
vacation a year? Are we going to do like
three or four? This is important before
you get married. All of a sudden, you're
kind of in the marriage thing and you're
like, "Hey, I just booked us a
vacation." Like, "What? I didn't want
to." That's not because it's different
philosophies of time off. Last one,
which is the biggest you want the
biggest of all. What are acceptable and
unacceptable vices for our marriage? For
example, is it acceptable for you know
uh the husband to smoke a cigar?
Has she smelled cigar before you get
married? And does she know what that is?
Will marijuana be allowed in the
marriage? I would say no, of course. Is
it okay for alcohol to be around? If
yes, how often? Will you drink on week
nights? Are more than one drink
acceptable? Will we drink socially? Will
you drink once you have kids? Will you
drink around the kids? Here's another
question. Will you watch TV at night?
Will you be okay if you know there's
R-rated kind of sexual nudity that your
partner is watching? Is completely off
limits for your relationship? I think it
absolutely should be. You should talk
about that cuz some couples are like
perfectly okay with it. I think it's
kind of weird to be honest, right? These
are questions that honestly all the time
that people do not always flush out
before marriage. In the course of dating
though, um I could go on for like
infinite. No, I really enjoy this. Yeah.
Yeah. Um, again, we have an amazing
marriage, my wife and I. Obviously, it's
not perfect. No marriage is perfect, but
we actually like each other. We
prioritize date night. We're actually
doing it right after this tonight. Uh,
which is awesome. Um, but I find so
often that people in dating don't date
with the intent to marry. And when they
end up do wanting to marry, they don't
even ask the tough questions before they
get married. Could we do a couple rapid
fire questions real quick? Okay. What's
your biggest insecurity? Forgetting
something I should know. Will you run
for president? Not running for
president. What's more dangerous,
ignorance or apathy in voters? Oh,
apathy for sure. Should there be a
maximum age to be president? No. What is
a worst policy idea, univers universal
basic income or open borders? Open
borders. One government agency you'd
shut down right away. That's a great
one. Department of Education. Would you
rather have dinner with AOC or Bernie?
AOC. Is it a sin to fly Spirit Airlines?
A sin? No. But whoever whoever whoever
started Spirit Airlines is in great
defiance to God.
What's worse for society? Weed or
Do you think you could win in a fist
fight against Gavin Newsome? Probably
not if I'm being honest. Like I don't
think so. Do you believe in aliens?
Maybe. Debate or a podcast? I like this.
I like podcast. It's way better. It's
more human. Censorship or chaos? What's
more destructive? Censorship without a
doubt. Absolutely. Do you have a random
pet peeve? I have a lot of pet peeves
actually. Um,
one of my pet peeves that I can't I
literally cannot stand and I'm I'm
actually a violator of it is when I'm
trying to talk to somebody and then they
check their phone. I'm really bad with
that with my team. So I I I I'm sure you
guys it bothers you, but yeah, I I got
to be I got to be a lot better about
that. And finally, oh, sorry. No, no. I
know when people say at the end of the
day, they don't even know what they're
saying when they say it. It's just at
the end of the day, it's just it's just
literally a linguistic crutch is all
that it is. Linguistic crutches are very
annoying in fairness. Yes. And that is
one that drives me nuts. If everything
completely goes away, how do you want to
be remembered? If I die, everything just
goes away. How would you If you could be
associated with one thing, how would you
want to be remembered? I want to be I
want to be remembered for for courage
for my faith. That that would be the
most important thing. Most important
thing is my faith in my life. Charlie
Kirk, thank you so much. You guys do a
great job. I wish it could be longer.
This has been amazing. So, we would love
to do this again.
We only hit half we Oh my gosh. We'll
have to do a part two sometime soon. Oh,
absolutely. Yeah. And and shout out to
your crew. Like seriously, they're
they're incredible. Incredible.
Hospitality was incredible. By the way,
come to the Student Action Summit. You
guys would get so many guests. Yeah, we
have everyone there. Yeah, it be
phenomenal. Thank you guys. Thank you so
much. Thank you guys for watching. Till
next time.