America Is Raising Soft Men… And It’s Going To Cost Us Everything | Jocko Willink
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Retired Navy SEAL Commander Jocko Willink argues that America's recent military struggles are not due to a lack of strength, but rather a loss of will and the rise of cowardice disguised as virtue in Western society. He posits that nations do not necessarily need to win every conflict they enter; for instance, Russia does not strictly require victory over Ukraine, yet it has backed itself into a difficult position by turning its economy into a war machine and making massive promises to its people. Conversely, Willink suggests the United States often engages in wars where winning is unnecessary, leading to inevitable failure because of an insufficient appetite for loss compared to adversaries like Russia or Hamas. He illustrates this dynamic with the "scorpion and frog" parable, noting that conflicts are driven by inherent human nature rather than logic, as seen when Israel responds to October 7th attacks not just militarily but strategically, accepting global condemnation in hopes of eventually destroying Hamas while avoiding a prolonged insurgency similar to Afghanistan or Vietnam. Willink delves into the mechanics of leadership failure within military and corporate structures, attributing much of it to short tenure periods that allow incompetent leaders to rise through administrative appearances rather than field performance. He describes how young officers often project an acceptable front for months before their true nature—such as losing tempers or making poor decisions—is revealed under pressure, yet they are frequently promoted because subordinates cover for them during deployments to protect the unit's reputation. This systemic flaw allows bad leaders to advance until a crisis forces removal. In contrast, he advocates for "Extreme Ownership," where leaders must admit faults and rely on their teams rather than defending egos or undermining others. He applies this philosophy to current political figures like Pete Hegseth, suggesting that effective leadership in hostile environments requires humility, openness to criticism, and the ability to navigate a landscape filled with people actively trying to undermine them without becoming defensive. The conversation shifts to cultural influence as a primary tool for societal improvement, particularly through Willink's work on children via his "Warrior Kid" books and podcast. His motivation stems from disappointment in weak role models like pirates in children's literature, prompting him to write stories that teach values such as hard work, discipline, resilience, and the ability to decide who one wants to become. He emphasizes that while social media often highlights negative behaviors or superficial lifestyles, many young Americans are actually working hard on construction sites, oil rigs, and power lines, embodying a spirit of responsibility that is being lost in favor of "soft men." Willink expresses optimism about this generation's potential, noting their engagement with concepts like extreme ownership and their willingness to take physical risks for meaningful goals, contrasting sharply with the perceived decline caused by excessive comfort or political polarization. Finally, Willink reflects on his transition from a singular focus on war and mission during his SEAL service to exploring creative storytelling after retirement. He reveals that he did not keep journals of his combat experiences because death was accepted as part of the job, and all his energy went into operational notes and keeping his team alive; however, upon retiring, he discovered an untapped well of creativity in writing fiction and non-fiction alike. This journey led to a screenplay about a laundromat that eventually attracted major interest from Chris Pratt's production company, Skydance Media, and Apple TV+. He contrasts the military environment with politics, arguing that politicians often become caricatures by conforming too strictly to political machines rather than leading authentically. Ultimately, he concludes that true leadership requires prioritizing the mission and people over self-interest, a principle that must be re-embraced across all sectors of American life to prevent societal collapse.
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America doesn't win wars anymore. Not
because we've lost our strength, but
because we've lost our will. Today's
guest is retired Navy SEAL Commander
Jocko Willink, and in this episode, he
exposes the uncomfortable truth behind
why the West is slipping. We're raising
soft men in a dangerous world, and that
is not a recipe for success. Jocko lays
out the hidden mechanics of leadership
failure across all walks of life. What
happens when ego infects your chain of
command, and why the military, the
government, and corporate America are
all suffering from the same disease,
cowardice disguised as virtue. If you
want to understand why our systems are
collapsing, and how to make yourself
strong enough to survive what's coming,
this is the episode to watch.
Does watching what's going on in Russia
and or Israel, Palestine, does that
trigger your strategic mind at all? Oh,
yeah. I definitely think about things
strategically. And, you know, for
Russia,
as strong and as mighty as Russia is,
it's Guess how strong and mighty America
was in Afghanistan. Guess how strong and
mighty America was in Vietnam. Guess how
strong America and mighty was in Iraq.
That strength and that might
doesn't really mean anything in a test
of wills.
And
And Ukraine is fighting for the ground
that they live on. They're going to
fight to the death.
And you're going to get into, you know,
I think the worst-case scenario
and I is that this ends up in a, you
know, like a guerrilla warfare.
Worst-case scenario, that means if if
Ukraine is just gets annihilated by
conventional-type
force,
they're going to end up with a guerrilla
force that's going to be
picking away at Russians for the next 10
years, 15 years, 20 years, until Russia
says, "Okay, you can have your freaking
houses back."
Now, I can predict that right now,
but it has to play out. We still have to
play the game.
You still have to play the game to find
out what the outcome is.
Because on paper
Look, on paper everyone thought Russia
was going to roll into Kiev in 2 days.
And they got right to the outskirts.
But that didn't that didn't take into
the calculus the human will.
And the fact that we're not These are
This is where we live. This is where my
family is and I'm not going anywhere.
Yeah, it's just going to be a long
bloodbath.
It's going to be a long nasty bloodbath.
Do you try to map the
minds of the people leading? Like do you
try to think through, okay, what what
does Putin's behavior tell me about what
he actually wants? I'm not that deep
into trying to figure out exactly what
they want or exactly where they're going
to stop. You know, like what is it going
to take to get you to stop?
Is it too high level?
I think it No, it's just the fact that
from my experience in life and history
it's not that it's too high level. It's
just that it is absolutely
unpredictable. Mhm. This is why we get
into wars because we think America, we
think we will go and we will win.
Would you get into a fight with me?
No. Okay, right? Cuz you don't think you
could win.
Now, if you for some reason, you know,
you had a knife in your back pocket, you
had a pistol with you and you're like,
okay, I can win this thing. You're going
to go and fight me. We get into wars
that we think we're going to win, but we
think we're going to win every war. Mhm.
And we're dumb.
And when people go to war and they think
they're going to win, they're dumb.
Because you don't know what's going to
happen.
And would I get into a fight with you?
You think I'd attack you?
Do you?
no, but not because you think you're
going to lose, unfortunately. Much to my
surprise.
but I don't know what you're going to
do. I don't know what you care about. I
don't know if you have a knife in your
back pocket. I don't know if you're
going to bite my ear off or bite my
face. I don't know if you're going to
sue me. Like there's so many
unpredictables that why am I going to
get engaged in this? I'd rather just be
like, "Hey dude, looks like you're
having a rough day, man. I'll get out of
your way."
Okay, you want my parking space? Cool.
I'll drive around the block.
So, unless you corner me, I don't want
to fight you. The primary reason that
I've come up with of why America loses
wars is because we lose wars we don't
have to win.
Mhm. So, when you get into a war that
you don't have to win, the chances are
you're going to lose it.
The The great chances are you're going
to lose it. Does Russia need to win this
war with Ukraine?
Honestly, no, they don't.
They don't need to win this war with
Ukraine. Ukraine needs to win this war.
And so, therefore, when you play it out,
chances are again, uh it's
unpredictable. There's I All you could
do is say, "Well, they have a slightly
better chance."
And we're going to pay with hundreds of
thousands of lives to figure out which
answer was correct. Wow, that is a a
really interesting insight in terms of
who needs to win and who doesn't. I
think part of the reason that And I'm
obviously speculating, but part of the
reason that Putin hasn't taken any of
the off-ramps is that A, he thinks he
can win, to your point, but also he's
turned his economy into a war economy.
He has made huge promises to his
country. And so, while he doesn't need
to win, he has backed himself into a
difficult situation. And when it's
somebody else that you're sending to
die, it gets a little bit easier. Also,
to your point about freedom and to my
coming point about how important culture
is, Russia has proven over and over and
over that they are willing to sacrifice.
Now, I don't know if they care enough
about Ukraine, if they identify Ukraine
as Russian soil, uh but certainly when
you try to push into Russia, they feel
some kind of way, and they react
accordingly.
It's uh
They've won. Yeah. They've won all the
time. They beat Napoleon, they beat
Hitler, but when they didn't have to win
in Afghanistan, what happened? Yeah.
When you look at what's going on in
Israel versus Hamas, that is not one
that I understand. Mhm. Uh but do you
look at that? Does it feel just like a
normal insurgency or do you see
something atypical happening?
You've got two opposing sides that don't
agree and they're at war and they're
going to kill each other until the
killing is done. Much of my
thoughts around forgiveness is like that
same parable of
the scorpion and the frog, right? You
know this old parable. The scorpion says
to the frog, "Can you carry me across
the lake?" And the frog goes, "But
you'll sting me." And the scorpion goes,
"No, if I sting you, we'll both die."
He goes, "No, I won't sting you, we'll
die, so I won't sting you." So, okay.
Uh scorpion gets on the frog's back,
they halfway across the lake and the
scorpion stings the frog. And as they're
about to drown and die, the frog says,
"Why'd you do that?" And the scorpion
says, "I'm a scorpion."
I love and hate that story all at the
same time. That's what's happening and I
and
you did this to us,
we're going to do this to you.
In both directions. That's what's
happening. I've heard you talk about in
Vietnam, one of the big mistakes we made
was I Dang Valley? I Drang Valley.
I Drang Valley.
Uh and the lesson learned there was,
hey, just because we killed a thousand
of them and they only killed a hundred
of us means that we're going to win.
That's what I see playing out here. What
What America didn't realize was we did
not have the appetite for the loss that
they did.
And when I look at Israel versus Hamas,
Hamas
under Sinwar, who's dead, but has laid a
trap of we're going to take hostages and
do something absolutely despicable,
evil, horrible, and obviously required a
response,
but you're going to over respond and
you're going to lose the world. And
that's going to be part of a larger
strategy, largely of psychological
warfare, where we get the whole world to
turn against you, to alienate you, and
that's the play.
And
it seems to be playing out so well.
There's um I don't know if you know who
Eric Weinstein is, but he uh talks about
this moment being like in um
Breaking Bad where you'd one character
who his name's Mike grabs one of the
drug dealers by the lapel. And so the
drug dealer's like let go. He refuses
and so the drug dealer just starts
beating the [ __ ] out of Mike. Israel is
the guy throwing the punches. Now, if
Hamas would just give the hostages back,
they would stop punching. Hamas doesn't
want them to stop punching. That's the
whole point is to get them to punch, to
get them to maximize civilian casualties
so that they just look absolutely
terrible so they can get isolated.
You've talked about the utility of
psychological warfare. Now, I think you
use it differently than I'm bringing it
up here, so by all means make the right
case. But that's what I see here. I see
a game, somebody who's being far more
strategic than just a traditional
military conflict. Within a short time
after October 7th,
I was getting interviewed and I
recommended that Israel not bomb.
Really?
said, "Hey, they they dropped a bunch of
bombs out of the gate." And I said,
"Okay, like you don't want popular
opinion in the world to turn against
you." Mhm. And you know, that's kind of
the way it's played out. You know, very
very predictable. There's no one that
wants
innocent civilians innocent Palestinians
killed more than Hamas. Every innocent
Palestinian that's get gets killed is a
really good victory for Hamas. It really
is. And I have seen some really
beautiful indications of you know, you
see some Palestinians are now starting
to protest against Hamas openly, which
is that's
Of course, it doesn't get much press,
but that is a
inspiring thing to see.
Actual Palestinians in Gaza that
recognize, "Hey, we want this to stop
and we are willing to protest against
Hamas to try and get this to stop."
And hopefully we see more of that, but
it's getting
suppressed. I mean, Hamas they obviously
put shut those things down very rapidly.
Uh it's a terrible situation. Now, on
the other hand, Israel
is Yeah, okay, we get it. You you can
sit here in your in your air-conditioned
studio and tell us to stop bombing. We
just got attacked. We had thousands of
people killed.
And we are not going to stop until we
destroy this this group that did it to
us.
And you know what? This is war.
And
they're making a decision. Clearly they
must see Clearly they do see
the way that the the global view of them
is turning and they are continuing to
press.
And they're probably in their in their
strategic view saying, "Yep, it's going
to take us another 4 months. We'll take
a bunch of hate for the next 4 months
and then we'll be done.
And Hamas will be no more and then we
can move forward." It seems like that's
that's their
that's their strategy. Mhm. They can
withstand
They can withstand the glo- the global
popularity
falling off a cliff. But when they're
done with it, they're going to be done
with it. It seems like that's what
they're doing. And to my point earlier,
whether that's a good move or a bad
move, I don't know. And and not only do
I not know, no one knows.
Yeah. They've made a decision. This is
what they're going to do. You know, I I
have pointed this out to people. If
a group came into your home
and killed your family. Mhm. If that
happened to me, a group came into my
home and killed my family,
I would not stop until I destroyed as
many of that group as I possibly could.
And it would be a good number.
And so they did that to Israel. And
Israel, they said, "Okay, you know what?
You did this to us.
We're going to We're going to now
destroy you. And there's collateral
damage everywhere. There's starving kids
and women and children." And they're
going, "Yep.
This is what we're doing." I don't I
don't know how the long-term impact of
that is going to be. Clearly, the world
has turned against Israel, or much of
the world has turned against Israel.
And so the
strategic move by Hamas, you give them
like, "Oh, yeah, good job. You You You
You made a strategic victory here.
You've got the world to turn against
Israel."
Which is a a pretty impressive thing to
be able to do for for Hamas. They've got
the world
popular opinion turned against Israel,
turned against their enemy. And they did
it very rapidly. The rest of the world
isn't there.
The rest of the world is watching it and
seeing whatever images are getting
propagated. On the one hand, you see the
the picture of kids in rubbles. Awful to
see Palestinian kids in rubble.
The other thing that you see, a IDF
soldier patrolling down the street. And
when you're an IDF soldier patrolling
down the street, I don't know if
everyone feels this, but what I feel
when I see that is this individual human
being is waiting to get sniped, blown
up, shot, killed, destroyed, maimed.
That's what that person's waiting for.
And And so each of these are human
emotional moments that are happening.
And we're sitting down here on the
outside, the rest of the world is
sitting there going, "I think you should
do this. I shouldn't you should do
that." There's a a script to write where
after October 7th,
Israel said, "I We can't believe this
happened.
We what can we do to to defend ourselves
better?
And this is terrible. And they would
have gotten sympathy from the world
perhaps, more sympathy from the world.
And same thing with with Hamas. Look at
South Africa, the way South Africa that
government was torn down over time from
international pressure.
That probably could have happened
eventually for
for Palestine, for for Gaza, for a
two-state solution, whatever the case
may be. One of those things could have
happened. But this just throwing a
grenade into the room and seeing the the
destruction, the laws of human nature
have won again and there's blood. I
think the next 20 years is going to ask
America the question, how much do you
actually give a [ __ ] about your values?
And how far are you going to push for
them? So, I think that we're going to
have a China question. And right now
we're saying, "Yeah, we're willing to
rise to the challenge economically." I
think it's going to escalate. Europe is
going through the throes of what does it
look like when you allow so many people
in your country that you no longer have
shared values at a societal level and
some people are willing to fight for
theirs and other people are not. We just
had the guy in Colorado light people on
fire because he believes that Israel's
out of pocket and they absolutely have
to be stopped and it is worth killing
people that shockingly have absolutely
nothing to do with it
to get people to pay attention. And so,
what I'm trying to figure out is
from a value system perspective
at what point do you go, "Here's the
line in the sand." I get from a
political standpoint how easy it is to
be like, "I'm not there on the ground.
It's just a missile from the sky. These
guys cease to exist." And people are
afraid of that and so when we say, "Stop
[ __ ] with the ships."
they stop because they don't want to get
blown up.
Yeah, and I think that's the the key
component there is
we
number one, how are they stopping, you
know, how are they stopping the vessels?
How would how would they were attacking
free trade. And so for us to say, "Yeah,
you know what? Um you can't do that.
We're going to stop you. You don't do
that anymore or we're going to stop
you." And then if they continue to
Again, this is going to infringe on
on our way of life.
And then we escalate. At a certain point
it's like, "Oh, do you want to go and
send troops onto the ground there to
fight against the Houthis?"
No, cuz we don't need to.
We don't need to do that. We can keep
them at bay and they can either learn
their lesson and subdue whatever element
of them is out trying to
trying to interfere with our shipping
or
we just continue to bat them down every
time they step up. Mhm. So, when I look
at uh the kind of leadership that you
have done where people are actually
shooting at people, there is literal
life and death consequences.
That feels like it should be the place
that would have the highest demands on
leaders, but be the place where um
you would naturally find
breakdown of leadership the fastest. But
you don't. Is that because you guys have
this incredible filter going in? There's
one major problem with
leadership development in the military
and that is for the most part
your military leadership positions are
held for about 2 years. And what that
means is
I'm a young officer in the military, in
the army, or in the Marine Corps
and I take over a platoon. And for a
while, you know, you just met me and
you're one of my guys in my platoon and
you your first impressions are like,
"Oh, well, we can't really judge him cuz
I I'm a trained professional, right? I
went to West Point or I went to the
Naval Academy or I went to Officer
Candidate School, so I've learned a
certain way to behave that is acceptable
within the norms." And so I learned that
and I'm going to project that. And so,
for a while, that's what you see. You
see that thing that I learned that I'm
projecting.
Now, it takes about the first few months
that we're together as a platoon, we're
not really doing anything. It's some
administrative stuff. And And And so,
you don't really see my leadership in
any way, shape, or form. Maybe I even
present a pretty good front. Like, I
come out and talk to the troops, and you
guys are like, "Oh, he's a pretty
articulate guy. Cool."
And then a few months go by, and now
we're going to start working together in
the field. We're going to go out and
start doing training exercises.
Well, the first couple training
exercises, you start You know, the first
one goes a little bit awry, and maybe
you hear me getting a little bit
flustered, or maybe I lose my temper, or
something like that. And you go, "Wait a
second. What's What's going on here?"
And But, that was one mission. The next
mission goes a little bit smoother. So,
you're like, "Oh, okay. It must have
been just an anomaly." You see what I'm
saying? It takes a long Takes months
of you looking at me, and the platoon
looking at me, and studying me. And
finally, you see me lose my temper
again. And then, every time the pressure
mounts, I start Like I said, losing my
temper. That's a good example. I'm
losing my temper. I'm yelling and
screaming. I don't listen to anybody
else. It took you
8 months to figure that out.
So, now, we're about to go on
deployment.
And as we're about to go on deployment,
you and your platoon The The platoon
gets together, and what do we do?
Well, do we have a mutiny? Do we bring
this up to the commanding officer?
There's a bunch of other options. Like,
and none of them are good.
Because now, if you If I get fired, now
guess what our reputation of our whole
platoon is.
Our whole platoon is bad. So, the
platoon goes, "You know what? Just deal
with it. We can We can We can manage him
for a little while." Now, we go on
deployment. I do really dumb stuff, but
now you're really covering for me. Your
platoon The platoon is great troops, and
they're just doing everything they can,
bending over backwards to make sure that
I'm successful, even though I'm an
idiot.
We get back from deployment. We The
platoon did such good work that even
though I'm an idiot, we performed our
mission. We got accolades for our
mission.
I was pretty good at articulating. So,
when I went and talked to battalion
commander, I looked pretty good and he
gave me an up check. And so what
happens? The platoon's over and you by
the way, you all for the last 2 months
of deployment were just holding your
breath waiting for someone else for for
when my time is over. So my time's over
and guess what? I actually get good
grades and I get promoted.
And that can happen through a whole
military career. So
the fact that
that that 2-year window of leadership,
you can kind of get through anything for
2 years
and and bad people can get promoted.
That happens and you can certainly look
at our some of our flag and general
officers and go how is this person a an
admiral or how is this person a general?
Some of them I look at and go this is
amazing. This person should be president
of the United States. This person is
incredible, but it's not always like
that. So I don't look at the military as
this factory of good leaders. I look at
it as a testing ground where some
leaders get experience
and
and and they develop in a way that is
phenomenal and they end up being great
leaders. There's also a bunch of
knuckleheads in there. That's the that's
the cold reality of it. Yeah, for sure.
Uh in the business world, very similar
at least from where I'm sitting. The
whole idea of people get promoted to the
level of their incompetence. When I
first heard that I was like, what? And
then I realized, oh yeah, it's exactly
true. Like you'll do good at this job,
so then they're like, hey, you know,
it's this pyramid, so there's ever fewer
positions, so we've got to move you to
something that maybe you haven't before,
but you were so good at the thing that
you did previously. I owe you that
promotion and so I move you. And then
eventually you get to the point where
you stall out because you're not good
and nobody wants to go backwards. So um
in business, it's like this constant
culling of it it it if you're doing it
well. So when I'm teaching
entrepreneurs, I am ruthless about
Listen, you want to give people an
opportunity, you want to make sure that
they know what success looks like, you
want to make sure that you create an
environment they're getting the feedback
they need, on and on. But, if you've got
somebody that can't do the job, you've
got to get them out of that role. So,
that would be sort of my rough swag at
what the um the ultimate factory for
leadership is that you just said the
military is not. But, what would you
say? Like, what is the factory that you
want to set up? What are the things that
we all need to go through assuming that
either we're at the beginning of our
career or we're now at the point where
we're at our incompetence, but we don't
want to get stuck there. The ability
to be humble enough
to look and see what you're doing and
see what your shortfalls are,
to me, that's the most important thing
for leadership development. The minute
that someone is saying, "Hey, you know
what? I've got this figured out. You're
damn right I should be put in this role
next because I deserve to be there."
The minute that that that attitude
starts to take over our minds, that's
when we become problematic. So,
with all the leaders I've worked with,
there's only one There's only like one
type of person in my experience
that cannot
improve as a leader, and that's a person
that's arrogant.
What about somebody who's dumb?
Yeah, dumb Dumb Dumb will get in there,
too. Dumb will get in there, too. But,
if you have someone that's dumb,
but they're humble,
we can work with that. So, if I'm your
platoon commander and I'm not the
sharpest tool in the shed, but I'm
humble enough to say,
"How do you guys think we should do
this?" We'll be okay.
We We'll be okay because I'll be you
know, the dumb person if they're
surrounded by some people that are smart
enough and humble enough themselves,
right? Because if you If I work for you
and you're an idiot, and my goal then is
to call you out as an idiot, make you
look bad, and undermine you, which is
not going to work. It's going to fail.
But, if if you're my boss and you're an
idiot, but I'm humble enough to be like,
"Hey, you know what? He's the boss. He's
not the sharpest tool in the shed, but
you know what? At least he's listening
to what I say and we can put together
good plans. I can get with the team and
we can go and execute them and he'll get
the credit, but I don't care. We'll be
fine. So,
as long as the a person that might not
be the the smartest person is has some
good people around them and they're
humble enough to say, "Oh, yeah, I'm
I'm a little over my
underwater here. As long as I can say
that, I'll be okay."
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back to the show. Power vacuums tend to
arise, so you are correct in what you're
saying, at least in my experience in the
corporate world, that if you've got a
boss who's an idiot, the funny thing is
I will play the clip of you saying this
went wrong, good. This went wrong, good.
When people complain about, "Oh, my boss
is an idiot." I'm like good, this is
your chance. Like you've got an
opportunity to rise up. There's a power
vacuum that you can fill it. But I do
worry that there are two things that
will um
wreak havoc no matter where you're at,
military, politics, corporation, and
that is stupidity and arrogance.
Um I probably am more afraid of
stupidity than you are, it sounds like.
Yeah, it sounds like it.
Um I I've worked for some dumb people
that were actually pretty good bosses.
Yes, interesting. So that'll be that'll
be fun to ferret out. So so push on that
for me. You're in that situation, the
power vacuum opens up. What have you
seen in that next layer down? Do do
people battle? Like is this a um
you're you're so good at being the guy
underneath the idiot that everybody just
sort of realizes they can draft off you
and you're smart enough to know 48 Laws
of Power, don't try to outshine this
guy, let him take the lead. Like is that
what's going on?
When you watch groups that don't have
you, what normally happens when a power
vacuum opens up? It It really just
depends on the dynamics of the group
because
if you this is the So this is a perfect
thing that I used to explain with a SEAL
platoon. So when I the my the last part
of my career in the SEAL Teams, I was
training the SEAL platoons to go on
deployment to It was at the time it was
Iraq or Afghanistan.
And when I first took over, I thought to
myself, okay,
I really hope that this platoon
commander is a good leader and I hope
that the the platoon chief is a good
leader and I hope that the the assistant
platoon commander is a good leader
and and I hope that the leading petty
officer is a good leader. So I had this
this hope in my mind that the the senior
leaders were good leaders.
And after
training a bunch of SEAL platoons, over
time, what I actually hoped for was that
there was
a
a good leader
in the platoon. It didn't even have to
be We call that group the the top four.
That's like the leadership, the
designated on paper leadership of the
platoon. What If one of them was a
really good leader, great.
But if none of them were really great
leaders, but you had a one really good
just enlisted sled dog, he could he
could run that whole platoon. And if he
was smart, he would recognize that he
had that power. And I would see this a
lot where you'd be like, "Oh yeah, the
the real
chain of command in what a platoon look
like would look nothing what it looked
like on paper. But if that young guy was
smart enough, he would it didn't matter.
He knew he was that He knew he was the
the top of the hierarchy in the platoon
in terms of actual
leadership.
And if he understood that dynamic and he
was okay with the fact that even though
on paper he wasn't the guy, it didn't
really matter to him. He just wanted the
platoon to win. Those platoons happens
all the time, they would be great. The
problem would come where either that
guy, his ego is too big and he wanted
the credit, or the the top four Someone
in the top four didn't like the fact
that that someone else was stepping on
the power dynamic. They didn't like the
the
the unwritten leadership chain of
command. They didn't like that. And they
would then undermine that guy and you
get infighting. So, what both those
problems boiled down to is ego. Like
either either ego could disrupt the
whole thing.
Either someone in the top four didn't
like, you know, "Hey, why are we letting
him come up with the plan? I'm the one
that's in charge." Boom, just
self-destruction.
So,
generally, if we have people that are
smart enough and understand the world
well enough, they get in that situation
they go, "Oh yeah. Oh, I get it. Tom's
leader. He's inexperienced. He doesn't
have the best mind for this, but that's
okay. He's listening to me. I've built a
good relationship with him. I'm I'm to
take this thing home run all day."
Or
Tom doesn't have much experience. He
doesn't have the best mind for this. I
deserve to be there. I'm going to
undermine him. Everyone's going to know
that I'm the guy and we're going to
self-destruct. Yeah, that is uh that is
ever-present everywhere you look.
indeed. Um talk to me about Pete
Hegseth. So, I know you don't know him
well, but you certainly know who he is.
Yeah. He is finding himself
as the Secretary of Defense going into
what I would say is a largely hostile
environment. Uh but the people who work
for him, how do you express good
leadership in a moment like that? You've
got all the world's eyes on you, and
certainly the politically aware eyes. Um
you have some percentage, whether it's 1
or 99, I have no idea, that are actively
trying to undermine you. Um it's
certainly tempting at that point when
you've got everybody like coming at you
to grab collars and [ __ ] a fist. Uh but
I'm guessing that's not the advice. How
do you navigate that situation well? I
think one of the most disarming things
you can do, and it's and it's not like a
ninja trick, it's a it's a real thing,
is when you tell me
that hey Jocko, you don't have enough
experience to do this.
My answer as Jocko is
I agree with you.
You're right. I don't have a lot of
experience here. That's why I'm going to
rely on you and the rest of the team to
help me.
Or when you come at me and you say,
"Hey, um
you seem like you lose your temper
sometimes."
I don't say, "You're No, I don't." No, I
say, "You know what? Yeah, I do. I lose
my temper sometimes. And you know what?
That's why I'm counting on you to help
me through those moments."
Or when you can see when you or you come
come at me and you say, "Hey Jocko,
you're you're dumb."
I don't say, "No, I'm not. I'm smart. I
went to college. I I I I got A's in high
school." I don't say that. I say, "Yeah,
you know what? There's definitely some
some areas where I am academically
challenged, and I'm going to need some
help."
And I think that's the best way to
approach when people are being critical
is to say, "Yeah, you're right. You
should be critical of me. I'm not
perfect. I I will make mistakes. I have
made mistakes. I will make mistakes.
I'm going to be open about them. I'm
going to take ownership of them, and
we're going to get through it. That's
what we're doing." So, that that's, you
know, if I'm surround in a room
surrounded by a bunch of people that
don't like me, you know, I took over a
SEAL Platoon where the the platoon
commander had been fired.
And some of the guys were waiting for
that guy to get fired, and some of the
guys did not want that guy to get fired.
And so, it was this not the exact same
situation, but it was a similar
situation in that I had some people that
were open-minded to me showing up, and
some people that were angry at me for
being there.
And, you know, I rolled into it with
that sort of attitude. Like, "Okay, yep.
Hey,
you like the guy that got fired? Okay.
What What did you like about him? Let me
make sure I
continue with with some of those things.
Oh, and you guys that didn't like him,
what didn't you like about him? Let me
make sure that I don't adapt some of
those things." So, I think it's just
keeping an open mind, not getting too
defensive. And look, it's got to be uh
it's got to be wearing to just have
people attacking you all day long when
you're trying to do a job. It's got to
be wearing, but that's the job.
Good. Yeah, that's the job. I mean, you
go into that political spectrum, and you
are going to
immediately
there's a whole group of people that are
going to do everything they can to
destroy you. And
that's what's happening. Do you try to
ferret them out, build alliances against
them? Like, is there a we got to cocoon
the threats, or I think if you have some
people that are not aligned,
like, they're truly not trying to go to
the same place that I'm going to, cuz
that that's a problem. Look, if you and
I have the same goal, and you want to go
one way, and I want to go a different
way to get there, I'm okay with that.
But, if I'm trying to get here, and
you're trying to go over here, It have a
problem. So, and that shouldn't happen
very often. I mean, it's the it's the
United States of America. It's the
United States military. What do we want
our troops to be unsafe? Do you want our
troops to be unsafe? No, we don't want
that. Do you want our troops to be taken
care of? Yes, we want that. Do we want
them to have good equipment? Yes, we
want that. So, there's a bunch of things
where it's like, "Oh, yeah, you think it
should be go this way, but okay." Uh
most people, I think, are on board with
the goals of the Department of Defense.
But, if we have someone that's not on
board, okay, we're going to find them
and yeah, I would get rid of them cuz
they're not aligned with what we're
trying to do. So, I have in the last
couple of years become obsessed with uh
Machiavelli, James Burnham, people that
really look at the political arena as a
game of power, control, manipulation,
and that if you're trying to map that
arena, you're going to be constantly
confused if you take them to be sincere
actors that are simply trying to make
the world a better place.
And uh James Burnham wrote a book called
The Machiavellians: Defenders of
Freedom, people who believe that they
are So, basically, his thesis is there's
always going to be an elite group. It
doesn't matter if it's you and your
brother. One of you is going to be in a
position of leadership. And to your
point, often times the real leadership
is very different than what's written on
paper, but there's always a command
structure. Somebody's in lead, other
people are following. And of course, it
will change from time to time, but but
you have that structure.
Given that it's inescapable, you then
have to understand what is the nature of
man as political animal. And so, he
comes down on the uh I would say very
eloquently and proves it pretty
forcefully in his book and it certainly
echoes The Prince uh written by
Machiavelli himself. It echoes what um
Robert Greene wrote in The 48 Laws of
Power, that there are just some of these
immutable truths. And I've heard you say
this, human nature shows up everywhere
you go.
Uh and if it is true that human nature
has this um
the things I need to do to get into
power and stay in power are somewhat
knowable, somewhat predictable, and from
where I'm sitting pretty ugly.
Um
how one, do you accept that premise or
you like that's just ridiculous on its
face?
Uh if you do accept the premise,
one thing is every time I research you
that I always walk away with is to miss
your optimism would be to miss your sort
of fundamental nature. And so, I can
feel myself getting pulled
out of my optimism into like this
fatalistic, really dark thing that I'm
trying to steer myself back out of. Uh
so, I'd love to get your sense of if
this is a Machiavellian world, um how do
you stay
focused, positive, and not get sucked
into the darkness? Well, luckily I think
there is alignment between doing good
things
and for lack of a better way of the way
you just said it, staying in power.
Right? And I I I got asked a while ago
about um
like medical some some some type of
question around the fact that medical
corporations
are evil. I got I got posed some kind of
question like that.
And I had recently been working with a
medical company who
had made a ton of money. Like
you know, hundreds and hundreds of
millions of dollars.
And you could look at them and say,
"Well, they're evil." Right? Cuz they're
making all this money off of the the
sickness of human beings.
And I was at one of their events
and they brought out on stage this like
young girl who had been her life had
been saved by this technology.
And my point in saying that is like you
have alignment between Yes, these people
are making a lot of money and they're
also doing something good at the same
time. So, when I look at this power
dynamic or this struggle for power,
if you're not doing something for
America that's going to help America
move forward,
then you should not be in power and you
should be removed from power. But, if
you're doing things that are helping
America
and helping the people of America, and
if you do that well, then you should
stay in power. If you're just looking
out for yourself, going back to my
earlier point, if if I'm over here just
lining my own pockets as America falls,
then I should be removed from power.
If I'm over here and
America's doing well and maybe
my my own life is progressing because
now I'm in whatever position I'm in, but
I'm doing a good job because I'm helping
America, I think that it's fine. So, I
don't I don't really see these two
things as mutually exclusive. Like, you
can't do something good for America and
stay in power. I don't think you need to
undermine America in order to stay in
power. I think you can actually do good
things for the country and because you
do good things for the country, you stay
in power. One of the ways that the world
works is that
um psychological influence, to put the
nicest spin on it, works and works very
well. Um I see you as somebody who's
moving into the world of cultural
influence. Tell the story, if you don't
mind, of what made you decide to write
your first book and then what it was
that you're trying to um
help parents teach their kids. Yeah, I
went and and got a book at the bookstore
for my son and it was like a pirate
book. And it had a pretty cool cover, it
looked like a pirate book. And the
pirate book ended up being like the
weakest, most pathetic pirates ever.
And I was disappointed. And so, I just
thought to myself, I'm going to write
books so that I can convey the type of
values and lessons learned
that I would want my kids to have and I
would want, you you my neighbors' kids
to have and my friends' kids to have.
And so, that's why I wrote the books.
And so, what are those values? It's hard
work. It's helping other people out.
It's studying hard. It's doing the best
that you can in in whatever endeavor
you're undertaking. It's all those
things.
And
one of I think the most important
underlying messages
and probably the most important
underlying message is that
you can decide who you want to become
and you can become that person.
So, you know, in the book, the kid is
weak, can't do any pull-ups, doesn't
know how to swim, doesn't know his times
tables, and he's getting picked on by
the school bully.
That's a rough place to be in for a
10-year-old kid.
And what his uncle teaches him is you
don't have to be weak, you can work out,
and you can become stronger, and you can
eat better foods. You can study and you
can become smarter.
You can learn how to swim
and you can learn how to fight and
defend yourself. And so, you can
actually become
through hard work and through
discipline, you can become who you want
to become.
So,
that's the message that I wanted to
get to my kids. And by the time it came
out, my kids were pretty much a little
too old for it. But, luckily, they they
absorbed that message message in other
ways. Was that like a sort of intimate
decision where it was like, "Ah, I
wanted something for my kids, and so I
did it, and it felt
intimate." Or is there a sense of like,
"I think I can actually nudge culture in
a direction. They culture's hungry for
this kind of story. I bet there's a lot
of parents just like me that have kids
going through the same thing." Like, do
you think at that level? Like, I I want
to bump culture in a certain direction,
or is it a much more local decision for
you?
When I was writing the first book,
I was typing,
and I I felt like I was looking over my
shoulder
thinking to myself, "I hope no one sees
what I'm doing cuz this is the best idea
ever. Like, the world needs this right
now. I need it. The world needs it. I
can't believe no one's written this yet.
Mhm. And so, yeah, I felt like people
were going to go, "That's it. That's
what we've been looking for."
And they were.
So, it worked. And when I definitely had
that feeling. Yep. I was Yep.
Writing that book, I was thinking,
"People are going to
Kids are going to want this book, and
parents are going to want this the kids
to have that book."
Mhm.
How far are you like how deeply do you
want that to take root? For me, when I'm
doing the especially the lives, I talk a
lot about like America needs to find
that thing that we had when I was a kid
where it was uh you wanted to be tough,
you believed that you could do anything,
you had Arnold Schwarzenegger, Sylvester
Stallone, Jean-Claude Van Damme,
uh
you know, just so many guys playing like
this really tough guy role. And I get
how to a modern audience that probably
looks super cheesy, but at the time it
felt so cool. Um
and I really want to see America
re-embrace that. Now, I take it to an
extreme. I think that we are on the
precipice of something exceedingly
dangerous for
uh I think countries go broke all the
time. I think countries go from number
one to middle of the pack faster than
you can snap your fingers. If anybody
wants a lesson in that, look at
Argentina. Was at the absolute top of
the South America pile, only to find
themselves hyper-inflating their
currency and going to absolutely nothing
and struggling. Uh and the only way to
begin the process of coming back is to
go through so much pain and suffering.
Uh whenever your debt gets to the level
that we have debt at, basically it ends
in war, bloodshed of some kind. You can
have your French version where you're
just lopping people's heads off in the
streets, or
uh you can go to war like England did.
Um but none of those seem like good
outcomes to me. So, I'm like, "All
right, how do you attack this problem?"
You attack it at the cultural level. You
focus on kids. Uh you give them this
message. And so, every time I see you,
for people that don't know you, have a
movie that's going to be coming out. I
would love to hear more about that. But,
do you have any sense of
urgency? It sounds like you do
understand this is a huge vacuum, but do
you have a sense of urgency for America
or do you think I'm sort of overstating
the problem? I you know, it's it's one
of those things where I have kids,
right? And I see what my kids are doing
and I see what their friends are doing
and I see them hanging out and what
they're doing and
I don't I'm not despaired at all.
I'm kind of like pretty stoked, you
know? Kids are out there.
I I think they're healthier right now
than they ever have been. There's
the kids aren't drinking as much as they
used to. I don't know what it was like
when you were a kid, but when I was a
kid and when I was saying kid, but when
I was in the in the SEAL Teams, like
alcohol was
everywhere. And
kids are drinking less,
less drugs, they're more healthy. I
think they've
uh, started to embrace things like the
idea of extreme ownership. The first
book that I wrote, which wasn't aimed at
kids, it's aimed at adults, but
like people want to take ownership of
their life. People want to be
responsible for what's going on in the
world and I think that's happening more
and more. And I think there's a meme
world
of
uh, you know, the boomers, right? The
boomers bought their house for $6,000.
You know, and then now, you know, no one
can afford a house. It's like, okay, so
there's some there's some young people
that say
you you the boomers got their houses for
$6,000 and we have to pay a half a
million for a one bedroom, whatever. And
and so there's there's that, but there's
also people that like, oh yeah, that's
what it costs for a house now, cool.
What do I need to do to make it happen?
And also, you know what, the market goes
up and down and we'll I'll find a way
and they'll figure it out. So, I think
there's
a little bit of both, but I'm not
overwhelmingly
dis-
like like overwhelmingly fearing that
the younger generation is not going to
step up and do good things, do positive
things in the world. And when I work
with military, like
you work with young military people,
they're young military people. They're
they're ready to rock and roll. They're
ready to get some. Like that's what
they're ready to do. So,
yeah, and and same thing with like I
work with big companies with
construction companies. And there's
22-year-old kids that are working
construction, kids, 22-year-old young
men that are out there working
construction. They're they're iron
workers, they're pouring concrete, like
they're doing like we have lights on in
this place right now cuz a lineman was
out there
2 days ago in the wind or whatever
repairing the power lines that give us
power. This stuff is happening. That
that's not a 70-year-old guy from the
greatest generation of, you know,
Vietnam. No, it's a kid. It's a guy that
went to lineman school and he's a
lineman now. So, as much as I I hear a
lot of, you know, when you look at
social media, when I look at social
media, who are we seeing? We're seeing
the kids that are on social media. A lot
of kids that are not posting themselves
cuz they're not at the night club with
champagne cuz they're hanging from a a
power line reinstalling a
wire. That's what's happening. And and
that's awesome. So, I I see a lot of the
world
beyond what what is presented via social
media.
And what I see is Americans
that are out there working really hard
to make things happen.
Build companies.
Create things. Work hard. Save their
money. Be healthy. I see that a lot. I
don't have a pessimistic a pessimistic
view of America. Now, I'll tell you,
maybe
three or four years ago I might have
been a slightly more pessimistic, but
even then
I was talking to
guys that were 23 years old working on
an oil rig saving money, making money
going to school to figure out how to get
that next level. Like
I think they're out there. I I know
they're out there. I talked to them. So,
I don't have a pessimistic view. And I
also think that our lives have not been
affected greatly in terms of like the
the way that we live in America from a
war since World War II.
Like in the Korean War
obviously, if you were
if you were a a family member or your
Gold Star family or you had people
overseas, it affected you, but most
Americans, they were still
doing what normal Americans do.
When I was in Iraq
most Americans were at Starbucks
ordering a double latte, whatever those
things are that they order. They were
driving their car, their nice car, they
were surfing the internet. All those
things were happening while we were at
war.
So, we haven't had a war
or even an a Maybe I guess you could say
COVID kind of impact COVID impacted
us on mass, but it was also one of the
things where we were looking around
like, wait a second, what's what's going
on here? It took us a while to figure
out, hold on, what is actually
happening?
So, everyone kind of went, oh, wait,
this is this seems weird.
Wait. If I think if something like that
happened again today, America would be a
lot different. America would be a lot
different in the way we respond
Americans Yeah. our American populace
would be a lot different in the way that
we responded as a group. The the
government really lost a lot of trust on
that, and the media lost a lot of trust.
And so, I don't see that happening
again. I don't see something like that
happening again.
Um so, but but by and large
the values that I put out in the way of
the Warrior Kid,
there's a reason why that book sells
like crazy.
There's a reason why
kids listen, I have a Warrior Kid
podcast, kids listen to that over and
over and over again and their parents
play it for them on their way to
jiu-jitsu class. There's a reason
because they want to be like that and
more important,
they recognize
that those things are
true.
That those things are true.
That's what they recognize. It resonates
with them. Just like a good song, when
you hear a good song, there's something
inherent in the in the chords that are
put together on the guitar that are
inherent that resonate with us. That
resonate with people.
And there's truths in that book that
resonate with people. When they when
they read it, they go, "Oh, yeah. This
is it. This is what we should be doing.
This is what my kids should be doing."
And and that's why I think I'm I'm not
I I'm
to use your word, optimistic.
I love it.
The Warrior Kid podcast, is that you
talking to kids? It's just me. I'll
talk about I'll read stories. I'll
Actually, a lot of them are me just ans-
answering questions for kids. You know,
I'm get- I'm in fifth grade and this
There's a kid that's mean to me. What
should I do? You know, just those kind
of standard things that kids go through.
That is incredible that you've built a
brand that can reach down to kids. Do
they find you through their parents or
through The Warrior Kid book? How
both.
That's really interesting, man. You seem
like you would scare the life out of
somebody in the fifth grade, but
Oh, I'm I'm I'm horrifying to a child.
Like I am I mean, I am one scary-looking
human to a child, for sure.
Uh and and
But it sounds like they get it. Like
they're
get it because I you know, I
believe it or not, even though I look
scary, I'm I'll I'll interact really
well with kids. I I interact with kids
better than I interact with adults cuz I
think I relate to them more. Kids are
cooler and more honest and and yeah, I
have more more fun interactions with
kids than I do with adults.
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And now, let's get back to the show. We
were talking off off camera. It is
really really really interesting to me
about how creative you are, how much of
that side of your personality exists.
You've got so much
to be fancy, bonafides from the Be
Tough, Be Strong, whether it's the
military, which obviously is
unbelievable
what you've gone through, seen, done,
the level that you performed at, all of
that. Uh jiu-jitsu, the continued
strength into your um I don't know how
old you are but
uh
53 Okay Jesus. So you're in better shape
at 53 than most 23 years are 23 year
olds are. Just yeah most people never
get into your kind of shape. Most people
by the time they're 40s are making
excuses. So it's absolutely incredible.
But then I hear that you also do music.
You're writing kids books.
You've now written your first screenplay
which I hear has been optioned but
before we get to that
your book your children's book has been
turned into a feature film. Walk us
through that process which is
incredible. I mean this is like you're
living my fantasy. So I am I am really
blown away at the dexterity of your mind
the the breadth of your personality.
It's really inspiring. I would say uh
very very lucky
beyond anything else. Very very lucky.
I've
been lucky.
And I got lucky with that whole thing.
Um
the story of the movie is
I wrote the books.
And there's a guy
that I did not know at the time. His
name is Ben Everard and Ben
has a couple kids and he walked into his
kids bedroom one day and they were doing
push-ups.
He said, "What are you guys doing?" And
they hold up this book. "We want to be
warrior kids." Do you know how they
found the book?
I don't know.
I think they got it from school. I think
they got it from school library.
And you know Ben who's a happens to be a
movie producer
he was like, "What what is happening?
How did a book make my kids do push-ups?
I can't even get my kids to you know
Yeah. make their bed and here they are
doing push-ups. So he reads the book and
he's like, "Oh my gosh.
I got to make this into a movie."
Friend of a friend
he he had known a guy I had known a guy.
He reached out to that guy like, "You
worked with this guy?" Yep.
Ben set up a meeting with me drove down
to my gym in San Diego and presented me
his
his vision but also his understanding.
Like he I'd been
I I'd had quite a few not quite a few
but I probably had four or five offers
over the years of buying Warrior Kid to
make it a new movie, but he's the guy
that sat down and said, "I see it."
So, you'd turned all those down?
Yeah, and I but but I don't want to
glamorize that too much. I'd have people
say, "You know, we're interested in
turning this They didn't They didn't you
know, they'd send me an email. They'd
They'd call me up or something like
that. But no one like he was
read fully understood the book,
understood the impact on his kids, and
came down and said, "I can I see it. I
see how this becomes what it deserves to
become."
And
I said, "Okay, cool. Let's go." And so
we started kind of formulating
the idea behind the movie. Next thing
you know, we needed The next thing he
wanted to do
was a screenplay.
And so he said, "Look, you know, if we
want to bring this to market, we got to
put together a package. You know, part
of the package is a screenplay." And I
said, "Cool, you know, I'll write the
screenplay."
And he said,
"We should hire someone to write the
screenplay."
And I was kind of like, "Well, you know,
hey,
all due respect, I've written a dozen
books. I've written a bunch of New York
Times bestsellers.
I I know how to write. I'll write the
screenplay." And
you know, he said, "Look, it's not the
same.
It's It's a movie. It's a different
medium. It's a different skill.
And we should hire someone." And
luckily, talking earlier about being
humble, I wasn't like, "No, I got this."
I was like, "Okay, you know what? This
guy's a pro.
He's aligned with me. He wants the movie
to do well, right? He want He has this
vision. We're aligned on the vision.
And so I know that what he's making he's
he's saying this
not to undermine me, but because he has
the same vision. He wants to do well.
So, I said, "Okay, cool."
So, we hire
we
interview a few screenwriters, and we
finally land on this guy named Will
Staples,
whose whose whose dad was a helicopter
pilot in Vietnam, which to me was like,
"Okay, you're you're in."
But
this was right before being Hollywood
Well, we're in Hollywood right now, so
Hollywood uh screenwriting or or strike
was going to happen. Writing strike was
going to happen.
So, we wanted him to write the
screenplay before this strike was
coming.
And so, we said, "Yep, let's make that
happen." And then Ben said to me, "Okay,
I'm going to find investors to pay for
the screenplay."
And I was kind of like, "Whoa."
Well, like, how much is it?" And he told
me how much it was. And I said, "Well,
what if I just pay for it?"
And he was kind of like, "You want to
pay for it?" And I said, "Well, yeah."
And what I didn't realize at the time
and what Ben didn't
tell me
is and you know this
.0001%
of screenplays get turned into a movie.
Right? So, you're putting
you're putting money towards something
that the likelihood of success is almost
zero. Yeah.
I didn't even know that. In my mind, of
course, everything is awesome, right? In
my mind, I'm thinking, "Oh, yeah, of
course of course I'll pay for the
screenplay cuz then I'll own the
screenplay. And then when a movie
company studio buys it, then I'll just
make more money. Great. Cool. No risk."
In my mind, there was no risk. In his
mind, it was all risk. But, you know,
and he he hinted at like, "Hey, this you
know, there's no guarantee on this." I
said, "Okay. Cool." So, I paid for the
screenplay.
Wrote the screenplay. The screenplay was
just
And and we did it in 3 weeks. You know,
he's sending us a draft, we're sending
adjustments back. Change this, make this
happen.
And the screenplay was was was
beautiful. It was just beautiful.
Wow.
So, as that's happening
on another
part of my world
Jocko Fuel and Origin USA, Jocko Fuel
supplement company, Origin USA clothing
company, all 100% manufactured and made
in America with American-made materials.
As that's happening,
Chris Pratt,
who's friends or or was in a
series called The Terminal List, which
was written by a friend of mine named
Jack Carr, who's another SEAL.
So, they had obviously a relationship,
and then another friend of mine named
Jared, who's another SEAL, trained
Chris Pratt for The Terminal List, and
while he was training Chris Pratt for
The Terminal List to get in shape and be
a stud,
he gave him Jocko Fuel. And he'd give
him a bunch of different supplements,
and Chris liked Jocko Fuel, and so he
started taking Jocko Fuel all the time.
And so, he gets in great shape,
and he eventually reaches out to me.
This is prior to the screenplay, prior
to any of that. Chris Pratt says, "You
know, hey, I'd really like to I I love
what you're making, and I love what
you're doing with Origin USA." Cuz he's
a patriotic guy,
and he says, "Cool."
Um
I would really like to do something. So,
we start having So, we kind of say,
"Yeah, let's do something together." And
then our business, you know,
counterparts start talking, right? What
would this look like?
And meanwhile, Ben says, you know, like,
"Hey, you should you should show this
this script to Chris Pratt." And I'm
like, "Dude, I'm not showing this thing
to Chris Pratt. I mean, I I I can't do
that. The guy is a super nice guy. He
wants to do he he wants to do a
different project, and now I'm going to
go and, you know, 'Hey, by the way, I've
got this screenplay.' It just It just I
couldn't do it. Yeah. Chris is too nice
of a guy. He was too, like, open and
too, uh uh just just too nice of a guy
for me to be like, 'And by the way, I'd
like to sneak this business deal.' I
just couldn't do it. So, I said, 'Look,
man, I'm not I'm not doing it.'
But what happened was, as our business
people were having the conversation,
my business people were like, "Well, you
know, Jocko's working on that movie."
And then his business people like, "What
movie?" "Oh, it's a kids movie based on
this Warrior Kid book." And
they said, "Well, send us the
screenplay." So, my people sent Chris's
people the screenplay.
And they read it and went, "Oh my god.
This is
awesome."
They give it to Chris's
film
agent.
And this is woman, they call her Dr. No
because she says no to everything.
Yeah.
And
when I met her for the first time,
she said, "It's great to meet you." She
said, "I read this script.
I wiped the tears from my eyes when I
got done reading it, and I called Chris
and said, 'You better make this movie.'"
Wow. So, that was at our first big
meeting. Nonetheless, once Chris got the
script, Chris read it. Said he read it
one sitting. Same thing. Tears. Like,
"This is epic. We're going to make this
movie." And so, then we had
we had a package cuz we also brought on
the director McG, who is
awesome. Like, just such a great guy. Uh
came up through the music video world,
but then eventually did Charlie's
Angels, you know, and just blew up from
there. And has a bunch of epic stuff
going on.
So, that was the package, and that's
what we kind of brought to the market.
We want to make this movie, and
eventually um
Skydance and Apple came in and
said, "We want it."
It's incredible.
Yeah. Did you guys make the whole film
before you sold it to Skydance and
Apple?
Okay, so they actually foot the bill.
They foot the bill.
That's incredible.
for it.
That's so exciting.
It was crazy. Have you Did you have
ambitions like, "I know one day I'm
going to write fiction" or did that take
you by surprise? You know, I always
wrote a lot.
And fiction stuff. Everything.
Okay. Um and I was actually I found an
old story that I wrote the other day,
and I was like, "This is" and I probably
wrote it when I was like 15 or 16,
and it's freaking awesome.
And I was like, "Dude, this is so cool."
I love this.
I'll tell you the story real quick. It
was like a short story, and there was
this there was these um
like an an old lumber town. Mhm. And
there was a train that left the lumber
yard and and and drove down these tracks
out of and it came out of a tunnel.
And depending on where it was going to
go would be on one of three tracks. And
these young kids got this idea
where they would It was like playing
Russian roulette. They'd stand
above this tunnel Wow. and jump down as
the train was coming out. And if they
picked the right track, they'd be okay.
And if they picked the wrong track, they
would die. Yeah. And it's just a whole
story about where it goes from there.
But That's interesting at 15 or 16 years
like I was 15 or 16 years old, that's a
totally fictional story that I made up.
So yes, I've been writing for a long
time. That's really interesting. Um have
you seen the movie Contact?
No. Oh my god. So uh movie Contact, the
book was written by Carl Sagan. Okay.
And uh for people that don't don't know,
um I think he was an astrophysicist, but
certainly was
He was like the Neil deGrasse Tyson of
his day, but I would say much more
famous and dare I say respected. But he
um
writes this book and
in it
this woman ends up they they get from
aliens, they get instructions on how to
build
uh
it's not time travel, but because it
bends space and time, might as well be.
So they build this device that's going
to allow her to explore the cosmos. They
end up sending her because of her It
doesn't matter why, but they end up
sending her. She's a scientist. And as
she's going through the wormhole, she's
describing back to NASA or whatever like
what she sees and all this stuff and uh
she goes, "They should have sent a
poet."
And I always thought that was a
phenomenal line.
Now hearing you talk about this, I
realize that we sent a writer
to war. Mhm.
And I now want to see
what it's like to be on the ground
because I and Jocko, you may have told
me this stuff before like it rings a
distant bell the music thing, but I I
didn't update my mental map of who you
are, but today when we were talking I've
been following the story stuff closely
because I'm so impressed by it and it
it's so in line with the kind of thing I
want to do.
Uh so just I'm completely blown away by
that.
And so today for some reason I was just
like hold on a second. We've got this
guy. He's in one package
but inside there is um
leadership is so on brand with the
physicality. That one didn't jar me, but
this is like writing stories from the
time you were a kid. You told me that
you won an art contest at your high
school which is like a pretty big deal.
Um
musician
Now dude, you're a published author of
kids stories but like that sell. Not
like hey, I wrote a thing and I printed
it for six people like and then it got
turned into a movie. Chris Pratt, I mean
one of the most famous human beings on
planet Earth. It's not small time. And
there's a damn good reason for it.
Yeah, like this is like you really like
you're you're doing a thing that I saw
Kobe do and I was so mortified when he
died. Never met him. Never interviewed
him.
Certainly blown away by the Mamba
mentality, but more importantly he went
from being a basketball player and then
won an Academy Award for filmmaking and
I was like whoa. It's very rare that
someone can take that thing, whatever
that thing is, that discipline, that
focus
but the creativity of it all and then
point it at something else and be
successful. You've now done that with
receipts on both sides that are so
extreme. Okay, anyway, I say all of that
because now I now that I feel like I
have a better map of how your mind
actually works. Are are you shifting
gears? Like you put I've heard you talk
about like you put the night vision
goggles on and it's just different.
You're just there.
But, are is that creative mind
processing the world? Like, are you
having moments where you feel the either
profundity of war or the absurdity of
war? Or, are you narrating to yourself
like what it means to put so much trust
in another person? Like, what are the
insights that you can feed us back
as somebody with your ability to capture
a story, tell a story, paint a picture?
Like, give me some of that insight. I
did not ever think I would be doing this
stuff.
When I was
in Iraq,
I did not
I was I was like uh only doing one
thing.
And that was
trying to accomplish the mission and
keep my guys alive. And that was the
only thing I thought about.
I I didn't think about
any after the military. I didn't have
any concept of after the military. I
didn't think about after the military. I
only thought about the SEAL teams.
That's the only thing I thought about.
That's the only thing I cared about. And
nothing else really mattered to me.
And
you know, it's funny. I I
If I If I knew the trajectory I was
going to be on,
or I guess I should say
an indicator of me not knowing the
trajectory of my life
was that I have I have almost no
pictures of me
in the SEAL teams.
Like, I have almost no pictures.
So, instead of me saying, "Oh, here I am
in Iraq, and here I am doing this, and
here I am doing that." Or a journal.
I wish I had a journal. I don't have a
journal. The closest thing I have to a
journal
is from my last deployment to Ramadi, I
have
notebooks like this
that only and all they're filled there's
no human insight whatsoever in those.
There is only
you know, hey make sure to make sure to
tell the guys to watch out for this.
Hey, this mission is going to go down
tomorrow night. We're supporting this
group. Like it's only notes, operational
notes. I had no
other thoughts in my mind. I was only
there to to fight. And that was my whole
And and death was accepted as well. Of
hey
this is this is what this is the this is
we're ready.
I'm I'm okay.
I don't need I'm I'm I might not come
home and that's fine. I get it. This is
what we're doing. This is what I'm
doing.
Assessing the situation on the ground
from a creative perspective 100%.
Interacting with other people
in a creative way 100%. Talking to other
people 100%. Like I I I actually will
look back now and you know when you go
watch a movie where the freaking the
battalion commander stands up and gives
a speech and you're like hell yeah.
You you you've seen movies like that,
right?
Or the the the the high school football
coach or the whatever they get
I did that.
Like I really did that. I really got to
like for lack of a better word, give
speeches to my guys. I never thought
about the fact that I was giving
speeches. I never that I never thought
of them as speeches, but now I look back
and I say, oh yeah.
I remember when I said that. I remember
when I I that. I remember what I was
doing was I had a message that I needed
to convey
to the to the boys.
And
I had to be as articulate as I could. I
had to convey this message. It can be
hard to to make people understand
things. So, was there creativity in all
those aspects? Yes. Did I think about
capturing one iota of that in a journal
of any kind? No, I did not.
I did not at all. Uh the only thing that
I cared about and the only thing that I
thought about was war
and the SEAL Teams. And I didn't care
about anything else.
Uh and
I don't even know if that's healthy.
It's probably not.
But
that I felt like that was my
one benefit I had of being older when I
went to war
was I knew
every moment that I was there, I knew
that this was this was the apex of my
life. This was everything that I had
ever wanted to do. This is everything
that I ever dreamt of doing, and this is
we I am at the moment in time where I am
needed to do what I am supposed to do.
And and that's where I was.
Do you think you'll ever write about the
war?
I mean, I I've written about it,
obviously, in Extreme Ownership,
Dichotomy of Leadership, Leadership
Strategy and Tactics. I've written about
components about it.
But, um
as far as
going back and telling that story, maybe
at some point. Maybe at some point, but
you know, it's funny because, you know,
I whenever I tell people I wrote a novel
you know, their immediate question is
almost like, "What what war is it
about?" And it's like, "No, it's not.
It's about a laundromat."
And they're always like, "What?" I
admittedly did not see that coming.
Yeah. Like, so
I think I think, you know, if if we were
to try and dissect my my brain a little
bit you know m-
the time that I was in the military, I
think I applied the creative the
creative bend that I have in my in my
brain, I think I just used it for
military purposes and and just was
that's what I focused on. You know, I
went to school I went to college while I
was in the military and I studied
English.
And when I studied English in school,
the reason I studied English was that I
could write better concept of
operations. Was that I could write
better evaluations for my guys.
That's why I did it. And it worked. Like
I was a very good
at that.
And that's what I used it for.
When I retired, I did not think for one
second that I would write a book.
I did not think that at all.
There was a moment where
that future's just unknown and I
it didn't make sense to me. I never
thought to myself, otherwise I'd have a
bunch of pictures, right? If I would
have had any iota or I would have kept a
journal.
I would have kept a journal. I would
have kept a journal. Hey, on this date
we did this operation. Here's what
happened. Hey, we had casualties today.
Here's what thoughts are going through
my mind.
You know, I I
was telling my
wife and I was talking to my daughter
the other day
and I have, you know, one thing that's
beautiful about emails is, you know,
they're they're permanent.
And you can scan them very quickly. And
I was on Memorial Day I was going back
and I was seeing what I wrote my wife
after my friend and my brother Mark Lee
first SEAL killed in Iraq. What did I
write my wife
on
He He died August 2nd, 2006. What did I
write my wife on August 2nd, on August
3rd, on August 4th?
I I went and read those emails and it's
like
Hey, checking in.
Hope school's going well. Not a mention.
Not a mention.
What about August cuz there's a time
where you're not allowed to say
anything, but then that time passes.
Nothing.
So,
so compartmentalized.
And only focused on one thing. It's
like, "Yep, the family. Got to make sure
the family's doing good to go.
Got to make sure that the team is good
to go. Those two things do not touch
each other. They do not touch each
other."
And And so, that's just a
a little bit of a
snapshot into what I was thinking about.
Was I thinking about poetry? Negative.
Was I thinking about songs? Negative. I
was thinking about war. What environment
do you think outputs the best leaders?
Politics,
corporations, or the military? Politics,
I I would say is the one where I don't
really think that might be the best
example. I don't think politics produces
good leaders because especially the way
the system is now. When I went to
Officer Candidate School,
when I went to Officer Candidate School,
you
you have to polish your belt buckle.
Well,
you actually had to polish
the You had to You had to scrub your
belt buckle with this
chemical called Brasso. You had to scrub
your belt buckle until the finish
on the belt buckle was gone.
Oh. So, they put If you If you got a
piece of a brass belt buckle, they put a
finish on it so that it doesn't
uh
get contaminated every single day.
Well, when you go to OCS, they actually
make you polish that finish off of You
remove the finish.
And I remember just thinking to myself,
it's a slow evolution where, you know,
30 years ago, someone said, "Hey, make
sure your belt buckle doesn't have any,
you know, smudges on it."
And then it's like, "Well, make sure
that you polish it." And then it's "We
want you to polish this thing until it
no longer has the finish on it that
protects it." And it just goes totally
astray, right?
I think that's what happens with
with politicians. Like they go into
politics,
they got to behave a certain Okay, well,
you're you're going to be a politician
now, Tom. Be more professional. Okay, so
you're like, got it.
And then so you adjust your behavior a
little bit.
And then well, we want you to adjust it
a little bit more and a little bit more
and a little bit more and a little bit
more. And pretty soon, the person that
you were is gone. Now, you're just this
weird uh
articulation of a human being that you
that can move its mouth and say words
that it's being programmed with. So, I I
would say politicians probably not the
best
place to formulate leaders.
But the corporate world, obviously I
work with all kinds of corporations.
There's some incredible leaders there.
And then the same thing with the
military, incredible leaders in the
military. That being said,
there's horrible leaders in the
military. There's horrible leaders in
the corporate world. So,
leadership is
is it gets formulated from a bunch of
different components. A lot of it is who
you are as a human being. Just who are
you as a human being?
And where are you as a human being?
Because depending on where you are as a
human being really depends what kind of
leader you're going to When you say
where, what do you mean? What is your
goal?
What do you care about? What do you
value?
Because if what you care about is you,
that's going to be a problem. It's going
to be a problem in the military for
sure. It's going to be a problem in the
civilian sector as well. If your number
one concern, Tom, as a leader is Tom,
and it's not the team, and it's not the
people, and it's not the mission,
you
that things just aren't going to work
well.
So, but if your number one concern is
taking care of your people,
your number one concern is executing the
mission, your number one concern is
making sure that you create something of
value for the world, that's going to be
a person that's going to turn out being
a better leader than someone that's
focused on themselves.
So, and and by the way, you can be
you can be
on the surface, like you know that if
you look out for yourself, you're not
going to get promoted cuz you'll look
like you're an egotistical maniac, and
so you'll play the game, and you can do
that for a little while.
But usually those that that core ego
sleeps slips out, and it will be
problematic.
Do you have a sense of what the
political game is? So, if it's this
constant adjustment that makes somebody
really sort of a caricature of a human,
uh why does that system optimize for
that? When I think people, I mean, I
would certainly say politicians should
be the people leading the nation.
That certainly I think the
the cover story that it has when people
are voting, but it ends up not actually
outputting that thing.
So, what is the essence of politics?
Being able to conform to the machine
and be able to execute what the machine
wants.
And is that uh a game of compromise? Cuz
I'm watching what's going on right now
with like Trump and Elon are falling
apart, or so that's how it's being
portrayed, but Elon does seem pretty
pissed about
if I had to put words in his mouth, like
I went and slept on the floor and did
all this stuff trying to cut the budget,
and now
uh you put out this big beautiful bill
that ups the ceiling of the debt, and
like you just betrayed everything that
we stood for.
And so, there's that friction of you
have a guy that realizes, "Oh, you
actually can't do this dance because
when I look at from the administration
side, they're like, 'Bro, we've got to
get something passed.' And so, I get the
ideology, but the reality is that we
have this two-party system where people
are just battering each other. And so,
So, like compromise, compromise,
compromise to get something to move
forward, and we all sort of
tell a story and turn a blind eye to
in this case, a fiscal cliff that we're
driving towards just cuz we have to get
something that can be voted on.
I would say that's a good assessment.
It's a good assessment. There's there's
the ideal and there's reality.
And how those two how how you
how you sort of thread those two
together, I think a politician
they're trying to do that, and I think
it's a a really difficult situation that
they're in, and I don't think many of
them do it very well. Jocko, this has
been incredible.
Uh where can people connect with you,
follow along, find the things you're
doing? Um I guess jacofuel.com,
originusa.com, echelonfront.com.
jocko.com, and I'm on social media at
Jocko Willink. That's where I'm at.
I love it. Brother, thank you again for
being here. Absolutely incredible. I
appreciate every second of it. Good
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story was never about sex. It was an
illusion, like the dress some see as
blue and others see as gold.
Intelligence agencies exploit the same
trick. They shape what you notice and
distort what it means. Enter compromat,
the art of collecting dirt