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Advice to Addicts Seeking Help: Open Discussion on Addiction

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The video centers on a candid and urgent conversation regarding the critical first step in overcoming addiction: acknowledging the problem and reaching out to trusted loved ones before the situation spirals out of control. The speaker emphasizes that individuals struggling with substances like crack or heroin must not wait until they are stealing from family members or lying to them, as this betrayal alienates the very people who can offer support. Instead, the advice is to swallow one's pride and immediately confide in someone who cares deeply about their well-being, explaining the severity of their struggle. This act of vulnerability is presented as the essential foundation for recovery, preventing the addict from becoming confused by their own lies and losing touch with reality while under the influence of hard drugs. A significant portion of the discussion focuses on the necessity of separating oneself from current drug-using circles to facilitate healing. The speaker argues that an individual cannot effectively help others if they are actively drowning in their own addiction, urging viewers to let go of friends who enable the habit or continue to use alongside them. This difficult decision is framed not as a rejection of friendship, but as a survival strategy to stop the cycle of betrayal and theft that often characterizes severe addiction. The transcript shares personal anecdotes, including a story about a friend in Colombia who warned against crack specifically because it consumes the user's mind completely, reinforcing the idea that certain substances like crack and heroin are particularly dangerous and require immediate cessation without delay. Beyond emotional support, the video suggests exploring alternative healing methods while maintaining a cautious approach to professional advice. The speaker mentions research into entheogens, such as those used in supervised settings in Vancouver, noting that these plant-based substances may offer breakthroughs for hardcore addicts, though he advises taking any specific recommendations with a grain of salt. The overarching message is one of hope and resilience, reminding viewers that they are not alone and that there are amazing people willing to help if given the chance. By recognizing their condition early, avoiding isolation, and building a support system free from deception, individuals can stabilize their lives and eventually extend a helping hand to others once they have found their footing in recovery.
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Mr. Mayup, hey Chicho, sorry to be a mood breaker. I've been watching you for years. In last 3 months, my normal life, 9 to 5 job, etc. has taken a crazy 180. I'm so ashamed of myself, embarrassed deeply. How come I have I have become addicted to crack? Oh no. And I've taken heroin many times. Oh no. I'm already in debt selling stuff. I can't afford rehab. I really don't know what to do. Oh, dude. Do Do you have anyone that really cares about you? Do you have anyone that really cares about you? That is within your proximity that you trust 100%. That um you can depend on that you will you will not betray. That's really important because if you you've gone down the crack and heroin rabbit hole, that rabbit hole, I've I've seen people go down that rabbit hole and they betray their loved ones. So, if you haven't reached that point where where you will steal stuff to feed your habit and stuff like this, uh talk to them, explain to them where you are and see if they're going to because you need someone within your proximity. You can't be left alone. Okay, that's my take. Yes, but so far I have been able to hide it from my family. Uh I can seem 90% normal. Dude, Mr. Maya, don't wait until it shows outwardly that you're completely [ __ ] Okay? Don't Don't wait that long. Swallow your pride. Swallow like whatever you need to swallow. Reach out to a person, loved one that you know that loves you more than their own life more than anything that wants the best for you and explain to them that you're in a [ __ ] hard place and maybe why you're in that hard place and talk it out with them. And that's the first step. That's the first step really. Don't wait until you're stealing from family and loved ones. You're backstabbing them. You're lying to them. And then because what happens when you get into that lying routine, uh you start believing your own lies. You can't tell reality from lie. Mix that in with crack, with heroin, with whatever hard drugs you might be doing, cocaine, whatever you might be doing, you get confused. You You can't tell truth from lies. You'll you'll alienate the people that can help you the most, and you'll [ __ ] over people that love you the most. and you'll start trusting people that feed your addiction, that um act as a gateway for you to remain addicted. Okay? It's a [ __ ] difficult path you're on really, but it's up to you. You need to take that step. It's on you. You got to swallow your pride. You're a human being. We're all [ __ ] really every [ __ ] human being that you know deep down they in essence they are really [ __ ] up in general unless they've hit the bottom multiple [ __ ] times and they've had to lift themselves up with the help of someone or by themselves. And don't do it by yourself. Seriously, don't do it by yourself. get help to stabilize you. And the odds are you're going to even if you step away from it, you might fall back to it every now and then, but realize that you stepped away. Realize that you stepped away. And then once you open up to someone, talk to them, okay? Have them as a as as a gate where if you're in hard times, you can call them anytime and they'll be there for you. Start seeking help. start seeking help like either professional to a certain degree like again take everything with a grain of salt professional whatever [ __ ] it is right but do research eliminate the people that you've been doing crack and heroin with they're out because you are an addict and you can't help anyone else okay you need to you need help yourself you need to be saved from [ __ ] ending your life, right? Drowning before you can reach out to someone else that you love, right? So, if there's people in your life that you're doing this with, it's an activity that you do this with and you think they're really good friends, you got to let them go. Attach yourself to someone that you can rely on that can get you out of the hole that you're in. Okay? And then once you're free, you can maybe reach out to someone else that you love and you love, maybe help them out. But don't try to help anyone else out if you're already [ __ ] up. That's that's the only thing I can tell you, man. You're in deep [ __ ] Like, realize it. You're [ __ ] right now. You're really I've seen a lot of people go through this. You're [ __ ] right now. The first thing you have to recognize and the first thing you did was recognize it. Appreciate how [ __ ] you are. You need to grab that rope. You need you need someone to save you. Um, aside from that, personally for me, um, I can't I I really I can't recommend stuff because um because again, take what I say with a grain of salt. I'll just say take what I say with a grain of salt, but from the research I've done, enthogens uh under supervision, enthogens, not pharmaceuticals, not pharmaceuticals, enthogens, plantbased uh natural substances. There's been tremendous amount of work done with them. One person you can look through, look look into, write down this word. I'm going to write write his name down in chat. Gabbor Mate. Gabbor Mate. Look up the work that he has done in Vancouver with hardcore addicts and addicts of all types using I believe Iasa. Okay. But there are other enthogens that can also break that habit. Okay. Yeah. Show says it [ __ ] but still here to recognize it. Stay here. Exactly. Don't go down the rabbit hole saying you got your addiction under control. If your addiction I don't give a [ __ ] if it's gambling, alcohol, crack, heroin. Crack heroin very dangerous. Alcohol very dangerous. Gambling just annihilates families, right? Annihilates families. Cocaine anni can annihilate families in the long run, right? You're recognizing it. You're saying it. That means you're in a place where you might be able to reach out. Okay. You're in a dangerous place. Recognize it. And I think you have Mr. Maya. Thanks for all your words and advice, everyone. Yeah. And if anybody has I didn't read any of the chat that was coming up because I just needed to stay focused saying what I did. Read the chat and if you think there's someone there that you can reach out to further, reach out to them. But my personal advice would be reach out to someone that really gives a [ __ ] about you really. But make sure make sure you do not lie to them and you do not steal from them. No lying, no stealing. Do not betray them because all addicts betray the ones that they love first. Okay? or brutally. Okay, I've had it happen to me. People have done it to me. And there's a certain point where you just have to let them go. And I've had to let people go even though I love them. I just said, you know what? You're not you're not where you need to be for me to be there, but I'm there if you need me to be there. But you can't steal from me. You can't you can't lie to me. Okay. Dancing visual comic book hall crack. It is what it is. Life is life. This is what channel this channel is about man. This is why I do open discussions. Hamburglar oxyon destroys so many families and lives in Canada. So many. So many touser huge balls for recognizing it too. Well done. Yeah. Tousayer says it. Huge balls for recognizing it man. Bracken every quote everything you know about addiction is wrong Jonah Harry okay God if I could start again a million miles away I would keep myself I would find a way that's got to be a quote from a song and there is an out um Mr. for Maya. There is an out. One of my best friends was an ex heroin addict. I've had friends that are ex crack addicts, ex alcoholics, ex gamblaholics, ex ex addicts. But I also have friends, hat friends maybe, that slip through the fingers and they're gone. Okay? So, make sure you don't slip through the fingers and you're gone. You're going to hurt a lot of people in the process, man, if you do that, okay? Because your life, no matter where you are in your life, know that you're not alone. Really, there are people who give a [ __ ] about you. So, whatever happens to you, if it hurts you, it hurts them. Okay? Recognize that. Too sin nails song. Cool. Brack do not lie. Do not cheat. Do not steal. 100%. Kho, great advice, Chichan. More power to Mr. Mayapp on the road to recovery. Yeah, Trent uh Reszor. Yeah, he was a heroin addict from what I remember. And I've seen 9 in nails live. What a [ __ ] show they put on. Truth uh truth there. Very good use of that song. That whole album was about heroin addiction and drinking. Cool. Moi got to have a fix. Reality sucks. While reality doesn't necessarily have to suck, my reality, even though the world is going to [ __ ] right? People around me, 80% 85% boom boom up the yin-yang, they're [ __ ] 85% of the time. Now it's more like 60%. Because 30, you know, 25% have recognized what happened. But still, a huge percentage of people around you might be [ __ ] but there are amazing people around you. There's amazing life to be had, right? There's amazing life to be lived. Elder God says, "Find a find a phrase to stop you doing something bad. Mine is quote, I never did mind about the little things." End quote. Haha. Mr. Maya, crack is insane. Yeah, it's so different to any other drug. I have tried most things growing up but never got addicted to anything. Crack consumes you. It's all you think about. Here Mr. Mr. Mayup, here's here is something that my friend that used to be a heroin addict told me. Okay, he he was he was a really good friend. We hung around for a while. He lives in Colombia now. South America. Colombia. Okay. He told me we're we were partying for a while and stuff like this and he was an ex heroin addict and uh you know we still drank together. He didn't smoke weed. I can't remember if he smoked weed or not but he still drank a little bit. Not too much. Right. He turned to me and he said Chicho your character never do crack. Never ever do crack. You will get addicted like this and it'll [ __ ] you up. One reason is crack takes you down the rabbit hole and makes you process and you see things in because he did crack, right? He said never ever do crack. And to his advice and he gave me this advice 20 years ago. To his advice, never crack. Not that I would really, but maybe the opportunity present itself and it had and it did. and remembering his words because people would offer it. Never never did it. Okay? Because I trusted him. I respected him. He loved me. And he gave me one advice. That was one advice. This is [ __ ] the only advice he ever gave me. Chicho, never do crack. Never do crack. You will get addicted off the first go. And I said, "Okay, won't do it." and I made him a promise I would never do it. He was one of my uh gay friends I partied with for for a long time. He was super nice guy, man. He is a super nice guy. He's still alive. He's still kicking it. And he was a hardcore addict. I'm going to read the comments. Uh KO Mr. Maya uh you're here right now engaging to Mr. uh so Ko saying it to Mr. Maya, you're here right now engaging with people and talking. Little by little, you can train your focus in different directions. Great advice. Yeah, truth provider. Alcoholism is very destructive. Very destructive. Hamburglar on Rumble. I know someone who got a hot shot. This was long before fentinel. He died on a couch at house party. People thought thought he just drank too much. Oh, so unfortunate. So unfortunate. So unfortunate. Truth, sir. I once did heroin once on accident. One of the few times I tried coke and I thought to myself, quote, "Life is good, but this is too good. This isn't natural. End quote. And I never did it again. Smart. S smart to say moi walby. Noble truth in I'm Christian and I realize there is truth in all faith. Hinduism, Buddhism, Islam, even uh paganism, astronomy. Okay. Nim. I must read a bor I must lead a boring life as I don't know any crack addicts. You don't want to be around crack addicts unless they're reaching out for help and you lend a hand if you can, but make sure you explain to them. Never lie to me. Never steal from me. RJN missed my comment regarding Salvia. Look it up. Let's see. Oh, where is it? RJS. Uh, Chicho, do you still use Salvia? If so, what's your current regiment? Regards, um, Salvia is illegal in Canada. That's all I can say. Uh, RJN, oh my god. We shall flow a river forth to thee, and teeming with soul souls shall it ever be. I nom nominee Patrice at Philly at Spiritus Sakini Siti Brack. Never do crack and never consume anything you don't know from your own soil. Yeah, you don't grow from your own soil. Back only one place you can have the crack is in the ancient land of Ireland. Here the crack is 90 H. Moi Neil Young. Every junkie is like a setting sun. A little bit of it in everyone. Huh? R J RJ and illegal. Yeah. Yeah, Elder got lots of crack addicts in Victoria, too. Show says the system surrounding so soberity must be changed. The system wants you sick. That way the money uh faucet and grants can stay uh tuned up. Damn shame. Damn shame. 100%. too sir. That's all I can say. Yeah, bra. I did speed on accident. Somebody packed it in a spliff and passed the doobie to the left hand side. I tod it up and half of half an hour later got lost on a roundabout in a housing estate. Yeah. And that person that spiked that spliff with speed and passed it to you, that piece of [ __ ] deserves a punch in the [ __ ] face. Don't do it. Right. We're peaceful people here. But I would never party with that person again. If someone slips me anything, I will never [ __ ] hang around them again. Ever. Ever.