Activist Charleston White Accused of Bopping Woman In The Eye! - Love Lessons

Hey, hey, Tony Gassin's here. Now, somebody sent this here to me where looks like this a guy I done seen him on all the podcast, not all the podcast, but I seen him around. And another thing what I try to tell people about sometimes when you look at people and you could read them and you see so it's like the gentleman Charleston White he all ready like when you look at him as an adult he looks little like very feeble just a really he just look like a very small guy like so you can imagine Imagine what a guy looked like that looked like in middle school. And and then a woman is saying that he bopped her in the eye, which we don't know if it's true because it is women who will throw that wrench up in the eye in the air and let it come down and hit them in the eye like they do in the movies. So, we don't know that it's true. But for me, I just am not we we just don't see enough times where it's a lie. Just to be quite honest with you, just like with the yada awakening guy, his woman posted a black eye and he got arrested, I think. And we just don't see enough time where it's a lie because women put up with so much. And it's times where men have put hands on a woman and the woman never tell a soul. The woman never come out and tell nothing. And I'm a man. I know men. I have been in relationships too. In a relationship, women don't tell everything. And if that's something that a man is telling you, he lying. Cuz it's a lot that I done that a woman ain't told. And it just a lot of stuff a woman look at it and for whatever reason, she may look at it like, "Hey, I'm in this too. Hey, I'm a part of this, too. Hey, I went through this, too." Like, this me too. This my choice, too. And a lot of women don't want their business in the street. They don't want to be a spectacle. They don't want to be looked at. They don't want to be judged. They don't want to be looked down. So 90% of the stuff that happen to women go to the grave. And unless you on the phone every day like me doing coaching calls, you wouldn't know that. You wouldn't assume that. You would think like I I didn't coach women and listen and they holding stuff that'll make them a bestseller. It'll be a New York time bestseller, could be a millionaire, and they be like, "Nah, Tony, I just don't want to tell it." Like, I don't want to tell on them. I don't want to I don't want to be in the spotlight. I don't want to be in the in the public eye. I don't want people attacking me, saying I'm this, saying I'm that. I don't want my basically my good to be evil spoken of. And so, with this hill black eye from this gentleman, I believe it. I I believe it just because of knowing men and then also just you know he have a reason and when I say a reason I what I mean is he has an explanation he has an ex not an excuse but when you look at a man who look like him you could tell he will punch a woman in eye. Like he looked like he'll punch a woman in the eye. He looked like he'll want to fight him a woman. And the crazy thing about black people and not just black people but about humans is we so interested in entertainment that all of these podcast platforms this man and give him a platform to just talk and he and the and that's what I tell y'all all a time. The hardest thing a man going to do is love a woman. Like it's it's all that same thing with Dr. Umar always sitting down bumping his gums but can't love no woman. I'mma tell you like this right here. If a man can't get married and figure out as an adult man now and figure out how to make a marriage work, he's not fit to listen to. I'm telling you, as a man, that's the hardest thing in the world. Like, we have watched men, we watched Jeff Bezos become a trillionaire, but yet his marriage failed. Bill Gates, billionaire, marriage fail. Elon Musk, trillionaire, no healthy marriage. Think about that. President of the United States, no healthy marriage. Bad view or outlook on women. You could grab them by the pee if you a celebrity. They they fat cows. I mean, call them every name in the book. And this the president now. And then, but guess what? The man say how he feel about women and millions of women still go and vote for him. Oh, he ain't talking about me. Yes, he is. He call you a fat cow, too. And as soon as you don't do what he say or what he want, he telling you you're nasty, fat, ugly, disgusting, you big barbarian, you're a big ape on a log, you every name in the book and but you're right down there voting. Oh well, [clears throat] well, I'm voting for the policies. You're broke, ain't you? You're broke, ain't you? M we two years in. Yeah. And so think about it. That's the hardest thing a man is going to do. Love a woman. The hardest thing. And the reason why it's the hardest thing is because it's hard for humans to not be selfish. It's hard for humans to be considerate, to be patient, to be temperant, to be loving, to be understanding. It's hard for us to as human beings to get beyond ourselves, to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. It's hard to love men for men and women, but it's the hardest thing a man is going to do. Like I I yesterday went on [snorts] chat GPT told it, "Hey, I need to lose some weight." Make me a a schedule and put it on a graphic of how to, you know, what to eat and all of this and three meals a day, how much water to drink, what time to go to bed, what time to wake up, and put it on a graphic so it made it. Then I told it to make one for my wife and she do her own thing but I just sent to her as a guide just because I had made me one and and it made it and it called it you know oh I think I told it make it Tony's comeback plan and so you see it right there you can't hardly see it but so it got on there my boil eggs and I told it you know that what I got in my gym at home and what I got access to so it put that on there. So like this morning I did the red light red light therapy and the vibration plate. Ate two boiled eggs and then my wife when I told her when I sent her the thing she immediately ordered the grocery. Ordered the grocery went picked up the grocery came home started meal prepping cuz I got grilled chicken, sweet potato and broccoli for dinner. She meal prepped the sweet potatoes, meal prep the chicken breast, bought the broccoli, going to cook that when I come home. And just like that, immediately went right to it. Just showing love. Woke up this morning, had me a shake. This got this got 30 grams of uh protein in it. See, I done tow it up. Blueberries in there. I think banana I don't know if bananas in there. Peanut butter. protein powder, stuff like that. All kind of little stuff in there. Might be some cottage cheese. And uh and then she packed my lunch, you know, got my lunch and then I'm going home to dinner. That's that right there is what a woman, a good woman will do. And that's how she treat you. That's how she love you. And that's the thing as men, what I had to learn is we got to especially when we got a good woman, we got to become a good man. And the better a man is, the better a woman will be because that's how God made it. Like we intended as men to lead by example. We intended to be the head of the household. We intended to be the leader. We intended to be, you know, just to bring structure. And when you think about a man in a household, it's like everything moves better when the man is there and he's focused and he locked in. He committed. Like the kids, my sons respect my voice. They love their mama, but they listen to their daddy. and they'll listen to their mama. But a boy only gonna listen to a woman for so long. He gonna get to a point and even a boy gonna buck back at his daddy too. But the thing about with the daddy is he know daddy could knock his head off his shoulders. He know daddy could pick him up and blam blam him if he need to. He know mama can't do that. So with mama, he know mama have to stab him or shoot him. And he know she love him too much to do that. But he don't know if daddy love him enough not to hit him in the mouth. And and if he push daddy far far enough, oh, he gonna get swung on. So he understand that that he going to have to respect the man of the house. And so God made it like that for whatever reason. And that's why men got to learn how to be men. We got to learn how to heal. We got to learn how to grow. And we got to learn how to lead. and understanding that our strength is our gentleness and our leadership is our service. And so here once again we have an example of a public figure, a community figure who says a lot of good stuff, say a whole lot of stuff that make a whole lot of sense and people be really buying into it and and really be listening to him. And for whatever reason, like all the podcast, all the black podcast bring the man on and let him talk. I I never really listen to him talk like that. I probably heard maybe 30 seconds at a time at most. And when he be talking, he he don't say nothing like crazy. Like the stuff he say, a lot of it makes sense. A lot of it be the truth. You it be, you know, but I I don't know what's wrong with him. Like I don't know if I don't know if he has some type of mental issue or it just you just don't often times see men look like that and built like that and you know so I I just don't know what it what his childhood was like and what he what he mad about and what does he really care about because my thing is you can't really care about the thugs out here in the streets doing what street thugs do and then go home and be a street thug to your woman, punching her in the eye. And the lady is lightkinned, but you still got to hit her with a pretty decent right cross to catch that eye like that to do that eye like that. And because it looked like it kind of broke some bust some blood vessels in her head cuz she got she got a little red squiggly mark that looked like you would think I thought it was like the Nipsy Hustle Prolific tattoo or something, but it look like it's a blood vessel that busted and just turned red and it's shining through her skin. And I don't know who the woman is or what she look like or nothing like that. She's just showing that side. Could tell look like she mixed of some sort, biracial of some sort, but got bogged in the eye. And that's the unfortunate part about it because it's like, man, I just and I and my heart goes out to women who is getting bogged in the face because I couldn't be you. I be done shot the little negro and I I be done hot grease, hot grits, hot boiling water. Negro after CB. God bless you. Y'all be around here taking whoopies living. Negro be in a grave if it was me, man. Man, you not been to hit me in the eye knowing you stronger than me. Well, I'm f to blim blah what blow your head off. You hear me? Swangle me again. Go to put this tulie oolie to you. And so that's what y'all men need to understand too is you going to hit the wrong one. You going to mess around and hit the wrong one. Then you got to ask yourself, was it worth it? Big grown dangling in the booty musky man. Was it worth it to punch this woman in her face so she blow your brains out? That's called battered woman syndrome. And so she will get off. She will get off. You It looked like I don't know what a mistrial is with the Lindsy Clancy thing, but it was a young lady. She made a good argument. She said, "Listen, I know y'all trying to say this postpartum psychosis, but this wasn't one child. This was three. This wasn't a bullet to the head, this was strangling with exercise bands." She say, "So you trying to tell me with all the time and all the energy and all the effort that it take to strangle somebody and not just one somebody but three somebody's at no point nothing clicked to her and said what I'm doing is wrong. I need to snap snap out of this." At no point was her frustration and everything she was feeling and going through was it was it like exhausted like I got that out of me like woo I got that stress out of me after strangling the child number one or after strangling child number two I feel better than strangle two of them like that's what the young lady was saying um young Hispanic lady and then she was I guess debating on the Oprah show with with a older white lady. And I'm starting to question Oprah, man. I guess Oprah has always been a part of the wrong team. Y'all think y'all told me that before. I said something about her like complimentary and and I got some comments that was like, "Tony, how could you say anything good about Oprah? Oprah is Satan." I was like, "What Oprah did?" N I I went on the Oprah show, but I've never watched the Oprah show going before it or after it. So, I really don't know much about Oprah. But but I seen a young lady I seen the young lady, which this is a woman who is going to have postpartum one day. So, I seen the young lady make that point about like I'm not buying it. Like, I think she's a murderer. And Oprah's like, "After all that you've heard, that's how you feel." I'm like, "Man, Oprah, this lady ain't got room to have an opinion as another fellow woman. She can't have an opinion." And this is a young woman, too, in her early 20s. Look like, so she impressionable. She young. She empathetic. And this how she feel. Let that woman feel like that. Like what narrative are you trying to push to where she can't feel like another woman is a murderer? Like why can't she feel like that if she's a woman? And so listen to me. They letting women off. I seen another woman kill her two kids and she had postpartum psychosis and she was let off. a black woman. So, it ain't just white women now. They just let a black woman off. Saw that right there. I don't know if I screenshot it, but yeah. Seen that. So, you got to realize and understand that. Yeah. You keep punching these women, one of them f to catch a psychosis on you and blow your brains out. and she ain't and she getting off because of temporary psychosis or whatever kind of psychosis she getting off. And guess what? That's what you get. Shouldn't have been punching in the face. Shouldn't have been punching her period. Don't take that the wrong way. Oh, what? I supposed to hit her in the leg? Charston hit her in the leg, too. Yeah. the lady showed leg bruises, face bruises, and after that right there, if you're a man, if you're a if you're a podcast and you platform Charleston after he has beat on that woman, you deserve to be beat because you perpetuating the cycle. So you deserve to be beat if you're gonna platform him after him being exposed as a woman beater. Point blank period odd. And what what I want y'all to realize is this happens a lot now. A lot of times, a lot of time people look at it and and that's why you don't see a lot of men like really getting down on men when they put hands on a woman because most men have put hands on a woman. So, it's not this rare occasion like this rare thing. Like there was a there was a quote or not a quote but a statistic years and years ago that said a woman is abused every 9 seconds. Every nine seconds a woman is abused. That's what it said. Right now it might be every two seconds. Be honest with you in the world we live in with all the volatility and all of that right there. So you got to really think about this thing and process this thing and come to a place to where you start to realize and understand like this real. This is real. This is real. And so get to that place to where you start to you also got to evaluate people for who they are. You got to look at somebody whole life and you got to ask somebody like okay why would I listen to somebody who can't even get their own life together? Like why would I take advice from somebody who can't get their own life together? And I think and it's a lot of people right now that's like platforming and praising and worshiping even Dr. Umar. And my thing about it is and they'll call it hate. But my thing is you're not for the black people if you can't love a black woman. If you can't marry a black woman and reproduce life with her, then you can't say you an advocate for the advancement of black people. It's not true. You are an advocate for the advancement of yourself. But if you can't get into a relationship and be selfless and love and protect and provide and promote and all of the things for your woman and let the world know that you have a woman, that you have a queen and show your queen, then you shouldn't be giving advice on black advancement. And that's why Dr. Umar and Charleston White are mad with those of us who talk about love and relationships and want us to focus on the street thugs killing each other. And it's like they in the streets. They signed up to die. Like they signed up to die. And so they know what they doing even when they don't know what they doing. Like they know what they signed up for. They signed up to die or to go to prison. And but even still the answer for that is healthy relationships where the man and the woman is a team. So imagine a man being with a woman and that woman is speaking life into that man, supporting that man and holding him accountable. She doesn't allow him to be a drug dealer. She doesn't allow him to be a thug. And she says, "No, I'm not going to support you in that because your calling is higher than that. You're better than that. You could do more than that." And then that man hears her and adheres to what she trying to speak into his life. And then he goes and he walks in his purpose and they have children together, sons, daughters, whichever. What do you think is going to happen? Y'all give me one second. Let me lock my office door. What do you think is going to happen for that household? So that's what I want you to realize and understand when think about this. Really think about this. Give me one second. Y'all forgive a get my uh oh that's the wrong key and so I want you to really think about this had went and I ain't even have my pants z want you to think about and process like okay what what'll happen if this man and this woman become teammates. So imagine if Lil Charleston got him a queen, showed that queen, they start working together, supporting each other, she's supporting them, they have kids and he's sober minded and vigilant. But see, the thing about it is we really let we let junkies get out here and give us marching orders. We taking marching orders from junkies. We taking marching orders from, you know, people who are never sober minded, not even soberminded, and can't even regulate their emotions to benefit their own cause or to live what they trying to teach. Like, that don't make no sense. That's crazy. And and then I I saw the guys Charleston White one time. He was showing all his all his little guns and just showing how he got all the guns and got them on them and yeah, you come for me. I'mma do this right here and do that right there. And just scared as all out those. Scared as all out those. And then fighting women. Not fighting women. Like what? You fighting a woman? You you could easy go do anything else in the world and you up here fighting this woman. You're up here fighting this woman. Could go do anything else in the world. And that what you got to realize. So this the thing, get to that place. Get to that place. Realize and understand that you can't listen to everybody. You can't listen to everybody. It's not going to work out like that. But hey, this Tony Gaskins, God bless you. Keep your head up. All the important links in the description. Right now, we got the $5 course special on. It's called Recession Ready. TonyGassesacademy.com. Get on over there. Get that in your spirit. $5. I did that intentionally just so that you can't lose. go through the course, take the information, implement the information, and you're gonna make your $ five dollar back because I want to I want to get you in the profit fast. And then if you need extra support, community, we birthing books, this and that, all of that in the purpose pushers community. You see it right there on the screen, but the link is in the description. Join us. Really like a group coaching environment, supporting each other, not praying on each other. If somebody in there soliciting and doing all that, you could DM me, let me know. I'mma kick them out the group. So, it's really like a safe space to come dream, plan, and do. 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