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Scott Galloway defines financial freedom through a simple equation where passive income exceeds one's burn rate, illustrating this concept with contrasting examples of his father and an M&A executive. His father, relying on a Royal Navy pension and Social Security to generate roughly $52,000 in annual passive income while spending only $48,000, embodies true wealth despite modest activities like collecting quarters from trailer parks. Conversely, the high-earning friend who makes millions annually but lives beyond his means due to lifestyle inflation, alimony payments, and a desire for status signaling remains "poor" or working poor, suffering immense stress on his marriage and mental health. Galloway argues that achieving this state of economic security allows individuals to eliminate anxiety about money and live without obligation, transforming work from a necessity into a choice rather than a burden. To reach financial independence, one must focus intensely on finding an industry where they can become part of the top 1% or 0.1%, as incremental effort in side hustles often yields less return than doubling down on a primary career that utilizes natural strengths. Galloway emphasizes stoicism to manage factors outside personal control, such as market crashes like the one triggered by Wells Fargo's credit line analysis in 2008, and advocates for strict discipline regarding spending habits. He recounts his own mistake of buying an expensive BMW with his first bonus instead of investing it, noting that had he invested the difference in low-cost index funds, that single decision could have grown into millions over time. This highlights the critical importance of controlling one's spending to maximize savings and leverage compound interest effectively. Time is identified as a species' greatest flaw because most people fail to calibrate their strategies for an 80-year lifespan, often underestimating how quickly wealth can accumulate through compounding. Galloway challenges parents who spend exorbitant sums on elite private schools like First Presbyterian or Grace Church in New York City, suggesting that the tuition fees—often exceeding $62,000 annually per child—are better reinvested into low-cost ETFs for public education savings plans. By investing an average of 9% to 11% annually instead of paying high school and college tuitions, parents could accumulate over $5 million by their children's age thirty-five, providing them with significant economic security without the financial strain that can negatively impact a household environment. Finally, Galloway stresses the necessity of diversification as "Kevlar" to protect against market volatility and individual failure, recounting how his own company went bankrupt in 2008 after he leveraged himself heavily on a single stock, Red Envelope, which eventually led him from being worth $10 million into owing millions. He now limits any single investment to no more than 3% of his net worth, accepting that while individual bets might fail and go to zero, the diversified portfolio remains intact because he does not need to be a hero finding every needle in the haystack; buying the whole haystack is safer. This approach mitigates loss aversion, ensuring that potential gains from picking winners like Nvidia are balanced against the pain of losing everything on concentrated positions, ultimately allowing individuals to maintain their mental well-being and financial stability over decades.
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how do you think about deconstructing
what wealth looks like what should
people do in order to achieve Financial
Security well the first of Define what
wealth is I I'm I Define rich as the
following passive income that's greater
than your burn and I'll give you two
examples I have a close friend who runs
the m&a group of a large bulge bracket
Investment Bank he makes 3 million in a
bad year 14 million in a great year
because it's all current
income and he lives in Connecticut he
pays about 52% tax rate uh but that's
still a lot of money but between his
ex-wife his alimony his child support
his home in the Hamptons his master of
the universe lifestyle that he thinks he
needs and wants to signal to his friends
I know firsthand he doesn't save a lot
of money and it is an enormous source of
stress for him and on his marriage and
then uh he's what I call Poor or the
Working Poor despite how much money he's
making he's hugely stressed out it's a
money and the need for money is a huge
source of stress for him my father
between his Royal Navy pension and
social security and he owns about a
dozen washing machines that he collects
quarters from in trailer parks he makes
about $52,000 a year without really
working he enjoys going and collecting
quarters my dad is Scottish he's like
tragically cheap I'm pretty sure he goes
home lays the quarters out on his bed
and rolls around them in them I think
that's probably fun for him but his
passive income he and he spends
$48,000 he's Rich his passive income is
greater than his burn that's the
definition of rich and so that's a point
you want to get to a point where you
have enough Investments that are
spinning off capital or growing such
that your passive income is greater than
your burn and you can do the math right
well okay if I'm going to need $120,000
a year and I think I'll get eight% or
six% on that I need to save two million
all right this is how many years I have
to work I'll assume the market will go
up eight% a year you can kind of do the
math around how much you should be
saving and putting in to lowcost index
funds so that's the goal you want to be
rich you want an absence from anxiety
you want to be able to live well without
having obligation if you decide to keep
working which I would suggest anyone
does it's a choice and that that in
itself is like a when I sold my company
in 2017 and I was finally kind of dun
dun dun I felt like I exhaled relief for
a good two years it was just like Jesus
Christ now this is all this is all
things I wanted get to
choose just to digress one of my role
models a guy named Barry Rosen Senor
start janana partner said there's three
buckets in life there's things you have
to do your biggest investors in town you
have to do it you know you you get
invited on Joe Rogan and this is the
date the window you have to get there
for that date right there's things you
want to do oh I'm going to can to the
creativity festival or your mates are
meeting up for you know in New York all
your friends from the UK right you want
to do that [ __ ] and then there's things
you should do you know my co-workers kid
is having a wedding I really should go
to this there's this it's South by
Southwest I got invited to a party with
all these podcasters I should go and
network I should I should I should the
great thing about having economic
security and Barry taught me is he said
you can totally delete the should bucket
I no longer do things I should and it's
actually a bit of a point attention with
my partner but she'll often say oh we
should do this they're nice people and
I'm like I don't want to do this and I
don't need to do this I should do it so
I'm not doing it and that is so
liberating to just say okay there's just
some things you have to do the stuff you
want to do that's easy but get rid of
the should bucket but the algorithm
itself or the equation itself is the
following the first is focus and it goes
back to what we said earlier find
something that you're naturally good at
that you could become in the top 10 or
top 1% in an industry that has a 90 plus
per perc employment rate and focus on it
I hate side hustles side hustle is fine
for exploration if you're not happy with
your main hustle and you can't give it
up because you need the money but it's
exploratory and if your side hustles are
going on too long it means you got to
change your main hustle because I would
bet and I'm fairly confident the
research shows this that the incremental
10 or 20% effort reinvested into your
main hustle will provide greater return
than the distraction caused by an
incremental side hustle so find
something you're good at that you could
become great at through focus and that's
your job find that thing that's not easy
the rest is a the product of the
following and this is probably the wrong
word but I like the word I said stoicism
recognize or something's out of your
control my company when chapter 11 in
2008 after Wills Fargo analyst pulled
our credit credit line because they did
some equation showing that the market
recently was going into a credit crisis
I can't control that um I can't control
that I got in in some ways a lot of my
wealth since 2008 isn't my fault isn't
my fault the Market's ripped up but I
can't control my spending I can control
I can recognize that no one's thinking
about my [ __ ] as much as I'm thinking
about my [ __ ] and I don't probably need
a BMW at a young age I first thing I did
with my first bonus uh Morgan Stanley I
got a $28,000 Bonus I went and bought a
$35,000 BMW and I hung swimming goggles
from the rearview mirror despite the
fact I didn't swim thinking that would
you know impress women and I thought
about it I thought okay of course you're
not smart enough to do this but if I had
just bought a Hyundai for $112,000 and
invested the other 20 in the markets I
think that money would be worth like 3.1
million now so recognize there are some
things within your control uh
specifically how much you you spend how
much you save being thoughtful about
trying to be disciplined about putting
some money in lowcost ETFs and index
funds that you do have some control
focus on the things you can control uh
the next thing is time one of our
species great flaws is that because for
the majority of our time on this planet
we haven't lived past 35 we just can't
calibrate time and strategy answers one
question what can I do that's really
hard that's basically leaning into your
advantages when you're young you have
one advantage you have time most young
people at 25 don't really recognize two
things one they're probably going to be
be here for another 80 years at this
point if they're 25 right now and and
this is the hard part and you have to
ignore your brain because your brain
isn't wired this way it's going to go a
hell of a lot faster than you think it's
just like I look at you and I immed
think oh I'm his age because I was 30 or
whatever the [ __ ] you are you know
yesterday it wow life has gone so slow
said no one ever and if I could give you
a magic box at 25 and said if you find a
th000 bucks to put in here in an instant
and it will feel like an instant in 30
years you're going to have 12 16 24,000
what kind of effort would you make to
find that thousand bucks the power of
compound interest is amazing I've been
doing I'm kind of on this idea of at
some point we're going to move back to
the US and in New York you signal with
your clothes your your home but you also
signal with where you send your kids to
school and I'm a narcissist and big ego
and I thought okay I would want my kids
to go to First Presbyterian Grace Church
we sort of these two Tony schools
downtown the tuition is 62 Grand it's
probably more than that in the interview
when we were here 10 years ago they
asked they ask you how philanthropic you
are which is how much money are you
going to give us but college is 62,000
you're the you're the people who don't
spend any money or giv any money now why
do you do that we I bet for two-thirds
of the people that send their kids there
it's a sacrifice probably a third don't
care it's like they're so rich in New
York they just don't care but if you're
talking about 62 Grand you're really
talking about a 100 Grand at least
pre-tax I mean it's real money that's
real money every year and if you got
three kids 300 Grand so for people it's
a financial strain which you could argue
put strain on the whole household kids
pick up on that strain and why are you
doing it well I want to give my kids
everything what's everything well I want
to give them the best chance to get in a
great College okay why so they can have
you know more options than I did Growing
Up what do you mean by that what do they
get well a better job more more
opportunity well why do they need more
opportunity better job well so that at
the end of the day they can do what they
want and maybe get some economic
security and afford a home and and have
a family and and have Economic Security
and have an absence from stress line
okay got it instead of sending them to
First Presbyterian and Grace and I've
heard you talk about this there's a lot
of research showing that the best school
for kids is the one closest to their
home and then take in reinvest that
commute time and studying sleep play and
try and be disciplined take that $62,000
a year from the age of 4 to 18 and
invested in lowcost ETFs on average
they've returned 9% since 2008 8% now
11% since 2008 8% since the beginning of
the market assume it does 8% assume you
are wrong you sent that kid to public
school and you screwed up they didn't
get into the best college they ended up
with a mediocre career they have trouble
buying their first home they don't have
they can't live the life that you got to
lead or that you'd really H for them
here's what's going to ease your pain if
you were disciplined and reinvested that
money you would have spent on Grace
Church by the time they are 35 you'll
have $5.3 million to give to them that
will ease a lot of economic anxiety so I
would just love to have a banner that
says public school or 5.3
million you know it's it's or public
school and four 5.3 like Grace Church or
5.3 million because people just don't
realize how P how fast time goes and how
powerful compounding is and then the
last thing and this is something you
know do as I say not as I do it really
killed me a couple times took me from
wealthy to not wealthy I've been Rich
three times this is the third time and
I'm really hoping it sticks this time
but the first two it went away and it's
because I didn't understand
diversification I was assumed that if I
threw myself into anything that I should
go 110% in not only with my time but my
capital and that anything I devoted 110%
of me to because I was so awesome that I
could move mountains and you need to
recognize that market dynamics Will
trump individual performance all of the
time most of my success and my failure
is not my
fault
and the way you protect against that is
diversification and now so for example I
don't put more than 3% of my net worth
in any one investment and last week if
you'd asked me what is the best
investment you had that has the most
potential to be a 10xer I would have
said it's this company I invested in
this Healthcare company that does
preventive me message uh excuse me
preved medicine through taxt based
messaging selling into the Enterprise
baller CEO Tier 1 V see huge huge
hitters investors had to Elbow my way in
to get in what a thrill I got to invest
went out of business last week zero zero
right my investment goes to zero and but
here's the thing it bummed me out for
about an hour because diversification is
your Kevlar okay I lost 3% of my net
worth doesn't mean anything whereas in
2008 when I was um running or when my
biggest investment was a public
e-commerce company called Red Envelope
which was doing really well at the time
when I met with my Investment Bank they
you know I think I owned 10 million in
stock and I said well how much can I
borrow against it and I said you could
probably brought three million and they
said what are you gonna do with it buy
out I'm like no I'm gonna buy more Red
Envelope stock and there Steve bomber
did the same thing with Microsoft and it
worked out you should assume you're not
Steve bomber because when my company
went bankrupt it meant that I owed $3
million I went from being worth 10
million to owing three million the tax
on my emotional and mental well-being
was enormous and
diversification is your Kevlar because
you don't need to be a hero you need
don't need to find the needle and the Hy
stack you can buy the whole hay stack
and again see above time will go fast
you'll be financially secure and conoman
wrote about loss aversion Theory The Joy
you'll get from being smart enough to
pick Nvidia two years ago which most of
us were not the joy you'll get of like a
lack of diversification in the potential
upside it offers is a fraction of the
pain you will feel when Nvidia gets cut
by 90% so for your own Financial
well-being much less your own mental
well-being Embrace
diversification because now I just don't
I don't want to say I don't think about
my investments I'm constantly looking
for new opportunity but because I never
put more than 3% in any one thing it's
like give me your best shot I can take
anything it's a bullet to the chest when
it goes to zero but I got Kevlar yeah
knocks me off my feet and then I get up
and I got a bruise and I'm like I'm fine
nothing's ever critical much less f F
whereas before when I got shot in the
chest in 2000 with a do bomb explosion
or implosion and the great financial
recession in 2008 I almost never could
get up again I mean I came very close to
just never getting up again so Focus
find what you're good at Double Down On
It um uh
diversification stoicism save more than
you or spend less than you make so you
can save and appreciate just how
powerful time and compound interest is
and the kind of the way I would wrap it
up is I know to get you rich that's the
good news the bad news is slowly and
then it's all wrapped in and I didn't
know how to put this into equation but I
call Wealth a full person project and
that is there's a myth that really
wealthy people crawled over other people
to get there that they're billionaires
lighting their cigars with $100 bills
that's [ __ ] the majority of
self-made people are actually good
people they're High character and the
reason why is if you want to be really
wealthy you need to collect allies along
the way people have to want to put you
in a room room of opportunities even
when you're not physically in the room
they want to give you the benefit of the
doubt they want to go easy on you when
you [ __ ] up they want to include you in
Deals they want to come to work with you
they want to present opportunities to
you and the only way that's going to
happen is if you show generosity and
character from from an early age uh so
like I said greatness greatness and
wealth is in the agency of others this
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