A Man With Sole Q&A with Kenneth Cole and producer, Dori Berinstein
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In this Q&A session following the screening of his documentary, Kenneth Cole reflects on the unique journey of creating a film that challenged his initial expectations. When producer Dori Berinstein first approached him about making him the subject of a documentary, Cole was hesitant because he feared losing creative control over such a significant project in his career. However, trusting Dori's vision, he agreed to participate, only to discover that the resulting narrative focused less on fashion and more on the profound social impact work he undertook. Cole expresses deep gratitude for this shift, noting that seeing his life presented as a cohesive arc with real-world impact was transformative, even for his own family who had witnessed various events but not the full story. He hopes the film will inspire others to use their platforms to create something greater than the sum of its parts.
A central theme of the discussion is Cole's philosophy on handling backlash and criticism, particularly regarding his campaigns on mental health and gun control. Unlike many public figures who become defensive when facing controversy, Cole chose to respond with humility and curiosity, which ultimately led to deeper engagement with these critical issues. He explains that while negative voices are often louder, they represent a minority compared to the silent majority who support one's work. This approach has fundamentally changed his business model; by prioritizing purpose over mere profitability or trendiness, he has built a company where employees stay because they believe in the mission rather than just for a paycheck. This infusion of social impact into every aspect of the corporation has resulted in retention rates significantly higher than industry competitors.
The conversation also delves into Cole's personal life and his efforts to bridge the gap between technology and mental health through the SOS initiative. Cole details how he brought together a coalition of major tech companies, which are often vilified for their role in youth mental health crises, to create a functional solution rather than just assigning blame. He emphasizes that while these engineers and executives are focused on their specific roles, they all share a desire to be part of the solution if given the right framework. The initiative aims to establish new standards and a rating system to hold tech companies accountable for their impact on user well-being, with plans to release these standards within four weeks. Cole highlights that connecting with advertisers is crucial to driving this change, as they hold the most leverage over tech platforms.
Finally, Cole addresses how he balances his business responsibilities with his creative and social passions, a challenge many entrepreneurs face. He shares that as his company grew, he had to step back from designing shoes personally to allow others to grow, focusing instead on the messaging and advertising that carried the brand's values. He stresses that leadership involves bringing associates along on this journey because "alone you go fast, together you go far." The Q&A concludes with Cole discussing the distribution of the film, noting its theatrical release and upcoming availability on airlines starting in 2026, as well as plans to develop a social impact curriculum for business and medical schools. Throughout the session, he remains humble yet firm in his belief that vulnerability is a necessary tool to connect people in an increasingly polarized world driven by algorithms.
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[applause]
Such a tremendous thrill and honor to
have you both here. Thank you for
sharing that amazing film with us. Um, I
just have a few questions. We'll get
through quickly some burning questions I
have and then we'd like to open it up to
the audience to ask anything they'd
like. Um, Kenneth, when Dory first
approached you about making you the
subject of a documentary, were you uh
hesitant or were you all in immediately?
>> Um, we had spoken about it a little bit.
Um, and we had just worked on a separate
project. Dory can speak to that a little
bit before that. And so Dory had
proposed the concept of doing it. And I
I trusted Dory. I knew of her work. I
felt this was going to require a lot of
trust andor therapy um or a great
pharmacologist because I was going to
have to this is this was the only
probably the only meaningful creative
project in my entire career which I did
not retain some oversight control. So um
and the first time I saw the film was
with an audience and people asked me how
I what that was like. I guess I don't
know. I was under the seat most of the
time, but [laughter] uh but um but I I
think it's it's not the story I thought
that
she was going to tell. I think I thought
she was going to tell more of a fashion
story. And um but it's the one one I'm
glad she told. And um and it's one
interestingly even my family never
really saw and they saw all these
various events throughout my career and
I was going to this event and going to
that. But to see the whole thing to in
the form of an arc with real impact is
is uh I think is important and hopefully
it will inspire other people to want to
use their platforms to create something
bigger than the sum of the parts as as I
said in the film.
>> I have another question. And um one of
the most dramatic moments for me having
seen the film was the moment when you
sort of faced backlash or controversy in
response to the mental health and gun
control sort of combined campaign. And
what struck me about your response to
that was that it was totally inspiring.
You weren't defensive. You responded
with humility and curiosity. And that
then led you to examining mental health
and that's become sort of your arguably
latest and greatest cause ever. So can
you talk about the importance of even
someone with your level of success and
your level of achievement when
confronted with backlash or criticism
you chose to face that with humility and
courage?
>> Well the the the world has changed a
lot. When I was originally doing this,
there was no social media and there was
no real time engagement and activism and
um and there was a lot of long
handwritten
thoughtful some less thought less
thoughtful letters that were received.
There were phone calls that were made
and people expressed their discontent.
And but I've always believed that the
people that usually
out have um reach out and have offer
share their sometimes not so thoughtful
um
um disparaging points of view. Um the
they tend to be the the they tend to be
the negative aspect is the ones that
tend to but for every one person that
has a problem with what you're doing,
there's 10 that don't but don't take the
time to share it. So um and I think you
know what started the you know what
started all of this and people often ask
that question is that you know in the
fashion business there's essentially
there's three
um there's three criteria three filters
that we put most decisions through. One
is relevance the other is um agility and
the third is profitability. So and they
all have to essentially um we have to be
able to check all three of those boxes.
So, but if in the fashion business
um what's relevant to you or what's
fashionable to you today may not be to
you and what's actually today may not be
tomorrow. And and I came to believe very
early on in my career that if I could
talk about something about
um about what you stand for as opposed
to what you stand in and of and um what
was on your mind as opposed to what was
on your body, then I have a much it
it'll be much more compelling way to
build a more reliable ongoing endurable
and um sustainable relationship. So
that's what I set out to do and and then
it it it [laughter] but it and it
changed me and it and it changed every
all my associates. It changed the man
changed the brand changed the company as
I said and um and I think our retention
rate in our company is two or three 100%
higher than almost any of our
competitors because people are not
they're not there just for the paycheck.
they're not there just um you know to
sell more shoes and uh and I think there
is everybody
in the company touches
purpose. So we have mental health
coalition exists within our corporate
offices and there are separate
individual who individuals who work for
it. It's a 501c3. It does amazing work.
You heard a little bit about it. We're
going to share these cards with you if
you want later on because we could use
everybody's help. But um so uh and they
have very clear
goals that they are accountable for and
and impact is very important and it's
very how do you show impact in a space
that typically is it's not um it's not
quantifiable essentially but how and um
but we have found ways to do that and
maybe we'll talk about that if we have
the time. Um and uh and then the
business side everybody in the company
somehow you know me uh purpose uh social
impact is not something that exists in a
corner office. It's not one person I
mean everybody it it's infused into
every aspect of the business and
everybody somehow touches it and um and
and business is infused into the social
impact. So, and they they work
independently, but yet they intersect
and and at the end we've created
something bigger, as I said, than than
than it is independently.
I feel like we're leaving Dory out of
this conversation.
>> Well, I want to I want to ask both of
you, looking back at those decades of
campaigns, Dory, which ones stick out to
you most in terms of what you think will
define his legacy? And which campaigns
did you feel it was essential to include
in the film to highlight?
>> You know, it's it for for me it was is
more frustrating what I couldn't include
because there, you know, people go to
don't go to three-hour movies. There was
so many ads that I remember seeing in in
the 90s um and beyond. um ads that I cut
out, you know, that I really moved me
and made me think. And so there's so
many um but I, you know, I certainly
remember the we all have AIDS campaign
and I as I knew about it, but there was
so much um that I saw in that campaign
campaign that made me think really hard
and understand things in a very
different way. And and so of course that
story was was uh so important to include
and it was um just such a a a important
brave uh uh campaign that um uh I think
changed a lot of people's hearts and
minds. So that but there are so many
there's so many gun control um ads uh
that I remember just being so moved by.
So, um, you know, and and then of course
I knew about the the fashion brand, but
um and those ads were so stylish and and
interesting and and set a whole new bar
for fashion. But, um, but the social
impact ads were life-changing.
>> Kenneth, can we have an update on where
you are with SOS? What are the
roadblocks? What victories have been
achieved?
So um
so robot so SOS is one of the things
that we've been able to do we so the
coalition we have 50 of the largest most
influential um mental health service
providers NOS's in the country have all
joined and um what we're able to do that
was unique is we brought together a
coalition of tech and tech have been
vilified and v and uh they've been put
on the defensive from day one and is it
justifiable many case many ways it is
but at the end of the day there is no
solution without them. There's no
scalable solution without their
engagement and um and we and I looked at
this carefully when we set out down this
road and and you look at the mission and
the vision of all of the tech companies
and no and it's about creating
engagement and it's about building
community. It's about connecting people
everywhere. It's about having joy and
creativity in our lives. But no one
talks about how to do it in a in a in in
a healthy um safe way. And no one talks
about youth and it just isn't what these
these all these are all very successful
business people. They're engineers.
They're marketing executives. They're
financial executives. And they've been
um they've all overindexed on what
they're hired to do. And now we're
holding them accountable for other
things that for um for residual um
impact. That's very real. Um and is it
justified? Maybe it is. But at the end
of the day, are they are they the ones
who who in and of themselves um are
implicatable? I don't know. But at the
end of the day, they all want to be part
of the solution. So we and they will
they don't trust each other. They don't
sign NDAs with each other, but they they
did with us. So we're like the honest
broker. So we have these agreements and
we've got them all agreeing and wanting
to come up with a functional solution.
And um and so as you saw in the film, we
have this cross functional group of
experts from around the world and we're
going to publish these standards.
They've kind of been ready to be put out
for a while, but we're waiting because
we need um the we need a mechanism to
hold them accountable. So we have a set
of actual standards which we're going to
attach to it, a rating system. We're
going to they're going to get rated on
how they're doing on a regular basis.
And um so and at the end of the day we
need to be able to in to connect with
the advertisers because that's um that's
ultimately the ones who are going to
impact them um the most. And so all
that's happening and we're looking to
take this out into the world within four
weeks.
>> Oh my god. Wow.
You heard it here first.
>> [laughter]
>> just to shift to the personal for a
second and then we can turn it over to
you guys. Um, you both have these
incredible daughters who have followed
in your footsteps in terms of career p
pursuits and I found it very, you know,
interesting that you had this departure
from working with your dad when you were
launching your business. What lessons do
you carry with you from being the son of
the boss and now you are the boss and
how do you do things differently as a
parent, mentor,
leader? Uh because the cycle is sort of,
you know, repeating but in in your own
way with your daughters being so
involved in your business.
>> So it's hard
um to say the least. Um so uh
but you know you as I as everybody's
heard you raising kids is hard and um
you they say kids sometimes see what you
say they some sometimes they hear what
you say they always see what you do. So
if you can lead by example, you know,
Maria, my wife is also has made social
impacts been always a big part of her
life and her father I lost my father
when I was young. The business is 40
years old. I we he passed away about 35
years ago. Um and I often get asked that
question. Has he seen a lot of this? He
has not he did not get to see a lot of
this but but he was always very proud.
But Maria's father was a mentor of mine
for in in a in a very who was the the
governor Cuomo um for a bunch of years
and I was very we were very fortunate to
have him and Maria has has built a uh
homeless organization help USA which
originally [snorts] founded by her
brother Andrew um before he joined the
Clinton administration. So and the kids
have seen all that. They've been part of
all that. We used to have these events
at our home for a lot of the um
residents of help and Joe Kabies who I
saw earlier is here and Joe used to come
and teach them how to dance and
choreograph little things with them. So,
um, and, uh, so that's always been a
part of our lives and the kids have seen
it and and and they're inspired by it,
each in their own way. And, uh, and
Emily, my oldest, is women's creative
director even though she was a lawyer
for seven years. And, and then, uh, the
other two are very part of the a big
part of the founding and the oper
initial running of the mental health
coalition.
>> Congratulations.
Okay. I know I said you guys could talk,
but I'm going to ask one more question.
[laughter]
Uh because I'd love to hear from you,
Dory. Just again, congratulations on
this incredible narrative arc. Um
Kenneth talked about finding strength
and vulnerability and sharing more of a
personal side. What did that moment mean
to you as the filmmaker?
>> Uh at the end of the film you're talking
about. Yeah.
>> Sorry.
You know, I I worried while we were
making the film. Um, this
>> Okay.
I I worried while we were making the
film that uh no one was going to believe
that Kenneth really existed, you know,
that he was a real person because, you
know, he's like a superhero. And and I
and I kept saying to Kenneth, it's like,
come on. there's got to be something in
your life that is terrible or or you
know that you're you're not good at or
something, you know, help me. Um and uh
and there there really wasn't. But I I
kind of was a little relentless and I
apologize for that. But I I pushed hard
because I just felt that for everybody
who is going to see this to to really
important to understand what would make
someone like that give. so much of their
life to to others. And um uh and it was
at our it wasn't going to be our last
interview if I didn't get an [laughter]
answer, but it was our last interview
when I when I um uh when Kenneth shared
um very very personal
um health issue uh which I uh was
honored and grateful that that he shared
that with me. But I think um it for me
it helped me understand a little bit
more about the compassion and the uh the
heart that Kenneth has that
uh enables him to just give so much and
be so empathetic with with everyone
else. And and so I just felt you know
for our film that that would be a very
important moment to you know for people
to go ah you know it's not there's so
many reasons why Kenneth I believe does
what he does so magnificently but I
think that that was very important
moment and um and uh Cleo Kenneth's dog
um I think was not happy that I was
pushing Trump [laughter]
>> and uh and made a and made an entrance
and and actually you don't see it happen
but what happened was K Cleo jumped on
the bench where I was sitting and
started to lick my face which is why Ken
was laughing and it was you know like
don't give him such a hard time you know
he was looking out for you but yeah
thank you so much who has questions
we have a microphone so if you could
speak into the mic so everyone could
hear you. It'll be to you shortly. Thank
you so much.
Hi. Thanks. Um, thank you so much. The
film was so moving and um,
thoughtprovoking.
Kenneth, I wanted to ask you
um about a comment that you made at the
end which
comes from both your analytical mind and
your big heart. Um and that is that in
this world we really won't know what's
happening two years hence because AI is
changing the world so quickly.
and you said um you know we're all in
our own different realities now because
of algorithms
and so we need the tools to connect with
one another. Um and one of those tools
is vulnerability. I'm I'm probably
paraphrasing.
Um I hope I'm not paraphrasing
incorrectly, but I guess um I totally
relate to that. I am in the mental
health field and the dstigmatization
field
and I'm wondering if you wouldn't mind
with your analytical mind breaking that
down a little bit more for us unpacking
that statement just a little bit more.
What does it mean?
>> So first also we we were talking about
this before we were sitting outside
that that part of this was shot almost
three years ago. So, and you know
talking about how AI was about to
overwhelm everything. So, which wasn't I
think it's a little bit more now front
and center now in most of our lives than
it was was even then.
So um but I uh I do feel right now
everybody is
um we all are informed uniquely and we
all have our own algorithms that have
learned that we've selftaught sometimes
for the most part not realizing it and
and they respond to what we respond to
and then they and then they basically
take us to another place. I all, you
know, I often say that I think the world
would be a much better place if we all
shared al if we exchanged algorithms and
um and I saw how you were informed and I
read how and you read how I was informed
because we come at things very
differently and I think I'm not sure
it's ever going to be what it was and um
so how does how do we realistically now
go forward? um we're so
polarized
um and uh I think somehow we have to
figure out how to get beyond that and uh
we have to unless we're all starting
with the same facts with the same basic
sense of what's right what's wrong and
and uh notion of what of social justice
and we care then uh I I don't know that
it changes um my daughter I remember
once when she was much younger was very
upset because
somebody was a Republican.
But and and I would would explain to her
that everybody wants the same thing. We
all want a better a better life for our
families and for our neighbors and but
we have different thoughts on how to get
there. So some believe it's it's top
down, some it's bottom up, but and but
essentially what are the assumptions?
What are the premises from which you are
deriving your your um judgments that
you're making of other people which are
usually more often than not um should be
withheld but um but these are difficult
times and uh and we're all struggling
right now and uh mental health I think
becomes amplified need mental health
needs and uh and the need for resources
but we're you know we did one of these
things another thing we did at the
coalition as I try to make my pitch. Um,
uh, same with shameless self-promotion
is that we made it we made an agreement
with with Meta about two years ago and
they gave us about $300,000 worth of
media and we ran a campaign and we
reached with a camp uh and we reached 19
million people which is
68 people for every dollar spent which
is unheard of typically as far as return
ROI in in in uh in social media. And
then of them 550,000 acknowledged for
the first time their personal struggles
and their willingness to access
resources which is huge. So it shows
that with with the allocation of
resources you can change people's
predisposition and willingness to
address their own needs and also each
others. I I have no idea what your
question was or if I answered it,
[laughter]
>> but thank you, Louisa.
>> Right over here.
>> Thank you. Um, hi, good evening. Thank
you for being here. Um, I work in the
social impact and inclusion space at the
National Basketball Association, so I
very much understand a lot of the public
backlash that comes with working in a
very big and large public corporation or
private as well. But I was just sort of
wondering, you've obvious
really cool honestly that you're able to
incorporate a lot of your personal
values into your professional life and
that's something that I take to heart
very much so. But in a lot of the years
that you've been in this field and
you've been working not only just in
your business professionally but also
incorporating those values and there's
obviously always been backlash from
people but especially nowadays
especially as someone who works in
corporate respon social responsibility
the corporations in a lot of ways right
now are the backlash and I was just
wondering how you have handled that over
the years or honestly just some advice
for a young adult that works in that
build.
>> Well, I think the NBA, by the way, is
doing some great work. I know Kathy
Barrens. Um
>> that's my boss
>> who's leading the charge. Kathy used to
work with the governor.
>> Yeah, Kathy's my direct boss,
>> right? So, and I know her from there.
But um and and Kevin Love we've worked
with and Doc Rivers and there's a lot of
very um great role models that more so
probably in basketball than in football
and baseball and other some of the other
sports. So, I think you're in a good
place in that regard. and and say hi to
Kathy for me. And um uh and I do think
there is a collective
willingness to want to engage here if
people know how. And the well-being at
work initiative is meant to address all
the corporations. I I think today more
people get their health care in the
workplace than they do Medicaid and
Medicare put together. And if you really
want to make change health care at
scale, you that's the first place you
go. and um and you can make a a real
meaningful impact. Um and I think you're
going to find a lot of like-minded
individuals there um who are all aligned
and how do you bring insurance and how
do you bring you know resources um and
also with AI now is AI is changing
everything. I mean young people um care
um access to uh therapy
has been somewhat democratized because
of AI and because of all these Zoom
platforms and all these abilities to do
a lot of to work remotely and um and
oddly young people which is a little
scary today prefer are finding they
prefer to speak to bots than they do to
real people which in some ways
democratized it in other ways is
frightening, but um and uh they feel
that they're less likely to be judged
and um it's more confidential, which is
arguably maybe just the opposite, but um
but that is what we're dealing with
right now.
>> Gentlemen, hi.
>> I can
The puns are fantastic. [laughter] Do
they all come from you?
>> I'm afraid so.
>> It's a disorder. My grand my Mario used
to call me his pun-in-law. Um,
but I try to I I'm much better. My
filter works much better now than it
used to. So, um, I withhold more than I
don't.
>> Susan, I have one here.
>> Remarkable film, remarkable life,
remarkable purpose. I want to ask you a
question. I'm sure you have all kinds of
places you're sending this and showing
it. Have you thought about specifically
doing business schools and medical
schools? Because I think both would be
incredible. Anyway, congratulations.
>> Dory and I were talking about this, too,
because I have no control over where
this goes.
>> That's fine.
>> I have I didn't This is all Dory is full
control of where So, if you don't like
where this winds up, call her.
>> Make sure she's aware. Um where how can
we tell the story in the most effective
way, in the most meaningful way? That's
I'd love that. Nothing more.
>> A hand up over here in the corner.
>> I just to add uh we are in conversations
actually with a business school uh very
prestigious business school that wants
to take the film and uh create a social
impact curriculum that's really focused
on the fusion of cause and commerce uh
and and work with us on that and then
make that available to business schools
around the country and corporations and
uh medical schools. Yeah. So I that is
something we're very focused on and and
agree with you. I I would love to get
the film um in front of future uh
leaders and uh to have people think
about how just at the get-go of their
career how to how to have purpose in
their life.
>> We can get my
>> Hi, I spoke to you earlier. I'm from
where you grew up as you know and um
I've been following you as as the
community has followed you and I just
want to say that I used to look for your
slogans. You were a little older than me
and I used to look for your slogans.
>> Am I still?
>> Yes. [laughter] And you know, we talk
about you in the community cuz I'm
tightly knit in there still in Great
Neck and
I just know like we're all proud of you
and I know your father Charlie would be
really proud of you too.
>> That's very sweet. Thank you.
>> Thank you. Actually, people ask me if I
grew up in Long Island. I tell them no,
I intend to grow up in New York.
>> Thank you very much.
screen.
>> Great. Now I have to remember my
question, but um [laughter]
thank you so much for today. Um I maybe
it's a personal question for myself but
I run a business in the interior design
world uh in New York City and we are
about eight people but um uh part of a
much uh 100-year-old French family
business and I am truly inspired by all
the so social action obviously that
you've done in your life you know and
and bringing a purpose to a business but
I also I think doing social action with
your employees or your uh co-workers can
really bring a team together and
actually do better business and work
together better.
Do you have any suggestions on how to do
that with um 20 30 year olds that want
to leave at 5 459 and sort of want
nothing to do with you uh or or the rest
of the group because they have their own
Gen Z lives and whatnot. How do we get
them together?
>> They have their own lives. [laughter]
So, um, look, it's a good question. I I
have, initially I was doing what I was
doing and then I had a, um, and I had a
reckoning with some associates came into
my office probably, I don't know, 30
years ago, and they said, you know,
we're here because we love what you do.
We love what you stamp, but we don't
like that you don't make available to
us. And I said, 'Well, you know, I
didn't think I had the right to do that,
and I do it because this is what I
personally believe in, and I don't want
to impose it upon you. They said, 'Well,
why don't you just put in place a pro
procedure? Let us just be the judges of
that, and we do it or we do it. So, um,
we actually had a program at Emory
University where I had gone on a
fellowship on community building, social
change. We hired one of the graduates
from the from the first year of that
program to come work at the company and
set up a social impact proh process in
the company. And in this and she would
go around and and work find various ways
that associates get involved. And one of
the rules was I didn't want to know
about it. You get no credit for it. Um
and uh you're going to do it because you
want to do it. At the end of the day,
you're going to realize you were the
biggest beneficiary and you're going to
be glad you didn't. You want to do more
of it. So, um, so and that's what we
did. And we had,
um, we had a a mentoring program with a
local, uh, elementary school. And if
associates signed up for it, you had to
stay with that child for the year. That
was the commitment. You had to make that
commitment because you, these kids very
often have had enough disappointment in
their lives, they can't. The deal is
that we have to commit that we're not
going to provide be a source of more.
So, but and they made the commitment so
willingly and we always we invariably
did not have enough there weren't enough
kids for all the associates that wanted
to to uh to be involved. So, I think if
you make the opportunities available,
people will do it and they're going to
realize that the end of the day they're
disproportionately impacted than than
they believe they would be.
>> Oh, thank you. As somebody who is a
creative person who um started your own
business, how do you make sure that
you're not only developing your business
um but also your creative aspect at the
same time because both are time
consuming.
>> Drugs
[laughter]
not really. So um I uh
[clears throat]
you know I I over the years I have
figured out different ways of funneling
my
creative energies and you know I was
able to I was designing all the shoes at
the beginning and then I as the company
got bigger I needed to step back and
allow other people to grow and I found
and I was focusing a lot of my energies
into not just the product we brought to
market but how we brought it to market
and h and where we brought it to market
and the advertising and the messaging
and the so I think that um
you know that it that's a process that
that you kind of work through and
depending upon what you're doing where
you're doing it and how do you I it's
critical that you bring associates along
because you can't do this alone and um
you know as I said before alone you go
fast together you go far so how do you
you know how do you inspire and engage
you know a collective that's the
challenge challenge.
>> I think this is our last question. This
gentleman here in the blue shirt.
[laughter]
>> Better make it good. Make it good. I'll
I'll do my best. So, me and my wife run
our small business here in Westchester
together for almost 20 years. And big
advocates of mental health. So, thank
you for for that. Um supporters of local
NAMI of Westchester as well. Um, the
biggest challenge I want to hear from
you is how do you how do you determine
when running your business when to
dedicate enough time to the mental
health which is obviously all also just
as important to step away but at the
same time you need to run your business
but how do you dedicate that time to s
like I encourage my wife stop go at your
your heart is dragging you towards which
is the mental health portion um and just
is there was there a certain time in
business that said I'm going to stop and
dedicate more time towards this or more
time towards the mental health aspect.
Look, the goal is if you if you can I've
always believed that if I can make
social impact part of the business, then
the process is very is intuitive and
it's it's not complicated. And um and if
if it every time we opened a store for
years, there was we attached it to to an
AIDS awareness
narrative. And um so every important
pivotal event, business event somehow
had a correlation to um either it was
Afar and you know when I I was asked to
join the board of Afar very early on in
this process in the 80s and then we as a
company did all of their branding, all
their marketing, all of the
communications and everybody they just
were fighting over who could do the
afford but that was part of what we did
and it was part of what they did and
part and and there were people who were
responsible for the business and some
people were mostly were more more um
targeted and directed towards some of
the uh social impact work but it all
mattered and it all had to get done and
it all it was all very uh it was all
very important. So uh and thank you for
what you do as well.
Thank goodness for your wife.
Anybody else?
That was went up too fast to ignore.
I was debating. Um, first of all, Dory,
thank you so much. My chair's opening.
Um,
as my heart has been so opened. Uh,
Dory, thank you so much for bringing
this all to light. And Mr. Nicole, thank
you for sharing your light with all of
us. Truly,
>> thank you. [applause]
I I can speak for myself, but I do feel
that we've all been incredibly blessed
tonight. Um,
first question, uh, and this is a
serious question, it may be funny. My
mom flew in today uh and she wants to
know, can we buy the shirts upstairs
that say I have issues?
>> They're on the website.
>> Amazing.
>> Yeah. This, by the way, is the this is a
square peg in a round hole.
>> Okay.
>> Which is the logo for mental health
coalition cuz we are all in some ways
feel like that on occasion. And um and
then we have these cards out there which
are also available and which show you
how you can get involved, how you can
engage because we could use it.
>> Beautiful. Amazing. My second question
is um I was brought to such tears during
the movie and I no longer apologize for
my tears. They're such a part of
humanity. And uh I volunteered at DD
Hirs in Clover City when I uh many years
ago overcame my own suicide ideiation.
And so I didn't know you did this and 24
hours ago.
>> Did you see the DD hiring the film?
Yeah.
>> Yes. And I trust the universe. 24 hours
ago, I had no idea I'd be sitting in
this seat and I trust the universe and
I'm just blown away at what you've done.
Your courage, your compassion, your
commitment. I'm I'm truly I'm blown
away. I'm blown away.
>> Um and so, uh like wow wow your soul
literally, you know, amazing. Um and my
question do you know Nancy Rubin who
runs [sighs and gasps]
>> who runs? It was 15 years ago. Yeah. And
so my question to you, I always find it
so fascinating when someone comes on
this planet and they serve they serve,
you know, where did yours come from?
Because it it wasn't at least in the
documentary, it wasn't um shared about
like uh what what the pivotal moment was
or if there was something or were you
just born as this being of light. I know
this might be a little too um esoteric
right now, but [laughter] I'm so blown
away um just by what you've done and so
thank you. Do
>> you know look, I was afforded these
opportunities to do this stuff along the
way and and it was each time it was
transformative in different ways and it
was so elevating not just to me but to
the business and and and it felt just
right and uh I just never understood why
everybody doesn't do it truthfully. and
um because it made the business better.
It made the associates more even more
energized and more inspired and they
didn't want to go home at 5:00 and uh um
and uh everything felt more meaningful.
So uh
you know Mario used to often say you can
do so much more as a private person you
can as a public person. You don't have
to deal with all the oversight and all
the regulatory stuff that exists out
there and you can really make a
difference. you can make a real impact
as a private person today. You can take
a billboard and say anything you want
and um and the more provocative the
better.
>> So um
>> don't go quite easily either. [laughter]
>> Thank you.
>> Very sweet. Thank you.
>> [applause]
>> Yeah, we Yeah, we can
>> this will be our last question. Thank
you so much.
>> This will be the last question before
before the next class.
>> I can think of thousands people who I
would like to see this movie. Not
medical schools necessarily in business
schools but just people. Will it be or
where are you with distributions
streaming where
>> and when?
>> Uh it's a [clears throat]
uh we're we've been very fortunate to
have a theatrical release. Okay.
>> So uh um limited theatrical release.
We've been rolling the film out around
the country which is very exciting. Uh
we are uh uh represented by Submarine
and their uh wonderful film sales. Are
you now in theaters?
>> Uh we are um I we have a few more
theaters to go and hopefully a few more
after that. Um so it um we started
uh a while ago. So we're several months
in. Um, we know
uh we're in conversations about
streaming and we hope to have something
locked in soon and uh we know that we'll
be on airlines
uh starting in 2026
and it's fascinating because I I know so
many people who watch documentaries on
airplanes. So very happy about that.
It's a tough time for documentaries and
so we're we're very eager to get this
film out to the widest possible
audience. So if you happen to be know a
distributor, you can let them know that
this is a film they have to distribute.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Very timely. Very very very
urgent, I think. But so we're we're
working hard on that and we're we're we
are getting a lot of interest and a lot
of traction. So, you know, hopefully
you'll see it all over the place.
>> But thank you for that question.
>> Thank you everyone. We'll look out for
the cards in the lobby. Thank you so
much for being here. Thank you.
[applause]
Thank you.
>> Thank you. You should build a curriculum
around this.
>> Yes, absolutely.