7 Things Successful People Do Every Single Day - Dr Joe Dispenza (4K)
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Dr. Joe Dispenza argues that genuine transformation requires changing one's internal state rather than merely altering external behaviors, a process grounded in neuroscience and biology. He explains that 95% of who we are by middle age consists of unconscious thoughts, behaviors, and emotions programmed into our neurochemistry and gene expression through repetition. To change this "old self," individuals must become conscious of these automatic patterns before they occur, effectively catching themselves when the body defaults to familiar survival states like fear or judgment. Dispenza emphasizes that making a different choice is inherently uncomfortable because it disrupts the brain's habituation; however, crossing from the known past into the unknown future requires stepping through uncertainty where new neural circuits can be formed. He notes that while many wait for a crisis or diagnosis to force change, one can learn and evolve in states of joy and inspiration by envisioning a desired future with firm intention, thereby creating a long-term memory that guides present action. Central to this transformation is the practice of generating elevated emotions like gratitude before they naturally arise, which Dispenza describes as the ultimate state of receiving. Research cited indicates that four days of shifting from limited emotions such as resentment and frustration to gratitude can increase immunoglobulin A (IgA) levels by 50% and improve heart rhythm coherence through pathways involving oxytocin and nitric oxide. The body is objective and responds chemically to the emotional state generated by thought alone, meaning that feeling grateful for a future reality allows the autonomic nervous system to release chemicals associated with restoration and growth rather than survival stress. Dispenza warns against "spiritual bypassing," where individuals seek peak experiences through substances like ketamine or psychedelics without integrating those insights into daily behavior; true change occurs when endogenous derivatives of melatonin are released naturally during meditation, allowing the brain to connect to higher frequencies that promote healing and a sense of wholeness. The practical application of these principles involves mastering attention in the "generous present moment" rather than living in the predictable future or past recorded by memory banks in the hippocampus. Dispenza highlights two critical windows for reprogramming the subconscious mind: just before sleep and immediately upon waking, when brain waves transition between Beta (analytical) states and Alpha/Theta (creative/subconscious) states. During these times, individuals should engage in mental rehearsal to visualize how they want to think, act, and feel tomorrow without relying on external circumstances. He advises asking specific reflective questions during this liminal state, such as identifying moments one "fell from grace" the previous day or defining their greatest ideal self for the upcoming day. This practice helps shift energy from matter-based limitations into pure consciousness within the quantum field, where everything is connected and frequency governs reality. Dispenza also addresses the balance between hard work and surrender, clarifying that his definition of effort involves immersing oneself in an experiment to prove a new possibility true rather than grinding through old habits. He illustrates this with anecdotes about friends who stop locking their cars because they trust the universe has their back, suggesting that once one aligns their energy with their intention, opportunities flow effortlessly without forced action. However, he acknowledges that initial investment is often required; putting ten units of effort in may yield only one out initially until a threshold is crossed and the system shifts to return ten for every unit put in. This delicate balance prevents both over-intentioning, which creates struggle, and oversurrendering, which leads to lethargy. Ultimately, Dispenza concludes that life changes when personality—the way we think, act, and feels—changes first; only by becoming a new person who embodies the desired future can one truly create it without needing external validation or material accumulation.
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imagine if we had to do the podcast like
this I was going to say just with an arm
is that you over there just an arm in
the way of us is that you Chris how do
you describe what you
do um I think we uh teach people the
neuroscience and the biology of change
and the principle is just really simple
um if you change your life changes and
nothing changes in our life until we
change so one of the things that people
come up against is it why is it so hard
to change so we've kind of come down
through a lot of research uh a simple
formula to help people to make
Transformations first in themselves and
then and then their lives and so we give
people knowledge and information and we
use science as that language that to to
meet information and we combine uh
quantum physics with neuroscience and
neuroendocrinology and psychon
neuroimmunology and epigenetics and
electromagnetism and help people
understand information that's
philosophical that's theoretical and
when you learn information you make new
Connections in your brain that's what
learning is uh but if you don't review
it and if you don't repeat it you don't
think about it those circuits prune
apart within hours or days so we run
these courses these events that are
typically seven days where it's fully
immersing yourself in in this process of
transformation give people the
information it's philosophical it's
theoretical have them understand it they
have to be present with it but now turn
to someone and teach it back to them
what you've learned nerve cells that
fire together wire together so then in
time you begin to install the
neurological Hardware in your brain in
preparation for the experience and the
more you understand what you're doing
the more you understand why you're doing
it the how gets easier because you can
assign meaning to the task and get a
greater outcome if you can't explain it
it's not wired in your brain right so
it's so much easier to forget the
information than to remember it and it
just takes repetition and attention
um to get the circuitry in place and
once you understand the what and the why
we set up the conditions in the
environment to give people the proper
instruction and when you apply it when
you personalize it when you demonstrate
it when you initiate that knowledge and
you get your behaviors to match your
intentions and you get your actions
equal to your thoughts you get your mind
and body working together you have an
experience now experience really
enriches circuitry in the brain and when
those neurons organize into networks
even further the brain makes a chemical
and that's called a feeling or an
emotion so now when you feel abundant
when you feel successful you feel
unlimited you feel whole um the
experience is teaching the body
chemically to understand what the mind
is intellectually understood so now the
information is not in the brain anymore
the information is now in the body and
the person is embodying the truth of
that philosophy right and somehow
there's biological changes that take
place as a result of it the question is
okay if you've done it once you should
be able to repeat the experience and so
if people go through a 7-Day immersion
and they keep repeating the experience
they begin to neurochemically condition
their mind and body to begin to work
together and when you've done something
so many times that your body now knows
how to do it better than your conscious
mind now it's inate in you you've become
the knowledge it's a subconscious
program it's it's who you are so we
teach people to go from that kind of
philosophical theoretical um knowledge
to the application uh to initiate it to
to ultimately get wise about why they're
doing and and so we study the
neuroscience and biology and we work
with uh University of California San
Diego and we publish papers and we do
extensive research really to demystify
the process why is it so hard to make
genuine change happen in our lives
people want to change want to do
different things why is it so hard um um
I think the biggest uh difficulty in
change is is making a different choice
now think about the New Year's
resolutions everybody's very clear about
what their intention is what they want
what whatever that is but if you keep
making the same choices you're going to
keep doing the same things you're going
to keep creating the same experiences
you're going to keep feeling the same
emotions and your biology and your
neuros circuitry your neurochemistry and
your hormones and even your Gene
Expressions going to stay the same
because you're the same but keep
thinking the same way and keep acting
the same way keep feeling the same way
and do it over and over again those
circuits in the brain ultimately become
hardwired And the emotions that are a
response to someone or something even
your own thoughts get conditioned
subconsciously as a program into the
body so
95% of Who We Are by the middle of our
life is an unconscious set of thoughts
behaviors and emotions that are
automatically programmed into our
biology so so the first step to change
is not thinking positively you got to
become conscious of those unconscious
thoughts when you decide to make a
different choice and it doesn't feel
familiar the thought that says start
tomorrow it's too hard just do it anyway
you know go ahead make that choice do
the same thing you're not good enough
you'll never change you're too much like
your parents you know I failed last time
um you have to be able to become so
conscious of those unconscious thoughts
that you would never go unconscious to
that thought ever again and that's
change you'd have to catch yourself how
you speak and how you act if you if you
want to be happy and you're blaming and
you're complaining and you're feeling
sorry for yourself and and and you're
judging everyone um those behaviors are
not going to make you happy they're
actually going to make you unhappy so
you got to become so conscious of those
unconscious habituations that you
wouldn't go unconscious and behave that
way and then of course you got to look
at those emotions that are pretty much
chemical residue from the past um and
decide does this
lack does this suffering does this pain
belong in my future and uh that process
of becoming so conscious that we don't
go unconscious is the process of change
and how many times do we have to forget
until we stop forgetting and start
remembering that's the moment of change
so the hard part about change is when
you decide to make a different Choice
get ready it's going to feel
uncomfortable there's going to be
uncertainty you're not going to be able
to predict the next moment it's going to
feel unfamiliar
so if the body has been conditioned to
be the mind then the servant is the
master so the body starts sending
information back to the brain to think a
certain thought so that you make the
same choice that you do the same thing
you create comfortable this is familiar
get back to the same feeling of
suffering oh that feels so much better
than the uncertainty of the unknown uh
so so going from the old self to the new
self and Crossing that River literally
is a neurological it's a biological it's
a chemical it's a hormonal it's a
genetic death of the old self that's the
Phoenix lighting itself on fire and and
most people would rather cling uh to
that familiar place than than take a
chance and possibility that that void
that vacuum actually is the perfect
place to create and we discovered this
that that the brain changes the
most when you get to that point where
you think you can't go any further and
you want to quit if you go past that
point that is the unknown now the
unknown has always been wired in our
biology that the uncertainty of the
unknown is always a scary place is that
a tiger in the bushes or is that just a
shadow you know so so the unknown
becomes a very scary place when we're
living in survival so uh most people
never take that chance and possibility
but if a person's actually taught how to
execute in the unknown and there's
nothing scary there and they can apply
the same principle and say what thoughts
do I want to fire and wire in my brain
um and a belief is just a thought you
keep thinking over and over again so
what is the voice in my head that I want
to program my brain into thinking and
believing what behaviors am I going to
demonstrate in my life if I'm going to
not behave this way around this person
or around the circumstance and I want to
behave a different way let me rehearse
in my mind close my eyes and get really
clear on how I'm going to respond or
behave in this circumstance and the act
of mental rehearsal literally grows
circuits in the brain now your brain's
looking like you've already done it uh
your your your brain is no longer a
record of the past it's being it's being
conditioned and mapped into the future
so now you have the circuitry in place
so if you keep practicing that the
hardware becomes more automatic it
becomes more of a software program and
you start behaving that way and then the
biggest challenge then is okay if I'm
not going to feel suffering and I'm not
going to feel pain uh and I'm not going
to feel judgment but I want to feel
grateful for my life can I teach my body
emotionally what my future will feel
like before it happens so once you start
conditioning your body to an elev El at
emotion we tend to see that the heart
centered emotions tend to be the ones
that produce the most dramatic changes
in our biology and the body is so
objective it really doesn't know the
difference between the real life
experience that's creating that emotion
and the emotion that you're creating by
thought Alone um then the body starts
getting lifted uh in a lot of ways so
keep thinking differently keep acting
differently keep feeling differently uh
that's your personality then your
personal reality be begins to change and
in and and people who cross that River
uh there's new opportunities there's new
experiences um there's new events that
take place in their life so that's what
we teach so is the issue that people
when they want change they don't change
deeply enough they're just looking at
well if I do this particular new
physical habit that will be able to
change things but the underlying
currents that are driving that behavior
are always going to come in and then
take over despite the fact that you
don't know eat sugar more or you want to
be more polite with your partner or you
want to be more it's to surface level
with a lot of the change that tries to
be attempted yeah I think uh I think
that people um unfortunately uh have to
get knocked to our lowest level
sometimes you know um where you're no
longer inside the jar when you're inside
the jar you can't read the label you you
got to get so uncomfortable that you
could actually see yourself right and so
that tragedy that that that crisis that
disease the diagnosis the loss it's got
to be so severe that you finally look at
yourself and say maybe it's me oh my God
could it possibly be me but you're
looking at yourself kind of Through The
Eyes of someone else because you don't
feel like you in that moment you're
someone comfortable that you can see
yourself that that concept is called
metacognition right so so a lot of times
people wait for that crisis or the
diagnosis or the Betrayal to go oh my
God I I I got to really change cuz I'm
really unhappy or I can't blame that
person or my past or my circumstance
because I nothing's working here I I got
to really start making those changes so
so when they see
themselves separate from their program
they're becoming conscious of their
unconscious self um that is the first
step to change now I say you can learn
and change in a state of pain and
suffering which most people like to do
or you can learn and change in a state
of joy and inspiration right so could
you be defined by the VIS a vision of
the future
and could you get up from your your
morning practice actually believing in
your future more than you're believing
in your past so from that elevated state
where you combine a clear intention with
an elevated emotion from an elevated
State instead of a self-limiting state
you can be conscious of that old self as
well and so I think I think God what a
great time in history to be alive
because this is a time in history where
it's not enough to know this is really a
time in history to know how and I I've
been at this long enough Chris to know
that 20 years ago people didn't hear it
like they hear it now the information is
readily available and people are
realizing God if I if I have this dream
if I have this goal how bad do I want it
and if they really want it um and we've
all done this you sit down and you say
what would it be like to be super
healthy super wealthy super in love
super mystical you know transcendental
whatever it is like you ask that
question question and your brain get
gets really creative it
starts combining circuits in new ways
and you start getting this vision of the
future this possibility that you
actually put yourself in this future
reality it becomes so real that you
start to feel the emotion as if you were
actually there and so that moment when
you come out of your resting state the
stronger the emotion you feel when you
hold that Vision the more you'll
remember that Vision that's that's
creating a memory so the person comes
out of a resting state and they make a
decision with such firm intention that
the amplitude of that decision carries a
level of energy that causes their body
to respond to their mind that their
choice that they're making in that
moment becomes a moment in time that
they would never forget they'll say to
you I remember the moment I made up my
mind to change I was in this place I was
with these people I was this is this
particular time that that the event is a
long-term memory and they've come out of
the resting state and we could say then
they're giving their body a taste of the
future emotionally and somehow they
begin to embody whatever that future is
and now they begin to move in a
different direction and so they start
trusting in their future more because
they feel like they're connected to it
so then the person who's really
interested in making a change would have
to come to that same state again in
order to produce the same effect if they
say I don't feel like it or I'm I want
to be nicer or whatever and it's there's
nothing really at stake you know
intention is really meaning you got to
have you got to have a meaning behind
what you're doing so people who who now
say I want a better life I can't have a
better life unless I
change uh and when I change my life will
change now you're not so interested in
what's happening out there you're more
interested in what's going on inside of
you to go from any state that we're in
now to a new state that transformation
process requires stepping from known to
unknown yeah how can people get more
comfortable with stepping into the
unknown and why is it such a scary place
ah let's see if I can explain this on
two levels um the brain is a record of
the
past uh the brain is a reflection of
everything in your environment that's
known to you it's an artifact it's a
repository of everything you've learned
and experienced in your life it's a
memory
bank and so people wake up in the
morning and every person every object
every thing every place every experience
that they've had in their life is mapped
neurologically in their brain so they
wake up in the morning and the first
thing they do is they think about those
problems and those problems are memories
that are really tattooed in the recesses
of their gry matter and the moment they
start remembering the problem they start
remembering the past they're they're
thinking in the past every one of those
experiences or problems has an emotion
Associated to them so the moment they
think of the past and they start feeling
unhappy or anxious now they're bodies in
the past thoughts are the language of
the brain feelings are the language of
the body thought and feeling an image
and emotion a stimulus and response and
you're conditioning the body emotionally
into the familiar past and the body is
so objective as I said doesn't know the
difference between the real life
experience and the one that you're
Imagining the body's actually believing
it's living in the environment where
that problem is actually existing in the
present moment
so that becomes the familiar past and we
call that the known then people get up
and then they rush through a series of
automatic routine behaviors they're on
automatic pilot because they do the same
thing today as they did yesterday and
habit is a redundant set of automatic
unconscious thoughts behaviors and
emotions that's acquired through
repetition so now the person is in
habituation a program and their body's
dragging them into the same predictable
future future based on what they did in
their past in other words we could take
up their yesterday and set it on their
tomorrow and there's going to be a lot
of predictability so if you can predict
something then that's the known too so
the familiar past is the known the
predictable future is the known there's
only one place left where the unknown
exists and that's the sweet spot of the
generous present moment and so we teach
people how to master the moment how to
master their attention and where you
place your attention is where you your
energy and and paying attention is being
present and you know when someone's
paying attention to you because uh
they're present with you and you know
when they're present with you because
they're paying attention to you well
it's the exact same thing so you're
sitting with your eyes closed and you
start thinking how long is this going to
go um I got a lot of things to do God I
got to think about that place I got to
go to and meet that person I got another
meeting over there and now your brain is
actually defaulting and going to that
predictable future we discovered that
your you're not a bad meditator actually
at all this is actually how you do
meditate you become conscious that
you've gone unconscious in your
predictable future and you return your
attention back to the present moment
that's a victory okay so then your body
says hey it's been um about an hour you
usually get pretty judgmental around
this time you get in traffic you get
really angry and you're sitting in a
meditation and all of a sudden you start
feeling aroused and impatient and
frustrated and people most people think
oh well that means I can't meditate well
actually your body's used to being
stimulated from something outside of
itself you settle the body back down
into the present moment and you tell it
it's no longer the mind you're the Mind
do this enough times and train the body
to be in the present moment to be in the
unknown they come a moment where the
body is no longer the mind the servant's
no longer the ma Master you're the mind
and when that occurs there's this
tremendous liberation of energy that
takes place in the body the body's going
from particle to wave it's going from
matter to energy the body is being freed
from the chains of the past or the
predicable future and we discover energy
actually kind of moves right into a
person's heart and they start feeling
really grateful to be in the present
moment instead of being in the
unknown and and trying to predict the
next moment so it's a practice and if
you practice it on a regular basis we
discovered you can get really good at
being in the unknown and going against
thousands of years of programming that
says the unknown is a dangerous and a
scary place there's better chances of
survival if you run from the unknown
then you embrace it so you put the
person they keep relaxing into the
unknown and sooner or later they realize
nothing bad is happening in the unknown
and they just start relaxing and
expanding and there's a just a host of
biological changes that begin to take
place so I think I think you can make
that a skill or a habit in other news
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wisdom how do people become addicted to
their own thoughts it seems like there
is this degree of familiarity with what
we're used to here but there would be a
question if these thoughts are negative
if they're negative emotions if they're
tormenting me if they're making me feel
bad why would I continue to just be my
own torturer yeah 24 hours a day well an
addiction is something that you think
you can't stop an addiction is when you
know something is not good for you and
you tend to choose and do it anyway
right so turns out that living in stress
is living in survival and when you
perceive a threat or a danger or you
perceive something that's potentially
going to get worse in your life or um
you can't control or predict something
in your life you switch on that
primitive nervous system called the
fight ORF flight nervous system and it's
secreting a lot of chemicals to get you
awake it's getting you ready it's it's
wanting you to perform and but if it
gets there's too much uh the rush of
that adrenaline is uh is is like a a
surge of energy it's an
arousal and people get addicted to that
Rush of energy so they use the problems
they use the conditions the stories of
the past in their life to reaffirm their
addiction to that emotion so so they
need the bad job they need the bad
relationship they need the challenging
conditions in their life could it make
it makes feel something right so okay so
when you're living in stress stress is
when your brain and body you're knocked
out of homeostasis stress is when your
brain body you're knocked out of balance
so the moment you react to someone or
something in your life and you switch on
that system of arousal and it's an
emergency system your body moves
completely out of balance it's
mobilizing all of its energy for some
threat real or imagined okay the problem
with human beings is for zebra or for a
gazelle when if it outruns the lion it
goes back to grazing the event is over
and the stress is short term but if it's
a constant exposure to stressors in your
life what becomes once was maladaptive
adaptive becomes very maladaptive
because when you turn on that stress
response and you can turn it off now
you're headed for disease because your
body's constantly out of homeostasis
imbalance so okay so the event is over
and someone betrayed you or you lost
your job or you got fired
and you can't stop thinking about it so
every time you think about that problem
you're turning on the stress response
just by thought alone so if the hormones
of stress are addictive and you can turn
on the stress response just by thought
alone you could become addicted to your
own thoughts and if you and if you have
to keep talking about those problems to
get the rush of adrenaline your thoughts
can knock you out of balance as well and
it's a scientific fact that the
long-term effects of the hormones of
stress push the genetic buttons that
create disease which means your thoughts
could literally make you sick so then if
your thoughts can make you sick the the
fundamental question is can your
thoughts make you well and that's what
we're you know interested in uncovering
talk to me about stepping into that Loop
that indictive Loop of the negative
thoughts um yes so every time you have a
thought you make a
chemical and if you have a a happy
thought or think of something happy you
turn on a set of neurological networks
in your brain that fire in a sequence a
pattern a combination that signals
another part of the brain the brain
makes another chemical that's a a
chemical messenger that makes you feel a
certain way as you secrete a certain
hormone okay the moment you start to
feel happy the moment you start to feel
joyful your your brain is checking in
with your body saying Chris you're
feeling pretty joyful and so then the
chemistry influences you to think more
wonderful thoughts and so the cycle of
thinking and feeling and feeling and
thinking creates what we call a state of
being okay but you
could have thoughts that make you feel
guilty and you can turn on a different
set of circuits in your brain that
signal a different batch of
neuropeptides that signal a different
hormonal Center to make you feel
differently the moment you feel
miserable the moment you feel victimized
the moment you feel suffering the more
the moment you feel pain and you can't
think greater than how you feel the
brain's checking with the body and
saying you're really miserable and it
generates more corresponding thoughts
equal to that feeling so it's thinking
and feeling and feeling and thinking
this Loop of thinking and feeling and
feeling and thinking creates a state of
being and again the thought and the
feeling the image and the emotion the
stimulus and response is making the body
become conditioned
subconsciously into the past and so now
the person has to feel that same motion
to re affirm their identity so that
becomes their state of being and now
they
behave as if they're in their past and
they think as if they're in their
past what ways do our memories lie to
us wow
um well everybody has a story right and
and the way we make memories is from
emotions so so if you have an event in
your life that's highly traumatic just
as an example the moment you perceive
that event in your life through your
senses the the chemical information
that's coming back as information to
your body is telling you to be altered
so once you begin to change your
internal State the greater the change in
your internal state from its normal
continuity the more the brain freezes a
frame and takes a snapshot and that's
called the long-term memory so then the
person thinks neurologically within the
circuitry of that experience and they
feel within the boundaries of the
emotions of that experience every time
they review the event in their mind
they're producing the same chemistry in
their brain and body as if the event was
occurring so again the body's reliving
the trauma 50 to 100 times in the day
and now the the trauma is no longer in
the brain the trauma is emotionally
conditioned in the body right
so if you say to the person why are you
so bitter uh why are you so sad why are
you so unhappy they'll say I am this way
because of this event that happened to
me 10 years ago which what they're
really saying is after that event I
changed and I have not been able to
change since this event well the
research on
memory says that if you ask that person
that story of the actual account 50% of
that story is no longer the truth in
other words they're embellishing the
story so they can excuse themselves
they're making it worse they're making
the conditions worse they're telling the
story and they're embellishing it to
some degree to excuse themselves from
changing right so if 50% of that story
isn't even the truth they're reliving a
miserable life they never even had alter
reaffirm their addiction to that
emotional state so so here here's the
crazy part because we work with we work
with uh veterans and and and Navy Seals
and and uh can you then forget about the
memory and just overcome the emotion
because the memory without the emotional
charge is called wisdom and now you no
longer belong to the Past you're ready
to create a new future and so the
stories we tell about our past are only
stories we tell when we feel those
emotions we would never tell that story
when we feel a different emotion why
because because a person's telling the
feeling that emotion and that emotion is
the record of the memory chemically so
they they're telling the story because
they can't think greater than that
feeling feelings have become the means
of thinking but what if you told a
different story and that's exactly what
we teach people to do stop Romancing
your past start Romancing your future
stop telling the story of your past
start telling the story of your future
stop believing in your past
start believing in a new future and and
that process is an unlearning and a
relearning process it's literally
breaking the habit of being yourself and
Reinventing a new self it's it's pruning
synaptic connections it's sprouting new
connections it's unfired it's unwiring
it's reiring it's rewiring it's
deprogramming it's reprogramming it's
losing your mind and creating a new one
it's
immersive experience when we do our
weeklong events is we take the person
right to that point of that emotion
where they say uh um I got to go uh this
is too
uncomfortable and we we don't want them
to White Knuckle it there we give them
something to do and if they practice
that formula and they keep lowering the
volume to that
emotion sooner or later the body becomes
liberated they're stepping out into the
unknown and we've seen people who have
had the most brutal the most
horrific the most difficult path um uh
look back at their past and say I would
I would never want to change one thing
in my past because it got me to this
moment and that's the moment the past no
longer exists they look at their
betrayers they look at their abusers and
they see the they see the purposeful
good and the meaning behind all of that
that had to happen because it would have
never brought them to this moment and I
I think that's the moment the past no
longer
exists what is one of your favorite
stories of somebody who's been locked
into one of these Loops for a little
while um gosh there's there's so many of
them um we just had a a woman on the
stage uh uh in Dallas and um I watched
this woman come to the event months
before was this event in Dallas was an
advanced followup but she had done the
week-long 7-Day Retreat and uh she was
in Dallas and she was sitting
um uh sorry she was in Denver and she
was sitting in the in the front away
from the the audience under a screen you
know under the the screens and she was
in a a lounge and she had a wheelchair
and she had a
scooter uh and she had oxygen and she
had crutches uh and she was kind of
camped out in that area there and um she
had about five different uh serious
health conditions and and um at the end
of uh of course she couldn't uh get up
uh get out of get off the couch if she
went to the bathroom uh uh she was done
for the day in terms of her amount of
energy she had she was living on six
Foods uh she was on all kinds of
medications lot of and and couldn't
think greater than how she felt right so
if you see a person like that you think
there's really not a whole lot of hope
uh for this person and yet um she began
to learn the information and began to
practice the information uh for the
entire week um and at the end of the uh
7-Day event we were doing a walking
meditation as a group
outside and um uh I saw her out of her
wheelchair smiling and walking and and
they sent me her testimony
um and I read the whole thing and then
when she was in Dallas um she came to
the advanced followup and they brought
her backstage to to uh tell me the story
and and she told me the story and it
wasn't until she got on the stage that I
realized that that was the woman that
was in Denver because she did not look
like the same person she she looked like
a completely a completely different
person she has none of those health
conditions any longer um she's doing all
the things that she was doing before she
had them and and she she broke out you
know she had her moment uh and when she
changed um her biology
changed to a lot of people that sounds
Fantastical it's it it sounds almost
unbelievable and I know it is
unbelievable it really is unbelievable I
mean I have difficulty believing some of
the things in terms of the testimon
testimonials and Transformations we've
witnessed I mean I I I have watched
certain
testimonials of people giving their
accounts of all kinds of crazy changes
in their health conditions
like uh like muscular distrophy like I
mean I've never seen a case of that
reversed I I I know that it's a
degenerative condition and yet um this
guy left the event walking and and he
was in a wheelchair when he came and I
watched that testimonial I must have
watched it a 100 times I watched it 100
times cuz I couldn't believe it I could
not believe that this guy was standing
and and I could not I could not stop
looking at the Joy on his face and the
excitement and the enthusiasm he had for
life it was so real and so authentic I
couldn't I couldn't believe it and so
it's it's it's difficult to believe this
I have difficulty believing it uh in in
a lot of a lot of times but there's
nothing like a good story because that
person who's standing on the stage who's
telling their story is a 4-minute mile
they're breaking through some level of
Consciousness or unconsciousness and
they're the example of truth they're
examples of the truth the collective and
the collective who's listening to the
story of
transformation and they're seeing that
the person's doesn't look vegan and
doesn't look ketogenic and doesn't look
young and buffed but looks like a normal
person uh and that person is seeing and
they they came blind or they're hearing
because they were death or they had
stage four cancer and they don't have it
invariably someone in the audience is
going to look at them and say God
they're no different than me if they can
do it I can do it and that that that now
is information for the
collective to believe in a greater level
of possibility and I and I think that
that that's exactly how it becomes
infectious and health and wellness
become as as infectious as disease we
see this at events all the time so yes
it it is unbelievable and I have to
catch myself you tell me pick one and I
think oh what half of these ones I would
tell you most people wouldn't believe CU
they're unbelievable but we have a lot
of those well you have a huge research
team that's been collecting I think I
heard 500 billion pieces of data in one
form or another given the fact that
these outcomes that you're talking about
are so unbelievable are you having to
work additionally hard be additionally
rigorous when it comes to the science in
order to dispel any accusations of the
pseudo science stuff um gosh what a
great conversation thanks for asking the
question um the whole reason that I
started measuring and we've been
measuring for a long time now um was
because when I saw someone with Ms in a
wheelchair come to the event in a
wheelchair and walk out without one I
said we got to start measuring I mean
what is happening in that person's brain
what is happening in their body what's
happening in their biology what's
happening on a cellular level what's is
their information in their blood what's
happening to their immune system and we
we started you know Gathering you know
um a lot of data I mean we have way over
500 billion data points that's usually
just one or two
studies and and so when we started
partnering with the University of
California San Diego I simply said to
those scientists okay same thoughts same
choices same behaviors same experiences
same emotions that's the
known same
biology sounds right new thoughts new
choices new behaviors experiences new
emotions new
biology possibly that's a good
hypothesis you will to measure
it so we've measured so many things in
the human body that says that you can
change your brain to work way better in
four days you can make your heart way
better you can express new genes uh you
could release thousands of metabolites
thousands and thousands of metabolites
in 7 days that promote growth in repair
in your body um we find information in
meditator blood that has a resistance to
viruses all kinds of viruses even ones
with spikes um that the information
Advanced meditators blood somehow
diminishes mitochondrial function in
cancer cells that's the that's the
energy in the cell not a little bit but
70% which is dramatic and if cancer
cells love to multiply and move and they
have no energy um
they don't live as long uh there's
information in the blood of advanced
meditators uh that somehow downregulates
the gene for Alzheimer's uh we're
finding uh robust amounts of endogenous
opiates that reduce pain across the
board we measured
60 three different Health uh conditions
63 different diseases um all different
diseases one intervention and uh uh the
majority of those people have a
significant reduction in pain and a very
elevated level of endogenous opiates in
their in their bloodstream you know
natural uh pain relievers natural
chemicals that make you feel good um uh
and and um so we just we've explored the
microbiome we've see that you can change
your microbiome in seven days to look
like a way healthier person without
taking a probiotic without changing your
diet without eliminating anything
somehow
um the the microbiome changes
dramatically for the better and the
reason is because they're not the same
person any longer they're a different
person um so we've spent the last four
years working with the University of
California San Diego in doing extensive
research on the brain extensive research
uh on heart uh heart measurements um a
lot of blood values urine uh um
everything we've measure we we measure
saliva we measure breast milk we measure
tears I mean we've measured uh just
about everything yeah and are these
published these results are published
yes we have some papers that are
published now um we have some papers
that are in peer review right now we
have about five more papers uh that
we're uh getting busy writing but we
have we probably have the largest
database uh in the world on on
meditation right
now what are the most common criticisms
that you get wow
um I would say that you know when you
see the Imp iCal
science uh a lot of people um that see
the data uh whether we show it to
reputable universities and and
professors or to NASA or to whoever I
think one of the things that people have
the
most there's the most shock and surprise
is that you never see these type of
changes in seven days like you drug
study you don't ever see these kind of
we're talking about uh thousands of
genes upregulated to suggest the
person's living in a completely
different environment a completely
different life and they're in a ballroom
you know so so when you see the effects
change like that in seven days anybody
who's a scientist that has that uh
trained mind they're going to fall out
of their chair because it's the the the
metagenomics around arounded is not just
one or two people it's the it's the
whole entire group so think about
it500 2,000 2500 different people all
different genotypes everybody has their
own Gene sequence okay at the end of 7
Days 77% of those people are signaling
the same genes and making the same
proteins that's kind of wild that means
that the flock the herd the school you
know there everybody's evolving there's
an emergent Consciousness that's
actually everybody's biology is evolving
together like and that's and that's
exciting because people change people
that's what we discovered so when we
show the data to people um and you they
see it uh the conversation that we used
to have where we'd have to be on the
defense has changed dramatically because
these are double blind and triple blind
Placebo studies these are there very
very rigorous studies so so the
scientist that sees it questions the
time and then you know a drug study is
about 25% effective you know and it
usually takes um 3 to 6 months before
you see the efficacy turn out our data
is like somewhere uh uh between 75 and
100% so it it it shows that that the
nervous system is the greatest
pharmacist in the world that actually
works better than any drug so so when
when people really begin to see the
science and and and you know they it
challenges their belief it challenges I
keep telling the scientists I can't
believe this is the truth like I'm more
surprised than anybody but I also say to
them where do those chemicals come from
where are they coming from the person's
not taking opiates they're not taking
anti-carcinogen they're they're not
taking anything uh to change their
biology like this is coming from within
them um so it's been changing the
conversation uh in medicine uh quite a
bit and we're just working on finding
the language but but but people who see
the data um are very surprised and they
want to know what we're doing which is
which is a different conversation that
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you doing longitudinal studies are you
seeing how long the immersive stuff what
what sort of effects does this lock in
over time are people reverting as soon
as they're out of this very energetic
group of people what's Happ time yes
that's a great question um so um that's
one of the things about uh this work
that I really really love in terms of
our community um it's not like people go
oh I got to go meditate today it's the
morning it's that's not how our
community is like the majority of the
people that come to a week-long event
keep doing the work the majority of them
do because the Magic in their life is
starting to happen and why would you
want to stop um from from having those
events uh you know actually take place
so we see that people who heal this
sounds kind of crazy and
we've there's we've had a lot of people
instantaneously have a
reversal in a health condition from one
meditation from one inward experience
there's an arousal that takes place in
their nervous system they move into
these heightened states of gamma brain
wave patterns uh uh the person is having
an inward experience that's greater than
the Betrayal or the trauma from the past
and somehow there's a there's an upgrade
in their biology like there's the eczema
now it's gone um there's the myia gravis
now it's gone there's a Parkinson's was
there now it's gone there's the cancer
now it's gone there's the deafness now
the person's hearing now the blindness
is the person's seeing it's like that
it's like the person comes back and
there's an upgrade right what do you
think's happening inside of the body
what's going on okay so anyway me let me
finish that that thought and then I'll
answer because it's important to ask
that question those people who have
those biological upgrades that are
instantaneous um when we measure them
three three months down the road 6
months down the road well nine months
down the road there's this there's a
sustain change they got the upgrade if
they continue to do the practice no no
no even if they don't do the practice
they got they got a very good upgrade
now a certain percentage of people that
that have an upgrade like that and they
go back to the stressful life the
Parkinson's Returns the cancer returns
because they're back to the same
personality again and they're making
their same chemistry now many of those
people continue in that that direction
other people catch themselves and they
said if I changed this Parkinson's once
because my father's in the hospital and
I'm emotionally reacted I can change it
again and they actually change it again
right so um so um and then there's
people who go through that process of
breaking the habit of being themselves
and and becoming Reinventing another
person and it's a it's a constant
process of change you kind of got a
super responder with the first one and
done
yeah one one connection um one moment uh
of connection uh like like a
brainstorm uh and those people who cross
a river of change they tend to do the
work consistently because they want to
keep changing they're not doing their
meditations to heal they're doing the
meditations to change and when they
understand when they change they heal so
it's the process of change that that are
interested in so so we have a good
percentage of people who do the work and
after they finish the immersive
experience that sustain those changes
and we have a lot of people that sustain
changes whether they do it or or they
don't do it so what's happening in their
biology that's a great
question um let see if I can answer this
um in a methodical
way um your senses plug you into
three-dimensional reality right so if I
took away your sight if I took away your
hearing I took away your smell your
taste and feel dealing with your body
you would have no experience of
three-dimensional reality but you would
still be conscious but you would be
conscious of nothing material or
physical you would just be conscious
that you're conscious and you would be
conscious of nothing in a sense
so when a person is immersed in
three-dimensional reality um their
neocortex their thinking brain is super
busy scanning the environment and
associating gnes and and uh it's got to
process a lot of information that's
coming in through the senses what it's
seeing what it's hearing what it's
smelling what it's tasting what it's
feeling and that a lot a lot of that
information is coming in the brain's job
is to create meaning between your inner
world and your outer world and if you
were to measure a person's brain waves
they're pretty much in beta brain wave
patterns and that means you're conscious
you're awake and you're aware that
you're in a body local in space and time
you're aware of your environment and
your wor of time and that's how we
navigate in threedimensional reality and
there's neurotransmitters in the brain
that report that
okay if I said to you um you got to do a
speech and it's got to be done uh by by
without any notes you got about 45
minutes prepare um your brain would kind
of perk up a little bit and You' it
would be kind of a good stress you'd
have to perform you're confident you'd
have to get ready you'd have to change
your state you'd have to think you'd
have to all right what do I want to talk
about I gotta I got to change my state
you would move into mid-range beta light
bulb gets a little brighter and you're a
little bit more ready uh in a sense
but when you react and you're emotional
and you're stressed and you're out of
balance you go into this very high beta
brain wave pattern and that's three
times as high as low-level beta that's
when the brain is in first gear on the
freeway it is it is you consuming all of
its energy and it's sweeping the
environment and it's shifting its
attention from one person to another
person to another problem to another
thing to another place it's trying to
forecast it's trying to predict and the
Brain starts firing very very disin
redly it starts it's firing incoherently
out of order and people they need a drug
or they need a drink or they need
something to take away that kind of
state and and their their thoughts are
literally driving their brain into
higher and higher states of of beta
they're they're they addiction to those
thoughts are driving the brain out of
balance okay so when you're in that
state you're very narrow focused you're
you're obsessing on things that's what
what the brain does it overthinks it
over it over analyzes uh so if you can
change your brain waves from beta to
Alpha now your inner world starts
becoming more real than your outer world
and in a sense you're you become more
creative your brain stops talking to you
in your head you stop analyzing you
start seeing in images you start seeing
in pictures and Alpha is an imaginary
very creative state you're still aware
of your outer environment but not so
much okay so here's the answer to your
question if you can get so
relaxed that your body moves into a
light state
and it's in a light rest and you're
conscious and awake now you're in Theta
and that's a very hypnotic State and
when you're in a hypnotic State you're
in a state of trans and you're very
suggestible to information and suggest
ability is your ability to accept
information to believe the information
to surrender to it and and that's what
can program a person to do about just
about anything right so hypnotist uses
when he's when he's making suggestions
the person who's in Theta the door
between their conscious mind and the
subconscious mind is wide open to
information okay so that makes sense uh
if you're getting information through
your senses and you're in Theta you're
in a hypnotic state but what if the
person's eyes are
closed what
if there's music filling the space
they're not eating they're not tasting
they're not smelling they're not
experiencing they're not feeling and
they're in that realm of theta and I ask
them instead of the put their all of
their attention on everything physical
IAL and everything material to open
their awareness instead of narrow their
focus broaden their focus and put their
attention not not on the material but on
the inmaterial not on the particle but
the wave not on matter but on energy and
and and the atom is
99.9999% information and energy okay so
having the person focus on nothing this
is the funny part about it and
broadening their focus if they can dial
down their thinking neocortex the Theta
they'll have no experience of their body
no experence experience for their
environment and no experience of time
and they're in Theta they're still
suggestible to information but they're
not aware of their outer environment but
they're still suggestable there's only
one other place that information comes
from and that's frequency and all
frequency radio waves Wi-Fi waves uh
x-rays all carry information so when the
person opens their awareness to the wave
function to energy and to information
they pay more attention to that and less
attention to thems more they connect
more to that and less to the
three-dimensional reality if there's if
there's coherence in the brain all of a
sudden the person has a moment of
connection and the Brain goes into a
gamma brain wave state and Gamma now is
an arousal it's
superconsciousness but it's not coming
from Fear it's not coming from
aggression or anger it's not coming from
Pain the arousal is ecstasy a person is
making connection and and when we
measure the amount of gamma that taking
place in the person's
brain 3% uh 2% to 3% of the population
in anything that we're measuring really
good is three standard deviations
outside of normal uh these people are
200 300 400 500 standard deviations
outside of normal and three is really
great is this on an fmri this is a
quantitative EG and we see the same
pattern the limic brain the seed of the
autonomic nervous system is functioning
in a very very
coherent highly organized very very fast
frequency of gamma now remember stress
is autonomic
disregulation right disregulation in the
autonomic nervous system moving out of
balance these high states of gamma is
autonomic regulation now the autonomic
nervous system controls and coordinates
every system in the body and if it's if
it's processing an energy in a frequency
that fast every single cell in the body
is getting the information and the
body's literally raised in energy and
raised in frequency and that's when you
see the instantaneous uh upgrade that
goes on biologically in a person's body
and we actually now can predict it when
we see a person move into a certain
level of theta we can say oh boy this is
going to be really good like really good
and that person um is having a very very
powerful internal experience what is the
felt sense that somebody will tend to go
through during that process what's the
what's the embodied subjective
experience of going through this so we
have a we have a a scientist that um
studies the language of transformation
uh from the University of Central
Oklahoma a super great guy and he's been
studying the language of transformation
and all the testimonials of all the many
of the people who have had these
moments and
um the subjective experience is
twofold um it's very um
somatic when I mean somatic I mean like
they say uh like every single cell in my
body uh was vibrating at a faster
frequency I felt that incredible my
heart felt like it was going to blow
open um I felt like I was filled with
light they'll give you like something
very somatic like oh my God I was I felt
this in my body and then it's also very
emotional that's the other part but it's
not like emotional like I've never felt
love I thought I understood love I
thought I have felt love I've never felt
love like this I felt so connected I
felt so whole I felt so pure um I I felt
it was the most familiar unfamiliar
feeling I've ever had oh my God I forgot
uh I forgot that I was that it was
within me whatever um and then and then
the other element is after that they
they have a language where they only can
use metaphor to describe the unknown
experience they'll say um yeah my heart
turned on like an engine the top of my
head blew off there was lightning coming
out of my fingertips they're they
they're trying to explain but they'll
say well it wasn't lightning really it
just felt like this but it was more like
this so um so the the language uh
specialist that has been studying this
had his own moment uh at uh an event we
did in Marco Island uh last September
where he connected and um I sat down
with him and talked to him and he could
not find the language the language guy
the language guy could not find the
language to explain what the heck
happened to him but he was totally
switched on so so there's there's an
arousal that takes place uh there's High
gamma brain wave patterns it's autonomic
regulation it's very somatic it's very
emotional and and um there people
describe it kind of like a
connection I want to talk about
fear why do you think it's such a
pervasive emotion given that we're
living in a time which has never been
safer than ever before
yeah well I think fear has been very
adaptive for us as human beings I mean I
think you know if you if you have a lot
of common sense and you're navigating in
your life um there's certain things that
you you avoid um that I think is healthy
and I think there's uh things where uh
you can't predict something or you can't
control something uh and you kind of get
ready uh that's what the early stages of
fear is you kind of rev up and you get
ready you're ready to perform you're
ready to act you're you're ready for
something right and and I think that's
healthy um um when it's within a limit
and then when it gets to that point
where you absolutely have the perception
that it's going to get worse instead of
get better um that's when the brain goes
into these these high states of arousal
and the arousal really pay a lot of
attention to your body pay a lot of
attention to everything in your
environment do not take your attention
to degree of vigilance yeah it is
Vigilance and and try to predict the
worst thing right now that could
possibly happen predict the worst
because if you can get ready for the
worst and you're you're ready for it
anything less that happens you're going
to survive so the brain's actually
predicts the worst case scenario when it
picks that worst case scenario the body
goes into heightened state of fear right
and and now in fear though
um the conditioned response that takes
place from feeling that emotion is
storing that emotion in the body right
so now what do you mean when you say
storing the emotion in the body um okay
so um fear creates an arousal that
switches on the fight ORF flight nervous
system right so keep having the thought
keep having the response and you're
taking thought and in the form of
chemistry in the form of emotion and
you're literally activating that third
Center and now that third Center is
storing an enormous amount of energy in
it and when there's an enormous amount
of energy in that that Plex solar plexus
um that Cent that Center is driving more
information to the brain for you to be
more ready for the next possible thing
that can go wrong and so you could have
10 really great things that go on in
your day and one thing that goes wrong
and you're going to focus on that one
wrong thing because you got to be
prepared for it if it happens again so
so I think fear was adaptive um at one
point and it's become very maladaptive
because again people are always uh uh
trying to forecast the worst case
scenario how can people feel less if
we've got
this intrinsic drug dealer this
endogenous drug dealer inside of us that
continues to just tick the button just
keeping on pressing it pressing it
pressing it pressing it
is becoming aware is it stepping into
noticing when that arises is it trying
to find a degree of safety yeah um well
I think I think what we discovered is
that um uh most people don't think that
they have control over that I mean it's
it's so primitive it's so in our biology
it's hard to think that you have control
over a fear response now
um there's nothing wrong with having the
few response there nothing WR wrong with
getting aroused the question is how long
like how long is this going to go on for
so you have a reaction five days ago
from something that's happened and
you're still you're still aroused by
that event you got to agree that you're
addicted you're addicted to that that
emotion keep it going and it'll become
more automatic you'll you'll
constantly uh be think thinking certain
ways and doing certain things to
reaffirm that addiction to fear um so so
for the short term you know have the
fear response if you can't shorten the
refractory period of that emotional
response more than likely it's you're
going to be in a program for the
remainder of your day so what we teach
people is how uh to master the fear so
so take anxiety as an example right many
people come to the work and they have
high amount of anxiety CEOs Engineers
doctors nurses dentists people can't
cross a bridge there's a business book
called only the paranoid survive I think
yeah there you go um and they've tried
everything um to try to change their
anxiety but what they haven't done is
they haven't caught
themselves feeling the feeling of fear
and practicing with their eyes closed
first not not in their life when they're
feeling fear but but let's practice when
you're sitting in the meditation and
your body starts getting a little
anxious starts getting a little worried
starts getting a little
aroused what are you going to do in that
moment can you become aware that the
body's feeling that emotion and could
you like like taming an
animal settling the body back down from
that aroused State back into the present
moment okay it goes great I'm going to
do this for two seconds and like a
spoiled child it goes it starts getting
aroused again now most people think I
I'm never going to be able to overcome
this but the act of sitting with that
and keep lowering the volume and and not
not letting the body be the mind but you
you actually executing being the Mind do
that enough times and you'll condition
the body to a new mind and and that what
that H what happens is the brain stops
firing those same circuits okay then the
person says but what if this happens and
what if that happens and then what if
this happens and they catch themselves
going to the worst case scenario or
going to the memory of the past and they
keep bringing their attention back to
the present moment what we discovered is
if you keep doing that you get better at
it and and when the body as I said
finally surrenders into the present
moment uh it cannot be in fear any
longer so the person then that returns
back into their life and has lowered the
volume to the fear because they've been
practicing it will respond less
emotionally in their life because they
overcome it right if they haven't
overcome it then the response is going
to be the same so first thing eyes
closed you got to practice with your
eyes closed but get so good at doing it
with your eyes closed that you can do it
with your eyes open and when it's the
hardest it matters the most and so
Justified valid or not those chemicals
are not good for you they're not good
whether you're right whether you're
Justified the only person that's hurting
is you right so then the person says
okay well is this is this loving to me
okay so the fear is real okay so what
what emotion could you change from Fear
into okay so we teach people okay can
you practice breathing and slowing your
brain waves down working with the animal
working with the body slow your breath
down slow your brain waves down yeah but
I don't want to okay do it anyway
practice slowing your breath down
breathing a little bit slower your brain
waves start to change put your attention
on your heart we have great data to show
where you place your attention is where
you place your energy you see a very low
frequency of the heart starting to build
in the person so now the heart is
getting energy and then parasympathetic
nervous system starts coming up the body
starts moving into that state okay
that's really great keep doing it over
and over again keep relaxing into your
heart energy moving into the heart the
Harden forms the brain the trauma's over
betrayal is over the uh the event is
over what you're afraid of is is over
and it resets the Baseline in the
amydala for trauma and the side effect
of that is the person now when energy
moves into their heart like that they
start getting very creative the heart is
a very creative Center okay what do I
want to do now like what do I want to
create now so so uh it's something that
you can only talk around but when you're
in the work and you're practicing it
it's first so important to face off with
it with your eyes closed and it's David
against Goliath in the beginning because
the program is so ingrained in our B
biology and yet people who keep
practicing lowering the volume lowering
the volume you see the brain scans um
CEOs as I said all kinds of different
athletes um you see the dramatic change
in the brain there's the
anxiety and now it's gone and there's
just a significant changes in a person's
subjective view of the world as well is
this your format your process to move
through most painful
emotions um
that's one of the ways uh that we do it
I think just it isn't enough to inhibit
the thought and the feeling I think it's
practice practicing feeling something
else and and then we use we use
technology to actually tell you when
you're doing it and when you're not
that's so important so so take a a Navy
SEAL for example who has um done all the
talk therapy uh tried all the
Pharmaceuticals
uh tried all the anti-depressants uh
tried all the pain relievers tried the
iasa tried the plant medicine in and
they still can't function in their life
right and so why can't they function in
their life because uh they they haven't
gotten beyond the emotion that's keeping
them connected uh uh to the Past well if
you can if if what you said earlier on
is true and you continue to replay this
story and if your body and your
physiological system and your endocrine
system and everything else is just
cascading down the same it's like you're
reliving it is actually like you're
reliving that same experience over and
over and over and over again so it does
make sense it would be like trying to
fix a soldier's PTSD while he's still in
the field exactly because that is where
the brain is taking him back to yeah so
so
um we have seen people come right up to
the
edge of their emotional belief you know
where
the where the pain where the emot
emotion is at its height you know and
and the hardest part of uh every war is
the last battle and and they they go one
more time you know they just say I'm
going to go again and when they when
they go again um many times they they're
they that's when they have their
breakthrough and the Breakthrough isn't
as I said just like um a little
breakthrough it's an immediate relief uh
for the person and and so that's the
moment then when they look back at their
past they they see it through a whole
different lands I want to show you a
clip of Theo Von with sha Strickland so
sha Strickland is the current UFC
middleweight champion and in a podcast
with the two of them he talks about some
trauma that he's been through in his
past you know what I'm talking about huh
yeah have you ever heard
that yeah I'm sorry
bud so
man I'm sorry buddy we don't have talk
man I could just sit here with you for a
minute oh I
think it's hard things that people don't
understand but like trauma you know yeah
what do you see when you look at that
oh I I see a real vulnerable moment
moment for somebody really vulnerable
moment uh and
um yeah I think childhood trauma is I
think
probably the biggest uh trauma for many
people to overcome because uh children
their brain waves are very slow I mean
um in Alpha in in Theta and uh
information goes in very quickly right
into their subconscious and and I think
that um we figure out adaptive ways uh
to not have to feel those emotions or
not have to look at that past but it's
we're always aware of it it's always
there right but but we don't really have
a moment where we fully allow ourselves
to experience it and and I think he had
a moment uh where by association um he
let himself be vulnerable which I think
is great that's video is every single
time I watch it is very difficult to
watch for me and it's twofold it's first
off someone that's become a professional
hard person right he just punches people
in the face he likes violence him
opening up and him struggling and then
Theo saying it's okay man we don't need
to talk we can just sit here for a while
if you want I can't it's it's so
beautiful yeah there's and I and I think
um uncertainty and I think that moment
of vulnerability needs space I think it
needs space um and it needs time uh for
the person to sit in that and allow
themselves to fully feel it right and
and that's how that's how it you you sit
in it long enough it goes
away it finally goes away what's your
advice for somebody playing the Theo
role someone's having a conversation
with somebody else who is on the verge
of opening up they're on the cusp of of
feeling
something uncomfortable or trying to
open up about it how can someone hold
space more effectively oh I think I
think all people really want to do is
feel safe and feel loved you know so
again I think he played that really
really well and that is just uh let that
person know that they're that you're
there for them and and give them uh the
room to go as far as they want to go and
and and some people uh uh feel really
safe when that happens and I think they
they they release it you mentioned
before about this uh discomfort with
feeling feelings um we live in a world
which is very good at distracting us
from feeling feelings there are a whole
host of drugs philosophies Technologies
ways of thinking that can distract us
away from feeling feelings and if
there's somebody that's listening to
this and thinking to themselves I don't
think I'm feeling my feelings that
Folly how can someone get back in the
rhythm of feeling the feelings again
yeah you got to sit with yourself you
got to take your device and set it in
the other room you got to shut it off
and feel without that thing and you got
a thing for yourself and I think um the
the that kind of
art of
contemplation um has been lost because I
think that process of
self-reflection kind of is a building
process neurologically in in our brains
and so to to to
you know we joke all the time with
people who go through a week-long event
I say to them when's the last time you
sat with you this long till you finally
like you you if you sit with yourself
long enough um those feelings are going
to come up they're they will come up
because uh um you have nothing to do you
have nothing to do uh your inner world
and how you're thinking and how your
feeling is going to become very obvious
to you um and so I think um people ask
all the time well well why is my health
condition like this what do I what are
the thoughts what are the feelings that
I need to change it's really simple sit
with yourself and you'll you'll know
exactly what it is that you that you
need to change so um I I think it's I
think you got to create the time to
invest in yourself um one of the things
that I've discovered with many people
that tell us uh stories of
transformation is that they kind of have
this kind of belief like I believe this
stuff works um I just never believed it
could work for me I mean that's a really
really fundamentally key moment in a
person's Evolution because that means
they actually have to change their
belief and that's sometimes that means
they got to come out of the resting
state and they got to choose themselves
every day I see that with a lot of
things that that's something that's nice
but for other people that's something
which I believe could be true the data
seems to be to be true but that's not
for me yeah the weight loss isn't for me
the transformation isn't for me the
relationship that's healthy isn't for me
the group of friends that genuinely want
the best for me Isn't for me
this it's like solipsism in a way it's
persistent
disbelief yes but only around you of
course but but all there is is
you so so that person then who's who's
arguing in for some limitation just
doesn't believe that they can change
their life they don't believe that their
thoughts have something to do with their
Destiny they don't believe they don't
believe in possibility because they
don't believe in themselves you cannot
believe in possibility without believing
in yourself and you can't if you believe
in yourself that means you got to
believe in possibility and that means
then uh that means you got to do
something you got to get off the couch
you know you got to get up and you got
to get engaged uh in your world and you
got to be a Creator in your life in in
and instead of a victim in your life now
that's an easy thing to say um but it
means that means you have to carve out
some time for you I mean and you invest
in yourself invest in yourself and
invest in your future do it and get
uncomfortable and know that that's
normal that's natural that's the unknown
okay if you if I keep making the same
choices I'm going to keep having the
same health condition if I keep doing
the same things I'm going to still have
the same level of abundance okay so I
got to start making changes it's not
that hard to do it if you really want to
do it I mean if you really want to do it
then you you'll invest in yourself now
for me I think everybody to some degree
Chris believes that they have a hand in
creating their life unless they've had a
really really horrible childhood in past
but on some level people believe it
right so people say well yeah okay so I
I believe that I can get the car I can
get the vacation I can get the new home
I can get the relationship I can get the
second home I don't know whatever it is
that people want but but the way they're
going to do it is okay I'm gonna work
really hard I'm gonna study a lot
there's nothing wrong with this by the
way um I'm going to be trained uh I'm
going to learn I'm going to make a bunch
of wrong choices I'm going to learn from
my mistakes and then I'm going to get
really good at Gathering a lot of things
and doing these things okay I've created
a certain degree in my life but people
who really really start shortening the
distance between the thought of what
they want and experience of having it
something changes they may say oh I have
the belief that I create my my life in
some way but is it possible that it's
more than the synchronicity you know
more than the parking space more than
thinking of a friend and they call you
like everybody kind of accepts that as
kind of oh that's possible well why
don't take it to the next level I mean
what what if there what if you could
actually do more of that like is that a
belief that you can begin to uh Embrace
so that means if you believe that some
level that you can create something
greater of like of Greater magnitude of
Greater amplitude um that means then
you'd have to get involved in the
experience a little bit more that means
I'd have to believe how how could I
possibly do that like what would it take
for me to do that and so people evolve
their belief around creation when they
start seeing bigger synchronicities
happen in their life like the
opportunity the the the job the the the
the phone call the synchronicity The
Coincidence that's bigger than the
parking space because they're in
investing in themselves now here's the
cool part the moment they have that
synchronicity and it has something to do
with what they're doing inside of them
they're going to pay attention to what
they did inside of them they're going to
do it again they're going to believe now
oh I actually am the creator of my life
I'm I'm no longer the victim of my life
keep practicing that over time keep
getting better at it you don't have to
go anywhere and do anything to get
things somehow they seem to come to you
somehow the opportunities coming to you
and you're not having to do it
now that's another way to create and and
that we're all creators so taking time
to be a Creator taking time to invest in
yourself taking time to get involved in
the experiment this is an experiment to
see to measure the effects of you at
cost right so do it really good one way
and then find out a way if there's a way
to flow if there's a way to change that
all of a sudden allows your environment
to uh change around you uh when you
change that's when the experiment gets
exciting I want to talk about
gratitude what do most people get wrong
when it comes to a gratitude practice
get wrong
huh um well if you think about it when
you receive something favorable or just
receive something favorable if something
wonderful is happening to you or
something wonderful just happened to you
the feeling that's created from that
experience is is called gratitude so the
emotional signature of gratitude means
something wonderful is happening to you
or something wonderful has just happened
to you and gratitude is the ultimate
state of receiving that's that's it's
the ultimate state so
um yeah you can you can practice with a
gratitude journal and write down the
things in your life that you're grateful
for and I think that has a a really
great reminder to to manage your
attention and to manage your
energy um but by the same means can you
be grateful for things that you haven't
had
yet uh but you believe enough that you
can have now we only accept believe and
surrender to thoughts that are equal to
our emotional state we'll never accept
believe in surrender to thoughts that
are not equal to our emotional state so
if you're feeling really
unhappy and you're feeling really
negatively
and you're thinking
positively the thought of thinking
positively never makes it past the brain
stem to get to the body because the body
is feeling miserable positive thought
never changes the
biology okay so people accept believe in
surrender an information equals with
their emotional state you watch
something on a program and you get fear
the information that comes in after that
fear you're going to accept you get a
diagnosis the doctor says you got this
amount of time to live live and you're
in that state that information is going
to go right into your subconscious mind
because your that information is equal
to the emotional state that you're in
make sense so you can't think positively
I'm I'm healthy I'm wealthy I'm I'm free
I'm I'm unlimited and your body's going
no you're not dude you're you're
miserable so the thought never makes it
to the body okay so that means then we
would have to change the emotional state
of the body and we're doing research on
this really really fascinating research
on this now so the person
then wants to accept believe and
surrender to thoughts of their
future and they want to reprogram their
subconscious mind to a new future if
they're feeling gratitude and gratitude
is the ultimate state of receiving they
will actually accept believe and
surrender to the thoughts that they're
thinking equal to that emotional state
and that's exactly what programs the
autonomic nervous system to begin to
make a pharmacy of chemicals
that causes the body to move into
restoration growth and repair and and a
lot of immune function so we took a
group of people um in a study and um we
measured their cortisol levels and we
measured uh an imunoglobulin called IGA
imunoglobulin a it's your body's natural
defense it's the body's flu shot in fact
it works better than any flu shot um and
so as cortisol levels go up IG levels go
down because if you're an emergency your
immune system is compromised if all your
energy is going to the outer world
you're and you have no energy in your
inner world you're you're going to be
unhealthy and the internal protection
system kind of closes
down okay so um four days of changing
their emotions from resentment and
judgment and frustration and
impatience uh to gratitude and
appreciation four days and we measured
their hearts because when you're
frustrated and you're impatient um and
you're judgmental your heart beats very
differently when you're grateful well
when you're grateful um your heart
starts to beat in a more rhythmic way
and there's a couple Pathways where
oxytocin signals nitric oxide and nitric
oxide signals another chemical that
causes the arteries in your heart
literally to swell to open up and so
when you actually feel gratitude there's
a physiological component that takes
place where your heart feels full and
when energy or blood makes it to the
heart and energy makes it to the heart
it's a different Consciousness right
it's a it's a different level of
awareness than when you're feeling
resentful or you're feeling
impatient so feel the emotion of
gratitude and open your heart keep
activating that Center we discovered
that when person a person feels that
emotion and they do it for four days
their IGA levels went up 50% uh just in
four uh 4 days so there's an robust
immune response that takes place by just
uh changing uh from from those limited
emotions to more elevated emotions so we
saw that when a person's feeling
gratitude um and their heart goes from
kind of a uh very uh incoherent state to
a more regulated and organized state
that once energy makes it to the heart
um as I said earlier um somehow it
begins to move to the brain and if you
would imagine like grabbing a big sheet
and going like this it's almost like the
heart is causing this beautiful pattern
of energy mve to the brain causes the
brain to move in these beautiful Alpha
Brain Wave states that is that state of
imagination so I think when we're
grateful um those social networks turn
on where we want to connect I think we
we have more appreciation for the moment
uh and and I think we're more prone to
give uh which actually releases more
oxytocin which releases more nitric
oxide and causes us to feel even in feel
even better so we teach people then to
feel grateful for things that they
haven't had yet as well as the things
that they have in their life and it
tends to produce profound changes in
their
biology tactically what are the cues
that you're giving to people there will
be people that are listening now that
think I have a gratitude practice or I
I've seen the results from existing
research positive psychology gratitude
seems to be one of the most robust ways
to improve your Baseline level of
Happiness completely free cost free yeah
what are the most powerful elements of a
gratitude practice what are the triggers
what are the tactics what are the way
markers that you're saying this is
something that you should be really
focused on when it comes to your
gratitude practice Yeah I think that I
think um the first step uh is changing
your physiology I think uh um I think
there's levels of gratitude that you
could feel but you have to stop feeling
other things first in order to feel it
so it's not gr I I don't think it's
enough and I'm just saying this for
myself um it's not enough for me to feel
gratitude for 5 minutes and then spend
the rest of my day feeling miserable
that's not why I'm doing it I'm doing it
to sustain that State uh for an extended
period of time that's I want to get
really good at doing it with my eyes
open so I believe that if I'm walking
around in a state of gratitude with my
eyes open and I can sustain that state
for an extended period of time there
should be an there should be
opportunities coming to
me as the result of my change in energy
right so I make the effort in the
experiment okay because this is an
experiment I make the effort in the
experiment that if I can stay in this
great state of gratitude that I should
see something unusual come to me as a
result of it that that's why I do it so
that means that you have to we're
hypnotized and we're conditioned to
believe that something out there has to
change
in order to take away the lack of
separation of not having it inside of me
gratitude kind of fills that lack and so
if you're not waiting for your life to
change to feel that emotion you're
actually saying if I generate gratitude
I actually heal if I generate gratitude
I should create this in my life so I
just like to use it in a way that tends
to be more creative and not just be
grateful for the things that I have I
think that has a lot of great biological
effects but as the Creator in your life
to shorten the distance between the
thought of what you want and the
experience of having it without having
to do a whole lot um I think gratitude
is that perfect state of receivership
talk to me about the role of hard work
and how you see it because there is a a
Temptation I can imagine for people to
believe that thinking it is all that
needs to happen yeah and this you
know I remember Ronda burn who wrote The
Secret there was a tsunami
in Thailand or Indonesia Boxing Day 2025
I think 2006 something like that and uh
there was a famous news article that
came out shortly after that I think the
secret had come out and then as always
an author that's got a book that's in
circulation let's get Ronda burn to
comment on this geological you know
issue uh and she said that the reason
that the tsunami had hit the people of
Indonesia or Thailand was because that
they were attracting that energy uh and
that went down quite poorly perhaps
unsurprisingly that hundreds of
thousands of people have been displaced
by a tsunami and it was being blamed on
them for sending out energy that then
got this tsunami to come the converse
being
that lots of people who believe in
agency and like the idea that they've
got control over their own lives take a
very materialist very utilitarian very
sort of rationalist traditionalist
perspective on I just need to do the
thing so how do you marry this need for
hard work yeah with the insights that
you have around envisioning your future
uh I I don't uh I just want to Define
hard work um uh first because um I think
um I don't see hard work as the way
people see hard work I I mean I'm a I'm
a very immersive person so if I'm going
to get good at something um I'm going to
put my my mind my body my heart and soul
behind whatever it is I'm going to do
and and I do that because I like it you
know I like to learn I like to
experience I like to grow um and I think
um you can get really good at doing it
one way and the hard work the you know
all the stuff we talked about get really
good at doing it and become successful
and then have what just about everything
you want but you may not truly have
happiness you just may have a lot of
things and you got really good at doing
it right okay so for me I said there's
got to be another way there's got to be
another way to do it that's different
than the way that I've done it I've done
gotten really good at doing that is
there another way to create where I
don't actually have to go and do
something if I could change my energy
and I've been at this long enough to
tell you that nobody changes until they
change their energy if I change my
energy will my life change that's that's
kind of the experiment that I'm
interested in okay so what piece of
knowledge what piece of information let
me find the information that can help me
build the model of understanding that
this is actually possible now I'm not
watching Netflix I'm not watching Ted
lasso I'm not watching Suits I'm not
watching in the news I'm not watching
the game I'm I'm I'm reading this
information because I want to understand
the what and the why okay now I got it
okay quantum physics says Einstein says
the field is the sole governing agency
of the particle the the field controls
the particle particle doesn't control
the particle energy controls matter okay
all right let me build this model a
little bit further okay um if if if the
field is sole governing agency of the
particle then it's not matter that's
emitting the field it's actually a field
that's actually slowing down in
frequency and creating matter okay I'm
telling you all this because I'm using
I'm using quantum physics as a way to
help us understand that mind and matter
are inextricably combined it's
impossible to separate the two okay well
it works on the very tiny level of
subatomic particles but can can it work
on a on a greater level can can you make
real life events happen in your life and
collapse the wave function okay well if
I'm matter trying to change matter if
I'm Joe dispenza aware that I'm local in
space in time immersed in the illusion
of this virtual reality experience this
this hologram then I got to play by the
play by the rules of antonian physics
but you got to predict and plan and do a
lot of things okay okay what if I could
get to the field what if I could become
pure Consciousness and be aware of
nothing physical and material become
nobody become no one in nothing in
nowhere in no time become pure
Consciousness and move to that realm
beyond space and time okay let me just
say okay if I could there is pure
Consciousness and I'm not aware of my
body not aware of my environment not
aware of time and I'm in the field okay
what are the principles of the field
everything's connected everything's
frequency everything's energy um there's
less separation there's more wholeness
okay so if I could get to the field and
I can create from the field instead of
from matter as an experiment could I
then begin to produce changes in the
field that ultimately would change the
the Hologram and threedimensional
reality okay so I may not be very good
at at the beginning so I was going to
say some unlearning and changing my
beliefs about a lot of things and
studying to make sure that when I do it
that I know what I'm doing and why I'm
doing it okay uh so nothing happens do I
go back to just going back the other way
or am I just not that good so maybe I'm
just not that good yet like maybe I got
to get better at it so I'm going to
practice again um I'm going to keep
building my model through experience and
then all of a sudden you start noticing
changes now the hard work was worth the
effort when I start seeing the effects
that it creates in my life
so I think that that there's a delicate
balance between intention and that's
getting clear on what you want and
surrender uh which means trusting in the
outcome and if you over intend you're
working really hard and you're trying
really hard and if you overs surrender
you're lazy and lethargic and you're not
doing anything right so it's kind of a
Razor's Edge when you talk about hard
work because for me um it really is
about building a model of understanding
and then being able to immerse myself in
the experience to prove to myself that
it actually uh could be the truth so the
hard work is just good clean effort and
getting so lost in the act of what
you're doing that the ACT actually
becomes the experience I know that for
me when I get to that point where I've
stretched myself past the point where I
normally stop especially in a meditation
if I go one more time it's always worth
the effort something changes uh when I
when I go past that point so and I think
that's that works in all kinds of ways
so um I think hard work for me is just
immersing myself in it to until I start
seeing effects there's a line from
Mackie valy where he says God doesn't
want to do everything some of it is up
to you I think that's a nice blending of
those two yeah I have another friend who
um we were at a party my birthday party
actually last year and we were walking
back toward his car who was parked
nearby and uh he was going to give me a
left home
and I was waiting for him to beep the
car so that I could get in and he didn't
and the door was open did you not lock
your car he says oh I don't lock my car
that's interesting why don't you do that
and he says I'm not sure man the
universe just has my back and locking
your car I think that's just that's a
sufficient low lift that you might as
well do it anyway but that line really
stuck with me the universe has my back
and the times when I feel like that's
the case the times when I feel like I'm
swimming Downstream not Upstream
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life's better yeah undeniably life's
better well you may have to put 10 in
and get one out in the beginning and
then if you stick with it you put one in
you get 10 out and that's when it gets
fun so there'll be a lot of people
listening who
again the people who pray at the altar
of raw cognition right very
very utilitarian materialistic that left
brain is always
on how can they learn to expand a view
of what contributes to happiness and
well-being and fulfillment and
achievement in life what would you say
to the person who's still unsure well um
I think it was last year we were at an
event a weeklong event and we were we do
a lot of walking meditations because you
got to be able to stand as it walk as it
sit as it lay down is it and so we do a
lot of walking meditations to to to
embody it and um I was was it was in
Cancun Mexico there was 2200 people at
that event we were on the beach it's at
Sunrise the sun was coming up was one of
the last meditations you know and I just
I looked at all these people and they
were looking facing the sun they had
their hands over their heart and their
eyes were closed so many of them like
had tears of joy uh rolling down their
face they were so incredibly joyful so
in incredibly grateful um so worthy uh
in that moment and I realized my God
nobody's making them happy in that
moment but them and and I think when we
hit these points where we finally break
free from the chains you know of our own
limitations I think when we overcome the
emotional addictions that keep us
tormented and reliving the past uh I
think um that the the the overcoming of
those emotional addictions the side
effect is joy is it's it's it it's a
freedom of expression without feeling
limited uh in any way and I just I can
tell you that um again this is only my
experience but when I look at an
audience of people you know at the end
of seven days and um I always tell them
uh nobody's making you happy but you and
all you've done is decided who not to be
and who to be and you sat with yourself
long enough to change that so
when people do that and they get to that
point where um they're worthy to receive
they they showed up enough times when
they could have laid in bed or skipped a
meditation but they didn't that they
they kept showing up I think the
universe only gives us what we think
we're worthy of receiving right and so
the person who's feeling that level of
um happiness that level of Joy because
they've made themselves happy then
they're okay with you and they're okay
with everybody and I and I think that's
the important point is that that when we
overcome ourselves the side effect of of
that is true
Joy how can people better learn to love
themselves wow I mean that's a that's an
interesting conversation
um I I think love has to be redefined uh
to some
degree uh because I think a lot of
people have a different definition about
love um but I once again I really have
seen this numerous times uh they have to
practice feeling love I mean you cannot
love unless you practice feeling it and
and I think um if you practice feeling
love you get better at feeling love and
if you get better at feeling love you
become less
selfish and more selfless in other words
you're not when you're executing from
your heart when you're feeling love um I
think you you consider the whole uh and
and um so so for me um I think when
people uh push themselves past that
point where they normally stop um and
they TR truly truly believe in
themselves I think they're in love with
themselves and when they're in love with
themselves they're pretty much in love
with everybody and when they're when
they're angry at themselves they're
angry at others and when they're
resentful uh with themselves they're res
or judge judgmental of themselves or
judgmental of others I think that's the
law so we've seen it numerous times seen
you know especially when you see a
collective group of people u in a state
of Joy it's not common that you see that
um in the world these
days I heard a story from you about the
basketball player maybe basketball ball
player in a wheelchair who said that he
never loved himself at one of your
events and it just really struck me that
line I never really loved myself ah yeah
yeah I thought it was very interesting
he had uh Ms I'm pretty sure is a
professional football player I think he
and he came to the event it was kind of
funny and
um he his brother brought him there and
he thought he was coming to a yoga
retreat he didn't know what he was
getting into and you know the guy came
in a wheelchair and he's walking at the
end of the event it never occurred to
him to love himself and we had someone
else with ALS that came in a wheelchair
and they brought him backstage he was
walking on that beach and he said oh my
God the more more I practice feeling
love the more I feel like I'm healing he
didn't say I I'm how come I'm not healed
all the way he said oh my God every time
I feel deeper and deeper levels of Love
Somehow my body is changing and healing
so now now he's feeling love uh with an
intention to heal right and I think
that's I think that's I I think there
you get to a certain point where um you
know well we've seen this um we've seen
oxytocin levels in our community you
know the love chemical
you know 200 times normal and and and
when you're feeling that amount of love
it's really hard to hold a grudge um you
would never want to stop feeling that
way and So you you're okay with
everybody in that state any any other
thought that you have is ripping you out
of that state that you're already in you
start to go oh my God I like feeling
this a lot so then now it just becomes
in you know contagious you want to feel
more of it and and I think there's
always more Love Is there a
is there something similar to do with
fear of other people Judgment of others
criticism dealing with criticism of
other people that if you have this sense
of innate comfort and joy with where
you're at that any opportunity or risk
or threat for that to change just looks
like a really deal why would I take
that deal yeah I would to take that deal
yeah and and I think I think that's a
natural state of being when we're not in
survival you know when we move out of
survival I think we we tend to be as a
species very good very kind very caring
very loving very supportive very
informative uh and and that's people
heal each other people Shine for one
another they I think that's I think
that's who we are we're wired uh to be
that as well as a species and um I think
that's that's that model of then when
when you're like when we see in the
coherence healing is a you get a group
of people that behave all kinds of ways
in their life and you get them come
together and you instruct them and they
all behave the same way when they all
behave the same way it's no different
than that flock of birds or school of
fish there's an emergent Consciousness
that's taking place in other words in
the whole the whole is greater than the
sum of the parts and the intention to
heal another person as an example as the
collective puts their attention on these
individuals what they're saying is we're
we're intentionally making the effort to
heal this person because when we do heal
this person we strengthen the hole right
and so something
happens with us where we're wired I
don't know why it's so much easier to
clean your neighbor's backyard than your
your own but something in US innate in
us where we get to give uh life to
another person's life or to love another
person into life wow um I was just in a
a zoom call yesterday with an autistic
uh guy 27 years old that was catatonic
he couldn't move I mean horrible
depression and and um God just a
different he was
uh scuba diving in Cancun last year
after our event I a different character
but that's not that's not important
what's important is the people that
administered the healing on him and the
mother who was sitting there telling the
story about how their lives have changed
because he just broke out like he's a
different guy he's super poetic he can
talk now he couldn't talk before he's
practicing I mean this is a new life for
him right and she's crying and uh you
want to talk talk about self-love the
the group of
people that had ministered the healing
are all on the call and we're all I'm on
the call too and we're all crying
because we're feeling the mother's
gratitude and I think that's one of the
greatest uh ways we can feel gratitude
is when we receive it so some kind of
empathy is born that says that God we we
made a difference in someone's life we
took care of somebody in the tribe like
we're we we're strengthened because of
this and um this this kind of empathy
that takes place kind of draws us closer
together you know when we we we Bond
better so the experience then for that
person who administered the healing is
creating a level of love that they
hadn't had before and it wasn't from
getting the sports car and it wasn't
from going on the vacation it was by
giving to somebody else and and then
then opening your heart becomes less of
a
technique it's not a technique any
longer it's just a way right it's a
thing and so the people that do these
coherence healings remotely and great
studies on autism great studies on PTSD
great effects on all kinds of health
conditions
remotely U I have sat with them and they
say I would never miss I would never
miss because I could have the worst day
in the world and I I when it's no longer
about me it's about somebody else and I
can do this and I can make a change in a
person's life they're moving closer to
love right they're they The Experience
then from that experience that they've
never had before or the repeated
experience brings them so much joy so
much love um that they they need less uh
from their outer World um and and I and
I think that um you know we're wired to
be that way self-regulation the term
that gets thrown around an awful lot
what's that mean to you tactically how
do you employ that
um it's it's so
easy uh in a matter of
seconds to react
to someone or something to respond to
some stray thought and in a matter of
seconds default back to those
subconscious and unconscious programs
because that emotion is driving you to
behave as if you're in the past it's
automatic right so it's seamless the
default system causes us to to lose our
connection to the vision of the future
our belief in the future and it happens
so fast that we forget of that future
right so so so
self-regulation is the ability to
regulate your or control your internal
state of how you're thinking and feeling
in a condition in your environment that
normally would create another feeling or
another emotion right so here's one of
the things we did in in our studies um
we don't do it anymore but we did it for
a long
time we saw that our community we could
teach them how to make their heartbeat
more coherently and when the heart does
that it sends out a magnetic field up to
3 MERS wide it's a big field um and
people can get really good at that and
you can do it in a ballroom with a
thousand other people or 2,000 other
people close your eyes forget about your
outer environment breathe and feel
practice feeling these elevated emotions
get good at it and um you can you can
manage that okay but what about when you
open your eyes now what happens when you
walk out into your life you know and so
we decided that we would take uh our
entire community and we would put them
in circumstances and conditions whether
it was repelling off the side of a
building um or standing on the top of a
a 50 foot pole uh and you know reaching
for you know jumping for trampoline
whatever it was bit of disregulation a
something to disrupt that level of order
and this was not about an adrenaline
rush this was actually about the
opposite that if you put the person in
the circumstances that would normally
cause an automatic fear response
automatic vigilance automatic anxiety
and give them something to do and teach
them how to regulate their internal
State and get back into hard coherence
and they're wearing monitors right when
we're doing this practice that and and
and and accomplish right if you could
self-regulate in that moment and return
back into your life and you just you
just did it there it's going to feel
like you should be able to do it in your
life as well not only that if you if you
put the stakes really high and the
threshold is really high then you face
the problems in your life you're like Ah
that's not so bad relative to what I
just what I just did so self-regulation
is to be able to change your emotional
state get back into that heart relaxed
the formula that we discovered is that
the more relaxed you are in your heart
the more awake you are in your brain for
some reason if you keep relaxing in your
heart the brain keeps becoming more
awake and aware so instead of stressed
out unconscious and living in a program
practicing relaxing your heart and
awaken your brain can actually become a
Hab so being able to regulate your
emotional state in the same environment
in other words think act and feel
differently in the same conditions in
your life and that's that's regulation
what are the cues that you're getting
people to follow what are the most
powerful ways that people can
self-regulate oh my goodness um we
discovered that when when energy makes
it to the heart and it moves to the
brain uh we start seeing this resonance
that starts to take place in the brain
in other words if people get really good
at this their brain is actually has a a
fa a Delta wave that's acting as a
carrier to a Theta wave and the Theta
wave is in a resonance or harmonic to an
alpha an alpha to Beta beta to high beta
and high beta right to gamma right so we
practice doing that with our eyes closed
and we do it over and over again relaxed
and awake relaxed and awake and then of
course we practice the walking
meditation so if you can do it seated in
your chair let's stand up let's all go
to the beach let's practice standing up
why cuz you got to practice standing up
practice with your eyes closed do the
same thing you were doing laying down
now do it standing up okay now I can do
it standing up I can change my state now
let's open your eyes now but when you
say do it standing up what is it
practice relaxing in your heart it's a
it's a a formula that we use it's a
meditation that we use and we take
people through it so practice that
standing up instead of laying down now
open your eyes and self-regulate
practice doing that with your eyes open
until it becomes a habit right so walk
in that state with your eyes open keep
practicing that over and over again
sooner or later it's going to become
easier and easier for you to do it so so
when a person has practiced it enough
times they can create the distinction
they can know the difference between
when they're there and when they're not
like they they they'll know it
immediately they lose it like they fall
from grace they oh I lost it so then
they have just one of two
choices stay in the program the rest of
the the day and complain and blame and
make excuses and feel sorry for yourself
or pause for a moment excuse yourself
get back into that state relax in your
heart and awaken your brain again and
and being able to do it when you're out
of balance is the reason why we do it
we're doing it to get back into balance
so it takes practice um but gosh we have
so many people that do it really well to
walk as it practice with your eyes open
just like you do with your eyes closed
talk to me about the power of mental
rehearsal this is something that you
spend an awful lot of time working
on uh yes so I'm always fascinated with
neurogenesis or growth in the brain I've
always been fascinated by it and so um
if you look at a musician you look at an
athlete uh you look at a performer or an
act or an
actress um you look at a dancer anybody
who's learning a skill there's a period
of time where they have to iously
practice what they're doing they have to
consciously put a lot of their attention
a lot of their awareness and a lot of
their energy on what they're doing it
takes a lot of energy for them to start
this whole process I if they if they
keep practicing it after a period of
time the the redundancy of the
experience then starts to install enough
circuitry for them to do it more
automatically it just gets more natural
and easy and and that's kind of the
physical rehearsal of whatever they're
doing that's really important but what
separates
uh that person to the mind of the
champion is the person who will sit down
and rehearse the act of what they're
about to do they'll take the time and
they'll mentally rehearse the the the
action and what the research shows is
that when you mentally rehearse doing
something the brain does not know the
difference between the outside world
event and what you're imagining in your
mind to the brain is exactly the same so
as you to rehearse what you're doing and
you put yourself in the scene and you
practice it if the brain doesn't know
the difference between the real life
experience that's out there and what
you're rehearsing in your mind
experience creates circuitry in the
brain so you start laying down Hardware
in the brain to look like you've done it
to look like you've already experienced
it now the brain's as I said no longer
record of the past it's now becoming a
map to the Future okay keep practicing
it doing it past that point keep
rehearsing it then all of a sudden nerve
cells that fire together wire together
it gets more automatic it gets be more
like a software program it becomes
easier to do so Studies have been done
on this where they took people that that
never played the piano before and
divided them into two categories and
they did functional scans on on on both
of the groups and in one group they had
them come and learn one-handed scales
and chords for 5 days um and they had to
practice two hours a day and so they
played the scales and chords and at the
end of 5 days as you would imagine they
had a whole new set of circuits in the
motor cortex of the brain well you learn
new information learns learning is
making new synaptic connections uh get
some instruction get your body involved
get your body involved you're going to
have an experience experience enriches
the brain pay attention to what you're
doing you got to pay attention and
repeat it over and over again repetition
firing and wiring you assemble new
neural architecture okay post scans show
that take a group of people and have
them close their eyes and mentally
rehearse playing the scal and chords for
two hours a day for 5 days at the end of
those 5 days the people that mentally
rehears playing the scales and chords
their brain looked like they've been
playing the piano for 5 days but they
never lift the finger take those people
and set them in front of a piano they
never played the piano before and
they'll actually play those scales and
chords so they Prime their
brain so they could actually step into
that footprint so if you're going to
really want to begin to make measurable
changes in your life because you want to
heal from your condition or disease um
then you can't be resentful around your
ex and so you're going to have to figure
out a way how you're going to have to
act what would love do what would
greatness look like how am I going to
how am I going to overcome this and how
am I going to behave in this
circumstance because the one hour of my
good meditation where I felt great and
in my heart and connected and coherent
in my brain and then the rest of the day
I'm frustrated and patient okay I got to
figure this out so I'm feeling better
I'm sleeping better I have more energy
um I have less pain but my my values are
still the same okay 1
hour against 15 hours I got to I got to
get I got to C rehearsing so I could
actually get in the game so that I'm I'm
not going to fall and return back to the
default of that old personality because
I'm not going to
heal throughout this conversation I've
had
this idea in my mind of sort of the
shallowness of a lot of practice that
doesn't necessarily incorporate this and
I've spent a lot of time with some very
very smart people that are very very
effective at getting Behavior to change
but I often wonder about how much deeper
than the behavior it goes
into belief about what they're worthy of
many people are really great at doing
things even if they don't think that
they're worthy of doing them for very I
mean that's kind of like the intrinsic
side of impostor syndrome when you
succeed I didn't believe that I could do
the thing I went out and did the thing
and yet I still don't feel like I was
worthy of the success that doing the
thing gave me yeah right yeah and it it
kind of shows to me this I think
shallowness is is the closest word that
I can think of uh let's see how I can
say this
um I thought people came to our work to
heal to create abundance to get a new
job to have a new relationship to have a
mystical experience I really thought
that those were the reasons that they
thought they came but really what
they're really coming for is
wholeness um because when you're whole
it's really hard to want
um and you could only want when you're
in lack uh or you're in separation and
and and we we actually create from lack
we actually create from separation if
you see something that you don't have
that someone else has and you're aware
now that it exists and you say I want
that you you the lack of not having it
actually inspires you to create and get
it right so we create from lack and
separation and so if people are spending
their whole time in their life working
really hard to get the things that they
want behaving differently so they get
that thing and then when the novelty
wears off from that thing here comes
that Feeling Again of lack and
separation and we reach a point in our
life for many people where nothing
making nothing's making that feeling go
away and that's a really important
moment in life where you start realizing
oh my God I got to wake up because
there's never going to be something that
does it out there well that's one of the
reasons I think that you get sort of
gold medalist syndrome or whatever the
equivalent is that you can always J try
to yourself that Ah that's it it it
wasn't the $2 million house it's the $4
million that's the one this was just the
reason that I still feel empty after
having achieved that it wasn't the
corner office it's the corner office
with the penthouse windows at the top it
wasn't the wife and there is no there is
always a Manana yeah I think people
confuse pleasure and happiness uh on one
level and God I have sat with
billionaires and more than than one and
they have leaned over and said to me we
are miserable we are in agony we can't
even we can't even enjoy a sunset like
uh
because money has nothing or success has
nothing to do with genuine authentic joy
and and mastering yourself overcoming
yourself in so many ways creates so much
wholeness and order in the nervous
system so much wholeness that you don't
want anything anymore and and that's a
great moment when you feel so whole that
you no longer want that that's the
moment you're free I think that's the
moment you really feel free so so it is
deeper than that yeah I think there's an
intrinsic innate quality for us to
remember uh something deeper and more
profound in us and I think when people
have that full-on sensory internal
experience that moment of connection
that that overcoming that arousal you
know that whatever that is that
connection or Union um I think they when
they they feel these elevated States
they stop looking outside of it outside
of themselves for it they start looking
within and and I think that's a a really
great moment and and I I don't know how
deep that rabbit hole goes but I know
that that um there's always more love uh
to feel when we when we do that was an
awful lot of attention paid to
self-mastery but it's self-mastery
within a very particular domain
self-mastery to make sure you don't hit
snooze it's self-mastery to not eat the
sugar it's self-mastery to go to the gym
to lift the weight to to complete the
to-do list to do the things right this
is a world that I inhabit very very
heavily and
it's opening up the doorway to the
potential that it might be something
more than that it might be more than
just doing the thing I'm glad you're
saying that because I believe that also
I really think there's way more than
that there's way more than that because
there's there's so much that we haven't
experienced yet that has nothing to do
with material world have a full-on
mystical experience and to the point
where you can't go back to being the
same person any longer because you're
changed as a result of it that your
perception of reality changes from that
inward experience um I I I think that I
think there's a lot of unknown
experiences that that await us that have
nothing to do with the world we know do
you think that everybody has the same
propensity uh openness uh to to these
sorts of experiences there are some
people that I'm around and that I'm
friends with and I think in order to get
you to the stage where you would be Keen
to open the door to the mystical
experience uh we're going to have to
drag you kicking and screaming through a
mile of glass ah yeah you know it's a
it's a I think when people are ready
they're ready you know I people meet
information on their own level you know
and and I think that's great I think
everybody's on the Journey Back To
Source you know and uh you got to you
got to forget that you're source to have
the experience of something other than
it you know and I I think it's now it's
a process of of of Awakening and so um
God I think there's I think there's so
much more to experience in life besides
that and and and um having those moments
of those transcendental moments where
you where you realize that there is
something greater it's hard to go back
um uh to playing the game the same
way one of the common pitfalls that must
get in the way of people is chronic
stress it's what we've spoken about
earlier on what are some of the ways
that stress might show up in our lives
that people don't realize the sneaky
surreptitious ways that it comes and and
starts to niggle at our quality of life
well just think about the emotions that
are associated with stress it's anger
it's hatred it's violence it's hostility
it's judgment it's competition it's
control it's Envy it's jealousy it's
insecurity it's fear it's anxiety it's
vigilance
um it's hopelessness its powerlessness
it's guilt it's shame and psychology
calls all of those emotional states
normal human States Of Consciousness
those are Altered States Of
Consciousness so so if you're feeling
any one of those emotional states more
than likely you're having a stress
response the problem is we get so
conditioned into it that we don't know
how to feel uh uh feel any other way so
I think we describe change in this work
as being greater than your body being
greater than the body that's been
conditioned emotionally into the past
and being greater than the body when
it's programmed in into a predictable
future executing a will that's greater
than the program executing a mind that's
greater than the body and moving it into
the present moment takes a lot of energy
and takes a lot of awareness and you got
to sit with it long enough to get good
at it so in order for you to change you
have to be able to move from that place
of knowns familiar past predictable
future into the present moment the
unknown okay to changes greater than
your environment every person every
object every every place has a
neurological Network in your brain
because you've experienced it okay so if
you're not being defined by a vision of
the future and you open your eyes and
you plug yourself back in the
three-dimensional reality you see your
coworker you see your ex you see your
boss you see your friend you see your
cell phone you see the news and now the
environment is actually controlling the
way you're feeling and the way you're
thinking so now it's no longer your
personality creating your personal
reality your personal reality is
creating your personality your
environment is controlling the way
you're thinking and feeling so to change
is to be greater than your environment
to not respond the same way not to think
the same not act the same way in the
same conditions okay and and not being
in the predictable future and the
familiar past you got to be in the
present moment means overcome time
okay that's our model for change when
you're under stress the arousal of
stress hormones causes you to really
feel like your body the arousal causes
you to put all of your attention on your
body because you're the priority when
you're in survival when you're in
survival and the brain is in the aroused
State your attention is you're not going
inward now you get eaten you can't get
vulnerable you can't drop your guard you
know like the video there drop your
guard you got to drop your guard to do
the be vulnerable but you won't drop
your guard if the threat of the danger
is out there you don't want to go in
it's not a time to create it's not a
time to go it's not a time to learn it's
time to run fight and hide right so the
arousal causes put all of our attention
on the environment and when you're under
stress and you're trying to predict the
future based on the past you're you're
obsessed about time right so if the
change is to be greater than your body
to be greater than your environment be
greater than time and the stress
hormones cause us to put all of our
attention on our bodies Our environments
and time it means when we're under
stress and in survival it's really hard
to change is it really not a time to
change it's time to run fight and hide
okay overcome the addiction to those
emotions lower the volume to them give
people the the the the the application
and have them work with it they're going
to break they're going to break an
addiction what happens when you break an
addiction you go through
withdrawals come on just a little
suffering come on come on just a little
judgment just you got come on you know
that's so the body's craving the body's
the mind is craving those chemicals and
so overcoming an addiction to something
outside of us is one thing but
overcoming the addiction to the
chemicals of the emotions that are that
are within us is that's a huge thing
right and so it's funny because if
you're addicted to something like I
don't know sugar suar or caffeine and
none of these are you know have your own
belief on them but if you're addicted to
alcohol or whatever or nicotine and you
say I'm going to quit I'm going to quit
and you say that with intention with
your conscious mind and then you know I
throw my feet up on the table I grab a
sugar donut and cup of coffee and I got
you
know powder all around my mouth and
you're you're still you know you're
still trying to overcome it your body's
going to say start tomorrow this is not
a good day for you come on one bite
everybody else is doing you know all of
that that's are the voices in our head
that lead to the same choices right so
but if you truly broke the addiction to
the emotion um to the to the to the
substance and you walked in you could
have the sugar or not have the sugar or
the coffee or not have the coffee
because you're not addicted to it and
there's no tug any longer the difference
is that when it's something that's
outside of you one of the most effective
ways to change behavior is to change
your environment right so you say hey
you can't eat the donut that isn't in
your house you can't drink the coffee
that isn't in your hand being you have
at a moment's notice the opportunity to
access all of the sugar in forms of
stress or resentment or anxiety or
distaste or judgment or whatever it is
that you want that's always there you
have a permanently open cupboard of an
unlimited number 2 24 hours a day when
you wake when you go to sleep um which
is what's particularly Insidious about
it right sure sure and and stress
mismanages our attention all right so if
you're addicted to an emotion and you're
addicted to fear um there's going to be
some person or some circumstance that
you're going to put your attention on
that actually is associated with that
that fear and so uh the stronger the
emotion you have to some person or
problem the more you pay attention to
them where you place your attention is
where you place your energy then you're
giving your power away to that person so
lower the volume to that emotion
overcome the addiction you'll take your
attention off that person or problem and
that's energy that's coming back to you
and it actually builds your own field
now there's energy to heal now there's
energy to create there's energy to
design a new future so so lowering the
volume to the emotion overcoming the
addiction is is is an art um because you
go through that period of Cravings where
your body which has been conditioned to
be the Mind Is Telling You come on just
one memory come on just do it once and
and and if people are white knuckling it
and they don't know what to do then it
it it becomes like withdrawals give them
something to do let me replace this
emotion let me replace this thought let
me let me do something differently I
think it helps it I I I think you can
move a little quicker that way I saw a
study a little while ago about the
Boston Marathon bombing and they
compared people who had actually been
there during the bombing and their level
of trauma response after the event to
people who hadn't been there but had
watched more than 90 minutes of news
coverage about it the people that
watched more than 90 minutes of news
coverage about it had a worse more
severe trauma response than people who
were actually literally there while the
bomb went off yeah what is your
perspective on a always on world with
technology with 24-hour news with social
media with screens what you're talking
about here is connecting to ourselves
we're in a world which is always trying
to get us to connect to something else
just how important is it to disconnect
oh I think it's super important I think
uh uh who controls the information
controls the behavior of the masses
right I think that's just the way it is
because information causes us to be aare
of something so if you accept that
information as the truth you get a
collective group of people all behaving
in the same way so wow what a what an
amazing time in history right now
because if you look around so many
different uh paradigms are collapsing
around us and and wow it's a it's a
crazy time uh uh to to be alive so
uh I I I I don't know what information
honestly to trust anymore there's just
so much information out there and and I
think that well I think that I think
there are motives for self-interest in
the world um that aren't aren't
genuinely good for human beings so um I
think it's important for people to
commune to connect to bond to interact
in 3D um reality that's why we do our
events in person because something
emergent happens in a collective group
of individual ual that come together
we've measured the energy in the room
it's it's something something emerges
that wasn't there before when you show
up and you commune and Community is the
answer um so so technology um I think I
think it it robs our it robs our
pleasure centers it hijacks them to
higher and higher levels and and I think
technology causes us to get to a point
where we can't find pleasure in anything
except that little device that people
are putting their attention on and and
uh we do this at our events we watch
people you know they're just they don't
even know that they're addicted to that
device until they have to sit all day
and not not think about it and then they
when they finally realize how addicted
they were to it when they've overcome it
they have a different reset uh for
themselves
so um I I I respect technology a lot
because all of my companies use it in
all kinds of wonderful ways um but if
you can't set that thing down and break
away from it it owns you on some level
and it's regulating your thoughts and
feelings on on a on a very high level
and so the problem that I've had with
technology with younger
people is that when you when you blow up
a nation or you punch somebody or you
break through a certain level or you
overcome something there is enormous
release of dopamine in the brain the
pleasure centers are just dumping
dopamine but that quantity of dopamine
is not normal for the brain so the
receptor sites close down because it's
like living with a spouse that always
yells at you you just close down and get
desensitized to it well so that means
then the next time you play you got to
use you got to create more dopamine to
switch those system you know switch that
on and so over time um you kind of
hijack those pleasure centers to a
really high level so the problem I have
with that is that
learning um should be a reward in and of
itself uh and and if you've just did all
those crazy things on a device and your
brain is stimulated to that point
um you can't turn it on when it comes
time to learning and you can't learn
without stimulation I remember the first
time that I started getting into
meditation and reading I tried to do a
lot of pivots all at the same time and I
would sit down on my cushion at my old
house in Newcastle and I'd have my hands
in my
lap and my body would move a little bit
like that and I realized that it was
just so used to Raw stimulation and I
would start to read a book that is
black and white text on a piece of paper
that doesn't move there's no Bings or
bongs or vibrations or notifications
coming down from the top and my body
felt uh agitated I felt agitated looking
at this page because it was such low
stimulus yeah and trying to it took
probably a over a year took over a year
for me to actually be able to sit down
and feel that as a pleasurable
experience and not one that was
agitating because I was and then you get
this sort of second order effect of oh
my God how stupid is it that I can't sit
in front of this page I'm so stupid what
a piece of that I have that I've
managed to condition myself learn
anymore I can't learn anymore and then
that's the a that's your affirmation
actually you're not conscious that
you're saying that but your affirmation
is I can't learn anymore I'm not good
enough or whatever that's your
affirmation you're actually believing
that I am and then you take it one level
above that and you say God what a piece
of I am that I think the thought I
can't believe and oh my God how smart am
I that I'm the sort of person that
thinks I'm the sort of person thinks
that I have this thought this infinite
regress of turtles all the way up
feeling bad about feeling bad yeah I'm a
I'm a black belt third degree Master at
that well well um I think there is this
I think I think there's a limit to
multitasking and I think changing your
attention so quickly on a device becomes
habituated so you you people attention
spans have shortened uh just an enormous
degree um but what what I think is so
important
uh is uh we we do this work where we
synchronize the heart to the brain and
and that when the heart and the brain
are synchronized they're actually
exchanging information same
frequency same energy frequency carries
information heart and brain are
synchronized now the heart starts to
inform the brain the brain may think but
the heart knows and so getting those two
systems um in balance a lot of times
allows us to G it gain information from
within us and I think um you know
um I don't know about you but there's a
lot of information that I just I'm not
sure of anymore oh massively I mean the
interesting thing has been as we've got
more information it hasn't made people
better informed it's made them more
uncertain yeah because the multiplicity
of
inputs has resulted
in so many different points of view that
no one can agree on what is what anymore
yeah go back to the Boston Marathon Ian
there's a lot of information that you're
watching that's actually worse than you
being there or is it is it really or is
it even real you know who knows I mean
it's a it's a huge uh interest of mine
because I I I I just I think you can
program people to do anything now I'm
absolutely certain of it relationships
seem to be an interesting sandbox for
pattern to appear in there's something
about being with somebody else that
draws you out of yourself you can't your
p in ways that you on your own wouldn't
what are some of the patterns that
people should be conscious of when they
are in relationships with others I think
one of the biggest ones is uh uh you
should make me happy it's not a
conscious belief it's a subconscious
belief um and uh only when you're happy
I'm happy that's uh another uh
challenging uh uh program to be in um
and and I I really think that you know
for I think we relate with everything
everything we relate with people relate
with you know relate intimately um but
we have uh emotions that we share that
with different people and when we share
emotions we share information we share
energy right so so in a relationship um
as as long as uh two people are evolving
in the same have the same interests and
evolve in the same direction uh I think
there's there's a lot of growth that can
take place and and I think after the
honeymoon stage wears off uh in a
relationship and and now you're back to
yourself your routine self um I think
people really learn a lot about
themselves and a lot about other people
that they that they didn't know before
and so I think it's really important for
people to show up in a relationship and
bring their best that just should be
that just should be the deal that they
make I'm just going to bring my best and
when I can't uh uh uh if I don't I'll
excuse myself and I'll get there again
or um if I ask you you would will you
tell me the truth don't tell don't don't
tell me unless I ask you uh but if I ask
you tell me the truth so I think there's
ways to grow off of each other um in all
kinds of relationships but it doesn't
have to be an intimate relationship it
could be all kinds of relationships and
some people just have friends they love
to suffer with or siblings they love to
feel guilt with or parents they love to
feel guilt with or enemies they love to
hate and but that if that enemy dies
they'll pick another one so they can
still feel hate right so we have
relationships I think that are based Bas
on emotions and emotions are the end
product of experience so all all men are
this way or all women this way we
because we've both had the same
experience we share the same emotion uh
we can relate to one another um and
that's what happens a lot of times when
people change they're no longer
suffering any longer they're no longer
unhappy any longer they're no longer
feeling victimized any longer and they
break their emotional agreements with
people and and uh that's because they're
not the same person any longer and and
those relation ships changeed as a
result of it you got to be willing you
got to be willing to do that as suppose
the strange thing is if you're not
already willing to show up for yourself
or capable of showing up for yourself
and making changes for
yourself what makes you think that you
know how to step in when it's you for
somebody else or when you're trying to
work out whether somebody else has your
best interests at heart when you don't
have your best interests at heart yeah
yeah I think I think um well there's a
lot to be said about that but but
um uh if if two people to support each
other on those blind spots I think I
think there could be a lot of growth
that goes along with it you want
somebody who makes you more of what you
want to become I think people are in
relationships that they they go into a
relationship to be happy right I mean
these people say I want love well why do
you want love I want love because I want
to be happy I want to be happy with
somebody okay well there's nothing wrong
with that that means then you have to
become happy in order to be in that
relationship because if you're unhappy
and you go into that relationship more
than likely you're not going to be happy
sooner or
later what role does spirituality have
in
science
um I think science now has in in my
world has become the Contemporary
language of mysticism I think it's
science that demystifies the mystical
and if you can use different uh branches
of science that demonstrate possibility
right I think uh the moment you use
religion or tradition or culture or even
spirituality you say a word you're going
to divide an audience you know because
everybody has their own experience of
that word their own definition of that
word and a lot of times people turn off
they don't so so so we work really hard
in renaming everything in the in the
model of of a a scientific understanding
uh so that uh I think science creates
Community uh so I think it's the
language of of of
mysticism and so um the research that
we're doing is specifically interested
in in demystifying what it takes to to
to to change and and um uh we have a lot
of information that's kind of filling in
the gaps that was once considered
spiritual or um
metaphysical um and and I've been at
this a long time and and I've been
accused of being a pseudoscientist you
know you can't call me that any you
can't say that any longer because of the
science to say that is absolutely the
truth right so um I think uh uh the
discoveries that you make when you have
a
hypothesis and those the the outcomes
are actually supportive of that
hypothesis um it changes your belief and
and we have we have scientists that I
really really
respect that are running experiments
five six seven times in a row because
they're actually thinking they're going
to get a different result they're
they're they're changing their belief
right in that moment and I say to them
why did you get in the science and
they're like for Discovery well you're
discovering something new and it's
unbelievable so they rerunning it
thinking this can't be right this can't
be right this there's no way this could
be like like this is like this
cannot be is there a uh a a scientist
that was particularly hard one in terms
of their yeah our head of research head
of research
uh U the the haml that runs our research
he's the head he was not at he was open
to the idea but he was going to you know
he wasn't very he didn't really believe
it and and now he says in my freezer I
hold the the cure for all diseases his
lectures are about the evolution of the
species this is a a a scientist with
over 200 published papers he cannot
believe the outcomes and and the cool
part about it is not like a small
percentage of this part of the parietal
lobe is actually enhanced and you know
15% of the people that did the study and
and this one standard deviation above
that's not what we're seeing you know
like you know when we saw the data with
the with the uh the cancer studies that
we were doing and we were seeing one one
particular U person we were studying his
blood that it was taking all this
mitochondrial function away in cancer
cells we said okay let's do now let's do
a Community let's do a a group of
advanced meditators and see if the
information's in their blood as well 84%
of the people
84% of the people that uh we studied uh
their their plasma had a dramatic effect
on pancreatic cancer cells breast cancer
cells all different types of cancer
cells it's 84% that's a high percentage
so again you want to talk about
demystifying uh through science uh that
means on on some level the information
in their blood is coming from somewhere
and it's not coming from uh anything
outside of them it's coming from within
them so that is that is quite mystical
uh and the conversations that I'm having
with a scientist now and the studies
that we're doing really are Bridging the
Gap between some of the things that were
considered you know mystical in some way
and or miraculous but in order to have a
miraculous events you have to challenge
convention and if you challenge
convention you're you're considered a
fool cool you know it's fool hearty it's
insane pull it off though now you're a
genius now you're a saint now you're a
Mystic so so we're seeing uh people in
this work have really amazing
testimonials they stand on the stage
they tell their story they're the
example of Truth people I'm watching the
audience PE the whole entire audience is
leaning in they're leaning in because
they're looking at truth and it's it's
coming from a story and it's not elegant
and it's not nice and they got sick and
they lost a lot of things they went
bankrupt and but that but there's a
there's
a a lot of really powerful information
that's being told in that story the
stories that people are the Gathering
are actually causing them to become aw
it happened to them take that and
combine it with all the scientific data
that we have evidence becomes the
loudest voice the evidence in testimony
the evidence in science says that it
actually is possible and I don't and I
don't want people I don't want them to
forget it that's why we're doing this
the all the scientific research I don't
want them to forget um that when they do
change their internal state that it has
profound effects on their health and on
their biology so so the science is
removing the doubt for a lot of people
and and I think that's really important
and people that tend to be cognitive
that tend to be rational that tend to be
left brain tend to be reasonable um we
take them on a journey you know and and
and by the way we have great scans to
show that people who come primarily Men
by the way that come and they're just
like I don't buy this I don't even like
the guy you know kind of like that um
and we we but their wies drag him their
Partners drag him they come and their
hearts all open and they're sobbing and
they're happy and they're free and and
their wife is just could cannot believe
and and like the guys like um many of
them were like I never meditated before
I always say you're perfect you're
perfect you're going to do exactly what
I tell you to do they do exactly uh what
we tell them to do and they have these
really well because they have no
existing patterns of meditation expect
or anything else i' been meditating for
20 years well okay well you know so we
see these people that just come with no
expectation white belt mentality oh our
data shows Chris that if you don't
expect anything to occur the unexpected
happens 100% of the time and when that
unexpected happens we look at the brains
of those people they look like they're
on psilocybin they look like they're on
a hallucinogenic and yet they're not
taking anything their brain just looks
like they're in a whole mystical world
it's kind of cool what's your thoughts
on psychedelics and the role have you
guys considered trying to somehow weave
what you do in with a engendering a
state obviously MDMA therapy very good
for lowering that sort of safety
threshold making people feel a little
bit more comfortable going into
difficult places same goes for ketamine
Psychotherapy yeah okay so um here are
my thoughts on it
um I think if you use plant medicine and
you use it uh with the int intention of
giving you another perspective about
yourself or your life or your past and
you go into it with that intention you
go into it to to understand or to learn
and make it reverent and there's rituals
and there's ceremony and you you you can
get really into the experience uh and
have an intention I think it's great I
think it's great and I I've just used
him a few times and I had great moments
but but I've also seen people you know
when I did my first one I sat next to
some woman and I said H uh how many have
you done it was my first one she said
I've done 63 of these and she said I
have cancer and I said oh wow um you
might want to try something else you
know like I mean it didn't work 63 you
know uh ceremonies times 64 right number
64 is the one yeah of course and then
we've seen a lot of uh the veterans that
we work with in the Navy Seals and
prisoners now we do a lot of work in
prisons
now um we see the same exact thing that
the that they they're they're stuck and
they're
traumatized um so
um anyway change the person uh in in one
state or another and get them uh beyond
the trauma in some way um and and wow
there's amazing changes that that can
actually take place in a person so must
be interesting for you as somebody who's
more familiar than probably almost
anybody on the planet uh of
higher States Of Consciousness
experiences of observing them in other
people of thinking about them yourself
of all of the rest of it to then take
probably the most reliable form of kind
of catapulting you up there because
you've got two types of perspectives
here know what I mean so so the person
then who does the the the the the drug
or the the the ketamine or whatever the
point I'm making is that they return
back into their
life and they're they're still living
the same life the Insight never changed
their behavior right
so when we start looking at the
derivatives of melatonin that are
secreted from the pineal gland um we're
meas we're going to start measuring
those actual endogenous substances that
the pineal gland makes that is dimethyl
tryptamine and all of its derivatives uh
that are it's manufactured in the body
so if we're seeing people's brains look
like they're having a full-on mystical
experience then there should be
information in
of course so we're this an event in San
Diego in uh in March we're going to
start measuring those endogenous
substances and the question is do you
really need them you know do you really
need that exogenous substance and and I
think it's great I think it's getting
another perception of the world another
perspective of life I think it's I think
it's great but if the person really
hasn't
changed that doesn't really it really
doesn't help them it's not instrumental
so but when people do have their own
internal experience without any EX enous
substance and all of the derivatives are
released and they fit in the same
receptor sites and people understand how
to activate those latent systems um I
think it's way more profound for the
person because it's not chemically
induced it's it's it's the person
doesn't feel it doesn't feel chemical I
just say it feels electric it feels very
electric very it's very electric well
the idea of spiritual bypass of going to
have this peak experience in the Amazon
rainforest or in the office somewhere in
a nice cushy
room and then coming back and not doing
the integration and not making any
changes and then just saying okay well
I'm just going to go back and have the
peak experience again over and over and
over I I have a good friend who way
before it was trendy had taken pretty
much everything from a psychedelic
standpoint and I keep asking him he's
one of my most insightful friends keep
asking what are you you you've been
using these things or you used them so
long ago have you got any temptation to
go back and he says I'm still learning
so much from what I did back then sure
and there's a lot of respect I have an
awful lot of respect for someone
that I've done the work and I'm still
doing the integration well that sound it
sounds like his personality type anyway
is very inquisitive so I mean I know
people do a lot of um U DMT and a lot of
a lot of those substances or uh some of
the other ones and and um it takes them
years to be able to explain uh what has
happened to them and and they they said
they lived felt like eternity and they
were gone for for five minutes and so so
those derivatives that are actually
endogenously made in the brain you know
from that little tiny gland that's in
the back of your brain um that causes an
inner Vision you know a profound in
Vision uh causes you to see the part of
reality that that you're unaware of you
know that part of you that that that
that you don't know about um and so that
that uh by releasing those particular
derivatives in in melat from melatonin
and we we have data that shows why why
is melatonin so key um because
tryptophan is an amino acid and
tryptophan uh makes uh makes serotonin
serotonin makes melatonin okay serotonin
and melatonin are a function of this
wavelength frequency called visible
light so when there's light
outside your eye is picking up
information from your environment and
the brain's switching on and the pineal
glands making serotonin and that's the
daytime neurotransmitter the inhibition
of light or the absence of light is the
loss of the wavelength of light and
serotonin converts into melatonin and
that kind of slows your brain waves down
and puts you into a state of Catatonia
so you can rest repair sleep and and
dream and so the body moves into this
kind of Rhythm called the Circadian
rhythm between wakefulness and sleep
based on the wavelength of how much
light is in the day and then when the
light is gone so um that's normal but
it's a function of light
so when people are in a transcendental
State and now they're connecting to
frequency connecting to energy that's
Transcendent of space and time faster
than the speed of light quantum and
their brain is actually connecting
through the pineal gland a little radio
receiver in the brain melatonin can't be
melatonin any longer because it's only
related to the frequency and the
wavelength of light now you're picking
up a faster frequency melatonin upgrades
and melatonin already causes you to
dream but now you're going to really
dream like loose a dream melatonin is
already a powerful antioxidant you're
going to make two of the most powerful
antioxidants known to man anti-cancer
anti-aging and anti heart disease
anti-stroke anti-neurodegenerative
anti-inflammatory
antimicrobial take the molecule tweak it
again melatonin already relaxes relaxes
you now you're going to make benzo
dipene now you're going to really relax
you're going to shut down the survival
centers in the brain for fear for pain
for aggression um uh melatonin already
causes you to sleep now you're going to
make chemicals that are going to cause
you to hibernate like body's going to
move into stasis no sex drive no
appetite no preoccupation with the
environment the body body is moving into
a state of stasis that you'll forget
that you even have a body that's a great
way to experience another
dimension take the molecule tweak it
again it's the same chemical found in
electric eels what does an electric eel
do it creates amplification of the
nervous system so we see these high
amplitudes of gamma that I mean very
high like very outside of normal so the
person then uh is is connecting to
energy and frequency that they can't
perceive with their F senses they dialed
down their thinking brain they're
suggestible to information they're
connecting to frequency frequency
carries information the pineal gland is
a transducer it takes the information
like a TV antenna and turns it into a
picture in the brain and so now
melatonin produces all these derivatives
that fit in the same receptor
sites like serotonin and melatonin but
it's going to it's going to create a
whole different experience for the
person so instead of them just getting
dimethyl tryptamine they're getting the
whole package of these derivatives we're
just starting to measure them and so we
see that tryptophan metabolism is
elevated in our meditate uh the
meditators that we measure which means
that means the penal event using
tryptophan very using as much as it
possibly can uh to make these uh some of
these derivatives so we we'll we have
devices now um that will be measuring um
some of these derivatives just to see if
it's the truth talking about dreaming
and going to sleep I've heard you
discuss the importance of just before
bed and just after waking as an
opportunity to investigate what's going
on in the unconscious mind why why are
those windows so important it's it's
really related to serotonin and
melatonin because when you are sleeping
and you wake up your brain waves go from
Delta to Theta to Alpha to Beta And you
wake up in the morning and then you're
conscious and you're awake and you're
back in three-dimensional reality when
you go to bed at night and there's less
light you're brain starts making
melatonin you go from beta to Alpha to
Theta to Delta and so um when you move
from beta to Alpha uh you you stop your
analytical mind and when you suppress
your analytical mind you stop thinking
and when you stop thinking your brain
moves into Alpha so when you go to bed
at night what do you do you kind of get
in bed you get comfortable and you think
of nothing you stop thinking and you go
to sleep and you kind of slide down the
scale and if you can't stop thinking you
can't go to sleep because your brain
waves stay knows that well and you
obsess and you overthink and you get all
you're in a loop right so there's two
times the door to the subconscious mind
opens up when you wake up in the morning
and when you go to bed at night so those
are really key times um if you want to
reprogram um your subconscious mind so
I'm an early riser I like the morning
I'm like early early morning and and it
doesn't bother me to get up in Theta it
doesn't bother me because I know that um
I'm going to sit my body up and I'm not
going to let it sleep I'm going to
linger between those worlds of
wakefulness and sleep and rewrite a
program rehearse a new script reite a
new something what does that look like
what's the opportunity how can people
take advantage of that opportunity that
Perry sleep and Perry Waking window that
Lial state where a non-sleep deep rest
state is we just have great data on this
it's it's it's the most important time
for you to regenerate to repair to
program the autonomic nervous system to
re reprogram Behavior a habit unwanted
you know emotional response the door is
wide open you when you're in beta you're
separate from the operating system you
you can't get in there so you got to be
able to get get in that St is what we do
in the in the work we get people from
beta to Alpha okay everybody from beta
to Alpha okay stay at Alpha stay at
Alpha stay at Alpha now practice
relaxing in your heart really relaxing
more really relaxing more get your body
in a light sleep but stay awake and so
in that realm you're you you can you you
can connect to energy and information
and you can rewrite a program and so if
you're a night person like I have plenty
of people in my life that are night
people they're musicians or artists or
you know writers and whatever they just
they just like 11:00 to 2 in the morning
and songwriters they just that's their
that's their that's their jam right and
then there's other people who are just
like up early and they they're morning
person or they like doing that in the
morning so they're they they do it in
the morning but it doesn't matter it's
just whatever you choose um uh to get in
that to get in that state and it's not
something that you really have to try to
do it's just something that your brain
naturally does you can take advantage of
it say Okay um how what's my best what's
the greatest ideal of myself tomorrow
how am I going to show up what I learned
from today that I want to stop doing uh
let me remind myself of what I'm not
going to do tomorrow let me remind
myself of what I'm not going to think
let me remind myself of how I'm not
going to feel let me review these let me
remember so I don't forget how do you
avoid that becoming too analytical of an
exercise cuz I can see how that could
kick you back up into those more yeah
yeah it's a practice it's a practice I
mean it's it's it's the observation of
self really you ask the question and you
observe ask so what are the cues let's
what are you've just gone through some
questions there what would be some great
questions for people to ask themselves
before bed and in the morning how' I do
today how' I do today like if you have
an intention for the day I mean you
can't do this unless you're in the game
you got to get out of the bleachers you
got to get on the playing field it's no
long this is where people leave the
dinner table because this is where you
actually have to do something so so what
is the how did I do today you what was
you know when did I fall from grace what
what was what are my triumphs what did I
what I what was I victorious with what
do I love about myself let me get my
think box let me get this all worked out
okay now I'm not asking you to do any
meditation I'm just asking you to get in
your think box while you're in this
state and getting your think box is like
asking yourself the question okay um God
I reacted to this person I felt this way
okay let me just I don't want to react
that way okay remind myself of how I'm
not going to react let me remind myself
of what I did let me just review how I
was thinking let me become conscious of
that okay let me I'm in my think box I
got that down okay um what am I going to
do tomorrow differently what am I going
to work on how am I going to how am I
going to be tomorrow how am I going to
think tomorrow what do I want to believe
let me review this thought and fire and
wired in my brain and get it to the
point where I actually put an intention
and feeling behind this belief okay how
am I going to behave tomorrow with my
co-workers you know whatever how am I
going to feel tomorrow let me just
review that now get in your think box
and go over all of that and then when
you get in your play box you're out of
your think box there's no thinking in
your playbox there's thing you get all
that thinking worked out in your think
box when you get time to play um that's
when you surrender that's when you open
up that's when you get creative that's
when you let it go and you go to sleep
and what about first thing in the
morning first thing in the morning
what's the greatest ideal of myself that
I can be today what's my jam today how I
how what am I going to be today let me
remind myself of the things I want to
change about myself I can it's too hard
I'm never going to change uh um I'm not
going to complain today I I know I'm not
going to blame anybody I'm not going to
judge anybody this is I got to remind
myself so I don't go unconscious if I
start feeling this emotion you always
default to this emotion I'm going not
going to think positively I'm just going
to keep my energy up I'm going to keep
my energy up all day today I'm not going
to do that okay so what do I want to
feel let me start start practice let me
teach my body what it feels like let me
bring up the feeling so many times that
I can bring it up on my own I want to
remember this feeling so I don't forget
it okay how do I want to behave let me
how am I going to be how am I going to
think what do I want to program and and
and and start off if your personality
creates your personal reality it makes
sense then if you're going to create a
new personal reality you got to change
your personality that's the first step
right and I think most people try to
create a new personal reality as the
same personality it doesn't work we got
to become some body else so that's what
the word meditation means it means to
become familiar with to become so
conscious of your unconscious self that
you don't go unconscious to it you're so
familiar so conscious of your
unconscious thoughts behaviors and
emotions that you wouldn't default and
become familiar with a new self you know
how you're going to think how you're
going to act and how you're going to
feel that's that that's the process if
you were to design a daily routine or
elements of a daily routine that are
accessible and based on what your
research and your experience has come up
with are the most
powerful so that people could tactically
get moving on this stuff what would what
would be in the top three okay um uh
certainly uh the basics what I just
talked about that whole thing
personality and personal reality change
your personality how you think how you
act and how you feel if I do change the
way I think change the way I act change
the way I feel my life should change
that's the first experiment okay second
experiment if you're living in stress
and you're living in survival and you're
living your brain and body are out of
balance then your brain's out of balance
it's incoherent you're incoherent so
practice this kind of focus that we call
a broad focus focus on nothing we have
this meditations 20 minutes your brain
starts the different compartments of the
brain that were modulated or
compartmentalized or divided because of
the hormones of stress they start
synchronizing they start firing together
sinking and linking in the brain so the
act of doing this causes the whole
entire brain uh to beat at the same
Rhythm to all the networks are whole
where can people get that meditation uh
on the website on my website and then
and then we teach a lot of heart
coherence you know get your heart back
into balance as well there's a another
15 20 minute meditation and then and
then there's one where you get them both
working together synchronize your heart
to your brain I think um what happens
for a lot of people is
um uh they start realizing that they
actually can uh create that state where
they feel good without anyone or
anything so um you want to be able to to
be in that field or be in that energy uh
when you're when you're uh moving around
in your life easy ones really easy ones
too I mean ones that anybody can do what
are you working on
next um we have a documentary um that's
going to be coming out really soon uh it
really is about a lot of the science
that we've done um it's coming along
really well um the people that viewed it
um you know as a pilot uh really enjoyed
it so that'll be something that we'll be
letting out um we have tons of more
research uh that we're constantly doing
we have as I said earlier we have at
least four or five papers uh that we're
working on we're working with prisons
now um in Mexico we've trained close to
2,000 people in a few prisons in Mexico
maybe more than that now uh men and
women's prisons we just uh did our first
two um courses at San Quenton we have
another uh prison we're working with and
are you going in personally to do this
no I have I have trainers that go I
really would you be would you be
interested in going in and working
inside of the prisons would that be an
experience that you think for me oh of
course yeah I'm going to I I'm going to
go to to the the big one in in in Mexico
City I mean these are very tough
conditions and the warden is so
impressed with these people all the
changes that they've made I mean these
are people that are at each other's
throats hardened they are they are
constantly in survival they are they've
had some brutal pasts and they were
raised by monsters and they became one
so um with no hope and and now there we
did our first training uh three years
ago and the changes were so dramatic in
this women's prison I mean they were
grooming one another they were laughing
uh totally connected that all the other
prisoners in the prison thought what
happened to those people and so they
they pushed the uh the the
administration we went and did the whole
prison and so uh then we did all the men
uh then we did all the guards and then
we did all the administrators and then
this one Warden uh at this one prison
this this amazing woman uh had has did
the has done the whole the whole entire
prison so um yeah we're working with uh
prisoners we're working with indigenous
tribes now which is been kind of fun too
uh and um yeah and of course the
veterans and Navy SEALs Hell yeah Dr Joe
despenza ladies and gentlemen where
should people go they want to keep up to
date with all of the things you're doing
yeah just the websites Dr jen.com Joe I
really appreciate you thank you for to
day thank you Chris thank you very much
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