5 Tips for Bigger Arms (The Mistakes Most People Make Without Realizing It) | Mind Pump 2919
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To maximize arm development effectively, one must prioritize full-range-of-motion exercises that engage muscles through their entire length rather than stopping short with partial repetitions, as this approach builds more complete strength and hypertrophy compared to trading weight for limited reps. Incorporating stretch-position movements like incline curls or overhead tricep extensions is equally critical for triggering growth signals in the muscle's most vulnerable state, while heavy compound lifts such as close-grip bench presses, dips, rows, and pull-ups should form the cornerstone of any routine by providing a maximal neural signal that isolation work cannot match alone. For those looking to accelerate size gains quickly without adding excessive volume or calories, occlusion training using blood flow restriction cuffs can fatigue fast-twitch fibers with lighter weights, creating an intense intracellular pump effect when used strategically alongside traditional compound movements and essential amino acid supplementation during caloric deficits to maintain protein synthesis rates.
Beyond the mechanics of lifting, successful arm growth requires a holistic approach that accounts for lifestyle factors, hormonal health, and recovery strategies tailored to individual circumstances. Training intensity should be adapted based on life demands; for instance, individuals dealing with adrenal fatigue or recovering from injuries like neck stenosis may need to lower their workload to around 60% of capacity while focusing on perfecting technique before reintroducing heavy loads once inflammation subsides. Consistency remains the most vital element over aggressive pushing that risks burnout or injury, meaning athletes should avoid cutting into a desired physique and instead build muscle density which naturally lowers body fat percentage without drastic scale fluctuations. When managing dietary needs for mass gain, incorporating nutrient-dense foods like ribeyes or chicken thighs can help add necessary calories sustainably across three meals, while supplements such as creatine in divided doses or bromelain on an empty stomach can support performance and reduce systemic inflammation respectively.
The path to long-term success also involves addressing psychological barriers and emotional well-being, recognizing that external rewards often diminish intrinsic motivation through the overjustification effect rather than enhancing it. Emotional validation is crucial when navigating challenges like anxiety related to cannabis use or body dysmorphia stemming from past yo-yo dieting cycles involving SARMs and testosterone, as maintaining a positive mindset prevents quitting before results appear. Personal anecdotes highlight that aging gracefully while pursuing health goals requires flexibility in programming during busy seasons versus lighter periods for cutting fat, emphasizing that walking and cardio should serve functional endurance needs rather than purely aesthetic purposes unless specifically desired. Ultimately, the combination of appropriate feeding strategies, heavy lifting with lower rep ranges to stimulate muscle growth, and professional coaching support frames fitness as a lifetime investment where sustainable habits outweigh perfectionism, ensuring individuals can maintain progress despite life changes such as pregnancy, menopause, or career transitions without relying on expensive external guidance forever.
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Easily one of the number one fitness
goals when people go to the gym is to
get bigger arms, more sculpted arms, to
have arms that look amazing. We're going
to give you five tips. They really work
to get those arms that you want. Let's
go.
>> Big arms.
>> This is all I cared about
>> when you were young. When you're young,
>> this is all I cared about.
>> That's me, too.
>> Yeah. [laughter] Yeah.
>> You know, arm training
>> um arm training isn't super complex,
right? So like if we talk about
developing the lower body, working the
back in particular,
>> um training the core, some people think
that's very basic and simple, but uh can
be difficult.
>> There's a lot more complexity, but a lot
of arm exercises are pretty
straightforward.
>> Yeah, it's it's pretty easy.
>> Single joint action.
>> It's pretty easy, but people still uh
mess them up and they mess them up in
ways I don't think they realize that
they're leaving a lot of gains on the
table. In fact, uh what we're going to
talk about, um when I would train
experienced lifters or when I manage
gyms and they weren't clients of mine,
but they were members of the gym and
we'd have conversations and we would
include some of these things that we're
going to talk about. They they seem like
minor changes, but they make a big
difference in your arm development. And
here, I'll give you the first one. The
first one is this is going to sound
obvious, but you would be surprised. In
fact, if you're listening, many of you
are probably guilty of not training in a
really full range of motion with your
arm.
>> Yeah. I was going to say there's
actually push back to this. I've I've
encountered it. Uh we Yeah. And in terms
of like the time under tension kind of
philosophy of, you know, not necessarily
going to full range of motion like
there's some drop off, but yeah. If
you're not expressing full range of
motion, you're not actually achieving
the full potential the the entire
muscle. So, I always hated the the I got
to maintain tension on the muscle, which
is why I'm not doing a full range of
motion. I hated that argument because
uh unless you're relaxed in a full range
of motion, like I'm setting the weight
down,
>> right?
>> The muscle is under tension. So, stay
connected the whole time, but
>> the studies on full range of motion uh
demonstrate this pretty clearly. you
build more muscle and the strength that
you develop is more complete because
it's applied to you know most of the
strength you gain in a r in a exercise
most of it goes to the range of motion
that you train in the further outside of
that range of motion you move the
[clears throat] the less of that
strength uh is applicable so in other
words if I do half squats uh [snorts]
once I go down six inches below that
it's like significant drop off
>> it's a big force direction drop off
right and when it comes to muscle
development uh full range of motion has
been shown in studies to make a
difference. So, this this one's simple
and like I said, a lot of people are
guilty of this of stopping their curls,
especially like a preacher curl. They'll
stop it just short or tricep exercises
where they don't go all the way up. They
kind of stop at halfway. Like, just do
the full range of motion um with your
current exercise and watch what happens.
>> Yeah. I I think this is because they end
up or we end up uh trading weight for
full range of motion.
>> Oh, like cuz I got to go lighter,
>> right? And so I think there's this idea
that, you know, if I shorten the range
up a bit, I can go up another five or 10
pounds on the weight and my my ego likes
that better that I can, you know, now I
can curl 45 lb dumbbells instead of
having to stay at 35s
>> uh through a full range of motion. Um,
but just to highlight like um I mean
I've talked about this before with my
legs. Uh I remember when that was
unlocked for me. That was a real obvious
one because I squatted down to 90 for so
long and then to go full range and it
was a significantly lighter difference.
To see my myself be able to develop
bigger legs. Uh going through a full
range of motion with like significantly
like 100 lb plus lighter weight is just
highlights like you know you going down
5 lb or 10 lbs on your bicep curls to go
through a full range of motion is far
better than you going up 5 or 10 lbs and
shortening that range. Not to mention
the the longevity of this approach
versus the other. And it's, you know,
whenever you're going to be encountering
anything uh in life where you're picking
something up or you're using uh your
arms to uh express that push or pull
like movement. Um if you're in just a I
don't know, let's say 5 degrees, you
know, outside of your normal like
lifting patterns, like that's injury
susceptible. Yeah. It's susceptible.
Your body's not going to recognize that.
is going to immediately tense up and and
try to protect uh what it can so you
don't get injured. But
>> I I have a spec you just brought back a
a memory, Adam, that I totally forgot
about. So I at this let me see I must
have been I was 18. I was probably 18
years old. I was a I was a fitness
manager and uh at this point I had been
working out for a while. So I started
working out at 14. So I'm already
experienced with working out. I'm a
certified trainer. I'm not a good
trainer yet. Uh but I I know what I'm
doing in terms of exercises, let's say.
Okay. And I had this trainer that worked
for me. His name was Mitch. Uh you might
know Mitch. You might have met him
before. Vietnamese dude. Uh was kind of
lean, muscular, and he had these really
incredible looking arms. And him and I
did this workout together. Now, I
distinctly remember this because I had
gotten so proud or so I was I was so
prideful of the fact that I could do
preacher curls. So, I was 18. I could do
preacher curls with the curl bar with
the 25s on each side. Right? So, you got
the curl bar, throw the 25s on, and I
would do my preacher curls like that.
And I did a workout with him. He put
tens on each side. And I remember
thinking like, "Oh, this is gonna be
easy." Then I watched him do his
preacher curls and he went all the way
down like way like full extension almost
like he's hyperextending his elbows and
coming all the way up. And I always stop
just short of that. I would stop, you
know, maybe a couple inches short of
that.
>> And so I stuck with his weight. I did
the real full range of motion with the
curls. I got the craziest pump. And
[snorts] from then on, I changed the way
I trained my biceps, especially on that
exercise. And I noticed results very
quickly. I didn't change the exercise. I
didn't change anything. I went lighter,
>> but I moved a couple r a couple inches
further with my range of motion. I also
got this with overhead tricep extension.
This is one that, you know, if you
especially if your elbows are healthy,
you can get really strong and you can
press a big dumbbell or whatever. And I
learned the same thing. You know, I had
the big 100 lb dumbbell and I would stop
just short and my buddy's like, "Dude,
grab the 50, go down as far as you
possibly can, bring your elbows back,
feel the stretch, and then go all the
way up." And it fried my triceps and I
had great results. It was all because of
the range of motion. Uh, so here's the
next one.
>> In your arm exercises,
>> try to always include one that loads the
muscle in a stretched position. Okay.
So, this is a an this would be an
exercise where you feel the muscle
stretching and you're also fighting
resistance. So, a good example of this
for biceps would be like inc incline
curls, right? I'm laying back on an
incline.
>> My elbows are down by my sides. Lower
the b the dumbbell all the way. And
that's actually a stretch on the bicep,
right? If my elbows are in front of me,
there's no stretch. But when I bring it
back because the attachment over the
shoulder, like if I were to stretch my
bicep now, I'd have to bring my arm back
in order to do so. That stretch position
and loading it. the data shows seems to
have uh a little bit more it's a little
bit more special when it comes to
hypertrophy. For triceps, this would be
an overhead exercise where you're really
stretching uh the the tricep.
>> So, in your workout, always try to
include at least one exercise that loads
the stretch position. And what you find
often times is their entire arm workout,
there isn't a single stretch exercise.
None of them.
>> Yeah. I mean, I feel like you got to do
one in the stretch and one in the flex
position. That's just that that's the uh
the key to that was a big unlock for me
cuz uh you know even I don't know how
many years of you know biceps and
triceps uh three four times a week I was
doing
>> but for sure I'm at year you know two or
three by this time when this finally
comes together for me. I didn't realize
that, you know, standing cable uh rope
push downs, straight bar push downs,
triangle push downs, and reverse push
down the same all the same [ __ ]
>> you know, and so, you know, in a world
like that where like that where I would
do one of those exercises back to back
like I was getting like a different
workout and you of course fell for the
trap of, oh, it feels a little different
and so maybe it is different and it's
like, no, I'm not I'm not hitting the
tricep different from a different angle,
right? I'm not putting it in a stretch
position and a contra in a fully
contracted and then somewhere in the
middle type of position and
understanding that you're to your next
point like the elbow positioning uh of
each one of the movements.
>> That's what that's what makes it a
different exercise for the most part is
elbow position. So although hand uh
supernation plays somewhat of a role
>> in bicep development, it does it does
nothing
>> for tricep development. But what does uh
change things is where your elbow is. So
now when you're looking at your workout
and you're like, "Whiches should I pick?
I'm going to do three today for my
biceps or three for my triceps." Well,
now you have all these exercises to pick
from. You're like, "Okay, which ones do
I pick? I can only pick three." Pick
three that where the elbow position is
different. This is such an easy arm
training program hack. Now, when it
comes to training chest and back and
legs, it gets more complex. For arms,
it's literally this simple.
>> Yeah.
>> Pick different different elbow
positions. Done. You now have perfect a
perfect arm workout.
>> And an example that would be like elbows
other side, elbows in front, elbows
behind
>> for triceps. Yeah. Perfect. Or for
biceps, elbows behind, elbows the sides,
elbows. Like if you just do that uh load
those muscles with a different elbow
position,
>> you're going to get really a great
workout and really full development much
more
>> than if you picked three exercises with
the same or similar.
>> I was waiting for this this next one.
[laughter]
>> Compound lifts.
>> Compound lifts. Yeah. just because you
know uh in terms of loading um muscles
and also getting the maximal benefit of
that you know really loud signal and
then following up with a single joint
movement a lot of times too like playing
between both um just and this is the
funny part you think like powerlifters
themselves you know like dude they get
really big muscles like and it's a very
demanding uh signal that they're
producing when they're you know
summoning all this force and so the only
way to do that is with these compound
lifts. Uh, and then to, you know,
sharpen it, sculpt it. I understand all
that, you know, as a result of that. But
if you're not going to include compound
lifts, you're not going to even touch
the amount of gains potential.
>> No. And you're a good example of this. I
mean, uh, you probably, if you're
watching this on YouTube, you can see
Justin. Justin's got some guns on him,
and he probably does an isolation
exercise for his biceps and triceps. I
don't know, twice a month, maybe.
>> Yeah. Very infrequently. But
>> for the It's all compounds.
>> I enjoy them. But yeah, it's all
compound lifts. Yeah. Yeah. And and so
compound lifts uh for triceps are things
like close grip bench press uh dips.
We're get when it comes to biceps where
people are like what's a compound like
back exercises kind of. You just do them
differently.
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An exercise that I learned from uh Mike
Mener. So Mike Messer talked about this
uh and he learned from Arthur Jones was
a supenated grip pull down. Now I know
you you're like, "Well, that's a back
exercise." It is, but you can change the
way you do it to make it a bicep
exercise. If you kind of lean forward
and curl the weight down on the way
down,
>> uh watch what happens to your biceps.
They will
>> really recruit your biceps.
>> They will you will feel them like you've
never felt them before. And you'll be
able to load them with a weight that you
normally wouldn't be able to curl. um
and which uh plays a big role in their
size and development, not to mention the
functionality.
>> Well, just to back up how powerful
compound lifts are for building the
arms. Even these because you guys are
naming movements, right? Like dips and
and supernated curls, which are you're
you're trying to you are trying to
target the arms, but you'd be surprised
how much your arms grow just from heavy
lifting the the traditional
>> Yeah.
>> Oh, yeah.
>> compound lifts. So, I mean, since my pec
tear, what a year and a half ago, I can
probably count on one hand, maybe
definitely under two hands. I can know
less than 10 times, maybe under five,
that I've trained my arms in a year and
a half.
>> Yeah,
>> I never train my arms anymore. But I
still do a lot of the heavy compound
lifts and that's been enough to sustain
arms. Now, I don't have as impressive as
arms as I did, but I still got arms. You
know, I still don't look like somebody
who doesn't work their arms out. And
that's just been able to be sustained
from doing compound lifts and not doing
any of these lifts that are even
targeting it. And I know a lot of guys
that are like that that just don't even
do arms. I mean, a lot of your your
CrossFit people,
>> almost all CrossFit guys are not don't
do isolation curls.
>> Can't get a big bench from bicep without
Yeah. [laughter]
>> without getting massive triceps and
shoulders as a result. It's like it has
to balance it out.
>> Yeah. No, 100%. A good example by the
way of this and sometimes I get a little
bit of controversy [snorts] around but
look at gymnasts. Uh gymnasts have crazy
looking triceps and biceps. Now part of
this is you know when you look at top
level gymnasts what you're looking at
are genetically gifted mini
bodybuilders. They have these
polymorphisms that make them really good
at at gymnastics. The other part of it
is how they train. Uh you know the iron
cross. I mean this is crazy tension uh
on the biceps. constantly doing
pull-ups, constantly doing dips, very
little if no isolation exercises,
>> and their arms uh look like amateur
bodybuilders.
>> Yeah.
>> With the development, and it's all from
these compound lifts. Compound lifts are
like your bread. This is like your meat
and potatoes.
>> The isolation exercises are great and
they do something.
>> But if you get strong, you get strong at
a close grip bench press. Watch what
happens to your There is no tricep press
down in the world that will come close
to adding 30 pounds to your close.
>> No, that's to Justin's point. Show me
somebody who bench presses heavy and
I'll show you some big triceps. Show me
somebody who rows a barbell really
heavy, I'll show you some biceps. I just
>> it comes along with that territory. And
the reason why I and the reason why I
want to put emphasis on it is because I
wish I knew that. I know.
>> I wish someone had really hammered that
home to me when I was younger because I
spent so many years doing arm full day
arm workouts and all I did was arm stuff
and it was all isolation stuff and it
was like it all to grow these arms and
it's like man if I would have just got a
bigger bench a bigger row
>> and not to mention like that we're
talking specific about the arms but the
carryover that getting those things have
to just overall building muscle
development everything like that it just
it's has a compounding effect you
Uh, it's just you can't you cannot
stress that enough that that should be
the cornerstone is because somebody who
listens to an episode like this that
wants to get big arms, I I bet you are
already training arms like all the time,
but and they're probably trading that
out for other days of deadlifting or
rowing or bench pressing or like don't
do that.
>> Make that your cornerstone. And then
yes, then take the advice we're giving
right now of, you know, elbow
positioning and do these compound lifts
and that's all. But it's like, man, the
cornerstone should be go get big at
these, go get strong with these big
lifts and watch what that does for you.
>> No, these are simple, like I said, these
are simple tips uh that make a big
difference. And then the last one, this
this applies so well to arm training.
So, occlusion training or blood flow
restriction was really popular I want to
say like nine years ago, eight years
ago. This was this this builds muscle,
you guys. It builds muscle and it's a
strange way to train. It's it was used
in physical therapy far be way before
any bodybuilder got their hands on it.
Um and it it was discovered I want to
say 60 or 70 years ago. Essentially,
when you olude a muscle of venus
outflow, so of blood outflow, uh, waste
byproducts build up in the muscle and
the the the fast twitch muscle fibers
fatigue and adapt as if you were lifting
really heavy weight. You also get this
crazy stretch phenomenon from this
intracellular pump, which is the most in
intense you've ever felt with occlusion
training. So, for people aren't
familiar, it's really easy with arms.
It's more difficult with other body
parts. But you would take a knee wrap
and I would tie it around my upper arm
tight enough to where I could feel it's
cutting off some blood supply. I don't
go so tight that I'm numb, but enough to
where oh yeah, I could feel that's
pretty tight. Then I go rep out some
curls. And I'm going to warn you, the
fire that you will feel [laughter] in
your biceps by for doing this lava. It
is there nothing more painful than than
this feeling right here. It's literally
because the waste byproducts are just
building up in the muscle. You can't get
rid of it. It burns like crazy. The pump
you get is insane. It's the craziest
pump you've ever felt. And [snorts] it
uh it adds another element. Uh when I've
done this, I've done this on calves and
I've done this on arms. And within
weeks, I added a quarter inch to both of
them just for adding a couple sets uh in
the week. Just a couple sets in the week
and it made a huge difference. Um and
it's funny, I don't see anybody doing
this anymore.
>> It's the forgotten method.
>> But it's why it was hot and popular for
a minute. Um, and I don't know why it it
fell out of favor or not, but I mean for
both for arms and calves, this is like
such a hack,
>> such a cool.
>> It's crazy. It's fun. It's crazy. And
again, you grab some light dumbbells,
rep them out.
>> You'll [snorts] feel the burn. Rest 30
seconds to a minute. The burn will not
go away while you're resting. You're
It's actually going to intensify.
>> Super novel stimulus.
>> Then go grab the really light dumbbells
again. I mean, just so people know, for
me it was like 10 lb dumbbells. Rep them
out again. Do this three times. Then let
go of the dumbbells. sit for another 30
seconds while everything's on fire.
Yeah. Take off the the knee wraps.
>> And you did it. And the the again the
the pump and the swelling you get from
this is just super super crazy.
>> Anyway, I have uh Doug has a study that
I'd like for him to pull up on
non-essential amino acids and how
they're not necessary to stimulate net
muscle protein synthesis. Okay. So, I
want him to pull this up. So, this is
really interesting. Okay. So muscle
protein synthesis we can measure and
when this is positive when we see this
what this means is the body's building.
Okay. So we're building. So if we
measure this and
>> is it certain that's always happening
when that's happening?
>> Well it's got to stay positive all the
time. Okay. So so obviously you can go
positive then you go negative much later
and it comes out to like nothing.
>> Okay. But what we do see by doing
certain things eating particular ways or
whatever is like oh this is stimulating
muscle growth. Now it used to be I think
believed that you needed a complete
protein for this to happen.
>> And what they found what they found in
this study and other studies is that the
non-essential amino acids are not
needed. [snorts] Only essential amino
acids are needed to stimulate uh muscle
protein synthesis. Now this doesn't mean
this is all you ever do. So, all you
ever do is take essential amino acids
and you never have complete proteins,
that doesn't make sense because you're
going to eat food. But what this does
mean is that if you're in a cut, this is
where this applies. You're in a cut,
your calories are low. Adding a bunch of
extra protein now is you're counting all
of your calories. So, you're like, well,
you know, how do I get more muscle
protein synthesis, but I can't go over
all my calories? Throw some essential
amino acids at yourself on top of that.
>> It's very low calorie, almost no calorie
because it's not a complete protein. and
you're gonna get more muscle protein
synthesis. And so this is a great
strategy because the main strategy in a
cut is uh besides is keep my muscle
>> y
>> and essential amino acids, you know,
like the keon ones that we've been
using.
>> You take six of those capsules
>> three, four, five times a day to keep
that muscle protein synthesis high. Your
calories barely budge because it's not a
complete protein.
>> Well, that makes sense. We've been
saying that for people in the GLP1.
Totally. And uh so of course, yeah, to
to take that into somebody like who's on
a cut, too. I would imagine that's a
benefit.
>> I experimented with it last year. It was
super effective. I I wish I had it when
I was bodybuilding. Um you know, or at
least I I wish I did it uh when I was
bodybuilding. I didn't do it when I was
bodybuilding.
>> Um in fact, I was still like big, you
know, amino acids, essential amino acids
or just all this. Yeah. Waste, BCAAs or
waste, all this. That's I was in that
camp still at that time. So I didn't
waste my time
>> uh with doing that. And I look back now
and I wish I would have I saw I mean I
did a DEXA I did DEXA before after and
the whole cut I did that I lost like no
muscle and you do a cut for you you
typically lose a little bit of muscle
expected.
>> Yeah, you're expected and the goal is to
lose as minimal as possible.
>> And so to be in a cut uh for as long as
I was and shred down like I did that
last that time last year. Um, that was
like really impressive
>> if I were to do an aggressive and I have
I I don't really have any intentions of
doing an aggressive cut, but let's say I
wanted to get into single digit body
fat. And for me, it's a little different
from person to person, but if I start to
go like I can maintain around 11% body
fat, maybe 10, and I'm okay. If I want
to start to get into the single digit,
it's like I know I'm going to lose some
muscle. That's just just what happens if
I get especially if I get below 7% like
and there's nothing I could I'm just
going to It's just a matter of how much
muscle I lose.
>> The way I would do it now is like I
normally do with my diet and everything
is I would have the Keon essential amino
acids and I take that like five times a
day. I would throw six six capsules at
myself five six times a day.
>> Um and I would preserve more muscle uh
than than I have in the past. That would
be the strategy. So,
>> did you see Adam, I don't know if you
saw this. Did you see the meme that's
going around about I'm going to pull it
up right now about uh Germany's tax uh
brackets and system and how and how like
weird it is how how crazy
>> managing that.
>> Okay.
>> No, no,
>> dude. This is wild. So, somebody did the
math on this and what they did is so
this is a dual earner couple with two
children. um how much money they would
make and how much money they would take
home based off of the tax system
>> in Germany.
>> In Germany. Okay. So, [laughter]
>> did they convert it to US dollars so
it's easy for us to kind of translate?
>> Well, it's in euros, so it's fine.
Whatever.
>> Close. Close enough.
>> So, here's what's crazy. Because of the
way the tax system works, you take home
essentially the same amount of money if
you make €3,000 or €6,000 a month. It's
almost the same. So you could make twice
as much, but because you make so much
more, they tax you that much more and
you end up taking home almost the same
exact amount of money
>> as a person who makes three.
>> That's right. As a couple.
>> Well, I mean, how it's it's not double
is crazy cuz we're not double like that.
But I remember, don't you remember this
yourself? Like I remember work working
my way up, right? The annual income. And
now this is granted 20 something years
ago. So, this has probably moved and
changed a little bit, but I clearly
remember
>> when you move into a new tax bracket.
>> Yeah. Yeah. So, I clearly remember what
it was like to go from like 70,000 a
year to like 90 to like 110 range. And I
remember getting to like the 110 and
like that was like a big milestone to be
in the six figures, right? And going
like I didn't feel any wealthier at 110
than I did at 70 because at 70 I had
very minimal taxes I paid. I had enough
write offs, expenses, like I basically
like paid no extra taxes. But once I got
into the six figure mark, like I was
paying extra paying extra taxes. So it's
like I brought home a little bit more
during the year, but then I had to pay
back stuff at the end of the year and
I'm like when I look at the math and I
wash it, I'm like, God, for that
climbing all the way up to there, I
really don't feel like I made much more.
And there it really and they and I've
heard I've seen people put this up
before where it's like the leap you have
to make to really make the lifestyle
feel different is it's wild. And so even
in the US it's like that. It's maybe not
that extreme
>> where it's three and six.
>> Well, what's crazy about this is it's it
deincentivizes
uh people.
>> So imagine if you're this couple and you
know this and you're taking home x
amount and you're like, "Okay, should I
work harder? Should I go for that
promotion? Should I try to become more
productive? Uh,
>> incentives aren't even really a part of
it.
>> And you're looking at each other and
you're like, "Honey, if we make double,
we take home the same amount. Don't even
waste your time.
>> Why waste your time?"
>> This happens with a lot of um with some
of our like social programs. So, I know
somebody like this.
>> Yeah.
>> Where they get so much money from the
state
>> and and I'm like, "Hey, why don't you
get a job?" And they're like, "If I get
a job, I don't get this.
>> I lose these." Yeah.
>> I don't get this anymore. And and so
essentially if I get a job, I'm gonna
make the same amount as I'm already
currently getting except now I'm
working.
>> Yeah.
>> So I think I'm just not gonna work. And
I can't blame
>> Yeah.
>> Like that's that's a logical thought
process,
>> right?
>> You know,
>> so it's kind of crazy.
>> No, I mean that's uh Yeah. No, I know I
know plenty of people [laughter] that
are that are like that that I've seen
it. That's tough for me to wrap my brain
around that, but that's
>> we've But you've created that. You
create uh when you and you incentivize
people to do that. Why go to work when I
make what? I'm gonna make a couple more
bucks and I got to work harder. I got to
work way harder. Does it make sense? I
mean, don't you remember going that way?
Like with yours like So the the one
positive to that I guess was uh it
really made me look at what I did and
how much I like it. And so like when I
would get opportunities and I'm sure you
guys did too from clients and stuff like
that to to move careers, right? Like I
always had always, you know, I don't
know how many times in a year, maybe a
couple times a year, I'd get a client
who that we connected. they really liked
me and they would be like, you know,
hey, come work for me.
>> You know, you should come work for me
and I'll pay you this much
>> and it was, you know, sometimes it was
more money than what I was making, but
it was always like a little bit more
than what I was making. And I was always
like,
>> yeah, [clears throat]
>> yeah. No, I know what it's like. I love
what I do. I love what I do.
>> This is fun. Doesn't sound as fun.
>> Yeah. I love what I do. And another 30,
$40,000 a year, which sounds like a lot,
is not really a lot. Cuz when you move
up, that's another tax bracket you go
up. And it's like really what is that
difference per month? And when you live
in an area that's expensive, it's like
uh I mean it it doesn't make that big of
an impact.
>> One of the tough things I think for
[snorts] um you know I think people and
I get why this is a difficult one. Um
and and I was lucky I had some really
you know I come from an immigrant family
so they're very hardworking. Um I was
constantly preached to about uh all the
great opportunities here um that we
could take and you know my dad grew up
real poor. my mom, her dad came here
when he was uh, you know, it a very
difficult time. So, I I was brought up
in this kind of like, you know, um,
you're very grateful for what you have,
go out there, work hard type of deal.
And it was it was it was a a huge plus.
But I I I and I kind of understand where
people, you know, where this mentality
comes from, but you see someone
producing so much or or making so much
more. Well, yeah, they should pay so
much more uh in taxes. But what you got
to be careful with is what you don't
want to do is take your most productive
people as defined by what the market
says is productive. So I know sometimes
people argue this like I work out I work
real hard too. Like I know they work but
I also bust my ass. It's like okay you
do work really hard. Okay but uh the
market determines value.
>> And so if somebody's being really
productive based off of what the market
says uh and often times it's skewed,
right? like could be that they're making
some product or whatever that's like
okay is that really benefiting anybody?
But often times it's also like they're
innovating, they're doing some things
that are really what we don't want to do
is deincentivize people who are are
really productive um by saying hey
you're going to get hammered
>> u you know more u the more you make the
more you produce and what ends up
happening is you can get people to go
what's the point I'm not even going to
try anymore. Yeah, I think it I think
it's really easy to look at that when
you've you've been kind of an employee
your whole life. It's different once
you've had to build a business like you
have a total different lens that you can
see that through.
>> I've learned I've had very different
conversations about this with um you
know my friends that are work as a
teacher or like work with the government
or yeah have just been an employee and
like has never even attempted to own
their own business. It's a totally
different um world view and perspective
you get as a as a small business owner
and a lot of those, you know, tapes and
restrictions and things that you have to
kind of bust through just to get, you
know, what what's on paper, you know,
bringing that home. It's it's pretty
substantially,
>> you know, it's been fun. It's been
really fun. And uh I Your oldest works,
right?
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. Yeah, he does.
>> Okay. So, this is really interest This
is really cool. This I think every kid
goes through this. My niece gets a job,
right? She starts working. She gets her
paycheck and she's looking at it and
going, [laughter]
>> "Wait a minute. Where's the rest of it?
>> Why is my
>> make 15 an hour?"
>> Yeah. Yeah. [laughter] And I'm like,
"Oh, you pay taxes." And to see the
light bulb go on and for her to be like,
"Wait a minute. Where's Isn't that
money?" I'm like, "No, that's how much
you got to pay."
>> Yeah.
>> To [laughter] see that that come through
is pretty funny. Have you guys
experienced that with your kids? Have
Have they said anything about that?
>> Uh, yeah, just a little bit. Yeah, same
it was a paycheck. And uh yeah, I think
the realization of that was too when um
the nice part was was Ethan was running
his own experiment with trying to sell
t-shirts and he was originally trying to
sell like these packets that were like
like Gatorade that he was like hustling
at school and kids were buying it from
him and stuff. I like that.
>> And it was a cool little thing he was
doing. And then he was making, you know,
some some side change from that. And of
course, you know, I was buying some
stuff like off uh Amazon for him
initially. And then I was like, you got
to put that back in.
>> His margins were 100%.
>> His margins were 100%. And and so then
he he, you know, moves all that into
like, well, I want to sell t-shirts now.
And like he actually was pretty
resourceful and got this like whole
setup um from his gymnastic gym. They
had like uh made t-shirts before in the
past, but it was like they, you know,
they weren't using it. And so he asked
if he could use it and and so basically
brought it home and he's got this whole
thing all set up ready to go. Yeah. I'm
like, "Oh, cool." Like I'm all about
like helping you like get this thing off
the ground, launch and all this, but I
was like, you know, you're going to have
to buy all the t-shirts and you're going
to have to buy the ink and, you know,
and all that kind. So you got to factor
all that in and, you know, see how we're
going to recoup. Uh and and so he bought
all that. He sold a few few and it just
it like crushed him, you know?
[clears throat] He was just the
realization of like I don't think I'm
going to make my money back down.
[laughter]
I was like, I know it's hard, right? You
know, but it's like, you got one under
your belt. I was like, the more of these
you keep doing and you figure it out,
like that's what entrepreneurship is.
>> I can't wait for that day. It was rad,
though. It was fun.
>> My 5-year-old uh he he'll buy like um
it's like jewelry making kits, but it's
like for kids stuff, like you make a
bracelet or whatever. and he was selling
them to family. Of course, family
members are going to buy them all. And
so now we go to the store and he's like,
"I want to buy this for me." I'm like,
"Wait, so I can sell some."
>> So then I'm having the conversation of
like, "Okay, it cost $15 and you're
going to sell them for a dollar each.
You're going to make $10."
>> Yeah.
>> You actually lost $5. And he's like,
"What?" And I'm like, "Yeah, if you buy
this and you sell them for a dollar
each, you lose money." And he's like,
"The wheels are turning." [laughter]
Wait,
>> I need to raise prices.
Yeah, totally.
>> Did you guys see um they just this is
the new data that came out uh was it was
a federal national survey on drug use
and health.
>> The number one used addictive substance
in America. Do you guys want to guess
what it is?
>> We're including things like nicotine and
like alcohol.
>> No, it's legal stuff. The stuff
>> Oh, legal stuff.
>> Caffeine. So Oh, yeah. Caffeine.
>> They didn't put caffeine. That counts.
They don't They don't count that. That's
a good one, Doug. They should if they
put caffeine. going to be nicotine or or
I mean I guess nicotine
>> for the first time actually not alcohol
went way down right
>> for the first time ever weed.
>> Wow.
>> Oh wow.
>> Weed weed. Cannabis is the number one
used most popular daily
>> drug. It now beats alcohol and
cigarettes.
>> I don't know how I feel about that.
>> Same.
>> I don't know if I like that.
>> This is not a good thing.
>> I don't think it's a good thing. I
definitely just from what I've seen from
teenage kids and like how insanely
pervasive it is and and how
unproductive, you know, a lot of
>> You guys sound like me. You guys
remember when we had this debate like
like a couple years ago? You don't
remember this?
>> Yeah,
>> you did. Yeah. You already started that.
>> Yes. I I said, "Man, I would way rather
catch my kid drinking
>> and drunk than catch him smoking weed."
>> And that was coming from back then I was
smoking weed all the time. I was like,
"That's coming from somebody who
smokes." Like, I I
>> I would rather that. And it's and it's
not because I think one is more or less
healthier. It's not even that angle.
It's that it's per weed is pervasive
like that. It's easy to justify it's
healthy for me or it's not bad or it's
like oh it helps me with my anxiety.
>> Hangovers and you don't there's not a
lot of like um yeah like immediate
consequence right things.
>> Right. Exactly. And so that and that to
me is it's it is um it it creeps on you
and then before you know it it's a daily
habit and you don't you're unproductive.
You don't do [ __ ]
>> You know what's one of the crazy things
about this? So I was wrong on this and
I'm going to say this publicly. I
thought that legalizing cannabis, this
was back when it wasn't legal. Okay, now
it's mostly legal. It's not federally
legal yet, but it's basically legal uh
because so many states have legalized it
and the federal government doesn't
doesn't really care or do anything about
it. I thought legalizing it would not
increase its use. I thought, oh, it's
just going to be about the same and
maybe even people will use it less
because it's not as like seductive
because it's not this black market
thing. It's not exciting,
>> right? [snorts]
>> Which now in hindsight was one of the
dumbest opinions you could possibly ever
have.
>> It for sure increased through the roof.
I don't I don't think it's fair to to
call that yet.
It's still novel. It's extremely novel
for a vast majority of our society.
>> You think it's going to You think it's
going to go up in
>> 100%.
>> 100%. It's novel. I mean I mean I see it
in my like own like family of like
people that were like weed was so taboo
and enough education's come around that
it's actually it's not too bad for you.
It's like okay let me try it you know.
Oh, and they're like there's there's
this curve happening or this this
pendulum happening right now of
everybody can get it. It's not so bad
for you. Oh, let's try. Oh, it's fun. I
never did it. Like it's there's a lot of
that happening right now. And then also
kids can get it's legal. I do think I
definitely think it's going to swing
back. Will it come way back and lower?
>> How high is it going to get before
>> right like that? That the verdict's not
out. It's just wild to me that in the US
it's used more daily
>> than alcohol or uh or tobacco,
>> which is wild. Here's the other part of
this is interesting to speculate on.
>> Okay.
>> Smoking weed by yourself is not as uh as
as like uh bad as like drinking by
yourself.
>> Well, I was Okay, so you're kind of
along the lines where I'm going. So,
>> okay. Definitely alcohol can have some
horrible uh effects. Alcoholism,
terrible.
>> Like how often how often did anyone ever
say like, "Yeah, man. I had a couple
beers and played some video games. You
definitely smoke some weed and play
video games.
>> Well, this is where I'm going. Uh most
social most people exactly where I'm
going. Most people
>> who drink, you know, who enjoy the
occasional drink, even weekly or
whatever, are not alcoholics. We know
this. The vast majority of people who
drink alcohol are not alcoholics.
>> The vast majority of people who drink
alcohol are doing it in a social
setting.
>> Yeah.
>> It's a social one of the effects of
alcohol is it's kind of a social
lubricant. Yeah,
>> cannabis is not.
>> Cannabis people get weird.
>> Cannabis actually is. Now, some people
say it's social. Not really.
>> I know a lot of introverts.
>> Put yourself in a scale. Put yourself in
kind of a scary social situation. Smoke
a joint. Guaranteed you won't run away.
I don't care who you are. I mean,
there's obviously my my brother's an
example, someone who who who uses it for
social anxiety, right? But that he's a
minority even if that is true of people
that do it mo and if it's something that
you can smoke in your room by do in your
room by yourself like it's not a it's
not a social that's like intervention
you know with alcohol if you're just
sitting there like drinking hard alcohol
by yourself
>> like people are going to be really
concerned.
>> Yeah. But also I would challenge that
Adam. So I don't know your brother.
Okay. Would you say he's like a super
social person?
>> Oh no. I'm That's why I did the air
quotes is this like I don't I don't buy
that.
>> It's right.
>> Yeah. Yeah. But it's like listen, who am
I to say like maybe it does what
whatever. It's like I still would argue
that he's an anomaly even if that's
true.
>> So I I'm the reason why I'm like
sounding the alarm on this. I'm
speculating, but you know, I've done
both, right? If I've smoked weed, I've
had alcohol. Weed does not make me uh
more social. Uh maybe when I'm with
close friends that I trust.
>> Yeah.
>> But you put me in a place I don't know
anybody. if you give me any cannabis
like now I'm now I don't want to talk to
anybody. I'm way more anxious. Okay.
>> Um I think with the loneliness epidemic
with the fact that society is now
organizing itself in a way
[clears throat] to make
>> it's a dangerous combination.
>> It's yeah it's social socializing. Okay.
So this is what happened to activity.
>> We organized society to make being
active uh difficult. It's actually being
active now is you have to you have to go
out of your way to be active. Being
sedentary is the default. This is how we
organize society. We've also now slowly
maybe actually quickly have organized
society in a way to make being social
with people something you have to get go
out of your way to do. Whereas so being
social used to be the default. You had
to be social. If I went to the store,
you know, I I had to walk to the store.
I had to go to I had to talk to people.
I knew my neighbors.
>> We have organized society now to isolate
ourselves. Door Dash, internet, like
everything is like, and we know this,
the loneliness epidemic is is crazy.
>> You throw weed on top of that.
>> Holy cow. bad combination and that's not
good for for people. Yeah. No, I I don't
I don't disagree with that at all. I
don't it's a bad and that and that is
what could potentially cause it to
continue to go really really bad and
stay bad for a long time.
>> And listen, okay, I'll say this about
alcohol. Is there a difference between
uh drinking a beer and doing shots?
>> Yeah. Okay.
>> Cannabis does not look the same as it
used to. It does not look the same. You
go to a dispensary and you find yourself
a joint and you try to find one less
than 20% THC. They don't sell them.
>> Oh yeah,
>> they don't.
>> No,
>> they're all 25 plus. It used to be 15%
10%. They making them strong as hell.
>> So, this is uh this will be interesting.
>> I mean, if you I mean I mean I just
going to say if you could finish a
finish a joint, you're a stoner. I mean,
that's like [laughter]
today today's cannibis. I mean, yeah.
No, I'm blitzed if I have like more than
two hits or something. I mean, that
would be just
>> if you can actually finish a whole one
like that's that's crazy. That's Crazy
tolerance.
>> Yeah. Which Yeah, exactly. Which means
you had to do a lot to get to that you
had to do a lot to get to that level for
sure. Yeah. No, I I mean uh I mean part
of the motivation there was several
things that motivated me to to quit. Uh
but I also know my son's getting to that
certain age and I like I definitely if I
want if I don't want him to ever do
that, one of the easiest ways I think is
to him not see his dad or you know be
around that or any of that stuff. And so
that was a big big motivation uh for me.
And I'm not an anti-cannabis person.
Like I And even when I said uh when I
stopped, I was like, you know, I'm not
saying I'll never do it again. Like I'll
like there's I'm sure there's going to
be a situation or a time where I partake
or do that, but it'll be few and far
between.
>> I have a friend of mine um I won't say
who they are um and give too many
details, but someone I know very well
who was a a regular cannabis user. Uh so
they have it on kind of a daily basis,
which now we're finding is not that
uncommon. Okay. So they used it
regularly. They also had social anxiety
and would not necessarily like to be in
in in public or social situations.
Thought that that was their personality.
Just thought that that's who they were.
>> Yeah.
>> Quit smoking cannabis
>> after getting through the first couple
months of the difficulty of whatever.
Became much more social, hosting events,
being around people, and literally told
me said to me, "I thought that was my
personality. I had no idea it was the
cannabis."
>> That's like the people that think
they're productive on it. [laughter] And
then they get off of it. It's like,
whoa. That's what productivity looks
like actually looks like. It's like
caffeine. Good for you. You went to
work. You still went to work. You still
did your job. It does not mean you're
productive yet. [laughter]
>> You guys know that one meme that says
like hard times create good men. Good
men create good time. Okay. They made
one for nicotine. And in cannabis, it
said it said nicotine uh
>> nicotine produces uh produces good men.
Good men produce good times. Good times
produce weed. Weed produces bad men. Bad
men. So basically saying like nicotine
was getting guys
>> get back to smoking cigarettes
[laughter]
guys back
>> work our way back to Marorrow. I think
that's hilarious
>> dude that's hilar that's hilarious.
>> Uh I just learned something the other
day. Have you guys ever heard of the
overjustification effect?
Have you guys ever heard that?
>> I could I feel like uh I can guess what
it is.
>> It's really cool dude. I I looked at the
study or I saw this study. It was really
interesting. So scientists took a group
of kids who love to draw.
>> Okay,
>> these were already kids. They love to
draw. That's just like their favorite
thing to do. Whenever they have free
time, they draw. They enjoy it. They
took and they divided them. And this,
you can look this up. Look up the
overjustification effect, Doug, if you
don't mind. And they took the kids, they
separated them. They gave half the kids
a star every time they drew. So every
time they drew, they give them a star
and a reward. The other kids, they left
alone. Here's what happened. The kids
who were given a star stopped drawing on
their own.
>> They just stopped. The kids they left
alone continue to go, continue to do it.
They call it the overjustification
effect.
>> Interesting.
>> Athletes experience this as well.
>> You have athletes who are passionate
about a sport, love it,
>> get all the trophies,
>> do everything, then suddenly they go
play pro and now it's a job, they're
getting paid, and they lose they lose
the passion for it. And you'll see that
as well when they talk about
>> I wonder what that curve looks like.
>> Yeah, I know. It's like because
obviously there's some positive
reinforcement that probably happens
early on. You start drawing and you get
a star, you get the things like that. In
fact, actually, I think I I saw Hermoszi
just talking about this. This must have
been what he was alluding to this study
because he was saying that like that
falls off after a while.
>> So, what's the curve look like? Because
initially that reward signal does work
like initially.
>> What does what does it say, Doug?
>> Well, I don't know. But the if you look
at the graph, it looks like it falls off
very quickly. That's right. Oh,
interesting. Can you pull it? Can you
put it up on the screen?
>> Oh, it's not there. Okay. Sorry.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. [laughter]
>> I thought it was up.
>> No, no, no, no worries. Yeah. It's
interesting, right? And so you see this
with people, too.
>> Yeah.
>> Uh so people who love doing what they
do.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Look at that.
>> Yeah. What's What is that? What's that
gra? What's the
>> intrinsic motivation?
>> What's the x and y?
>> Okay. Um obviously the motivation is on
I guess this would be the x- axis.
>> Yeah. And this is uh over time
>> and that's shows and
>> this is when the rewards introduced
>> right so I what I'm curious about is oh
as soon as reward is introduced
>> well it looks according to this graph as
soon as the rewards introduced I I I
find that hard to believe it's so quick
>> I I I find that way hard to believe
>> what does it say yeah check
>> how does it explain the over
justification effect is there something
there
>> the uh read what that says about the
overjustice
>> so yeah it uh it's the introduction of
an incentive ive that has a detrimental
effect on an individual's intrinsic
motivation to complete a task that they
were initially motivated to do alone.
>> Yeah. So, so recognizing a kid that
likes to draw is different. That'd be
like, "Yeah, man. I really I I love
these drawings that you make is
different than saying every time you
draw, I'm going to give you a song."
>> Okay. This this is actually really
interesting considering we just had a a
we just did this with our our leadership
team with uh like Okay, another way to
say this is like, okay, I've got an
employee. this is their job. They've
been doing their job and task for the
last nine months, those things. And then
I reward that job. They didn't do
anything else outside of it. And then we
give them a raise. Wouldn't that cause
the same thing?
>> That's interesting cuz I wonder if that
would apply because they're already
getting paid to do what they do. So,
they're not doing it for free.
>> So, I wonder if that makes a difference.
>> It'd have to equate to their um their
result, right? And so this is another
say let's use another example. So this
is would also imply that I've trained my
son to um make his bed before he goes to
school every day and he's consistently
done it for let's say a year of his life
and then all a sudden I decide I'm going
to start paying you $5 for for for
making
>> So here's what it says. The
overjustification effect can occur
almost immediately often taking effect
after just one or two exposures to an
expected tangible reward. The decline in
intrinsic motivation is triggered when a
person's brain reclassifies an enjoyable
activity or chore being done strictly
for a paycheck or a project.
>> Okay. So, okay. This there's
>> we have to reframe it.
>> Yeah.
>> So, where Okay. So, that means that
means this, let's use my son bed making
analogy I was giving. That would mean
that uh he's been making his bed for a
year
>> on his own.
>> On his own.
>> Loves doing it. I decide he on on on on
you know the the 56th time I start
paying him $5. Great job son. And now
but I start doing it every time but then
I don't do it then it then that's right.
>> That's why cuz he expects it now.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. But if I kept doing it I'm sure he
would keep doing it.
>> I don't know cuz what they showed in the
kids study is
>> well that's Yeah. Because look one or
one or two exposures. One or two
exposures would be the giving.
>> So scroll down Doug more. So this is the
this is the experiment that I read. Uh
it's uh leopard green nizbits landmark
1973 nursery research school study.
Researchers documented this shift within
a matter of days. Children who already
enjoyed drawing were observed after
receiving a tangible expected reward for
it. And here is how the timeline
conditions unfold. So they saw an
instant shift in self-perception.
Individuals learn about their own
preferences by observing their own
actions. If they notice they're
receiving an external reward for a task,
they rapidly conclude, I must be doing
this for the reward rather than I am
doing this because I like Is this more
about art than it is, you know, about
like chores?
>> I think if kids
>> Well, this is what uh this is what Scott
Donald teaches.
>> Yeah. Artists,
>> he talks about this is why you don't
give uh allowance for basic chores in
the house.
>> He's like that should be that's part of
being the unit and the family. You make
your bed, you take out the trash. Yes,
you do. It's like,
>> but then we have other things.
>> He organizes them as like jobs
essentially.
>> Exactly. So, it's like these are chores
that you do and you don't get it's part
of being the the family. You do. We all
do this. But if you want to make money,
there's opportunities for you to make
money. You can babysit your sister for a
weekend. You can go wash and detail the
car. You can go, you know, break down
the cardboard, whatever. Like he has t
and he's like those you you create to as
jobs. But
>> well, I can I don't know. I guess I
could see this from a different
perspective of it being like, you know,
an athlete and like you're you're you
love sports, you love the game, then you
don't love the game because it becomes a
job. But like the same thing with
artistry, like if I'm making music or
something, I'm just doing it for that.
And then I get paid this exorbitant
amount of money for that all of a
sudden. Then I'm like, well, now I'm
just doing this for somebody to pay me
to keep doing this. And then, you know,
my my interest is going to fall off
quickly with that. But I I guess like it
like I don't really see it from that
other perspective. If I'm if I'm
actually doing hard work, I want to get
a reward.
>> Yeah. But yeah, I think that's
different, right? We're already paying
them. They're already working for us.
>> Yeah. So I don't know. I guess I'm just
trying to understand.
>> Yeah, me too. And I'm like trying to use
the the example I get cuz I get making a
bed would be a chore and would be a
thing that you could train to do your
kid to do without getting paid and then
if all a sudden I decided to pay him, it
would he would he would inevitably fall
off of doing that.
>> Yeah. If he's already doing it on his
own.
>> So it's intrinsic motivation. So I think
it's you know their desire within to
want to do something,
>> right? And so then maybe he does it but
he's now doing it just cuz he wants the
money,
>> right? So that desire fallen away. Yeah.
>> So, I think that's what's happening with
>> sports and music and things like that.
>> Yeah. Interesting, right?
>> I mean, it's interesting and I I mean,
it makes me wonder how that does carry
over to job and other things like that,
too. It's like
>> seems a little bit different.
>> I mean, kind of, right? But there's a
part of me, I mean, even when uh you
know, the the example I'm thinking of
right now when when we did something
like this where we where we just raise
up to raise up, I prefer to like
>> attach it to something.
>> Attach it to something. Yeah. like or
give a new goal like hey I want to raise
you up but these are the things I'm
looking for
>> leading up to that point to get there.
>> Yeah. versus just like, hey, you've been
working for us for a year and doing your
job. Here's another x amount of dollars
cuz then like what what are you
rewarding really by doing that? And
you're just like and then they're just
literally just doing the same thing to
get that and then you then now they'll
expect that every year of like oh if I
just do the same job I'll
>> almost like the incentive version versus
like the 10 tenured you know like I
expect like just because I've been here
that long I get paid more.
>> Yeah, that's interesting.
>> Yeah. Interesting. So along those same
lines like psychology stuff, I'm reading
this book uh validation.
>> It's called validation and it talks
about the power
>> of essentially validating people when
they're coming to you with something or
they have an experience which by the way
doesn't mean you agree with them. It's
just you're validating their experience.
>> The data that's cited in this is pretty
remarkable. So when somebody has a
difficult situation, stressful
situation, [snorts] validating somebody
uh essentially validating their
experience lowers their fightorflight
response.
>> Invalidating them triggers it.
>> So like your kid comes to you uh like,
"Oh my god, I I'm freaking out over this
thing.
>> It's not that big of a deal."
>> Yes. Worst thing.
>> Oh, who cares? Don't worry about it.
Like get over it type of deal. Triggers
worst thing.
>> Triggers their fight or flight versus
validating their experience. What's
funny, what's crazy about I'm reading
the book and by the I grew up in a
household where we didn't invalidate
anything. Everything was invalid. Like
everything was like get up, you can do
it, whatever. Wipe it off.
>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Um so I grew up that
way. But when I trained and coached
people, I learned that this was very
powerful. Like when I had clients come
to me with challenges, the worst
possible thing I could do was
invalidate.
>> Well, I think that I think when you say
this, you have to be very clear, too,
because I think somebody will interpret
validation to being like coddling. And
it does look different. We do this with
my son. It's just like he he can have a
a moment of breakdown and you can
validate his feelings, but then also
correct his behavior
>> and be like, I know I know that that
felt like it hurt and it was this, but
you're going to be okay. Like this
happens when we play rough. You fall
down. It was an accident. You're going
to be all right.
>> Yeah.
>> Like you can you can validate their
feeling, you know, whatever they're
going through and then turn around and
coach right afterwards.
>> It's like it's like, "Hey, I can see
Yeah, I can see why that really bothered
you. Because I also sense I also think
that that somebody can take the
validation thing too far where it's just
that's all you do is validate and you
don't follow it up with the coaching. It
can just be like,
>> "Oh, you poor thing. Oh my god, that's
oh, I can't believe that." And there's
that's it.
>> And so then that that then you also
create a victim. You create somebody
every time something rough happens or
anything bad there's like you come
running up and you're just validating
how they feel all the time. And then we
have this society of people that want to
be validated.
>> So that's the thing. So there's a
confusion, right? is that validating
isn't uh that you agree that that Yeah,
I agree with with with what's I I I
agree with you. I agree with your with
your the fact that you're so upset that
you know uh you're you're you got a an A
minus on your test and you're freaking
out like you don't have to agree with it
but you can say look yeah I could tell
you worked really hard you expected an A
and so that's really disappointing.
>> Yeah.
>> And then the conversation right
>> but you lower that fight or flight they
feel valid and then you can have that
conversation. I mean that conversation
though has to be equally as important.
>> Totally.
>> Because otherwise if you just like
>> as a parent for sure.
>> Yeah. Cuz if you just go and validate
feelings all day long about when
especially when they're wrong.
>> Yeah. Cuz then you kind of reinforce it.
>> Yeah. I mean you're if they're acting uh
>> but it's different. Validating your kid
is very different than like your friend
or especially your spouse.
>> Yeah.
>> You know like the correcting part with
the [laughter]
work so well.
>> Let me tell you, honey.
>> Yeah. I can see why you're upset. Let me
tell you why you're wrong. Here's why
you shouldn't be [laughter] upset.
>> That's not going to work. That's not the
same thing, dude. That's how that works.
Anyway, I'm going to take a laugh. And
so, guess what is available uh back
available as a peptide that you can now
again get
>> what was it was off.
>> M is available again. For a second
there, you couldn't
>> couldn't for me.
>> You couldn't get it. Uh they had put a
pause on it. But Matsi, if you like if
you go through back on the menu,
>> you go through our partners at
mpormones.com,
you can get Miy again, which is very
exciting because that's one of my
favorite favorite
>> P. You and Justin both have been on that
a long time.
>> Oh, it's the best, dude.
>> Yeah, you two have always raved about
that. Why Why was it off?
>> Because the FDA sent letters and scared
everybody.
>> Was that around the same time as the BPC
one?
>> That's right. So BPC you couldn't get
for a while either. Yeah.
>> And now they've kind of made it so that
>> so you could get you can now get a
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>> So Mi the nickname exercise in a bottle.
I know that sounds sensational.
>> Uh but essentially uh it really does
supercharge the mitochondria. So what
people get from it is mostly what they
get is energy.
>> Yeah. It's energy boost.
>> You feel just really good energy all the
time. What it's also doing is helping
things like burn body fat. So
bodybuilders like Matzi for fat loss
because of the increased energy
production, the increased metabolic
rate. Um, in studies with animals, uh,
they'll feed them a high calorie diet
and they don't gain as much body fat.
>> Interesting.
>> When they take a matzi increases insulin
sensitivity, uh, really good as well.
>> Interesting.
>> One of my favorite, dude, is one of the
few peptides I took.
>> I actually haven't taken it.
>> It was one of the ones I took where by
day three I was like, "Whoa, dude. I
feel like
>> I feel like it's hit and miss with uh
people that I've talked to at least like
it's like very awesome for some and then
some are like I don't
>> I mean I feel like that's almost
everything with peptides.
>> Depends on the peptide. Uh some people
like the SS I think it's SS31. I think
that's what it's called. Is that Doug?
Look it up.
>> Sloop.
>> No, no, no. That's totally different.
That's a different So I think it's Is it
SS31? Put SS31 peptides. See if I got
that right cuz I might be wrong here.
Yes. So SS31 also targets the
mitochondria but works differently.
People either respond really well to
MOSI or SS31. That's
>> okay. So that's the alternative
>> cuz I've done SS31 and I've heard people
rave about it and I've done it and
notice nothing.
>> Miy for me.
>> I haven't tried that one.
>> It's like a light dimmer. Like I turn up
the light.
>> Yeah. Same.
>> Interesting. Is it So is it injectable
or is it pill?
>> Injectable.
>> Daily.
>> Yes.
>> Oh, it's daily.
>> Yeah. That's why that's why [laughter]
you
>> forget. Yes, dude.
>> It's a little tiny.
>> It's not.
>> That's not what it is. Use this to
forget.
>> Yeah. It's just the habit of doing a
daily thing is like it's that's uh just
another thing.
>> I know.
>> You guys want to hear some cool patents
that uh I saw this um this post on these
new patents that just got uh submitted
that for pretty innovative interesting
inventions. I'll read them off to you.
Motorola just got a patent for a throat
tattoo that works like a microphone.
>> [laughter]
>> What?
>> Yeah.
>> A tattoo. How does that work?
>> That works like a microphone. I'm not
sure. I'm just reading you the headline.
>> Is Motorola still a who are they owned
by somebody else? Is that like a
>> wrote tattoo?
>> I realize Motorola is still doing it.
>> Check this out. Amazon has has a patent
for a flying warehouse that releases
delivery drones. It's happening, you
guys.
>> Oh, I've seen that. I've seen that.
>> They'll be in the air.
>> Yeah. and you're going to order
something and a drone's going to come
down and in 10 minutes you're going to
get
>> flying warehouses
>> bro. Imagine that. 15 minutes you buy
boom delivered to you.
>> We're so close to Wall-E,
>> dude. It's going to be
>> I feel like that was the beginning
before.
>> What was they I thought they they've
tested this and it and it didn't it
didn't go. Why? Why did they
>> The drone delivery hasn't really taken
off yet, but
>> they they've tested it in areas. Yeah,
they they've tested it in some areas,
but it it it kind of I don't know why it
didn't take off. I don't know. But
>> are you scared to regulate? Maybe. I
don't know.
>> Who knows? But uh let me see. Because of
FAA regulations, noise pollution,
privacy concern concerns.
>> Oh, that makes sense.
>> So I I I think this is going to be the
future. Uh I think it's going to be
crazy cuz Amazon really I mean Amazon
was crazy, right? You get stuff the next
day, which is wild. Like that's crazy
for those of us who know what it was
like before. [laughter]
>> Like I used to buy stuff.
>> Oh, you used to the same day,
>> bro. You know you do. You know what
we're going to have because of this?
We're gonna have freaking flying
pirates.
>> Oh, [laughter] 100%.
That's why it won't Justin. That's why
it won't That's WHY IT WON'T WORK.
>> AND THEN THEY'RE GOING TO STEAL
[laughter] HIS PACKAGES. KILL ME.
>> YEAH.
>> On motorcycle drones.
>> Yes,
>> bro. 100% that's going to happen. I
mean, if you The risk [laughter] the
risk of of robbing
>> I want to make a movie, dude. The risk
of robbing a person is has that has to
be a major deterrent in in in comparison
to robbing a robot. Like it's not it's a
nonhuman a drone flying like it.
>> People are going to punk robots like
crazy. Yeah.
>> Yeah.
>> Humans. They're going to punk. Well, the
only the counterargument to that is
I if you would have asked me if we could
go back in time and uh you know 40 years
or more because it'd be even longer than
that. We have about 40 years or more and
say one day every day there'd be all
kinds of packages dropped off at
people's doors and people wouldn't steal
them off their doorstep.
>> Yeah.
>> I wouldn't believe that.
>> People don't.
>> Oh yeah. I mean, the fact all the time
now
>> the fact that there's there's you
everybody's got a box at their door
right now and it doesn't get stolen. So,
you know, maybe people won't
>> It is crazy.
>> There'll be there'll definitely be some
pirates originally.
>> There'll be [laughter]
rampant like pirate activities at least
for a while.
They're [laughter] on motorcycle drs on
their shoulder.
>> Dude,
>> have you seen all those? I I wonder how
many of them are real and how many of
them are staged. those viral videos of
people that do steal the boxes off the
>> Yeah. People put the bait box.
>> Yes. And they bait them with
>> Well, now with AI, they've just done so
many of those where it explodes on.
>> Yeah. I don't know if they're real or
not.
>> Those bring me joy. This is really bad.
But I get really happy when I see a
thief get blasted with blue spray. My
face is like the worst, dude. It's up
It's up there. Like what do you It's
really annoying. Like really
>> lowest common denominator. Yeah. Thing
to do.
>> It makes it makes me really mad
>> cuz Yeah. Anyone? Do
>> you guys ever So I the Do you guys
remember the first time something really
valuable of yours stolen?
>> Yeah. [clears throat] What was it?
>> Yeah, it's a car.
>> Oh, [laughter]
>> more than once.
>> That's a big one.
>> You know what? Hey, what are the odds? I
don't think I think most people have
never had their car stolen, let alone
two cars stolen.
>> Yes, two cars stolen. You know, the
irony of all that though is
>> I the the So, I had I had the the car
the Integra and then I had my truck
stolen. the car being stolen. The thing
that broke my heart more than anything
was my thousand CD CD case.
>> You know, I had the big four four
flipper
>> of CDs I've been collecting since I was
in high school.
>> Gone.
>> Gone. That was just like cars
replaceable. That collection was not
replaceable in my truck cuz I had a DVD
player and stuff inside there. I had at
that time so you know my annual trip
that we go to the lake all the time. Um,
we we would make a a short video and of
us wakeboarding and jumping and doing
all stuff like that, right?
>> And uh I had at least 3 years of DVDs.
>> Oh, you can't replace that.
>> Oh, I can't. And my buddy, we still
can't find the original stuff of that.
So, it's just like they're gone. And
like And those were really special to
me. Even more so now that I'm older.
Like it was I loved them when we were
close to that. Now it's like, man, that
was a
>> I had the first time I ever experienced
it was my bike. I [snorts] I rode my
bike to like the local. It was a
convenience store. They had a Street
Fight or two there. Remember that? And I
was playing it. And I look out, check my
bike. It's there. Still playing. Still
playing. Look out. Bike's gone. Huh?
Bike was gone. And I went to my grand uh
parents house.
>> We went to my grandparents house. My
grandfather found out. This is a true
story. I'll share it. He passed away so
I can share it. And I told my
grandfather and he said, "What? Somebody
stole you a bike?" I said, "Yeah." He
goes, "Come with me." So, I get in the
car with him and we're driving around
looking for my bike. Here's the scere
here's the crazy part. Okay, this is the
crazy part. He had his Beretta
[laughter] in the car, dude.
>> Oh my god.
>> And I remember thinking this as a kid.
This is a true story. I didn't I never
even told my mom. He had his Betta in
there and I in my mind I'm like, I'm not
going to tell him if I see [laughter] my
bike.
>> Is he going to shoot like some kid like,
"Yay!"
>> No way, dude. The kid could ride right
in front of me like, "Hey, what's up, S?
[laughter]
My bike.
terrified.
>> That was the first time that I
old Sicilian,
>> you know, you just made [laughter]
>> the the the DVDs. Okay, so Katrina told
me that we were we were going through I
shared with you guys that old picture of
Katrina and I when we first got together
and because we were going through all
these old photos of her and I, one of
the other old photos that popped up was
the very first kind of thing that we
ever did together was I took her
snowboarding and I taught her how to
snowboard and uh and there's a picture
of her and I doing that and she goes,
"You remember that day?" And I'm like,
"Yeah, I know." I told she's like, "You
were so patient this and that." She
goes, "Do you remember uh what you did
on the drive all the way up to the
thing?" And I'm like, "No." She's like,
"You you had me watch your wakeboarding
videos."
>> No, [laughter] you didn't.
>> Oh, look what I do right there.
>> No, you didn't. No, you didn't.
>> An hour of me like doing tricks.
>> A whole hour. [laughter]
>> She's still She's still stuck with you,
dude.
>> Wow.
>> That's a good woman.
>> That was good, bro. It was kind of cool.
[laughter]
Were
>> you turned on the music behind it and
everything? Oh yeah, dog. Oh yeah, dude.
Busting tricks
>> highlight reel. Oh wow, dude. I need
Courtney to watch any of my highlights
from football or anything. Any old She's
tra she was trapped in the truck the
whole time. That's why she ain't going
nowhere.
>> I should have held her hostage.
[laughter]
>> That's the move. That's the best thing
ever. How long were you guys dating at
that point?
>> Oh, we had just It was the first real
like thing we ever did. Um,
>> no way, bro. Early on, too.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I'm 29. I was 29. She was
30. See, she's smart because she's
probably like, "This is ridiculous."
[laughter]
>> But she's also probably thinking in her
head like, "He's really confident.
>> This is going to go somewhere." I know.
>> Exactly. [laughter]
>> This confidence is interesting. We point
this in the right direction. We're good.
>> Yeah. Yeah. I'm just have to direct
this.
>> That's awesome.
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Our first caller is Kayla from New York.
>> Hi, Kayla.
>> Hi. Wow, this is surreal. [laughter]
>> How are you? How can I help you? I'm
good. Thank you for having me. Um, well,
so after listening to your episode that
aired on Monday, I switched things up
and decided I should just be
straightforward and real. Um, I'm
turning 40 in February, and I want next
year to be the year that I've looked the
best I've ever looked. Uh, yes, I want
great mobility, functionality, and
strength, but ultimately I want to look
amazing, but without doing any harm to
my hormones or metabolism.
For my background, I spent the last
eight years being pregnant, birthing,
nursing three babies, uh, just to start
pmenopause, a year postpartum after my
third, um, to then have nearly a year of
almost daily diarrhea, to learn that I
had SIBO, I treated the SIBO, started
hormone therapy, had a return of the
SIBO eight months later, that I need to
increase my HRT um, a few months ago,
and I also had carpal tunnel surgery six
months ago. So, I'm 39 now. I'm a wife
and mother to three little girls, 7,
five, and three. I want to set set a
good example for them and show them how
they need to respect their bodies and
take care of their bodies. And they
already know that we value protein in
our house. Um, I used to run to lose
weight when I was younger and as a form
of punishment therapy. I turned to
circuit training to lose weight. That
was a bad idea. Um, in my early 20s, the
circuit training worked, but it doesn't
anymore. Um, first world problems, but
life has been a roller coaster the last
eight years. My husband and I had a
rough patch when I hit 37 and my
parameopause came on. Um, thank God I
got the HRT because that poor man may
have divorced me otherwise.
And my girls were kind of on edge
because I was just a raging lunatic. So
now I've gotten my digestion to a better
place. I still have to steer clear of
gluten, sugar, and most dairy. But
um before all this, I was a selfish
person and my husband always spoiled me.
And then the ons onslaught of babies and
how my body changes and all the things
that come with the the entire life
change was really hard for me to accept.
Um but
accepting it now has made me a better
mom, wife, and just person in general.
Um I've got back to my faith and that's
helped me a lot. and also your podcast
has really been beneficial.
Uh, now that I have things pretty well
settled, I'd like to focus on getting
some self-esteem back, self-esteem back,
and being a bit more selfish for a year.
I want to build strength, lean out, and
look amazing. But I recognize when it's
time to push, and when it's time to slow
down. My busy season for work is mid
December through March. So, I'd like to
do a bulk in the fall months, do like a
15 program and some light walking during
my busy season just to maintain cut and
increase do um increase some cardio or
something to lean out in the spring and
burn some fat and then maintain again
through the summer months if that sounds
doable. Um, my question is, what
programs do you think would benefit me
the most during these seasons for the
upcoming year?
Good question and I'm glad you called
in. Sounds like you've been through the
ringer.
>> Well, I mean, what mom hasn't, but you
know, such is life? But yeah, it took me
a little while to accept all the chaos
that kids bring.
>> Yeah. Although it may seem common to
you, it's very difficult. And I've
worked with a lot of women through uh
having children, through the hormone
changes and all that can happen and uh
oftentimes contributing to poor gut
issues. And so, you just had all of it
all at once. Is it are the gut issues
pretty much rectified?
>> It's not perfect. Um I unfortunately
fell in love with sourdough baking.
[laughter] That's good.
>> So that doesn't help me. Um
but
>> okay.
>> As long as I steer clear of that then
yeah.
>> Okay. Okay. So we got we got to make
sure we maintain that. So maintain good
gut health because that'll throw
everything off. Is your HRT stable now?
Have you found the right dose and it's
right and everything feels good now?
Yeah. Yeah. When I started it last June,
um I was doing a bulk that fall and my
metabolism shot through the roof. Um and
I talked to my um OB/GYN and she said
that it could be that I'm metabolizing
things much quicker. So, we needed to up
my levels a little bit, but I'm pretty
good now.
>> Okay. And you're on uh what's part of
your HRT? Is it is it is it the whole
gamut? Are you progesterone, thyroid,
testosterone?
>> No thyroid. Um, progesterone, estrogen,
and testosterone.
>> Okay, good.
>> No thyroid, huh?
>> No. So, okay, good. Um, so a good what
you want to focus on right now is
traditional strength training, and you
want to get stronger. That's going to be
the best thing for uh setting yourself
up uh for the cut later on.
>> Um, are you tracking your calories? Do
you have an idea where where you're at
with that?
>> Yeah, my maintenance is around 2,000.
Um, when I was doing a bulk last fall, I
could get up to 27 to 30 3,000 calories.
Um, and I'm not going to lie, it was
hard to cut from that because I love
food.
>> Yeah.
>> Um, it's kind of my comfort zone. Um,
and plus the sourdough, you know, just
throws that out the window.
>> And when you got up to that, were you
gaining a bunch of weight or were you
building muscle and maintaining? No, I
really only over the last year I've
really only fluctuated. Um, when I was
lean in the summer, I was like 125 and
when I was bulking at my weight, my
highest, I was 135. So,
>> Oh, that's awesome. Yeah.
>> I oscillate between that.
>> No, no, no. That's phenomenal. Um,
because you're This is perfect. I mean,
you would be somebody that I would
really look for a body comp.
>> Yeah.
>> You know, so I would put you in a
reverse diet. I wouldn't have you climb
as high as you did last time and then
kind of stay, you know, if you're at
2,000ish right now, I'd put you, you
know, 24 25 and just get strong. And
what you'll see over time is this nice
body composition change that wouldn't
require and and you're what are you
sitting at right now? Uh body weight,
are you are you around the 135 or
>> um like 130?
>> Yeah. I mean, if you just [laughter] did
that, you're at a good weight.
>> You would be good and you would just see
yourself kind of lean out as your body
sculpted and in shape, you know. Kayla,
I got to tell you, with everything that
you're doing, you're a perfect candidate
for coaching. To have somebody coach you
through the process would be perfect
because you've got all the other stuff
and and look, and maybe correct me if
I'm wrong, managing more things, uh, is
a lot. You've got kids, you've got a
looks like you got a job,
>> you've done all the, you know, managing
of the SIBO and the HRT. Um, I mean it
it it would be a it would it would
probably benefit you to just offset that
and have someone kind of walk you
through the process and meet with you on
a semi-regular basis with nutrition and
exercise programming. I don't think you
need anything special. I think you're in
a in a great place. Uh I mean a program
like MAPS Anabolic or Muscle Mommy, you
know, 2400 calories, I think you get
great results. But what a coach is going
to do is walk you through the kind of
reverse diet process. maybe throw in
some mini cuts, modify the program so
that it's, you know, instead of MAPS
muscle mommy, it's a maps Kayla, and
then just kind of move you through this,
you know, maybe six to nine month
process where at the end of it, you're
like, man, I'm everything's great and it
feels good and my body's working the way
I want it to.
>> Yeah. Okay. Um, I don't know about the
cost of a coach at the moment, but
that's something I can talk to my
husband about. So,
>> Okay. But that you'd be perfect for
that. But I think uh how many days a
week are you able to work out in the
gym?
>> Well, I've been what I'm what I call
lazy exercising at the moment. Um I
pretty much do a 15. Some days I'll
double up so that I can have a day off
or whatever. Um but
>> I like that.
>> Uh I work out like I have a home gym. Um
so I'll go in the basement and I'll do a
couple lifts a day. Um almost five days
a week.
>> Oh, that's fun.
>> I like that.
>> Yeah. How many steps are you taking on a
daily basis? Um, my average for June was
14,000.
>> Oh, wow.
>> Kayla, you're kicking butt.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Honestly, I don't do anything too
aggressive.
>> Yeah.
>> With the cut. I think if you stay the
course, especially now the HRT uh dialed
in,
>> what you're going to see over the next 6
months to a year is this really nice
consistent body composition change.
>> The the mistake you can make, Kayla, is
to try to force it.
>> Yeah.
>> Is to try to push too hard in any
direction.
>> Yeah. I think part of that is what
kicked off the SIBO the first time. Um,
you know, like the 3,000 calories I was
impressed with even even myself that I
could m maintain that. Um, but I think
it was too much for my digestion to
handle plus the stress of my busy
season.
>> Yeah.
>> If you want to try any supplements for
gut health, Organifi has a new parasite
cleanse that I really really like um and
it seems to be benefiting a lot of
listeners who have uh kind of
reoccurring SIBO uh issues. So
>> yeah,
>> it's natural. It's an easy supplement.
You would do like two cycles of it. But
as far as a workout, so so here's here's
the deal. And this is the mentality.
It's like, man, I dealt with all this
stuff.
>> I'm coming out of this cloud that lasted
years, and I think my body's starting to
work the way I wanted to. Now I'm going
to slam on the gas. This is a mistake.
>> I am.
>> You You don't want to do that. You're
You're going to progress just fine. Y
>> as long as you're consistent in what
you're doing at 14,000 steps a day, you
know, bring your calories up to 24 2500
consistently, hit your protein targets,
>> be consistent with a mass 15 protocol,
15 muscle mommy, 15 powerlift, 15
symmetry, either one of those. Um, and
just stay consistent. We're going to
see, like I said, over 6 months to the
next year is just this nice change in
body composition, this nice consistent
change. and and to address kind of your
thought process cuz you were kind of
asking about the whole year during
certain seasons, this program then that
program you a 15 protocol year round is
great for you. The thing that changes is
your mindset and intensity in the
lifting.
>> So when you're in your when you're in
your busy season and maybe you're not
getting as much rest or you're not as
dialed on the diet, back off on the
intensity. Go through the motions. You
go to your workout, you just do your
workout, you get your steps, you walk
the when you're in your less busy season
and you're more rested, you're more fed,
you feel really good, push the
intensity. This is where I'm trying to
get stronger, so I'm going to add more
weight to the bar. So that's what it
looks like. It looks less like a radical
change in the programming that you need
to switch up or you need to all a sudden
start doing all kinds of cardio. No,
what it looks like is when you're really
really busy and you got a lot on your
plate, your workouts are almost
therapeutic. You're going through the
motions. you're you're doing your lifts,
but you're not really pushing it. When
you are feeling great and you're well
rested and that might look like week to
week, uh it could look like month to
month, like depending on what your,
>> you know, what your seasons look like,
but that's how you gauge what you should
be doing is like the 15 protocol is
perfect for you, but you're you're
manipulating the intensity based off of
what's going on your outside. The only
way you can mess this up, just based off
everything you're saying, Kayla, and
where you're at, the only way you can
mess this up is if you try to rush it.
>> Yeah,
>> that's it. I'm not worried about you not
working out. Sounds like you're pretty
consistent.
>> You're active daily. Your metabolism is
not in a bad place. Hormones are now
where they need to be.
>> The the only way that Kayla can mess
this up is if you try to rush it. So,
that's the issue. Don't If you don't
rush it, you'll get great results.
they'll be nice and consistent. If you
think you can get results faster by
rushing it, you'll be wrong and that'll
move you.
>> The only reason I mentioned cardio um in
like the springtime to really like lean
out was um because a little while ago
you guys were talking about your hit
program and I thought, well, maybe that
could kind of jumpstart
my
cut phase or whatever, but maybe that's
just too much for me in this phase.
>> Well, you're also you're at such a great
place. I wouldn't need to cut you. And
and I feel this has been a common theme
when I've been talking to a lot of our
female clients and callers is build into
the body you want. Like you don't
[clears throat] need to you don't need
to cut into the body you want. You're at
a good weight for your side. How tall
are you?
>> You're you're at a good weight.
>> I'm only 5'3 and that's rounding up.
>> No, you're fine.
>> Yeah, that's a good You're
>> Oh my god. You 100 Yeah. 130 lbs. Uh you
you stay on this path. Your body fat
will fall in the low 20s.
>> Yep.
>> You'll have sculpt, shape, muscle,
metabolism. Yeah.
>> You're going to be great.
>> Yeah. You don't need to get smaller.
You'll get you'll get tighter and
denser. So your your weight will stay
the same or maybe go up a little tiny
bit, but you'll have the physique you
want. And that's with the mentality of
building into the body, not kind of
burning and leaning out into the body.
>> If you do anything like HIT or cardio or
anything like that, that would be for
endurance. I I would if you're training
for an athletic endeavor, you're like,
man, I want some stamina so I can go
running with my kids or go, that's fine.
Go for it. But if you're looking at body
composition change and aesthetics, stay
the course.
>> Yeah.
>> Just stay the course. This is perfect.
>> Yep.
>> Okay. Awesome.
>> Yeah. Do you which which MAPS 15
programs you have and because I'd like
to send you another one.
>> I have Muscle Mommy and Symmetry.
>> Okay. I'll send you Powerlift 15.
>> Oh, that sounds awesome. I've heard you
guys talking about that lately.
>> Yeah. Yep. You're good. You'll love it.
>> Yeah. Cycle through those, Kayla.
>> That's it.
>> Perfect. Thank you guys so much. I
really appreciate it.
>> Yeah. Thanks for calling in. Thanks.
>> Byebye. We we we need to have I mean she
just brought she brought up parmenopause
and how how hard that was uh for her.
>> Uh it is very hard for a lot of women
and it's very hard for a lot of uh
marriages when when that starts to
happen.
>> Yeah.
>> And without education it can feel like
what the heck is going on?
>> Yeah.
>> Um but it's uh hormone changes are no
joke. They are no joke. They will affect
you. Um and without the education around
it and what's going on, it could feel
like you're losing your mind or like
what the heck's going on. Oh, I I think
I've mentioned this once before that um
you know, Katrina's mom life coaches a
lot of people and a lot of people that
are in their late 30s, 40s and above.
And almost always um she's when she's
dealing with when people have got like a
lot of marital stuff, a lot of
>> hormones. It's like the first thing she
sends him like you need to go like go do
that first and then we can work on all
the other stuff because if that's out of
whack and we're trying to fix all this
like
>> and she says it's always life-changing
for people. Our next caller is Robert
from South Carolina.
>> What's up, Robert? What's up, Robert?
>> Gentlemen. Oh my goodness. Um, I'm gonna
try and stay cool here. Uh, a little
fanboyish right now, but I'm going to
try and stay focused.
>> Yeah, man.
>> Um,
uh, just thank you so much for um what
y'all do and uh, thank your team for
letting me be on here. Um, it's a truly
an honor to be able to speak to you
guys. Um, you've been an impact on my
life for a decade at least.
>> Wow. Um, I heard you first on the Ben
Greenfield podcast a long time ago.
>> Long time ago.
>> Wow.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah, dude.
>> It's been a It's been a cool journey.
>> Thank you. How can I help you, dude?
>> Uh, so I don't know how far back I need
to go in relevancy for for a little
context, but um I've taken up the bold
challenge of trying to train my wife.
>> I got my um uh I know Adam, you can
relate here. Uh, but I I just got my um
NASM and um I talked to Ann on the
school um and she uh
>> she was amazing. Um I talked to her like
15 minutes and I signed up for the for
y'all's academy uh academy course.
>> All right, dude. Awesome.
>> It's been Thank you. It's been It's been
incredible.
>> Cool.
>> A lot a lot of stuff in there that I
don't know how I would have approached
it. So, it's good to have a guide. Um,
and a lot of stuff that challenges me as
a person. Uh, cuz I'm not the salesy
person as you mentioned all that like a
lot in that course. Like these are
things that typically trainers struggle
with and I am right there.
>> Yeah. Right on.
>> Uh, so I appreciate that.
>> Good stuff.
>> Um, so uh, but my current call again
trying to stay focused. My I'm trying to
figure out how to best support my wife.
Um, we actually met at a Planet Fitness
at 5:00 a.m. um, like five or six years
ago. So fitness is kind of in in our
relationship from the beginning. Um but
she uh she has been dealing with and we
found this through functional some
functional uh medicine stuff testing. Um
her cortisol levels are just tanked out.
She's got like the midday crashes. She's
got the migraines that come on like a
lot. Um and I had tried to start her off
with like map starter. She did great.
She was fine with that. try to do the uh
muscle mommy with her. It was kind of
she she likes to do something every day,
so I was like, "All right, let's try the
mass 15. Let's try and see what we do
there." Um but she still gets those like
hard crashes midday.
>> Uh so
>> um I used your little Dexa AI to see get
y'all's advice on um on how to approach
that scenario.
>> And it's like scale way back, you know,
because you don't want to I guess push
weight on her so much. She don't want
her to stress her uh physiological
system there and burn her out. Um so I
didn't know whether I should be going
all the way back to like let's just do
movement based stuff like prime Matt's
prime level like that kind of thing or
um if I can keep pushing her weight
wise. She really wants to grow in
strength. Uh so I kind of struggle with
how to balance that
>> starter. Good question. Robert, what's
the uh protocol that the functional
medicine practitioner has her on right
now?
>> Uh, well, she's uh using a lot of
supplement based stuff. Um, I don't know
if you know like what ADR is and um
there's another it's it's like a it's
like a mixture of different um arurvedic
stuff uh
>> just to kind of give her uh adrenal
glands on support.
>> Okay.
>> Especially in the morning. Um,
but nothing. She hasn't really addressed
the lifestyle part of it, which again is
like a lot of keep stress low. We have a
five and two-year-old, by the way.
>> Another thing that you and I relate on.
Y'all's story about your kids is
excellent, but um yeah, so that that's
hard to take that stress out of it, you
know. Uh so that does that answer your
question at all? I don't know if I did.
>> And so I'm sleep is there sleep okay?
>> Sleep routines. um sleep at we we try to
be in bed by like 8:00. It usually ends
up being 9:30. Uh but it's pretty solid.
She has various nights of bad sleep. Um
but she mostly gets some pretty solid
sleep in there.
>> Okay. Cuz that that would be number one.
Uh would be sleep. Uh diet would be
number two. Um I would I would I'm
assuming she's avoiding caffeine and
alcohol
>> during this.
>> Yeah. Hasn't hasn't hasn't done those in
a long time. Okay.
>> Um, I push her a lot on creatine. I
don't know if that's helpful.
>> No, that'd be very helpful.
>> Okay.
>> Yeah. No, no creatine would be very
helpful. Um, as far as extra, so here's
the deal. If she's still dealing with
HPA access dysfunction, right, if her
cortisol is still bottomed out, um, you
have to be very careful with added uh,
stress.
>> Would you go like starter?
>> Yeah. I mean, starter might be okay. Um,
even MAPS 15 would be okay, but it'd be
low intensity.
>> Yeah,
>> it'd be low intensity. [clears throat]
>> Yeah. And and the idea is uh a nice
starter.
>> Yeah. I'm going to get your I'm going to
have you perfect your technique.
>> And your intensity is 60%.
>> Uh and if she gets stronger, great. If
she doesn't, that's fine, too. Uh we're
just if she doesn't get the the the
hormone um if she doesn't get the
cortisol back to normal, if she doesn't
get her hypothalamus or pituitary and
her adrenals, uh you know, back to
normal, uh nothing's nothing's going to
happen with the strength training. So
that's the number one priority. number
one priority is that whatever gets that
better is what we're going to focus on.
And so the strength training is really
this is how I would do it.
>> What makes her feel better throughout
the day and so it's probably going to
look like is low intensity perfect the
technique doesn't even feel like a
workout and she's going to do a little
every day and that's it
>> cuz what'll happen is you push it a
little bit she gets she's going to get
more energy crashes
>> bands. Yeah.
>> Mhm.
>> And so that's it. And it might take, you
know, HP accessis dysfunction can
sometimes take a while, can sometimes
take 90 days or longer to get things
moving back um to where they should.
How, if you don't mind me asking, how
old is your wife?
>> Uh gosh, 38.
>> Okay.
>> I'm 40. I'm turning 40, so she's 38.
>> Yeah, you better get that right.
>> Yeah, I know. [laughter] No,
>> I know. I know. I know. We'll edit
>> like when is this coming out?
>> We'll edit Yeah, we'll edit that for
you, Robert. Yeah. [laughter]
>> Has she had other hormones? I'm sure I'm
assuming she's had her thyroid checked
and progesterone, estrogen, all that.
She did a Dutch test.
>> Uh
>> yeah, she had that she had the like a
Dutch test. Uh thyroid seems to be doing
well. Um and uh the hormones are crazy
off. Um and we think that's from the
adrenals being off. Um
>> could be
>> a lot of that hooks together.
>> How long has she been doing the protocol
with the functional medicine
practitioner?
>> About a month. We actually checked in
with him earlier today. Okay. Um, so
>> you know, I'd give it another I'd give
it another month or two and see what
happens. She's also 38 for some progress
and, uh, par menopause
um, and having two little kids can kind
of start, you know, causing some issues.
>> So, you know, I would say if after a
month or two you're not seeing huge
improvements,
uh, then hormone replacement therapy
would be another option. Uh, you know,
and and you could send the blood work
to, uh, npormones.com, the doctors
there, and have them look. Um, but of
you know, of course, let's see if things
balance out without having to do that.
>> Do you know if they're in South I've
been actually looking for them from me
personally. Do you know if they're in
South Carolina yet? I think they were
one of the states. I believe so.
>> South Carolina was one of the ones they
weren't. They were I know he was working
on it though. So,
>> they just got into Hawaii.
>> Yeah, they're working on it. They might
be now.
>> Yeah, I would check check with them and
see if they are. Yeah.
>> Um, and see if they're in there now. But
that would be the other thing I just
because of her age, right? cuz she's at
the right, you know, mid to late 30s,
parameopause starts to kick in. Um, and
that can make this
>> Do you uh do
>> you guys happen to use like a Aura ring
or anything that uh measures and track
sleep?
>> Uh, we don't have an Aura ring. She has
uh a very kind of basic fitness watch,
but it does track sleep. Um,
>> so I didn't even think I didn't even
think to look at that.
>> I I would invest in an Aura ring. Um
just because just because sleep is such
a priority of all the things that we're
talking about, it's probably the top of
all the things that we're talking about
right now.
>> And even though you're saying like she
gets pretty good sleep, um measuring it
and then also playing with habits and
routines to improve it
>> even. Yeah.
>> Yeah. So that you're like, "Hey, I
noticed that when we have that chamomile
tea and we do this and do that, you get
these 80 plus scores and when we don't,
you get SE." So you have a measurable
thing when you play with different
things to improve sleep, you know, that
you can start to improve the habits that
encourage, you know, better and better
sleep scores. I think that can be
extremely valuable. Um, it's how I use
mine. I mean, I use mostly mine for
steps and then my sleep. That's the only
two things I use it for. I don't care
about the calorie [ __ ] I just want
to know, am I hitting my daily activity?
And then I want to see my sleep score
because I'm constantly doing different
things and I'm like, "Oh man, when I do
that one thing, if I eat after eight,
boy, does that really impact me
negatively and stuff." You know, some
things are obvious, some things are not
obvious. Uh, everyone's unique and
different. Um, certain things hurt. Some
people can uh have a drink before bed
and be fine. Other people have a drink
before bed and it'll screw them up. So
having something like that that's a a
measurable thing that she can pay
attention to, I think is worth the
investment.
>> Yeah. But as far as
>> Yeah. Do you do you find Go ahead.
>> I was going to say as far as a workout
is concerned, Mass 15 or starter would
be that would be where she would live.
>> Yeah.
>> For a while. And then has she started
the creatine?
>> Yeah. Yeah. I I I'm the one who dumps it
in [clears throat] her drink in the
morning. And the other thing that the
Temple We got the Temple electrolytes.
>> Um and then I I sneak in and dump the
creatine in.
>> Good. Uh when she's not looking.
>> Yeah. I would go five grams three times
a day. So breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
I'd have her try 15 grams a day to see
if that makes a difference with her
energy.
>> [snorts]
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. Okay. Wow. Okay. Yeah. I only did
five in the morning. So, adding the
extra because I I do remember you
talking about the test where the 15
actually is
>> that's where that's where the cognitive
benefits kick in.
>> Yeah. That's for the cognitive benefits
and if she's operating at a deficit
stomach can handle it.
>> Yeah. Yeah. You don't you don't want to
take all 15 at once. That's what
Justin's saying because that can cause
gastro issues.
>> You know, breakfast, lunch, and dinner,
>> five grams. Uh and within a week, if
it's if it's something that'll help her,
you'll know. She'll know. she'll be
like, "Oh my god, I feel good." Um, and
and that's pretty much it. But the
workout is like, "Let's perfect the
technique. That's it for now. We're just
going to practice the technique and
that's it."
>> Which is something I I as a aspiring
trainer, I've learned that I I am way
deficient in like technique. I've gone
back now through the videos y'all put it
up. Thank you. Of like the cues y'all
use like push the door close with your
butt, like the, you know, let the
weights slide up crushing. those kind of
things like, "Oh, okay. That's how I can
get her to not just, you know, feel it
in your back. What does that mean?"
>> Yeah, exactly.
>> So, um, so, uh, that's been helpful.
>> Yeah.
>> Um, cool. Okay.
>> Do you have both of those programs? Do
you have I know you have Starter. Do you
have 15?
>> I do. I do. That's actually what I use.
>> Oh, good.
>> Um, I I love that program. It's It's so
nice to be able to do something every
day and not feel like I'm overdoing it
or underdoing it. So, it's been really
nice. And I can do it in my garage, so
that helps.
>> Yeah. Perfect. Right on. That's it, my
friend.
>> All right.
>> Keep us.
>> Can I Can I say
>> Yeah. Go ahead.
>> One thing just one thing.
>> Yeah.
>> Before I go, um I uh I've been playing
uh s I don't know. It was like a year
two years ago, I guess, now when you
went to a Brandon Lake concert.
>> Yeah.
>> Um I've been playing that all around
here in Charleston because I play at one
of the uh satellite campuses where
Brandon Lake started from.
>> Oh, wow. and your your description of uh
the I it's something different. It's not
like the like the the crowd effect.
There's something different. I'm like,
"Yes, yes, yes. Somebody knows what I'm
talking about." So, um it's it's been
really great. I wish I had your speaking
ability of sharing your testimony. Um
but what what a gift. So, it's been
really cool.
>> Yeah. Appreciate it, man. Thanks, dude.
>> Uh but thank you again for having me on.
That was incredible advice. Thank you.
>> You got it, brother. Yeah. Let us know
what happens. Okay.
>> Yeah. I will. Thank you.
>> Robert, take it easy.
>> All right.
>> All right. See you.
>> You know how crappy that is when your
cortisol is flat.
>> Well, that's why I mentioned the sleep
becomes the number one priority. I
wouldn't she think almost certain she'd
go HRT route, right?
>> It sucked because of her age. Uh but you
know, back in the day when I used to
work uh when I had my studio, I had a a
woman in there that was really good. She
did hormone testing, all that stuff. And
they she did not do HRT. She was not a
doctor in that sense. and she had a lot
of success with working with clients
with HPA access dysfunction.
>> The reason why it sucks so bad is it can
take a while. Could take three months,
sometimes six months
>> and it sucks you feel like you're doing
nothing. It's like man you're telling me
to like rest and like walk and
>> you know I'm doing one exercise like it
suck but it can take a while and it's
and it feels like crap bro. It feels
like you're dead
>> like no cortisol is dead. No energy all
day long.
>> Our next is caller is Aiden from Kansas.
Hey dude, welcome back.
>> How you doing, Aiden? What's happening?
>> Hey, good. How you guys doing?
>> Good.
>> Good man. So, give us an update. If last
time we talked, I believed you had like
a you had an asymmetry going on, uh,
some weakness on one side after an
injury, trying to balance it back out.
>> Yeah. Um, so, you know, we, um, ran
through a bunch of different ideas on
what it could be, and we really weren't
sure for a while. So, I just said,
"Screw it." I got the MRI.
Um, so I'll read my, uh, update for you
guys. So, I did run map symmetry you
guys sent over. That was great. I do
feel like that helped out. Helped kind
of correct my form a little bit too. Uh
because I was having some issues cor
like uh with the delt wanting to take
over a little bit and just not getting
like full activation of the chest. Um
after our last call, I got an MRI. Um
the big finding was I do have uh so I
have some pretty bad stenosis in the C6
C7 vertebrae. Uh so they said it's uh
actually caused by a little bit of bone
bone spurring going on. Um and so the
only real solution is uh just PT. Um
maybe looking into some other ways to
you know get the inflammation down a
little bit. Um surgery. I definitely I
don't want to do that if I don't have to
do that. Um I I don't know. I still
think there had to be some kind of
postviral component that kind of caused
all of this cuz
>> the timing was crazy. like pretty much
started right after I was, you know,
dead ill for about 5 weeks. Um, I think
over the past, you know, few weeks
though, it seems like things have kind
of calmed down a little bit. So, I'm not
getting as many, you know, zaps,
tingles, you know, that weirdness going
on. Um, my biggest questions are just
kind of, you know, where to go from
here. Uh, because I feel pretty good. I
want to, you know, progress towards
getting back to, um, you know, heavy
lifting. I kind of I miss being able to,
you know, be intense with exercise.
because I feel like it's kind of it was
an outlet for me, especially, you know,
like heavy lifting, deadlift, squat,
bench, all that stuff. Um, and I just
have been avoiding it for so long. I
want to kind of figure out what my path
is to get back to it.
>> Yeah, man. So, um, uh, actually not bad
news because I remember you had mono if
I'm not if I recall. Okay.
>> And we were a little worried that there
might be something going on, uh, that it
was connected to it. Um, do you know how
bad the stenosis was?
Uh they said moderate to severe, but
like I said, I'm not really having uh
severe symptoms or anything right now.
>> I would stay let's stay in symmetry. I
don't think we should go heavy just yet.
If you're still feeling the zaps and the
tingles here and there,
>> um are you on uh I'm going to recommend
a supplement for you for inflammation.
Uh that could help if the inflam if
bringing inflammation down helps, then
the supplement I'm going to recommend
should make a difference.
>> Uh but I want to make sure you're not on
any blood thinners or any medications
that uh that Okay. So bromelain cheap
supplement
>> take it on an empty stomach uh two or
three times a day. Don't take it with
food otherwise it just is an enzyme to
break down food. So take it you know
first thing in the morning uh you know
30 minutes to an hour before you eat.
Take it in between you know breakfast
and lunch again in between lunch and
dinner.
>> Um and after a week or two see if it
makes a difference with the
inflammation. Stay in symmetry. I would
stay in symmetry um until you're like,
man, I think feel like everything's
okay, then move to the heavy lifting.
>> Uh because if the stenosis is indeed the
issue,
>> what we don't want to do uh is cause
that to flare back up.
>> I I I [clears throat] have a
recommendation for you too, just just
because I've been kind of going through
similar type of stuff uh inflammation
related and and uh myself personally and
how I feel currently right now based off
what I just did. um you know going on a
kind of a low calorie cut for a little
bit and and just kind of leaning out and
stay low for a little bit and see how
much that just brings down systemic
inflammation in your body and then
seeing how good you feel when you go
lift uh in that state. Now, here's the
drawback of that. I'm I'm nowhere
[clears throat] near as strong on my
squats and deadlifts uh in this calorie
deficit and down 10 lbs than thicker fed
me is. But I feel way better in my
lifts. And obviously that means more to
me than you know hitting some PR or
whatever like that. I mean I feel
strong. I feel good even though I don't
feel I feel strong for right now and not
relative to what I've been. And so
that's the the hard part is a guy that's
lifted heavy weight before is doing what
I'm doing is like I can't focus on what
I've done before. I just have to go off
of how I feel now. But I can't tell you
how good I feel right now um from kind
of going on that. And so maybe consider
that for a few weeks and just to play
and see how just leaning out and being
low calorie for a while to just kind of
bring the entire inflammation down in
your body if you are anything like me
where you just kind of might have this
kind of mild low level systemic
inflammation always going on and
bringing that down just makes you feel
way better. Um, okay. That's been my
personal experience right now and and uh
notice that. But again, the tough part
for someone like you is the same thing
for me,
>> which is, you know, like putting on kind
of [ __ ] weight for me on the on the
squat like messes with my head
psychologically, but I feel really good
when I'm moving the weight, you know?
>> Right. Okay.
>> So,
>> yeah. No, I can give that a shot.
>> Cool. Um, what would you say like what
would be a good metric to kind of know
like when you think like when would
everything be good enough to go back to
trying to push it a little bit like how
long would you say to give that?
>> It would all be based on your symptoms.
So, no more tingles, zaps, everything
feels balanced. I think I'm I think I'm
good. I don't I'm not having any of
those symptoms anymore. Then you can
start uh playing with, you know,
challenging the weight with the
bilateral exercises. But I would wait
because if there's still some
impingement going on, however minor,
>> pushing the weight heavy, especially
with things like squats, uh, you know,
the C6
>> C7, I mean, you could potentially cause
it to go backwards again.
>> Um, so that that would pretty that
that's basically it. It's like when you
feel like and it's it sounds like you're
coming out. Sounds like it's already
reducing
>> so you're already on the right path,
>> right? Okay. Um, yeah. No, that sounds
good. um just [clears throat] have kind
of just been confused on where to go
from here. Um had so many different, you
know, um theories on what could possibly
be going on. So I'm kind of glad to
finally have some
>> but bromelain
>> concrete evidence.
>> Yeah. Do the bromelain. Uh like I said,
two or three times a day on an empty
stomach within a week you should notice
just reduced inflammation. It's actually
quite effective.
>> Okay. Yeah. No, I can definitely give
that stuff a shot.
>> You got it, man. Thanks for calling in,
dude.
>> All right. Yeah, I appreciate it, guys.
Thank you so much.
>> You guys remember his call?
>> Yeah.
>> First time. Yeah, cuz we weren't sure
what it was after the mono.
>> Yeah, here's the thing with stenosis.
Uh, it's not uncommon.
>> No, I've had clients go completely This
is why I brought up the the systemic
inflammation thing because I think I
notice a big difference with clients
that when they're inflamed, they're like
that versus when that's all tamped down,
then it's not bothering them very much.
Soon as they get a little inflamed from
either stress, overeating, things like
that, then it all kicks up. Yeah.
>> So, physical therapy, posture, movement
stuff, of course, symmetry type things,
that's all going to make it better. And
then keeping inflammation down I think
will will help.
>> And I still I still I still veer towards
the you know the viral uh impact because
it happened after he had this really
really bad illness.
>> Yeah.
>> With mono which can influ it can affect
the nervous system. Uh it's but he's
getting better which is good. Just takes
a little time.
>> Our next caller is Clark from Oklahoma.
>> How's it going Clark?
>> How you doing Clark?
>> What's happening
>> guys? How's it going?
>> Good.
>> Good. How can we help you?
>> Uh thanks for taking my call today. I
really appreciate it. This is pretty
neat. Um, I sent you guys a novel in my
email. So, I'm going to sum it up a
little bit and give you guys just the
details. Um, so I'm I'm a pretty average
guy here. I'm 61, 240, 32 years old. Um,
I'm a landscape architect and pool
builder out here and uh I'm in the field
quite a bit. My average step count on a
on a daily basis is about 9,000. Um,
[snorts]
and uh pretty I'm out probably 12 15
hours a day. But um a little bit of
background, I lost 135 pounds when I was
a 17-year-old. I did that in about six
months, uh by doing a lot of cardio, um
in the HIT program, Insanity. I don't
know if you remember that one, but of
course we do. [laughter]
>> Yeah. Um I was doing like 45 minutes on
the elliptical and uh 3 or four miles
walking 7 to 10 miles riding a bike. Um
and then going home and doing that and
it was uh yeah, it was a lot. So, um, I
was prioritizing protein, but at the end
of the day, I lost a lot of muscle, a
lot of lot of fat, and, um, I felt
really good, but realized I'd done it
wrong and just kind of hung on, uh, to
that weight as best I could by just
staying in a deficit as much as I could.
Um, but then, uh, when I got to 2022,
you know, throughout the years, I I lost
40 plus pounds on on five different
occasions, and at this particular
moment, I'm looking at that sixth time.
And um but when I was in 2022, I got
serious about lifting weights. Um got on
a SARM stack and then I had a buddy that
uh convinced me to start testosterone
and uh eventually a little bit of NPP
there and uh yeah, just kind of felt
like a [ __ ] for doing that. Uh didn't
like how it made me feel and um so I
stopped doing that. And now at this
particular moment, I'm out of the
relationship I was when I was doing all
that and um haven't been in the gym. Uh
my living circumstances are a little
unorthodox and um just kind of lost on
what to do at this point um with working
so much and um uh yeah, things have
changed from those macros that I sent
you. Right now I'm kind of at I'm about
2,600 calories a day. Uh 220 g of
protein, 181 gram of carbs, and about 80
g of fat. I do take uh 10 to 15
milligrams creatine, 1,200 milligrams
fish oil. uh 2000 I used V vitamin D
that's about all I can really keep up
with alongside multivitamin. Uh but
yeah, I'm just kind of at a loss. My
main question was um is maps 15 my
answer with a reverse diet or what do
y'all think?
>> I do like that.
>> Yeah, dude. I do like that.
>> Are you doing a lot of other things
pretty well right now?
>> Yeah. Let me back I'm going to back you
up a [clears throat] little bit. Well,
first I want to ask you, so how long
were you on the uh the peed cycle? How
long did you do testosterone and MPPP
for?
So testosterone about two years. MPPP
was only about two months and I was only
doing 10 milligrams a week on that.
>> Okay. Did you have you had your
testosterone levels checked recently
just to see if you had any any long-term
effects?
>> So I'm actually waiting on uh Vabella to
get back to me. We did a draw two weeks
ago. So I'm waiting on my results and a
protocol to
>> Okay, good. Okay, good. You got that
covered then?
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> Yeah. Cuz sometimes that can affect Not
all usually it doesn't, but um but
sometimes it can affect testosterone
levels a little later.
>> So I'd want to see what that looks like.
So cool. So, you're already on that. So,
I want to ask you what what what was it
about cuz you've lost weight and gained
it back, you said like four or five
times.
>> Mhm. [clears throat]
>> What happens when you gain it back? Are
you at a point where you're like, I'm
done with this. This is too much. Is it
just uh you know, I'm tired of
>> Go ahead.
>> I think I just kind of fall off. Uh like
discipline is not the issue. I can get
pretty locked in and and stay on. Uh,
but I things just seem to change so
often that I'm I'm just having a hard
time keeping up with that and sticking
to whatever protocol I was on at that
time.
>> You seem very all or nothing.
>> Yeah, that's what I was going to say.
>> You seem very dialed. You seem like the
person who's like dialed, doing all the
things, taking the supplements, training
hard, and then you swing the other way
pretty hard.
>> Yeah. trying to and at this point at 32
I'm trying to get rid of that all in or
all out mentality and just try to have
something that's more manageable
honestly.
>> That's why I like the 15
recommendations.
>> The way to fix that is not to look at
the out side of it. So typically what
happens when people do [clears throat]
that which is real common dude this is
like this like most people uh when they
go through the cycle is they focus on
the why they stopped and they're like
man I got to just if I could just not do
the thing where I jump off the wagon I'm
good. But what they don't realize is the
allin is what causes the all out.
>> Yeah.
>> Okay. So, so, so that's the beginning of
this. The beginning of the the beginning
of getting you not to to to to stop the
allout part is to solve the all-in part.
>> And so the all-in part has got to look
like something that's very sustainable
long-term. I'm not rushing things. You
know, I'm just a guy that works out. I'm
just a guy that eats healthy and
whatever happens happens. Kind of the
attitude uh that you got to have with
both on the both on the lifting part and
the nutritional level. So I like
whenever whenever um you know I'm like
not my ideal eating and I've allowed
drinks and ice cream to come in which I
allow those to eb and flow in my diet
and I know that
>> I don't go anymore from like the guy who
was having you know handful of whiskey
glasses and scoops of ice cream through
the week to all a sudden like dialed
weighing my food measuring every it's
like I'm just going to stop the whiskey
drinking. You know what I'm saying? And
it's like, no, I'm only going to let
myself have ice cream once every couple
weeks. It's like just instead of going
one hard swing the other way, like take
assess your your eating habit. You're
good on protein, which is that's the
main thing we always focus on. Try your
best to always eat whole foods. You
probably have a couple offenders in
there like everybody does that you have
either a sweet tooth or you like the
whatever the stuff, whatever it is,
right? And and and and make a commitment
to less of this or no more of that. But
don't do it all right away because
you're all said motivated right now. And
just stack on that and and like, oh man,
[clears throat] I haven't had a I
haven't had a drink in months now. Okay,
cool. That's no longer part of my life.
Now, let's try the next level. I'm going
to get better about doing this thing,
right? Like do that both with the way
you train and the way you eat. And that
will really help with the real hard
swings on and off.
>> Yeah. Now, Clark, because of your
activity, uh because you're pretty
active with your job,
>> uh and the [clears throat] history with
all um you know, I definitely would like
to reverse diet you with strength
training,
>> uh but I know because of your past,
you're probably apprehensive, uh because
you've been overweight in the past, so
and that can be a real [clears throat]
fear. Is that resonating? Do you feel a
little bit like, oh man, if I reverse,
I'm a little worried. Yeah, a lot of
that um hesitation and a lot of the
all-in motivation is just from having
severe body dysmorphia. I mean, I grew
up a big kid. I've always had high
endurance, high stamina. I've been
landscaping since I was 10. Um so, it's
just yeah, that that's the hindrance
there is just wanting to feel good and
look good and going all in and then
getting burnt out or just kind of
falling off. Okay.
>> With uh too many changes. And to uh to
your point, Adam, I I just I gave up um
drinking pretty recently, probably
within the last month or so, and THC as
well.
>> Good for you.
>> Um appreciate that. Um I also bought a
cafe, so I'm kind of I'm around sweet
tooth food all the time and and good
drinks and uh so that's that reates.
That's been fun to manage. [laughter]
Yeah.
>> Well, so that's a perfect example,
right? around so much of that and it
probably when you're off you allow it
all to come in like crazy and then when
you're on you restrict completely like
don't let it look like that look like
like all like I'm I'm like comparing
myself like kind of week over week and
it's like hey this week I want to be a
little bit better than I was last week
>> diet-wise and training wise it's like
not I'm not going to go from I was I'm
way off the wagon now I'm dialed it's
like and that and I was that guy and
that caused these swings back and forth
where now I never I never get too out of
bounds. You know what I'm saying? like
and it's because I don't I don't go so
hard in either direction. And so I think
that'll really help is just make those
small.
>> Clark, I I like where you're at. I like
the that you you you've stopped the THC
and the alcohol. I like your approach.
Not that you need to like not that Oh,
I'm so glad you stopped doing those
things, but rather it sounds like you're
trying to make the right steps
>> to move in the right direction. You
mentioned the body dysmorphia. I'm so
glad you're honest with about that
because that's a difficult one to work
through. Um how how bad do you want to
solve this forever? In other words, is
this something like look, yeah, I want
to get good results, but I just don't
want to deal with this anymore. I don't
want to do the up and down. Like, how
>> I don't want to deal with it. Okay. It's
it it's exhausting. I mean, it's been my
entire life. So,
>> yeah. I just want to get it manageable
and just feel good, be healthy, and and
go into this next stage of my life,
trying to grow this cafe.
>> Clark, Clark,
>> uh, healthy
>> Clark, nine nine months to a year of
working with a coach. We'll do that with
you.
>> I'd love to see that.
>> Like, you're you're in the perfect
place. It it would be it would be a good
nine months, maybe a year of working
with someone on a monthly basis, having
them guide you through. You're
[clears throat] going to have ups and
downs, guarantee it.
>> Uh but to have somebody there guide you
that you can go with that you can
message, it's going to pull you back,
push you,
>> um kind of help you stay accountable,
also prevent you from doing the all-in
thing that tends to cause the allout
>> uh on the other end. Yeah.
>> Uh that plus you're, you know, you're
getting your hormones checked, which
would be great to see where that's at.
>> Uh this is the perfect time to do it. Um
if that's something you want, I can have
somebody [clears throat] call you. But I
I I I think you're looking about 9
months to a year of just kind of working
with someone monthly and then you'll
solve it, dude.
>> Change your life forever.
>> Yeah.
>> Yeah. I I absolutely agree with that and
I'm thinking about that pretty much
constantly. Um I actually just yesterday
learned that my uh landscaping and pool
building career is going to come to an
end pretty soon. So uh on a financial
side of things, a coach is probably not
going to be uh as easy for me to do at
this point. But um I do have the NASM
training course. So I was going to dive
into that and just try to self teach as
much as I possibly could and uh talk to
my friends who are in the health space
uh and see if they could help me out
holding me accountable these days.
>> So that's good. It's different. Okay.
Coaching is different. It's very
individualized. I don't we don't talk
about this on the show. Uh but we have
something called concierge coaching
>> which is far it's a much much less of an
investment. uh and you're meeting with
someone monthly and it is a mind it is a
mind pump coach and they are guiding you
through the process. Um, but this is
kind of like when strike when the irons
hop. Like you've got these big life
changes.
>> It's momentum based. This would be the
time to do something like that and you
wouldn't have to deal with it
>> uh later on. But like I said, if that's
something I can you look at it, I guess
someone call you, you talk with them.
>> Um, but I do like
>> I would love that. I appreciate it.
>> Okay. I'll have someone reach out to
you. But I do like a reverse diet for
you. I do like a MAF 15 protocol. I
think it's going to be kind of this like
stay consistent type of deal, not rush
the process too much. Um, and then and
then, you know, be able to prevent those
those setbacks. And like I said, you're
looking at about 9 months to a year uh
of kind of working on this before it
starts.
>> You're in a good spot, dude. We can
solve this right now. And then it it'll
be forever. So
>> that's encouraging. I appreciate that.
And I I do wind up at the gym most days
just to take a shower. So 15 20 minutes
to uh to, you know, something else. Not
a big deal.
>> Perfect.
>> Uh just know just knowing what that is
and um is the big part. But
>> I mean, as far as a reverse diet goes, I
mean, where do you guys think I should
be at calorie- wise if I'm doing all
this activity? I mean, 2600 to 2,800
seems to keep me pretty energetic
throughout the day, but I definitely do
fall off at a certain point.
>> Yeah, you eventually should be able to
get up over 3,000. You should be all the
way up to 32, 3,500, but we
incrementally get up there. That's
right. And so the goal would look like,
>> you know, two to two to 400 calorie bump
and then you stay there for a while.
>> Weight should stay about the same on the
scale. You should feel good. Strength,
everything like that. Once that's been
stabilized for a week or two, go up
another two or 400 and just keep doing
that incrementally, you know.
>> Okay.
>> And and uh easiest way to do that I like
to do is either uh two more ounces of
the meat that I'm already eating or
adding one more small meal. Whichever
one's more convenient. People tend to
>> do better. Right. My opinion with just
adding a larger portion of the the meat
they're having or a fattier cut. If
you're somebody who was eating chicken
breast, they go to chicken thighs. If
you're somebody who was eating a, you
know, leaner steak, enjoy a ribeye, you
know, those are easy ways to get an
additional,
>> you know, 2 to 400 calories. Um or you
can
>> I definitely do the I definitely do the
chicken thigh um after [clears throat] I
heard you preach about that [laughter]
and it tastes so much better. So, I
don't mind doing that.
>> Yeah. And chuck roast is my go-to just
cuz it's easy to get a hold of and uh
but yeah. No, that's yeah, good point. I
mean, 3 meals is pretty easy for me to
manage. It's hard to do anymore than
that. Uh even when I was doing like my
testosterone and NPP, that was I mean I
was down about like 3,500 calories and I
was like, "Oh my god, I can't eat
anymore." So
>> good.
>> Yeah,
>> that's it, man. You'll get some you'll
get body comp through that process. So
you you'll kind of get leaner, build a
little muscle.
>> No big swings on the scales.
And I saw I saw your numbers before.
You're a strong guy. So like you you
lift like you hit those lifts like that
and you stay strong in 15 and you feed
yourself appropriately, you'll have body
comp.
>> Yeah. Yeah, you will.
>> Absolutely. Thank you guys.
>> You got it, man.
>> Um bicep tendinitis. What's your what's
your go-to move for that?
>> Oh, yeah. Deep deep bicep stretches.
>> Okay. So really really long static
stretching for the bicep uh tendon. Uh
it's actually not a hard fix. And then
with the other hand, you can rub on it.
>> Those rifle flips. Yeah, rifle flips.
You can look that up on our YouTube
channel.
>> Um, we do those several times a day and
it tends to take care of it. [snorts]
>> Awesome. Okay.
>> Yeah, you got it, man. Thanks, Clark.
I'll have someone call you.
>> Okay, sounds good. Thank you guys so
much.
>> Easy, man.
>> He's He's in a good place.
>> He is. He is. Um, and you're if we can
get through the psychological part,
that'll be challenging.
>> That's why the co That's why the coach
is so important. It's not about the
information.
>> Yeah. Yeah.
>> That's valuable. The information is
valuable, but it's about the coaching.
That's what we have to convey.
>> It's about the coaching through the
process.
>> It helps a lot.
>> And I know it's an investment and for
people listening, it is an investment,
but I'll tell you what, of all the
investments you can make when it comes
to getting results, nothing comes close.
>> If you commit and you do it right and
you say 9 months to a year, you'll never
have to do it again.
>> I mean, the tools that you'll get from
that um will last you for the rest of
your life. So, it's it it that's why it
is like an investment. And it's not it
isn't cheap to do that for 9 months to a
year. But, you know, if you think about
it like anything else that you've
invested in yourself, um, it and what
better than the thing that's going to be
help you control your health.
>> That's right.
>> That's right. Look, if you like the
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You guys want to guess?
>> Stop doing the three sets of 12 and do
this instead. Uh, with that intro, my
guess is you're going to tell people to
change the rep range up to Yeah. 5x5 or
low rep range.
>> Do you guys remember when you're going?
>> Yeah. So, um, often times we get stuck
in like a set count and a rep count or a
range