Video summary
In this lecture focusing on 1 Corinthians chapter seven, the Apostle Paul addresses a series of practical questions submitted by the believers in Corinth regarding marriage, singleness, and sexual conduct. The chapter begins by affirming that while celibacy is ideal, it is not a command for everyone; rather, due to the high prevalence of sexual immorality in their culture, remaining married is often better than burning with uncontrolled passion. Paul emphasizes that physical intimacy is reserved exclusively for the marriage covenant and serves as a vital expression of mutual affection and love between spouses. He instructs husbands and wives not to deprive one another sexually unless they mutually agree to abstain temporarily for the purpose of prayer or fasting, clarifying that this advice is given as a concession based on wisdom rather than a strict commandment.
The text further explores the distinct gifts of singleness and marriage, noting that Paul himself was single but acknowledging that both states are valuable gifts from God with specific graces attached to each season of life. A significant portion of the lecture addresses the complex issue of divorce within marriages where both spouses are believers, establishing that divorce is not part of God's original design as seen in Genesis. However, Paul identifies specific grounds for separation, including sexual immorality and desertion by an unbelieving spouse. The lecture also tackles the difficult reality of abuse, explaining that while the Bible does not explicitly list abuse as a ground for divorce, wisdom dictates that if reconciliation efforts fail and safety is compromised after counseling, separating from an abusive covenant is the necessary course of action to preserve one's well-being.
Finally, Paul provides guidance for marriages where one spouse has converted to faith while the other remains an unbeliever. He teaches that in such mixed-faith households, the believing spouse sanctifies the home and their children through their faith, encouraging them to remain married if the unbelieving partner is willing to stay. If the unbelieving spouse chooses to leave, the believer is not under bondage and is free to separate. Beyond marriage, Paul extends this principle of contentment to all areas of life, urging believers to remain faithful in the specific calling or circumstance where God has placed them, whether that be slavery, freedom, or social status. He reminds the congregation that while they belong to Christ who bought them with a price, they should honor earthly authorities but ultimately serve God faithfully in whatever season and station He has assigned them.
Read the full video transcript
Okay, recording has started.
All right, welcome to our next lecture.
Uh, in the course of 1 and 2
Corinthians, we are in chapter number
seven. So, in these next two lectures,
the next two hours, we will go chapter
number seven and 8. Okay. So, chapter
number seven is a bit long. Uh, number
eight is a bit short. So, we will try
and adjust accordingly. Right? So we'll
try and complete chapter number seven in
this lecture but it might most likely go
next hour. So um chapter number seven.
So so far what have we been studying in
1 Corinthians? Paul is writing to the
church in Corinth, right? It is the
church has multiple problems. He's
writing because of multiple issues
reports that he's hearing. One they are
divided. They're making groups. They are
having
We can't hear you. Uh,
can you hear me?
Check, check, check.
Uh, just a second. Yeah, I think people
can hear me.
Yeah, maybe you'll just have to check
your Yeah, it's it's it's working. Okay.
Check your network. All right. So till
chapter 6 uh they've been having issues
they've been quarreling they're going to
local judges. So there are many many
issues right now in chapter number seven
uh Paul now uh addresses certain
questions. So this book of first
Corinthians Paul is first writing about
the issues problems but also this book
answers questions that the believers
had. So is it right to ask questions in
church? Yes, you can ask questions. They
also add questions, right? On different
issues and Paul gives them an answer to
these different issues. Right? So let's
read 1 Corinthians chapter 7 verse 1
to6. Shall we start in person? In person
first then we'll go online the next
passage. Uh verse 1 to6. Oh there's no
wire only. Is that ah yeah yeah okay. 1
Corinthians 7 verse 1-6.
>> Now for the matters you you wrote about
it is good for a man not to have sexual
relations with a woman. But uh since
sexual immorality is occurring each man
should have a sexual relations with his
own wife and each woman with her own
husband. The husband should fulfill his
uh marital duty to his wife and likewise
the wife to her husband. The wife does
not have authority over her own body but
eelss uh it to her husband. In the same
way the husband does not have authority
over his own body but yields it to his
wife. Do not uh deprive each other
except uh perhaps but sorry by mutual
consent consent and for a time so that
you may devote yourselves to prayer then
come together again so so that Satan
will not tempt you because of your lack
of self-control. I say this as a
concession not as a command.
>> Okay. So chapter 7 it starts with verse
one right now concerning things which
you wrote to me. So they have written to
him certain questions certain issues.
Why? Because uh in the Corinthian
culture there were a lot of they were
facing a lot of things and so they had
lot of questions on how do we as a
church how do we as believers need to
walk rightly in the midst of this
culture. And in this chapter he's going
to they had questions about marriage,
about sex, about singleness
and all these issues right in this one
chapter is going to talk about marriage
the role of sex um uh singleness
uh divorce everything marriage and
singleness. So if you want to get a
deeper understanding of marriage and
singleness and the role of sex chapter
number seven is your answer. Okay. So
let's start now concerning the things
which you wrote to me. It is good for a
man not to have sexual relationship with
a woman or in the NKJV it says it it is
good for a man not to touch a woman.
That word touch simply means sexual.
Right? So then so what he says is
the act of physical sex is only for
marriage.
Right? So verse 2 and three,
nevertheless, because of sexual
immorality. So what does he mean by
because of sexual immorality? Meaning in
the culture in Corinth, there was a high
level of sexual immorality. What does
that mean? People were having sexual
relationships outside of marriage.
Homosexuality, man with man, woman with
woman, uh man with woman, outside of
marriage, prostitution. And so they they
were living in a culture where sexual
immorality was very high, right? They
had all sorts of beliefs. So Paul is
saying the act of physical sex is only
for married man and woman
between them where there is a covenant.
So verse 2 and three, let each woman
have their own husband. Sorry. Uh,
nevertheless, because of sexual, let
each man have his own wife. Each man
have his own wife, and let each uh woman
have have her own husband. Verse three,
let the husband render to his wife the
affection due to her, and likewise also
the wife to her husband. That word
render. So, one of the ways in marriage
we show affection. There are many ways
you can show affection. One of the ways
is through physical sex. Right? In the
marriage covenant, how do we show
affection? The word affection simply
means showing kindness or or an act of
love.
Render. The word render simply means to
to give what you owe to pay a debt,
right? And so verse 2 and three it's
talking about physical sex is only when
there is a marriage covenant. And one of
the ways you show affection for each
other, one of the ways you love each
other is through sex, right? So uh this
is not a PG-13. We're going to talk a
lot about this. So you know you you need
to try and like follow along because you
need to understand it in its prof proper
context. Right? So that word render in
verse three simply means to give what is
owed. So in marriage covenant one of the
things you give your spouse is physical
sex is all of us have these desires. One
of the ways we fulfill those desires and
receive those desires is through
physical sex. One of the ways we show
affection. Are we understanding right
now? Verse four. Verse four, it says,
"The wife does not have authority over
her her own body,
but the husband does. And likewise, the
husband does not have authority over his
own body, but the wife does." So in
expressing our affection to each other,
our spouse, our spouse's body, we have
there is mutual authority. Meaning my
body does not belong to me. It belongs
to my wife. Her body does not belong to
her. Belongs to the husband. Are we
understanding? My body is not only for
me. My body is also for my spouse.
They have authority. When I'm in a
marriage covenant, my body also belongs
to my wife. Her body also belongs to the
husband. Amen. Verse five and six.
Nobody will say amen because we're
talking about we're talking about
marriage and sex. But it's okay. We can
say amen because it's written in the
Bible, right? It is pure. It is holy.
Right? So don't be don't think about
these passages like oh this is very
awkward. No, it's part of the Bible.
Very important. It's part about
marriage. It's not about marriage. It's
not about physical sex. Very very
important. So it's okay to say amen
boldly also. Okay. Verse five and six.
Verse five and six. Verse five and six.
I don't want all of you to be awkward.
Okay. That's why. Verse 5 and 6. Do not
deprive one another except with consent
for a time that you may give yourselves
to fasting and prayer and come together
again so that Satan does not tempt you
because of your lack of self-control.
But I say this as a concession not a
command. So verse six, very interesting
what Paul writes. I say this as a
concession meaning I'm giving an advice.
This is not a commandment. I'm giving
instruction. Okay? And you will see in
this chapter Paul giving instructions,
not direct commands. He's giving a
suggestion. He's given instruction that
will help married people. And in verse
five, he gives the instruction. Um it
says the husband and wife should not use
sex to abstain from each other. Right?
So for example, the husband and wife
should not withhold themselves.
Withhold. abstain unless it is mutually
agreed.
Okay. For a certain season, let's pause
on this activity of physical sex or
affection. Why? So that we can focus
maybe on prayer, fasting or you can also
use this as you know practical things.
For example, if one of the spouse is
going through a very very difficult or
very very hectic or busy season, unless
they both mutually agree, let's abstain.
But it has to come from both. You cannot
use, you can't control your spouse by
abstaining, saying no, I will not give
you affection. I will not give you love.
I will not um I will not express. You
cannot control sex for yourself. It has
to come from both. It's talking about
communication. Are we understanding?
Right? So it needs to come from mute
from both. It's a mutual decision. Not
one person decides this activity of sex
or this this whole uh showing of
affection. It has to come from both. And
if both of them feel for a season that
you know we need to pause that's okay as
long as it is coming from both so that
both are at peace both are not guessing
both are at peace. So this is talking
about the importance of communication
between the spouse, between each other,
right? And then he says this is a choice
that couples can make. It is not a
commandment. Paul is not saying you have
to pause
every season. No, he's just giving this
as an instruction. It's it's from a
place of wisdom. It's from a place uh
he's he's giving. So it's not like a
commandment. Thus says the Lord, you
have to pause. No, it's an instruction
because he realizes that sometimes there
are seasons in life where either one of
the spouse or both are very busy or they
need to focus focus on certain things
and one of the things that he says is
fasting and prayer. Maybe there is a
season where we have to focus on God
and so then let us pause. Right? Are you
understanding? Right? That's what
fasting means by the way. When you fast,
you actually give up everything else,
not only food, everything, your phone.
So that's what it's saying. When you
fast, the the act of biblical fasting is
not limited to only food, right? Yes, we
do. Today's Friday, right? All of you
are fasting. So it makes so much sense.
So every every Friday the inerson
students, they have fasting and prayer.
So uh it's not only abstaining from
food, it's everything, our phone, our
priorities.
And so we pause everything else and give
our focus to God. But it needs to come
from both. So verse 1 to six, what is it
talking about? About marriage, the
importance of sex in marriage. Right?
That's verse 1-6. Shall we go to the
next section? Yeah. Verse 7-9. Maybe
someone online can read verse 7-9. 1
Corinthians chapter 7 verse 7-9.
Someone online.
>> For I wish that all men were even as I
am myself.
But each one has his own gift from God.
One in this manner and another in that.
But I say the unmarried and to the
widows. It is good for them if they
remain even as I am. But if they cannot
exercise self-control, let them marry.
For it is better to marry than to burn
with passion. Or if they cannot exercise
self-control,
let them marry. For it is better to
marry than to burn with passion.
>> Burn with passion. Yeah. Thank you.
Thank you, Maui. Um, so 1 Corinthians
7:9
is talking about singleness and marriage
being a gift. Okay. Sometimes you know
we can look at people who are single and
we can look down upon them. Oh why are
they not married and we have all these
opinions but Paul is saying both
singleness and being married is a gift.
So let's read verse 7. For I wish that
all men were even as I myself.
So what uh in this passage we get a very
very clear answer that Paul was actually
single. Okay. Now church history and lot
of biblical scholars uh they are a
little divided on Paul's marital status.
Some say that Paul was single all his
life. Some say that Paul because he was
a Pharisee and for Pharisees marriage
was a very very big thing. So some say
that Paul was married but he became a
widow meaning his spouse died when he
was young. So regardless
where he's writing he is single and
we'll read that. So I wish all men were
even as myself that each one has his own
gift from God one in this matter manner
and another in that. But I say to the
unmarried and to the widows, it is good
for them if they remain even as I am.
So that means he's saying he's saying to
all the single men and the widows to
remain unmarried even as I am. This is
the clearest passage when where Paul
says I am single like you. But what's
the point? The point is verse seven. But
each one has his own gift from God. One
in this manner and another in that.
Meaning both singleness and marriage is
a gift. Both are valuable in the sight
of God. Whether you're single, whether
you're married. Now whether you're
single and you want to get married, yes,
that's a good desire. But when you are
single, when you are married, both is a
gift from God. So we shouldn't like we
often do in culture and especially
Indian tradition. We look at single
people widows very differently. We
shouldn't. It's a gift from God. God
gives a grace. There's a grace of God
that is upon their life for that season
for that for that role. Whether they are
single or whether they are married. Both
marriage and singleness are gifts from
God with grace given for each.
Are we understanding? And um neither
makes one person greater. Or just
because I'm married doesn't mean I'm
greater. Just because you're single
doesn't mean you're greater. Are we
understanding? Right. So and then
uh verse 9 it talks about a practical
issue.
If a young if a single person is burning
for sexual intimacy, it is better for
him to get married so that he can
fulfill his sexual desire or or that
burning passion in marriage. It's a
practical thing. Now very important
listen to me very very carefully. This
does not mean
being single or getting married to
fulfill sexual desire should be the main
thing
because marriage is not only about
fulfilling sexual desires. Marriage is
so much more. Marriage is a covenant
from God. In fact, the first
relationship that God had on God put on
earth is marriage. Adam and Eve. So
important.
He brought a companion.
Eve was a companion. So you should not
use this verse
and think, "Oh, I'll get married so that
I can just fulfill my sexual desire." It
is yes to a certain degree. Yes, that is
one part. But you cannot make that your
main thing. Marriage is so much bigger
than that one part.
So we can't use this verse. Uh it's
actually a caution.
When you teach these passages, you know,
sometimes the worst thing you can do is
isolate passages, isolate verses and
then make it your doctrine. Oh, 1
Corinthians 7, it says this, so it'll be
my mission. No, what does the rest of
the Bible say about marriage,
right? So, we need to understand these
verses in the full context of scripture.
Right? So, two main things. This verse
cannot be used to for an excuse to get
married only, right? You have to think
of other things. Did God tell you? Is
God leading you to this? Is God because
it's a marriage covenant, right? And so,
uh, and and second, a person struggling
with sexual sin should not assume that
marriage will automatically solve this.
Just because you're struggling in this
issue, you should not assume that when
you get married, ah all my issues of
sexual desires or or you know sexual
drive or sexual uh addiction will will
just disappear.
Marriage doesn't solve for that. It's
one of the ways you express your
affection and your love. Are we
understanding? So in this passage, it
talks about
both singleness and a and marriage being
a gift. And if a young person is
struggling in this area, one of the ways
you can fulfill it is by getting
married. But we do not make that as an
excuse.
Are we understanding? Yeah. So that is
verse 7 to 9. Now let's go to the next
section verse 10 to 16. So in the first
section what did we see about the
importance of sex in marriage and then
there is mutual you know agreement. Then
verse 7 to9 is about both singleness and
marriage being a gift and how um uh you
know if you are struggling in this area
one of the ways you can fulfill it is by
getting married but we don't use that as
an excuse. Now let's go to the next
section 1 Corinthians chapter 7 verse
10- 16 verse 10- 16 verse 10 to 16 can
we read that in person please? Yeah.
Anyone? 1 Corinthians 7:10-16.
>> Now to the married I command, yet not I
but the Lord. A wife is not to depart
from her husband. But even if she does
depart, let her remain unmarried or be
reconciled to her husband. And a husband
uh is not to uh divorce his wife. But to
the rest I I not the Lord say if any
brother has a wife who does not believe
and she is uh willing to live with him
let him not divorce her. And a woman who
has a husband who does not believe if he
is willing to live with her let her not
divorce him. For for the unbelieving
husband is sanctified by the wife and
the unbelieving wife is sanctified by
the husband. Otherwise your children
would be unclean but now they are holy.
But if a unbeliever um unbeliever
departs let them depart. A brother or a
sister is not under bond bondage in such
cases. But God uh has called us to
peace. Uh for how do you know oh wife
whether you will save your husband or
how do you know oh husband whether you
will save your wife.
>> Okay. So this section verse 10- 16 is
talking about staying in marriage.
Staying in marriage. So there are two
scenarios. Verse 10 and 11 talks about
both spouse. See in the Corinthian
church what was happening is because so
many of them were coming from different
beliefs, different faith. There are
cases where one of them came to faith
and they're coming to church. So they're
asking this question, Paul, what do we
do? one of us is in faith, other one is
not. There are cases where both of us
are in faith. So verse 10 and 11 is
talking about when both the spouse are
believers. Okay, verse 10 and 11 here
Paul is specifically speaking to
marriages where both the husband and the
wife are believers. And what does he say
in verse 10? I command sorry not to to
the married I command yet not I but the
Lord meaning this is a command from God
not just me. This is what what he says.
A wife is not to depart from her
husband. But even if she does depart,
let her remain unmarried. Meaning don't
get married again. Let her remain
unmarried or be reconciled to her
husband. Meaning come back to her
husband. And it the ending of verse 11
and a husband is not to divorce his
wife. So this is God's desire for a
godly marriage. Divorce is not God's
plan.
Now what are the grounds for divorce?
Okay, I'll I'll before answering that
question, let's turn to Matthew chapter
19
just as little side quest because Jesus
also talks about this. Matthew chapter
19 3-6. Matthew 19 very interesting
passage. Matthew chapter 19:3-6.
I'll read it. Matthew 19:3-6. The
Pharisees also came to him, testing him
and saying to him, "Is it lawful for a
man to divorce his wife for just any
reason?" See, in Jesus's day, uh, people
would use any reason to divorce,
not just sexual immorality. So the
Pharisees are coming to test him because
different rabbis had different ideas.
So now Jesus was a rabbi. Jes he was a
teacher of the law. And so the Pharisees
came to him testing him and said, "Is it
lawful for a man to divorce his wife for
just any reason?" Verse three, they're
asking a question. What's the question?
Divorce. Look at how Jesus answers in
verse four. Verse four. Then he answered
and said to him, "Have you not read?
Have you not read Genesis?"
What is the question about divorce? How
is Jesus answering? He doesn't answer
about divorce. He's talking about
marriage. You see how God to Jesus how
important marriage was. Question was
about divorce. But Jesus is focusing on
marriage. Verse four, he answered and
said to them, "Have you not read that he
who made them at the beginning made them
male and female?" Talk about Adam and
Eve, male and female. And said, "For
this reason a man shall not man shall
leave his not shall not shall leave
shall leave his father and mother and be
joined to his wife." So Adam and Eve
were not just friends. If anyone asks
what is Eve to Adam, they were a
marriage. It was a covenant. Okay? Um
and be joined to his wife and the two
shall become one flesh. So then they are
no longer two but one flesh. Look at how
it ends. Verse six. Therefore, what God
has joined together, let not man
separate. See, as far as God is
concerned, this is his desire for a
Christian marriage that we should not
separate. We should not divorce. But
when you go to verse 9
um uh or I think it's yeah verse 9 there
are two grounds for divorce
there are two reasons one when one of
the spouses commits sexual immorality
Jesus answers so Jesus answers the
Pharisees but he comes later first he
says have you not read why because Jesus
was in the beginning he also was there
father son holy spirit making Adam and
Eve he knows
And he was telling, "Have you not read?
This is what is important to me. Your
question is about divorce. I will answer
it. But first, have you not read?
Focuses on marriage." So God's desire
for marriage is not divorce. It's not
separation. But there are grounds even
in Christian marriage for divorce.
Number one, sexual immorality. If there
is a clear violation of sexual
immorality between either one of the
spouse, the other spouse has it is right
in front of God and man to separate
sexual immorality. Number two, if the
spouse leaves deserts the other spouse,
we will read that later in this passage
in 1 Corinthians. When the spouse leaves
or deserts or leaves the home or leaves
the spouse that is also a reason.
Are we understanding? Two reasons. Now
question what about abuse?
What about abuse? It may not be sexual
in nature.
What about abuse?
I'd like to hear from you. You will have
all these questions in church by the
way. What about abuse? So see basically
between the husband and the wife it's
not sexual immorality but there is abuse
meaning there is physical abuse you know
there there's beating or there is words
there is oppression there is control
what do you guys think
it's not a trick question I'm just
asking what do you honestly think or
online what do you guys think
misuse what should they do what should
the spouses do husband and wife if one
of them feels that there is abuse in the
marriage because Bible is very clear no
sexual immorality and desertation
separation
>> they should separate for a while
they should separate for some time until
the issue is resolved
>> good very nice so Juliana says they
should separate for a file and sort
their issues. Okay, very nice. Any other
any anyone else?
So the answer to this is it needs to
come from a place of wisdom.
Like how Juliana said, she she's
answering from a place of wisdom. They
should separate and every marriage is
unique.
So there may be counseling required.
There may be um you know but if I will
go on to say this and and pastor in one
of the sermon series he he talks about
this I can link that to you. If for a if
even after a while
there is no change what is the marriage
covenant? Marriage covenant is called a
place of blessing. It's called a place
where God's hand is over it. And if
someone is violating that covenant, if
there is no change even after a
prolonged period of counseling trying to
correct, then the best thing to do is to
separate yourself because marriage
covenant is not a place for abuse.
Marriage covenant is supposed to be a
place where I enjoy God's blessing on my
life.
Are we understanding? So the to answer
this question between two believers who
are husband and wife yes one sexual
immorality desertation number three if
there is abuse we try to reconcile we
try to counsel we try to give wisdom to
them we try to get help we try to give
them help but if there is no change if
it is going on and on and on and if this
spouse is suffering from the other
spouse because of abuse It could be
sexual, it could be emotional, it could
be physical, it could be any sort of
abuse.
They are not safe. This is not God's
plan for them. They are actually in
bondage.
And then the best thing they can do is
after a lot of prayer and wisdom and
prayer and and and counseling and
mentorship, the best thing they can do
is to separate, take away, come out of
the covenant. Are we understanding? So
there is no right and wrong. There's no
black and white is what I'm trying to
say. Okay. So verse 10 and 11 is talking
about spouses that are believers. Verse
12 onwards is talking about um so Paul
writes in verse 12, but to the rest I
say he's talking about when one of the
spouses are unbelievers. So verse 10 and
11 is talking to believers who are in a
marriage covenant. Verse 12 onwards is
talking about the rest. Who are the
rest? when one of the spouse is an
unbeliever and this is what he says to
the rest uh to the rest I not the lord
say so he's saying this is my
instruction to you this is not a
commandment this is my instruction now
when Paul says this is from me and not
the lord how do we read this
how do we because Paul is saying right
this is an instruction not a command
but 2 Timothy 3:16 It says all scripture
is God breathed inspired.
So we can take every scripture, every
verse for us even though Paul says this
is from me but it is inspired from the
Holy Spirit. That's how we read these
these passages. Okay. But I but to the
rest I nor the Lord say if any brother
has a wife who does not believe and she
is willing to live with him, let him not
divorce her. very clear. If you are
married to an unbeliever but they are
willing to be in marriage, stay married.
Don't divorce. If the wife is is uh
living with a unbeliever husband and the
husband is willing to accept you are
from the Christian faith, stay married.
Clear instruction. Okay. Now look at
verse 14. Very interesting verse 14.
Very very interesting.
For the unbelieving husband is
sanctified by the wife and the
unbelieving wife is sanctified by the
husband otherwise your children would be
unclean but now they are holy. Ah
amazing.
So Paul is saying because you're a
believer you're the only believer in
your home your spouse is sanctified.
God has his favor, his blessing upon the
home because one of you is a believer.
That does not mean he gets salvation.
No, salvation comes from the heart. But
because you are a believer, your home is
sanctified.
So this is a great encouragement to
people who are in marriage, they come to
faith. One of them have come to faith.
This is a great encouragement. We should
tell them stay strong.
in the faith. Keep believing. Keep
praying because your faith is
sanctifying your home. It's sanctifying
your spouse, sanctifying your children.
God's blessing, God's hand, God's favor
is on the home because one of the spouse
has faith. Are we understanding? Very
very interesting. Verse 14, right? Verse
15. But if the unbeliever departs, let
him depart. So if they are willing stay
married. If they depart
you can separate. If the unbeliever is
not accepting that you are a believing
spouse in faith if they depart they say
I don't want this. You can separate.
That's what verse 15 is saying. But if
the unbeliever departs, let him depart.
A brother or a sister is not under
bondage in such cases. But God has
called us to peace. For how do you know
oh wife whether you will save your
husband or how do you know oh husband
whether you will save your wife. So you
shouldn't you know if they depart or if
they don't agree you shouldn't have that
it should not be on you for their
salvation. Don't be under bondage. Don't
carry that burden. Salvation is always
from the heart. They need to make the
choice. Right? So if they stay stay
married but if they depart you can
separate. Now again another caution we
should not use this passage for single
people to say I can get married to an
unbeliever.
Why? Because the rest of scripture says
do not be unequally yolked with an
unbeliever.
So you can't use this passage. This
passage is for people who are already
married.
You can't use this as a single person
and say, "Oh, I can marry an
unbeliever." No. If you are single and
if you understand that, if you
understand God's word and you are strong
in your faith, Bible clearly says do not
be yolked with an unbeliever. This
passage is for people who are married
and then they have come to faith. One of
them have come to faith. See we we
should understand these passages in
their context otherwise we'll start
misusing.
Single people say oh yeah I think I can
get my because they agree. You can use
this right because Paul says if they
agree you can say but no you need to
understand this passage is only for uh
people who are married because in the
Corinthian church there were some
spouses one of the spouse sorry one of
the people in one of the person in the
marriage covenant who was coming to
faith they are only coming to church
they had these questions and Paul is
giving them this instruction are you
understanding yeah so in this passage
what did we
about marriage, grounds for divorce and
then the case when one of them is
married and Paul gives them the
instruction. What's the instruction? If
they are staying, stay married. If they
depart, you are not under bondage. You
can separate. But the amazing thing is
verse 14. You putting your faith is
sanctifying your spouse, your
unbelieving spouse. This does not mean
they are saved. This just means that
God's blessing is upon their home. God's
blessing is upon their children. This is
so amazing. You can This is such an
encouragement to people who are
struggling.
How many of you know it's very tough
when when one of you is believing and
your spouse is not? Very tough. you come
to church alone like your family is not
there but you can tell them hey because
you believe there's a blessing in your
home keep praying for your spouse that
they may come to the knowledge of Jesus
amen
>> all right let's go to the next section
verse 17- 24
1 Corinthians chapter 7 17- 24 maybe
someone online can read it please
verse 17- 24
anyone online
1 Corinthians chapter 7 verse 17-
24
>> but as God has distributed to each one
as the Lord has called each one so let
him
And so I ordered in all the churches.
Was anyone called while circumcised? Let
him not become uncircumcised.
Was anyone called while uncircumcised?
Let him not be circumcised.
Circumcision is nothing and
uncircumcision is nothing. But keeping
the commandments of God is what matters.
Let each one remain in the same calling
in which he was called. Were you called
while a slave? Do not be concerned about
it. But if you can be made free, rather
use it. For he who is called in the Lord
while a slave is the Lord's freed man.
Likewise, he who is called while free is
Christ's slave. You are bought at a
price. Do not become slaves of men.
Brethren, let each one remain with God
in that state in which he was called.
>> Yeah. Thank you. Thank you, V. So verse
17- 24 is talking about being faithful
where God has called you. Be faithful
where God has called you. Verse 17, but
as God has distributed to each one, as
God, as the Lord has called each one, so
let him walk. See verse 17. God has
given to each one of us what we need,
what we have.
And he has called each one of us where
we are. Just walk in that faithfully.
Are we understanding? See, context is
marriage and singleness. Right? So
context, the correct understanding is
don't say when you're single, I wish I
was married. Be faithful. If God has
called you to be single in this season,
be single. God has called you to be
married. Don't say when you're married,
I want to be single.
No. where God has called you, where God
God has placed you, be faithful,
be God has given you grace, God has
given you a gift for that season. Are we
understanding? So you can serve God in
your season. Now this is immediate
context is marriage. But you can take
this even you can extend this. Don't say
I'm a young person. I wish I was like
pasish. No,
be faithful where God has called you in
this season. You're a Bible college
student. In this season, I'm a
professor. I think
be faithful in that. Right? Whatever
role God has given you in your season,
be faithful is what verse 17 is talking
about. God has distributed. Meaning, he
has given you grace for that season.
Don't compare.
Be faithful in where God has called you.
Whatever the situation, whatever the
circumstance, be faithful. Right? So
then verse 20, verse 20, 20 and 24 are
almost the same verse. Verse 20, it
says, "Let each one remain in the same
calling in which he was called." Verse
24, brethren, let each one remain with
God in the in that stage state with
which he was called. Same same thing.
Serve God where you are.
Be faithful in your season. If God has
called you right now where you are, be
faithful in that. He is leading you.
Don't compare. Don't make statements
like this. I wish. I hope you. It's It's
a good desire to have, but don't take
your eyes off
right now. It's a good desire. Yes, God
will take you season to season. But in
this season, stay faithful.
Stay faithful to serve God where you
are. Right now,
um
verse 21. Verse 21.
Verse 21. Were you called while a slave?
Okay. How do you understand this? Now in
the Corinthian church during that
culture people had slaves meaning they
were like they were under a master in a
house and they would become a believer.
So verse 21 were you called while a
slave?
Do not be concerned about it. Meaning
even though you're a slave in someone
else's home be faithful.
Don't be concerned. It's okay. God can
still use you. See sometimes we think
just because we have something that is
it sounds very bad in society like slave
or you can use any other thing like
where people generally look down on
certain jobs
right it could be okay I'll give an
example very bad example but I'll give
that people who clear our trash
right we look down upon it like oh what
a horrible job every morning I have to
go and take that he's saying even if
you're a slave be faithful don't be
worried about it right then verse 20 uh
verse 21
uh were you not called a slave do not be
concerned about about it but you can be
made free but if you can be made free
rather use it so if an opportunity
arises
where you can be made free use it be
free right but the first of the verses
don't be concerned about it. God can
still use it. But if you have an
opportunity, if an opportunity arises
where you can be made free, be free. You
don't need to be a slave to anyone.
Right? Are we understanding? Yeah.
Context. Yeah. Okay. Last verse, verse
23. For you were bought with a price.
Verse 23. You were bought at a price. Do
not become slaves of men. So you were
bought at a price. The blood of Jesus,
we belong to him. Even though you are a
slave under this master's house,
ultimately you are bought at a price.
You belong not to your earthly master.
You honor them. We all we all have
masters, right? We all have bosses. We
all have people that we report to. We
all will have throughout our life, we
will have someone above us, the
government above us. Honor them, but we
don't belong to them. We only belong to
Jesus. He bought us. We are covered by
the blood of Jesus. Yeah. So, we'll
pause here and then we will go to the
next section. But are we understanding?
Yeah. Chapter 7, it's all about
marriage, the role of sex, divorce,
singleness,
uh and then be faithful to where you are
called. Okay. So, we'll pause here and
then we will come back at um uh for the
next lecture. All right. Are we
understanding? Yeah, we are learning.
Okay. All right. We'll take a break and
be back in 10 minutes. Thank you.